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Hello today to you my dear Freebird and lovely to read your aquar. adventures...or lack of:-)!!!!! Oh you wicked creature you......making Mr. Aquar. come over to fix "receivers" etc. and then not giving what he really came over to get.....hey you are one wise and shrewd lady....but yes you are right - sexual rejection to an aquarius really hurts.....it kicks in deep down in the pit of our stomachs at the time.....I still remember Mr. Virgo's lack of sexual appetite towards me last Friday nite after the fite and I have to take a deep breath....uugh....but top marks to you for not giving in to carnal pleasure....wish I had your reserve (or your capricorn moon reserve!!):-) And inner voices are usually right about everything.....I know people say "listen to your feelings" about certain situations...but I don't really trust my feelings.....one day I feel 110% certain about a certain situation, relationship etc....but 24 hours later after living and experiencing that new day....I feel completely different and have a differnt point of view on it..that's why I don't trust the feeling thing...feelings come and go..but inner voices are ususally right!!!! I am surprised though that he just doesn't listen to you....Aquarians are usually good listeners...well we listen but we may not agree....!!!
No word from Mister Virgo....I am going with the flow and not collapsing into puddles at the moment anyway.....Mr. Aries rang again last nite - f..k.. hell...twice he repeated he loved me.....I went dead silent and just said good-nite......how do I begin to tell him that the age difference is huge, that I love another guy, that I don't fancy him and for me it was just a shag and one nite stand...nothing more, nothing less....how do I tell him when he can hardly speak a word of English.....he is romanian...I do know some romanian from my days with Mr. Cappy but it's limited to say the least.....but you are right about aries being "forceful"....so "ram-like" forceful....it felt like I was on a run-away train that was going at 100 miles an hour while I was in the last carriage that was only going about 50 mph!!!...just couldn't keep up with that chu-chu train!!!:-):-)
Anyway, very busy in office today so won't go on and on.
Keep Free-birding as only you can do and I..well I will keep alana-ing ....... I told my best friend in work what happened with Mr. virgo at the weekend today....she was disappointed in me at my behaviour also and found it hard to believe - she said I was lucky - anyone else other than Mr. Virgo might have resorted to smacking my face back!!!.....
I do miss him...I miss him beyond decency!!!.
Alana xx
No word from Mister Virgo....I am going with the flow and not collapsing into puddles at the moment anyway.....Mr. Aries rang again last nite - f..k.. hell...twice he repeated he loved me.....I went dead silent and just said good-nite......how do I begin to tell him that the age difference is huge, that I love another guy, that I don't fancy him and for me it was just a shag and one nite stand...nothing more, nothing less....how do I tell him when he can hardly speak a word of English.....he is romanian...I do know some romanian from my days with Mr. Cappy but it's limited to say the least.....but you are right about aries being "forceful"....so "ram-like" forceful....it felt like I was on a run-away train that was going at 100 miles an hour while I was in the last carriage that was only going about 50 mph!!!...just couldn't keep up with that chu-chu train!!!:-):-)
Anyway, very busy in office today so won't go on and on.
Keep Free-birding as only you can do and I..well I will keep alana-ing ....... I told my best friend in work what happened with Mr. virgo at the weekend today....she was disappointed in me at my behaviour also and found it hard to believe - she said I was lucky - anyone else other than Mr. Virgo might have resorted to smacking my face back!!!.....
I do miss him...I miss him beyond decency!!!.
Alana xx
Hello today to you my "adventerous Alana" 🙂
I have been without service so was unable to get on but I am back now, thank goodness. I know that you miss Mr. Virgo. I have a very strong feeling that he too misses you. I so believe that when two people come together there is a bond that is formed and a connection that is made. It is our views, our perceptions of those experiences with that person that changes things. When we miss someone, a lot of the times we miss that "togetherness" feeling. That routine that we had established with that person. Now we may feel a little lost, searching for a familiar feel. Yikes...life is a bowl of cherries and sometimes we do get a "pit" once in awhile. And....then again, there are A LOT of things one can do with a cherry.....😉
You know what I feel about MR. Aqua? I feel that deep within there is so much good in him. His values and mine are just a little different. I can accept this but for some reason, I just don't feel safe with him. He has good intentions but is still searching for something.
My son is a virgo and he is so kind and generous. Just yesterday he and I were out doing stuff and I thought to myself....if only I could find a guy like him. There is a sense of peace within him, grounding, safeness. He is thoughtful and always says very kind things. I so many times have thanked my lucky stars for being chosen to be his mom. What a gift he is to me. So, if your Mr. Virgo is anything like my son, I can see why and how you miss him. Virgos do not deal well with emotional stuff especially men. I have seen this with my son and ex. He pulls away from him. He wants peace, calmness and knowing that everything is "just fine". I'm not saying that ALL virgos are like my son...just noticing some things.
I am so glad that Mr. Virgo did NOT "smack" you..NO ONE deserves that...just proves he is a decent and respectful man.
Anything new on the "aries front?" You must have struck his fancy there young lady.....😉 They like a challenge...if, you want him to go away...just tell him that you want to begin RIGHT NOW to make babies...6 of them. You are going to look at wedding dresses and you want him to come with you....the challenge will be gone and an Aries does love his freedom and will feel backed into a corner. He will leave on his own without any hurt feelings. Let me know what develops....Good luck my friend.....
Chat soon 🙂
Freebirdingit~always
I have been without service so was unable to get on but I am back now, thank goodness. I know that you miss Mr. Virgo. I have a very strong feeling that he too misses you. I so believe that when two people come together there is a bond that is formed and a connection that is made. It is our views, our perceptions of those experiences with that person that changes things. When we miss someone, a lot of the times we miss that "togetherness" feeling. That routine that we had established with that person. Now we may feel a little lost, searching for a familiar feel. Yikes...life is a bowl of cherries and sometimes we do get a "pit" once in awhile. And....then again, there are A LOT of things one can do with a cherry.....😉
You know what I feel about MR. Aqua? I feel that deep within there is so much good in him. His values and mine are just a little different. I can accept this but for some reason, I just don't feel safe with him. He has good intentions but is still searching for something.
My son is a virgo and he is so kind and generous. Just yesterday he and I were out doing stuff and I thought to myself....if only I could find a guy like him. There is a sense of peace within him, grounding, safeness. He is thoughtful and always says very kind things. I so many times have thanked my lucky stars for being chosen to be his mom. What a gift he is to me. So, if your Mr. Virgo is anything like my son, I can see why and how you miss him. Virgos do not deal well with emotional stuff especially men. I have seen this with my son and ex. He pulls away from him. He wants peace, calmness and knowing that everything is "just fine". I'm not saying that ALL virgos are like my son...just noticing some things.
I am so glad that Mr. Virgo did NOT "smack" you..NO ONE deserves that...just proves he is a decent and respectful man.
Anything new on the "aries front?" You must have struck his fancy there young lady.....😉 They like a challenge...if, you want him to go away...just tell him that you want to begin RIGHT NOW to make babies...6 of them. You are going to look at wedding dresses and you want him to come with you....the challenge will be gone and an Aries does love his freedom and will feel backed into a corner. He will leave on his own without any hurt feelings. Let me know what develops....Good luck my friend.....
Chat soon 🙂
Freebirdingit~always
Hello to you my Freebird pal - always delighted and excited to read your posts:-) Mutual admiration society here or what!!!:-)
As for missing Mr. Virgo.......although the sex was fantastic etc. etc.; the orgasms larger than life!!! you know what I miss most....those stupid mundane (or what I thought were mundane at the time) moments - like every Saturday morning we would sit watching cartoons on t.v. - the road-runner!!! he'd have his head upon my lap and I'd play with his pony-tail (on his head! now don't go thinking dirty on me!!) - when I'd stop, he'd say beep, beep, that meant he wanted me to continue massasging his head!!! or when I'd call to his door, he used look out his top window and tease me with the keys till he'd throw them down to me to come in - or when I was leaving his house, as he'd stand at the door, I'd always turn round and blow him a kiss and the way, he'd call me honey - even when we were having the most ferocious arguments he'd always call me honey - "Honey...for fcuk sake"!!.....ah well.....misty-watered coloured memories as Barbara S. sings!!! And our favourite song...by Enrique..."I can be your hero baby"
And yes, you are a lucky girl to have your beautiful virgo son...and all the lovely nice qualities you mention he had. Mr. V. had them too....but isn't he a lucky guy to have his aries Freebird mom too...what a woman, what a file!!!
As for Mr. Aries...he actually didn't call or text yesterday...maybe just maybe he has gone for good!!!! and thanks for the advice on how to get rid!!!!! - I'm pregnant already with that sixth child!!!
