Aqua protectiveness I don't know what do !!! (Page 2)

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@ crabnextdoor! What does he know that he's not telling me? and what do u mean by I have hit the point? I'm trying to understand ?

So say he has been in other relationships as we know, maybe you have grown together and have reached a time where his other relationships went downhill or astray. So he is subconsciously trying to keep you away from the ex to make sure you don't do him how his other exs have done him. And the checking the windows thing maybe he hadn't came over with intention of checking the windows but saw a peeping Tom or a creep lurking around and didn't want to alarm you so he is secretly checking these things out to make sure you are safe. I think he wants y'all to be serious and he wants you to move with him if I'm being honest.

Yeah that all window checking thing is strange.... Aqua is tricky... they say one thing and act different. He says he doesn't want a relationship or a girlfriend but said I broke up with him and that we were a couple ...like what? hahaha... n yes I think maybe that's what he was doing.. perhaps he saw a creepy man or something... I hope he's not like spying my place at night to make sure I have no men lol . his ex cheated on him before too... so most likely that's why he's scared.,, but wwir what did u say ... move — in person he certainly love my affection and cuddles and lots of kisses n he almost act like he needs me ans my love . In distant I give him space n always wish u a great night on weekends. Maybe I'm giving him too much freedom and maybe he wants me to act a bit more jealous lol

Likely true, lol aqua is very tricky, because they are all for Affection in person and right over text they will tell you 'I think we need a break' he probably does hope for you to show some type of affection since he is the only one doing it! He's probably not used to getting exactly what he wants and that makes him nervous. And a lot of relationships are mainstream so nobody asks anyone out and then their is no exclusivity but y'all are dating nonetheless like what the fuck you asshole lol and he probably does need your affection and such he likely thrives off of it, he might have not even realized he was deprived of it at some point which is why he is rather protective of you he doesn't want to lose whatever jovial feeling you provide him with.

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You are so right. In person I can seee how much he truly needs me... physically affection and emotionally. .. and mentally.... that's why when I tried to end things with him he was doing whatever he can to not lose me and claim I broke up with him..... thank you again, how come u noe so much of Aqua! R u dating one? Also mine has all Pisces lol. Moon, venus, mars, Eros, psyche lol

Compy has ur Aqua got younger sister too?

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@ crabnextdoor! What does he know that he's not telling me? and what do u mean by I have hit the point? I'm trying to understand ?

So say he has been in other relationships as we know, maybe you have grown together and have reached a time where his other relationships went downhill or astray. So he is subconsciously trying to keep you away from the ex to make sure you don't do him how his other exs have done him. And the checking the windows thing maybe he hadn't came over with intention of checking the windows but saw a peeping Tom or a creep lurking around and didn't want to alarm you so he is secretly checking these things out to make sure you are safe. I think he wants y'all to be serious and he wants you to move with him if I'm being honest.

Yeah that all window checking thing is strange.... Aqua is tricky... they say one thing and act different. He says he doesn't want a relationship or a girlfriend but said I broke up with him and that we were a couple ...like what? hahaha... n yes I think maybe that's what he was doing.. perhaps he saw a creepy man or something... I hope he's not like spying my place at night to make sure I have no men lol . his ex cheated on him before too... so most likely that's why he's scared.,, but wwir what did u say ... move — in person he certainly love my affection and cuddles and lots of kisses n he almost act like he needs me ans my love . In distant I give him space n always wish u a great night on weekends. Maybe I'm giving him too much freedom and maybe he wants me to act a bit more jealous lol

Likely true, lol aqua is very tricky, because they are all for Affection in person and right over text they will tell you 'I think we need a break' he probably does hope for you to show some type of affection since he is the only one doing it! He's probably not used to getting exactly what he wants and that makes him nervous. And a lot of relationships are mainstream so nobody asks anyone out and then their is no exclusivity but y'all are dating nonetheless like what the fuck you asshole lol and he probably does need your affection and such he likely thrives off of it, he might have not even realized he was deprived of it at some point which is why he is rather protective of you he doesn't want to lose whatever jovial feeling you provide him with.

You are so right. In person I can seee how much he truly needs me... physically affection and emotionally. .. and mentally.... that's why when I tried to end things with him he was doing whatever he can to not lose me and claim I broke up with him..... thank you again, how come u noe so much of Aqua! R u dating one? Also mine has all Pisces lol. Moon, venus, mars, Eros, psyche lol

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Lol that must be so awesome he is probably such a sweetie with all that Pisces and I have an aqua I'm talking to at the moment but he's a sag. moon and mars, cap. mercury Venus Saturn Neptune and Uranus with a cancer in Jupiter and a Scorpio Pluto. So I try to become a expert in whatever sign I'm dating.

I hope you get out worked out he seems delicate and like he needs you more than he's willing to let you know!

My Aqua has three younger sisters. He is the only male and the oldest. He feels as it is his duty to watch over them, even though they are all married. And over his parents too.

About control, he wants total control, but will leave you lots of space for decisions. I am the organizer, he does almost nothing 🙂

In time, Pisces mooners tend to become quite needy, but I love it because I am a Libra after all, so tendind to my SO is what I know to do the best 🙂

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@ crabnextdoor! What does he know that he's not telling me? and what do u mean by I have hit the point? I'm trying to understand ?

So say he has been in other relationships as we know, maybe you have grown together and have reached a time where his other relationships went downhill or astray. So he is subconsciously trying to keep you away from the ex to make sure you don't do him how his other exs have done him. And the checking the windows thing maybe he hadn't came over with intention of checking the windows but saw a peeping Tom or a creep lurking around and didn't want to alarm you so he is secretly checking these things out to make sure you are safe. I think he wants y'all to be serious and he wants you to move with him if I'm being honest.

Yeah that all window checking thing is strange.... Aqua is tricky... they say one thing and act different. He says he doesn't want a relationship or a girlfriend but said I broke up with him and that we were a couple ...like what? hahaha... n yes I think maybe that's what he was doing.. perhaps he saw a creepy man or something... I hope he's not like spying my place at night to make sure I have no men lol . his ex cheated on him before too... so most likely that's why he's scared.,, but wwir what did u say ... move — in person he certainly love my affection and cuddles and lots of kisses n he almost act like he needs me ans my love . In distant I give him space n always wish u a great night on weekends. Maybe I'm giving him too much freedom and maybe he wants me to act a bit more jealous lol

Likely true, lol aqua is very tricky, because they are all for Affection in person and right over text they will tell you 'I think we need a break' he probably does hope for you to show some type of affection since he is the only one doing it! He's probably not used to getting exactly what he wants and that makes him nervous. And a lot of relationships are mainstream so nobody asks anyone out and then their is no exclusivity but y'all are dating nonetheless like what the fuck you asshole lol and he probably does need your affection and such he likely thrives off of it, he might have not even realized he was deprived of it at some point which is why he is rather protective of you he doesn't want to lose whatever jovial feeling you provide him with.

