LiquidAir29
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Do Aquarius women make good mothers?
you could always do a search for: do aquarius women make good mothers?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100322174757AAw1CHw<BR>
and you could always look for answers all over the web.
Most astrology sites will tell you they make good mothers: tolerant, loving, but at first puzzled at motherhood. I don't know why they say that: the puzzling part. If she has a love for animals, her fellow man, and is careful, very careful not to hurt people's feelings. (She'll deeply understand, intuitively how people are; she is easily manipulated because she trusts too much. but she will learn fast that you can't trust everyone - it is unrealistic.) She'll most likely love her children with every fiber of her soul, and not only just tell them, but show them, hold them to her heart: they should be, in her heart and soul more precious than her own life. If she lacks to acknowledge the gift she has been given, that is the deepest tragedy/sorrow of all.
but good luck with your aqua, you don't know what you'll get, astrology or not.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100322174757AAw1CHw<BR>
and you could always look for answers all over the web.
Most astrology sites will tell you they make good mothers: tolerant, loving, but at first puzzled at motherhood. I don't know why they say that: the puzzling part. If she has a love for animals, her fellow man, and is careful, very careful not to hurt people's feelings. (She'll deeply understand, intuitively how people are; she is easily manipulated because she trusts too much. but she will learn fast that you can't trust everyone - it is unrealistic.) She'll most likely love her children with every fiber of her soul, and not only just tell them, but show them, hold them to her heart: they should be, in her heart and soul more precious than her own life. If she lacks to acknowledge the gift she has been given, that is the deepest tragedy/sorrow of all.
but good luck with your aqua, you don't know what you'll get, astrology or not.
@Joon8gem
Wow....Sorry your mother was that way. This kind of scares me in a way because some of those traits you mentioned with your mom I see with my Aqua but very minimal......She has a God Daughter and nephews that she does very well with during certain activitys but at other times she can be kind of cold with them.........She mentioned once before that she would like kids but should wouldnt care if she didnt have them and she also said on a few instances that she just doesnt feel like a motherly type. She'd rather adopt.....She is an Aqua sun and Pisces Moon, I was thinking the Pisces moon would show her motherly traits.
Im a cancer sun and Gemini Moon and family is very important to me and the last thing I want for my kids is harsh and cold mother....Scares me
Wow....Sorry your mother was that way. This kind of scares me in a way because some of those traits you mentioned with your mom I see with my Aqua but very minimal......She has a God Daughter and nephews that she does very well with during certain activitys but at other times she can be kind of cold with them.........She mentioned once before that she would like kids but should wouldnt care if she didnt have them and she also said on a few instances that she just doesnt feel like a motherly type. She'd rather adopt.....She is an Aqua sun and Pisces Moon, I was thinking the Pisces moon would show her motherly traits.
Im a cancer sun and Gemini Moon and family is very important to me and the last thing I want for my kids is harsh and cold mother....Scares me
@MIHA
Thanks for the feed back MIHA...that was an interesting story but it still kind of confirms what I was thinking about aqua moms. You rather adopt than to bare a child, which is what my aqua said on a couple of occasions. But you do seem to have a strong bond with your stepkids, thats good to hear. But I have to disagree with you on your comment:
"i couldn't see myself screaming on a birth delivery table waiting for a child to pop out of my body...i just couldn't...and god perfectly understood that....because in my mind that's all a "biological mother" does in comparison with an adoptive mother"
Its proven that the Biological mother has a special connection with her child that another women is just not capable of having.
But other than that thanks for the feedback.
@JOON8GEM
Thanks Gem. Appreciate the valuable information.
Yea 19 is kind of young, but my sister was around that age when she had her kid and it turned out to be the best thing that happend to her. My aqua is 30 and kind of set in her ways In my opinion. She has strong opinions and shes kinda stubborn (guess im like that too).
"I don't claim to understand aquas or women, but if they value freedom and don't like being tied down and don't like others to make demands on them ... kids will be a difficult thing for them"
Guess your quote sums it up.....Check Check and Check.....sounds just like her...LOL
But who wants any of those things nowadays right?
Thanks GEM
@MIHA
"the truth is that i am the only aqua mother i know...."
