Aquarius male and touching

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told the Aquarius that maybe we should get a massage while having lunch together and he reacted strangely, as if he seemed overwhelmed and gave a nervous awkward smile. he's touched me a few times but always on the elbow. the farthest he's gone with me physically is elbow touching and a kiss on the cheek.

how can somebody buy me expensive shit but physically act like we're acquaintances?

he's always trying to chat me up though but it's weird coz he'd chat me up when i don't reach out much but when i do initate chatting, he'd get oddly distant.
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Aquas I know don't like to be touched, except for 1 woman hugger, a sag moon

My sister's face looks constipated or in pain if I ever hugged her, locked arms with her, or smacked her butt

I don't like to be touched either, but I like touching aquas for the lolz


i never cling to Aquas but they're always the ones to reach out to me first when it's been some time when we've last hangout with each other. this is so weird but i like them best out of all the signs, feel the most genuine care for them compared to other signs and feel the most comfortable with them but i just never cling or become possessive with them (very out of character for me to be non-crazy jealous). but in my past relationship with a Scorpio, i was extremely crazy paranoid and possessive. i'd raise hell and get jealous easily. that shit did not end well but it was extremely physical. this is the opposite of that.

it's so weird that i feel better in deep friendship based relationships. i mean we're dating but i feel so deep in the friendzone but i'm so into it (11H venus?). i always feel like i hold more power in my relationships with Aquarius coz i'm too comfortable with them but sometimes the lack of physical/sexual activities make it feel weird when they suddenly get touchy.

he did touch my hair twice but quickly stops when i turn around but i have crazy hair so hahah.
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and he sometimes taps me on the shoulder

flat palm uhhh what does that mean?

no guy ever acted this way with me physically

confuzzling


That's hilarious, flat palm.... this guy has you sooo confused 😆

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so sexy this move

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Little do you know that he is trying to figure out a way to have sex with you without ever actually having to touch you
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😂😂😂😂
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You got a strange Aqua 😄 I think he is controlling his self and showing you that he doesn’t want only sex. His way of showing love is giving you presents. Typical with that Venus.

The shoulder hand is a possessive gesture


he is Cap venus
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I know, he is really behaving like one 😄 They don’t like touching from estrangers. They really need to be comfortable with you. And he will enjoy seeing how you’re reacting to it. But it’s a very good sign that he gives you presents. He cares.
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Sounds like normal, young Cap Venus behaviour.

If you want things to remain good and stable you should try to avoid power struggles and refrain from attempts to control or manipulate him.


i don't feel any power struggle with him

feels like we make a great team tbh

i'm guessing that i should not at all initiate anything and just be plain responsive is what i'm getting from my interactions with him
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told the Aquarius that maybe we should get a massage while having lunch together and he reacted strangely, as if he seemed overwhelmed and gave a nervous awkward smile. he's touched me a few times but always on the elbow. the farthest he's gone with me physically is elbow touching and a kiss on the cheek.

how can somebody buy me expensive shit but physically act like we're acquaintances?

he's always trying to chat me up though but it's weird coz he'd chat me up when i don't reach out much but when i do initate chatting, he'd get oddly distant.

Last Aquarian girl I met up with my tongue was down her throat before we had even finished our drink. Must be different for boys.
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Lol not surprising with that sun and Venus of yours 😄
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Aquas I know don't like to be touched, except for 1 woman hugger, a sag moon

My sister's face looks constipated or in pain if I ever hugged her, locked arms with her, or smacked her butt

I don't like to be touched either, but I like touching aquas for the lolz

I'm not big into being touched unless I know somebody for most of my life or I'm sleeping with them or planning to. My brain can't differentiate between sexuality and playfulness. If someone grabs my arse they better be prepared to take it up a gear.
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That is our Venus for sure
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Posted by Antiphates

Sounds like normal, young Cap Venus behaviour.

If you want things to remain good and stable you should try to avoid power struggles and refrain from attempts to control or manipulate him.


i don't feel any power struggle with him

feels like we make a great team tbh

i'm guessing that i should not at all initiate anything and just be plain responsive is what i'm getting from my interactions with him
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Yes, I will just follow his pace and be open about everything
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Maybe he waits for „the green light“? Might be that he can‘t really tell by your body language if you are open for more?

