CapLovinAquaz
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Posted by CapLovinAquazExample of the question would be helpful!
Why Aquarius men do not like to be questioned a lot? This is the second time my Aqua man told me that I'm asking too many questions about a certain situations in his life. What's up with that? He has already confessed his love for me so I do not understand the issue. I'm trying to be as close to him as possible. Any Aquarians input would be helpful.
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXI was messing with him earlier today b/c I care. He LOVES to tease me. So he told me that he was going out of town this Monday. I remember us talking about it earlier this week but I forgot where he said he was going. So as he was teasing me about him leaving and how he wasn't going to see me until Thursday. I asked him "where are you going"? I'm a Capricorn with an Libra Moon so I like details from ppl I truly love. He's an Aqua sun with a Capricorn Moon. I kept asking him what city he was he going to. But he kept teasing me. Then out the blue he said, "I only have 1 mother I don't need you treating me like that" and then he said "it's a turn off so goodbye, see u Thursday".
I'm not an Aquarius, but whatever.
I have found that Aquas actually don't mind questions. They like to talk about pretty much anything. It's a sense of release for them.
If he gets defensive, it's probably because there's something he doesn't want you to know.
Edit: What is it that you are asking him that makes him get defensive?
Posted by Miamia13Why does it push you guys away? If he has professed his love for me by saying that he loves me in the 6month relationship we have, why can't I ask details? Does it make Aquas feel like your freedom is gone?
Questions require us to answer. And we are stubborn creatures. Sometimes, we don't want to answer all your questions. We love talking and conversation. But endless questions can push us away.
Posted by 2MoonPlease explain? I don't think he is hiding anything. Like we talk about a lot of stuff.
Cap and aqua together?! Damn, this is weird....
He is probably hiding some things....
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXI'm not for sure if he has a problem with letting me know or just one of his darn TESTING games to see my reactions.Posted by CapLovinAquazSo you guys are in a relationship, he told you he "loves" you, and he has a problem with letting you know where he's going to be when he's out of town?Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXI was messing with him earlier today b/c I care. He LOVES to tease me. So he told me that he was going out of town this Monday. I remember us talking about it earlier this week but I forgot where he said he was going. So as he was teasing me about him leaving and how he wasn't going to see me until Thursday. I asked him "where are you going"? I'm a Capricorn with an Libra Moon so I like details from ppl I truly love. He's an Aqua sun with a Capricorn Moon. I kept asking him what city he was he going to. But he kept teasing me. Then out the blue he said, "I only have 1 mother I don't need you treating me like that" and then he said "it's a turn off so goodbye, see u Thursday".
I'm not an Aquarius, but whatever.
I have found that Aquas actually don't mind questions. They like to talk about pretty much anything. It's a sense of release for them.
If he gets defensive, it's probably because there's something he doesn't want you to know.
Edit: What is it that you are asking him that makes him get defensive?
Oh boy.....
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Posted by CapLovinAquazHe sounds like he needs all mothers he can get! And a few fathers!Posted by Miamia13Why does it push you guys away? If he has professed his love for me by saying that he loves me in the 6month relationship we have, why can't I ask details? Does it make Aquas feel like your freedom is gone?
Questions require us to answer. And we are stubborn creatures. Sometimes, we don't want to answer all your questions. We love talking and conversation. But endless questions can push us away.click to expand
Posted by Miamia13See this answer sounds like him. I don't remember what I asked him a month ago but I kept on pressing him and he got mad or irritated about it and he just shut down from me for a couple of hours. When I want to know something I can ask the same question but just a different way. Lol!Posted by CapLovinAquazIt depends on the questions. I know that when I voice something or give an answer and people (even my best friend) asks more questions of me or questions on the same topic I can get silently irritated. But I guess it depends on the question.Posted by Miamia13Why does it push you guys away? If he has professed his love for me by saying that he loves me in the 6month relationship we have, why can't I ask details? Does it make Aquas feel like your freedom is gone?
Questions require us to answer. And we are stubborn creatures. Sometimes, we don't want to answer all your questions. We love talking and conversation. But endless questions can push us away.
Sometimes yes, it has to do with freedom. If we feel you are prying or forcing an answer out of us. And if you approach is aggressivley about it, we can close off. And even if we are fine with answering your questions, we stubbornly won't. Since we feel it's forced. It could all just be a misunderstanding in communication style s.