You are so right. In person I can seee how much he truly needs me... physically affection and emotionally. .. and mentally.... that's why when I tried to end things with him he was doing whatever he can to not lose me and claim I broke up with him..... thank you again, how come u noe so much of Aqua! R u dating one? Also mine has all Pisces lol. Moon, venus, mars, Eros, psyche lol

Lol that must be so awesome he is probably such a sweetie with all that Pisces and I have an aqua I'm talking to at the moment but he's a sag. moon and mars, cap. mercury Venus Saturn Neptune and Uranus with a cancer in Jupiter and a Scorpio Pluto. So I try to become a expert in whatever sign I'm dating.

I hope you get out worked out he seems delicate and like he needs you more than he's willing to let you know!

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Yes he's very sweet... 😉 esp in person. He's willing to listen actually he demands we communicate and sort things out.... I love being with him. We r like two love birds when we r spending time together. So much cuddling and very affectionate.. it's amazing but when he's not with me it's hard for him to express to me if I say something wrong or whatever coz he's very very sensitive and I become more cool and collected when I'm not with him u noe what I mean..... so when we r not togheee we might not understand each other as well. In person we have no problem at all.... he's a very very sensitive soul which makes him very protective to those he truly cares about.... where I'm just very stubborn ... haha and don't like to really be told what to do much.. lol

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@ crabnextdoor! What does he know that he's not telling me? and what do u mean by I have hit the point? I'm trying to understand ?

So say he has been in other relationships as we know, maybe you have grown together and have reached a time where his other relationships went downhill or astray. So he is subconsciously trying to keep you away from the ex to make sure you don't do him how his other exs have done him. And the checking the windows thing maybe he hadn't came over with intention of checking the windows but saw a peeping Tom or a creep lurking around and didn't want to alarm you so he is secretly checking these things out to make sure you are safe. I think he wants y'all to be serious and he wants you to move with him if I'm being honest.

Yeah that all window checking thing is strange.... Aqua is tricky... they say one thing and act different. He says he doesn't want a relationship or a girlfriend but said I broke up with him and that we were a couple ...like what? hahaha... n yes I think maybe that's what he was doing.. perhaps he saw a creepy man or something... I hope he's not like spying my place at night to make sure I have no men lol . his ex cheated on him before too... so most likely that's why he's scared.,, but wwir what did u say ... move — in person he certainly love my affection and cuddles and lots of kisses n he almost act like he needs me ans my love . In distant I give him space n always wish u a great night on weekends. Maybe I'm giving him too much freedom and maybe he wants me to act a bit more jealous lol

Likely true, lol aqua is very tricky, because they are all for Affection in person and right over text they will tell you 'I think we need a break' he probably does hope for you to show some type of affection since he is the only one doing it! He's probably not used to getting exactly what he wants and that makes him nervous. And a lot of relationships are mainstream so nobody asks anyone out and then their is no exclusivity but y'all are dating nonetheless like what the fuck you asshole lol and he probably does need your affection and such he likely thrives off of it, he might have not even realized he was deprived of it at some point which is why he is rather protective of you he doesn't want to lose whatever jovial feeling you provide him with.

You are so right. In person I can seee how much he truly needs me... physically affection and emotionally. .. and mentally.... that's why when I tried to end things with him he was doing whatever he can to not lose me and claim I broke up with him..... thank you again, how come u noe so much of Aqua! R u dating one? Also mine has all Pisces lol. Moon, venus, mars, Eros, psyche lol

Lol that must be so awesome he is probably such a sweetie with all that Pisces and I have an aqua I'm talking to at the moment but he's a sag. moon and mars, cap. mercury Venus Saturn Neptune and Uranus with a cancer in Jupiter and a Scorpio Pluto. So I try to become a expert in whatever sign I'm dating.

I hope you get out worked out he seems delicate and like he needs you more than he's willing to let you know!

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Your man hasn't got any water..😢 I don't think I can deal with Aqua without water though honestly. I had Aqua man in the dating app a long time ago and the first thing he asked me was my sexy pictures which I refused n blocked him straight away lol. Mine is more of a fish to b honest

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My Aqua has three younger sisters. He is the only male and the oldest. He feels as it is his duty to watch over them, even though they are all married. And over his parents too.

About control, he wants total control, but will leave you lots of space for decisions. I am the organizer, he does almost nothing 🙂

In time, Pisces mooners tend to become quite needy, but I love it because I am a Libra after all, so tendind to my SO is what I know to do the best 🙂

Yours has Pisces mooners too? Haha I know what you mean I am seeing signs of his neediness but he's hiding it well he knows that needy men push me away lol so he's trying to keep his cards right ..atleast for the time being. He's trusting me more n more though coz I think after all the bs I'm still around n havnt slept with any man yet but just him

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@ crabnextdoor! What does he know that he's not telling me? and what do u mean by I have hit the point? I'm trying to understand ?

So say he has been in other relationships as we know, maybe you have grown together and have reached a time where his other relationships went downhill or astray. So he is subconsciously trying to keep you away from the ex to make sure you don't do him how his other exs have done him. And the checking the windows thing maybe he hadn't came over with intention of checking the windows but saw a peeping Tom or a creep lurking around and didn't want to alarm you so he is secretly checking these things out to make sure you are safe. I think he wants y'all to be serious and he wants you to move with him if I'm being honest.

Yeah that all window checking thing is strange.... Aqua is tricky... they say one thing and act different. He says he doesn't want a relationship or a girlfriend but said I broke up with him and that we were a couple ...like what? hahaha... n yes I think maybe that's what he was doing.. perhaps he saw a creepy man or something... I hope he's not like spying my place at night to make sure I have no men lol . his ex cheated on him before too... so most likely that's why he's scared.,, but wwir what did u say ... move — in person he certainly love my affection and cuddles and lots of kisses n he almost act like he needs me ans my love . In distant I give him space n always wish u a great night on weekends. Maybe I'm giving him too much freedom and maybe he wants me to act a bit more jealous lol

Likely true, lol aqua is very tricky, because they are all for Affection in person and right over text they will tell you 'I think we need a break' he probably does hope for you to show some type of affection since he is the only one doing it! He's probably not used to getting exactly what he wants and that makes him nervous. And a lot of relationships are mainstream so nobody asks anyone out and then their is no exclusivity but y'all are dating nonetheless like what the fuck you asshole lol and he probably does need your affection and such he likely thrives off of it, he might have not even realized he was deprived of it at some point which is why he is rather protective of you he doesn't want to lose whatever jovial feeling you provide him with.