Yikes!.......Do they even exist.....I really dont know of many....LOL
My mother is an Aqua. She had me at 17, and my story is just a Tad similar to Joon. There's been a couple of times where she'd make it known that her life would be different if she didn't have my sis and I, and how it was no fair our father's got to do whatever they pleased while she was stuck. I remember thinking as a child *she acts like its our fault she got pregnant* because she really did push the blame on us sometimes. Like Joon, rarely was there a cooked meal...definitely no breakfast. My sister learned to cook at five because she had to. Not saying in ANY way that we would starve. She'd make sure we ate, she just wasn't cooking. Being a Cap I definitely grew up with a strong sense of right and wrong and often felt I had to raise myself, raise her in ways, and help her raise my sister.
In school I'd wake up to "do you want to go to school today?" Giving me the option, and of course I'd say no. I missed 32 days my freshman year and almost failed but I pulled through. She wasn't big on making us do much.
She liked to go out still, Very attractive and VERY popular. She also didn't believe in censoring herself at all, so I was aware of pretty much everything as a child. She didn't believe is stability either so we moved ALOT, but she was definitely determined that we'd always stay together.
In a nutshell she wasn't the worst parent but far from the best. I do think she's had a ton of regrets and still tries to make it up to us today. The only thing I get dad about is realizing at times that she didn't teach my sister and I much of anything. I love her though. We both love our mommy. We accepted which she is a long time ago.
In school I'd wake up to "do you want to go to school today?" Giving me the option, and of course I'd say no. I missed 32 days my freshman year and almost failed but I pulled through. She wasn't big on making us do much.
She liked to go out still, Very attractive and VERY popular. She also didn't believe in censoring herself at all, so I was aware of pretty much everything as a child. She didn't believe is stability either so we moved ALOT, but she was definitely determined that we'd always stay together.
In a nutshell she wasn't the worst parent but far from the best. I do think she's had a ton of regrets and still tries to make it up to us today. The only thing I get dad about is realizing at times that she didn't teach my sister and I much of anything. I love her though. We both love our mommy. We accepted which she is a long time ago.
You can just look at one's sun when it comes to motherhood or any other thing. Look at the whole chart. I know 2 aqua mothers. Although they are both different in their mothering style , I noticed one thing in common, which was that they both ensured that their kids were independent. Aquas are independent so it would make sense that they would make their kids independent as well. Another thing in common was that both weren't lovey dovey/smothering type of mothers like per say a cancer or pisces mom.
Although both aqua women made their kids independent, there is a stark contrast in how they brought that about. One of them was so neglectful and too busy in her own life that her kids (5 of them) had to help themselves. Result being that none of them went to school or are ambitious in any which way. Two of them are dead as a result of bad life choices (drugs). All of the kids are on welfare, when they are fully capable of making money. Since welfare isn't enough, they do credit card scams, and never get caught. So overall, independent but the quality of that independence sucked.
The other aqua mother had to deal with a deadbeat husband/father of her kids. So she spent her life making money via sewing clothes in a third world country, where it is hard for a woman to get a job. She would cater from her house as well. With the money she earned, she paid her kids' tuition fees for school. The kids (5 of them) saw how their mother slaved away so they can become somebody. They acknowledged and did really well for themselves. One daughter is a doctor, the other is an engineer from top notch university, the other 2 daughters may not have become someone professionally, but they are equally competent and amazing human beings. These 2 daughters were older of the 5 kids so they helped their mom with catering and sewing so the younger 3 siblings can go to school and become something.
Overall, you reap what you sow. If you are an attentive mother, you will bear the fruits of it. If you are neglectful and lazy, then u will see as well.
Although both aqua women made their kids independent, there is a stark contrast in how they brought that about. One of them was so neglectful and too busy in her own life that her kids (5 of them) had to help themselves. Result being that none of them went to school or are ambitious in any which way. Two of them are dead as a result of bad life choices (drugs). All of the kids are on welfare, when they are fully capable of making money. Since welfare isn't enough, they do credit card scams, and never get caught. So overall, independent but the quality of that independence sucked.
