Aqua man in bed..help

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Hello, I am Gemini women dating an aqua man who's driving meeeeeeee insaneeee (sexually).. after reading so much about it I know aqua man need extremely stimulation mentally. Aqua man don't let sex control them blah blah .. aqua man it's aquaman to the T he's exactly what the charts describe him as. Extremely stubborn which it's annoying. I just want to know what else can I do to get my aqua man to open up and let loose in the bedroom aside from doing all the stimulating conversation you need. Like what you guys like? Any special touches etc.. anything to spice things up. I know not to make sex so important butttttttt hello I try to compromise with him but he's just want todo shit his way whenever he feels like it.. which can drive me inasane. I have needs too. Fiy - he don't have a problem getting his d*** suck all the time but he can't go to full base at all.. any tips plss.. I was thinking on dressing up for him and surprising him to to spice things up but I am afraid he would reject me n not be in the mood smh ..
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Hello, I am Gemini women dating an aqua man who's driving meeeeeeee insaneeee (sexually).. after reading so much about it I know aqua man need extremely stimulation mentally. Aqua man don't let sex control them blah blah .. aqua man it's aquaman to the T he's exactly what the charts describe him as. Extremely stubborn which it's annoying. I just want to know what else can I do to get my aqua man to open up and let loose in the bedroom aside from doing all the stimulating conversation you need. Like what you guys like? Any special touches etc.. anything to spice things up. I know not to make sex so important butttttttt hello I try to compromise with him but he's just want todo shit his way whenever he feels like it.. which can drive me inasane. I have needs too. Fiy - he don't have a problem getting his d*** suck all the time but he can't go to full base at all.. any tips plss.. I was thinking on dressing up for him and surprising him to to spice things up but I am afraid he would reject me n not be in the mood smh ..

When we do have sex it's amazing this is why I'm going crazy I want more of it lol




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How long has it been? Me and my Aqua has no problem with me sexually ( must be his Venus in Pisces) if anything he spends hours trying to please me almost too much ...!! I'm sorry what's his Venus placement? Though I know he loves adventurous stuff too, anything but the bedroom. Also since being with him, I started to love wearing super sexy lengerie and he loves it !!!! It turns me on so it turns him on..... I can't imagine it if he hasn't got any Pisces though, it might b a night mare with him.... I suggest you stop giving him a blow Job n if he starts to question just be like, well I never had you Do me..... lol... or watch porn together , or ask him what his fantasies are
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The aqua I was last involved with had his moon in Libra, luckily for my cooch. When he wasn't in the mood and I wanted to surprise him I would flash him or hide candy in my bra, grab him through his pants. Was never unwelcome and usually reciprocated

They are in their heads a lot and want to control when you will get lucky, but once you're there and he's been teasing you all day you can rip his clothes off and dominate


Yess this right here.. exactly what mines does. He just want to be in control of everything

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Maybe he's inside of his head trying to transition things from a fwb to a real relationship status and it's throwing him off from having sex. Is he dealing with anything outside of the two you? I know when I'm stressed I'm either super sexual or don't want sex at all.

Yes he's always stress n always in his head.. I try to give him his space at all time .. when he's under major stress he shutdown .. & when everything it's fine we'll good things happens
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How long has it been? Me and my Aqua has no problem with me sexually ( must be his Venus in Pisces) if anything he spends hours trying to please me almost too much ...!! I'm sorry what's his Venus placement? Though I know he loves adventurous stuff too, anything but the bedroom. Also since being with him, I started to love wearing super sexy lengerie and he loves it !!!! It turns me on so it turns him on..... I can't imagine it if he hasn't got any Pisces though, it might b a night mare with him.... I suggest you stop giving him a blow Job n if he starts to question just be like, well I never had you Do me..... lol... or watch porn together , or ask him what his fantasies are
I have no idea what his placements are I just know his bday feb 6 .. we have this type of conversation all the time he just said to let him want it instead of me asking for it. So I stop asking for it n let things be. The blowjob part it's not always we can spend time without having to have sex but for instance if he makes a move it leads to the blowjob but than I try to take it to second base and that's where it stops .. and than outnowhere we have magical sex. I just wish he didn't make this a big deal .. we've known each other for yrsssss now we always had sex and now we trying to take things to the next level (relationship) wise and than everything stops the sexual things. I thought he wasn't insterested he just said just let things flow

