Female Aquarian and Libra Male?

Er, I'm pretty much asking for something in general but in a more detailed elaboration perhaps? Everything about them would be greatly appreciated. I wonder if it's actually the best matches because I haven't really heard about any of 'em on message boards. Any experiences would be great too! D

If you really like someone and want to be with them then why not just go with it and see how things pan out? I don't see the need to worry about what is the best match, or what isn't. Some might say it is the best, others might not. Either way, you just have to experience it for yourself and see it with your own eyes.

And yet you come in here and don't bother to answer her question and have yet another dig at the Aquarius sign. It's pretty sad if you ask me. You really need to grow up. Bravo indeed.

Also, to the original poster - if you want to find out all about Aquas/Libras then why not use Google or Bing? It takes a few seconds - search and you will find plenty on the internet to help you out - there are many experts who blog and write about it - who have their own experience. I answered your question honestly. I didn't ignore the question as BrokenRecord, sorry, KingofLibras tried to suggest. It is about your own experience with the PEOPLE that you have relationships with.

Personally, I'd rather get to know people face to face - rather then read up about their sun sign and try to make a judgement on them via that method. Everybody is different at the end of the day. 🙂

Each to their own though. 🙂

LOOOL, I have read everything google has gave me about "Libra Male and Female Aquas".
I just need a more detailed answer, like experiences from real people, their habits and etc. - if that actually makes sense.

As a very Aqua girl, I have always wanted to end up with a Libra. Two air signs that get the direction the other is coming from. Most Aquas/Libras are easy-breezy together, very quick to start talking and then get deeper as the one sparks with the other. Some of the best people I know are Libra. They either strive for balance in their lives, or are naturally even-handed, which is great for the fluttering, sometimes fickle Aqua to keep them grounded.

If you have the chance, I'd say go for it. I'm still looking for mine...

To jhi29

I have got along with Libra men famously. I decided to date one because of my great friendships with them. Lets just say they will make you want to scratch your eyes out. They are indecisive and cheaters.

I've had great experiences with Libra men. They're awesome. We always just naturally "clicked" right from the beginning.

The communication was on point, Libras are very patient/loyal & they somehow understand us, even though we Aquas don't know how or why they can.

Whereas Libra is intriged with an Aqua's ability to be so intellectually charming, Aqua is charmed by Libra's ability to always strive to make things better; Libras aren't quitters & we Aquas appreciate that, especially since we're used to everyone else throwing in the towel all b/c of miscommunication. Aquas biggest fear is abandonment once we've put our all into something, so the mere fact that Libras are so ride-or-die for us just further makes us click even more b/c it raises our comfortability with them.

1 thing I don't like about Libra men though is their indecisiveness. Some Libran males also have a hard time letting go of those from the past. And to a sign like Aqua that rarely trusts anyone, it's quite annoying to see how attached Libras may still be to others even after they've been betrayed. Whereas to an Aqua, we wish our Librans had more/bigger balls in certain situations, Libras wish we weren't always so stern and/or "hard" on people all the time.

Overall, I think Aquas & Libras are a good match.

Posted by krysrenee7
I've had great experiences with Libra men. They're awesome. We always just naturally "clicked" right from the beginning.



1 thing I don't like about Libra men though is their indecisiveness. Some Libran males also have a hard time letting go of those from the past. And to a sign like Aqua that rarely trusts anyone, it's quite annoying to see how attached Libras may still be to others even after they've been betrayed. Whereas to an Aqua, we wish our Librans had more/bigger balls in certain situations, Libras wish we weren't always so stern and/or "hard" on people all the time.

Overall, I think Aquas & Libras are a good match.

I agree! Overall, it is a good match. But Libras need to learn to say "NO" and not feel bad about hurting people's feelings. They are just sycophants and love to please everyone. They need to learn that you won't be able to please everyone. Sometimes to be honest, you have hurt the other person, but in the end the other person will respect you for hurting them for honesty's sake.

"I agree! Overall, it is a good match. But Libras need to learn to say "NO" and not feel bad about hurting people's feelings. They are just sycophants and love to please everyone. They need to learn that you won't be able to please everyone. Sometimes to be honest, you have hurt the other person, but in the end the other person will respect you for hurting them for honesty's sake."

Ugh so true! This may sound kind of selfish but we don't mind when Libras go out of their way to please us, but we def. do mind when we see them doing so for others, especially to those undeserving.

We Aquas are problem solvers. We can hear about a situation & immediately start thinking of solutions and/or ways to make a situation better. Well Libras aren't as good at problem solving as they are weighing the options. Weighing the options is good & all, BUT 2 years later? Come on make a decision!

