
xomelindabelle
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Posted by xomelindabellePeople have right to mention their choice when you have created a topic like this where you have asked its libra or a gemini.
😢 Leebs get no love haha I see what you folks mean, though. I do believe that I'm capable of deep communication and connection, though. Wholeheartedly. It could be due to other placements, but Libra gets a lot of flack for being 'superficial' or 'shallow'. I'm not at all. I could see Gems and Aquas understanding each other's detachment and desire of freedom. But most Gems I meet seem like they could either manipulate you or totally fuck you over. So hmm...



Posted by xomelindabelleLol, its ok then..
Of course they do, I was only being silly. I did not mean that in an insulting manner. That was the whole point of my initial post, for people to share their personal preference. I'm highly aware of the fact that we have many placements that affect out personality. And I know I'm not just Libra, that's actually my moon. I'm sun in Aries.
My reaction to their posts was completely lighthearted and I actually have a few close Gemini friends. So I was not trying to tear them all down or speak against people's choices. It seems my words may have been misconstrued. If I offended you, I apologize.
You can post wherever you like, it's a discussion forum.

Posted by Bsmurray+1.Moreover, I find libras to be too weak for Aquarians whose charts are air and or fire dominated. Libras are all about harmony. So, they're a little too accommodating for aquas. They tell people what they want to hear for the sake of being liked and avoiding conflict whereas Geminis don't care what others think like Aquarians. I'm with Team Gemini 🙂
Gemini understands me better and I have better relations with them. Libras can annoy me sometimes and our relationships never get deep or too involved. I can have deeper conversations with Gemini and find them more attractive overall as well.

Posted by Tanya JonesIt's ok then? I didn't realize you were the deciding factor when it came to how people conducted themselves, especially when your argument is 'people are allowed to state their opinion'.Posted by xomelindabelleLol, its ok then..
Of course they do, I was only being silly. I did not mean that in an insulting manner. That was the whole point of my initial post, for people to share their personal preference. I'm highly aware of the fact that we have many placements that affect out personality. And I know I'm not just Libra, that's actually my moon. I'm sun in Aries.
My reaction to their posts was completely lighthearted and I actually have a few close Gemini friends. So I was not trying to tear them all down or speak against people's choices. It seems my words may have been misconstrued. If I offended you, I apologize.
You can post wherever you like, it's a discussion forum.
You didn't offend me so please don't apologise. 🙂click to expand

Posted by aquarius09It's true, we can people please far too often. Which is why I love having my Mars in Gem because when I'm angry, it's a totally different story lolPosted by Bsmurray+1.Moreover, I find libras to be too weak for Aquarians whose charts are air and or fire dominated. Libras are all about harmony. So, they're a little too accommodating for aquas. They tell people what they want to hear for the sake of being liked and avoiding conflict whereas Geminis don't care what others think like Aquarians. I'm with Team Gemini 🙂
Gemini understands me better and I have better relations with them. Libras can annoy me sometimes and our relationships never get deep or too involved. I can have deeper conversations with Gemini and find them more attractive overall as well.click to expand

Posted by xomelindabelleYou are completely misunderstanding me. I said 'it's ok' because i thought i may have misunderstood your joke. Now don't get angry.Posted by Tanya JonesIt's ok then? I didn't realize you were the deciding factor when it came to how people conducted themselves, especially when your argument is 'people are allowed to state their opinion'.Posted by xomelindabelleLol, its ok then..
Of course they do, I was only being silly. I did not mean that in an insulting manner. That was the whole point of my initial post, for people to share their personal preference. I'm highly aware of the fact that we have many placements that affect out personality. And I know I'm not just Libra, that's actually my moon. I'm sun in Aries.
My reaction to their posts was completely lighthearted and I actually have a few close Gemini friends. So I was not trying to tear them all down or speak against people's choices. It seems my words may have been misconstrued. If I offended you, I apologize.
You can post wherever you like, it's a discussion forum.
You didn't offend me so please don't apologise. 🙂click to expand

Posted by Tanya JonesWe misunderstood each other; no harm intended to you. I can get a little snappy when upset. Apologies lolPosted by xomelindabelleYou are completely misunderstanding me. I said 'it's ok' because i thought i may have misunderstood your joke. Now don't get angry.Posted by Tanya JonesIt's ok then? I didn't realize you were the deciding factor when it came to how people conducted themselves, especially when your argument is 'people are allowed to state their opinion'.Posted by xomelindabelleLol, its ok then..
Of course they do, I was only being silly. I did not mean that in an insulting manner. That was the whole point of my initial post, for people to share their personal preference. I'm highly aware of the fact that we have many placements that affect out personality. And I know I'm not just Libra, that's actually my moon. I'm sun in Aries.
My reaction to their posts was completely lighthearted and I actually have a few close Gemini friends. So I was not trying to tear them all down or speak against people's choices. It seems my words may have been misconstrued. If I offended you, I apologize.
You can post wherever you like, it's a discussion forum.
You didn't offend me so please don't apologise. 🙂click to expand


