Gemini man posted this? Need help with meaning lol

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Sometimes I’m envious of the games Geminis play with Aquarius lol. They really throw y’all for a loop and it keeps your attention.

Yeah he’s playing games, but I’m sure you ignoring him and making him chase and call 50 million times is keeping his interest-for now.

Like most men, he will most likely ask to see you if you don’t act so available and don’t ask to see him.

Don’t ask him. Get busy with life and he will start intruding on it. Let him chase after you and win something when he catches you.

Gemini men are usually all up in your business but you messaging and/or calling him a lot could be letting him know that you don’t have any for him to get into.

Have some patience when he comes to you and ease up if you are ignoring most of his calls or doing tit for tat with him.

Answer and be flirty but busy.
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Sometimes I’m envious of the games Geminis play with Aquarius lol. They really throw y’all for a loop and it keeps your attention.

Yeah he’s playing games, but I’m sure you ignoring him and making him chase and call 50 million times is keeping his interest-for now.

Like most men, he will most likely ask to see you if you don’t act so available and don’t ask to see him.

Don’t ask him. Get busy with life and he will start intruding on it. Let him chase after you and win something when he catches you.

Gemini men are usually all up in your business but you messaging and/or calling him a lot could be letting him know that you don’t have any for him to get into.

Have some patience when he comes to you and ease up if you are ignoring most of his calls or doing tit for tat with him.

Answer and be flirty but busy.

Shut up giving out tips on how to beat us at our own ganes
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I need to help the ladies out with you ASSHATS!! 😆

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You started the game play first by turning your location on an off. Ijs

Why is this games? It’s weird to have your location on for someone you haven’t even been dating for more than a season. This gem sounds kinda possessive.
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It’s games cause he asked, she gave it. Then turns it off and on knowing he’s gonna see it. Pretty simple.

Giving your location to a virtual stranger is a whole nother story.
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You started the game play first by turning your location on an off. Ijs

Why is this games? It’s weird to have your location on for someone you haven’t even been dating for more than a season. This gem sounds kinda possessive.

It’s games cause he asked, she gave it. Then turns it off and on knowing he’s gonna see it. Pretty simple.

Giving your location to a virtual stranger is a whole nother story.
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I see where y’all both come from, it both weirded me out cause it felt controlling and also I felt like it wouldn’t hold his interest if I played wifey with him too soon. Idk if I did the right thing or not. Maybe we were doomed either way, like he said rush it, you’ll ruin it.
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Posted by saggurl88

Sometimes I’m envious of the games Geminis play with Aquarius lol. They really throw y’all for a loop and it keeps your attention.

Yeah he’s playing games, but I’m sure you ignoring him and making him chase and call 50 million times is keeping his interest-for now.

Like most men, he will most likely ask to see you if you don’t act so available and don’t ask to see him.

Don’t ask him. Get busy with life and he will start intruding on it. Let him chase after you and win something when he catches you.

Gemini men are usually all up in your business but you messaging and/or calling him a lot could be letting him know that you don’t have any for him to get into.

Have some patience when he comes to you and ease up if you are ignoring most of his calls or doing tit for tat with him.

Answer and be flirty but busy.


I hate that on & off thing. He can’t just come back when he feels like it especially after FORCING my sweet innocent Aquarius heart to open up LOL. I feel played. I feel like we are destined, but damn why did it have to go this route. I’ve even told him I missed him I’m sorry just LET IT GO. But he goes on to tell me I’m “In time out”. Which made me reply with F U. We ain’t talked in almost 2 days☹️
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Sometimes I’m envious of the games Geminis play with Aquarius lol. They really throw y’all for a loop and it keeps your attention.

Yeah he’s playing games, but I’m sure you ignoring him and making him chase and call 50 million times is keeping his interest-for now.

Like most men, he will most likely ask to see you if you don’t act so available and don’t ask to see him.

Don’t ask him. Get busy with life and he will start intruding on it. Let him chase after you and win something when he catches you.

Gemini men are usually all up in your business but you messaging and/or calling him a lot could be letting him know that you don’t have any for him to get into.

Have some patience when he comes to you and ease up if you are ignoring most of his calls or doing tit for tat with him.

Answer and be flirty but busy.

I hate that on & off thing. He can’t just come back when he feels like it especially after FORCING my sweet innocent Aquarius heart to open up LOL. I feel played. I feel like we are destined, but damn why did it have to go this route. I’ve even told him I missed him I’m sorry just LET IT GO. But he goes on to tell me I’m “In time out”. Which made me reply with F U. We ain’t talked in almost 2 days☹️
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oh well.. you better chill next time
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Sometimes I’m envious of the games Geminis play with Aquarius lol. They really throw y’all for a loop and it keeps your attention.