You are so right. In person I can seee how much he truly needs me... physically affection and emotionally. .. and mentally.... that's why when I tried to end things with him he was doing whatever he can to not lose me and claim I broke up with him..... thank you again, how come u noe so much of Aqua! R u dating one? Also mine has all Pisces lol. Moon, venus, mars, Eros, psyche lol

Lol that must be so awesome he is probably such a sweetie with all that Pisces and I have an aqua I'm talking to at the moment but he's a sag. moon and mars, cap. mercury Venus Saturn Neptune and Uranus with a cancer in Jupiter and a Scorpio Pluto. So I try to become a expert in whatever sign I'm dating.

I hope you get out worked out he seems delicate and like he needs you more than he's willing to let you know!

Your man hasn't got any water..😢 I don't think I can deal with Aqua without water though honestly. I had Aqua man in the dating app a long time ago and the first thing he asked me was my sexy pictures which I refused n blocked him straight away lol. Mine is more of a fish to b honest

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rude lol

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@ crabnextdoor! What does he know that he's not telling me? and what do u mean by I have hit the point? I'm trying to understand ?

So say he has been in other relationships as we know, maybe you have grown together and have reached a time where his other relationships went downhill or astray. So he is subconsciously trying to keep you away from the ex to make sure you don't do him how his other exs have done him. And the checking the windows thing maybe he hadn't came over with intention of checking the windows but saw a peeping Tom or a creep lurking around and didn't want to alarm you so he is secretly checking these things out to make sure you are safe. I think he wants y'all to be serious and he wants you to move with him if I'm being honest.

Yeah that all window checking thing is strange.... Aqua is tricky... they say one thing and act different. He says he doesn't want a relationship or a girlfriend but said I broke up with him and that we were a couple ...like what? hahaha... n yes I think maybe that's what he was doing.. perhaps he saw a creepy man or something... I hope he's not like spying my place at night to make sure I have no men lol . his ex cheated on him before too... so most likely that's why he's scared.,, but wwir what did u say ... move — in person he certainly love my affection and cuddles and lots of kisses n he almost act like he needs me ans my love . In distant I give him space n always wish u a great night on weekends. Maybe I'm giving him too much freedom and maybe he wants me to act a bit more jealous lol

Likely true, lol aqua is very tricky, because they are all for Affection in person and right over text they will tell you 'I think we need a break' he probably does hope for you to show some type of affection since he is the only one doing it! He's probably not used to getting exactly what he wants and that makes him nervous. And a lot of relationships are mainstream so nobody asks anyone out and then their is no exclusivity but y'all are dating nonetheless like what the fuck you asshole lol and he probably does need your affection and such he likely thrives off of it, he might have not even realized he was deprived of it at some point which is why he is rather protective of you he doesn't want to lose whatever jovial feeling you provide him with.

You are so right. In person I can seee how much he truly needs me... physically affection and emotionally. .. and mentally.... that's why when I tried to end things with him he was doing whatever he can to not lose me and claim I broke up with him..... thank you again, how come u noe so much of Aqua! R u dating one? Also mine has all Pisces lol. Moon, venus, mars, Eros, psyche lol

Lol that must be so awesome he is probably such a sweetie with all that Pisces and I have an aqua I'm talking to at the moment but he's a sag. moon and mars, cap. mercury Venus Saturn Neptune and Uranus with a cancer in Jupiter and a Scorpio Pluto. So I try to become a expert in whatever sign I'm dating.

I hope you get out worked out he seems delicate and like he needs you more than he's willing to let you know!

Your man hasn't got any water..😢 I don't think I can deal with Aqua without water though honestly. I had Aqua man in the dating app a long time ago and the first thing he asked me was my sexy pictures which I refused n blocked him straight away lol. Mine is more of a fish to b honest

rude lol

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LoL sorry mate I don't do sexy photo texting . IMAo

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...ok so lately I figured he really has a problem with me talking to my ex ( my sons father. Sag sun venus in Scorpio ) here are some facts ! 1) he says my ex isn't healthy or good for me n my son and the convo keeps coming up. He says I shouldn't talk to him anymore .2) my ex hasn't come around to visit my son but he lives 10 mins away. We had a BiG history and my Aqua knows all about it esp the parts where he was my sex addition for 3 years. Our sexual chemistry between me n my sag r out of this world n we both were very addicted to each other. 4) I resassdurr my Aqua many times that I have no more feelings for him and we r just friends... well I do share info ( life information, babies related, n sometimes sexy comments, to the sag, but I no longer seee him or have sex with him... 5) lately the sag has been making more appearance in my life and make sure I know he is now single again . I kkkw he still want me esp sexually in a heart beat. But I only keep our contacts casual coz I do want him to help me financially at some stage. We r just friends now. 6) my Aqua never seem to believe me that it's completely over and tells me last time he saw me that I shudnt tell me ex anything and I should no longer talk to him.... so now I don't know what to do!!!!!!!! I know the Aqua is super super protective he's becoming more protective of me and I love that but I am stubborn n I do wanna talk to people when I want to.... at the same time I think he doesn't like it and is hurt about it ... and I am very insensitive to his feelings at times..... so am I supposed to not talk to the father of my child—? He hasn't helped out in anyway so I get why the Aqua thinks there's no reason why i shud maintain contacts but honestly he can help me financially later I am hoping anyway... so thoughts?

I like how you omitted this whole history in your earlier threads, which were dealing with your aqua man's insecurity, your fears of him cheating.....aqua man this, aqua man that.....

Is it any wonder he was looking around when he isn't 100% sure of you?