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How long has it been? Me and my Aqua has no problem with me sexually ( must be his Venus in Pisces) if anything he spends hours trying to please me almost too much ...!! I'm sorry what's his Venus placement? Though I know he loves adventurous stuff too, anything but the bedroom. Also since being with him, I started to love wearing super sexy lengerie and he loves it !!!! It turns me on so it turns him on..... I can't imagine it if he hasn't got any Pisces though, it might b a night mare with him.... I suggest you stop giving him a blow Job n if he starts to question just be like, well I never had you Do me..... lol... or watch porn together , or ask him what his fantasies are
I have no idea what his placements are I just know his bday feb 6 .. we have this type of conversation all the time he just said to let him want it instead of me asking for it. So I stop asking for it n let things be. The blowjob part it's not always we can spend time without having to have sex but for instance if he makes a move it leads to the blowjob but than I try to take it to second base and that's where it stops .. and than outnowhere we have magical sex. I just wish he didn't make this a big deal .. we've known each other for yrsssss now we always had sex and now we trying to take things to the next level (relationship) wise and than everything stops the sexual things. I thought he wasn't insterested he just said just let things flow

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Hey @evxo my Aqua man bday is Feb 6 too. His moon is Capricorn. He looooves his d $ @" sucked!! Every time we have sex it's like he have to have it sucked. My Aqua loves quickies majority of the time but when we have time, the sex can last for hours. He has an excellent stamina! I think guys born in February 6 have a thing for women bowing down to them in some way. And sucking their d $ @" gives them this power that highly turns them on.

I am in the same situation with you with my Aqua where he chooses when to reward me with the d $ "@. When I want him, it's like he holds back with not giving me sex. He will come up with something as to why he can't have sec with me. He told me many months ago that he wants to always "have the sauce". Meaning, he doesn't want to lose control with me or lose power. He feel like given in to sex when I want it is giving me "the sauce". Giving me the ability to be in control over him, I guess. I

I've noticed that he likes to be in control of everything too. But what makes him lose control a little is in the bedroom. He allows me to do him ? and he loves it. He's just in control of when we do it.

I think that what you may need to do is just continue to be his best friend and let things flow naturally. What are your Aqua's placements?
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Hey @evxo my Aqua man bday is Feb 6 too. His moon is Capricorn. He looooves his d $ @" sucked!! Every time we have sex it's like he have to have it sucked. My Aqua loves quickies majority of the time but when we have time, the sex can last for hours. He has an excellent stamina! I think guys born in February 6 have a thing for women bowing down to them in some way. And sucking their d $ @" gives them this power that highly turns them on.

I am in the same situation with you with my Aqua where he chooses when to reward me with the d $ "@. When I want him, it's like he holds back with not giving me sex. He will come up with something as to why he can't have sec with me. He told me many months ago that he wants to always "have the sauce". Meaning, he doesn't want to lose control with me or lose power. He feel like given in to sex when I want it is giving me "the sauce". Giving me the ability to be in control over him, I guess. I

I've noticed that he likes to be in control of everything too. But what makes him lose control a little is in the bedroom. He allows me to do him ? and he loves it. He's just in control of when we do it.

I think that what you may need to do is just continue to be his best friend and let things flow naturally. What are your Aqua's placements?
Girl I can so relateeee! Lol smh ? Mines love his d** too .. he told me this before. Getting his thing suck it's like everything. Sex b doo good .. it drives me insane lol
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You're overthinking it
Pls explain lol ? I see you aqua as well but I heard the aqua men n women are different
Nothing wrong with him. What's the problem?
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IMAo, it's simple, if you don't enjoy giving BJ. Just stop , men can sense if u r faking it. Don't do what doesn't please you. Tell him what u like, stuff it, if a man starts to manipulate me by holding off sex, he can walk out the door lol.... what the hell so immature.. I thought when women do it it's immature but men? Seriously? Is he exclusively dating u?
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You're overthinking it
Pls explain lol ? I see you aqua as well but I heard the aqua men n women are different
Nothing wrong with him. What's the problem?

IMAo, it's simple, if you don't enjoy giving BJ. Just stop , men can sense if u r faking it. Don't do what doesn't please you. Tell him what u like, stuff it, if a man starts to manipulate me by holding off sex, he can walk out the door lol.... what the hell so immature.. I thought when women do it it's immature but men? Seriously? Is he exclusively dating u?

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WTF you quoted on the wrong post saweetz
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Posted by saweetz1988
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You're overthinking it
Pls explain lol ? I see you aqua as well but I heard the aqua men n women are different
Nothing wrong with him. What's the problem?

