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why do i feel this surge of lust for this guy? the sex never gets boring. grade a. classic. timeless. never gets old. no matter how many times we do it in a day. sometimes i feel like it's a drug and i don't even wanna tell you how many times coz it's kinda disgusting when you think about it. i'm always in a hurry when i leave coz shit if i stay a bit more then i'd just get greedy. and it's not just me coz this dude is like a machine, don't know how to quit it. it's gross like my hormones 24/7 in adolescent mode. my hands literally shake from the lust. i'm trying to get rid of the obsession by attempting to hookup with other guys but i can't go through with it. not when i know exactly where there's grade a sex to be had. i've never had this problem with a guy before except with this one.

him:

Cancer sun

Virgo moon

Gemini mercury

Gemini venus

Gemini mars

me:

Virgo sun

Taurus moon

Virgo mercury

Leo venus

Libra mars
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Posted by Erinelda
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I tried to tell everyone that I am a sex god because of my Cancer sun, Virgo moon. Hopefully now you all believe me.

S O R C E R Y

I was kidding, I am literally the worst lol.

Have you tried talking to him?? I am sure you would want to sleep with him much less.
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haha talking annoys me when we could be doing something else
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come to think of it, this is not even that convenient for me. we have different cultures and my health is at a very low point right now that i can't do any strenuous activities (e.g. sex) but i just continue to be obsessed. 2 weeks seems like forever to get better. but it always feels brand new. it's all i can think about.

Different cultures? He is arabian? Asian?
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don't even matter when i can't get what i want. they have one of those arranged marriages bullshit. i mean, we still have those but rarely (mostly in elite, traditional families). this is why i accused him of being married (he's only 22 but at that time i misheard and thought he was 32 coz of his accent) when i decided to break things off coz i'm getting obsessed and at his age, i just thought in paranoia that he's probably been arranged to someone.

he told me he's allowed to do whatever he wanted but i DOUBT that so much. he even lied about his birthday (coz he placed a different one in docu coming into the country). even if my health didn't get in the way, taking him seriously would be a pipe dream. but fuck it, i can't stop.
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If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol
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Posted by enfant_terrible

Ok this is fucking lame. Why can't ppl just put down exactly what makes it great when they start one of these threads.

Like, describe one or two encounters that were grade A and why exactly. Is it that difficult?

Details.

Good sex may be subjective but I want to hear about yours.


Exactly!! I’m glad I’m not the only perverted Cancer Moon. 😂😂😅😜

I want to know the thought process, why she’s hooked. Seems like she sees him and screws him all the time but then she said it’s been 2 weeks.

Like huh? How often do they talk?

Ugh. So frustrating without the details 😭😭😭😭😭😭😤😤😤
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Ok this is fucking lame. Why can't ppl just put down exactly what makes it great when they start one of these threads.

Like, describe one or two encounters that were grade A and why exactly. Is it that difficult?

Details.

Good sex may be subjective but I want to hear about yours.

Exactly!! I’m glad I’m not the only perverted Cancer Moon. 😂😂😅😜

I want to know the thought process, why she’s hooked. Seems like she sees him and screws him all the time but then she said it’s been 2 weeks.

Like huh? How often do they talk?

Ugh. So frustrating without the details 😭😭😭😭😭😭😤😤😤
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Yah all that praise and not a single word about what makes him grade A. Just a lot of abstract talk
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Posted by stillstillwater

If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

Really? Where do you live? Cuz in Sweden it's not uncommon for Arab dudes to marry Swedish chicks. It's pretty much unheard of Arab girls marrying Swedish dudes though.. Sacred pussy I guess.
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Posted by enfant_terrible

Ok this is fucking lame. Why can't ppl just put down exactly what makes it great when they start one of these threads.

Like, describe one or two encounters that were grade A and why exactly. Is it that difficult?

Details.

Good sex may be subjective but I want to hear about yours.

Exactly!! I’m glad I’m not the only perverted Cancer Moon. 😂😂😅😜

I want to know the thought process, why she’s hooked. Seems like she sees him and screws him all the time but then she said it’s been 2 weeks.

Like huh? How often do they talk?