Yeah he’s playing games, but I’m sure you ignoring him and making him chase and call 50 million times is keeping his interest-for now.

Like most men, he will most likely ask to see you if you don’t act so available and don’t ask to see him.

Don’t ask him. Get busy with life and he will start intruding on it. Let him chase after you and win something when he catches you.

Gemini men are usually all up in your business but you messaging and/or calling him a lot could be letting him know that you don’t have any for him to get into.

Have some patience when he comes to you and ease up if you are ignoring most of his calls or doing tit for tat with him.

Answer and be flirty but busy.

I hate that on & off thing. He can’t just come back when he feels like it especially after FORCING my sweet innocent Aquarius heart to open up LOL. I feel played. I feel like we are destined, but damn why did it have to go this route. I’ve even told him I missed him I’m sorry just LET IT GO. But he goes on to tell me I’m “In time out”. Which made me reply with F U. We ain’t talked in almost 2 days☹️
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lol He'll be back.

Geminis and Aquarius are like 2 wild kids together on a play ground. Too much chasing, teasing, and fun- then if it levels out a good bond, friendship or love.

As long as the Aquarius doesn't keep the Gemini in a constant chase because they are pushing boundaries and trying to see how far the gem will go. He will get bored of always chasing and no rewards.

You being on time out is him just being cute and silly.

The more he plays and gets you to open up like that, the more he will keep playing- because that's what working. You have to try and find balance with it.
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You started the game play first by turning your location on an off. Ijs

Why is this games? It’s weird to have your location on for someone you haven’t even been dating for more than a season. This gem sounds kinda possessive.

It’s games cause he asked, she gave it. Then turns it off and on knowing he’s gonna see it. Pretty simple.

Giving your location to a virtual stranger is a whole nother story.
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I see what you’re saying. But I’m still keeping to them both being weird. Him for asking, her for giving, and then her again for ‘attention seeking’ actions.
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Sometimes I’m envious of the games Geminis play with Aquarius lol. They really throw y’all for a loop and it keeps your attention.

Yeah he’s playing games, but I’m sure you ignoring him and making him chase and call 50 million times is keeping his interest-for now.

Like most men, he will most likely ask to see you if you don’t act so available and don’t ask to see him.

Don’t ask him. Get busy with life and he will start intruding on it. Let him chase after you and win something when he catches you.

Gemini men are usually all up in your business but you messaging and/or calling him a lot could be letting him know that you don’t have any for him to get into.

Have some patience when he comes to you and ease up if you are ignoring most of his calls or doing tit for tat with him.

Answer and be flirty but busy.

I hate that on & off thing. He can’t just come back when he feels like it especially after FORCING my sweet innocent Aquarius heart to open up LOL. I feel played. I feel like we are destined, but damn why did it have to go this route. I’ve even told him I missed him I’m sorry just LET IT GO. But he goes on to tell me I’m “In time out”. Which made me reply with F U. We ain’t talked in almost 2 days☹️

oh well.. you better chill next time
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Whatever when he comes back I’m open arms. I miss my friend man.
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You started the game play first by turning your location on an off. Ijs

Why is this games? It’s weird to have your location on for someone you haven’t even been dating for more than a season. This gem sounds kinda possessive.

It’s games cause he asked, she gave it. Then turns it off and on knowing he’s gonna see it. Pretty simple.

Giving your location to a virtual stranger is a whole nother story.

I see where y’all both come from, it both weirded me out cause it felt controlling and also I felt like it wouldn’t hold his interest if I played wifey with him too soon. Idk if I did the right thing or not. Maybe we were doomed either way, like he said rush it, you’ll ruin it.
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Next time stick to your gut and establish those boundaries. In this case telling him no straight up.

The right dude is gonna respect your comfort levels.

Sounds like the initial connection was flames but it’s early days so just see if his interest is gonna remain and use this time to get to know what he’s really about and if it’s right for you.
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You started the game play first by turning your location on an off. Ijs

Why is this games? It’s weird to have your location on for someone you haven’t even been dating for more than a season. This gem sounds kinda possessive.

It’s games cause he asked, she gave it. Then turns it off and on knowing he’s gonna see it. Pretty simple.

Giving your location to a virtual stranger is a whole nother story.

I see what you’re saying. But I’m still keeping to them both being weird. Him for asking, her for giving, and then her again for ‘attention seeking’ actions.
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Weird is awesome!

My comment was more about her getting the timeline confused. You can’t cry about game play when you kicked it off first.

Geminis love a good mind fuck tho so maybe she’s the perfect one for him 🤣
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You started the game play first by turning your location on an off. Ijs

Why is this games? It’s weird to have your location on for someone you haven’t even been dating for more than a season. This gem sounds kinda possessive.

It’s games cause he asked, she gave it. Then turns it off and on knowing he’s gonna see it. Pretty simple.

