Aqua lounge (Page 11)

I suppose good. I don't spend what I don't have and I always keep enough to deal with emergencies. I hate money but wouldn't mind having lots of it 😄

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Aquas and money

Are Aquas good with money? Stingy or frugal?

I'm incredibly good with money, I'm very proud that I actively utilize a savings account and that I have amazing credit. I always buy what I want-- but I am sometimes frugal about it. Kind of frugal in a high-standards type of way. I way in if something is a good deal or not, if I really need it now and is it something that I won't be able to get later?

I have made grand purchases and travel expenses but I always save up and plan to do so.

My downfall: I am *not* frugal by any means when it comes to someone else - be it my significant other or just a friend. I tend to go above and beyond on giving gifts. But, I am *not* the person with whom you can say "Buy that for me/get me this". Once that comes into play, I'm a broke mothafucka!

Definitely getting there feel like I'm about to have a break down. Had a mini one watching Guardians of the Galaxy. Like really? Come on get it together, it's just a movie.

Has anyone been watching super jail? its like an adult adventure time..

playing with makeup again, wearing mums clothes lol

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
playing with makeup again, wearing mums clothes lol

Good looking... Do you go out like that?

Posted by aquasnoz
Definitely getting there feel like I'm about to have a break down. Had a mini one watching Guardians of the Galaxy. Like really? Come on get it together, it's just a movie.

Oh no, what's wrong?

Anything you care to discuss?

Haha mum issues. I can talk someone's ear off if I wanted to. Trigger moments are terrible either that or I make too many nonsense connections to affection and abandonment.

And looking good 11th. How have I not run into you on oxford yet?

Posted by sassafras

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Aquas and money

Are Aquas good with money? Stingy or frugal?

I'm incredibly good with money, I'm very proud that I actively utilize a savings account and that I have amazing credit. I always buy what I want-- but I am sometimes frugal about it. Kind of frugal in a high-standards type of way. I way in if something is a good deal or not, if I really need it now and is it something that I won't be able to get later?

I have made grand purchases and travel expenses but I always save up and plan to do so.

My downfall: I am *not* frugal by any means when it comes to someone else - be it my significant other or just a friend. I tend to go above and beyond on giving gifts. But, I am *not* the person with whom you can say "Buy that for me/get me this". Once that comes into play, I'm a broke mothafucka!

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I'm like his too especially with my loved ones. I can go all out and not regret it one bit.

*this

Posted by aquasnoz
Haha mum issues. I can talk someone's ear off if I wanted to. Trigger moments are terrible either that or I make too many nonsense connections to affection and abandonment.

And looking good 11th. How have I not run into you on oxford yet?

You live with your mom?i I remember you left home ages ago?!

I live with a mum if that counts 😛 I get all locked up when trying to talk about these things. The ending scene of Guardians of the Galaxy (sorta spoiler) the main character finally opens a present his mum gave him before passing away when he was a child.

As this song played
//www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xz-UvQYAmbg

I bursted in tears and all of the sudden everyone's like what the fuck is wrong Erik?

Feels stupid tbh because I hate not being in control - truth is I don't have control. To me that scene is what I want. I want some good memories of her. And I know it's stupid, it's just a movie it shouldn't matter. And it doesn't matter at this moment but emotions sure were high last night.

I swear I am bipolar.

Sorry I always dodge the actual question. No I don't live with my mum, I caught up with her when I was 17 and again few years ago. She passed last year and none of it makes any sense.

Yeh aquanoz I thought the same thing especially when i saw ur pic of yu at cupacubano's I was living on top of Arq night club at the time.

You would have definitely ran into my little brother he's a bit juicier than me

and no i don't go out in makeup I'm a makeup artist for theatre so on stage.,

Posted by aquasnoz
I live with a mum if that counts 😛 I get all locked up when trying to talk about these things. The ending scene of Guardians of the Galaxy (sorta spoiler) the main character finally opens a present his mum gave him before passing away when he was a child.

As this song played
//www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xz-UvQYAmbg

I bursted in tears and all of the sudden everyone's like what the fuck is wrong Erik?