As for Mr. Aqua.....yes deep down he is a good man....as deep down everyone is........at the moment though his crazy, desperate chaotic side is to the fore......he's a mixed-up kid!!! I do feel for him too coz I know as an aquarian how frustrated and painful it is to want someone (you!) and to not be able to have them (you)......but then again all good things come to him/her that waits....so the question is ...who's doing the waiting game really...is it you or him—? See, how devil's advcat-ish I can be...my sweet Freebird.....—?!!!
Will got to go for the mo my pal...........take good care of yourself....
Alana xxx
As for missing Mr. Virgo.......although the sex was fantastic etc. etc.; the orgasms larger than life!!! you know what I miss most....those stupid mundane (or what I thought were mundane at the time) moments - like every Saturday morning we would sit watching cartoons on t.v. - the road-runner!!! he'd have his head upon my lap and I'd play with his pony-tail (on his head! now don't go thinking dirty on me!!) - when I'd stop, he'd say beep, beep, that meant he wanted me to continue massasging his head!!! or when I'd call to his door, he used look out his top window and tease me with the keys till he'd throw them down to me to come in - or when I was leaving his house, as he'd stand at the door, I'd always turn round and blow him a kiss and the way, he'd call me honey - even when we were having the most ferocious arguments he'd always call me honey - "Honey...for fcuk sake"!!.....ah well.....misty-watered coloured memories as Barbara S. sings!!! And our favourite song...by Enrique..."I can be your hero baby"
And yes, you are a lucky girl to have your beautiful virgo son...and all the lovely nice qualities you mention he had. Mr. V. had them too....but isn't he a lucky guy to have his aries Freebird mom too...what a woman, what a file!!!
As for Mr. Aries...he actually didn't call or text yesterday...maybe just maybe he has gone for good!!!! and thanks for the advice on how to get rid!!!!! - I'm pregnant already with that sixth child!!!
As for Mr. Aqua.....yes deep down he is a good man....as deep down everyone is........at the moment though his crazy, desperate chaotic side is to the fore......he's a mixed-up kid!!! I do feel for him too coz I know as an aquarian how frustrated and painful it is to want someone (you!) and to not be able to have them (you)......but then again all good things come to him/her that waits....so the question is ...who's doing the waiting game really...is it you or him—? See, how devil's advcat-ish I can be...my sweet Freebird.....—?!!!
Will got to go for the mo my pal...........take good care of yourself....
Alana xxx
LOL I would of covered the whole thing by saying meet a friend went to the pub had a drink perhaps I am two quite.
And THIS my dear James is the difference between a man and a woman 😉
Hi Sweet Irish Lady of Dublin~
Top of the day to you....You look absolutely mavalous carrying that 6th child...such a "glow" you have. 🙂 You are toooooo funny.
It really is those small special moments that we remember the most isn't it and they seem amplified more so when they do not exist anymore. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Ya think?
Okie~dokie.....my wise Aqua sage let me share this with you and hopefully, you are able to shed some light on this...heck, I know you will there is no doubt about it. 😉
Mr. Aqua just called me and he was ever so sweet and nice. Very caring I might add. He was asking how I was doing, what have I been up to etc...... I really thought that he would not call or speak with me after what I did or maybe what he did or didn't do. Either way, I am very surprised by his actions. I don't get it. I really don't. What does he want? I can see you now, shaking your lovely irish head wondering where my brains are. Well, if it is any consolation, I too am wondering where they are and where can I find them! I know the aliens took them after they captured me last Wed. If you should by chance see them over in your neck of the woods or nearest pub, could you Fed Ex them back to me? They will have a label on the jar that says, "Abby normal"
Thanks Alana, you are a sweetheart.
Top of the day to you....You look absolutely mavalous carrying that 6th child...such a "glow" you have. 🙂 You are toooooo funny.
It really is those small special moments that we remember the most isn't it and they seem amplified more so when they do not exist anymore. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Ya think?
Okie~dokie.....my wise Aqua sage let me share this with you and hopefully, you are able to shed some light on this...heck, I know you will there is no doubt about it. 😉
Mr. Aqua just called me and he was ever so sweet and nice. Very caring I might add. He was asking how I was doing, what have I been up to etc...... I really thought that he would not call or speak with me after what I did or maybe what he did or didn't do. Either way, I am very surprised by his actions. I don't get it. I really don't. What does he want? I can see you now, shaking your lovely irish head wondering where my brains are. Well, if it is any consolation, I too am wondering where they are and where can I find them! I know the aliens took them after they captured me last Wed. If you should by chance see them over in your neck of the woods or nearest pub, could you Fed Ex them back to me? They will have a label on the jar that says, "Abby normal"
Thanks Alana, you are a sweetheart.
James Tate - you are not too quiet!!!...you are just so male capricornish!!!.....(man of minimalist words with maximum meaning!!!!):-)
Hello to you my dear "brainless" Freebird!!!! Yep, you are right, I've just found your beautiful brains over here in a Dublin trash-can!!...now how did they get there and travel so far, so fast and so furious—!!!!! So I have just scanned them back into my computer and am e-mailing them right now back to you. Got them!!!!!!Grreeaaat!!!, now insert them back into that beautfiul head of yours and we will begin my friend....:-)!!!!
Yes, I am still in glow mode with my sixth child!!!! He will be born at the weekend actually and I will name him Freebird after you naturally and then I want all the gang on this board to fly over to Dublin for the Christening - OK - so that's settled too......James Tate can be his god-father, you can be his god-mother - and the rest of the gang just bring the drink and we will party all week:-)!!
Alas the 18 year old Arian rang twice last nite from a pay-phone!!, as he had no credit in his mobile. I said to him listen L. - you are 18 and I am nearly 20 years older than you...it's too much in the difference.....He thought I was saying that he was 20 rather than 18!!! (remember his English is so so limited and bad!!). That tack didn't work. Then I said to him that I have a boyfriend who is still on the scene....He thought I was asking him would he be my boyfriend!! and kept saying, yes, yes, yes. Fcukin hell!!!.....he then said he had bought my favourite wine for when we will meet on Saturday and off he went with himself!!!happy as Larry!....or happy as an 18 year old Romanian can be!!!
Now to Mr. Aquarius and Ms. Aries.....IT IS AS CLEAR NOW AS THE SKY IS BLUE WHAT THIS MAN WANTS - Y O U!!!! The man is crazy for you, he is besotted, he is bewtiched by you - he wants your mind, body and soul - coz remember most of the time an aquarian has to be mentally stimulated to find a person attractive and appealing...you are certainly "mentally stimulating" as well as physically stimulating!! that man...every which way but loose!!:-)....yes, of course he wants to shag you too, but then you've got to ask yourself - so what's so dam wrong with that— Your an attractive creature, a woman of substance, who wouldn't want to shag you!!Huh!! Deep down, I think you want that too.....primal instinct overrides everything no matter how hard we try to suppress and be logical and clinical......if you've got the hots for someone, you've got the fcukin hots - and nothing you can do or say changes that magical chemistry.
My advice for what it's worth....use this weekend to satisfy yourself about Mr. Aquarius and his intentions once and for all if you can....the weekend is here....life is too short for huffing and puffing.....seize the moment.....seize that aquarian at least for this weekend!....do what you will to him and let him do what he wants to with you.....at the end of the weekend make a decision one way or t'other......at least that way you will have got him either "back in" or "out" of your system for good!!!! At the moment, you are in limbo (and so is he) - half way up, half way down...but to where exactly?? That is the question. Both of you know deep down that's it's not over by a long straw!!!....hey Missy, everyone here on the board knows that it ain't over too......
As for him being nice and you surprised...don't be....aquarians are known for being unpredictable.....blowing hot and cold......and especially if someone they love is rather distant or unavailable to them, hey, he/I will use any trick int he book to get the desired one back into their world....be it nicey nicey, licky licky etc. It's all about not being rejected and being top-dog or top-cat!!! If you don't find out one way or the other, let me assure you that Mr. Aquar. won't give up, he will pester and "stalk" till he gets what he wants....you will never know he is "stalking"..we hide it so well..."gosh imagine bumping into you here".....!!!stuff
So this weekend my friend T is bac
Yes, I am still in glow mode with my sixth child!!!! He will be born at the weekend actually and I will name him Freebird after you naturally and then I want all the gang on this board to fly over to Dublin for the Christening - OK - so that's settled too......James Tate can be his god-father, you can be his god-mother - and the rest of the gang just bring the drink and we will party all week:-)!!
Alas the 18 year old Arian rang twice last nite from a pay-phone!!, as he had no credit in his mobile. I said to him listen L. - you are 18 and I am nearly 20 years older than you...it's too much in the difference.....He thought I was saying that he was 20 rather than 18!!! (remember his English is so so limited and bad!!). That tack didn't work. Then I said to him that I have a boyfriend who is still on the scene....He thought I was asking him would he be my boyfriend!! and kept saying, yes, yes, yes. Fcukin hell!!!.....he then said he had bought my favourite wine for when we will meet on Saturday and off he went with himself!!!happy as Larry!....or happy as an 18 year old Romanian can be!!!