Giving your location to a virtual stranger is a whole nother story.

I see where y’all both come from, it both weirded me out cause it felt controlling and also I felt like it wouldn’t hold his interest if I played wifey with him too soon. Idk if I did the right thing or not. Maybe we were doomed either way, like he said rush it, you’ll ruin it.

Next time stick to your gut and establish those boundaries. In this case telling him no straight up.

The right dude is gonna respect your comfort levels.

Sounds like the initial connection was flames but it’s early days so just see if his interest is gonna remain and use this time to get to know what he’s really about and if it’s right for you.
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It’s so funny you this^^.

I feel like a lot of women have this approach when dating a new guy—we kinda diminish ourselves (not every woman obvi) because we don’t want to lose their interest by being too this or too that, so we just go with the flow and let them lead too much, to the point where it’s no longer a healthy creation of respect.

Ironically enough, having no boundaries is what makes a connection (and a man’s interest) fizzle out the fastest.
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Sometimes I’m envious of the games Geminis play with Aquarius lol. They really throw y’all for a loop and it keeps your attention.

Yeah he’s playing games, but I’m sure you ignoring him and making him chase and call 50 million times is keeping his interest-for now.

Like most men, he will most likely ask to see you if you don’t act so available and don’t ask to see him.

Don’t ask him. Get busy with life and he will start intruding on it. Let him chase after you and win something when he catches you.

Gemini men are usually all up in your business but you messaging and/or calling him a lot could be letting him know that you don’t have any for him to get into.

Have some patience when he comes to you and ease up if you are ignoring most of his calls or doing tit for tat with him.

Answer and be flirty but busy.


It is strange isn’t It? Cuz I was under the impression Aquarius were the best at doing that aloof act—“take me or leave me,” sort of “I don’t care, I still have much to keep me preoccupied,” type of energy.
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Sometimes I’m envious of the games Geminis play with Aquarius lol. They really throw y’all for a loop and it keeps your attention.

Yeah he’s playing games, but I’m sure you ignoring him and making him chase and call 50 million times is keeping his interest-for now.

Like most men, he will most likely ask to see you if you don’t act so available and don’t ask to see him.

Don’t ask him. Get busy with life and he will start intruding on it. Let him chase after you and win something when he catches you.

Gemini men are usually all up in your business but you messaging and/or calling him a lot could be letting him know that you don’t have any for him to get into.

Have some patience when he comes to you and ease up if you are ignoring most of his calls or doing tit for tat with him.

Answer and be flirty but busy.

It is strange isn’t It? Cuz I was under the impression Aquarius were the best at doing that aloof act—“take me or leave me,” sort of “I don’t care, I still have much to keep me preoccupied,” type of energy.
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They are aloof. I don’t think it’s an act. That’s why they like someone doing the most and chasing them down.

Have you seen that tiktok of someone smiling at their phone while you call and they ignore it?

This is an Aquarius. lol

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Sometimes I’m envious of the games Geminis play with Aquarius lol. They really throw y’all for a loop and it keeps your attention.

Yeah he’s playing games, but I’m sure you ignoring him and making him chase and call 50 million times is keeping his interest-for now.

Like most men, he will most likely ask to see you if you don’t act so available and don’t ask to see him.

Don’t ask him. Get busy with life and he will start intruding on it. Let him chase after you and win something when he catches you.

Gemini men are usually all up in your business but you messaging and/or calling him a lot could be letting him know that you don’t have any for him to get into.

Have some patience when he comes to you and ease up if you are ignoring most of his calls or doing tit for tat with him.

Answer and be flirty but busy.

It is strange isn’t It? Cuz I was under the impression Aquarius were the best at doing that aloof act—“take me or leave me,” sort of “I don’t care, I still have much to keep me preoccupied,” type of energy.

They are aloof. I don’t think it’s an act. That’s why they like someone doing the most and chasing them down.

Have you seen that tiktok of someone smiling at their phone while you call and they ignore it?

This is an Aquarius. lol
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No, I haven’t lmao. But my Venus is in Aquarius and I “use” to attract the most aloof of lovers.

But I mostly meant this for the OP, like come on OP, you gotta tap into that energy.
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You started the game play first by turning your location on an off. Ijs

Why is this games? It’s weird to have your location on for someone you haven’t even been dating for more than a season. This gem sounds kinda possessive.

It’s games cause he asked, she gave it. Then turns it off and on knowing he’s gonna see it. Pretty simple.

Giving your location to a virtual stranger is a whole nother story.

I see where y’all both come from, it both weirded me out cause it felt controlling and also I felt like it wouldn’t hold his interest if I played wifey with him too soon. Idk if I did the right thing or not. Maybe we were doomed either way, like he said rush it, you’ll ruin it.

