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Exciting! But I’m confused, and possibly overthinking.

Met online last Tuesday. Decided to hookup. We both said looking for something serious, but looking to have fun along the way. We hooked up on Friday. He brought me potted flowers to add to my garden. Woohoo it was great. He told me some personal stuff about himself, I told him some personal stuff about myself. We watched a movie. I made us cheeseburgers. He slept over. He expressed is just feels so comfortable and natural. I agreed.

He left. He texted me when he got home amazing time. Best he’s ever had. Got to do it again. Aaaaand I haven’t heard from him since. Yes it’s only been three days. Too soon?

I have a plan though 🤔 I planted the flowers. Now I’m waiting for solar fairy light things to accompany them. I’m thinking if I don’t hear from him by the weekend, I’ll take a pic of them and send it saying “thanks again for the lovely flowers” and leave it at that? Help please lol
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I'm a Libra and I was in a relationship with a Gemini for 2 years. When we first met, he kept talking about not being ready for a relationship and that he dated a lot of chicks prior to me and they went downhill because he was non-committal. I was like "ok cool I wasn't really looking for a relationship. You're fun, let's hang out". I was even MORE evasive about being official than him. I was actually talking to another dude, a Virgo. After a couple of months he asked me if we could talk and yep, he asked if I could be his gf and meet his fam.

Leave him be, just focus on yourself and don't put all of your eggs in one basket. If you really rocked his world, he'll come around.
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Posted by Walk_on_by
He might just get off on the whole romance thing, like a hook up for him is not just sex its the whole package that comes with it. Be forward as set up another date thought tbh.


He's not a water sign lol

They don't romance things like this. You're trying to scare him off for her ?!

Geminis are chasers, she should NOT be forward and set up another date.

Letting him know she had a great time and would like to see him again so he can set it up is better.

Once things are established you can be demanding, but beforehand? NOPE
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Try "I've planted your flowers and they are thriving. How about you?"


Clever and cute! Well said!



She's a Pisces. They could never successfully entice a Gemini in their whole life 🤣


LOL But what she said was clever enough for a Gemini call back! 🤣🤣

Nah
The Libras idea is much better. Make it pretty with fairy lights. A Gem could never resist that 😂
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Fairy lights sound like Pisces romance.

Gemini can never resist the idea of a good time, as long as it's not boring. lol

How's your romance barometer?

Would you be up for someone letting you know they want a second date and have a candle light dinner planned?

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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely
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Try "I've planted your flowers and they are thriving. How about you?"

Clever and cute! Well said!
She's a Pisces. They could never successfully entice a Gemini in their whole life 🤣

LOL But what she said was clever enough for a Gemini call back! 🤣🤣

Nah

The Libras idea is much better. Make it pretty with fairy lights. A Gem could never resist that 😂
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Fairy lights sound like Pisces romance.

Gemini can never resist the idea of a good time, as long as it's not boring. lol


How's your romance barometer?

Would you be up for someone letting you know they want a second date and have a candle light dinner planned?




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Romance is off the charts. I recently moved into where I’m living now, and man oh man I have a magical wall in my bedroom. He was obsessed. No Pisces in my chart, but am a Leo Venus. Actually no water besides Scorpio in Pluto

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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.


He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.


Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely


Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely

Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔


Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!


I have a feeling you'll be back here.
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I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not

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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely
Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
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I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not


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Sometimes when you have sex with a man on the first date, they don’t come back…

Some do of course
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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely
Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
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I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not


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No he isn’t

Just being realistic
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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely
Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
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I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not


Sometimes when you have sex with a man on the first date, they don’t come back…
Some do of course
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I get that, but the quoted commenter seemed a bit condescending. I was trying to confirm that was the point of the comment so I could redirect their attention on the point of my post which happens to be zodiac signs, not life lessons

Everyone else has been really helpful though!
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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely

Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
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I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not


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Sometimes when you have sex with a man on the first date, they don’t come back…