Now to Mr. Aquarius and Ms. Aries.....IT IS AS CLEAR NOW AS THE SKY IS BLUE WHAT THIS MAN WANTS - Y O U!!!! The man is crazy for you, he is besotted, he is bewtiched by you - he wants your mind, body and soul - coz remember most of the time an aquarian has to be mentally stimulated to find a person attractive and appealing...you are certainly "mentally stimulating" as well as physically stimulating!! that man...every which way but loose!!:-)....yes, of course he wants to shag you too, but then you've got to ask yourself - so what's so dam wrong with that— Your an attractive creature, a woman of substance, who wouldn't want to shag you!!Huh!! Deep down, I think you want that too.....primal instinct overrides everything no matter how hard we try to suppress and be logical and clinical......if you've got the hots for someone, you've got the fcukin hots - and nothing you can do or say changes that magical chemistry.
My advice for what it's worth....use this weekend to satisfy yourself about Mr. Aquarius and his intentions once and for all if you can....the weekend is here....life is too short for huffing and puffing.....seize the moment.....seize that aquarian at least for this weekend!....do what you will to him and let him do what he wants to with you.....at the end of the weekend make a decision one way or t'other......at least that way you will have got him either "back in" or "out" of your system for good!!!! At the moment, you are in limbo (and so is he) - half way up, half way down...but to where exactly?? That is the question. Both of you know deep down that's it's not over by a long straw!!!....hey Missy, everyone here on the board knows that it ain't over too......
As for him being nice and you surprised...don't be....aquarians are known for being unpredictable.....blowing hot and cold......and especially if someone they love is rather distant or unavailable to them, hey, he/I will use any trick int he book to get the desired one back into their world....be it nicey nicey, licky licky etc. It's all about not being rejected and being top-dog or top-cat!!! If you don't find out one way or the other, let me assure you that Mr. Aquar. won't give up, he will pester and "stalk" till he gets what he wants....you will never know he is "stalking"..we hide it so well..."gosh imagine bumping into you here".....!!!stuff
So this weekend my friend T is bac
Dearest Freebird.....How is my sweet pal today?? I am not sure if your computer is down again or even if mine isn't working proper (there is some internet glitch here in office) - I don't see any postings from you since last Friday - hope you are OK, more than OK - hope all is well in your world. I don't see many postings from anybody over the weekend so maybe it's my computer.
Anyway, I wait with bated breath to hear what happened on the Mr. Aquar front!!!! back, behind!!:-) whatever!!!
I suppose you could say I had an eventful weekend (well eventful Saturday!!) - I will begin with the tale of what happened with Mr. Aries - the 18 year old!! On Saturday afternoon, I had a drink of brandy and cowardly decided to text that I could no longer see him again....but I knew if I rang, he wouldn't understand what I was saying...so I texted saying that he would be much better off with a nice girlfriend his own age - blah blah. I was too old for him. Got a text back saying...so you don't want to see me anymore....I replied ...best not...Then the phone rings and it's him.....it keeps ringing and I won't answer.....after about an hour I decide to answer anyway. He says "A. - I understand your message but do you really mean never to see me again.....never ever"—I feel real bad but I say - yes, that's what I mean. So he replies - ok A. - be happy and hangs up. I feel a cookiemonster.....about 20 minutes later he rings again....he doesn't say anything but I can hear him crying...I say come on L....don't cry....come on - I can feel my heart sinking - I hate to make anybody cry (that's one of my ideals that I live by...If at the end of the day, I haven't made anybody cry on purpose, it is a good day) ...he literally begged me to see him that nite - just to talk....I'm not a cookiemonster at heart...and I reluctantly agree to go to his house for 5 minutes! just to talk. So later that nite before meeting my girlfriends...I go to his house...he puts on music and opens the wine he had bought for me!! I explain again the age difference thing...he says it's not a problem for him....I say but it's a BIG problem for me....he is still very touchy feely even though I explain there will never be any more jiggy jiggy but that I will always be his friend. His other pal comes into the room - his English is excellent and I tell him what I have told to L...he explains it to him also. We all have a glass of wine and everything is good enough as we chat. The friend then leaves and I say I have to go to 18 year old...he tried to kiss me but I wouldn't and then I stood up to go....he gave me a real big hug and thanked me for coming and then left me to a taxi...he said he'd keep in touch and ring...and he certainly has....rang yesterday lots!!!! I will talk to him and maybe meet for coffee once in a blue moon but the intimacy thing is gone for me.
Then there was more drama I suppose of the hightest order later on Saturday nite!!! As you know I intended to have a good girly nite out with my pals. So 4 or us all met and went to good club in city centre....I picked that club esp. as I knew there was no chance of Mr. Virgo being there - as he doesn't like it. We were having a good time, drinking wine, chatting, eyeing up the talent!! of which there wasn't much that took my fancy anyway!!....then out of the blue 2 guys stroll by and I see that one of them is Mr. Virgo's first cousin!! I have known this guy about a year...he actually rings me about twice a week...we get along great...he's on the same page as me!!...thinks similarly....there is definitely a sexual chemistry between us but we both contain it as I am always (Or was! I should say) with Mr. Virgo....this cousin has been hurt in the past in the love stakes....and now just has one nite stands- he is honest and truthful always with the girls about what he wants so that is fair enough I suppose!!....he always rings me and tells me all about his life and loves and I
Anyway, I wait with bated breath to hear what happened on the Mr. Aquar front!!!! back, behind!!:-) whatever!!!
I suppose you could say I had an eventful weekend (well eventful Saturday!!) - I will begin with the tale of what happened with Mr. Aries - the 18 year old!! On Saturday afternoon, I had a drink of brandy and cowardly decided to text that I could no longer see him again....but I knew if I rang, he wouldn't understand what I was saying...so I texted saying that he would be much better off with a nice girlfriend his own age - blah blah. I was too old for him. Got a text back saying...so you don't want to see me anymore....I replied ...best not...Then the phone rings and it's him.....it keeps ringing and I won't answer.....after about an hour I decide to answer anyway. He says "A. - I understand your message but do you really mean never to see me again.....never ever"—I feel real bad but I say - yes, that's what I mean. So he replies - ok A. - be happy and hangs up. I feel a cookiemonster.....about 20 minutes later he rings again....he doesn't say anything but I can hear him crying...I say come on L....don't cry....come on - I can feel my heart sinking - I hate to make anybody cry (that's one of my ideals that I live by...If at the end of the day, I haven't made anybody cry on purpose, it is a good day) ...he literally begged me to see him that nite - just to talk....I'm not a cookiemonster at heart...and I reluctantly agree to go to his house for 5 minutes! just to talk. So later that nite before meeting my girlfriends...I go to his house...he puts on music and opens the wine he had bought for me!! I explain again the age difference thing...he says it's not a problem for him....I say but it's a BIG problem for me....he is still very touchy feely even though I explain there will never be any more jiggy jiggy but that I will always be his friend. His other pal comes into the room - his English is excellent and I tell him what I have told to L...he explains it to him also. We all have a glass of wine and everything is good enough as we chat. The friend then leaves and I say I have to go to 18 year old...he tried to kiss me but I wouldn't and then I stood up to go....he gave me a real big hug and thanked me for coming and then left me to a taxi...he said he'd keep in touch and ring...and he certainly has....rang yesterday lots!!!! I will talk to him and maybe meet for coffee once in a blue moon but the intimacy thing is gone for me.
Then there was more drama I suppose of the hightest order later on Saturday nite!!! As you know I intended to have a good girly nite out with my pals. So 4 or us all met and went to good club in city centre....I picked that club esp. as I knew there was no chance of Mr. Virgo being there - as he doesn't like it. We were having a good time, drinking wine, chatting, eyeing up the talent!! of which there wasn't much that took my fancy anyway!!....then out of the blue 2 guys stroll by and I see that one of them is Mr. Virgo's first cousin!! I have known this guy about a year...he actually rings me about twice a week...we get along great...he's on the same page as me!!...thinks similarly....there is definitely a sexual chemistry between us but we both contain it as I am always (Or was! I should say) with Mr. Virgo....this cousin has been hurt in the past in the love stakes....and now just has one nite stands- he is honest and truthful always with the girls about what he wants so that is fair enough I suppose!!....he always rings me and tells me all about his life and loves and I
PS that word cookiemonster....well it should be b. i. t. c. h. - but that's a forbidden word on this site according to Duncie!!!!!