The other aqua mother had to deal with a deadbeat husband/father of her kids. So she spent her life making money via sewing clothes in a third world country, where it is hard for a woman to get a job. She would cater from her house as well. With the money she earned, she paid her kids' tuition fees for school. The kids (5 of them) saw how their mother slaved away so they can become somebody. They acknowledged and did really well for themselves. One daughter is a doctor, the other is an engineer from top notch university, the other 2 daughters may not have become someone professionally, but they are equally competent and amazing human beings. These 2 daughters were older of the 5 kids so they helped their mom with catering and sewing so the younger 3 siblings can go to school and become something.
Overall, you reap what you sow. If you are an attentive mother, you will bear the fruits of it. If you are neglectful and lazy, then u will see as well.
that's really good, aqua09, about independence. However, any Sun sign, chart whatever can "act" independent and give independence to their children. Even neglect them. We can make tally of all the Mother celebrities who have neglected their children, and/or given a lot to their children. They all come in different sun sign/moon, ect.
Even a career woman who neglects her children can have these. A woman who concentrates on her career only and forgets to give nurture to her child, can offer little but offer very much in money/funds.
One special characteristic of an Aqua Sun woman is her looking as if her eyes are searching the skies, something far -off, or her mind wanders....in imagination, or as if her thoughts are collecting.
Even a career woman who neglects her children can have these. A woman who concentrates on her career only and forgets to give nurture to her child, can offer little but offer very much in money/funds.
One special characteristic of an Aqua Sun woman is her looking as if her eyes are searching the skies, something far -off, or her mind wanders....in imagination, or as if her thoughts are collecting.
*not just celebrities but historic figures.
Posted by lisabethur8
that's really good, aqua09, about independence. However, any Sun sign, chart whatever can "act" independent and give independence to their children. Even neglect them. We can make tally of all the Mother celebrities who have neglected their children, and/or given a lot to their children. They all come in different sun sign/moon, ect.
Even a career woman who neglects her children can have these. A woman who concentrates on her career only and forgets to give nurture to her child, can offer little but offer very much in money/funds.
One special characteristic of an Aqua Sun woman is her looking as if her eyes are searching the skies, something far -off, or her mind wanders....in imagination, or as if her thoughts are collecting.
All I'm saying is that 1) you have to look at the whole chart to see how loving and nurturing a woman is
and 2) if she is neglectful of her responsibilities as a person, then most likely she will be neglectful with we kids. Neglect is a form of an abuse that results in deliquents. Lol
Posted by aquarius09Posted by lisabethur8
that's really good, aqua09, about independence. However, any Sun sign, chart whatever can "act" independent and give independence to their children. Even neglect them. We can make tally of all the Mother celebrities who have neglected their children, and/or given a lot to their children. They all come in different sun sign/moon, ect.
Even a career woman who neglects her children can have these. A woman who concentrates on her career only and forgets to give nurture to her child, can offer little but offer very much in money/funds.
One special characteristic of an Aqua Sun woman is her looking as if her eyes are searching the skies, something far -off, or her mind wanders....in imagination, or as if her thoughts are collecting.
All I'm saying is that 1) you have to look at the whole chart to see how loving and nurturing a woman is
and 2) if she is neglectful of her responsibilities as a person, then most likely she will be neglectful with we kids. Neglect is a form of an abuse that results in deliquents. Lolclick to expand
hmmm yeah. it takes a strong commitment. definitely. if you want to be a mother, you're in it for life.
I would like to start of that my childhood wasn't the best. I had a lot of verbal and physical abuse from my parents. REALLY unstable childhood. Despite the pains i went through i learned something more valuable to apply to my children (if i plan on having some). I still think how loving one can be is irrelevant. I can enjoy playing with children, think they are adorable, laugh and have a blast, but the real question is do i have the capacity of being a mother, dealing with the possibilities of losing my child early in death, them getting kidnapped, letting my fears and worries go and balancing that with letting them grow than to inhibit (like my parents did), would i be able to not project anything on to them? my bad work day, bad martial life (if that is a possibility) my lack of good mother skills and blame them for getting low grades? Ultimately the question then is, can i love my children the way they NEED. and that in itself is the hardest thing in the world...the pressure. A parent is like God in a child's eyes. As children we expect a lot from them and at times don't really understand what is really like. Now that i am older, i see things differently, My parents indeed loved me so much, i dont accept it or enjoyed their manner of doing things back them (abuse and all) but its because they have issues themselves.