Posted by lisabethur8I'm an Aries sun, Libra moon with Gem Mars and Taurus Venus. I get attached and have a harder time letting go but I do not smother or cling onto people. In order to do that, I would have to relinquish my pride haha not happening! 😛
weirdly the aqua with libra moon is not clingy at all, maybe because she's a sag mars/cap venus. i hardly ever see her. maybe she is a Scorpio moon? i dont know her birthtime. I'm hanging on to the notion of libra moon because her Scorpio husband has a libra mars. but then again.....her Scorpio moon would probably work better, since his libra mars can go to her sun sign.

Posted by SugarfootI have actually witnessed this myself as well. I know a Libra sun, I don't know her moon but I can find out. Anyway, she's friends with my Pisces sister and I seriously do not trust her. She does the comparing thing constantly, and she always has a negative thing to say about someone else. She envied my Aqua friend's relationship and actually got with the Aqua's ex right after they broke-up and the Aqua was pregnant with the guy's baby. Mind you, the Libra was trying to buddy up to the Aqua prior to bedding her man right after the break-up, so fucked. I still don't get how the Libra doesn't see how cruel that was. And now my poor Aqua friend is shattered and raising the babyPosted by metalaquamonkeyI actually agree with this. My ex bff was a libra sun cancer moon. I think if the sun has a major conflict like hers it can cause the libra to take that comparing thing to extremes. We have a tendency to weigh people's qualities against others. If there's major insecurities there it can cause the libra to compare others against THEMSELVES. Then you see envy and jealousy. It's a really ugly thing to experience.
Me and Geminis get along great and just like someone else mentioned they understand me better. I've dated Geminis before but never dated a Libra. However my best friend is a Libra sun male but most of his chart has Scorpio placements and he's a Leo rising and I get along great with those two signs.
I like Libras but the females are hit or miss. Every female friend who has ever backstabbed me or female that seemed to hate on me (with the exception of 2 Sag chicks) was a Libra sun female. I actually have 3 planets in Libra (Jupiter, Saturn, Pluto) and Libra in my 8th house.
I can get along great with both despite the hit or miss with Libra Sun females. In fact my parents are these two signs, my mom is a Gemini and my dad a Libra Scorpio cusper but born under Libra Sun.
After 16 yrs I had to let go of my friend. Her hating was getting worse and worse. I just got tired of the attacks after awhile. It sucks though because she's a good person who I was super close to for a long time.
The only other females I've seen do this with me are scorp females. Hit or miss with them too.click to expand

Posted by xomelindabellethere is a difference between "clingy" and "possessive" though.Posted by lisabethur8I'm an Aries sun, Libra moon with Gem Mars and Taurus Venus. I get attached and have a harder time letting go but I do not smother or cling onto people. In order to do that, I would have to relinquish my pride haha not happening! 😛
weirdly the aqua with libra moon is not clingy at all, maybe because she's a sag mars/cap venus. i hardly ever see her. maybe she is a Scorpio moon? i dont know her birthtime. I'm hanging on to the notion of libra moon because her Scorpio husband has a libra mars. but then again.....her Scorpio moon would probably work better, since his libra mars can go to her sun sign.
So I could see how she wouldn't be outwardly clingy either. Does she make deep attachments to people? Different than clingy.click to expand

