
GemiMay
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Posted by Ixi
My parents, Libra and Taurus... been married for several decades


Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
It's probably because you have very little to no earth in your chart. I'm doing just fine with an earth lady tyvm.

Posted by IxiPosted by GemiMayPosted by Ixi
My parents, Libra and Taurus... been married for several decades
I was married as well. For 26 years. Doesn’t mean shit. I didn’t KNOW it was bad. I had been happily dead inside. Because I didn’t know I was. Until I found out.
Lol they are 40+ years I think and still going eye-rollingly strong. And I'm sorry to hear you had an unpleasant experience. I am just giving you an example of a fruitful union of Earth and Air.click to expand



Posted by virgoOPPP
idk my taurus cousin married to a gemini and he's good to her
i really adore aquas
and caps are always chasing after libras or geminis

Posted by IxiPosted by GemiMayPosted by IxiPosted by GemiMayPosted by Ixi
My parents, Libra and Taurus... been married for several decades
I was married as well. For 26 years. Doesn’t mean shit. I didn’t KNOW it was bad. I had been happily dead inside. Because I didn’t know I was. Until I found out.
Lol they are 40+ years I think and still going eye-rollingly strong. And I'm sorry to hear you had an unpleasant experience. I am just giving you an example of a fruitful union of Earth and Air.
As J_J said do they have a lot of each other elements in their charts? See I have only 1-2 Tauruses.
Not nearly enough to account for the differences in their personalities. But anyhow they are not the only Libra/Taurus coupling I've met. I've also met several Aqua/Cap pairings, A few Gem/Cap pairings, usually the Gem would fuck it up outright lol. When the cap would stray it would be after a period of super-off the scale drama.click to expand

Posted by GemiMayPosted by virgoOPPP
idk my taurus cousin married to a gemini and he's good to her
i really adore aquas
and caps are always chasing after libras or geminis
Cap was good to me but it wasn’t good like useful. I don’t feel like talking badly about him because he is a father of my child after all.
What I am saying is it’s like if man isn’t abusive (they use to say in ancient times) - he is good. Yes. And completely not.click to expand



Posted by LadyNeptune
We missed your crazy ass gemitati

Posted by Bumboklaat
How can you be unhappily married for that long?

Posted by LadyNeptune
We missed your crazy ass gemitati

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by GemiMayPosted by virgoOPPP
idk my taurus cousin married to a gemini and he's good to her
i really adore aquas
and caps are always chasing after libras or geminis
Cap was good to me but it wasn’t good like useful. I don’t feel like talking badly about him because he is a father of my child after all.
What I am saying is it’s like if man isn’t abusive (they use to say in ancient times) - he is good. Yes. And completely not.
yeah i get what you're saying.
what was it like being a gemini with a capricorn? tbh i don't really see what gemini would see in a cap.click to expand

Posted by GemiMayPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by GemiMayPosted by virgoOPPP
idk my taurus cousin married to a gemini and he's good to her
i really adore aquas
and caps are always chasing after libras or geminis
Cap was good to me but it wasn’t good like useful. I don’t feel like talking badly about him because he is a father of my child after all.
What I am saying is it’s like if man isn’t abusive (they use to say in ancient times) - he is good. Yes. And completely not.
yeah i get what you're saying.
what was it like being a gemini with a capricorn? tbh i don't really see what gemini would see in a cap.
He was funny. And older. By my fav number 10-12 he was 11 1/2 so…from the same city in Ukraine. Dated my friend and we had SO much to talk about…
He WAS REALLY FUNNY! And I laughed…lmaoclick to expand

Posted by GemiMayPosted by Bumboklaat
How can you be unhappily married for that long?
It starts with school, kids, house, career and it’s not really bad because you are free to do EVERYTHING! Because he does nothing BUT he doesn’t stop you from running around and you are going and throwing parties and planning vacations and life is just busy. So you don’t think about it.
Like I said you don’t know it’s not good until you find out. And I said I don’t want to badmouth him. I was trying to explain how can you be married badly for so long.
It is probably not BAD/BAD. It was bad by my standards because I grew out of this life style and he still had not. Just a month ago he asked our child how to tell dish detergent from laundry detergent. 🤦♀️click to expand

Posted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMay
Not so long ago I had realized I am having strong dislike for Earth signs.
I was married to a Cap and JUST NOW I am reading everywhere that Air and Earth shouldn’t be! Though I M sure some people managing just fine. But we aren’t talking about a few right?
I don’t know if you ever had topic on communications between those 4 elements.
Any personal examples of yes/no?
So… your boring Cap ex-husband. Ok I get it. But how does that relate to the other earth signs? Why all?
Also… you’ve NEVER met another Cap that you liked?click to expand