Were they loving? YES .loved me so much.at the end of the day, they would do anything to protect me (this statement took a lot of maturing for me to say)
Did they do it the right way? no. in turn was i a good child? NO even if they started my rebellion, i still need to take responsibility that i made those decisions.
Does it make them less than good parents? NO, i realized its just so hard to be parents, i didn't make it easier for them. I love them so much now, the sacrifices they had to make, the inner struggles they had to deal with, who am i to say they are horrible nowadays? My father even though he is tough and hard on the outside he is sensitive and caring. He just has a horrible way of showing it. We get along now because i've made a conscious effort to try and to hope people change. and yes they do. We won't be like some families where we go hang out but we still call to see if we are healthy, and things are good. LIke the book ANna Karenia "evey family is unique"
Were they loving? YES .loved me so much.at the end of the day, they would do anything to protect me (this statement took a lot of maturing for me to say)
Did they do it the right way? no. in turn was i a good child? NO even if they started my rebellion, i still need to take responsibility that i made those decisions.
Does it make them less than good parents? NO, i realized its just so hard to be parents, i didn't make it easier for them. I love them so much now, the sacrifices they had to make, the inner struggles they had to deal with, who am i to say they are horrible nowadays? My father even though he is tough and hard on the outside he is sensitive and caring. He just has a horrible way of showing it. We get along now because i've made a conscious effort to try and to hope people change. and yes they do. We won't be like some families where we go hang out but we still call to see if we are healthy, and things are good. LIke the book ANna Karenia "evey family is unique"
Ironically, they taught me that you should learn to accept people the way they are at times, and learn to handle different strokes of life. To learn how to forgive and to do things with passion. TO love others even if they are at times difficult to deal with. These lessons are applicable to all sorts of sections in life. When i have children, i'll show them the "right way" but still instill these lessons to them as well. And i want my parents to "go" knowing that i dont hate them, that they worked hard, and they can rest in peace. They are afterall, simply human not God.
and im not saying we need to accept those bads, but simply to not treat them horribly the way they have, then it makes us no better. we just have to be civil.
My mom is an Aqua. I don't know her placements because I can't remember her birthday. She was never the "affectionate" type, but as a small child she would go bike riding with me. I took it as love.
Well literally one day when I was 8 years old, as she was leaving to go out I said, "Wait I want to come too.". She looked at me and said, "I don't get any attention when I go out with you. I'm not taking you out anymore.". She walked out. My father and I laughed. We waited and waited. I ran around to look out the window for the car in the parking lot and saw that she really left.
A few times when we went riding, she took me to a man's house and told me to watch tv while she "talked" to him, but not to tell my father we went there. When I grew up I finally realized what the deal was with her "friend" she had me around.
She was cold and selfish. She even had sex with my sister's boyfriend. Oh and let's not get into how she had her at 18 and didn't raise her.
Smh. When had my daughter I was so afraid of being a mother like her that I started off doing everything my mother DIDN'T do. I thought I'd be safe that way.
Of course sun signs are not the whole story. My daughter is an aqua with a Pisces moon and Venus in Pisces. She is a very sweet, affectionate, sensitive, compassionate girl. She is still young, but I see enough love in her to be a good mother.
I'd say take your time with this woman. Time will reveal everything. I'm not sure about the tests with going out around kids and seeing the reaction. I myself don't goo goo gah gah every kid I see. And depending on my mood, I will leave a restaurant with a screaming kid that's been screaming too long. But I love my daughter deeply. I take her everywhere. I'd die for her. And I wish to have another. So just take your time with this lady.And good luck.
Well literally one day when I was 8 years old, as she was leaving to go out I said, "Wait I want to come too.". She looked at me and said, "I don't get any attention when I go out with you. I'm not taking you out anymore.". She walked out. My father and I laughed. We waited and waited. I ran around to look out the window for the car in the parking lot and saw that she really left.
A few times when we went riding, she took me to a man's house and told me to watch tv while she "talked" to him, but not to tell my father we went there. When I grew up I finally realized what the deal was with her "friend" she had me around.