Posted by febaquaNice, I'm glad that you've had such pleasant experiences with both. 🙂 Gems can be lovely and very loyal, protective friends. My Gem sun friend would take names and slit throats for me lol I think we've just got that airy understanding, both of us have a lot of air in our chart. 🙂
Tbh, its a close one between Leebs and Gems.
I love both actually. My three most influential people in life have been Gems (granny, best friend and gf). Librans are just as good. For a more deeper understanding, I have seen that Librans read me very well. Gems on the other hand come to me and make me remember them for a long long time. Their nature of being all over the place actually makes me adore them for some reason. They in turn can genuinely make me smile and make awesome friends. 🙂
Close one, real close one. Probably, Gems just about win because they come to my life in numbers and I love each one I have met so far. 🙂
Posted by xomelindabellePosted by SugarfootI have actually witnessed this myself as well. I know a Libra sun, I don't know her moon but I can find out. Anyway, she's friends with my Pisces sister and I seriously do not trust her. She does the comparing thing constantly, and she always has a negative thing to say about someone else. She envied my Aqua friend's relationship and actually got with the Aqua's ex right after they broke-up and the Aqua was pregnant with the guy's baby. Mind you, the Libra was trying to buddy up to the Aqua prior to bedding her man right after the break-up, so fucked. I still don't getPosted by metalaquamonkeyI actually agree with this. My ex bff was a libra sun cancer moon. I think if the sun has a major conflict like hers it can cause the libra to take that comparing thing to extremes. We have a tendency to weigh people's qualities against others. If there's major insecurities there it can cause the libra to compare others against THEMSELVES. Then you see envy and jealousy. It's a really ugly thing to experience.
Me and Geminis get along great and just like someone else mentioned they understand me better. I've dated Geminis before but never dated a Libra. However my best friend is a Libra sun male but most of his chart has Scorpio placements and he's a Leo rising and I get along great with those two signs.
I like Libras but the females are hit or miss. Every female friend who has ever backstabbed me or female that seemed to hate on me (with the exception of 2 Sag chicks) was a Libra sun female. I actually have 3 planets in Libra (Jupiter, Saturn, Pluto) and Libra in my 8th house.
I can get along great with both despite the hit or miss with Libra Sun females. In fact my parents are these two signs, my mom is a Gemini and my dad a Libra Scorpio cusper but born under Libra Sun.
After 16 yrs I had to let go of my friend. Her hating was getting worse and worse. I just got tired of the attacks after awhile. It sucks though because she's a good person who I was super close to for a long time.
The only other females I've seen do this with me are scorp females. Hit or miss with them too.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8That's very true. When you have the air placements that I do as well as an Aries sun, you'll be pretty busy and active a lot. Whether it's within my mind or an activity, I require ME time and to remain busy. So clingy is not my thing. I'm possessive. I'm often seen saying 'my people' about my friends lol my Venus in Taurus is possessive and protective of my lover that I choose as well as friends -- there is a difference and I get annoyed when I'm dating someone who doesn't have much of a life and I'm their only interest. Come on, dude lol I felt badly about it but I had to dump my Pisces sun ex because of this. His life was just me, and it didn't mold well. I tried to make it work, due to the bull's stubborn stance in romance. But I wasn't in love with him, my Gem Mars rushed me into the exciting attention and affection. I'm not sure if I can say that's the culprit. But I do notice my Mas rushing me a bit when I'm enthusiastic about something or someone new. And always before my Venus is ready; there's conflict.Posted by xomelindabellethere is a difference between "clingy" and "possessive" though.Posted by lisabethur8I'm an Aries sun, Libra moon with Gem Mars and Taurus Venus. I get attached and have a harder time letting go but I do not smother or cling onto people. In order to do that, I would have to relinquish my pride haha not happening! 😛
weirdly the aqua with libra moon is not clingy at all, maybe because she's a sag mars/cap venus. i hardly ever see her. maybe she is a Scorpio moon? i dont know her birthtime. I'm hanging on to the notion of libra moon because her Scorpio husband has a libra mars. but then again.....her Scorpio moon would probably work better, since his libra mars can go to her sun sign.
So I could see how she wouldn't be outwardly clingy either. Does she make deep attachments to people? Different than clingy.
taurus venus is possessive, but i dont think it's "clingy"
clingy is more or less, a way of wanting to do everything with the person, as if the other indiviudal has NO interests or life of their own.click to expand