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Posted by Miamia13This is so good! And this how he communicates to me when he ask questions. He begins with stories than he ask a question or he will leave room for me to ask him a question about the story (stories of his past). And I have been communicating with him like the bad example you mentioned. SMH!! thank you for this example. It clarifies a lot.Posted by CapLovinAquazDon't just straight up ask questions. Engage in conversation. Bring up a topic without questions and gradually enter a conversation where it would make sense to ask a question to deepen the conversation. Maybe even opening up yourself first and relaying information to him that relates to the question you are seeking to ask.Posted by Miamia13See this answer sounds like him. I don't remember what I asked him a month ago but I kept on pressing him and he got mad or irritated about it and he just shut down from me for a couple of hours. When I want to know something I can ask the same question but just a different way. Lol!Posted by CapLovinAquazIt depends on the questions. I know that when I voice something or give an answer and people (even my best friend) asks more questions of me or questions on the same topic I can get silently irritated. But I guess it depends on the question.Posted by Miamia13Why does it push you guys away? If he has professed his love for me by saying that he loves me in the 6month relationship we have, why can't I ask details? Does it make Aquas feel like your freedom is gone?
Questions require us to answer. And we are stubborn creatures. Sometimes, we don't want to answer all your questions. We love talking and conversation. But endless questions can push us away.
Sometimes yes, it has to do with freedom. If we feel you are prying or forcing an answer out of us. And if you approach is aggressivley about it, we can close off. And even if we are fine with answering your questions, we stubbornly won't. Since we feel it's forced. It could all just be a misunderstanding in communication style s.
So my question to you is how do I ask him questions I want answers to? Asking questions so that it doesn't come off as aggressive.
EX: "When I was dating my now ex, we would go out to dinner. But he was always asking me what I wanted to eat and I was never too decisive. He took this as me not wanting to go to dinner with him which resulted in rejection that I just didn't want to spend time with him. Eventually, little scenarios like this would escalate. We would have explosive fights because he was passive and I wasn't. He would hold it in. Our communication style s were so different that it created bitterness in the relationship and eventually ended it. Did you have a lot of miscommunication in your past relationship? I feel that I learned a lot from it and it's something I needed to learn."
(FYI this isn't a real scenario just an example of how to approach us with a question. If you give us something, we will give you something back. Relate your questions to yourself so it comes from a more personal place and is portrayed as genuine)
BAD EX: "How did you and your ex end? Why did you end? How did you feel? Why did she do that? Do we have that problem?!"
(Questioning us like this can come across as in-genuine and a little too aggressive. Making it personal and relatable to yourself will open us up more as we love connecting with people and relating.)
Hope this helps!
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Posted by Miamia13And he is stubborn... but what he says is he is just teasing me lol.Posted by CapLovinAquazOf course. I don't think he's hiding anything like other suggested... I think he's just being a typical, stubborn Aqua ?Posted by Miamia13This is so good! And this how he communicates to me when he ask questions. He begins with stories than he ask a question or he will leave room for me to ask him a question about the story (stories of his past). And I have been communicating with him like the bad example you mentioned. SMH!! thank you for this example. It clarifies a lot.Posted by CapLovinAquazDon't just straight up ask questions. Engage in conversation. Bring up a topic without questions and gradually enter a conversation where it would make sense to ask a question to deepen the conversation. Maybe even opening up yourself first and relaying information to him that relates to the question you are seeking to ask.Posted by Miamia13See this answer sounds like him. I don't remember what I asked him a month ago but I kept on pressing him and he got mad or irritated about it and he just shut down from me for a couple of hours. When I want to know something I can ask the same question but just a different way. Lol!Posted by CapLovinAquazIt depends on the questions. I know that when I voice something or give an answer and people (even my best friend) asks more questions of me or questions on the same topic I can get silently irritated. But I guess it depends on the question.Posted by Miamia13Why does it push you guys away? If he has professed his love for me by saying that he loves me in the 6month relationship we have, why can't I ask details? Does it make Aquas feel like your freedom is gone?
Questions require us to answer. And we are stubborn creatures. Sometimes, we don't want to answer all your questions. We love talking and conversation. But endless questions can push us away.
Sometimes yes, it has to do with freedom. If we feel you are prying or forcing an answer out of us. And if you approach is aggressivley about it, we can close off. And even if we are fine with answering your questions, we stubbornly won't. Since we feel it's forced. It could all just be a misunderstanding in communication style s.
So my question to you is how do I ask him questions I want answers to? Asking questions so that it doesn't come off as aggressive.