Hello my dear Alana, Wowzeer~ What an eventful weekend you have had....you put me to shame! I know your sighing heart hurts...that is a too familiar feeling. I do think that you are doing a good thing by getting out and exploring life. And this is something that you are very good at. Kuddos to you my dear one for the great choices that you made for yourself...nothing feels as good as that does sometimes. 😉 (self~empowerment)
You sure seem to attract the Aries as of late...hmmmm. I too have been attracting the Aquas. My weekend was a little quieter than yours but Mr. Aqua was still in the frame work. He has called me everyday...sometimes twice. Friday he calls around 5 saying he feels like doing something....I already had plans with other friends and I was not about to cancell them for him. I told him that I would call him later if that would work for him and he said yes. I called later and his phone was off. I left a msg. and he emailed me later that night saying he went home as he was just very tired. No problem. He called me Sat. and we chatted for awhile. It seemed to me that he was wanting to get together but nothing came of it. Again, no problem. He then calls me at 11 that night to say goodnight to me and hinted of wanting to stop by..... I said, No, it is too late. I thought that this was very odd...not like him. Because of his actions, I am finding myself pulling waaaaay back and observing him. He calls back at 12 for a reason I know not of. Says he will call me again on Sunday. I went to a coffee house Sun. morning and met up with a guy friend (Saggie) and we chatted for quite awhile. He expressed to me that he has had feelings for me but is also dating or involved with a married woman and she loves him but is having a difficult time leaving her marriage. Oh geeze......I told him that I will be his friend and pal around with him but I will not get physical with him. He said fine and we will go out and play with life. Can't close the door as one never knows what will happen. He is a really neat person and he and I have had an attraction since the first time we met. He has stuff he needs to learn and experience. Been there, done that. I then went to a local restaurant with a girlfriend and our waiter was an absolute doll. He and I bantered the whole time, infact the other patrons were laughing and enjoying themselves that when they left they said we made their day. When our meal was done, he pulled up a chair and chatted with us for a long time. He would just stare into my eyes and not move. I had a feeling he was an Aqua. I asked him when his b~day was and yep, I was on target. He is only 22. Why? why could he not be older? He was so much fun and free. As we were leaving he looked at me and said, please come back. These are the days that I am working and my name is Matt, please ask for me. I will be back...I smiled and walked out the door.
I went to bed early last night and Mr. Aqua once again called me late at night. I think he wanted to "stop by" and I said, no. Said he had a busy day ahead for him today but that he wanted to see me tomorrow as he misses me. Alana, gotta trust my gut here....I really think that he is only after one thing here. He wants to come to my home tomorrow. I said I may need to have some work done on my car and won't know till later today. He said he will call me tonight to find out if Tues will work. I will tell him that I would like to go somwhere else, the park? If he does not want to, well...I have my answer and I will then tell him, "see you later" THE END. I do believe that I have distanced myself so much from him already. As long as I have known him, he has never called me everyday....my conclusion is that he wants something and will do anything to get it. This is all a power thing for him and once he gets what he wants, he will be gone. This might work with someone else but not me.
So, that is my simple
You sure seem to attract the Aries as of late...hmmmm. I too have been attracting the Aquas. My weekend was a little quieter than yours but Mr. Aqua was still in the frame work. He has called me everyday...sometimes twice. Friday he calls around 5 saying he feels like doing something....I already had plans with other friends and I was not about to cancell them for him. I told him that I would call him later if that would work for him and he said yes. I called later and his phone was off. I left a msg. and he emailed me later that night saying he went home as he was just very tired. No problem. He called me Sat. and we chatted for awhile. It seemed to me that he was wanting to get together but nothing came of it. Again, no problem. He then calls me at 11 that night to say goodnight to me and hinted of wanting to stop by..... I said, No, it is too late. I thought that this was very odd...not like him. Because of his actions, I am finding myself pulling waaaaay back and observing him. He calls back at 12 for a reason I know not of. Says he will call me again on Sunday. I went to a coffee house Sun. morning and met up with a guy friend (Saggie) and we chatted for quite awhile. He expressed to me that he has had feelings for me but is also dating or involved with a married woman and she loves him but is having a difficult time leaving her marriage. Oh geeze......I told him that I will be his friend and pal around with him but I will not get physical with him. He said fine and we will go out and play with life. Can't close the door as one never knows what will happen. He is a really neat person and he and I have had an attraction since the first time we met. He has stuff he needs to learn and experience. Been there, done that. I then went to a local restaurant with a girlfriend and our waiter was an absolute doll. He and I bantered the whole time, infact the other patrons were laughing and enjoying themselves that when they left they said we made their day. When our meal was done, he pulled up a chair and chatted with us for a long time. He would just stare into my eyes and not move. I had a feeling he was an Aqua. I asked him when his b~day was and yep, I was on target. He is only 22. Why? why could he not be older? He was so much fun and free. As we were leaving he looked at me and said, please come back. These are the days that I am working and my name is Matt, please ask for me. I will be back...I smiled and walked out the door.
I went to bed early last night and Mr. Aqua once again called me late at night. I think he wanted to "stop by" and I said, no. Said he had a busy day ahead for him today but that he wanted to see me tomorrow as he misses me. Alana, gotta trust my gut here....I really think that he is only after one thing here. He wants to come to my home tomorrow. I said I may need to have some work done on my car and won't know till later today. He said he will call me tonight to find out if Tues will work. I will tell him that I would like to go somwhere else, the park? If he does not want to, well...I have my answer and I will then tell him, "see you later" THE END. I do believe that I have distanced myself so much from him already. As long as I have known him, he has never called me everyday....my conclusion is that he wants something and will do anything to get it. This is all a power thing for him and once he gets what he wants, he will be gone. This might work with someone else but not me.
So, that is my simple
Just a quicky reply dear Freebird as I am very busy in the office...lovely to see you - glad your computer fixed.
Yes, Mr. A. is desperate and that's not a very attractive quality in anybody....and I can understand you backing off because of this and because you feel that once he's got "what he wants" he might go. I admire your determination and reserve on that point. Stick to your guns then Missy....you know best.
As for the waiter episode....hey Missy....you going for the toy-boys like me!!!:-) You sure seem to attract alot of aquas!!!! I find Aries and Aquarius can banter and flirt outrageously and it all still seems like good clean fun - not dirty in any way - just giggly giggly naughtiness - you sure seem to have made his day:-) And do return there again.....if not why not. And you had a tete-a-tete with Mr. Sag....hmmmm:-) you certainly are attracting them big time lately Missy:-) - but then again, why wouldn't you?? There's nobody exactly like Freebird - no-one compares to you.
I just had a phone-call from Mr. Virgo's best friend's girlfriend....it was her birthday yesterday and I sent her a card which she got this morning......it had been all off with her and her Mr. Virgo last week. She asked me about me and Mr. Virgo - was it finished? I don't seem to be able to use the word finished....I just said to her I hadn't heard from him since the "kick" nite - she was there that nite too and saw me in full attack-a-door mode!!!! She said her and her guy are now back together....I replied that it was great and I was really happy for her....I came off the phone - I am really happy that she is back with her guy....but I just got that uugh sicky feeling - I am kind of envious/jealous of her and him being together again - and I don't like this envious thing in me. I feel I want to smash something to get all these bad feelings out of my system - I feel like crying...I think when I go home tonite I am going to cry my eyes out...I haven't really yet and then maybe I will feel better.
Anyway, thanks for everything my pal.
Bye sweety.
A x
Yes, Mr. A. is desperate and that's not a very attractive quality in anybody....and I can understand you backing off because of this and because you feel that once he's got "what he wants" he might go. I admire your determination and reserve on that point. Stick to your guns then Missy....you know best.
As for the waiter episode....hey Missy....you going for the toy-boys like me!!!:-) You sure seem to attract alot of aquas!!!! I find Aries and Aquarius can banter and flirt outrageously and it all still seems like good clean fun - not dirty in any way - just giggly giggly naughtiness - you sure seem to have made his day:-) And do return there again.....if not why not. And you had a tete-a-tete with Mr. Sag....hmmmm:-) you certainly are attracting them big time lately Missy:-) - but then again, why wouldn't you?? There's nobody exactly like Freebird - no-one compares to you.
I just had a phone-call from Mr. Virgo's best friend's girlfriend....it was her birthday yesterday and I sent her a card which she got this morning......it had been all off with her and her Mr. Virgo last week. She asked me about me and Mr. Virgo - was it finished? I don't seem to be able to use the word finished....I just said to her I hadn't heard from him since the "kick" nite - she was there that nite too and saw me in full attack-a-door mode!!!! She said her and her guy are now back together....I replied that it was great and I was really happy for her....I came off the phone - I am really happy that she is back with her guy....but I just got that uugh sicky feeling - I am kind of envious/jealous of her and him being together again - and I don't like this envious thing in me. I feel I want to smash something to get all these bad feelings out of my system - I feel like crying...I think when I go home tonite I am going to cry my eyes out...I haven't really yet and then maybe I will feel better.
Anyway, thanks for everything my pal.
Bye sweety.
A x
ehm, pardon me if i'm "intruding" but alana suggested i looked over to the aquarius board since aquarians seem to be attracted to doors..