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Yes prob. We r human we look around when we not sure. we r very honest about that to each other though. Well I hope he is lol. I don't know how sure he is of me now . Aqua will never be 1000" percents sure anyway lol... ? But I know he is more sure than he was in the beginning. well I think me not sleeping with any other man but him makes him more sure though so much damage like I found out something bout him lying bout some stuff n I tell u I wanted to do a massive revenge but sleep with anyone lol.. but I didn't... he knows all these but I still kept being loyal ( don't ask me why) .. it's my stubborn Taurus loyal most likely... I think Aqua have tests too.. all human have tests that they do to their potential interest .. somehow I may have passed them coz he's still around some what lol

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@ crabnextdoor! What does he know that he's not telling me? and what do u mean by I have hit the point? I'm trying to understand ?

So say he has been in other relationships as we know, maybe you have grown together and have reached a time where his other relationships went downhill or astray. So he is subconsciously trying to keep you away from the ex to make sure you don't do him how his other exs have done him. And the checking the windows thing maybe he hadn't came over with intention of checking the windows but saw a peeping Tom or a creep lurking around and didn't want to alarm you so he is secretly checking these things out to make sure you are safe. I think he wants y'all to be serious and he wants you to move with him if I'm being honest.

Yeah that all window checking thing is strange.... Aqua is tricky... they say one thing and act different. He says he doesn't want a relationship or a girlfriend but said I broke up with him and that we were a couple ...like what? hahaha... n yes I think maybe that's what he was doing.. perhaps he saw a creepy man or something... I hope he's not like spying my place at night to make sure I have no men lol . his ex cheated on him before too... so most likely that's why he's scared.,, but wwir what did u say ... move — in person he certainly love my affection and cuddles and lots of kisses n he almost act like he needs me ans my love . In distant I give him space n always wish u a great night on weekends. Maybe I'm giving him too much freedom and maybe he wants me to act a bit more jealous lol

Likely true, lol aqua is very tricky, because they are all for Affection in person and right over text they will tell you 'I think we need a break' he probably does hope for you to show some type of affection since he is the only one doing it! He's probably not used to getting exactly what he wants and that makes him nervous. And a lot of relationships are mainstream so nobody asks anyone out and then their is no exclusivity but y'all are dating nonetheless like what the fuck you asshole lol and he probably does need your affection and such he likely thrives off of it, he might have not even realized he was deprived of it at some point which is why he is rather protective of you he doesn't want to lose whatever jovial feeling you provide him with.

You are so right. In person I can seee how much he truly needs me... physically affection and emotionally. .. and mentally.... that's why when I tried to end things with him he was doing whatever he can to not lose me and claim I broke up with him..... thank you again, how come u noe so much of Aqua! R u dating one? Also mine has all Pisces lol. Moon, venus, mars, Eros, psyche lol

Lol that must be so awesome he is probably such a sweetie with all that Pisces and I have an aqua I'm talking to at the moment but he's a sag. moon and mars, cap. mercury Venus Saturn Neptune and Uranus with a cancer in Jupiter and a Scorpio Pluto. So I try to become a expert in whatever sign I'm dating.

I hope you get out worked out he seems delicate and like he needs you more than he's willing to let you know!

Your man hasn't got any water..😢 I don't think I can deal with Aqua without water though honestly. I had Aqua man in the dating app a long time ago and the first thing he asked me was my sexy pictures which I refused n blocked him straight away lol. Mine is more of a fish to b honest

rude lol

LoL sorry mate I don't do sexy photo texting . IMAo

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You know even when I was on a holiday and the Aqua asked me for one sexy photo coz he was so stressed out and I refused .. Lol he got mad at me for a few days IMAo... he gets his presents here n there... 😉 but if it's strangers over the Internet then no wayyyyyyyy lol...

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@ crabnextdoor! What does he know that he's not telling me? and what do u mean by I have hit the point? I'm trying to understand ?

So say he has been in other relationships as we know, maybe you have grown together and have reached a time where his other relationships went downhill or astray. So he is subconsciously trying to keep you away from the ex to make sure you don't do him how his other exs have done him. And the checking the windows thing maybe he hadn't came over with intention of checking the windows but saw a peeping Tom or a creep lurking around and didn't want to alarm you so he is secretly checking these things out to make sure you are safe. I think he wants y'all to be serious and he wants you to move with him if I'm being honest.

Yeah that all window checking thing is strange.... Aqua is tricky... they say one thing and act different. He says he doesn't want a relationship or a girlfriend but said I broke up with him and that we were a couple ...like what? hahaha... n yes I think maybe that's what he was doing.. perhaps he saw a creepy man or something... I hope he's not like spying my place at night to make sure I have no men lol . his ex cheated on him before too... so most likely that's why he's scared.,, but wwir what did u say ... move — in person he certainly love my affection and cuddles and lots of kisses n he almost act like he needs me ans my love . In distant I give him space n always wish u a great night on weekends. Maybe I'm giving him too much freedom and maybe he wants me to act a bit more jealous lol

Likely true, lol aqua is very tricky, because they are all for Affection in person and right over text they will tell you 'I think we need a break' he probably does hope for you to show some type of affection since he is the only one doing it! He's probably not used to getting exactly what he wants and that makes him nervous. And a lot of relationships are mainstream so nobody asks anyone out and then their is no exclusivity but y'all are dating nonetheless like what the fuck you asshole lol and he probably does need your affection and such he likely thrives off of it, he might have not even realized he was deprived of it at some point which is why he is rather protective of you he doesn't want to lose whatever jovial feeling you provide him with.

You are so right. In person I can seee how much he truly needs me... physically affection and emotionally. .. and mentally.... that's why when I tried to end things with him he was doing whatever he can to not lose me and claim I broke up with him..... thank you again, how come u noe so much of Aqua! R u dating one? Also mine has all Pisces lol. Moon, venus, mars, Eros, psyche lol

Lol that must be so awesome he is probably such a sweetie with all that Pisces and I have an aqua I'm talking to at the moment but he's a sag. moon and mars, cap. mercury Venus Saturn Neptune and Uranus with a cancer in Jupiter and a Scorpio Pluto. So I try to become a expert in whatever sign I'm dating.

I hope you get out worked out he seems delicate and like he needs you more than he's willing to let you know!

Your man hasn't got any water..😢 I don't think I can deal with Aqua without water though honestly. I had Aqua man in the dating app a long time ago and the first thing he asked me was my sexy pictures which I refused n blocked him straight away lol. Mine is more of a fish to b honest

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Mine is a straight cap man lol but he's nice enough not what I'm used to I dated a aqua a few years back with a lot of aqua and cap and they sucked so I was a little sceptical about this one but he hasn't asked me for any nudes yet lol but it's probably because he doesn't have my number since we live down the street from each other! So you literally give me optimism for mines.

