How do we deal with the heartache of break ups?

For all.

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Posted by SeraphCuteness
You just accept he was not your soulmate. Cry it out 😢

It's tough though.

I can't cry things out. I think I sort of mourn the feeling while listening to very good rock music preferably Spanish because of the lyrics.

Obsess.

Posted by SeraphCuteness
You can feel worthless or ugly etc...or I tend to 😢

I dont.. I actually buy sexy clothes and go out 🙂

Posted by heliumfiasco
Obsess.

Same, it must be the Gem .moon ?

That's when I let ego n self worth kick in n then it all becomes easy

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Gym, eat healthy

same. i try to stay busy with productive hobbies. make yourself better so youre prepared for the next one when they decide to enter. cant get caught sulking and miss out

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Gym, eat healthy

same. i try to stay busy with productive hobbies. make yourself better so youre prepared for the next one when they decide to enter. cant get caught sulking and miss out

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I met the next one last night. Lol!

just kidding, but I did meet an Aries guy from New York, who dances very good and took me out to dance. Now he wants to see me again.

I'm not over it yet. 😢

Posted by Rindaroo
Feel the feelings & cry. I know you hate it, but it's important to do.

I tried, listening to music and cleaning. still doesn't work. I have a feeling he's not gone. just extremely mad. I texted him at 6am replying to his text and he texted me right away. Still defensive and aggressive :/

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I have to obsess over it for at least a week. Call all my friends and I have to analyze tf outta my life and how I got to this point. I'm probably not going to be over it for at least a year but I fake it till I make it. I have lots of male friends willing and ready to help me move on lol

Posted by SeraphCuteness
But you know ....if it isn't meant to be ...then my real soulmate ..is going to make my soul SING 🙂

I just remind myself he is out there 🙂

Well said!

I work alot. Clean my house. Google self help crap. Think up ways to improve myself. Listen to music. Redecorate a room or 2 in my house. Basically exhaust all thought process until I feel better inside. Depending on the depth of feelings that were there is how long it takes to heal.

Posted by Geminiinphilly
I have to obsess over it for at least a week. Call all my friends and I have to analyze tf outta my life and how I got to this point. I'm probably not going to be over it for at least a year but I fake it till I make it. I have lots of male friends willing and ready to help me move on lol

I have a Gem Moon so I know how you feel. Talking about it rationalizing everything. Good thing my Aqua sun helps me move on quick!

Posted by TierRom
I focus on work and working out and just continue on as usual.

Someone having the ability over me to stop my life and go into a depression is idiotic and a self serving act to do. You're essentially accepting yourself as a lower being who is unable to adapt to new situations. Life isn't about pausing and trying to find yourself at each hurdle. You accept if as if is and move forward without a step missed.

People will always be in and out of your life. Take a moment to appreciate those old moments and accept its direction. Then move forward. Nothing stops you but you. These are personal choices of mine. I don't skip a beat. I simply remake the beat at which I dance my life through.

Exactly!! love this. 🙂 I generally like to dwell on the feeling for at least a night to let it out and feel fresh the next day. I ended a 12 yr relationship so anything shorter than that won't kill me lol.

I cut off all contact with the person. After that I focus on people who really matter to me like family and friends. I also keep myself busy with work, exercise, or anything that will take my mind off the pain, until I no longer feel anything, that's when I know that I have fully moved on.