Ugh. So frustrating without the details 😭😭😭😭😭😭😤😤😤
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we had a beautiful arrangement before i broke things off with him (virgo moon) and jumped into shit with a scorp sun/gem moon. and you know what happened there. now merc retro's bringing him (scorp) back but it's too late coz now all i care about is the virgo moon. there's even an aries sun/gem moon but idc about gem moons right now. health issues block me from grade a experiences. but just one more week and i can finally get it.

how do i explain? in public, we're very cold to each other. i get into detached texts with gem placements and i might appear uninterested and just going for sex which... they like? haha. it's not easy to hold my interest coz i want someone outwardly cold (mostly in public), maybe even appears prudish (can't explain, i'm into this). what you want from me here? to tell you about how i ride him?
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whoa... he has my exact placements... scary...

do you like being chased? how often should someone communicate with you?

Well, I am a lady so I may differ in my approach. Also, I think environment, how you grew up, your social life, experience, and your religious affiliation can affect each person's personality. Anywhooosies, uhmm... yes, I do like to be chased : )! It makes me feel wanted and needed (which is every cancer's dream). They just want to know someone cares for them and will never hurt them. I'm in a relationship so I'm trying to think back to my single days. When I really liked someone, I would love to communicate with them. I think talking all of the time was kind of a turn off for me. Like, if someone was waiting by the phone for me to get off of work just to talk to me, I may find that to be a little too much. But, I always found it attractive when someone would send me a text during the day stating they were thinking about me. We are air dominant, so a cute funny meme, or "I can't wait to see you again" really would make my heart melt. I don't really think I liked the whole "deep poems and romance" until I truly fell in love with someone. One thing I did not like is when someone moved really fast and would say they've fallen in love right away. Based on my personality, once you've gotten me, you've got me. I will not go anywhere. Our virgo moons make us pretty receptive and we can tell if someone is talking to us based on their need for just a relationship. We want someone to like us for us. We want to ensure the person we are with likes us because they like us.. not because they're trying to fill a void in their heart. We also can be pretty insecure until we truly get to know the person. We may evaluate the people you've dated before us and try to live up to a silly standard.

Over all, When I first start dating a person, I like someone who can make me laugh, is sweet, sincere, HONEST, loyal, a family person, a conversationalist, and just someone who is an overall really good hearted person. Since he has a virgo moon, his 7th house is in pisces. Trust me, he will take care of you. Once you have him under your thumb, he will always put you before him. Due to my pisces being in the 7th house, I tend to over look red flags and forgive too easily. If he's anything like me, you will have a mate for life. He's not going anywhere if he truly likes you.
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okay so i'm doing okay then... there's this girl in another thread who told me that there's a connection between cancer and aquarius. and this is because cancer likes the appearance of emotional detachment of an aquarius so it's better to stay somewhat distant i would guess.
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Posted by enfant_terrible

Ok this is fucking lame. Why can't ppl just put down exactly what makes it great when they start one of these threads.

Like, describe one or two encounters that were grade A and why exactly. Is it that difficult?

Details.

Good sex may be subjective but I want to hear about yours.

Exactly!! I’m glad I’m not the only perverted Cancer Moon. 😂😂😅😜

I want to know the thought process, why she’s hooked. Seems like she sees him and screws him all the time but then she said it’s been 2 weeks.

Like huh? How often do they talk?

Ugh. So frustrating without the details 😭😭😭😭😭😭😤😤😤

we had a beautiful arrangement before i broke things off with him (virgo moon) and jumped into shit with a scorp sun/gem moon. and you know what happened there. now merc retro's bringing him (scorp) back but it's too late coz now all i care about is the virgo moon. there's even an aries sun/gem moon but idc about gem moons right now. health issues block me from grade a experiences. but just one more week and i can finally get it.

how do i explain? in public, we're very cold to each other. i get into detached texts with gem placements and i might appear uninterested and just going for sex which... they like? haha. it's not easy to hold my interest coz i want someone outwardly cold (mostly in public), maybe even appears prudish (can't explain, i'm into this). what you want from me here? to tell you about how i ride him?
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Lol. No. I don’t want to know the detailed sex stuff.