IMAo, it's simple, if you don't enjoy giving BJ. Just stop , men can sense if u r faking it. Don't do what doesn't please you. Tell him what u like, stuff it, if a man starts to manipulate me by holding off sex, he can walk out the door lol.... what the hell so immature.. I thought when women do it it's immature but men? Seriously? Is he exclusively dating u?


WTF you quoted on the wrong post saweetz
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I sure did lol sorry
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You're overthinking it
Pls explain lol ? I see you aqua as well but I heard the aqua men n women are different
Yes there are some differences but when it comes to attraction or what we want is pretty similar. You're thinking about how to attract him yet you're an air sign! One thing we love is banter/teasing, I don't give AF attitude.
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I love teasing !!! It's my number one weapon.. it's so exciting lol, the other night I sent the Aqua a video of my bum dancing to the song shape of u coz it's our fav song lol, man just the crazy idea out of the blue... it was fun, sent it to him, but I cudnt see him that night... so, it was a nice tease ... we actually had a conversation about this... teasing turns me on a lot. Maybe coz I have a lot of Aqua in me ....
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Maybe he's inside of his head trying to transition things from a fwb to a real relationship status and it's throwing him off from having sex. Is he dealing with anything outside of the two you? I know when I'm stressed I'm either super sexual or don't want sex at all.

Yes he's always stress n always in his head.. I try to give him his space at all time .. when he's under major stress he shutdown .. & when everything it's fine we'll good things happens

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lol he's not in his head or stressed enough to request his dick sucked.

Why are you doing the most? And for nothing? keep sucking thinking he will loosen up sis. He doesn't care about your pleasure because neither do you.
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Hey @aquanib

Are you Feb 6?? If not what's your bday?
Yes, i am.

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@aquanib

Ohhh wow!! So can you relate to the whole issue of why my Aqua likes to be in control? Why he have sex when he wants to have sex with me? Why he is so wishy-washy? One min. he'll say one thing and the next min. he says the opposite? Please explain the "why" Feb 6 Aquas are like this? Like what is the thought process behind it?
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Maybe he's inside of his head trying to transition things from a fwb to a real relationship status and it's throwing him off from having sex. Is he dealing with anything outside of the two you? I know when I'm stressed I'm either super sexual or don't want sex at all.

Yes he's always stress n always in his head.. I try to give him his space at all time .. when he's under major stress he shutdown .. & when everything it's fine we'll good things happens


lol he's not in his head or stressed enough to request his dick sucked.

Why are you doing the most? And for nothing? keep sucking thinking he will loosen up sis. He doesn't care about your pleasure because neither do you.
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God why everybody so pressed about this .. it's not that serious .. I simply asking all aqua people for advice on their sexual stuff.. since they don't let sex control them. I just want to spice things up for the hell of it. I am not doing the most but pleasing because I enjoy it, it might seem that way but it is not. I just wanted to know other ways to get around my aqua man since he always want to be in control of it all. If you can't relate to aqua man situation n how controlling they are to their sexual desires than don't comment on it without actually knowing how they actually are.

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You're overthinking it
Pls explain lol ? I see you aqua as well but I heard the aqua men n women are different
Nothing wrong with him. What's the problem?

IMAo, it's simple, if you don't enjoy giving BJ. Just stop , men can sense if u r faking it. Don't do what doesn't please you. Tell him what u like, stuff it, if a man starts to manipulate me by holding off sex, he can walk out the door lol.... what the hell so immature.. I thought when women do it it's immature but men? Seriously? Is he exclusively dating u?

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Is you aqua? No ok. Keep it moving .. nobody saying this .. just asking for advice on how to get them to fully open up
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both partners should be equally satisfied during sex/ intimacy.
Understood but aqua man aren't this way .. they treat sex as the rest of the things in their life. Not saying they don't enjoy it they simply don't make sex a big deal ..
this is not true, all depends on their venus. my old sex buddy was an aquarius and he had a scorpio moon, gem mars and pisces venus, he spent all night down there playing with me.

there are non selfish aquas out there

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Don't know his placements.. it's not he doesn't want to have sex he just simply always want to b in control of it. Whenever he wants. For instance I don't mind doing it all week as for him that's too much .. he probably does it like 3/4 in a week.
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Maybe he's inside of his head trying to transition things from a fwb to a real relationship status and it's throwing him off from having sex. Is he dealing with anything outside of the two you? I know when I'm stressed I'm either super sexual or don't want sex at all.