She was cold and selfish. She even had sex with my sister's boyfriend. Oh and let's not get into how she had her at 18 and didn't raise her.
Smh. When had my daughter I was so afraid of being a mother like her that I started off doing everything my mother DIDN'T do. I thought I'd be safe that way.
Of course sun signs are not the whole story. My daughter is an aqua with a Pisces moon and Venus in Pisces. She is a very sweet, affectionate, sensitive, compassionate girl. She is still young, but I see enough love in her to be a good mother.
I'd say take your time with this woman. Time will reveal everything. I'm not sure about the tests with going out around kids and seeing the reaction. I myself don't goo goo gah gah every kid I see. And depending on my mood, I will leave a restaurant with a screaming kid that's been screaming too long. But I love my daughter deeply. I take her everywhere. I'd die for her. And I wish to have another. So just take your time with this lady.And good luck.
I have an aqua moon btw. So I can be very aloof. But once you are in my heart the Sag fire kicks in lol
Posted by miha
Mebs......."My mom is an Aqua. I don't know her placements because I can't remember her birthday."
you don't know her birthday...but you know she's an aqua...give me a break....your story sounds more about a libra mother, not an aqua one...
Lemme see. I know her birthday is in the first week of February which would make her an aqua. But I don't know the day or the year, thus I don't know her moon, Venus etc. Happy now? So give me a break with your ridiculous assumptions.
@mebs
Thanks for the info Mebs....And I agree....Time does tell everything.....I'll try and keep you updated and how everything works out.
Thanks for the info Mebs....And I agree....Time does tell everything.....I'll try and keep you updated and how everything works out.
@capgirl75
No we both dont have any kids yet.....But thanks...I havent looked at it from your angle yet but it kinda makes sense.....Nobody really knows until you actually have kids.
Thanks
No we both dont have any kids yet.....But thanks...I havent looked at it from your angle yet but it kinda makes sense.....Nobody really knows until you actually have kids.
Thanks
aquarius, if we go by planetary energy, will usually get better with age as mothers. Saturn = the wise old man.
if the others here have mothers that started having children in their teens, it's commendable that they want to stay with them, through thick and thin. From how I saw my grandparents and their children, and watching too, shows like "the nanny to the rescue" (don't know it exactly), mothering/parenting is very tough, especially for career women who have husbands and are over the adult age.
if the others here have mothers that started having children in their teens, it's commendable that they want to stay with them, through thick and thin. From how I saw my grandparents and their children, and watching too, shows like "the nanny to the rescue" (don't know it exactly), mothering/parenting is very tough, especially for career women who have husbands and are over the adult age.
@DG, some aquas aren't good as friends either. :/
Posted by DG
^^^I agree....a bit on the phony, bologne side.
well I don't have many friends myself, but I like it like that. However, there is an aquarius g/f I do know and she's a very nice person, and almost TOO giving. Her friendship style doesn't extend past her family though.
and you're funny DG. 😛 You said theyre good as friends and then agree with me. Not every aqua, or woman is going to be the same.
Posted by DGPosted by lisabethur8Posted by DG
^^^I agree....a bit on the phony, bologne side.
well I don't have many friends myself, but I like it like that. However, there is an aquarius g/f I do know and she's a very nice person, and almost TOO giving. Her friendship style doesn't extend past her family though.
and you're funny DG. 😛 You said theyre good as friends and then agree with me. Not every aqua, or woman is going to be the same.
Wel,l I agreed cus I have never really got close with those two women, simply becasue I didn't like the way they treated their children. Kind of turned me off. I was cordial, yet I saw a very fake side to the both of them. This was my observation, with which I am sharing. Never had an argument with either one, nor did I tell them how to raise their kids, not my place.
I was just adding a tid bit of what I observed.click to expand
allright. the you like them as friends threw me off. 🙂
Hmm interesting perspectives...
I have to say my mum was a brilliant mum. She wasn't overly affectionate and I can count on one hand the times I saw her cry or when she told us she loved us (she never said it directly, typical Aqua) but we felt her love in different ways. She was a fantastic cook, hardworking, caring (often too much) and dedicated to us as a family unit. She was really good with money and we always managed to go on holiday once a year without fail. We never had much but we had rich, fulfilling lives.