Posted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMayPosted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMay
Not so long ago I had realized I am having strong dislike for Earth signs.
I was married to a Cap and JUST NOW I am reading everywhere that Air and Earth shouldn’t be! Though I M sure some people managing just fine. But we aren’t talking about a few right?
I don’t know if you ever had topic on communications between those 4 elements.
Any personal examples of yes/no?
So… your boring Cap ex-husband. Ok I get it. But how does that relate to the other earth signs? Why all?
Also… you’ve NEVER met another Cap that you liked?
My boring ex IS an Earth sign!
My bf son is Taurus. I can’t…he is amazing young man but he is so slow…and I was feeling guilty about being irritated by him so I started to think and OMG! My all favorites are Aquas and most disliked are all the Earth!
So I went searching and ended up BACK HERE!
TA -Da!!!
Lol… and Virgos?click to expand

Posted by Midnite_Riser
You might have a Cancer ascendant or Cancer in your chart. Capricorns are known to be boring, Earth signs are the stable signs. If you want more fun, try a fire sign but this is the problem with fire signs.......it will be a lot of on and off. If you want the perfect balance, try a Libra or another Gemini.

Posted by hydorah
OMG
The queen is back

Posted by Wizardz_
Earth is def the worst
Like the crappy chocolates that are left for ages after xmas is finished and you have to be desperately craving sugar to try them

Posted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMayPosted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMay
Not so long ago I had realized I am having strong dislike for Earth signs.
I was married to a Cap and JUST NOW I am reading everywhere that Air and Earth shouldn’t be! Though I M sure some people managing just fine. But we aren’t talking about a few right?
I don’t know if you ever had topic on communications between those 4 elements.
Any personal examples of yes/no?
So… your boring Cap ex-husband. Ok I get it. But how does that relate to the other earth signs? Why all?
Also… you’ve NEVER met another Cap that you liked?
My boring ex IS an Earth sign!
My bf son is Taurus. I can’t…he is amazing young man but he is so slow…and I was feeling guilty about being irritated by him so I started to think and OMG! My all favorites are Aquas and most disliked are all the Earth!
So I went searching and ended up BACK HERE!
TA -Da!!!
Lol… and Virgos?click to expand
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Posted by KimboSlicePosted by GemiMay
He was funny. And older.
Older than you? Is that even possibleclick to expand

Posted by Nightcap-Posted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMayPosted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMay
Not so long ago I had realized I am having strong dislike for Earth signs.
I was married to a Cap and JUST NOW I am reading everywhere that Air and Earth shouldn’t be! Though I M sure some people managing just fine. But we aren’t talking about a few right?
I don’t know if you ever had topic on communications between those 4 elements.
Any personal examples of yes/no?
So… your boring Cap ex-husband. Ok I get it. But how does that relate to the other earth signs? Why all?
Also… you’ve NEVER met another Cap that you liked?
My boring ex IS an Earth sign!
My bf son is Taurus. I can’t…he is amazing young man but he is so slow…and I was feeling guilty about being irritated by him so I started to think and OMG! My all favorites are Aquas and most disliked are all the Earth!
So I went searching and ended up BACK HERE!
TA -Da!!!
Lol… and Virgos?
Ok, since we're roasting 😏😂. https://i.ibb.co/M7dFbdz/Hilarious-and-relatable-Virgo-memes-Our-Mindful-Life-com-25.jpg

Posted by GemiMayPosted by Nightcap-Posted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMayPosted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMay
Not so long ago I had realized I am having strong dislike for Earth signs.
I was married to a Cap and JUST NOW I am reading everywhere that Air and Earth shouldn’t be! Though I M sure some people managing just fine. But we aren’t talking about a few right?
I don’t know if you ever had topic on communications between those 4 elements.
Any personal examples of yes/no?
So… your boring Cap ex-husband. Ok I get it. But how does that relate to the other earth signs? Why all?
Also… you’ve NEVER met another Cap that you liked?
My boring ex IS an Earth sign!
My bf son is Taurus. I can’t…he is amazing young man but he is so slow…and I was feeling guilty about being irritated by him so I started to think and OMG! My all favorites are Aquas and most disliked are all the Earth!
So I went searching and ended up BACK HERE!
TA -Da!!!
Lol… and Virgos?
Ok, since we're roasting 😏😂.
Is it still a pain to upload pics? Imgur or what’s it’s shit? 🤔🤦♀️click to expand


