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well it doesn't matter cause he isn't doing anything....so null.
That's usually the problem with cancer men. They'll do all these nice things for you and expect you to assume that they like you from that. Meanwhile, aquas do nice things for people without liking them so it doesn't even occur to them that "Hey, perhaps he likes me and that's why he's doing those nice things for me."
but cancer is a cardinal sign, and he's got ALOT of cancer in him. lol

and he's gonna do something.

i dunno...

my man is a 4th house dominant. lol

but he is fire dominant so he chased me down and never gave up. but then again, i showed interest, or else he wouldnt bother.
😛

it's hard to pinpoint. cause every guy is different.
Surprisingly, cancers are cardinal and so are Libras and I just don't get how!!! To be cardinal, you have to take charge and I find neither sign takes charge. Both signs are freaking indecisive as hell. Almost always on the fence or second guessing themselves and need reassurances to take charge.
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this is a good take, *general though* on sun signs for men and how to get them! Lol

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My romantic history is filled with cancerians, so I'll tell you the problem that this pairing faces and that's take off. Cancerians will be nice and do nice things, which you do with others as well. Aquas don't know what to make of your nice gestures: "are you nice with everyone, which you are, or just me?" We need clearrrrrr indication of romantic interest otherwise we don't get it and move on. We don't get stuck on crushes the way cancers do. All the cancerian guys that had a crush on me in the past didn't communicate their interest in me. They did incredibly nice things for me and I had an idea that perhaps they liked me, , but I never acted on my intuition because it's just a gut feeling, nothing concrete. I do nice things for people without liking them and so unless someone explicitly tells me they like me, I don't assume they have a crush on me. Anyway, cancerians never explicitly told me and I got tired and we drifted apart. Then, years later when I came across these guys, they would tell me how they had a crush on me but couldn't communicate it to me out of shyness or fear of rejection. You snooze, you lose. Tell her you like her. We are direct communicators and love it when people tell us clearly what they want.
you must have a strong 4th house and/or 7th, aqua09....since you like cancers/libra combo. 😄
Yeah, I like men in general irrespective of their sign. The market I attract the most is comprised of libras and cancers. The last guy before I met my Aries was a cancer sun and libra moon. I was getting both in one package. LOL. That's why nothing came of that one.
Aries now huh? lol
Yeah, Aries took charge and I obliged. The cancer just danced around me and my interest dissipated.
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especially if he's the Alan Turing type. 😆
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well it doesn't matter cause he isn't doing anything....so null.
That's usually the problem with cancer men. They'll do all these nice things for you and expect you to assume that they like you from that. Meanwhile, aquas do nice things for people without liking them so it doesn't even occur to them that "Hey, perhaps he likes me and that's why he's doing those nice things for me."
but cancer is a cardinal sign, and he's got ALOT of cancer in him. lol

and he's gonna do something.

i dunno...

my man is a 4th house dominant. lol

but he is fire dominant so he chased me down and never gave up. but then again, i showed interest, or else he wouldnt bother.
😛

it's hard to pinpoint. cause every guy is different.
Surprisingly, cancers are cardinal and so are Libras and I just don't get how!!! To be cardinal, you have to take charge and I find neither sign takes charge. Both signs are freaking indecisive as hell. Almost always on the fence or second guessing themselves and need reassurances to take charge.
this is a good take, *general though* on sun signs for men and how to get them! Lol

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some of the stuff she says about signs, triggers me.. like with my ex's, and their personal planets, sun signs ect.
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Yeah, I'm like that with cancerians. I'll see them once or twice and then they'll see me like 6 months later. The reason is you guys are too passive for aquas. You need to do something or say something to intrigue our curiosity for us to come back for more. You don't do that and we see you once in a while. The least you can do is ask for her to come back and visit you or whatever. If she doesn't reciprocate, then you gotta go bold and tell her straight up that you're interested in her. If she doesn't reciprocate that, then move on.
then i have a question, since i have been making it very obvious lately, do u think this takes away the "intriguing" part?

if so how do i balance between being intriguing and also direct?
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oh yeah! your thoughts would really help peeps. her birthday is coming up on the 11th (coming thursday), and what i am planning to do is buying her baby's breath and leaving a book in a bag with the sticky note of "Open me when you are home or alone". This is done to avoid drama at school (friends and people are sometimes such sht disturber and drama whres)

in the book, which is a fill-it-yourself book, i have written stuff that are references to inside jokes and artists that she has shown me and also memories that we have made with each other. Although I am not going to leave my name anywhere, the references and my handwriting should be a dead giveaway.

Do you guys think this is a good idea?
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oh yeah! your thoughts would really help peeps. her birthday is coming up on the 11th (coming thursday), and what i am planning to do is buying her baby's breath and leaving a book in a bag with the stick note of "Open me when you are home or alone". This is done to avoid drama at school (friends and people are sometimes such sht disturber and drama whres.

in the book, which is a fill-it-yourself book, i have written stuff that are references to inside jokes and artists that she has shown me and also memories that we have made with each other. Although I am not going to leave my name anywhere, the references and my handwriting should be a dead giveaway.

Do you guys think this is a good idea?
well damn....

😛 😄 😄

gooooossshhh that sounds soooo sweeeeet.

so thoughtful and goooeeeyyy lovely ...eeeee!! 😄 😄

(this is especially, most ESPECIALLY if i like you scenerio)

so yes if she feels a bunches for you, that will make her squeal inside and jump for joy.
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oh yeah! your thoughts would really help peeps. her birthday is coming up on the 11th (coming thursday), and what i am planning to do is buying her baby's breath and leaving a book in a bag with the stick note of "Open me when you are home or alone". This is done to avoid drama at school (friends and people are sometimes such sht disturber and drama whres.

in the book, which is a fill-it-yourself book, i have written stuff that are references to inside jokes and artists that she has shown me and also memories that we have made with each other. Although I am not going to leave my name anywhere, the references and my handwriting should be a dead giveaway.

Do you guys think this is a good idea?
Aww I want a cancer like you now!!! 🤗™
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i guess i will just cling on to the thought of her and the photo that we have taken sigh
Just tell her, damn it! If she doesn't reciprocate, we got your back! You can come vent to me or cry on my shoulder.
YES! tell her!

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my dear, I cannot imagine getting friendzoned by her. I fear it so much so that my heart feels that empty feeling that you get when the roller coaster drops. :/
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Sigh honesty I don't know what happened. From a situation in which she used to initiate conversation to us not talking and sometimes even having her ignore my messages. I once ranted to her and she explained to me several times that she's bad at replying and even doesn't text back to her bestie and such so she tried to get me to get used to not getting a reply back
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and mister cancer stellium,

do you look like this cancer guy? 😛


sadly i dont haha I wish i had that muscular build 😛

here is a small personal photo that I can get off of a website that took a photo of us together
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I can just sense both your vibes from that pic! She's so aquarian in the way she's posing and smiling. Can't say anything on her built or anything, but it's just the way she's smiling that radiates her Aqua persona. Same goes for you. You have the same laid back, hold me your prisoner cancer look. LOL
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and mister cancer stellium,

do you look like this cancer guy? 😛


sadly i dont haha I wish i had that muscular build 😛

here is a small personal photo that I can get off of a website that took a photo of us together
http://postimg.org/image/5l4680pz7/<div class="bqfade">click to expand




oh can't see the photo. :/

if she loves you, muscular isn't a problem. lol