Posted by lisabethur8I am glad that she's not stuck in that toxic relationship, but I still firmly believe that what the Libra sun did was self-centered and disloyal. That may be my Taurus Venus talking lol but don't pretend to be someone's best buddy when you know you have eyes for their man, and swoop in the moment they end things. Especially when a child is involved. That did not and still does not sit well with me.
dammit. the quote isn't working good
but what i wrote is:
that was an ex, and sometimes the ex is a creep and good riddance. so maybe the libra helped out and now she's stuck with the creep.
all types of scenerios you know??
it's better to raise a child alone than be with an asshole.
Posted by Tanya Jonesi agree with this.Posted by xomelindabellePeople have right to mention their choice when you have created a topic like this where you have asked its libra or a gemini.
😢 Leebs get no love haha I see what you folks mean, though. I do believe that I'm capable of deep communication and connection, though. Wholeheartedly. It could be due to other placements, but Libra gets a lot of flack for being 'superficial' or 'shallow'. I'm not at all. I could see Gems and Aquas understanding each other's detachment and desire of freedom. But most Gems I meet seem like they could either manipulate you or totally fuck you over. So hmm...
Why would you mind if they say its gemini?
You have said librans to be fair and agreeable. But if you are a libra, you are not showing that quality. We are not just our sun sign or moon sign. We have so many signs in our chart. We all are mixtures of those signs present in our chart. You are not 'just a libra'. So you should not mind if people don't say that they prefer libra. I was reading other topics in dxp and i found this topic interesting.
I am sorry that i have posted a message here even when this topic has nothing to do with my sign. I just couldn't stop myself from messaging for some reason.click to expand
Posted by xomelindabelleOh ok, they were "buddies?"Posted by lisabethur8I am glad that she's not stuck in that toxic relationship, but I still firmly believe that what the Libra sun did was self-centered and disloyal. That may be my Taurus Venus talking lol but don't pretend to be someone's best buddy when you know you have eyes for their man, and swoop in the moment they end things. Especially when a child is involved. That did not and still does not sit well with me.
dammit. the quote isn't working good
but what i wrote is:
that was an ex, and sometimes the ex is a creep and good riddance. so maybe the libra helped out and now she's stuck with the creep.
all types of scenerios you know??
it's better to raise a child alone than be with an asshole.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8well, that's NOT realistic that women who go for men who have gotten other ex's pregnant are gonna go, "oh i can't get involved with this guy cause i feel sorry for his ex, and he should be with that woman alot and spend time with the baby and raise the baby too"Posted by xomelindabelleOh ok, they were "buddies?"Posted by lisabethur8I am glad that she's not stuck in that toxic relationship, but I still firmly believe that what the Libra sun did was self-centered and disloyal. That may be my Taurus Venus talking lol but don't pretend to be someone's best buddy when you know you have eyes for their man, and swoop in the moment they end things. Especially when a child is involved. That did not and still does not sit well with me.
dammit. the quote isn't working good
but what i wrote is:
that was an ex, and sometimes the ex is a creep and good riddance. so maybe the libra helped out and now she's stuck with the creep.
all types of scenerios you know??
it's better to raise a child alone than be with an asshole.
if they were friends then yes that's DISLOYAL..
if they don't know eachother i dont see the point of loyality you know??
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Posted by AquaMermaidOne of my best friends is a Gem sun and Cancer moon and she's amazing; I think the air sun with a water moon is fantastic. I wasn't focusing on the Cancer moon part when I quoted him, I focused on that one particular Libra sun. I still am curious about her moon and mars. But just to clarify I LOVE crab moons
Damn! The bitch had to drag Cancer Moon in this. Forever holding the grudge and putting the blames on another..LOL! Blocking fails when someone quotes the idiot. Smh
Posted by AquaMermaidlol no one saw through that shit? 😆
I have a Libra brother and he's also a Cancer Moon. He's a darling and gives people more than they deserve. He is very generous and amazing! I have had Libra male friends but no female friends. I interacted with two and they were both condescending cunts! The Scorpio colleague who got cheated by was a Libra girl. Damn she was so smooth! She was double crossing him and he caught her kissing another man. She played victim and started crying and put all the blames on him for not being a good bf! It's unbelievable! And Gemini girl wow! She juggled three bfs. She broke up with one and that guy stalked me and begged me to talk to her so that she would take him back. So much drama! 😆