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Well, it doesn't seem like your aqua is being protective even though he's trying to portray himself as being protective and looking out for you but he's actually being possessive in a way for a good cause though and your giving your aqua a valid reason to act that way and doubt you just by reading your reading your post. And on top of that most Aquarian men are already insecure and possessive from the get go.You should in no way be talking to your son's father inappropriately like that behind your aqua's back or even in front of him even if it was earlier in the relationship. In my opinion he should've dropped you a long time ago. That's disrespectful and immature. You should be ashamed of yourself. Just ask yourself this one question. Are you really into your Aqua and are you really that satisfied with your man at the present moment? If your not let him go don't waste his time. Who in the hell on earth talks about their past sex experiences with their baby's daddy WITH their MAN? If your trying to get a rise or reaction out of him to make him jealous or to get some sort of an ego boost. Stop it. Grow up.

You obviously didn't read all my posts. I can't be bother responding. Lol. Have a good day. 🙂

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake
...you tend to play a lot of manipulative games with the Aquarius...this is gonna push him away

I'm not trying to play games.... but maybe I am doing it subconsciously.

I don't see any possibility that your relationship with Aqua will work out and you'll grow old together. Too much drama and craziness.

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Thanks for ur concern. 🙂

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake
...you tend to play a lot of manipulative games with the Aquarius...this is gonna push him away

I'm not trying to play games.... but maybe I am doing it subconsciously.

I don't see any possibility that your relationship with Aqua will work out and you'll grow old together. Too much drama and craziness.

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Ps. I know Aqua likes a bit of drama and craziness. I know that for a fact lol. i have a few close Aqua girlfriends

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Posted by iFemme

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake
...you tend to play a lot of manipulative games with the Aquarius...this is gonna push him away

I'm not trying to play games.... but maybe I am doing it subconsciously.

I don't see any possibility that your relationship with Aqua will work out and you'll grow old together. Too much drama and craziness.

Ps. I know Aqua likes a bit of drama and craziness. I know that for a fact lol. i have a few close Aqua girlfriends

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Ummm no. Some may depending on what's in the rest of their charts, but most of the Aquas I know don't have time to bother with the crazy & drama. I actually like you @saweetz so I'll be honest with you. I agree with @bittercupcake. I feel like you want this Aqua so bad you tried to find things that will make him respond with emotion... since he wasn't giving to you the positive emotion and attention in the beginning... you found a way to incite the negative attention. Hey any attention is attention right? Wrong, because yes he obviously cares for you, but once his brain gets to churning and he reflects back on all the events that has recently happened, he will cut you off because he may feel manipulated. He may cut you off in the worst way by not responding to you or just disappear as if he never existed and that'll hurt you deeply. If you don't want that to happen please sit down and have an honest discussion with him about how you feel about him and where you want this relationship to lead. Let him know that you're not interested in your ex, but you must speak to him for the sake of your children/ child. Also show him with your actions that he's important to you because Aquas are about actions versus words. I know you've had these talks with him before and shown him already, but it was negated when you went and bragged about your ex. If you don't make a valiant effort you'll lose him.

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by iFemme

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake
...you tend to play a lot of manipulative games with the Aquarius...this is gonna push him away

I'm not trying to play games.... but maybe I am doing it subconsciously.

I don't see any possibility that your relationship with Aqua will work out and you'll grow old together. Too much drama and craziness.

Ps. I know Aqua likes a bit of drama and craziness. I know that for a fact lol. i have a few close Aqua girlfriends

Ummm no. Some may depending on what's in the rest of their charts, but most of the Aquas I know don't have time to bother with the crazy & drama. I actually like you @saweetz so I'll be honest with you. I agree with @bittercupcake. I feel like you want this Aqua so bad you tried to find things that will make him respond with emotion... since he wasn't giving to you the positive emotion and attention in the beginning... you found a way to incite the negative attention. Hey any attention is attention right? Wrong, because yes he obviously cares for you, but once his brain gets to churning and he reflects back on all the events that has recently happened, he will cut you off because he may feel manipulated. He may cut you off in the worst way by not responding to you or just disappear as if he never existed and that'll hurt you deeply. If you don't want that to happen please sit down and have an honest discussion with him about how you feel about him and where you want this relationship to lead. Let him know that you're not interested in your ex, but you must speak to him for the sake of your children/ child. Also show him with your actions that he's important to you because Aquas are about actions versus words. I know you've had these talks with him before and shown him already, but it was negated when you went and bragged about your ex. If you don't make a valiant effort you'll lose him.

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thanks sweetie for your comment 🙂 and reply ! i like you too...



Ok , i need to be clear i have not BRAgged about my ex to him for a very very long time

I keep reassuring him that its totally just child support stuff..and even that he thinks i shouldn't talk to my ex even its about child support

anyhow, i will mention to the aqua next time i see him that I will no longer talk to my ex and i will let the law deal with all of it. Coz i don't think its worth my time.. ( i'm sure he will like that one ) unless my ex wants to come in the picture and help out my baby then thats another scenario

and yes 2) i do agree with butter cake too. i didn't realise it was very subconcious what i was doing.

me and aqua always have the deepest and the most meaningful conversations and we DIG DEEp into reasons, issues, [sychology and humans mind lol

he knows its not to be a game on purpose/.. he thinks its slightly..

now we no longer play that bullcrap.

I will communicate with him properly about what i need and want from him

which is a secure and a committed partnership..

and if he can't give me that... i might have to bail...

anyway, he's also confusing and giving me mixed signals too

he says he doesn't want a girlfriend yet told me when it tried to brake it off that i broke up with him and that we were a couple.. hahaha

also i feel like everytime i show him consistency n calling him babes... his aqua comes in and pull away a little and needing his freedom.. i mean never disappear more than a day but i can sense it

but overtime i feel like, ok he's not ready to give me what i want..or need n i try to have my space

his pisces moon will come in and doesn't want to let me go

SO I am going to be clear about all of this next time i see him.. because i think its dragged on for too long now....

at the end of the day, we have great and amazing connection..🙂 i love him as a friend and as a lover... if we don't work out as a couple, we will always be amazing friends so thats all it matters right 😄

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Posted by Wineaux15

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by iFemme

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake
...you tend to play a lot of manipulative games with the Aquarius...this is gonna push him away

I'm not trying to play games.... but maybe I am doing it subconsciously.

I don't see any possibility that your relationship with Aqua will work out and you'll grow old together. Too much drama and craziness.