But the outwardly cold thing is what I was wondering. I was like this with the last Virgo I was seeing, and he liked it, so I get it. I’m naturally cold in public and only warm in private, but I was cold to him all around after a while, and he still liked it. I hope I don’t get like that with this new guy. I’ve never been like as that with a guy.

As far the Gemini- that’s exactly why I like them. They accept all my sex talk and love it. Not prudish at all 😆

What made you break things off and move on then when you were with the Scorpio? Why is it so much better this time around?

And did he chase you to come back? You gave him a chance and not others?
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why do i feel this surge of lust for this guy? the sex never gets boring. grade a. classic. timeless. never gets old. no matter how many times we do it in a day. sometimes i feel like it's a drug and i don't even wanna tell you how many times coz it's kinda disgusting when you think about it. i'm always in a hurry when i leave coz shit if i stay a bit more then i'd just get greedy. and it's not just me coz this dude is like a machine, don't know how to quit it. it's gross like my hormones 24/7 in adolescent mode. my hands literally shake from the lust. i'm trying to get rid of the obsession by attempting to hookup with other guys but i can't go through with it. not when i know exactly where there's grade a sex to be had. i've never had this problem with a guy before except with this one.

him:

Cancer sun

Virgo moon

Gemini mercury

Gemini venus

Gemini mars

me:

Virgo sun

Taurus moon

Virgo mercury

Leo venus

Libra mars

Obsession and lust? What is your guys: Pluto, lilth, Eros, and what do you have sitting in your 8th house?
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his: Sag Pluto, Cancer lilith don't know his exact birth time though

mine: Scorpio Pluto, Aries lilith, Cap Eros, Taurus moon 8H
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Posted by enfant_terrible

Ok this is fucking lame. Why can't ppl just put down exactly what makes it great when they start one of these threads.

Like, describe one or two encounters that were grade A and why exactly. Is it that difficult?

Details.

Good sex may be subjective but I want to hear about yours.

Exactly!! I’m glad I’m not the only perverted Cancer Moon. 😂😂😅😜

I want to know the thought process, why she’s hooked. Seems like she sees him and screws him all the time but then she said it’s been 2 weeks.

Like huh? How often do they talk?

Ugh. So frustrating without the details 😭😭😭😭😭😭😤😤😤

we had a beautiful arrangement before i broke things off with him (virgo moon) and jumped into shit with a scorp sun/gem moon. and you know what happened there. now merc retro's bringing him (scorp) back but it's too late coz now all i care about is the virgo moon. there's even an aries sun/gem moon but idc about gem moons right now. health issues block me from grade a experiences. but just one more week and i can finally get it.

how do i explain? in public, we're very cold to each other. i get into detached texts with gem placements and i might appear uninterested and just going for sex which... they like? haha. it's not easy to hold my interest coz i want someone outwardly cold (mostly in public), maybe even appears prudish (can't explain, i'm into this). what you want from me here? to tell you about how i ride him?

Lol. No. I don’t want to know the detailed sex stuff.

But the outwardly cold thing is what I was wondering. I was like this with the last Virgo I was seeing, and he liked it, so I get it. I’m naturally cold in public and only warm in private, but I was cold to him all around after a while, and he still liked it. I hope I don’t get like that with this new guy. I’ve never been like as that with a guy.

As far the Gemini- that’s exactly why I like them. They accept all my sex talk and love it. Not prudish at all 😆

What made you break things off and move on then when you were with the Scorpio? Why is it so much better this time around?

And did he chase you to come back? You gave him a chance and not others?
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i like that coz anything else just looks and feels 'fake' to me

the scorp/gem attempted to cheat on me so he's cancelled
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@saggurl88 been meaning to ask, what is your mercury and where?


It’s in Sagittarius in my 3rd house which is Sagittarius.

Something has to restrict my communication though cause I’m horrible at it.

I think I should be pretty talkative. I am, if they reach out. But if I don’t hear from them, out of site, out of mind almost. I don’t mind thinking about a person and missing them.

I’m back to not texting the Virgo 😄

I tried twice this week to text first and I don’t have the patience to wait so long for a response. So it’s easier to respond to him instead, since I respond quick, if he’s texting me, then I know he has some time.

This guys wants space, which is fine, but then wants someone texting him to “Check on him” and then he casually answers when he wants.