Well alana! i think you had a reasonable reason but the action that followed probably scared him a bit. I was talking to my virgo friend yesterday at carls jr. I didn't even touch my food! i kept yapping because i'm rather garrulous like that. And she mentioned about how virgo's(we were talking about astrology) hate to be embarrassed in public, it doesnt matter what way, because they hate being pulled into public drama infront of everyone, i'm assuming their image is quite important to them. But anyhoo, she says that most virgo's just pack their bags and leave after that, they don't ever want to see their mates faces again once they've experiences those particular situations because they are supposedly looking for their "perfect" companion and if their present mate has at least a "small irrelevent flaw(well that's my opinion - the irrelevent small part hehe)" they just throw you away and leave. But i dont believe this falls into EVERY virgo, but i guess it makes sense since virgo's are known for their perfectionism, but then again, i'm not friendly with astrology and i probably cant compare my knowledge with most of you!
What you did might have been a bit out of hand but he should also acknowledge that you must've reacted that way because you truly cherish him and care for him. I dont want to pull the whole question about love into this, but in my opinion, if he loved you then he wouldve stuck around and tried to calm you down. I dont blame him for his situation or yours because it was just a big misunderstanding. But in the end, it all falls down to him giving up. I wish he didnt :* you seem like such a great person alana. no matter if you have that quick temper, which i have also!!! god i dont even want to start with my crap heh. And oh, my boyfriends step dad..eh. I dont even think he HAD a reason at all. I think he just doesnt really give a damn about other peoples privacy or their feelings. He's all about "you gotta be a man - like ME."
I think that's crap! and i'm going to kidnap my bf and save his ass outta there!!
Well alana! i think you had a reasonable reason but the action that followed probably scared him a bit. I was talking to my virgo friend yesterday at carls jr. I didn't even touch my food! i kept yapping because i'm rather garrulous like that. And she mentioned about how virgo's(we were talking about astrology) hate to be embarrassed in public, it doesnt matter what way, because they hate being pulled into public drama infront of everyone, i'm assuming their image is quite important to them. But anyhoo, she says that most virgo's just pack their bags and leave after that, they don't ever want to see their mates faces again once they've experiences those particular situations because they are supposedly looking for their "perfect" companion and if their present mate has at least a "small irrelevent flaw(well that's my opinion - the irrelevent small part hehe)" they just throw you away and leave. But i dont believe this falls into EVERY virgo, but i guess it makes sense since virgo's are known for their perfectionism, but then again, i'm not friendly with astrology and i probably cant compare my knowledge with most of you!
What you did might have been a bit out of hand but he should also acknowledge that you must've reacted that way because you truly cherish him and care for him. I dont want to pull the whole question about love into this, but in my opinion, if he loved you then he wouldve stuck around and tried to calm you down. I dont blame him for his situation or yours because it was just a big misunderstanding. But in the end, it all falls down to him giving up. I wish he didnt :* you seem like such a great person alana. no matter if you have that quick temper, which i have also!!! god i dont even want to start with my crap heh. And oh, my boyfriends step dad..eh. I dont even think he HAD a reason at all. I think he just doesnt really give a damn about other peoples privacy or their feelings. He's all about "you gotta be a man - like ME."
I think that's crap! and i'm going to kidnap my bf and save his ass outta there!!
I'm poppin on here Alana after a very relaxing day doing absolutely NOTHING! I had good intentions of working out at the gym but once I got myself there, I began talking with friends and then......oh gosh, I did not feel like doing any cardio or lifting so, I grabbed a guy pal of mine and we went walking in the park OUTSIDE. Nature really seems to comfort me. I feel so much better and my energy is back. 🙂
I am not sure when you will be reading this msg. but I do hope that you had an absolutely wonderful cry. We all need that now and then. I don't know if you are into writing your thoughts (I would think that you might be because you have a delightful flair with words). Anywho...I would like to suggest that you write ALL your feelings down and get them ALL out of your system and then either rip up that paper or burn it. I have done this many times and it really helps in moving us on and letting go of the past. Just a thought for my dear and ever so caring Alana.
You know what? your relationship with Mr. Virgo may not be over...and I think I have voiced this opinion before. Reflection is a great thing and sometimes when we come back together we are much wiser and have grown some. It's ALL good.
I am worried for my Aqua guy....I know he cares for me but he cannot be what I need at this time in my life. I dread telling him again that we need to let go. I think I have done this oh...let me see, 6 times? Maybe I should just move....I'm comin over there are you ready? Ah, they couldn't handle the two of us together. I need to talk with him tomorrow.....😢
I'm closing with this quote I just found...
"We come to love not by finding a perfect person but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." ~Sam Keen
And thank YOU for all that you are!
TTFN,
Freebird
I am not sure when you will be reading this msg. but I do hope that you had an absolutely wonderful cry. We all need that now and then. I don't know if you are into writing your thoughts (I would think that you might be because you have a delightful flair with words). Anywho...I would like to suggest that you write ALL your feelings down and get them ALL out of your system and then either rip up that paper or burn it. I have done this many times and it really helps in moving us on and letting go of the past. Just a thought for my dear and ever so caring Alana.
You know what? your relationship with Mr. Virgo may not be over...and I think I have voiced this opinion before. Reflection is a great thing and sometimes when we come back together we are much wiser and have grown some. It's ALL good.
I am worried for my Aqua guy....I know he cares for me but he cannot be what I need at this time in my life. I dread telling him again that we need to let go. I think I have done this oh...let me see, 6 times? Maybe I should just move....I'm comin over there are you ready? Ah, they couldn't handle the two of us together. I need to talk with him tomorrow.....😢
I'm closing with this quote I just found...
"We come to love not by finding a perfect person but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." ~Sam Keen
And thank YOU for all that you are!
TTFN,
Freebird
I'm just wondering something...a thought just flashed through my brain that you, Alana so kindly sent back to me via scanner....(my brain) Is this the longest running post for one topic?
If so, it is true that Aqua's and Aries can talk and talk and talk......😉
If so, it is true that Aqua's and Aries can talk and talk and talk......😉
ah alana! i just read your last message, please keep your head up. I know that there's a million guys who would go for you, but i know you just want Mr virgo and that is all. But i guess love isn't all that takes to make the relationship maintain, you need communication involved also. But mr virgo has been avoiding you lately huh? I wish he gave you another chance because people do change. But know this, dont tear up for someone who wont even shed a tear for you. I cannot say that there are better guys out there than Mr Virgo because i'm sure he was awesome to you. But there are a lot of other awesome guys out there also! who would love you and care for you! i dont know if my advice is doing much good but i hope you feel better. *hug* ^^
To all of those interested in finding a great relationship.
Subject: Five secrets to a great relationship 🙂
1. It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job.
2. It is important that a man makes you laugh.
3. It is important to find a man you can count on and doesn't lie to
you.
4. It is important that a man is good in bed and loves making love to
you.
5. It is Important that these four men don't know each other
Subject: Five secrets to a great relationship 🙂
1. It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job.
2. It is important that a man makes you laugh.
3. It is important to find a man you can count on and doesn't lie to
you.
4. It is important that a man is good in bed and loves making love to
you.
5. It is Important that these four men don't know each other
LOL!!!!! that was great freebird!! but guess what! my sag is all of them! what a prize, ne?
YOU are ONE very lucky girl Luz....does he have an available brother?
Those Sags sure can be a lot of fun can't they? I have a couple of Sags guy friends and they are so much fun to be with. However, they are already involved. Okay, next!
I think I may try out the variety system and hope no one finds out.
Those Sags sure can be a lot of fun can't they? I have a couple of Sags guy friends and they are so much fun to be with. However, they are already involved. Okay, next!
I think I may try out the variety system and hope no one finds out.
heh, well let me just clarify that i am a virgin, but he says he would love to make love to me. But i'm not ready, and he respects that. Hahaha his brother's 13 my friend!!! lol! and yes they are fun, we have so much fun together and it has nothing sexual involved, that's even more grand in my perspective!
hahaha, i wish you luck to that freebird *salutes*
hahaha, i wish you luck to that freebird *salutes*
Hey Freebird and Luz, thanks so much for all the kind and great advice...yes writing is certainly one way that had helped me in the past.....both of you - wrap your arms round yourselves and consider yourselves hugged:-)
Well?Missies - her has some news for you girls ? so get ready for a detailed thread..and your right Freebird....this may be the longest thread in history, proving that Aries and Aquarius sure can talk talk!!!
