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I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
if it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,

are you talking about just friendship/platonic?

as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.

Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.

I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".

We're just too different.


lol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.

(as if she had some taurus in her)

i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?

and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.

show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.

(i'm very clingy like that) lol

when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,

he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol


But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.


you dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?


Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.


I don't mind cute clingy after the third date. Just not in a "I want to be your BFF". Not before 3 months anyway.
Aquas don't usually do clingy. We don't know how to cling. lol You have to give us a nudge to show us what you want and need.

Besides, if you look at all the postings about Cancer men on dxp, you guys seem to not want a clingy person.


I mean, I don't search for clingy people. I think affection is a bigger thing for me. I'd need that relatively early on.
Yes, but is there a such thing as too much affection to you? Are you ever turned off by someone who cares about you? How would someone know if it's not enough or too much?


not really, i really like to cuddle on the couch with my man.

what about yourself? is too much cuddling or physical affection too much for you?
When I get out there and start dating again, cuddles are welcomed. I still don't think I can initiate anything though.


Just be yourself and enjoy yourself. Fuck everything else.
Lol I can't! 😢 I'm very reserved in person and men hate it.


Some men really like the shy reserved type. It's really important to be yourself. Messing with that will negatively affect other things down the line.


Honestly, it's hard for me to trust men. My friends come to me for advice and the stories are appalling. Dxp postings have made it worst. So I'm always on guard.

I'm shy but I don't think men realize it cause I'm sassy! When it comes to showing affection I'm shy, so after some time they assume I'm not interested. 😩


You're thinking too much. Go out. Have some fun and be yourself.

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I know. I'm told that all the time. Can't help it. Thanks so much!
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I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
if it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,

are you talking about just friendship/platonic?

as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.

Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.

I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".

We're just too different.


lol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.

(as if she had some taurus in her)

i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?

and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.

show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.

(i'm very clingy like that) lol

when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,

he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol


But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.


you dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?


Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.


I don't mind cute clingy after the third date. Just not in a "I want to be your BFF". Not before 3 months anyway.
Aquas don't usually do clingy. We don't know how to cling. lol You have to give us a nudge to show us what you want and need.

Besides, if you look at all the postings about Cancer men on dxp, you guys seem to not want a clingy person.


I mean, I don't search for clingy people. I think affection is a bigger thing for me. I'd need that relatively early on.
Yes, but is there a such thing as too much affection to you? Are you ever turned off by someone who cares about you? How would someone know if it's not enough or too much?


not really, i really like to cuddle on the couch with my man.

what about yourself? is too much cuddling or physical affection too much for you?
When I get out there and start dating again, cuddles are welcomed. I still don't think I can initiate anything though.


Just be yourself and enjoy yourself. Fuck everything else.
Lol I can't! 😢 I'm very reserved in person and men hate it.


Some men really like the shy reserved type. It's really important to be yourself. Messing with that will negatively affect other things down the line.


Honestly, it's hard for me to trust men. My friends come to me for advice and the stories are appalling. Dxp postings have made it worst. So I'm always on guard.

I'm shy but I don't think men realize it cause I'm sassy! When it comes to showing affection I'm shy, so after some time they assume I'm not interested. 😩


You're thinking too much. Go out. Have some fun and be yourself.

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Haha suggesting an Aqua to stop thinking. Hehehe

But I agree, be yourself!
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I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
if it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,

are you talking about just friendship/platonic?

as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.

Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.

I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".

We're just too different.


lol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.

(as if she had some taurus in her)

i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?

and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.

show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.

(i'm very clingy like that) lol

when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,

he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol


But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.


you dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?


Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.


I don't mind cute clingy after the third date. Just not in a "I want to be your BFF". Not before 3 months anyway.
Aquas don't usually do clingy. We don't know how to cling. lol You have to give us a nudge to show us what you want and need.

Besides, if you look at all the postings about Cancer men on dxp, you guys seem to not want a clingy person.


I mean, I don't search for clingy people. I think affection is a bigger thing for me. I'd need that relatively early on.
Yes, but is there a such thing as too much affection to you? Are you ever turned off by someone who cares about you? How would someone know if it's not enough or too much?


not really, i really like to cuddle on the couch with my man.

what about yourself? is too much cuddling or physical affection too much for you?
When I get out there and start dating again, cuddles are welcomed. I still don't think I can initiate anything though.