Some do of course
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I'm more so angling at her still being in limbo here. There are still no concrete plans, but they discussed two weeks worth of time. Not a good look in my opinion.
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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely
Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
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I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not


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I'm not being condescending, that's basically the sum of this situation. Him being a Gem doesn't change the logistics of how a relationship progresses. You need some concrete plans if you want to see him again and right now there are none, but you discussed it.
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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely

Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
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I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not

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Sometimes when you have sex with a man on the first date, they don’t come back…

Some do of course
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I'm more so angling at her still being in limbo here. There are still no concrete plans, but they discussed two weeks worth of time. Not a good look in my opinion.
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Better than I thought then! I’m just hoping to somewhat keep in touch. He seems to be as excited as me, so now I’m not too worried. I’m going out of state this weekend for a cousins bday party and he has a wedding next weekend so hopefully during the week. Maybe I’ll shoot a text over the weekend and ask if Wednesday works
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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely
Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
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I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not


I'm not being condescending, that's basically the sum of this situation. Him being a Gem doesn't change the logistics of how a relationship progresses. You need some concrete plans if you want to see him again and right now there are none, but you discussed it.
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Fair enough

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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely
Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
click to expand

I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not



Sometimes when you have sex with a man on the first date, they don’t come back…

Some do of course

I get that, but the quoted commenter seemed a bit condescending. I was trying to confirm that was the point of the comment so I could redirect their attention on the point of my post which happens to be zodiac signs, not life lessons

Everyone else has been really helpful though!
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Very generally speaking Gemini

energy isn’t always consistent
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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely

Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
click to expand
I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not


Sometimes when you have sex with a man on the first date, they don’t come back…


Some do of course

I get that, but the quoted commenter seemed a bit condescending. I was trying to confirm that was the point of the comment so I could redirect their attention on the point of my post which happens to be zodiac signs, not life lessons


Everyone else has been really helpful though!
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Very generally speaking Gemini

energy isn’t always consistent

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Thanks! I’m sure we’ll hang out again
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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely

Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
click to expand

I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not

click to expand

Sometimes when you have sex with a man on the first date, they don’t come back…

Some do of course
click to expand
I'm more so angling at her still being in limbo here. There are still no concrete plans, but they discussed two weeks worth of time. Not a good look in my opinion.
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Better than I thought then! I’m just hoping to somewhat keep in touch. He seems to be as excited as me, so now I’m not too worried. I’m going out of state this weekend for a cousins bday party and he has a wedding next weekend so hopefully during the week. Maybe I’ll shoot a text over the weekend and ask if Wednesday works

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That would be best rather than waiting and the rapport is still building. If he can't do Wednesday, the ball is in his court. Good luck!
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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely

Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
click to expand
I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not


Sometimes when you have sex with a man on the first date, they don’t come back…


Some do of course

I get that, but the quoted commenter seemed a bit condescending. I was trying to confirm that was the point of the comment so I could redirect their attention on the point of my post which happens to be zodiac signs, not life lessons


Everyone else has been really helpful though!
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Very generally speaking Gemini

energy isn’t always consistent

Thanks! I’m sure we’ll hang out again
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Good luck with it

Keep us posted
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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely

Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
click to expand

I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not

click to expand

Sometimes when you have sex with a man on the first date, they don’t come back…

Some do of course
click to expand

I'm more so angling at her still being in limbo here. There are still no concrete plans, but they discussed two weeks worth of time. Not a good look in my opinion.
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Better than I thought then! I’m just hoping to somewhat keep in touch. He seems to be as excited as me, so now I’m not too worried. I’m going out of state this weekend for a cousins bday party and he has a wedding next weekend so hopefully during the week. Maybe I’ll shoot a text over the weekend and ask if Wednesday works

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That would be best rather than waiting and the rapport is still building. If he can't do Wednesday, the ball is in his court. Good luck!
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Thank you! I will be back but hopefully bearing good news! 😅

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Thanks everyone! I went for the fairy lights. He said beautiful AND he broke his tooth on Monday. Just got it fixed yesterday so he’s been in a bit of a funk, as he stated.