Posted by lisabethur8Oh the fire dominance probably had a lot to do with it; my Pisces ex was Pisces dominant lol he was a wonderfully sweet and caring person, but didn't have enough gumption for me. We're better as friends.
actually my pisces ex husband wasn't clingy at all. he was INDEPENDENT and too much too much independent, (cause he wanted to go off and do secret stuff) but he was dominant fire so that's a huge reason why he's independent.
i can't stand it if someone isn't independent of their own life too. i'm gonna get upset!!! lol
i just won't even be around that person.
anyway, the universe knows exactly what we like so it's no problem. 🙂
Posted by AquaMermaidwhile she was pregnant?Posted by lisabethur8
come on now. 😆
it's really not realistic.
Lmao! I know a Libra chick who was fucking a married man. She got pregnant and all *facepalm* That guy had three kids. His wife beat her up. Where is the self respect? Smhclick to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Yes the Libra sun practically made it her mission to bond with the Aqua sun. I'm not sure if it was strategic as I think it to be, but this woman barely gave it any thought before she pounced.Posted by xomelindabelleOh ok, they were "buddies?"Posted by lisabethur8I am glad that she's not stuck in that toxic relationship, but I still firmly believe that what the Libra sun did was self-centered and disloyal. That may be my Taurus Venus talking lol but don't pretend to be someone's best buddy when you know you have eyes for their man, and swoop in the moment they end things. Especially when a child is involved. That did not and still does not sit well with me.
dammit. the quote isn't working good
but what i wrote is:
that was an ex, and sometimes the ex is a creep and good riddance. so maybe the libra helped out and now she's stuck with the creep.
all types of scenerios you know??
it's better to raise a child alone than be with an asshole.
if they were friends then yes that's DISLOYAL..
if they don't know eachother i dont see the point of loyality you know??
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Posted by AquaMermaidlolPosted by lisabethur8Posted by AquaMermaidwhile she was pregnant?Posted by lisabethur8
come on now. 😆
it's really not realistic.
Lmao! I know a Libra chick who was fucking a married man. She got pregnant and all *facepalm* That guy had three kids. His wife beat her up. Where is the self respect? Smh
that's not cool.
besides if the man is already putting his ding dong in someone's little cavern, go to it!! he's not worth it anyway.
The wife was an Aries 😆click to expand
Posted by xomelindabelleare you serious? i've seen libra sun female NOT liking air suns at all and Always chose other sun signs. it's really not about sun sign.Posted by lisabethur8Yes the Libra sun practically made it her mission to bond with the Aqua sun. I'm not sure if it was strategic as I think it to be, but this woman barely gave it any thought before she pounced.Posted by xomelindabelleOh ok, they were "buddies?"Posted by lisabethur8I am glad that she's not stuck in that toxic relationship, but I still firmly believe that what the Libra sun did was self-centered and disloyal. That may be my Taurus Venus talking lol but don't pretend to be someone's best buddy when you know you have eyes for their man, and swoop in the moment they end things. Especially when a child is involved. That did not and still does not sit well with me.
dammit. the quote isn't working good
but what i wrote is:
that was an ex, and sometimes the ex is a creep and good riddance. so maybe the libra helped out and now she's stuck with the creep.
all types of scenerios you know??
it's better to raise a child alone than be with an asshole.
if they were friends then yes that's DISLOYAL..
if they don't know eachother i dont see the point of loyality you know??
I totally understand if they don't know each other, then sure. But this was between friends and it just felt wrong to me.click to expand

Posted by AquaMermaidNo surprise there. An Aries sun will hand your ass to you if they really want to lolPosted by lisabethur8Posted by AquaMermaidwhile she was pregnant?Posted by lisabethur8
come on now. 😆
it's really not realistic.
Lmao! I know a Libra chick who was fucking a married man. She got pregnant and all *facepalm* That guy had three kids. His wife beat her up. Where is the self respect? Smh
that's not cool.
besides if the man is already putting his ding dong in someone's little cavern, go to it!! he's not worth it anyway.
The wife was an Aries 😆click to expand
Posted by xomelindabellesays the aries sun and the aries venus/aries mars. 😆Posted by AquaMermaidNo surprise there. An Aries sun will hand your ass to you if they really want to lolPosted by lisabethur8Posted by AquaMermaidwhile she was pregnant?Posted by lisabethur8
come on now. 😆
it's really not realistic.
Lmao! I know a Libra chick who was fucking a married man. She got pregnant and all *facepalm* That guy had three kids. His wife beat her up. Where is the self respect? Smh
that's not cool.
besides if the man is already putting his ding dong in someone's little cavern, go to it!! he's not worth it anyway.
The wife was an Aries 😆click to expand

Posted by AquaMermaidYes I do lol as well as the air at times. Which other Leeb moon?
My experience varies somehow. Belle is Aries Sun/ Leeb Moon and somehow she seems to understand my fire parts. The other Leeb moon though...😆


Posted by AquaMermaidHahaha indeed!!Posted by lisabethur8Posted by xomelindabellesays the aries sun and the aries venus/aries mars. 😆Posted by AquaMermaidNo surprise there. An Aries sun will hand your ass to you if they really want to lolPosted by lisabethur8Posted by AquaMermaidwhile she was pregnant?Posted by lisabethur8
come on now. 😆
it's really not realistic.
Lmao! I know a Libra chick who was fucking a married man. She got pregnant and all *facepalm* That guy had three kids. His wife beat her up. Where is the self respect? Smh
that's not cool.
besides if the man is already putting his ding dong in someone's little cavern, go to it!! he's not worth it anyway.
The wife was an Aries 😆
And we're proud 😆click to expand
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