The times I've usually had problems with Libras involved the trust department when it comes to the opposite sex. On 1 hand I trust them b/c I know they love me & wouldn't ever hurt me, HOWEVER on the other hand, it's not such a good feeling to walk in on your man consoling his ex, or to walk in & realize he's trying too hard to still keep "something" with those from the past...And the ones from the past are probably the very ones he complained to me about & told me such horrible things about them! So of course I don't feel any sympathy for him or his ex when he falls for the trick---ex calls my man crying b/c she needs someone to talk to---bull! And we sit there squirming b/c our Libra men actually fall for it! It's like ugh, get some balls, wake up & smell the coffee and stop being so damn naive!

The times I've usually had problems with Libras involved the trust department when it comes to the opposite sex. On 1 hand I trust them b/c I know they love me & wouldn't ever hurt me, HOWEVER on the other hand, it's not such a good feeling to walk in on your man consoling his ex, or to walk in & realize he's trying too hard to still keep "something" with those from the past...And the ones from the past are probably the very ones he complained to me about & told me such horrible things about them! So of course I don't feel any sympathy for him or his ex when he falls for the trick---ex calls my man crying b/c she needs someone to talk to---bull! And we sit there squirming b/c our Libra men actually fall for it! It's like ugh, get some balls, wake up & smell the coffee and stop being so damn naive!




Krysrenee7, I agree again! People from the past matter to them, unless they hurt them. If it was a bad break-up, then the libra lets go of the ex. Libras are too indecisive and nice to break up with someone. They fear drama and confrontation coming their way. So, most of the time since it's the other sign that breaks up with the libra, as I did with mine. That's when Libras always leave the door open for the ex to come back. Not because they are nice individuals who want to help their ex. They leave the door open because libras are known to be attention-seekers. lol. They love and look for attention. Nothing gives them an ego boost like an ex wanting to be with them again. It's not even that they would get back with the ex gf/bf, it is all about the pleasure they receive from knowing that their EX wants them back or misses them or care for them. In general, this is a human trait, however libras are more prone to this trait than any other sign.

All I can say, best Air combo.
Libra men are the most loyal out there. That is if they chose you as their one and only. But at first they can drive women crazy with their wishy washy ways.
Things they don't like about Aqua girls is how detached and cold they tend to get. Libra guys love attention and to be loved, to be reassured. And hell, nah, Aqua girl loves her independence and doesn't want to be smoothered. She ain't a baby sitter. She'll show you love whenever she feels like it and that can create tension in the relationship. Aqua is brutally honest and Libra likes to compromise. If those two communicate well, they can be with each other for ever. As long as Aqua doesn't get bored... when she gets bored... she's out.

I'd also give this combo a thumbs up. I dated a Libra male for many years and we're still good friends. We couldn't even remember why we broke up (when we discussed this recently).

Quick connection and understanding. Sense of humor together is OUT OF THIS WORLD! I think we also knew what the other was thinking much of the time.

I think the best aspect of this combo is the wit and the intelligence. Both air signs like to talk about things that matter rather than gossip or talk about irrelevant things. But aquarius is a leader, no follower. Also, since we get along as friends with almost all the zodiac signs, we tend to have a lot of firends or even acquaintances. We love our friends. They come very close second to our love interest. lol Libras are surprisingly very jealous and insecure people. They try to control us, which you can't do with a leader like aqua. They try to suffocate us with their possessiveness, but we can't be smothered because we belong to the world. It's like what one of the astrology book I read said, "Aquarius woman doesn't just love her man, she loves mankind." lol It's so true. My world cannot be my guy. I have other better things to do than drown in love with my man..lol..I have to read and educate myself instead of being on the phone or with him all the time. Too much exposure to one person is why Aquas go in their isolation. All aquas need their alone time to recuperate. I thought cancers were needy adn clingy. Libras are too. They just loveee attention and ego boost 24/7. If you wanna keep your libra man, baby talk (literally) all the time to him, even during discussions of philosophy or politics etc...lol

Posted by aquarius09
If you wanna keep your libra man, baby talk (literally) all the time to him, even during discussions of philosophy or politics etc...lol

Lol. I agree with this!

Aquagirl24, being your own person is being a leader, because when you pretend to be something you are not, that's a follower.

"by being my own person i mean, making my own choices, maybe its my libran moon talking thou, am confused 😢 (nietzsche was a libran)"

No way!! Nietzche was a Libran. No wonder he lost his mind. Literally speaking. It's a curse to be an Aqua and always have your brain out and about thinking about one topic to the next. But, to be a libran and be torn over emotions and logic is another curse.

