Wanderlustcancerian24
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Are Aquarius men usually like this?!
Aquarius tell a lot of white lies so I’d expect one would lie about something like that. Especially if it’s a matter regarding how they feel, they avoid conflict because they can’t sort out their feelings well. Capricorn do this too.
Sounds like an Aquarius to me
Posted by Antiochus
I'd say we tend to be quite honest most of the time yes.
If the underlying question here is why he is talking to you despite having met someone else he seems to be interested in. The answer to that there is a chance that he simply likes you as a person and doesn't see a problem with dividing those two things which again can typical behaviour for an Aquarius.
Yeah that was my question... thanks for responding. But again today we talked all day long. Him initiating the conversation. So I just find it odd that he would be wanting to talk to me despite him meeting someone else who he found interest in and him also telling me when he decided to cut things off on Friday that he just got out of a serious relationship and isn’t looking for anything serious at the moment and it seemed like I was looking for something serious which is why he chose to cut it off with me because he didn’t want to hurt me like that. Idk it just doesn’t really make sense.
Posted by black773
Aquarius tell a lot of white lies so I’d expect one would lie about something like that. Especially if it’s a matter regarding how they feel, they avoid conflict because they can’t sort out their feelings well. Capricorn do this too.
You’d expect one to lie about something like what?!?
He admited he lied about not coming because he was sick. He admitted there’s another girl he’s interested in. It’s your choice to continue talking to him and risk him choosing the other girl over you.
If an aqua really likes you, he will come to you, drive day and night.
You're not the only one in his thoughts, not by a long shot, because if you were, he wouldn't cancel.
It's somewhat understandable, you haven't met before and he is giving priority to the one he has met, because aquas function by the out of sight, out of mind modus operandi (unless he truly believes you are speshul)
You're not the only one in his thoughts, not by a long shot, because if you were, he wouldn't cancel.
It's somewhat understandable, you haven't met before and he is giving priority to the one he has met, because aquas function by the out of sight, out of mind modus operandi (unless he truly believes you are speshul)
Posted by pinkbird03
He admited he lied about not coming because he was sick. He admitted there’s another girl he’s interested in. It’s your choice to continue talking to him and risk him choosing the other girl over you.
I get what you’re saying about him lying but he never admitted that he lied about not coming because he was sick. In fact, I didn’t state that at all. But yeah, I understand what you’re saying about risking him choosing the other girl over me.
Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24Posted by pinkbird03
He admited he lied about not coming because he was sick. He admitted there’s another girl he’s interested in. It’s your choice to continue talking to him and risk him choosing the other girl over you.
I get what you’re saying about him lying but he never admitted that he lied about not coming because he was sick. In fact, I didn’t state that at all. But yeah, I understand what you’re saying about risking him choosing the other girl over me.click to expand
What do you mean risk?
He has ALREADY chosen the other girl over you. Told you about it. Apologized for leading you on.
You said no worries it’s cool. And are continuing to communicate with him.
So either he’s now looking at you as a friend. Or just an ego booster/backup in case the other girl doesn’t work out.
Yes they do behave like this.
I think he has been very honest with you.
He has come out of a long relationship and he is not interested in another, and he is seeing other women in a casual way. You are not his priority. When an Aquarius man is totally into you it’s no doubt about it.
He thinks that you are investing too much of your self in him and he doesn’t want to hurt you. Just go with the flow. He likes you if he is talking to you but you are going to fast for him. Just relax and be open.
I think he has been very honest with you.
He has come out of a long relationship and he is not interested in another, and he is seeing other women in a casual way. You are not his priority. When an Aquarius man is totally into you it’s no doubt about it.
He thinks that you are investing too much of your self in him and he doesn’t want to hurt you. Just go with the flow. He likes you if he is talking to you but you are going to fast for him. Just relax and be open.
Posted by AntiochusPosted by Wanderlustcancerian24Posted by Antiochus
I'd say we tend to be quite honest most of the time yes.
If the underlying question here is why he is talking to you despite having met someone else he seems to be interested in. The answer to that there is a chance that he simply likes you as a person and doesn't see a problem with dividing those two things which again can typical behaviour for an Aquarius.
Yeah that was my question... thanks for responding. But again today we talked all day long. Him initiating the conversation. So I just find it odd that he would be wanting to talk to me despite him meeting someone else who he found interest in and him also telling me when he decided to cut things off on Friday that he just got out of a serious relationship and isn’t looking for anything serious at the moment and it seemed like I was looking for something serious which is why he chose to cut it off with me because he didn’t want to hurt me like that. Idk it just doesn’t really make sense.
I'd say he likes you as a person but felt like he had to let you know that his romantic interests lie elsewhere at the moment. There is a chance that this is a player trait or tactic to sideline you but the chances of genuine interest in you, as a person, outweigh those in my opinion.