Ps. I know Aqua likes a bit of drama and craziness. I know that for a fact lol. i have a few close Aqua girlfriends

Ummm no. Some may depending on what's in the rest of their charts, but most of the Aquas I know don't have time to bother with the crazy & drama. I actually like you @saweetz so I'll be honest with you. I agree with @bittercupcake. I feel like you want this Aqua so bad you tried to find things that will make him respond with emotion... since he wasn't giving to you the positive emotion and attention in the beginning... you found a way to incite the negative attention. Hey any attention is attention right? Wrong, because yes he obviously cares for you, but once his brain gets to churning and he reflects back on all the events that has recently happened, he will cut you off because he may feel manipulated. He may cut you off in the worst way by not responding to you or just disappear as if he never existed and that'll hurt you deeply. If you don't want that to happen please sit down and have an honest discussion with him about how you feel about him and where you want this relationship to lead. Let him know that you're not interested in your ex, but you must speak to him for the sake of your children/ child. Also show him with your actions that he's important to you because Aquas are about actions versus words. I know you've had these talks with him before and shown him already, but it was negated when you went and bragged about your ex. If you don't make a valiant effort you'll lose him.

I'm curious to see OPs placements... and his... because she plays way too many manipulative games with her Aquarius... and she's always indecisive about him... we're not together it's over... to .... we were together and were talking ... ?

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hehe ok my placements

Sun- Taurus -

Moon - Aquarius

Mars- Aquarius

Venus - Gem

Mercury- Aquarius

Eros- Pisces

Psyche- scorpio



His ( he's pretty much a fish lol )

Sun- Aqua

Moon- Pisces

Venus - Pisces

Mars- Pisces

Mercury- not sure lol

Eros- Pisces

Pysche - Pisces



I don't know what else i need? i'm new to the whole charts things

Thank you for your help n your feedback

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Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by Wineaux15

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by iFemme

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake
...you tend to play a lot of manipulative games with the Aquarius...this is gonna push him away

I'm not trying to play games.... but maybe I am doing it subconsciously.

I don't see any possibility that your relationship with Aqua will work out and you'll grow old together. Too much drama and craziness.

Ps. I know Aqua likes a bit of drama and craziness. I know that for a fact lol. i have a few close Aqua girlfriends

Ummm no. Some may depending on what's in the rest of their charts, but most of the Aquas I know don't have time to bother with the crazy & drama. I actually like you @saweetz so I'll be honest with you. I agree with @bittercupcake. I feel like you want this Aqua so bad you tried to find things that will make him respond with emotion... since he wasn't giving to you the positive emotion and attention in the beginning... you found a way to incite the negative attention. Hey any attention is attention right? Wrong, because yes he obviously cares for you, but once his brain gets to churning and he reflects back on all the events that has recently happened, he will cut you off because he may feel manipulated. He may cut you off in the worst way by not responding to you or just disappear as if he never existed and that'll hurt you deeply. If you don't want that to happen please sit down and have an honest discussion with him about how you feel about him and where you want this relationship to lead. Let him know that you're not interested in your ex, but you must speak to him for the sake of your children/ child. Also show him with your actions that he's important to you because Aquas are about actions versus words. I know you've had these talks with him before and shown him already, but it was negated when you went and bragged about your ex. If you don't make a valiant effort you'll lose him.

I'm curious to see OPs placements... and his... because she plays way too many manipulative games with her Aquarius... and she's always indecisive about him... we're not together it's over... to .... we were together and were talking ... ?

hehe ok my placements

Sun- Taurus -

Moon - Aquarius

Mars- Aquarius

Venus - Gem

Mercury- Aquarius

Eros- Pisces

Psyche- scorpio



His ( he's pretty much a fish lol )

Sun- Aqua

Moon- Pisces

Venus - Pisces

Mars- Pisces

Mercury- not sure lol

Eros- Pisces

Pysche - Pisces



I don't know what else i need? i'm new to the whole charts things

Thank you for your help n your feedback

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he is a fish in aqua's body lol.

his sun, venus and mars are the same as me.

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Koniuchaa
For some reason, you give off troll vibes

What's troll vibes lol

I think you are a troll

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Do trolls like to type much?

I would be bored and tired by now.

Don't you think?

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by Wineaux15

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by iFemme

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake
...you tend to play a lot of manipulative games with the Aquarius...this is gonna push him away

I'm not trying to play games.... but maybe I am doing it subconsciously.

I don't see any possibility that your relationship with Aqua will work out and you'll grow old together. Too much drama and craziness.

Ps. I know Aqua likes a bit of drama and craziness. I know that for a fact lol. i have a few close Aqua girlfriends

Ummm no. Some may depending on what's in the rest of their charts, but most of the Aquas I know don't have time to bother with the crazy & drama. I actually like you @saweetz so I'll be honest with you. I agree with @bittercupcake. I feel like you want this Aqua so bad you tried to find things that will make him respond with emotion... since he wasn't giving to you the positive emotion and attention in the beginning... you found a way to incite the negative attention. Hey any attention is attention right? Wrong, because yes he obviously cares for you, but once his brain gets to churning and he reflects back on all the events that has recently happened, he will cut you off because he may feel manipulated. He may cut you off in the worst way by not responding to you or just disappear as if he never existed and that'll hurt you deeply. If you don't want that to happen please sit down and have an honest discussion with him about how you feel about him and where you want this relationship to lead. Let him know that you're not interested in your ex, but you must speak to him for the sake of your children/ child. Also show him with your actions that he's important to you because Aquas are about actions versus words. I know you've had these talks with him before and shown him already, but it was negated when you went and bragged about your ex. If you don't make a valiant effort you'll lose him.

I'm curious to see OPs placements... and his... because she plays way too many manipulative games with her Aquarius... and she's always indecisive about him... we're not together it's over... to .... we were together and were talking ... ?

hehe ok my placements

Sun- Taurus -

Moon - Aquarius

Mars- Aquarius

Venus - Gem

Mercury- Aquarius

Eros- Pisces

Psyche- scorpio



His ( he's pretty much a fish lol )

Sun- Aqua

Moon- Pisces

Venus - Pisces

Mars- Pisces

Mercury- not sure lol

Eros- Pisces

Pysche - Pisces



I don't know what else i need? i'm new to the whole charts things

Thank you for your help n your feedback

he is a fish in aqua's body lol.

his sun, venus and mars are the same as me.