He did double check that I had a good time, I said I did. He said he did too. I said I was busy this weekend, but maybe next weekend. He is busy next weekend, so we agreed we’ll find time maybe during the week or weekend after next.

Thanks again, I’ll keep ya posted if you’d like! Hopefully this will be the beginning of something lovely

Sex first date ✔

Romance off the charts ✔

Hey, let's not see each other for 2 weeks and have maybe plans!

I have a feeling you'll be back here.
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I’m not sure if you’re trying to be rude or not


Sometimes when you have sex with a man on the first date, they don’t come back…


Some do of course

I get that, but the quoted commenter seemed a bit condescending. I was trying to confirm that was the point of the comment so I could redirect their attention on the point of my post which happens to be zodiac signs, not life lessons


Everyone else has been really helpful though!
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Very generally speaking Gemini

energy isn’t always consistent

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People are consistent when they want to be, and only if they want to be. Not necessarily a Gemini thing to be inconsistent, but an interest thing. Lack of interest is what creates inconsistency
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My concern here would be “out of sight, out of mind” until you meet again - there hasn’t been time to establish much of an emotional connection. So my worry would be that in his mind, he’s remembering only the physical connection you had and it could devolve into a sexual situationship quickly


I agree with you, but my only “hmmm maybe this is different” is he told me a lot of pretty dark things about his life already. He stopped mid kissing at one point and was like “this feels natural. It doesn’t feel like I’m just meeting you” so I guess we’ll see. And I agree with your first comment, lack of interest creates inconsistency but another thing I guess we’ll just wait and see. I know it’s just making excuses but he said he’s been in a funk since breaking his tooth. I know Gemini can be quite moody so I think (hope) it’ll be more clear if we do go for a second hangout. I’m very new to the whole dating thing, so I’m clueless with how all this goes
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My concern here would be “out of sight, out of mind” until you meet again - there hasn’t been time to establish much of an emotional connection. So my worry would be that in his mind, he’s remembering only the physical connection you had and it could devolve into a sexual situationship quickly

I agree with you, but my only “hmmm maybe this is different” is he told me a lot of pretty dark things about his life already. He stopped mid kissing at one point and was like “this feels natural. It doesn’t feel like I’m just meeting you” so I guess we’ll see. And I agree with your first comment, lack of interest creates inconsistency but another thing I guess we’ll just wait and see. I know it’s just making excuses but he said he’s been in a funk since breaking his tooth. I know Gemini can be quite moody so I think (hope) it’ll be more clear if we do go for a second hangout. I’m very new to the whole dating thing, so I’m clueless with how all this goes
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If his Sun is Conjunct with Mercury, they have a silver tongue 🤣

But yes time will tell.
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My concern here would be “out of sight, out of mind” until you meet again - there hasn’t been time to establish much of an emotional connection. So my worry would be that in his mind, he’s remembering only the physical connection you had and it could devolve into a sexual situationship quickly

I agree with you, but my only “hmmm maybe this is different” is he told me a lot of pretty dark things about his life already. He stopped mid kissing at one point and was like “this feels natural. It doesn’t feel like I’m just meeting you” so I guess we’ll see. And I agree with your first comment, lack of interest creates inconsistency but another thing I guess we’ll just wait and see. I know it’s just making excuses but he said he’s been in a funk since breaking his tooth. I know Gemini can be quite moody so I think (hope) it’ll be more clear if we do go for a second hangout. I’m very new to the whole dating thing, so I’m clueless with how all this goes

If his Sun is Conjunct with Mercury, they have a silver tongue 🤣

But yes time will tell.
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Oh he most definitely does 🤣 idk if Sun is Conjunct with Mercury but fingers crossed someday I can find out! 🤞🏼

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Posted by DMV
If he has Cancer in his chart, he will enjoying the “missing you” period.