Posted by Nightcap-Posted by GemiMayPosted by Nightcap-Posted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMayPosted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMay
Not so long ago I had realized I am having strong dislike for Earth signs.
I was married to a Cap and JUST NOW I am reading everywhere that Air and Earth shouldn’t be! Though I M sure some people managing just fine. But we aren’t talking about a few right?
I don’t know if you ever had topic on communications between those 4 elements.
Any personal examples of yes/no?
So… your boring Cap ex-husband. Ok I get it. But how does that relate to the other earth signs? Why all?
Also… you’ve NEVER met another Cap that you liked?
My boring ex IS an Earth sign!
My bf son is Taurus. I can’t…he is amazing young man but he is so slow…and I was feeling guilty about being irritated by him so I started to think and OMG! My all favorites are Aquas and most disliked are all the Earth!
So I went searching and ended up BACK HERE!
TA -Da!!!
Lol… and Virgos?
Ok, since we're roasting 😏😂.
Is it still a pain to upload pics? Imgur or what’s it’s shit? 🤔🤦♀️
I stopped using imgur but imgbb.com works pretty wellclick to expand



Posted by Nightcap-
I think Libra and Gem are the worst matches for a Cap. Neither have the depth Cap is looking for. People look at the goat head but forget the fishy tail. With Libra, the people pleasing and lack of originality isn't unique. It all seems rehearsed and playing to people as not to offend. With Gem, Cap can keep up but the energy is too manic and scattered for it to be enjoyable. Life is about changing speeds depending on the circumstances not forcing everyone to go at your pace because you only know one speed. Perhaps watery Gems or Libras would work as a suitable accent.

Posted by RollergirlOrc
Earth signs are the minority on dxp and they get shit on everytime. 🙄

Posted by Som
What about Geminis and Libras with Earth placements, not Water? I often see them together.Posted by Nightcap-
I think Libra and Gem are the worst matches for a Cap. Neither have the depth Cap is looking for. People look at the goat head but forget the fishy tail. With Libra, the people pleasing and lack of originality isn't unique. It all seems rehearsed and playing to people as not to offend. With Gem, Cap can keep up but the energy is too manic and scattered for it to be enjoyable. Life is about changing speeds depending on the circumstances not forcing everyone to go at your pace because you only know one speed. Perhaps watery Gems or Libras would work as a suitable accent.click to expand

Posted by Nightcap-
I think Libra and Gem are the worst matches for a Cap. Neither have the depth Cap is looking for. People look at the goat head but forget the fishy tail. With Libra, the people pleasing and lack of originality isn't unique. It all seems rehearsed and playing to people as not to offend. With Gem, Cap can keep up but the energy is too manic and scattered for it to be enjoyable. Life is about changing speeds depending on the circumstances not forcing everyone to go at your pace because you only know one speed. Perhaps watery Gems or Libras would work as a suitable accent.

Posted by KimboSlicePosted by GemiMayPosted by KimboSlicePosted by GemiMay
He was funny. And older.
Older than you? Is that even possible
Yes child…are you an orphan or your parents aged badly? I am sorry. 🙄😂
You sure have cum along way
Waiting tables at the last supper to OnlyGransclick to expand

Posted by 51R60
Geminis just trying to shift the worst label off of them smh.

Posted by GemiMayPosted by Nightcap-
I think Libra and Gem are the worst matches for a Cap. Neither have the depth Cap is looking for. People look at the goat head but forget the fishy tail. With Libra, the people pleasing and lack of originality isn't unique. It all seems rehearsed and playing to people as not to offend. With Gem, Cap can keep up but the energy is too manic and scattered for it to be enjoyable. Life is about changing speeds depending on the circumstances not forcing everyone to go at your pace because you only know one speed. Perhaps watery Gems or Libras would work as a suitable accent.
Ex is screwed! Our child is Libra. She was the one who told me she wants to see me happy WITH him or WITHOUT him.
Then later she went on vacation with her father and his nieces and was very upset with him because she said ‘mom I am not YOU waiting on him hand and foot! I won’t ever let man do this to me!’ And she didn’t. She got herself Aqua/Aqua.
But not too long ago I had looked at HER chart and Holy Shit! She is Cap Moon…but she has 5 Scorpios so…daddy is fucked!
BTW new Libra he married is history. Already. She couldn’t cook and wasn’t ‘good enough’ REGARDLESS of her being 20 years younger!
Gemini rule! TA-DA! 🥁click to expand

Posted by GemiMayPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
It's probably because you have very little to no earth in your chart. I'm doing just fine with an earth lady tyvm.
Yeah. Mars and NN Taurus. Is that why?click to expand