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Yes he is an aquarium lol... I told him before that hes more Pisces though he's very determinant and really want to be an Aqua. I think he tries to b Aqua but deep down he's a very sensitive fishy

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by Wineaux15

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by iFemme

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake
...you tend to play a lot of manipulative games with the Aquarius...this is gonna push him away

I'm not trying to play games.... but maybe I am doing it subconsciously.

I don't see any possibility that your relationship with Aqua will work out and you'll grow old together. Too much drama and craziness.

Ps. I know Aqua likes a bit of drama and craziness. I know that for a fact lol. i have a few close Aqua girlfriends

Ummm no. Some may depending on what's in the rest of their charts, but most of the Aquas I know don't have time to bother with the crazy & drama. I actually like you @saweetz so I'll be honest with you. I agree with @bittercupcake. I feel like you want this Aqua so bad you tried to find things that will make him respond with emotion... since he wasn't giving to you the positive emotion and attention in the beginning... you found a way to incite the negative attention. Hey any attention is attention right? Wrong, because yes he obviously cares for you, but once his brain gets to churning and he reflects back on all the events that has recently happened, he will cut you off because he may feel manipulated. He may cut you off in the worst way by not responding to you or just disappear as if he never existed and that'll hurt you deeply. If you don't want that to happen please sit down and have an honest discussion with him about how you feel about him and where you want this relationship to lead. Let him know that you're not interested in your ex, but you must speak to him for the sake of your children/ child. Also show him with your actions that he's important to you because Aquas are about actions versus words. I know you've had these talks with him before and shown him already, but it was negated when you went and bragged about your ex. If you don't make a valiant effort you'll lose him.

I'm curious to see OPs placements... and his... because she plays way too many manipulative games with her Aquarius... and she's always indecisive about him... we're not together it's over... to .... we were together and were talking ... ?

hehe ok my placements

Sun- Taurus -

Moon - Aquarius

Mars- Aquarius

Venus - Gem

Mercury- Aquarius

Eros- Pisces

Psyche- scorpio



His ( he's pretty much a fish lol )

Sun- Aqua

Moon- Pisces

Venus - Pisces

Mars- Pisces

Mercury- not sure lol

Eros- Pisces

Pysche - Pisces



I don't know what else i need? i'm new to the whole charts things

Thank you for your help n your feedback

Hmm... what's his and yours Pluto..?

For an airy Taurus ... you play a lot of manupulatice tactics... he has a lot of Pisces so.. that will make him very wishy washy

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I do believe i Need to be more of a Taurus when when distant..🙂 in person we r amazing coz I'm very much in touch with my Taurus softy side n he loves that( Pisces energy ) so when distant I will have to shush my Aqua a bit....🙂 things r good at the moment haha

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Koniuchaa

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Koniuchaa
For some reason, you give off troll vibes

What's troll vibes lol

I think you are a troll

Do trolls like to type much?

I would be bored and tired by now.

Don't you think?

They do yes. It's a classic sign

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Lol. enjoy trolling on my troll board. have a great day ladies

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by Wineaux15

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by iFemme

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake
...you tend to play a lot of manipulative games with the Aquarius...this is gonna push him away

I'm not trying to play games.... but maybe I am doing it subconsciously.

I don't see any possibility that your relationship with Aqua will work out and you'll grow old together. Too much drama and craziness.

Ps. I know Aqua likes a bit of drama and craziness. I know that for a fact lol. i have a few close Aqua girlfriends

Ummm no. Some may depending on what's in the rest of their charts, but most of the Aquas I know don't have time to bother with the crazy & drama. I actually like you @saweetz so I'll be honest with you. I agree with @bittercupcake. I feel like you want this Aqua so bad you tried to find things that will make him respond with emotion... since he wasn't giving to you the positive emotion and attention in the beginning... you found a way to incite the negative attention. Hey any attention is attention right? Wrong, because yes he obviously cares for you, but once his brain gets to churning and he reflects back on all the events that has recently happened, he will cut you off because he may feel manipulated. He may cut you off in the worst way by not responding to you or just disappear as if he never existed and that'll hurt you deeply. If you don't want that to happen please sit down and have an honest discussion with him about how you feel about him and where you want this relationship to lead. Let him know that you're not interested in your ex, but you must speak to him for the sake of your children/ child. Also show him with your actions that he's important to you because Aquas are about actions versus words. I know you've had these talks with him before and shown him already, but it was negated when you went and bragged about your ex. If you don't make a valiant effort you'll lose him.

I'm curious to see OPs placements... and his... because she plays way too many manipulative games with her Aquarius... and she's always indecisive about him... we're not together it's over... to .... we were together and were talking ... ?

hehe ok my placements

Sun- Taurus -

Moon - Aquarius

Mars- Aquarius

Venus - Gem

Mercury- Aquarius

Eros- Pisces

Psyche- scorpio



His ( he's pretty much a fish lol )

Sun- Aqua

Moon- Pisces

Venus - Pisces

Mars- Pisces

Mercury- not sure lol

Eros- Pisces

Pysche - Pisces



I don't know what else i need? i'm new to the whole charts things

Thank you for your help n your feedback

Hmm... what's his and yours Pluto..?

For an airy Taurus ... you play a lot of manupulatice tactics... he has a lot of Pisces so.. that will make him very wishy washy

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Our plutos are Scorpio. What does that mean? My mercury in Gemini and his in Capricorn

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by Wineaux15

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by iFemme

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by bittercupcake
...you tend to play a lot of manipulative games with the Aquarius...this is gonna push him away

I'm not trying to play games.... but maybe I am doing it subconsciously.

I don't see any possibility that your relationship with Aqua will work out and you'll grow old together. Too much drama and craziness.

Ps. I know Aqua likes a bit of drama and craziness. I know that for a fact lol. i have a few close Aqua girlfriends

Ummm no. Some may depending on what's in the rest of their charts, but most of the Aquas I know don't have time to bother with the crazy & drama. I actually like you @saweetz so I'll be honest with you. I agree with @bittercupcake. I feel like you want this Aqua so bad you tried to find things that will make him respond with emotion... since he wasn't giving to you the positive emotion and attention in the beginning... you found a way to incite the negative attention. Hey any attention is attention right? Wrong, because yes he obviously cares for you, but once his brain gets to churning and he reflects back on all the events that has recently happened, he will cut you off because he may feel manipulated. He may cut you off in the worst way by not responding to you or just disappear as if he never existed and that'll hurt you deeply. If you don't want that to happen please sit down and have an honest discussion with him about how you feel about him and where you want this relationship to lead. Let him know that you're not interested in your ex, but you must speak to him for the sake of your children/ child. Also show him with your actions that he's important to you because Aquas are about actions versus words. I know you've had these talks with him before and shown him already, but it was negated when you went and bragged about your ex. If you don't make a valiant effort you'll lose him.