EX: "When I was dating my now ex, we would go out to dinner. But he was always asking me what I wanted to eat and I was never too decisive. He took this as me not wanting to go to dinner with him which resulted in rejection that I just didn't want to spend time with him. Eventually, little scenarios like this would escalate. We would have explosive fights because he was passive and I wasn't. He would hold it in. Our communication style s were so different that it created bitterness in the relationship and eventually ended it. Did you have a lot of miscommunication in your past relationship? I feel that I learned a lot from it and it's something I needed to learn."
(FYI this isn't a real scenario just an example of how to approach us with a question. If you give us something, we will give you something back. Relate your questions to yourself so it comes from a more personal place and is portrayed as genuine)
BAD EX: "How did you and your ex end? Why did you end? How did you feel? Why did she do that? Do we have that problem?!"
(Questioning us like this can come across as in-genuine and a little too aggressive. Making it personal and relatable to yourself will open us up more as we love connecting with people and relating.)
Hope this helps!
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Posted by aquarius_beautyHe is VERY HONEST. There are things that he will say that he shouldn't but I let him be his self
This is where we might come off as contradiction. If you are prying then we will push back. We don't mind being honest if you ask but most people ask us to interrogate us or cast judgement. May or may not be true, but this is what we feel. This is where we are similar to Scorpios. Although we might come off as public we are actually very private

Posted by saweetz1988Nagging, yes... He definitely doesn't like it. I try not to. When I do, he takes his space and always come right back.
Not a good sign.. I'm only seeing an Aqua man and he's very open with conversations. Actually really love convo. Questions are like our date or something. Sometimes I feel he asks me tooo many questions. I don't do too much of where and when and how. That sounds too much for me... Aqua do Like their own space after all.. if he wanna volunteer.. great ... if not that's fine... though I feel your Aqua doesn't like it coz he feels like you are nagging him in saying that, him can't telling u where he's going is very fishy.... !
Posted by Miamia13Posted by CapLovinAquazDon't just straight up ask questions. Engage in conversation. Bring up a topic without questions and gradually enter a conversation where it would make sense to ask a question to deepen the conversation. Maybe even opening up yourself first and relaying information to him that relates to the question you are seeking to ask.Posted by Miamia13See this answer sounds like him. I don't remember what I asked him a month ago but I kept on pressing him and he got mad or irritated about it and he just shut down from me for a couple of hours. When I want to know something I can ask the same question but just a different way. Lol!Posted by CapLovinAquazIt depends on the questions. I know that when I voice something or give an answer and people (even my best friend) asks more questions of me or questions on the same topic I can get silently irritated. But I guess it depends on the question.Posted by Miamia13Why does it push you guys away? If he has professed his love for me by saying that he loves me in the 6month relationship we have, why can't I ask details? Does it make Aquas feel like your freedom is gone?
Questions require us to answer. And we are stubborn creatures. Sometimes, we don't want to answer all your questions. We love talking and conversation. But endless questions can push us away.
Sometimes yes, it has to do with freedom. If we feel you are prying or forcing an answer out of us. And if you approach is aggressivley about it, we can close off. And even if we are fine with answering your questions, we stubbornly won't. Since we feel it's forced. It could all just be a misunderstanding in communication style s.
So my question to you is how do I ask him questions I want answers to? Asking questions so that it doesn't come off as aggressive.
EX: "When I was dating my now ex, we would go out to dinner. But he was always asking me what I wanted to eat and I was never too decisive. He took this as me not wanting to go to dinner with him which resulted in rejection that I just didn't want to spend time with him. Eventually, little scenarios like this would escalate. We would have explosive fights because he was passive and I wasn't. He would hold it in. Our communication style s were so different that it created bitterness in the relationship and eventually ended it. Did you have a lot of miscommunication in your past relationship? I feel that I learned a lot from it and it's something I needed to learn."
(FYI this isn't a real scenario just an example of how to approach us with a question. If you give us something, we will give you something back. Relate your questions to yourself so it comes from a more personal place and is portrayed as genuine)
BAD EX: "How did you and your ex end? Why did you end? How did you feel? Why did she do that? Do we have that problem?!"
(Questioning us like this can come across as in-genuine and a little too aggressive. Making it personal and relatable to yourself will open us up more as we love connecting with people and relating.)
Hope this helps!