Posted by Nightcap-Posted by GemiMayPosted by Nightcap-
I think Libra and Gem are the worst matches for a Cap. Neither have the depth Cap is looking for. People look at the goat head but forget the fishy tail. With Libra, the people pleasing and lack of originality isn't unique. It all seems rehearsed and playing to people as not to offend. With Gem, Cap can keep up but the energy is too manic and scattered for it to be enjoyable. Life is about changing speeds depending on the circumstances not forcing everyone to go at your pace because you only know one speed. Perhaps watery Gems or Libras would work as a suitable accent.
Ex is screwed! Our child is Libra. She was the one who told me she wants to see me happy WITH him or WITHOUT him.
Then later she went on vacation with her father and his nieces and was very upset with him because she said ‘mom I am not YOU waiting on him hand and foot! I won’t ever let man do this to me!’ And she didn’t. She got herself Aqua/Aqua.
But not too long ago I had looked at HER chart and Holy Shit! She is Cap Moon…but she has 5 Scorpios so…daddy is fucked!
BTW new Libra he married is history. Already. She couldn’t cook and wasn’t ‘good enough’ REGARDLESS of her being 20 years younger!
Gemini rule! TA-DA! 🥁
High standards, bruh lol. Double aquas are fine if you don't mind a bit of strange. Sounds like the potential for a whole lot of stubborn amongst the 3. Good thing we got momma Gem to smooth things over. A little humor goes a long way.click to expand

Posted by Hypnotoad
It took you 26 years to figure that out, pretty much the best years of your life gone...
I'm calling BS, I'm betting there was a whole lot of good for it to last that long, and now you're just making up the can't part for some crazy reason.
Stop it

Posted by Jan12girlPosted by RollergirlOrc
Earth signs are the minority on dxp and they get shit on everytime. 🙄
That must be then. I was going to go into depression reading about how boring ,meh etc etc caps are. 😖
All the complexes get multiplied after coming hereclick to expand



Posted by Nightcap-Posted by GemiMayPosted by Nightcap-Posted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMayPosted by MareInfamePosted by GemiMay
Not so long ago I had realized I am having strong dislike for Earth signs.
I was married to a Cap and JUST NOW I am reading everywhere that Air and Earth shouldn’t be! Though I M sure some people managing just fine. But we aren’t talking about a few right?
I don’t know if you ever had topic on communications between those 4 elements.
Any personal examples of yes/no?
So… your boring Cap ex-husband. Ok I get it. But how does that relate to the other earth signs? Why all?
Also… you’ve NEVER met another Cap that you liked?
My boring ex IS an Earth sign!
My bf son is Taurus. I can’t…he is amazing young man but he is so slow…and I was feeling guilty about being irritated by him so I started to think and OMG! My all favorites are Aquas and most disliked are all the Earth!
So I went searching and ended up BACK HERE!
TA -Da!!!
Lol… and Virgos?
Ok, since we're roasting 😏😂.
Is it still a pain to upload pics? Imgur or what’s it’s shit? 🤔🤦♀️
I stopped using imgur but imgbb.com works pretty wellclick to expand

Posted by Undine
It’s understandable.
How are things going with the Aries, though?

Posted by alexscariesPosted by GemiMayPosted by Undine
It’s understandable.
How are things going with the Aries, though?
We are fucking around. 😂😂😂
I mean 400 days of pandemic with 2-3 breaks when he threw me out OR I ran to mommy…
But by the time I reach my house he sends me text asking why have I left…after screaming his head off and telling me to ‘get ta fuck out’
We are GRRREAT! I know one thing for surest sure is that he is NOT leaving. He is never going to hurt me. And everything I am reading about our pairing is ‘immature together’ and even Linda Goodman said
Aries and Gemini, the eternal young ones, who search for Shangri-la, the Emerald City of Oz, Wonderland and the Fountain of Youth. Together, they have a better chance of finding all these places than most people .. . or than they would have if they each searched alone.
Haha! So we are retards!
And the Tiad said my best years are gone?
Fuck that!
I am feeling 26 at 55! And thanks for asking.
Aries and Gemini will always be a classic combination.click to expand

Posted by Jan12girlPosted by GemiMayPosted by RollergirlOrc
Earth signs are the minority on dxp and they get shit on everytime. 🙄
Why minorities? Who doesn’t let them come?
Dxpnet had been around for 25 years! If they couldn’t make it since then - it IS SLOW darling. Isn’t it? 🤔
Do you understand slow sounds little off? Calling a young boy slow(who would want to fuck his Ass) , calling every body else slow may be not so nice.click to expand
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I was married to a Cap and JUST NOW I am reading everywhere that Air and Earth shouldn’t be! Though I M sure some people managing just fine. But we aren’t talking about a few right?
I don’t know if you ever had topic on communications between those 4 elements.
Any personal examples of yes/no?