I went home last nite?.put my son to bed and thought now I can have my cry. Took a drink of brandy and sat down to lisen to some nice sounds. Just then my phone rings?it?s 18 year old Mr. Aries ? sweet pest!!!! I chit-chat for a few minutes. My phone rings again?..I think to myself?not him again but my heart nearly stops a beat?it isn't Mr. Aries...it?s Mr. Virgo ringing. Clicking on all cylinders now!!I hire up some disco music (so he?s gonna think I am out clubbing or in pub having a great time!!) and answer hello!! He hangs up immediately. I smile to myself!! Five minutes later he rings again and I don?t answer!!! Another five minutes and he rings again ? this time we connect!!! He just said hi, how are you!!! I say ? good! And go silent? I?m not going to do the running?..he starts on about why I didn?t ring him in over 10 days!!! Me!!! I say ? you never rang me?..He says - you walked out of my house and you never bothered to ring me that day to see how I was!?I say you nearly threw me out of your house?.why should I ring you?.I said sorry and you didn?t accept it, what more could I say or do?.silence?.he says ? you are stupid. I say - oh I am stupid and immediately flat-line him (ie. Hang up!!). He rings 4 more times and I won?t answer?.eventually I answer (he?s good at back-tracking with the words as all virgos are!!) he says I didn?t say you were stupid?I said your actions were stupid!! (nice one!!)?in all my life I would never call you stupid?.I still have the music blaring in the background and he keeps asking where I am. I say why are you worried where I am?it?s not your business.
Anyway, there was a lot of huffing and puffing on both sides ? I said to him - have you anything nice to say to me? other than give out ? he said I?ve said what I want to say. So I say good-ntie abruptly and hang up then!! I go up to bed ? he rings again, this time his tone and manner have mellowed ? he asks me to say something nice to him?..he asks what I did the weekend (I reply I was on the brink of having sex with your cousin!! ? no, no ? gotcha there Freebird!!!) ? I am evasive..He asks if I have new boyfriend ? I say no!! He says he was down at the weekend ? he hasn?t any new girlfriend either!!! He says his other cousin whom he lives with has missed me for the past 10 days!!! - I say I am disappoined he didn't accept my sorry - I would have accepted his...He says he is sorry for being 2 hours late...I say everybody makes mistakes...he says he never does!!! Bloody Virgo...I say I am not perfect...he says he is!! (and I know he means it - he really does think he behaves perfectly all the time)!!! I say well perhaps it was 50-50 both our faults..He says - no 70-30!! - your fault...we laugh at this.....Then he said - well your're the boss (this always means that if I want to get back with him I have to say that I want to go visit him at his house) - I say to him...no you can be boss for a while...and so the argy-bargy banter continues...he says he wants to say something nice to me - he talks now in his greek tongue - I know what he is saying..it truly is very nice:-)
Hed asks me do I feel horny - I say yes....even listening to his voice and I'm up!! We have phone sex!!!! But let's not go there - story for another day...I end the conversation by saying - well got to say goodnite now - sweet dreams...he replies - sweet dreams honey. I hang up and go to sleep with a big smile on my face.
So this morning I awake and i know I can "have" Mr. Virgo again
Well?Missies - her has some news for you girls ? so get ready for a detailed thread..and your right Freebird....this may be the longest thread in history, proving that Aries and Aquarius sure can talk talk!!!
I went home last nite?.put my son to bed and thought now I can have my cry. Took a drink of brandy and sat down to lisen to some nice sounds. Just then my phone rings?it?s 18 year old Mr. Aries ? sweet pest!!!! I chit-chat for a few minutes. My phone rings again?..I think to myself?not him again but my heart nearly stops a beat?it isn't Mr. Aries...it?s Mr. Virgo ringing. Clicking on all cylinders now!!I hire up some disco music (so he?s gonna think I am out clubbing or in pub having a great time!!) and answer hello!! He hangs up immediately. I smile to myself!! Five minutes later he rings again and I don?t answer!!! Another five minutes and he rings again ? this time we connect!!! He just said hi, how are you!!! I say ? good! And go silent? I?m not going to do the running?..he starts on about why I didn?t ring him in over 10 days!!! Me!!! I say ? you never rang me?..He says - you walked out of my house and you never bothered to ring me that day to see how I was!?I say you nearly threw me out of your house?.why should I ring you?.I said sorry and you didn?t accept it, what more could I say or do?.silence?.he says ? you are stupid. I say - oh I am stupid and immediately flat-line him (ie. Hang up!!). He rings 4 more times and I won?t answer?.eventually I answer (he?s good at back-tracking with the words as all virgos are!!) he says I didn?t say you were stupid?I said your actions were stupid!! (nice one!!)?in all my life I would never call you stupid?.I still have the music blaring in the background and he keeps asking where I am. I say why are you worried where I am?it?s not your business.
Anyway, there was a lot of huffing and puffing on both sides ? I said to him - have you anything nice to say to me? other than give out ? he said I?ve said what I want to say. So I say good-ntie abruptly and hang up then!! I go up to bed ? he rings again, this time his tone and manner have mellowed ? he asks me to say something nice to him?..he asks what I did the weekend (I reply I was on the brink of having sex with your cousin!! ? no, no ? gotcha there Freebird!!!) ? I am evasive..He asks if I have new boyfriend ? I say no!! He says he was down at the weekend ? he hasn?t any new girlfriend either!!! He says his other cousin whom he lives with has missed me for the past 10 days!!! - I say I am disappoined he didn't accept my sorry - I would have accepted his...He says he is sorry for being 2 hours late...I say everybody makes mistakes...he says he never does!!! Bloody Virgo...I say I am not perfect...he says he is!! (and I know he means it - he really does think he behaves perfectly all the time)!!! I say well perhaps it was 50-50 both our faults..He says - no 70-30!! - your fault...we laugh at this.....Then he said - well your're the boss (this always means that if I want to get back with him I have to say that I want to go visit him at his house) - I say to him...no you can be boss for a while...and so the argy-bargy banter continues...he says he wants to say something nice to me - he talks now in his greek tongue - I know what he is saying..it truly is very nice:-)
Hed asks me do I feel horny - I say yes....even listening to his voice and I'm up!! We have phone sex!!!! But let's not go there - story for another day...I end the conversation by saying - well got to say goodnite now - sweet dreams...he replies - sweet dreams honey. I hang up and go to sleep with a big smile on my face.
So this morning I awake and i know I can "have" Mr. Virgo again
And what a wonderful morning it is...We humans sure are funny creatures are we not? We want what we can't have and once we get it....oh well. I am thinking here that the challenge is the game, it is what keeps relationships alive, exciting and on the edge where we like it to be. You are having quite a thrilling experience Alana...so, your turn. What are ya gonna do? I did not think at all that you were going on and on nor was I bored with your story. My eyes were glued to the screen like glitter to paper! I am happy that you and Mr. Virgo have reconnected. 🙂 I'm looking forward to hearing all the happenings when you two join up.
I will not be able to chat long here as Mr. Aqua is due to arrive shortly. He "pops" in when least expected and throws me off....actually, I love this quality about him. Never say Never is his motto. Okay then, the blueberry muffins are in the oven and the harvest candle is burning. The rest is a surprise as to what will unfold when he enters through the door of my home.
Thanks for the hug Alana,....back atcha! ((((((HUG))))))))
Chow for now my friend,
Freebird
I will not be able to chat long here as Mr. Aqua is due to arrive shortly. He "pops" in when least expected and throws me off....actually, I love this quality about him. Never say Never is his motto. Okay then, the blueberry muffins are in the oven and the harvest candle is burning. The rest is a surprise as to what will unfold when he enters through the door of my home.
Thanks for the hug Alana,....back atcha! ((((((HUG))))))))
Chow for now my friend,
Freebird
Oky doky Freebird...I can smell those blueberry muffins from over here and your harvest candle is "harvesting" before my eyes...:-) Expect the unexpected with Mr. Aquar....that's all I can say and he will get what he deserves from you!!
Tell me all the developments later when you get the chance.
Luv Ax
Tell me all the developments later when you get the chance.
Luv Ax
Well, another adventure has come and gone. Not sure if there will be any others...but, as we both know Alana...never say never. Something happened where he felt very hurt by my actions. He had every right to be hurt. He said it is hard being with me. I know I can be a very complex person but then again, so can he. Okay, this is the part that I have neglected to mention and I am not really sure why but I know that it needs to come out. I need to feel completely free. My Aquar guy is married. For so long I have fought my feelings while being with him. We were friends for about 2 yrs. before we ever decided to take our relationship to the next level. I don't really think that we even decided anything, it just happend. Because of him being married, I was unable to completely open up to him because of fear of being hurt. Yeah, I know, this can happen anytime with anyone. I am amazed with myself that I am even opening up this part of my life to all of you. The tears are running down my cheeks and I don't know why. He and I had a very long wonderful talk. A lot came out. He said he has no idea how I got into his heart but I am there and there to stay. I told him that I too love him but I don't think he really beleives me and I don't blame him. There is some part of him that is a mystery to me, that I am unable to trust. I am not sure what it is but it is a very strong feeling. I need to keep trusting my feelings. Then again, maybe I am afraid of true love...nope it isn't true love because I have too many questions, too many doubts. I so love talking with him. He said that he feels that he is in the way of a man coming into my life and he feels that he will be coming very soon. I asked if he felt it was him and he replied, "not under these circumstances". He may be right...because for some unknown reason, I have been distancing myself from him. I know the whole marriage thing is not right, it doesn't and didn't feel right to me. It was not completely real or honest and I cannot live that way. I was not first in his life and I could not be no matter what. Funny how we KNOW these things but until we EXPERIENCE and FEEL them do we truly UNDERSTAND them. I will not go down this path again, ever. Too much conflict for me and I am sure that a lot of it was self induced. It was great that he and I could talk about this. He still cares a lot for me and gave me a wonderful hug...he is distant and I am sure he will be for awhile. I care very, very much for him and he is a good friend to me. Says he is "messed up" and has a lot going on in his life, needing to simplify it. I guess I just helped him to simplify. He didn't say anything about not seeing each other again ....maybe this just goes without saying. We know. I am feeling such a sense of relief, peace.