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Posted by aquarius_beautyPosted by CapLovinAquazWe are predictable in our unpredictability.Posted by aquarius_beautyHe is VERY HONEST. There are things that he will say that he shouldn't but I let him be his self
This is where we might come off as contradiction. If you are prying then we will push back. We don't mind being honest if you ask but most people ask us to interrogate us or cast judgement. May or may not be true, but this is what we feel. This is where we are similar to Scorpios. Although we might come off as public we are actually very private
Around me. Because I want the real him at all times. He doesn't hold grudges or pull back a lot from me. He will tell me how he feels and then pull back for a few hours. Then he will tell me what I want to know. He is pretty predictable lol.
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Posted by Capricorn91Yea I feel kind of weird thti acted that way towards him now since I know it really bothers him. But it's a lesson learned.
He sounds similar to me. Many people don't like answering too many questions. They need a GF, no a mother per se. They already have one who takes care of these things. I remember myself saying similar things. So just take it lightly and learn what makes him turn off and don't do it the next time.

Posted by CapLovinAquazI have never tested people or played testing games to get a rise out of someone. Any guy who does that is an immature and insecure loser. You may be justifying his bad behaviour there.Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXI'm not for sure if he has a problem with letting me know or just one of his darn TESTING games to see my reactions.Posted by CapLovinAquazSo you guys are in a relationship, he told you he "loves" you, and he has a problem with letting you know where he's going to be when he's out of town?Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXI was messing with him earlier today b/c I care. He LOVES to tease me. So he told me that he was going out of town this Monday. I remember us talking about it earlier this week but I forgot where he said he was going. So as he was teasing me about him leaving and how he wasn't going to see me until Thursday. I asked him "where are you going"? I'm a Capricorn with an Libra Moon so I like details from ppl I truly love. He's an Aqua sun with a Capricorn Moon. I kept asking him what city he was he going to. But he kept teasing me. Then out the blue he said, "I only have 1 mother I don't need you treating me like that" and then he said "it's a turn off so goodbye, see u Thursday".
I'm not an Aquarius, but whatever.
I have found that Aquas actually don't mind questions. They like to talk about pretty much anything. It's a sense of release for them.
If he gets defensive, it's probably because there's something he doesn't want you to know.
Edit: What is it that you are asking him that makes him get defensive?
Oh boy.....
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Posted by aquanibAnd that's what I have to work on; the prodding.
We like all sorts of questions as long as it isn't prodding into us too much. Surface level is okay, but asking me to divulge personal stuff unsolicited will get you a cold shoulder.



Posted by boxcarmirntai do, if i know you already.. that's the rub, if i dont really know you , i don't ask. which is how you get to know people. lol
Mine absolutely loved questions..he could talk for hrs about himself...yawn. what i noticed is he NEVER asked me anything....i wanna know why THAT is. Why dont aquarians ask questions??
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My Aquarian man took a step further by inviting me to an outing with some of his friends.
That same night he noticed me and asked if I was ok. I guess he asked this b/c he was paying more attention to his friends than me. He looked me in my eyes and asked me if I wanted to be alone with him. I didn't want to admit I did b/c of me reading about Aquarian and their friends are everything to them. So we left. We drove to a hotel b/c we wanted each other sooo bad but while driving he opened up a Ton about what he thought about him and I and how I drive him so crazy. His 'crazy' means that he loves me too much.
He kept telling me how he would turn down other women requests to be with him sexually b/c of his love for me. Now my Aqua guy do have a lot of female friends. And he has told me other times how women call him to want to be with him but he has turned every last one down.
So Even during sex he kept saying how much he loves me. He kept looking me in my eyes as we had sex. And his eyes are so full of love.
He opened up to tell me that he hates when I'm mad at him. There was only ONE time when I gave him the 'evil eye' look. And he said that he was so clueless as to why I did it. So he was nervous to call me about it.
When we were talking he mentioned if he cheated, would I be mad? He knows I love having sex as much as he does. I told him I would be upset b/c I should be enough for him. He mentioned that I am enough for him. But It's in my head now that after this conversation, would he really cheat? He is a very honest man and believes in telling me the truth even when it hurts.
Would an Aquarius Man (Aquarius sun, Capricorn moon) cheat after he has confess his love for his lady? If so, what would drive him to cheat?
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Why Aquarius men do not like to be questioned a lot? This is the second time my Aqua man told me that I'm asking too many questions about a certain situations in his life. What's up with that? He has already confessed his love for me so I do not understand the issue. I'm trying to be as close to him as possible. Any Aquarians input would be helpful.