Cancer energy loves to long after their mate. Absence makes the heart grow fonder


Im


Hopefully I’ll get to find out! I only know his bday, and only assume where he was born. From that a mix of air, earth, fire.

Rising virgo

Gemini

Moon Aries

Mercury Gemini

Venus Gemini

Will def be interested to see if we get to that point. I’m mostly air and fire so I’m trying my best to keep chill lol
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He might just get off on the whole romance thing, like a hook up for him is not just sex its the whole package that comes with it. Be forward as set up another date thought tbh.

He's not a water sign lol
They don't romance things like this. You're trying to scare him off for her ?!
Geminis are chasers, she should NOT be forward and set up another date.

Letting him know she had a great time and would like to see him again so he can set it up is better.

Once things are established you can be demanding, but beforehand? NOPE
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Asking for another date isn't demanding lmao, whatever I don't care. Ahh yeah he clearly enjoyed the whole romance of the night, you can have romance with out commitment.
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Kmilibra
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How is broken tooth related to not having a desire to at least text someone you had great time with? Not making plans for 2 weeks and leaving it on "we'll see" doesn't sound promising. But I wish you luck and some plans sooner than 2 weeks. I have no experience dating Geminis so idk how they are in rs. Those I know otherwise are very straight forward. They don't leave things hanging in the air when they like someone that much. My current rs started from meeting online. Met in person once, had a date set for few days after and slept together on that date. Been together ever since. However, next morning he texted me with good morning text. We've spent nights and days chatting and texting and made plans to meet every few days. Imo Mercury ruled signs thrive on good and interesting communication, so lack of it isn't a good sign.


You know what? Thanks for this. I’m just gonna hold back, start swiping left and right again, and maybe the rs I’ve been looking for will finally pop up. I check my phone excited to see if I got a text from him because I like him. Whatever his excuse may be, he’s clearly just not that into me. Yea take things slow, but ima hold back for now. I’m too old for guessing games

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Kmilibra
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It’s weird tho.


I would say as women, we know when something doesn’t feel right. When the energy has changed.


Then we say to ourselves, naw that can’t be.


I’ve learned that men leave no room for confusion if they like you.


When there is confusion it’s usually a no on their end.



Def a lesson I’m learning now. Like we texted all day everyday before. And now getting an answer seems like pulling teeth. Nvm this crap

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How is broken tooth related to not having a desire to at least text someone you had great time with? Not making plans for 2 weeks and leaving it on "we'll see" doesn't sound promising. But I wish you luck and some plans sooner than 2 weeks. I have no experience dating Geminis so idk how they are in rs. Those I know otherwise are very straight forward. They don't leave things hanging in the air when they like someone that much. My current rs started from meeting online. Met in person once, had a date set for few days after and slept together on that date. Been together ever since. However, next morning he texted me with good morning text. We've spent nights and days chatting and texting and made plans to meet every few days. Imo Mercury ruled signs thrive on good and interesting communication, so lack of it isn't a good sign.

You know what? Thanks for this. I’m just gonna hold back, start swiping left and right again, and maybe the rs I’ve been looking for will finally pop up. I check my phone excited to see if I got a text from him because I like him. Whatever his excuse may be, he’s clearly just not that into me. Yea take things slow, but ima hold back for now. I’m too old for guessing games