Yes he's always stress n always in his head.. I try to give him his space at all time .. when he's under major stress he shutdown .. & when everything it's fine we'll good things happens


lol he's not in his head or stressed enough to request his dick sucked.

Why are you doing the most? And for nothing? keep sucking thinking he will loosen up sis. He doesn't care about your pleasure because neither do you.
God why everybody so pressed about this .. it's not that serious .. I simply asking all aqua people for advice on their sexual stuff.. since they don't let sex control them. I just want to spice things up for the hell of it. I am not doing the most but pleasing because I enjoy it, it might seem that way but it is not. I just wanted to know other ways to get around my aqua man since he always want to be in control of it all. If you can't relate to aqua man situation n how controlling they are to their sexual desires than don't comment on it without actually knowing how they actually are.

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Haters always come out in full force when it comes to aqua man.
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Maybe he's inside of his head trying to transition things from a fwb to a real relationship status and it's throwing him off from having sex. Is he dealing with anything outside of the two you? I know when I'm stressed I'm either super sexual or don't want sex at all.

Yes he's always stress n always in his head.. I try to give him his space at all time .. when he's under major stress he shutdown .. & when everything it's fine we'll good things happens


lol he's not in his head or stressed enough to request his dick sucked.

Why are you doing the most? And for nothing? keep sucking thinking he will loosen up sis. He doesn't care about your pleasure because neither do you.
God why everybody so pressed about this .. it's not that serious .. I simply asking all aqua people for advice on their sexual stuff.. since they don't let sex control them. I just want to spice things up for the hell of it. I am not doing the most but pleasing because I enjoy it, it might seem that way but it is not. I just wanted to know other ways to get around my aqua man since he always want to be in control of it all. If you can't relate to aqua man situation n how controlling they are to their sexual desires than don't comment on it without actually knowing how they actually are.

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Lol feel free to keep getting used. I just don't like to see my fellow women getting played. But carry on sis.
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Maybe he's inside of his head trying to transition things from a fwb to a real relationship status and it's throwing him off from having sex. Is he dealing with anything outside of the two you? I know when I'm stressed I'm either super sexual or don't want sex at all.

Yes he's always stress n always in his head.. I try to give him his space at all time .. when he's under major stress he shutdown .. & when everything it's fine we'll good things happens


lol he's not in his head or stressed enough to request his dick sucked.

Why are you doing the most? And for nothing? keep sucking thinking he will loosen up sis. He doesn't care about your pleasure because neither do you.
God why everybody so pressed about this .. it's not that serious .. I simply asking all aqua people for advice on their sexual stuff.. since they don't let sex control them. I just want to spice things up for the hell of it. I am not doing the most but pleasing because I enjoy it, it might seem that way but it is not. I just wanted to know other ways to get around my aqua man since he always want to be in control of it all. If you can't relate to aqua man situation n how controlling they are to their sexual desires than don't comment on it without actually knowing how they actually are.


Haters always come out in full force when it comes to aqua man.
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What's to hate? I wouldn't wish this treatment on anyone. To be used when they don't want to. You don't think if you were giving a girl head and she refused to reciprocate you wouldn't feel some way about it?
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What I notice is that a lot of ppl do not

Understand the Aqua man. They don't understand how they are, how they think, how they move, etc. some of them are considered to be selfish.... like it's all about them. But once u get to know them and they allow you to get to know them, they become very loving.... still considered selfish in a lot of ways BUT you understand who they are and why they do what they do.

For example, I consider my Aqua to be the selfish Aqua. It is all about him when it comes to TIME and MONEY. At times I FEEL LIKE he does not care that he has not seen me for a couple of days when he is working hard... it's all about him making those sales. He will let me know he miss me but that's it. He does not want me to put him in a predicament where he has to chose making money over me. It's not a fairy tale kind of thing dating an Aqua man! When he has those down days, he is right with me exploring things and having fun.

So my point is that you have to get to know YOUR AQUA MAN and see what kind of TREASURE HE IS. Remember, every Aqua man does something different than the next Aqua man. They all may have some similarities but they are all different. Get to understand 'the different' that's in your Aqua Man. That's how you become his best friend by understanding him and going with the flow of it. It's like trying to keep up with him.

That's why we come to this forum when things seem wierd or odd to us in our Aqua Relationship and we don't understand it. We want answers!!! And we need the AQUARIUS men and women to help us out no matter how silly it may sound or simple it sound to you.