Ya know, a thought just popped into my mind. Maybe he is just saying he is hurt because to tell you the truth, I am not sure what happened that he felt so hurt about. Ah, this could be a way to end it as well. I suppose none of this really matters. What matters is that I had an experience, I felt life....the good, the bad and the ugly of it.
I can either keep this a mole hill or turn it into a mountain. I'll take the first one.
Alana~ what kind of behaviour can I expect from a hurt Aqua? I felt like he was acting calm but inside he was seething.....I'm not sure that I saw the real him. ARG....so confusing.
Thanks for your insight. I so appreciate it and you.
With love,
Freebird
Ya know, a thought just popped into my mind. Maybe he is just saying he is hurt because to tell you the truth, I am not sure what happened that he felt so hurt about. Ah, this could be a way to end it as well. I suppose none of this really matters. What matters is that I had an experience, I felt life....the good, the bad and the ugly of it.
I can either keep this a mole hill or turn it into a mountain. I'll take the first one.
Alana~ what kind of behaviour can I expect from a hurt Aqua? I felt like he was acting calm but inside he was seething.....I'm not sure that I saw the real him. ARG....so confusing.
Thanks for your insight. I so appreciate it and you.
With love,
Freebird
I did forget to mention that he also said that when I have found that special person...he would like to meet him. I asked him why and he said, "because I want to make sure that he is good enough for you."
sometimes its hard to tell if a love relationship is getting deeper or just sinking
James, you are so right..it is hard to tell. He still calls me. I don't know. All I can say is....I don't know.
My dearest Freebird - I have just read your tale and believe me my heart almost leaped out of its body right here and now for you as you shared your story and said the tears were running down your cheeks - I had tears in my eyes for you too as I read your wonderful, honest account of what's really been happening with you and Mr. Aquar. Thanks for sharing about the marriage aspect....no-one here would dare judge you or him on that front....it's called life! Life maybe at the cutting edge!! but still life in all its joys and pains. There's no-one in your life and world that isn't meant to be here - I do know that.
Yes, it was great that you and him opened up and shared so much - it does the soul wonders when a real heart-to-heart takes place and that's what certainly happened......it's clear that you both love each other deeply and profoundly - but circumstances are not helping - are they! About him not believing that you love him....this is probably at the nub of his hurt....he has sensed you have been distancing yourself of late, "disengaging" for want of a better word - and in my opinion this is what he is talking about when he's saying he's hurt....but being aquarian, if he's anything like me...he won't actually verbalize to you that he feels you are backing off....it's almost too painful to feel for hiim, let alone express it to the chosen loved one....what if he's right?, he doesn't want to know 110% that it's true...so he chooses to hold onto the hope that all will be well. His telling retort about you meeting a man soon....he's afraid he's losing you already..
You ask what type of behaviour to expect from a hurt aquarian...well, for me anyway, after the initial blind-anger that lasts about 5 - 10 minutes, I switch off or become distant (for a while anyway) from that person....I mightn't talk or if they ask questions will just give one sentence replies and stare through the person. If I do talk, I will probably be sarcastic in my responses......but to be honest, all a person has to say is ...I am sorry for hurting you.....and then and there on the spot....all is forgiven - aquarians can't really hold grudges or hurt for too long for anyone.
I still think there will be more adventures with Mr. Aquar....it's not ended....the dance will go on..maybe to a different beat or tune....but I know it's just not ended for you Freebird and Mr. Aquar.
I wish I could think of more comforting and soothing words to help you - but I' a few notches below par today myself and not clicking on all cylinders, shall we say. Will tell you all in another thread.
Chin up my pal - chin up. We all love you here....and I'm sure that is true of everyone that meets you....you've a certain, beautiful haunting (sometimes) quality about you - once experienced, never ever forgotten.
Love Alana x
Yes, it was great that you and him opened up and shared so much - it does the soul wonders when a real heart-to-heart takes place and that's what certainly happened......it's clear that you both love each other deeply and profoundly - but circumstances are not helping - are they! About him not believing that you love him....this is probably at the nub of his hurt....he has sensed you have been distancing yourself of late, "disengaging" for want of a better word - and in my opinion this is what he is talking about when he's saying he's hurt....but being aquarian, if he's anything like me...he won't actually verbalize to you that he feels you are backing off....it's almost too painful to feel for hiim, let alone express it to the chosen loved one....what if he's right?, he doesn't want to know 110% that it's true...so he chooses to hold onto the hope that all will be well. His telling retort about you meeting a man soon....he's afraid he's losing you already..
You ask what type of behaviour to expect from a hurt aquarian...well, for me anyway, after the initial blind-anger that lasts about 5 - 10 minutes, I switch off or become distant (for a while anyway) from that person....I mightn't talk or if they ask questions will just give one sentence replies and stare through the person. If I do talk, I will probably be sarcastic in my responses......but to be honest, all a person has to say is ...I am sorry for hurting you.....and then and there on the spot....all is forgiven - aquarians can't really hold grudges or hurt for too long for anyone.
I still think there will be more adventures with Mr. Aquar....it's not ended....the dance will go on..maybe to a different beat or tune....but I know it's just not ended for you Freebird and Mr. Aquar.
I wish I could think of more comforting and soothing words to help you - but I' a few notches below par today myself and not clicking on all cylinders, shall we say. Will tell you all in another thread.
Chin up my pal - chin up. We all love you here....and I'm sure that is true of everyone that meets you....you've a certain, beautiful haunting (sometimes) quality about you - once experienced, never ever forgotten.
Love Alana x
I would like to say that I had a great nite and great reunion with Mr. Virgo last nite (and that we all lived happily ever after!!!) but to be brutally honest it turned out bloody terrible. I had arranged to meet him in his house at 8.30. In the taxi going over there he rings me and says he may be 20 minutes delayed - to stay in the local pub till he comes. I say to him - only 20 minutes N. and then I leave. No sign of Mr. Virgo after half an hour - I can feel the temper in me rising but tell myself what's half an hour to calm down!!.....45 minutes.....I ring.....he answers and I know from his tone that he is drunk..he says he will get a taxi and be here soon - I say forget that!! - his friend comes on the phone and asks me to come over and collect him - they had a few drinks too many!!!! I get in taxi fuming and head over to friends house. There are 4 there - all drunk but none so appallingly drunk as Mr. Virgo is....he's not shaved, his hair is all dishevelled, he's stretched out on the sofa like a gypsy....I decide to bite my lip, not say anthing for the moment in front of everyone there. He said he was nervous meeting me and needed a drink and had too much!!!! He's all over me...embarrasingly so....too touchy - keeps pulling me on top of him on the sofa- I get embarrased in front of his friends...he's talking bullbutter....I have a drink anyway with the gang to be social and try get out of his clutches - then I went to the toilet and Mr. Virgo bursts in after me or staggers I should say!!!!....I try to fix him up, his ponytail etc. - he's saying how much he loves me, asking for kisses etc. and wants to do it!! in the toilet...I refuse point blank!!!....I know now that there's no point in saying or giving out as he just won't remember or take heed - he's in loo-lah land!!! He likes his drink and usually can drink alot and hold it very well but I've never seen him in such a state.
Eventually, after he spills the upmteenth coffee on himself and the friends sofa, me, him and his cousin decide to go home. There's no point in getting taxi as they wouldn't stop for the drunkin bum!!! So we walk home by the river.
Me and the cousin had to pshycially link him to get him home ? he staggering and stumbling all over the kip. He nearly fell into a local river countless times?I was really worried for him plus for myself as he was hanging out of me and I could of went in with him!!
Next on the main road, he announces he wants sex in public in the middle of a steet and hooshes me up onto a bridge to do something or other!!...I scramble down and say you are making a show of yourself for god's sake...let's just get home. I am sure that every passer-by and car that whizzed past must have thought to themselves - there go 3 loo-lahs... as he was making himself me and the cousin all stagger and stumble with him....