During my teenage years she managed the right balance with freedom and discipline. I got beatings but not enough to mentally scar me; it was justified (upon reflection). Friends, family and neighbours loved her, and I miss her terribly.
I have to say my mum was a brilliant mum. She wasn't overly affectionate and I can count on one hand the times I saw her cry or when she told us she loved us (she never said it directly, typical Aqua) but we felt her love in different ways. She was a fantastic cook, hardworking, caring (often too much) and dedicated to us as a family unit. She was really good with money and we always managed to go on holiday once a year without fail. We never had much but we had rich, fulfilling lives.
During my teenage years she managed the right balance with freedom and discipline. I got beatings but not enough to mentally scar me; it was justified (upon reflection). Friends, family and neighbours loved her, and I miss her terribly.
Do Aquarius women make good mothers?
Yes. —🙂
Posted by DGPosted by size zero superhero
The Aquarian mothers I know take great pride in their children and are great financial providers for the family. None of said Aquamoms fit a textbook definition for 'maternal'; in other words parenthood does not consume their original identity and they aren't fiercely protective of the kid/s(yes, this is a positive trait!).
Balance, not an easy thing to master as a mother....the OP asks if we think an Aqua mom, is a good mom...according to MY standards, not really. Thats just me though.click to expand
DG, according to astrology, MOON ruled women are much more attuned to being the best "type" of mothers.
Tbh, with your analysis/observation of those two women who have their kids run off to other people's homes because their fridge is empty is just irresponsibile. They dont really care about FOOD and nutrition in the household. To keep their fridge FULL or even their cupboards full. Sometimes, the kids don't like the food that's filled in the kitchen, but rather go off and want to eat junk food. Or the ethnic food, (sometimes, it is difference of food/variety that the household usually has in their home) that they aren't interested in, and go off and say, "i hate this type of food!" or if the food they have offered, at other people's homes with their friends are much more interesting. The parents should, in my opinion, should definitely go and find the right kinds of foods that their kids love. Granted, it's NOT easy because kids are going to be all, "I want a couple bag of chips, some pizza in the freezer just in case me and my friends come over, I want some chocolate chip cookies," and the list of junk food goes on and on.
For myself, i love a FULL fridge and a full pantry. I love that because i hate deprivation. My mother is a good cook,but my cancer aunt is an even BETTER cook. I cant say that honestly to my mother cause she'll get jealous and I do not want to evoke jealousy in my mother. I want my mother to know she is appreciated in every way, but we can't all be excellent cooks! Even Martha Stewart was an excellent cook. she had a stellium in leo, sag moon, aries mars, virgo venus.
But i do agree with you about mothering: it's balance and balance is NEVER easy in anything.
Posted by Claro de LunaPosted by SwimmingLioness
I think a woman must put her relationship with her mate before her children, it's the foundation for the rest.
Wow, seriously?? I don't think I could ever put someone else or myself/ a relationship before my daughter. Copious amount of feeling and the sense of responsibility for another just takes over completely. It even has to some extent for my little sister; I've had thoughts and intentions I never knew I was capable of when I believed someone was doing her wrong.click to expand
if it came down to it, children comes first. As much as I love my husband with all my heart and soul, children comes first. I'm not trying to downgrade marriage either, because that's just stupid. The love between husband and wife is eternal and beautiful. I love that, but it's difficult to explain, as i'm not very expressive verbally about this, the bonding of child mother is too tight, it's an entirely different feeling. Like something very invisible and unbreakable.
Posted by DGPosted by SwimmingLioness
I think a woman must put her relationship with her mate before her children, it's the foundation for the rest. Having said that, if the mother puts herself in competition with the children for the attention of her mate, then there's a problem. This has been my experience, my mother is Aqua, in many ways she made me her rival, I couldn't care less who wins, I'm not competing.
Both my daughters friends would spend alot of time at my house. When her mother moved to Georgia she went with her(not much of a choice)but came back to Miami about 2 years ago alone. Her mother was an LPN and her daughter when she came back went to school for the same vocation. When she graduated I threw a party for her and her mother came over empty handed. The mother seemed almost threatened by her daughters achievment.
