Heart to heart with Aquarian.

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femscorp
@femscorp
8 Years

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My aquarian Ex and I split up some time ago now, however I never got closure because he cut me off, I had no way of contacting him and I didn't hear from him for a while. We've since been friends for some time now, so I recently asked to have a conversation about what happened between us in the past because we have never ever touched on it. I felt like we both needed to speak about it just once to put it to rest and to completely move on from our past together as "lovers." He surprisingly took it well or so I thought, I sent him a Facebook message and shared my thoughts on what happened, he responded and was quite willing to share his thoughts and feelings, he apologised and expressed he was deeply sorry for the pain he caused me etc. I replied back with a more light-hearted response and he's seen it but didn't respond. It's been over two days now since he seen my reply and I'm confused as to what's happening, I understand Aquarians aren't good at understanding or dealing with their emotions, I know this talk would stir up some emotions in him but I don't know how to take this silent spell. it's not uncommon for him to take hours to respond sometimes but never before has it been over two days. Thoughts? I'm willing to wait it out longer but I will stress that my messages arent intended to make him feel bad and I have been taking his feelings into consideration, I'm just confused as to how to take this reaction? Is he thinking about what I said or doesn't he care as much as I thought?? I don't know............
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EveryOunce
@EveryOunce
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My aquarian Ex and I split up some time ago now, however I never got closure because he cut me off, I had no way of contacting him and I didn't hear from him for a while. We've since been friends for some time now, so I recently asked to have a conversation about what happened between us in the past because we have never ever touched on it. I felt like we both needed to speak about it just once to put it to rest and to completely move on from our past together as "lovers." He surprisingly took it well or so I thought, I sent him a Facebook message and shared my thoughts on what happened, he responded and was quite willing to share his thoughts and feelings, he apologised and expressed he was deeply sorry for the pain he caused me etc. I replied back with a more light-hearted response and he's seen it but didn't respond. It's been over two days now since he seen my reply and I'm confused as to what's happening, I understand Aquarians aren't good at understanding or dealing with their emotions, I know this talk would stir up some emotions in him but I don't know how to take this silent spell. it's not uncommon for him to take hours to respond sometimes but never before has it been over two days. Thoughts? I'm willing to wait it out longer but I will stress that my messages arent intended to make him feel bad and I have been taking his feelings into consideration, I'm just confused as to how to take this reaction? Is he thinking about what I said or doesn't he care as much as I thought?? I don't know............


Why did you remain friends after ending it with someone that you didn't have closure with?