Feels stupid tbh because I hate not being in control - truth is I don't have control. To me that scene is what I want. I want some good memories of her. And I know it's stupid, it's just a movie it shouldn't matter. And it doesn't matter at this moment but emotions sure were high last night.

I swear I am bipolar.

First... you need a hug! *awkward aqua hug* 😛

secondly its not weird or bi polar type stuff.

You had just spoken about your mom in the closure thread, so perhaps it was still fresh and on your mind when you saw this scene.

thirdly, it's not stupid, it's emotions, but as an Aqua I understand. I say the same type of stuff when I get upset over my dad and the lack of unconditional love I had growing up. It's ALL I want from my father- but it took until I was late 30's/early forties to accept that I will never have it from him. Random off the wall things will trigger the emotions.. but it DOES get better with time.

Awww Aquasnoz --ok big group hug in here...

We can figure all this out together 🙂

Do you miss your mom?

I miss my dad. He passed away within a few months of being sick. Had never thought of him dying before that.

Haha I love hugs 😛 It comes and goes honestly like today I feel fine but sometimes it creeps up on me really badly. I would say I miss her but I never really knew her but I can say I love her and appreciate her for the mere fact without her I wouldn't be here!

Isn't it strange? Do you think you would have these feelings if they haven't passed away? And I just think it's stupid because it's like a behaviour of a child, e.g. "Why didn't mum do this, why didn't mum do that?", I feel that way but I don't want to think it.

Rambling on... *extends hugs to apc and jag and all the aquas*

My feels right now:

My face:

Hugz for aquanoz I'm always blaming my mum for shit lol

sassafraz thats my favourite lightening storm crazy volcano storms are amazing

Ikr? I love the combination of lightning and fire mixed into the dark ash clouds 🙂

My feels

The next second

How I'm perceived

My feels inside:

How others perceive me:

quiet the contradiction 😛

No fair, I'm always called an emotionless robot 😢

what's been going on in here, anything new?

meeting a friend tonight for a drink, she always has so many stories and tons of drama around her...

sigh, can't wait to hear what she's been up to!

😄

she's a sag!

this is what i feel like telling the world:

i don't know why but lately i feel/think/believe i am such a beautiful human being... 🙂

i sincerely hope it is me and not just some temporary planetary influence...

Hit my head pretty hard today when I was buying ice... at least I had something to put on the bump! LMAO

I've just cut a friend of five years off today, I deleted them off Facebook and left them a message telling them why and I feel so fucking great.

This ex friend of mine is a Leo and I introduced him to my group of friends and they are all water signs and earth signs and they hated him instantly because he talks over everyone and pretends he knows what your talking about by repeating what your saying as you are saying it which is so fucking annoying.

He is such a leech!??_He totally used me to get involved with my group of friends and goes above and beyond to impress them but when its just me and him he manipulates me and drains me emotionally with talk that my friends don't like him etc??_.

Ive officially had it and it feels good to do some much needed friend cleansing before summer swings around. 🙂

Posted by justagirl
Hit my head pretty hard today when I was buying ice... at least I had something to put on the bump! LMAO

LOL...

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I've just cut a friend of five years off today, I deleted them off Facebook and left them a message telling them why and I feel so fucking great.

This ex friend of mine is a Leo and I introduced him to my group of friends and they are all water signs and earth signs and they hated him instantly because he talks over everyone and pretends he knows what your talking about by repeating what your saying as you are saying it which is so fucking annoying.

He is such a leech!??_He totally used me to get involved with my group of friends and goes above and beyond to impress them but when its just me and him he manipulates me and drains me emotionally with talk that my friends don't like him etc??_.

Ive officially had it and it feels good to do some much needed friend cleansing before summer swings around. 🙂

I hate people like that.

They just use you for one thing but they think you're stupid enough to not notice.

Good for you.

What did you say?

Posted by aquapiscescusp
meeting a friend tonight for a drink, she always has so many stories and tons of drama around her...

sigh, can't wait to hear what she's been up to!

😄

she's a sag!

I'm thinking of cutting this one off big time. She just doesn't ever stop talking about herself and her sexcapades... Not even a :: how you been these days? ::

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by aquapiscescusp
meeting a friend tonight for a drink, she always has so many stories and tons of drama around her...

sigh, can't wait to hear what she's been up to!