I‘m an aqua with cap venus (although female) we need clear signs 😂

Like a deep French kiss? Should be clear enough.
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Nooo omg noooo 😂😂😂 just tell him to kiss you
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You got a strange Aqua 😄 I think he is controlling his self and showing you that he doesn’t want only sex. His way of showing love is giving you presents. Typical with that Venus.

The shoulder hand is a possessive gesture


he is Cap venus

I know, he is really behaving like one 😄 They don’t like touching from estrangers. They really need to be comfortable with you. And he will enjoy seeing how you’re reacting to it. But it’s a very good sign that he gives you presents. He cares.
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Like an aunt does

Lol
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Oh goodness mine waited MONTHS to make a move

Finally I crawled into lap and kissed him

The guy froze in total panic

IMO aqua sun/cap venus are not confident sexually

Hes a very alpha male tyoe but when it comes to dating/sex/relationships he is a pile of mixed signals.

I get a lot of the touching, palm on the shouldet is a common one. Its his way of making non sexual contact that is still contact.

Then one day he will grab my thigh... then back to shoulder



You need to make the first move then let him take control... and he will once he is secure rejection isnt coming


Oh God no😬

Not thigh back to shoulder

Jesus Christ

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Aquas I know don't like to be touched, except for 1 woman hugger, a sag moon

My sister's face looks constipated or in pain if I ever hugged her, locked arms with her, or smacked her butt

I don't like to be touched either, but I like touching aquas for the lolz


i never cling to Aquas but they're always the ones to reach out to me first when it's been some time when we've last hangout with each other. this is so weird but i like them best out of all the signs, feel the most genuine care for them compared to other signs and feel the most comfortable with them but i just never cling or become possessive with them (very out of character for me to be non-crazy jealous). but in my past relationship with a Scorpio, i was extremely crazy paranoid and possessive. i'd raise hell and get jealous easily. that shit did not end well but it was extremely physical. this is the opposite of that.

it's so weird that i feel better in deep friendship based relationships. i mean we're dating but i feel so deep in the friendzone but i'm so into it (11H venus?). i always feel like i hold more power in my relationships with Aquarius coz i'm too comfortable with them but sometimes the lack of physical/sexual activities make it feel weird when they suddenly get touchy.

he did touch my hair twice but quickly stops when i turn around but i have crazy hair so hahah.


What’s your placements? Are you as comfortable/get along with female aquas, as much as males?
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yes i love aquas

virgo sun

taurus moon

virgo mercury

leo venus

libra mars
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You got a strange Aqua 😄 I think he is controlling his self and showing you that he doesn’t want only sex. His way of showing love is giving you presents. Typical with that Venus.

The shoulder hand is a possessive gesture


Do you mean aqua Venus? If so, I’m aqua sun but cap Venus, and you can almost be sure that if I buy you something, I’m interested! 😂

Although I sometimes buy things for people that I’m not romantically attracted to, but just like them as a person.
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Cap Venus. Your Venus likes to provide and do things for the person that you’re interested in. You want to look responsible in their eyes and giving presents is part of it 😄
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You got a strange Aqua 😄 I think he is controlling his self and showing you that he doesn’t want only sex. His way of showing love is giving you presents. Typical with that Venus.

The shoulder hand is a possessive gesture


Do you mean aqua Venus? If so, I’m aqua sun but cap Venus, and you can almost be sure that if I buy you something, I’m interested! 😂

Although I sometimes buy things for people that I’m not romantically attracted to, but just like them as a person.

Cap Venus. Your Venus likes to provide and do things for the person that you’re interested in. You want to look responsible in their eyes and giving presents is part of it 😄


I’m naturally a giving person to friends, fam, and even strangers, but when dealing with females I’m involved with, I give a lot 😂😂...too much if you ask me. I’m not that way with guys though, I give small things but expect them to be the provider mostly.

I love to do thoughtful sweet things for my significant other but I wouldn’t say I want them to see me as responsible, I actually never thought about it that way. I do things bc it makes me happy, to make them happy. My cap Venus does make me naturally responsible, in a relationship though, when I’m single I’m more irresponsible. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Too much are in my chart lol
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Are you female? Because the responsible bit is very much a male thing

Hahaha the chart never lies
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Aquas I know don't like to be touched, except for 1 woman hugger, a sag moon

My sister's face looks constipated or in pain if I ever hugged her, locked arms with her, or smacked her butt

I don't like to be touched either, but I like touching aquas for the lolz

I'm not big into being touched unless I know somebody for most of my life or I'm sleeping with them or planning to. My brain can't differentiate between sexuality and playfulness. If someone grabs my arse they better be prepared to take it up a gear.