Just be yourself and enjoy yourself. Fuck everything else.
Lol I can't! 😢 I'm very reserved in person and men hate it.


Some men really like the shy reserved type. It's really important to be yourself. Messing with that will negatively affect other things down the line.


Honestly, it's hard for me to trust men. My friends come to me for advice and the stories are appalling. Dxp postings have made it worst. So I'm always on guard.

I'm shy but I don't think men realize it cause I'm sassy! When it comes to showing affection I'm shy, so after some time they assume I'm not interested. 😩


You're thinking too much. Go out. Have some fun and be yourself.



Haha suggesting an Aqua to stop thinking. Hehehe

But I agree, be yourself!
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I am myself. I just don't trust people, so I'm usually observing and never doing.

I'll get out there and see where trial and error takes me. 🙂

I just have to find the time and pay attention. A Taurus friend of mine always say I walk thru a sea of men starring at me and never notice because I am always on a mission. I'm now working on paying attention. ☺

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I think it is because they barely react to things to people want to see how far they go. My Aqua says he has experienced this. In a way I think it's the opposite he expects things from me then he gets confused when I don't live up to what he thinks is happening. I think he is never sure what he is feeling and projects that on to me. Saying things like I feel like you feel this way when I can't even figure out how he came to that conclusion it comes off as stuff he is really feeling about me but he isn't sure how to express it.
it doesn't sound like an easy going relationshp for you and your aqua though, if it's too hard. :/
No it's not I thought it was getting better but I think I was wrong.
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that's too bad.

why do you two remain if it's too hard? do you feel it's still worth it to stay though?

are you both married yet?
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Broke up tonight but I'm still here it's like neither of us let go but ultimately we want different things when it come to marriage. Just trying to figure out how to say goodbye.
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I see women always trying to change a male aquas.

That it’s one of the reasons aqua like me. Apparently I don’t do that and they like that they can be themselves around me.

I am talking about male and female. My aqua friends always mention that to me. So obviously they feel pressure from other people.

The same with partners.


I think its not really that women are trying to change aquas but more like expecting them to be more flexible and sensitive to their partners. If what they do is something you don’t agree on, do you just accept it or you say something? I personally would say something but not to the intent of changing them per se but making them aware of how other people feel towards their actions. Otherwise, it wont work. The entire world wont bend for aquas when they fail to adapt to other people’s needs.
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i think if he's the type that can "adapt" he will....like say being mutable dominant.

i realize that with my husband, i adapted, with every ex i had, i adapted. that's why i wasn't aware of how men love, i mean i could read it in books and films but my ex's were also romantic, showering me with gifts, being passionate. but the lack of affection and closeness is what i was missing, and when i began with my husband, the closeness and lovingness, affectionate manner is so wonderful to me. but i think, that it depends on the placements. because some peeps may not like that clingyness and super deep affection and cuddle sweetness. they may find it icky and gross.

edit - of course i saw the love between my grandparents, but that's different, plus my grandparents worked far away from eachother, both my grandparents worked in different countries or worked far, business traveling. but they were very loving to their wives.

my parents aren't really that loving to eachother to be honest. lol but they stick together thick and thin,

i find their arrangement kind of cold. i really love my grandparent's kind of love if i had to choose. cause they more affectionate to eachother.

some parents are just not affectionate. but they are still showing love in their own way, being there through the thick and thin and being super supportive.
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i think too my husband also saw his parents not very affectionate as a child, but his grandparents were through the thick and thin and his mother's side is very affectionate, loving grandparents, so it's similar we have. the only thing is, his parents couldnt stand eachother too much and divorced early. actually his father can't stand it, and his mother would have stayed through the thick and thin. you know...capricorn women can be like that. Kind of like Vannessa Paradijs who was with Johnny Depp, she remained and remained and stayed with him for years, over a decade, but he never married her. She could understand him but he never wanted to keep her and threw her away, and went and married immediately the Taurus woman with libra moon, capricorn mars, taurus venus, Amber Heard.

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i find that cappy women are similar to cancer women, will stay and and stay till it is too much to bear.

kind of like Jeri Hall who remained with Mick Jagger tooo long while he cheated, and she stayed too long,

and finally she went for Rupert who is so old, but he is good to her.