What he does makes no sense if you at it through the romance lense but aside from that or rather from a perspective where he likes you and interacting with you what he does makes sense. Or at least to me but I'm an Aqua.click to expand
Yeah, well I’m beginning to think it’s an aquarius Malle tactic because someone else just recently posted in here stating that the guy she met online did the same thing to her. To be completely honest I’m almost certain that he hasn’t even met anyone. When does he make time for this someone if he’s busy texting me everyday all day?!?
lmao at people not even reading OP question 😆
to the op, yes, aquas are like that, and they are dreamers too, they try to chew more than they can swallow, and they can lose interest on a whim, and most I know are annoyingly chatty too, or flirty to be precise 🤣 sometimes they act like they really want you, but in reality they don't even know themself, but they are honest with that.
anyway 4 weeks is not much, I don't think most aquas would get invested that quickly and the ones that do are just infatuated, I think that he's been chatting with different people this whole time, and didn't take you that seriously as you might have thought
to the op, yes, aquas are like that, and they are dreamers too, they try to chew more than they can swallow, and they can lose interest on a whim, and most I know are annoyingly chatty too, or flirty to be precise 🤣 sometimes they act like they really want you, but in reality they don't even know themself, but they are honest with that.
anyway 4 weeks is not much, I don't think most aquas would get invested that quickly and the ones that do are just infatuated, I think that he's been chatting with different people this whole time, and didn't take you that seriously as you might have thought
Posted by AntiochusPosted by Wanderlustcancerian24Posted by AntiochusPosted by Wanderlustcancerian24Posted by Antiochus
I'd say we tend to be quite honest most of the time yes.
If the underlying question here is why he is talking to you despite having met someone else he seems to be interested in. The answer to that there is a chance that he simply likes you as a person and doesn't see a problem with dividing those two things which again can typical behaviour for an Aquarius.
Yeah that was my question... thanks for responding. But again today we talked all day long. Him initiating the conversation. So I just find it odd that he would be wanting to talk to me despite him meeting someone else who he found interest in and him also telling me when he decided to cut things off on Friday that he just got out of a serious relationship and isn’t looking for anything serious at the moment and it seemed like I was looking for something serious which is why he chose to cut it off with me because he didn’t want to hurt me like that. Idk it just doesn’t really make sense.
I'd say he likes you as a person but felt like he had to let you know that his romantic interests lie elsewhere at the moment. There is a chance that this is a player trait or tactic to sideline you but the chances of genuine interest in you, as a person, outweigh those in my opinion.
What he does makes no sense if you at it through the romance lense but aside from that or rather from a perspective where he likes you and interacting with you what he does makes sense. Or at least to me but I'm an Aqua.
Yeah, well I’m beginning to think it’s an aquarius Malle tactic because someone else just recently posted in here stating that the guy she met online did the same thing to her. To be completely honest I’m almost certain that he hasn’t even met anyone. When does he make time for this someone if he’s busy texting me everyday all day?!?
Why would he invent someone? Do you have any evidence or reason to believe this theory?
I don't know what his pattern is but he might text you whenever he has some spare free time and when he and the other person have matching timetables with free time they do stuff together. In short: there are too many variables and possibilities to "know" anything at this point.
The only question that makes sense for now is if you are okay with the situation as it is?
If yes you can keep going.
If not, just move on to find someone who fits your expectations more than him.click to expand
I don’t have any evidence but reason would be that he did it maybe to see how I’d respond? I’m not sure. But it makes sense, because the night before I went out with my gay bff which is a guy but he doesn’t seem to be gay right? And i posted videos on my social media which he saw. So idk if it’s just a theory that he made up that there’s someone else to try and make me jealous. Idk... he also is going out of town this weekend with his friend and his friends girlfriend but he stated he was going to be third wheeling. Why would he be third wheeling if he met someone? Yeah the possibilities of her not being able to go could be endless. But at the same time I just don’t really believe there’s anyone else. Why initiate conversation with me every day if there were!? Wasn’t this just someone who he blew me off for on Friday because he didn’t think it would be fair to either of us if he came up to see me!? None of it makes sense really.
Aquarius don’t play games or try to make you jealous. They are pretty direct.
Posted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius don’t play games or try to make you jealous. They are pretty direct.
Then why come back and apologize to me again. Even after he stated it was the never meeting me that slowly killed it for him? It makes no sense at all.
Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24Posted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius don’t play games or try to make you jealous. They are pretty direct.
Then why come back and apologize to me again. Even after he stated it was the never meeting me that slowly killed it for him? It makes no sense at all.click to expand
He apologize because he didn’t come and see you.
He is plain a simple telling you that you are not his priority. But that doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you as a person.
If he was interested you would know for sure. They are very direct
Posted by AntiochusPosted by Wanderlustcancerian24Posted by AntiochusPosted by Wanderlustcancerian24Posted by Antiochus
I'd say we tend to be quite honest most of the time yes.
If the underlying question here is why he is talking to you despite having met someone else he seems to be interested in. The answer to that there is a chance that he simply likes you as a person and doesn't see a problem with dividing those two things which again can typical behaviour for an Aquarius.