I also believe a relationships with ones mate should come first but not second, third and fourth as well.click to expand
Honestly, women who feel "threatened" with other women especially their own DAUGHTERS, I really don't know. Ive read alot of stuff around here with mother/daughter dynamics and i'm not a psychologist but i just dont understand that. It's INSECURITY, isn't it? When you didn't recieve the love and nurturing as a child into a woman, their lack of nurture and love may have probably ...well have been undeveloped. I could read articles and articles upon articles on it but even professional psychologists, can't HEAL these women if they can't start looking inside themselves. They have probably projected what they've inherited from their mother, and their mother's mother. A girl grows up to learn from their mothers, grandmothers, because being very attuned with the Moon, that's truly their inheritance of feminity imo.
Posted by seraph
Astrological archetypes don't change from role to role. An Aqua mom is also a an Aqua person, and will exhibit those general Aqua tendencies that apply to relationships.
Aquarius is the third sign of the Air triplicity. Heavy Air ruled by Saturn. Additionally, modern analysts consider Uranus a ruler, too. That alone should say a great deal.
Aquarius is synonymous with intellectual depth + a need to be free from restrictions. So, what we have is someone who typically raises detachment to a fine art, notwithstanding other elements in their chart. It is not that they're incapable of emotion, it's that they deal with it differently and place a different value on it. It's neither good nor bad, but just *is*. Perfect for some situations, not so perfect for others.
our other ruler Uranus is also about change, not always the "negative" connotation of changing just to change to rebel badly. It can also mean change as in something positive. To be free from the restrictions of anything bad/negative in the past, to change, evolve into something better. And this is always a never ending thing. It's in everyone's chart.
Posted by DG
^^^No, it broke my heart, for them, not so much myself but for them...I had dreams of a family that would be together always. Makes me cry till today.
I understand too, DG, after what you wrote. —
They will, if they have harmonious aspects of their moon.
Moon is the general significator for motherhood.
Moon is the general significator for motherhood.
Actually honey, what is the rising of your Aqua? You might also look at her Venus 🙂
@demeter
Thanks for the response
My Aqua is an
Scorpio Rising
Aquarius Sun
Pisces Moon
Aquarius Venus
Pisces Mars
Thanks for the response
My Aqua is an
Scorpio Rising
Aquarius Sun
Pisces Moon
Aquarius Venus
Pisces Mars
Gemini sun/aqua moon so double the trouble 🙂
I have a very close relationship with both of my children, We laugh together so much, I goof around with them, they will sit there and ask me "mum tell us one of your stories from when you were little!" and they love it because usually they are really silly or crazy, I want there lives to be filled with fun but also encourage them to make decisions for their selves and take ownership, i will offer guidance and give them informed choices, this way it also encourages freedom for them to grow, ie: you really want to try that? ok well do you think its the best thing for you and how will it affect you and others around you? what can you do different?" I dont talk down to them i talk with them. I wont tidy their rooms, thats their responsibility and works because they dont want their friend to see them living like pugs lol.
I had a simuliar situation with DG with their dad so its just us, i dated a guy for 9 1/2 months since, i kept it seperate from my relationship with my children, they were all aware of each other but no I wouldnt introduce someone into their lives until i knew it was for keeps and I know its someone who i feel relates with them well, there is no way i would put a relationship with a guy first where they felt unhappy just for me to be happy, i tried that with their dad for them but its more damaging for their well being... there has to be a balance. the love you have with your children is very different, its unconditional, no matter how powerful the love there are still conditions when you love a partner, that only truly survives if you are both feeding it.
Im sociable and most my friends are so all of our children have grown up in a sociable enviroment, they love to party..They also love US time where we just cut ourselves off from the world and chill with duvets movies and treats, I have to work some evenings so i make sure once a week we go and do something fun together the three of us 🙂
From very little i loved encouraging their imagination, it was all about dens and magic, i have only confessed today to my 13 year old daughter, it didnt really rain sweets from the sky when she was 4, i was throwing them out of her bedroom window then hiding haha, she was like "MUM!! YOU SPOILT IT!" LOL
My down fall is that I am inconsistent with rules, some days i can be much stricter than others, sometimes i can be too laid back.