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I think it is because they barely react to things to people want to see how far they go. My Aqua says he has experienced this. In a way I think it's the opposite he expects things from me then he gets confused when I don't live up to what he thinks is happening. I think he is never sure what he is feeling and projects that on to me. Saying things like I feel like you feel this way when I can't even figure out how he came to that conclusion it comes off as stuff he is really feeling about me but he isn't sure how to express it.
it doesn't sound like an easy going relationshp for you and your aqua though, if it's too hard. :/
No it's not I thought it was getting better but I think I was wrong.
:/

that's too bad.

why do you two remain if it's too hard? do you feel it's still worth it to stay though?

are you both married yet?
Broke up tonight but I'm still here it's like neither of us let go but ultimately we want different things when it come to marriage. Just trying to figure out how to say goodbye.

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if this is what you both want, then you made a good decision.

you only live once.

if it's too hard for you both, you might end up resenting it later.
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I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
if it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,

are you talking about just friendship/platonic?

as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.

Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.

I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".

We're just too different.


lol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.

(as if she had some taurus in her)

i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?

and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.

show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.

(i'm very clingy like that) lol

when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,

he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol


But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.


you dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?


Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.


I don't mind cute clingy after the third date. Just not in a "I want to be your BFF". Not before 3 months anyway.
Aquas don't usually do clingy. We don't know how to cling. lol You have to give us a nudge to show us what you want and need.

Besides, if you look at all the postings about Cancer men on dxp, you guys seem to not want a clingy person.


I mean, I don't search for clingy people. I think affection is a bigger thing for me. I'd need that relatively early on.
Yes, but is there a such thing as too much affection to you? Are you ever turned off by someone who cares about you? How would someone know if it's not enough or too much?


not really, i really like to cuddle on the couch with my man.

what about yourself? is too much cuddling or physical affection too much for you?
When I get out there and start dating again, cuddles are welcomed. I still don't think I can initiate anything though.


Just be yourself and enjoy yourself. Fuck everything else.
Lol I can't! 😢 I'm very reserved in person and men hate it.


Some men really like the shy reserved type. It's really important to be yourself. Messing with that will negatively affect other things down the line.


Honestly, it's hard for me to trust men. My friends come to me for advice and the stories are appalling. Dxp postings have made it worst. So I'm always on guard.

I'm shy but I don't think men realize it cause I'm sassy! When it comes to showing affection I'm shy, so after some time they assume I'm not interested. 😩


You're thinking too much. Go out. Have some fun and be yourself.



Haha suggesting an Aqua to stop thinking. Hehehe

But I agree, be yourself!
I am myself. I just don't trust people, so I'm usually observing and never doing.

I'll get out there and see where trial and error takes me. 🙂

I just have to find the time and pay attention. A Taurus friend of mine always say I walk thru a sea of men starring at me and never notice because I am always on a mission. I'm now working on paying attention. ☺

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that's a good one, walking through a sea of men but never noticing.

avoiding is more like it.
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I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
if it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,

are you talking about just friendship/platonic?

as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.

Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.

I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".

We're just too different.


lol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.

(as if she had some taurus in her)

i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?

and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.

show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.

(i'm very clingy like that) lol

when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,

he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol


But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.


you dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?


Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.


I don't mind cute clingy after the third date. Just not in a "I want to be your BFF". Not before 3 months anyway.
Aquas don't usually do clingy. We don't know how to cling. lol You have to give us a nudge to show us what you want and need.

Besides, if you look at all the postings about Cancer men on dxp, you guys seem to not want a clingy person.


I mean, I don't search for clingy people. I think affection is a bigger thing for me. I'd need that relatively early on.
Yes, but is there a such thing as too much affection to you? Are you ever turned off by someone who cares about you? How would someone know if it's not enough or too much?


not really, i really like to cuddle on the couch with my man.

what about yourself? is too much cuddling or physical affection too much for you?
When I get out there and start dating again, cuddles are welcomed. I still don't think I can initiate anything though.


Just be yourself and enjoy yourself. Fuck everything else.
Lol I can't! 😢 I'm very reserved in person and men hate it.


Some men really like the shy reserved type. It's really important to be yourself. Messing with that will negatively affect other things down the line.