Yeah that was my question... thanks for responding. But again today we talked all day long. Him initiating the conversation. So I just find it odd that he would be wanting to talk to me despite him meeting someone else who he found interest in and him also telling me when he decided to cut things off on Friday that he just got out of a serious relationship and isn’t looking for anything serious at the moment and it seemed like I was looking for something serious which is why he chose to cut it off with me because he didn’t want to hurt me like that. Idk it just doesn’t really make sense.
I'd say he likes you as a person but felt like he had to let you know that his romantic interests lie elsewhere at the moment. There is a chance that this is a player trait or tactic to sideline you but the chances of genuine interest in you, as a person, outweigh those in my opinion.
What he does makes no sense if you at it through the romance lense but aside from that or rather from a perspective where he likes you and interacting with you what he does makes sense. Or at least to me but I'm an Aqua.
Yeah, well I’m beginning to think it’s an aquarius Malle tactic because someone else just recently posted in here stating that the guy she met online did the same thing to her. To be completely honest I’m almost certain that he hasn’t even met anyone. When does he make time for this someone if he’s busy texting me everyday all day?!?
Why would he invent someone? Do you have any evidence or reason to believe this theory?
I don't know what his pattern is but he might text you whenever he has some spare free time and when he and the other person have matching timetables with free time they do stuff together. In short: there are too many variables and possibilities to "know" anything at this point.
The only question that makes sense for now is if you are okay with the situation as it is?
If yes you can keep going.
If not, just move on to find someone who fits your expectations more than him.click to expand
isn't that creepy? 😆
I imagine is just people who play mind games and do go passive-aggressive all the time, then they are always wondering if other people are doing the same, jfc what a pain it must be.
is he trying to make me jealous? why he say bad things about me? he's just not telling me how he feels?
Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24Posted by LadyNeptune
Aww you’re cute 😂🤣click to expand
For real tho. You remind me of the drew Barrymore character. Making excuses for his behavior.
If he ‘liked you’ liked you he would make an effort to see you. Not string you along with texts and flake with the excuse of ‘theres someone else’.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Wanderlustcancerian24Posted by LadyNeptune
Aww you’re cute 😂🤣
Well, that’s fair. I get what you’re saying.
For real tho. You remind me of the drew Barrymore character. Making excuses for his behavior.
If he ‘liked you’ liked you he would make an effort to see you. Not string you along with texts and flake with the excuse of ‘theres someone else’.click to expand
He’s a typical Aquarius you are not the only person he’s talking to . Even though he’s talking to you day and no night the fact that the girl is closer to him means a lot. Aquarius loves to talk. But when it comes to action they r a bit lazy. They don’t like to work too much for love lol. Hence why he didn’t bother driving and Ofcoz he had other back ups, or u were the back up who knows . You being the cancer I feel is going to be too naive and not enough challenge for Aquarius men. The fact that u took the whole weekend off work to see him made him feels like he did not have to work for it. Aquarius men love strong women someone that will not put a man first before eveything else. Strong work ethics r very important to Aquarius men. They find it very sexy. Basically, to him now u r just fun to talk to and he’s killing time, they take time to fall in love so most likely while he’s dating that girl hes leading many girls on too. If u don’t wanna get hurt, u need to be clear now that u r not ok to continue if he’s seeing that girl as u r not a back up plan. n u r ok to be friends later down the track but not right now... good luck
No jealous game here u r reading too much into it. They r direct .... don’t over think it. or sugar coat it basically
Posted by saweetz1988
He’s a typical Aquarius you are not the only person he’s talking to . Even though he’s talking to you day and no night the fact that the girl is closer to him means a lot. Aquarius loves to talk. But when it comes to action they r a bit lazy. They don’t like to work too much for love lol. Hence why he didn’t bother driving and Ofcoz he had other back ups, or u were the back up who knows . You being the cancer I feel is going to be too naive and not enough challenge for Aquarius men. The fact that u took the whole weekend off work to see him made him feels like he did not have to work for it. Aquarius men love strong women someone that will not put a man first before eveything else. Strong work ethics r very important to Aquarius men. They find it very sexy. Basically, to him now u r just fun to talk to and he’s killing time, they take time to fall in love so most likely while he’s dating that girl hes leading many girls on too. If u don’t wanna get hurt, u need to be clear now that u r not ok to continue if he’s seeing that girl as u r not a back up plan. n u r ok to be friends later down the track but not right now... good luck
Thanks for the advice! I appreciate it.
So I just wanted to update everyone and let you know I sent him this..”Hey, so I’ve been thinking about it and I don’t think we should communicate anymore . Being that you just recently met someone, and are probably seeing her. I don’t think what we are doing is right and don’t feel comfortable with possibly being a backup plan. We can be friends down the road, but not right now. Take care of yourself. ☮️✌🏽“
His response back to that was he is not seeing her. So I sent him a text that said “? Enlighten me..” and he stated they went a couple times that was it. It didn’t work out.
His response back to that was he is not seeing her. So I sent him a text that said “? Enlighten me..” and he stated they went a couple times that was it. It didn’t work out.
Basically in 3 days of him coming back to me, he found out the girl was a hoe! Only god knows how he did that. Lol he met her on Tinder. Lol
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