I have a very close relationship with both of my children, We laugh together so much, I goof around with them, they will sit there and ask me "mum tell us one of your stories from when you were little!" and they love it because usually they are really silly or crazy, I want there lives to be filled with fun but also encourage them to make decisions for their selves and take ownership, i will offer guidance and give them informed choices, this way it also encourages freedom for them to grow, ie: you really want to try that? ok well do you think its the best thing for you and how will it affect you and others around you? what can you do different?" I dont talk down to them i talk with them. I wont tidy their rooms, thats their responsibility and works because they dont want their friend to see them living like pugs lol.
I had a simuliar situation with DG with their dad so its just us, i dated a guy for 9 1/2 months since, i kept it seperate from my relationship with my children, they were all aware of each other but no I wouldnt introduce someone into their lives until i knew it was for keeps and I know its someone who i feel relates with them well, there is no way i would put a relationship with a guy first where they felt unhappy just for me to be happy, i tried that with their dad for them but its more damaging for their well being... there has to be a balance. the love you have with your children is very different, its unconditional, no matter how powerful the love there are still conditions when you love a partner, that only truly survives if you are both feeding it.
Im sociable and most my friends are so all of our children have grown up in a sociable enviroment, they love to party..They also love US time where we just cut ourselves off from the world and chill with duvets movies and treats, I have to work some evenings so i make sure once a week we go and do something fun together the three of us 🙂
From very little i loved encouraging their imagination, it was all about dens and magic, i have only confessed today to my 13 year old daughter, it didnt really rain sweets from the sky when she was 4, i was throwing them out of her bedroom window then hiding haha, she was like "MUM!! YOU SPOILT IT!" LOL
My down fall is that I am inconsistent with rules, some days i can be much stricter than others, sometimes i can be too laid back.
@guiccigemini55
Lol!....raining sweats!?......You sound like a fun Mom!
One of my cousins is a gem mom and she is so fun to be around....she
Always is doing something interesting with her daughter.
Gems have this energy about them that I love, I'm a gem moon. But what role does an aquarius
Moon play in being a mother?
Lol!....raining sweats!?......You sound like a fun Mom!
One of my cousins is a gem mom and she is so fun to be around....she
Always is doing something interesting with her daughter.
Gems have this energy about them that I love, I'm a gem moon. But what role does an aquarius
Moon play in being a mother?
So far from what I read it seems like aqua women who have children at younger ages have a hard time with
Motherhood.....what about aqua's who have children at a matureer age?
Motherhood.....what about aqua's who have children at a matureer age?
My mom is an Aquarius (technically she's on the Cap/Aqua cusp, but she's much more Aquarius to me). There are eight of us bundles of joy and she raised us all on her own. Even as a young mom she was responsible. She had my older brother when she was eighteen and from the start she's always been on her shit. As soon as she found out she was pregnant she found a job, got her own place, and hunkered down. She certainly never planned for a family of eight, especially with two sets of twins being in the mix, but she's always handled it well. We didn't have much growing up, but she was the kind of mom who always made sure we had a Christmas. She was always there to listen and give advice should we need it. She had my two youngest brothers at age 42. Her parenting with them is much more lax. She's older now, and tired, so I get why my little brothers get a little more slack than I did at their age. Regardless of that mom has always been good to us. She raised us on her own, and worked her ass off (and still works her ass off, because by no means is she done yet). I didn't have the perfect childhood or anything but she always tried her best. In my experience the Aquarius mom is a go-getter, will defend her kids until the end, and tries to provide the best life possible for her kids. 🙂
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@guiccigemini55
Lol!....raining sweats!?......You sound like a fun Mom!
One of my cousins is a gem mom and she is so fun to be around....she
Always is doing something interesting with her daughter.
Gems have this energy about them that I love, I'm a gem moon. But what role does an aquarius
Moon play in being a mother?
The Aqua moon: I encourage alot of freedom, they want to be wierd then be wierd, theyll grow out of it or they wont, I can be a bit eccentric in my behaviour, I behave how i want to behave, same with them as long as they are respectful, they want to dress way out then do so, go against the norm I love it! my daughter is an aqua, son is a sag we all love our freedom. Im a patient listener they can tell me anything and like I said the rules and discipline, Im rubbish with it, traits of an aqua mom.
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