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You deserve someone equally caring. Like someone else wrote earlier, don't put all of your eggs in one basket. Maybe he is interested and you'll get to have something great with him, maybe he's not, we can't know for sure cause none uf ua knows him that well, only time will tell. I wrote mainly based on my observation and thus far experience with men. From Gemini, I would certainly expect a lot of communication afterwards if they are interested. Broken tooth wouldn't be something that would prevent them from communicating with you, although it can be a valid reason not to meet in person until they get it fixed
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Will keep posted! But for now I’m matching the energy
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How is broken tooth related to not having a desire to at least text someone you had great time with? Not making plans for 2 weeks and leaving it on "we'll see" doesn't sound promising. But I wish you luck and some plans sooner than 2 weeks. I have no experience dating Geminis so idk how they are in rs. Those I know otherwise are very straight forward. They don't leave things hanging in the air when they like someone that much. My current rs started from meeting online. Met in person once, had a date set for few days after and slept together on that date. Been together ever since. However, next morning he texted me with good morning text. We've spent nights and days chatting and texting and made plans to meet every few days. Imo Mercury ruled signs thrive on good and interesting communication, so lack of it isn't a good sign.
You know what? Thanks for this. I’m just gonna hold back, start swiping left and right again, and maybe the rs I’ve been looking for will finally pop up. I check my phone excited to see if I got a text from him because I like him. Whatever his excuse may be, he’s clearly just not that into me. Yea take things slow, but ima hold back for now. I’m too old for guessing games

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You deserve someone equally caring. Like someone else wrote earlier, don't put all of your eggs in one basket. Maybe he is interested and you'll get to have something great with him, maybe he's not, we can't know for sure cause none uf ua knows him that well, only time will tell. I wrote mainly based on my observation and thus far experience with men. From Gemini, I would certainly expect a lot of communication afterwards if they are interested. Broken tooth wouldn't be something that would prevent them from communicating with you, although it can be a valid reason not to meet in person until they get it fixed
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Will keep posted! But for now I’m matching the energy
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Before sex communication

After sex communication

Two different things

So predictable really 🥴
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My concern here would be “out of sight, out of mind” until you meet again - there hasn’t been time to establish much of an emotional connection. So my worry would be that in his mind, he’s remembering only the physical connection you had and it could devolve into a sexual situationship quickly
I agree with you, but my only “hmmm maybe this is different” is he told me a lot of pretty dark things about his life already. He stopped mid kissing at one point and was like “this feels natural. It doesn’t feel like I’m just meeting you” so I guess we’ll see. And I agree with your first comment, lack of interest creates inconsistency but another thing I guess we’ll just wait and see. I know it’s just making excuses but he said he’s been in a funk since breaking his tooth. I know Gemini can be quite moody so I think (hope) it’ll be more clear if we do go for a second hangout. I’m very new to the whole dating thing, so I’m clueless with how all this goes

If his Sun is Conjunct with Mercury, they have a silver tongue 🤣


But yes time will tell.
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Oh he most definitely does 🤣 idk if Sun is Conjunct with Mercury but fingers crossed someday I can find out! 🤞🏼


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You can check with the ephemeris if you’ve his dob
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How is broken tooth related to not having a desire to at least text someone you had great time with? Not making plans for 2 weeks and leaving it on "we'll see" doesn't sound promising. But I wish you luck and some plans sooner than 2 weeks. I have no experience dating Geminis so idk how they are in rs. Those I know otherwise are very straight forward. They don't leave things hanging in the air when they like someone that much. My current rs started from meeting online. Met in person once, had a date set for few days after and slept together on that date. Been together ever since. However, next morning he texted me with good morning text. We've spent nights and days chatting and texting and made plans to meet every few days. Imo Mercury ruled signs thrive on good and interesting communication, so lack of it isn't a good sign.