That is our Venus for sure

Fire Venus is hot 👅
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Hahaha yes it’s
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Aquas I know don't like to be touched, except for 1 woman hugger, a sag moon

My sister's face looks constipated or in pain if I ever hugged her, locked arms with her, or smacked her butt

I don't like to be touched either, but I like touching aquas for the lolz

I'm not big into being touched unless I know somebody for most of my life or I'm sleeping with them or planning to. My brain can't differentiate between sexuality and playfulness. If someone grabs my arse they better be prepared to take it up a gear.

That is our Venus for sure

Fire Venus is hot 👅

Hahaha yes it’s

And on a Pisces 😍
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What Venus are you?
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Aquas I know don't like to be touched, except for 1 woman hugger, a sag moon

My sister's face looks constipated or in pain if I ever hugged her, locked arms with her, or smacked her butt

I don't like to be touched either, but I like touching aquas for the lolz

I'm not big into being touched unless I know somebody for most of my life or I'm sleeping with them or planning to. My brain can't differentiate between sexuality and playfulness. If someone grabs my arse they better be prepared to take it up a gear.

That is our Venus for sure

Fire Venus is hot 👅

Hahaha yes it’s

And on a Pisces 😍

What Venus are you?

Pisces Venus 😉
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Aww I love that Venus. The best
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and he sometimes taps me on the shoulder

flat palm uhhh what does that mean?

no guy ever acted this way with me physically

confuzzling


That's hilarious, flat palm.... this guy has you sooo confused 😆

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so sexy this move

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Little do you know that he is trying to figure out a way to have sex with you without ever actually having to touch you
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It’s easy! Jewish orthodox way! Hole in a big sheet covering fuckee’s body entirely...

Jews are apparently all are aquas.

Lmao...

I can sadly relate. 🤦‍♀️
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and he sometimes taps me on the shoulder

flat palm uhhh what does that mean?

no guy ever acted this way with me physically

confuzzling


That's hilarious, flat palm.... this guy has you sooo confused 😆

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so sexy this move

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Little do you know that he is trying to figure out a way to have sex with you without ever actually having to touch you


It’s easy! Jewish orthodox way! Hole in a big sheet covering fuckee’s body entirely...

Jews are apparently all are aquas.

Lmao...

I can sadly relate. 🤦‍♀️

Lol I don’t. I like to look and touch
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What’s your deal? Aqua? Pisces? Fess up! 😂
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and he sometimes taps me on the shoulder

flat palm uhhh what does that mean?

no guy ever acted this way with me physically

confuzzling


That's hilarious, flat palm.... this guy has you sooo confused 😆

Image Not Found


so sexy this move

Image Not Found


Little do you know that he is trying to figure out a way to have sex with you without ever actually having to touch you


It’s easy! Jewish orthodox way! Hole in a big sheet covering fuckee’s body entirely...

Jews are apparently all are aquas.

Lmao...

I can sadly relate. 🤦‍♀️

Lol I don’t. I like to look and touch


What’s your deal? Aqua? Pisces? Fess up! 😂

I am aqua
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So you are a black sheep of your stars? 😂
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Does the Aqua guy have a passive Mars? Do you have his chart posted somewhere? Maybe go to Astro.com and create a synastry chart..

Had I had knowledge of Astro when I started dating, it would have made sense why only two guy's I was in rships with were sexually compatible with me..




even if i don't know his exact birth time, that's okay right?

he has a Pisces mars
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Does the Aqua guy have a passive Mars? Do you have his chart posted somewhere? Maybe go to Astro.com and create a synastry chart..

Had I had knowledge of Astro when I started dating, it would have made sense why only two guy's I was in rships with were sexually compatible with me..




even if i don't know his exact birth time, that's okay right?

he has a Pisces mars
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Best to get his birth time for that.....maybe his aunt will know?
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Venus and Mars in fire signs in men are very sexy💋

Masculine signs and the way they pursue the lover is 🔥

Venus and Mars both in a water sign (other than Scorpio) can be too passive for some women


he is Cap venus/Pisces mars
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Cap Venus can be difficult in the planet of love.....Saturn and Venus are mismatched and awkward together and Pisces Mars isn't very proactive

Sorry ....