😄

she's a sag!

I'm thinking of cutting this one off big time. She just doesn't ever stop talking about herself and her sexcapades... Not even a :: how you been these days? ::

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That sucks 😢

Where's feby?

Posted by justagirl

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by aquapiscescusp
meeting a friend tonight for a drink, she always has so many stories and tons of drama around her...

sigh, can't wait to hear what she's been up to!

😄

she's a sag!

I'm thinking of cutting this one off big time. She just doesn't ever stop talking about herself and her sexcapades... Not even a :: how you been these days? ::

That sucks 😢

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meh, yes and no.

her loss 😄

Omg sassafras I love knights of cydonia haha

My second random for the day: I was happily asleep dreaming of an epic adventure and my cat decides to climb on my bed dripping wet. Stepped on my balls and sneezed loudly at the same time. Startled the shit out of me and I accidentally punched him in the face.

Sorry kitty 😢

Haha I have a thing for muse 🙂

Why was your cat dripping wet? Did he fall into the toilet?

Fuck i hate being stood up!??_.this fucking asshole stood me up and I canceled on this other guy because of it now I'm at home waiting on this fucking flake to show and its nearly 10

I fucking shaved my balls and everything!!!!!!

//www.youtube.com/watch?v=QT92uOKRZPY

one of my all time favourites + time is running out... wait there's so many. And it was pouring with rain last night, my cat likes to dry himself on me!

and lmao 11th! I know that feeling, all that wasted time 😛

Did Feby delete again? 😢

BTW cats & dogs in the same house is insane. German shepherd tried to make a snack outta my kitty Pandora. Thankfully only minor injuries.. including a scratched up arm to me!

I actually haven't had a lay in quite some time you are making me jelly 11th!

Where ever febby is! *hugs*

I miss Feby, hope she comes back...

Aquas, how important are long term friendships for you even if seeing one another is infrequent?

How do you handle missing someone?

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Aquas, how important are long term friendships for you even if seeing one another is infrequent?

How do you handle missing someone?

I handle them with zero elegance.

Generally I would hope it's a good thing. I've just never had the attention span of keeping in contact. Most of these people are always with me anyway in my heart, I just don't express those sentiments too much.

Posted by aquasnoz

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Aquas, how important are long term friendships for you even if seeing one another is infrequent?

How do you handle missing someone?

I handle them with zero elegance.

Generally I would hope it's a good thing. I've just never had the attention span of keeping in contact. Most of these people are always with me anyway in my heart, I just don't express those sentiments too much.

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Because you're uncomfortable expressing them?

@aquanoz, same here! Just too many of their songs I love you can't pick a single favorite. Bliss is my ringtone right now. I really connected to Madness in the last year, it reminded me a bit of how me and a scorp were sometimes.

Did you know, Bellamy is a gemini? What's cooler for me is he shares the bday of my dad haha.

Aquas, how important are long term friendships for you even if seeing one another is infrequent?

How do you handle missing someone?

I still find those friendships to be just as important as ones I spend a lot of time with. As for how do I handle missing someone, if it was a person I saw often then not much at all, I wouldn't handle that too well at first. I like having a "social routine" so to speak. I would miss that person a LOT and probably complain about it. I would probably text them:

Sassafras: "IT'S TUESDAY. YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE GETTING COFFEE WITH ME."
Friend: "I knoooow, I'm sorry! But I moved!!"
Sassafras: "Then I deem you Coffee-Delivery Boy, if you want a tip you better hurry the hell up! I'M WAITING!"

If its someone that I USUALLY don't see that often, I'm cool. That's how it is! That's the routine lol.

@apc - hmm could be. I just don't know how to. Sometimes I wonder what's the point of telling someone I miss them. If you can't do anything to fix the situation then stay silent is just part of who I am I guess! That said I've many friends that I do visit or they visit me here in Sydney and it's like not a single day has passed 😄

Might be the water-influence, I don't really need to keep in communication to retain a sense of closeness but then again most Aquas seem that way to me.