You know what? Thanks for this. I’m just gonna hold back, start swiping left and right again, and maybe the rs I’ve been looking for will finally pop up. I check my phone excited to see if I got a text from him because I like him. Whatever his excuse may be, he’s clearly just not that into me. Yea take things slow, but ima hold back for now. I’m too old for guessing games

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You deserve someone equally caring. Like someone else wrote earlier, don't put all of your eggs in one basket. Maybe he is interested and you'll get to have something great with him, maybe he's not, we can't know for sure cause none uf ua knows him that well, only time will tell. I wrote mainly based on my observation and thus far experience with men. From Gemini, I would certainly expect a lot of communication afterwards if they are interested. Broken tooth wouldn't be something that would prevent them from communicating with you, although it can be a valid reason not to meet in person until they get it fixed
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Will keep posted! But for now I’m matching the energy
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Before sex communication

After sex communication

Two different things

So predictable really 🥴
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If the sex is terrible why waste your time?
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Who said the sex was terrible lmao quite the opposite which is why I’m so confused. When he got home he let me know, and said best ever. Even yesterday he said it took his soul

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How is broken tooth related to not having a desire to at least text someone you had great time with? Not making plans for 2 weeks and leaving it on "we'll see" doesn't sound promising. But I wish you luck and some plans sooner than 2 weeks. I have no experience dating Geminis so idk how they are in rs. Those I know otherwise are very straight forward. They don't leave things hanging in the air when they like someone that much. My current rs started from meeting online. Met in person once, had a date set for few days after and slept together on that date. Been together ever since. However, next morning he texted me with good morning text. We've spent nights and days chatting and texting and made plans to meet every few days. Imo Mercury ruled signs thrive on good and interesting communication, so lack of it isn't a good sign.

You know what? Thanks for this. I’m just gonna hold back, start swiping left and right again, and maybe the rs I’ve been looking for will finally pop up. I check my phone excited to see if I got a text from him because I like him. Whatever his excuse may be, he’s clearly just not that into me. Yea take things slow, but ima hold back for now. I’m too old for guessing games

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You deserve someone equally caring. Like someone else wrote earlier, don't put all of your eggs in one basket. Maybe he is interested and you'll get to have something great with him, maybe he's not, we can't know for sure cause none uf ua knows him that well, only time will tell. I wrote mainly based on my observation and thus far experience with men. From Gemini, I would certainly expect a lot of communication afterwards if they are interested. Broken tooth wouldn't be something that would prevent them from communicating with you, although it can be a valid reason not to meet in person until they get it fixed
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Will keep posted! But for now I’m matching the energy
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Before sex communication

After sex communication

Two different things


So predictable really 🥴
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Welcome to the 21st century 🙄 girls like sex too and that’s ok

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Posted by StubbornSag
How is broken tooth related to not having a desire to at least text someone you had great time with? Not making plans for 2 weeks and leaving it on "we'll see" doesn't sound promising. But I wish you luck and some plans sooner than 2 weeks. I have no experience dating Geminis so idk how they are in rs. Those I know otherwise are very straight forward. They don't leave things hanging in the air when they like someone that much. My current rs started from meeting online. Met in person once, had a date set for few days after and slept together on that date. Been together ever since. However, next morning he texted me with good morning text. We've spent nights and days chatting and texting and made plans to meet every few days. Imo Mercury ruled signs thrive on good and interesting communication, so lack of it isn't a good sign.

You know what? Thanks for this. I’m just gonna hold back, start swiping left and right again, and maybe the rs I’ve been looking for will finally pop up. I check my phone excited to see if I got a text from him because I like him. Whatever his excuse may be, he’s clearly just not that into me. Yea take things slow, but ima hold back for now. I’m too old for guessing games

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You deserve someone equally caring. Like someone else wrote earlier, don't put all of your eggs in one basket. Maybe he is interested and you'll get to have something great with him, maybe he's not, we can't know for sure cause none uf ua knows him that well, only time will tell. I wrote mainly based on my observation and thus far experience with men. From Gemini, I would certainly expect a lot of communication afterwards if they are interested. Broken tooth wouldn't be something that would prevent them from communicating with you, although it can be a valid reason not to meet in person until they get it fixed
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Will keep posted! But for now I’m matching the energy
click to expand

Before sex communication

After sex communication

Two different things


So predictable really 🥴

Welcome to the 21st century 🙄 girls like sex too and that’s ok

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You totally missed my point …
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