Next time stick to your gut and establish those boundaries. In this case telling him no straight up.

The right dude is gonna respect your comfort levels.

Sounds like the initial connection was flames but it’s early days so just see if his interest is gonna remain and use this time to get to know what he’s really about and if it’s right for you.

It’s so funny you this^^.

I feel like a lot of women have this approach when dating a new guy—we kinda diminish ourselves (not every woman obvi) because we don’t want to lose their interest by being too this or too that, so we just go with the flow and let them lead too much, to the point where it’s no longer a healthy creation of respect.

Ironically enough, having no boundaries is what makes a connection (and a man’s interest) fizzle out the fastest.
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The way I see it is you’ve got to earn that from me.. we only met a week before hand. Yes our connection was strong af but I felt like I was being love bombed. It’s just not in me to give you everything when we first met I’m GROWN. I’m a firm believer in making a man WORK for me.
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Update: I blocked him 🤣🥴 I finally got him to answer the phone I asked him why he backed up from me. He said he just needed some space & to find my chill and come back 😂 like I wasn’t acting crazy, I only sent him a long text because he posted mad subliminals about me on insta but was ignoring me. That would drive anybody nuts. So I say so “you’re deading me” and he says “I deaded myself” whatever. Blocked him, game over lol
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Update: I blocked him 🤣🥴 I finally got him to answer the phone I asked him why he backed up from me. He said he just needed some space & to find my chill and come back 😂 like I wasn’t acting crazy, I only sent him a long text because he posted mad subliminals about me on insta but was ignoring me. That would drive anybody nuts. So I say so “you’re deading me” and he says “I deaded myself” whatever. Blocked him, game over lol


You assumed those posts were about you.

Every time I've assumed something with my gem over the years turned out it was something else entirely and I was left looking and feeling like an asshole lol.

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
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Update: I blocked him 🤣🥴 I finally got him to answer the phone I asked him why he backed up from me. He said he just needed some space & to find my chill and come back 😂 like I wasn’t acting crazy, I only sent him a long text because he posted mad subliminals about me on insta but was ignoring me. That would drive anybody nuts. So I say so “you’re deading me” and he says “I deaded myself” whatever. Blocked him, game over lol

You assumed those posts were about you.

Every time I've assumed something with my gem over the years turned out it was something else entirely and I was left looking and feeling like an asshole lol.

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Well if he wasn’t purposely ignoring me trying to punish me I wouldn’t have to assume.
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What?? How is he the one playing games??

"I got freaked out and turned my location off and also didn’t answer his phone call until 4am. I was actually out with someone I admit but I was just listening to my annoying Aquarius logic and that I should still keep my options open. "

That's where the games started. You were the one thinking you should keep your options open when he was trying to make it clear he was all in with you. And having a call returned at 4 am would set my red flags off.

I will note that I don't completely understand the whole location thing, never used this.. but I would also be freaked out if someone I barely knew wanted to track my every move. So I understand you being weirded out by that.. but you should have just told him from the get go that you weren't down for that and I'm sure he would have understood.. now you just got him confused.


Why would I commit to some after only a week. We’re both grown and if you rush it you’ll ruin it. I did try and convince him that the location thing was weird and controlling but he would get mad when I turned it off.
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What?? How is he the one playing games??

"I got freaked out and turned my location off and also didn’t answer his phone call until 4am. I was actually out with someone I admit but I was just listening to my annoying Aquarius logic and that I should still keep my options open. "

That's where the games started. You were the one thinking you should keep your options open when he was trying to make it clear he was all in with you. And having a call returned at 4 am would set my red flags off.

I will note that I don't completely understand the whole location thing, never used this.. but I would also be freaked out if someone I barely knew wanted to track my every move. So I understand you being weirded out by that.. but you should have just told him from the get go that you weren't down for that and I'm sure he would have understood.. now you just got him confused.

Why would I commit to some after only a week. We’re both grown and if you rush it you’ll ruin it. I did try and convince him that the location thing was weird and controlling but he would get mad when I turned it off.

Yeah that's unsettling behavior period. Even if I was with someone for years I wouldn't be okay with them getting upset about not being able to track me 24/7. I'm someone with major trust issues and even I feel like that is a major invasion of privacy. So this dude must have some insane ass trust or control issues. Hit that block button girl. Dodge the bullet.
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Honestly I’m 1.5 years older than him. I could tell he’s super inexperienced in the dating department. I got the feeling I was going to have to teach him how a real relationship works and it not being TOXIC. He’s very tit for tat and I knew me doing that wouldn’t put him in his place, but I knew he’d shut me out afterwards. So be it. Maybe I’m being an over thinker but usually when a guy love bombs you & rushes things it’s usually because he only wants one thing. And I guess I was right since he walked away all because of that one thing in the beginning where you’re supposed to be understanding with each other.