"but how do u explain that sometimes my bf acts like u— his moon is in aqua. are our suns and moons constantly fighting—!!! 😢"

Your sun sign is the surface personality. Meaning what you get in first impression from a person is the sun sign speaking. What a person truly is 50% is the moon sign. So that definitely explains his aqua. He's always seeking knowledge because that's an aqua thing. I'm sure you also do that considering you are an aqua as well, which when you mentioned that you both do is not surprising.

As for him calling you an attention seeker, that is just you being a girl. Irrespective of zodiac signs, women are emotional, the extent of your emotions can be explained through zodiac. You wanting attention from him is just normal. Now seems liek the situation has reversed after you've graduated. It's all about how much time you have on your hands for love. If he's busy in his research, then lets see how much loving he does because aquas are the same way. When I was in school, I hardly had time for my man, but him being a needy, clingy and jobless libra wanted me on the phone with him 24/7.

Well, I am an aquarius female and I am married to a Libra male. At first...we were so "IN LOVE" oh how it felt so good. Just remembering and thinking back to when we first got together it was like we were in a party in heaven. We just could not be apart and best of all nothing was tearing us apart. We have been married for a little less than two years and in between those two years I was pregnant and had a baby. When our son was born a lot of our affection for one another went to the baby. I missed him at first in someways because I was so used to being given affection to. Now I barely get affection, I mean good affection, like how I used to. My husband and I have gone through really weird challeges in our relationship and still are. Yes, so true about libra men seem indecisive and they are also self centered. Yet, I love him like crazy and wonder if he still loves me like crazy too. I can sometimes let my emotions get the best of me and say things that I am pretty sure have hurt him. But he is so afraid of conflict that most of the times he will never let me know that it hurt him. I've never felt as loved as he has made me feel and I have been in my share of relationships before him. Sometimes he can show no actions that show that he loves me. I mean to go as far as no contact nothing(He doesn't always live with me, not gonna explain why, that would take me forever to finish this blog) For days!!! To the point where I have to go looking for him demanding that he tell me if we should get a divorce. And yet, he cannot definately look me in my eyes and tell me he doesn't love me. Example: one time we were fighting and I said or yelled to him "I am not letting you go until I have a decent conversation with you about where our relationship is going" he was angry and upset with me telling me to leave him alone and go. He wouldn't answer me but didn't want to fight and all I wanted was for him to clearly tell me if he wants to be with me. Then he said, I am angry right now and if you make me talk right now I will end up saying something out of anger and not what I really mean. And this arguement was recently. He said that he didn't want to say that he didn't want to be with me when it might be something that he doesn't mean out of anger. But why does his actions speak as if he does not care? Why in the world does he always run away when there is a problem? Errggghh Does that mean he doesn't want to be with me but is to chicken to say it? And why does he we

Posted by miha
i was married to a libra man for 12 years...

all i can say is that finally there was nothing left to tell each other. he became too boring to me, i was too domineering to him. i put an end to it.

if you are looking for a serene, calm relationship, with no challenges or problems...go for it...

but an aqua needs excitment, unpredictability.

all horoscopes say this is a perfect match, just one which really talked about this aspect...and it happened to me

now...i am much happier with my new aries guy....ok...he's a lot more work than the libra man...but at least he's fun to be with and he opens up about feelings more, and he is more responsible than the libra guy

miha what happened to you, girl!!

Try a Scorpio, or a Leo, you'll thank me. (Make sure he has complimentary aspects though)

I find that when you confront a libra with emotional blather... instead of presenting things calmly... they always deflect the subject and retreat. You really can't deal with them efficiently that way. It is much better to be open minded and logical about it.... which an Aquarius is obviously good at but we do get MIGHTY moody at times lol!!

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Posted by miha
i was married to a libra man for 12 years...

all i can say is that finally there was nothing left to tell each other. he became too boring to me, i was too domineering to him. i put an end to it.

if you are looking for a serene, calm relationship, with no challenges or problems...go for it...

but an aqua needs excitment, unpredictability.

all horoscopes say this is a perfect match, just one which really talked about this aspect...and it happened to me

now...i am much happier with my new aries guy....ok...he's a lot more work than the libra man...but at least he's fun to be with and he opens up about feelings more, and he is more responsible than the libra guy

miha what happened to you, girl!!

Try a Scorpio, or a Leo, you'll thank me. (Make sure he has complimentary aspects though)

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H e most likely resented you but got comforted and was just being pratical keeping you around. There's a good chance you were the one dominated in the end.