Honestly, it's hard for me to trust men. My friends come to me for advice and the stories are appalling. Dxp postings have made it worst. So I'm always on guard.

I'm shy but I don't think men realize it cause I'm sassy! When it comes to showing affection I'm shy, so after some time they assume I'm not interested. 😩


You're thinking too much. Go out. Have some fun and be yourself.



Haha suggesting an Aqua to stop thinking. Hehehe

But I agree, be yourself!
I am myself. I just don't trust people, so I'm usually observing and never doing.

I'll get out there and see where trial and error takes me. 🙂

I just have to find the time and pay attention. A Taurus friend of mine always say I walk thru a sea of men starring at me and never notice because I am always on a mission. I'm now working on paying attention. ☺

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that's a good one, walking through a sea of men but never noticing.

avoiding is more like it.
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Yes, I agree, aquas are annoying.
The Aries board is boring again isn't it?
It always is. 😢
You guys need to become more confusing.
Yup 🤔

Also, there's a lack of Aries on this site anyway, so even when someone makes a thread it dies out fairly quickly.

We need some drama.



Leo is the same. People don't complain about us enough. Everyone complains about Aquas though.


Aqua board is always busy 😂


Lol. I think i figurred ot out. It's because they're full of shit. Go to the Leo or Aries one and ask why a guy isn't calling or texting and we tell them straight out, he doesn't like you. Ask an aqua and they say he likes you but he needs his space. Then people as what should i do and then they go into a rant about how you should give him space, don't be this, don't be that, aquas are the best just accept him the way he is and don't expect a fucking thing ever. Wait around and be friends for 70 years and they will love you like no other... 😝
Yes, we like ot listen and help where we can.

You are allowed to thank us when we have reached utopia.

It's instilling false hope and false expectations. That's not helping people. That's delaying the inevitable and making people get attached to an idea and believing something that doesn't exist.


I disagree. Many Aquas tell folks straight up the guy/girl isn't interested and get told we are mean or too cold. Or we hear ten pages of things that happened in the relationship that isn't a relationship and to dissect what happened. People hear what they want to has been my experience in the past 4 + years here.

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The aqua women do but often they avoid contributing to the topics about aqua men. Most of the contributors are not even Aquas but you can't really tell because some people seem to pretend they are. I'm a Leo so obviously my advice should be avoided but i like giving my 2cents. I consider it refunds on the 2 cents everyone gives me and i hate carrying loose change

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the only affectionate types of aquarius men i have read and heard of via their biography from their wives, , are Justin Timberlake, Robbie Williams and Ronald Reagan. that's it.

i might have to pay more closer attention when i do some celeb reading /on their biography but i really try to find out when their wives are the ones talking about their parnters.
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@still, do you evoke emotions from men though?

i have alot in the past, but when i look at my chart, i'm pluto dominant.

pluto is not exactly "nice" ...

https://www.quora.com/What-does-it-mean-when-Pluto-is-your-dominant-planet?share=1

"To put it simply, it means that Pluto has the most influence on you! Any aspects it forms, or whatever house it’s in, will become very important. You may be a Plutonian-type of person (someone with dark, expressive, or prominent eyes, more angular features, quieter disposition, a hidden sense of power, etc.).

Depending on what planets it aspects, it will be seen in those areas of your personality. So, for example, if you have Pluto-Moon aspects, it may show that you have powerful or intense emotions, or that you’re emotionally secretive.

Basically, the traits associated with Pluto will make up a major part of who you are, and because Pluto sits on the Ascendant/1st house, people will pick up on that easily."



or maybe you are neptune dominant too? moon dominant?

there are aspects in both women/men that are plutonic, and evoke alot of emotion.

so it's better to be with someone who "gets" your flavour.



edit -- also this is good read. lol

http://theastrologyplacemembership.com/2014/02/pluto-aspects-who-are-you-kidding/