GTFOH 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
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Posted by enfant_terrible

Ok this is fucking lame. Why can't ppl just put down exactly what makes it great when they start one of these threads.

Like, describe one or two encounters that were grade A and why exactly. Is it that difficult?

Details.

Good sex may be subjective but I want to hear about yours.

Exactly!! I’m glad I’m not the only perverted Cancer Moon. 😂😂😅😜

I want to know the thought process, why she’s hooked. Seems like she sees him and screws him all the time but then she said it’s been 2 weeks.

Like huh? How often do they talk?

Ugh. So frustrating without the details 😭😭😭😭😭😭😤😤😤

we had a beautiful arrangement before i broke things off with him (virgo moon) and jumped into shit with a scorp sun/gem moon. and you know what happened there. now merc retro's bringing him (scorp) back but it's too late coz now all i care about is the virgo moon. there's even an aries sun/gem moon but idc about gem moons right now. health issues block me from grade a experiences. but just one more week and i can finally get it.

how do i explain? in public, we're very cold to each other. i get into detached texts with gem placements and i might appear uninterested and just going for sex which... they like? haha. it's not easy to hold my interest coz i want someone outwardly cold (mostly in public), maybe even appears prudish (can't explain, i'm into this). what you want from me here? to tell you about how i ride him?

Lol. No. I don’t want to know the detailed sex stuff.

But the outwardly cold thing is what I was wondering. I was like this with the last Virgo I was seeing, and he liked it, so I get it. I’m naturally cold in public and only warm in private, but I was cold to him all around after a while, and he still liked it. I hope I don’t get like that with this new guy. I’ve never been like as that with a guy.

As far the Gemini- that’s exactly why I like them. They accept all my sex talk and love it. Not prudish at all 😆

What made you break things off and move on then when you were with the Scorpio? Why is it so much better this time around?

And did he chase you to come back? You gave him a chance and not others?

i like that coz anything else just looks and feels 'fake' to me

the scorp/gem attempted to cheat on me so he's cancelled
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Yeah I get it. All the public PDA is unnecessary in my opinion and it looks trashy to me. Like all that can wait till later. They need to control themselves lol but I can be prudish too.

This musician has long hair, so I’m always playing with it in public, randomly, but that’s as far as I go.
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If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️
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ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?
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If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.
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know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think
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If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.
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Even if you end up just having fun and nothing serious, I think it's good toa sk those questions so you know your options from the start? And if things get complicated you both know where you stand with external factors (like family, culture and marriage).

So let me tell you more about the culture....

Even if they could marry you, unless they are VERY progressive they would not introduce you to the family members until you're very serious such as wanting to get married. In Arab culture there is little room for dating. He could introduce you as a friend and pretend you guys are platonic.

But yea his answer was not an answer at all. You can date someone 10 years without any intention to want to marry them... and unfortunately men are very good at keepiing to their goals and having fun but not taking someone serious.
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If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.

know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think
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Did you say anything when he said that?

You’re better then me. I would’ve said some sarcastic shit like “Yeah I don’t want any of my other hoes seeing me either”

Especially since you guys frequent it!

Gemini placements play too damn much.
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If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.

know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think
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Most arabs are not allowed to date or have sex prior to marriage... and unlike other cultures/religions who say i dont care im going t do it anyways.... Arabs like to keep up the pretense for saving face especially with their family.

Not saying this s the case because there are some super progressive ones...although i doubt that.
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Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater

If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.

know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think

Did you say anything when he said that?

You’re better then me. I would’ve said some sarcastic shit like “Yeah I don’t want any of my other hoes seeing me either”

Especially since you guys frequent it!

Gemini placements play too damn much.
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i didn't say anything coz the thinking paralyzed me
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Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater

If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.

know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think

Yeah... that’s fishy! I agree with you. My Gemini placements allow me to have fun without catching the feels. I totally am able to separate my emotions from fun. Also, I was a player back in the day. So, I agree! I would totally be on the look out and protect your heart
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Posted by virgoOPPP
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Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater

If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.

know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think

Did you say anything when he said that?

You’re better then me. I would’ve said some sarcastic shit like “Yeah I don’t want any of my other hoes seeing me either”

Especially since you guys frequent it!