I'm curious to see OPs placements... and his... because she plays way too many manipulative games with her Aquarius... and she's always indecisive about him... we're not together it's over... to .... we were together and were talking ... ?

hehe ok my placements

Sun- Taurus -

Moon - Aquarius

Mars- Aquarius

Venus - Gem

Mercury- Aquarius

Eros- Pisces

Psyche- scorpio



His ( he's pretty much a fish lol )

Sun- Aqua

Moon- Pisces

Venus - Pisces

Mars- Pisces

Mercury- not sure lol

Eros- Pisces

Pysche - Pisces



I don't know what else i need? i'm new to the whole charts things

Thank you for your help n your feedback

Hmm... what's his and yours Pluto..?

For an airy Taurus ... you play a lot of manupulatice tactics... he has a lot of Pisces so.. that will make him very wishy washy

Our plutos are Scorpio. What does that mean? My mercury in Gemini and his in Capricorn

You have a lot of squares... which explains the manipulative games you're playing... google and research square aspects ... especially those Aquarius placements squaring pluto

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Wow right..... ok I will have to check that out. Thank you!

So the x just asked me how the baby is... am I supposed to just not talk to him—

Hmmm... your ex remembered he had a baby when he became single again? Tricky man... he wants your attention. Tell him you are seeing someone and you don't find it appropriate to be contacted randomly and that you will reach for him when you need his support as a father only, if ever (there is a law there, too). My opinion only.

Sweets my dear you have to admit to yourself that you are not keeping an open communication because you want him to pay child support later because you can easily make him pay. Go down to the state sign him up child-support I know you want to keep a healthy relationship with him but it has never been a healthy relationship. I remember you discussing your ex before and I remember how toxic that was. He is not your friend. If he was your friend he would have your best interest at heart and be taking care of your son. He sees you as a sexual object and it sounds like you still have feelings for him. I would be pissed too if I was your Aqua so don't be surprised if he starts acting extra single. I am very surprise he didn't break up with you over this. Why are you worried about upsetting your son's father he has never done the right thing by you. Hold him to his actions and hold your self to your actions. Believe me I know from experience to keep it strictly professional with my son's father the only thing we laugh and joke about is our son. I know people who are still friends with their ex's but that is because they were sincerely friends before and do right by each other now and all partners involved are ok with it.

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So the x just asked me how the baby is... am I supposed to just not talk to him—

I see nothing wrong with filling that blank in. You also gotta ask yourself why he cares he didn't even want to sign the birth certificate. He could also be coming around to find out when you are going to out him on child support and trying to charm you so you won't feel the need to put him on. Who knows what he is thinking but don't let your curiosity takeover you will only hurt yourself.

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Sweets my dear you have to admit to yourself that you are not keeping an open communication because you want him to pay child support later because you can easily make him pay. Go down to the state sign him up child-support I know you want to keep a healthy relationship with him but it has never been a healthy relationship. I remember you discussing your ex before and I remember how toxic that was. He is not your friend. If he was your friend he would have your best interest at heart and be taking care of your son. He sees you as a sexual object and it sounds like you still have feelings for him. I would be pissed too if I was your Aqua so don't be surprised if he starts acting extra single. I am very surprise he didn't break up with you over this. Why are you worried about upsetting your son's father he has never done the right thing by you. Hold him to his actions and hold your self to your actions. Believe me I know from experience to keep it strictly professional with my son's father the only thing we laugh and joke about is our son. I know people who are still friends with their ex's but that is because they were sincerely friends before and do right by each other now and all partners involved are ok with it.

You are sweet....'ok now I understand why my Aqua might act extra single.. lol.. ok I will only communicate with him about child support... my Aqua also believe I still have some feelings for me ex.... I don't though I fully love my Aqua ...😢 ok maybe like 1 percents but I will never hurt my Aqua in anyway... my ex is my Memories and my past

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Posted by saweetz1988
So the x just asked me how the baby is... am I supposed to just not talk to him—

I see nothing wrong with filling that blank in. You also gotta ask yourself why he cares he didn't even want to sign the birth certificate. He could also be coming around to find out when you are going to out him on child support and trying to charm you so you won't feel the need to put him on. Who knows what he is thinking but don't let your curiosity takeover you will only hurt yourself.

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I'm not hurt at all. I have no feelings for my ex anymore. ! He's dating others after me n I cudnt care less if he wanna b with me again. It's completely over!

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Hmmm... your ex remembered he had a baby when he became single again? Tricky man... he wants your attention. Tell him you are seeing someone and you don't find it appropriate to be contacted randomly and that you will reach for him when you need his support as a father only, if ever (there is a law there, too). My opinion only.

Yes very true! He's never asked me that. Maybe once in a while. He's very bad lol.. venus in Scorpio.. sag sun... is very very tricky... that's why the Aqua want me to stay away I racken

Oh and these two actually share the same names — Goodness

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by ladylibra21
Sweets my dear you have to admit to yourself that you are not keeping an open communication because you want him to pay child support later because you can easily make him pay. Go down to the state sign him up child-support I know you want to keep a healthy relationship with him but it has never been a healthy relationship. I remember you discussing your ex before and I remember how toxic that was. He is not your friend. If he was your friend he would have your best interest at heart and be taking care of your son. He sees you as a sexual object and it sounds like you still have feelings for him. I would be pissed too if I was your Aqua so don't be surprised if he starts acting extra single. I am very surprise he didn't break up with you over this. Why are you worried about upsetting your son's father he has never done the right thing by you. Hold him to his actions and hold your self to your actions. Believe me I know from experience to keep it strictly professional with my son's father the only thing we laugh and joke about is our son. I know people who are still friends with their ex's but that is because they were sincerely friends before and do right by each other now and all partners involved are ok with it.

You are sweet....'ok now I understand why my Aqua might act extra single.. lol.. ok I will only communicate with him about child support... my Aqua also believe I still have some feelings for me ex.... I don't though I fully love my Aqua ...😢 ok maybe like 1 percents but I will never hurt my Aqua in anyway... my ex is my Memories and my past

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It's good to limit your communication with your ex anyway. You don't want that relationship to complicate any future ones! Try to do that now so that it isn't such an issue in the future, with or without your Aqua 🙂