According to astrologer, Liz Greene, the pretense that Sun-Pluto women will adopt to cover up another, more powerful personality is rather fascinating. Many individuals with dominant Pluto aspects pit themselves against survival tests, and will do this in relationships. Those with inharmonious Sun-Pluto aspects (Conjunction, Square, and opposition) often end up in a relationship with a “powerful” man who may wield an enormous amount of control over the relationship. A friend of mine possessed a Sun-Pluto aspect and her relationship was violent, abusive and also passionate, but the life was squeezed out by the extreme stranglehold her partner had over it. There were times she seemed to live (Sun) for the drama (Pluto) and could never let go, even when he caused an inordinate amount of pain. My friend was projecting this dominant shadow onto a male partner and it is one that can be reflected upon authority figures, and when we unload Pluto onto another individual we see it through possessiveness, manipulative behavior, bitchiness, and devouring. The Plutonian type of man will try to exercise psychological control over women, and the female often endures their jealous rage, desires and destructive influence.
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@Cheesecake on your previous post you indicated that women love you. Do you think they are usually more interested in you than you are in them?
I think I said that Aqua women love me, which in itself could be an overstatement. But anyway, I think it's mutual attraction at first sight. The aquas that I've come across were always in the beautiful/stunning part of the spectrum.


Sorry. ….doing too much at once. I meant Aqua women.

My former Cancer guy expressed that to me. I appreciated that from him because he seemed interested in more than my looks. 😍

With the Aqua you spoke about, when and why did your interest level decline?

Would you say that your interest level declined pretty quickly?

And did she seem aware of the change?



And what the actual change was?

Or was she already disinterested?


It was a much simpler thing that you think. Boy meets girl. Boy likes girl. Girl likes boy. Boy & Girl go out on many dates. Boy moves town. Girl wishes him all the best. Boy & Girl were in touch for a while. Then life happened.

There wasn't any drama or theatrics.


So no you weren't that interested or boy wouldn't have moved away from her.


May I reserve the right to ask you about Cancer men in the future?


No.
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Hating again! That's for him to answer. Not you. Thirsty!

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@Cheesecake on your previous post you indicated that women love you. Do you think they are usually more interested in you than you are in them?
I think I said that Aqua women love me, which in itself could be an overstatement. But anyway, I think it's mutual attraction at first sight. The aquas that I've come across were always in the beautiful/stunning part of the spectrum.


Sorry. ….doing too much at once. I meant Aqua women.

My former Cancer guy expressed that to me. I appreciated that from him because he seemed interested in more than my looks. 😍

With the Aqua you spoke about, when and why did your interest level decline?

Would you say that your interest level declined pretty quickly?

And did she seem aware of the change?



And what the actual change was?

Or was she already disinterested?


It was a much simpler thing that you think. Boy meets girl. Boy likes girl. Girl likes boy. Boy & Girl go out on many dates. Boy moves town. Girl wishes him all the best. Boy & Girl were in touch for a while. Then life happened.

There wasn't any drama or theatrics.


So no you weren't that interested or boy wouldn't have moved away from her.


Cringe
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Cringe is what I do everytime I see your postings. You desperate b
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@Cheesecake on your previous post you indicated that women love you. Do you think they are usually more interested in you than you are in them?
I think I said that Aqua women love me, which in itself could be an overstatement. But anyway, I think it's mutual attraction at first sight. The aquas that I've come across were always in the beautiful/stunning part of the spectrum.


Sorry. ….doing too much at once. I meant Aqua women.

My former Cancer guy expressed that to me. I appreciated that from him because he seemed interested in more than my looks. 😍

With the Aqua you spoke about, when and why did your interest level decline?

Would you say that your interest level declined pretty quickly?

And did she seem aware of the change?



And what the actual change was?

Or was she already disinterested?


It was a much simpler thing that you think. Boy meets girl. Boy likes girl. Girl likes boy. Boy & Girl go out on many dates. Boy moves town. Girl wishes him all the best. Boy & Girl were in touch for a while. Then life happened.

There wasn't any drama or theatrics.


So no you weren't that interested or boy wouldn't have moved away from her.


May I reserve the right to ask you about Cancer men in the future?


No.
Hating again! That's for him to answer. Not you. Thirsty!


Cancer guys are too nice. Ask the board next time. They'll tell you ... Cringe

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They appear nice......but on the inside they're very dark.

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@Cheesecake on your previous post you indicated that women love you. Do you think they are usually more interested in you than you are in them?
I think I said that Aqua women love me, which in itself could be an overstatement. But anyway, I think it's mutual attraction at first sight. The aquas that I've come across were always in the beautiful/stunning part of the spectrum.