Gemini placements play too damn much.

i didn't say anything coz the thinking paralyzed me
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My mouth is too smart for that type of stuff. I’m quick to throw it right back.

He could’ve been just playing though. If it bothers you, the simple thing to do is ask.

Don’t let overthinking cause you unneeded stress. Why would his brother even be at the hotel? Does he work there? They swapping out rooms and taking turns? 😅😝
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Posted by virgoOPPP
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Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater

If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.

know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think

Did you say anything when he said that?

You’re better then me. I would’ve said some sarcastic shit like “Yeah I don’t want any of my other hoes seeing me either”

Especially since you guys frequent it!

Gemini placements play too damn much.

i didn't say anything coz the thinking paralyzed me
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What’s funny is I just did this to the Virgo I’m seeing. It was easier to get a room instead of going to my place or his. He was so shocked that he asked me if I’ve been there before

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Poor guy. I do stuff so quickly when I make decisions that he was wondering WTF?

A room was just more convenient and I thought nothing of it.
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater

If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.

know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think

Did you say anything when he said that?

You’re better then me. I would’ve said some sarcastic shit like “Yeah I don’t want any of my other hoes seeing me either”

Especially since you guys frequent it!

Gemini placements play too damn much.

i didn't say anything coz the thinking paralyzed me

My mouth is too smart for that type of stuff. I’m quick to throw it right back.

He could’ve been just playing though. If it bothers you, the simple thing to do is ask.

Don’t let overthinking cause you unneeded stress. Why would his brother even be at the hotel? Does he work there? They swapping out rooms and taking turns? 😅😝
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i'm quick to think on my feet

but not with my mouth

i'm no air sign 😝

he lives nearby is all i know
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater

If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.

know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think

Did you say anything when he said that?

You’re better then me. I would’ve said some sarcastic shit like “Yeah I don’t want any of my other hoes seeing me either”

Especially since you guys frequent it!

Gemini placements play too damn much.

i didn't say anything coz the thinking paralyzed me

What’s funny is I just did this to the Virgo I’m seeing. It was easier to get a room instead of going to my place or his. He was so shocked that he asked me if I’ve been there before

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Poor guy. I do stuff so quickly when I make decisions that he was wondering WTF?

A room was just more convenient and I thought nothing of it.
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he lives nearby but there's no privacy there coz family

and his foreign ass thinks i live 'too far'
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
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Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater

If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.

know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think

Did you say anything when he said that?

You’re better then me. I would’ve said some sarcastic shit like “Yeah I don’t want any of my other hoes seeing me either”

Especially since you guys frequent it!

Gemini placements play too damn much.

i didn't say anything coz the thinking paralyzed me

What’s funny is I just did this to the Virgo I’m seeing. It was easier to get a room instead of going to my place or his. He was so shocked that he asked me if I’ve been there before

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Poor guy. I do stuff so quickly when I make decisions that he was wondering WTF?

A room was just more convenient and I thought nothing of it.

he lives nearby but there's no privacy there coz family

and his foreign ass thinks i live 'too far'
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Yeah. I get it. I hadn’t seen him in 2 weeks and wasn’t willing to wait since we only had a limited amount of time together. It was just convenient.

We live in different cities too and see each other when he’s in my city or I drive to him.

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater

If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.

know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think

Did you say anything when he said that?

You’re better then me. I would’ve said some sarcastic shit like “Yeah I don’t want any of my other hoes seeing me either”

Especially since you guys frequent it!

Gemini placements play too damn much.

i didn't say anything coz the thinking paralyzed me

What’s funny is I just did this to the Virgo I’m seeing. It was easier to get a room instead of going to my place or his. He was so shocked that he asked me if I’ve been there before

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Poor guy. I do stuff so quickly when I make decisions that he was wondering WTF?

A room was just more convenient and I thought nothing of it.

he lives nearby but there's no privacy there coz family

and his foreign ass thinks i live 'too far'

Yeah. I get it. I hadn’t seen him in 2 weeks and wasn’t willing to wait since we only had a limited amount of time together. It was just convenient.

We live in different cities too and see each other when he’s in my city or I drive to him.
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my goal right now is to bring him to my actual bedroom #babysteps

i have simple dreams in life
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Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Posted by stillstillwater

If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.

know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think

Did you say anything when he said that?