Sorry. ….doing too much at once. I meant Aqua women.

My former Cancer guy expressed that to me. I appreciated that from him because he seemed interested in more than my looks. 😍

With the Aqua you spoke about, when and why did your interest level decline?

Would you say that your interest level declined pretty quickly?

And did she seem aware of the change?



And what the actual change was?

Or was she already disinterested?


It was a much simpler thing that you think. Boy meets girl. Boy likes girl. Girl likes boy. Boy & Girl go out on many dates. Boy moves town. Girl wishes him all the best. Boy & Girl were in touch for a while. Then life happened.

There wasn't any drama or theatrics.


So no you weren't that interested or boy wouldn't have moved away from her.


Cringe


Cringe is what I do everytime I see your postings. You desperate b


Smh

So cringe. Ewww
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don't know what your talking about.

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@Cheesecake on your previous post you indicated that women love you. Do you think they are usually more interested in you than you are in them?
I think I said that Aqua women love me, which in itself could be an overstatement. But anyway, I think it's mutual attraction at first sight. The aquas that I've come across were always in the beautiful/stunning part of the spectrum.


Sorry. ….doing too much at once. I meant Aqua women.

My former Cancer guy expressed that to me. I appreciated that from him because he seemed interested in more than my looks. 😍

With the Aqua you spoke about, when and why did your interest level decline?

Would you say that your interest level declined pretty quickly?

And did she seem aware of the change?



And what the actual change was?

Or was she already disinterested?


It was a much simpler thing that you think. Boy meets girl. Boy likes girl. Girl likes boy. Boy & Girl go out on many dates. Boy moves town. Girl wishes him all the best. Boy & Girl were in touch for a while. Then life happened.

There wasn't any drama or theatrics.


So no you weren't that interested or boy wouldn't have moved away from her.


May I reserve the right to ask you about Cancer men in the future?


No.
Hating again! That's for him to answer. Not you. Thirsty!


Cancer guys are too nice. Ask the board next time. They'll tell you ... Cringe


They appear nice......but on the inside they're very dark.


That's true. You've done your research

You want to talk shit about them with me

Cause i have alot to say

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You are so crazy. I don't want to talk s about anyone. That's not my style .

If you have any insight, you are welcomed to share.

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@Cheesecake on your previous post you indicated that women love you. Do you think they are usually more interested in you than you are in them?
I think I said that Aqua women love me, which in itself could be an overstatement. But anyway, I think it's mutual attraction at first sight. The aquas that I've come across were always in the beautiful/stunning part of the spectrum.


Sorry. ….doing too much at once. I meant Aqua women.

My former Cancer guy expressed that to me. I appreciated that from him because he seemed interested in more than my looks. 😍

With the Aqua you spoke about, when and why did your interest level decline?

Would you say that your interest level declined pretty quickly?

And did she seem aware of the change?



And what the actual change was?

Or was she already disinterested?


It was a much simpler thing that you think. Boy meets girl. Boy likes girl. Girl likes boy. Boy & Girl go out on many dates. Boy moves town. Girl wishes him all the best. Boy & Girl were in touch for a while. Then life happened.

There wasn't any drama or theatrics.


So no you weren't that interested or boy wouldn't have moved away from her.


May I reserve the right to ask you about Cancer men in the future?


No.
Hating again! That's for him to answer. Not you. Thirsty!


Cancer guys are too nice. Ask the board next time. They'll tell you ... Cringe


They appear nice......but on the inside they're very dark.


That's true. You've done your research

You want to talk shit about them with me

Cause i have alot to say


You are so crazy. I don't want to talk s about anyone. That's not my style .

If you have any insight, you are welcomed to share.

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btw I've dealt with one recently. Aqua pick up on things easily without any effort. He confirmed a lot of things that I said. Initially he was shocked.

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stronger feelings in people, aquarius?

for example, if you do a certain thing, they get angry that you're not what they want you to be in their mind?

and if so, do you think this is a good thing?

if you're not an aquarius, state your sun, moon, mars mercury.



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OMG all the time and it is so frustrating. I am very silly but laid-back and some people get upset that they can not push my buttons easily so I quickly get labeled as cold or uncaring. I am actually very sensitive and caring I just do not wear it on my sleeve.