You’re better then me. I would’ve said some sarcastic shit like “Yeah I don’t want any of my other hoes seeing me either”

Especially since you guys frequent it!

Gemini placements play too damn much.

i didn't say anything coz the thinking paralyzed me

What’s funny is I just did this to the Virgo I’m seeing. It was easier to get a room instead of going to my place or his. He was so shocked that he asked me if I’ve been there before

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Poor guy. I do stuff so quickly when I make decisions that he was wondering WTF?

A room was just more convenient and I thought nothing of it.

he lives nearby but there's no privacy there coz family

and his foreign ass thinks i live 'too far'

Yeah. I get it. I hadn’t seen him in 2 weeks and wasn’t willing to wait since we only had a limited amount of time together. It was just convenient.

We live in different cities too and see each other when he’s in my city or I drive to him.

my goal right now is to bring him to my actual bedroom #babysteps

i have simple dreams in life
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I’m gonna be in his city tomorrow for a day party and I’m waiting for him to contact me so I can tell him. I’d rather spend the night at his place then go home.

But since he hasn’t said much about my last text 2 days ago, oh well. Missed opportunity cause I’m not telling him. Lol.

He can see it on my instagram story 👊🏽
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Posted by stillstillwater

If he's arab and you're asian... becareful not to get attached for long term purposes because Arab men/women hardly ever settle outside their culture even if the cultures are very similar!

I knew an Asian friend who got all tangled up with an Iraqi dude but he'd never commit to her.

Also, my brother was in love with this Lebanese girl and despite how much she loved him her father would never agree. Then finally when she was able to convince her family, he moved on. Well he's marrying another Lebanese girl now but...that's rare.

Not all... but most are like that... do not marry outside their culture. If i ever met an Arab dude my first question would be how open are you and your family to marrying outside your culture lol... i dont even care if that question traumatizes anyone...that question is getting dropped on first convo lol

The Virgo I’m crushing on is Lebanese. First lenanese Guy I’ve dated and I’ve wondered about this. Part of the reason I keep trying to talk myself out of seeing him and distancing myself but the chemistry is insane 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

ayyy and i'm guessing you're not Arab?

Have you asked him those hard questions about inter-cultural relationships and long-term potential?

Yeah i’m white.. I did bring up how I’ve been under the impression that middle eastern men typically don’t marry outside of their race and religion and he said he dated an Italian girl for 2 years and was in love with her. But he never really responded to the marriage bit. But he’s never invited me to his house yet to meet his brother (granted, it’s only been about a month) but my gut tells me he just wants to have fun and not looking for love. I just got out of a 10 year relationship so technically i shouldn’t be looking for love either but I don’t really know how to do the light-hearted fun stuff without catching feelings.

know another thing that made me think he might be married or engaged?

last time he said we should go out individually (hotel we frequent) coz his brother might see me

wtf is that?

made me think

Did you say anything when he said that?

You’re better then me. I would’ve said some sarcastic shit like “Yeah I don’t want any of my other hoes seeing me either”

Especially since you guys frequent it!

Gemini placements play too damn much.

i didn't say anything coz the thinking paralyzed me

What’s funny is I just did this to the Virgo I’m seeing. It was easier to get a room instead of going to my place or his. He was so shocked that he asked me if I’ve been there before

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Poor guy. I do stuff so quickly when I make decisions that he was wondering WTF?

A room was just more convenient and I thought nothing of it.

he lives nearby but there's no privacy there coz family

and his foreign ass thinks i live 'too far'

Yeah. I get it. I hadn’t seen him in 2 weeks and wasn’t willing to wait since we only had a limited amount of time together. It was just convenient.

We live in different cities too and see each other when he’s in my city or I drive to him.

my goal right now is to bring him to my actual bedroom #babysteps

i have simple dreams in life

I’m gonna be in his city tomorrow for a day party and I’m waiting for him to contact me so I can tell him. I’d rather spend the night at his place then go home.

But since he hasn’t said much about my last text 2 days ago, oh well. Missed opportunity cause I’m not telling him. Lol.

He can see it on my instagram story 👊🏽
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