Then he urinates in public..
Next he keeps insisting that me and the cousin are all going having a threesome when we get home - thankfully cousin tells him to shut up and be quiet and I keep ignorning his requests.
Eventaully we get in and next he loses his keys and we all have to go searching for them - he takes some more red wine despite what I say.....
I think it's best if I get him into bed - I think to myself he will fall asleep immediately. Oh god no!!! - He wants to do and try everything imaginable......let's just say his body is willing but the spirit (Or the spirits in him should I say!!!) make him weak!!!! He is annoyed at himself (this has never happened before and he can't understand why!!)....I tell him with so much alochol in his system, it's a wonder he's isn't comotose....
In bed, he was way too rough and was biting way too hard for my liking - it's ricdiculous at 37 years of age today, I've bruises (love-bites) hickkies whatever you want to call them on my neck and other regions of the body!!!
When it was time to leave, he would
Eventually, after he spills the upmteenth coffee on himself and the friends sofa, me, him and his cousin decide to go home. There's no point in getting taxi as they wouldn't stop for the drunkin bum!!! So we walk home by the river.
Me and the cousin had to pshycially link him to get him home ? he staggering and stumbling all over the kip. He nearly fell into a local river countless times?I was really worried for him plus for myself as he was hanging out of me and I could of went in with him!!
Next on the main road, he announces he wants sex in public in the middle of a steet and hooshes me up onto a bridge to do something or other!!...I scramble down and say you are making a show of yourself for god's sake...let's just get home. I am sure that every passer-by and car that whizzed past must have thought to themselves - there go 3 loo-lahs... as he was making himself me and the cousin all stagger and stumble with him....
Then he urinates in public..
Next he keeps insisting that me and the cousin are all going having a threesome when we get home - thankfully cousin tells him to shut up and be quiet and I keep ignorning his requests.
Eventaully we get in and next he loses his keys and we all have to go searching for them - he takes some more red wine despite what I say.....
I think it's best if I get him into bed - I think to myself he will fall asleep immediately. Oh god no!!! - He wants to do and try everything imaginable......let's just say his body is willing but the spirit (Or the spirits in him should I say!!!) make him weak!!!! He is annoyed at himself (this has never happened before and he can't understand why!!)....I tell him with so much alochol in his system, it's a wonder he's isn't comotose....
In bed, he was way too rough and was biting way too hard for my liking - it's ricdiculous at 37 years of age today, I've bruises (love-bites) hickkies whatever you want to call them on my neck and other regions of the body!!!
When it was time to leave, he would
P.S. it should read rich b. i. t. c. h.
and bullbutter is b. u. l. s. h. i. t
and bullbutter is b. u. l. s. h. i. t
Just another snippet that's just happened over lunch. You remember how Mr. Virgo's cousin and I were on the brink!! on Saturday nite last but at the last minute I pulled back. Well, I decided to phone him at work at lunch-time just to test the water and see if we were still pals. When he answered, I asked was he still talking to me. He said - absolutely! and when I said were we still friends then - he replied - always! I just said it wasn't anything personal - but that I wouldn't have been able to live with the guilt.....he said he had thought about the situaiton when he woke up the next day and was really glad that he/we hadn't gone through - he said it would have followed him round for the rest of his life. He was very mature about the whole thing - said we both knew deep down it was wrong...had made a mistake....that we had learnt from that mistake and would just never let it happen again or get ourselves into that situation. I agreed with him wholeheartedly. I was so so sooooo glad that he thought that way (and wasn't in the "I've been rejected - get lost now mode!" as most guys might be) and that we are still friends. He asked me had I seen Mr. Virgo - I told him very briefly what had happend last nite - he wasn't impressed. Anyway, that's all the suss for now Freebird.
Alana x
Alana x
Dearest "Amazing Alana"
Your words were very comforting, soothing and did indeed help me to have a better understanding of this situation.
I am so sorry that you are a few notches below par today and I want to thank you for taking the time to respond while feeling the way that you do. You are truly a very special friend, Alana. Hopefully, today when you read this, you are up quite a few notches and cranking ALL cylinders at full throttle!
Life sure does present us with a variety of roads to travel on...smooth, rocky, pitted, curved, flat, hilly, flooded and then the famous, "what road? I don't see one?" Never really knowing what is up ahead for us....I get myself in those "frisky" places and quickly unfasten my seatbelt for the adventure. It might be time/wise to keep it fastened for a little while here.
Yes, Mr. Aquar. had asked me a couple of times if we will still be friends. "Of coarse we will" I said. I read where your Aries friend said the same thing. I am happy for you that you both are able to continue your friendship with each other. We (Aries) do not hold grudges at all and we forgive so easily. Life to us is one lesson after another providing growth for the next step of our journey. One of the last things that I said to my Aqua friend was that I was very glad for what had happened. He looked surprised as he tends to view many things as "bad" where I come from a place that everything happens for a reason and there is ALWAYS good to be found in every situation (if we take the time to find it). I explained to him that I saw another side of him that I would not have experienced had we not gone through what we did. Circumstances happen but the best part to me is how we handle them, how we choose to resolve them for those involved. I am not sure where the dance between us will go or if it will even be taken on the dance floor. With time and patience, all will be revealed I suppose.
Now, about YOUR adventure my sweet Alana~~~~~~~~~Just a thought coming from over here or over there which ever you prefer....I feel that Mr. Virgo is definately going through something. This is good because this means that change is happening and of coarse we know that change is good. I hope that you stay close or near to him because sometimes we don't really know what is happening and we need people who love us uncondtionally to be there shall we need them. It gives us a sense of safety and support. However, there are many times that one must go it alone to discover what is deep within. You are a very smart woman filled with much wisdom and I know you will choose and do the right thing for both of you. I commend you for handling the stituation the way that you did. Kuddos for YOU 🙂 my friend. Keep me posted on the latest developments of your life......Hope all went well last night.
Love,
Freebird
Your words were very comforting, soothing and did indeed help me to have a better understanding of this situation.
I am so sorry that you are a few notches below par today and I want to thank you for taking the time to respond while feeling the way that you do. You are truly a very special friend, Alana. Hopefully, today when you read this, you are up quite a few notches and cranking ALL cylinders at full throttle!
Life sure does present us with a variety of roads to travel on...smooth, rocky, pitted, curved, flat, hilly, flooded and then the famous, "what road? I don't see one?" Never really knowing what is up ahead for us....I get myself in those "frisky" places and quickly unfasten my seatbelt for the adventure. It might be time/wise to keep it fastened for a little while here.
Yes, Mr. Aquar. had asked me a couple of times if we will still be friends. "Of coarse we will" I said. I read where your Aries friend said the same thing. I am happy for you that you both are able to continue your friendship with each other. We (Aries) do not hold grudges at all and we forgive so easily. Life to us is one lesson after another providing growth for the next step of our journey. One of the last things that I said to my Aqua friend was that I was very glad for what had happened. He looked surprised as he tends to view many things as "bad" where I come from a place that everything happens for a reason and there is ALWAYS good to be found in every situation (if we take the time to find it). I explained to him that I saw another side of him that I would not have experienced had we not gone through what we did. Circumstances happen but the best part to me is how we handle them, how we choose to resolve them for those involved. I am not sure where the dance between us will go or if it will even be taken on the dance floor. With time and patience, all will be revealed I suppose.
Now, about YOUR adventure my sweet Alana~~~~~~~~~Just a thought coming from over here or over there which ever you prefer....I feel that Mr. Virgo is definately going through something. This is good because this means that change is happening and of coarse we know that change is good. I hope that you stay close or near to him because sometimes we don't really know what is happening and we need people who love us uncondtionally to be there shall we need them. It gives us a sense of safety and support. However, there are many times that one must go it alone to discover what is deep within. You are a very smart woman filled with much wisdom and I know you will choose and do the right thing for both of you. I commend you for handling the stituation the way that you did. Kuddos for YOU 🙂 my friend. Keep me posted on the latest developments of your life......Hope all went well last night.
Love,
Freebird
I get myself in those "frisky" places and quickly unfasten my seatbelt for the adventure. It might be time/wise to keep it fastened for a little while here.
I love the frisky, seatbelt scenario......it reminds me of the film Thelma and Louise - the end where they shoot across the canyon!!!! I know I wouldn't have done this (chicken at heart!)....I would probably have sped to the precipice alright and then got out and tried to sweet-talk the arresting officers!!! But you are right - it's all about taking risks into the unknown, feeling the gamut of emotions and on your death-bed..you'll be able to say to yourself...Yes, I am glad I did that - rather than be thinking - I regret never doing that!
Hello to you today my Frisky pal and I hope you are doing OK or more than OK - top of the world-ish!! And why wouldn't I have made time yesterday to talk with one of my bestest aries pals!!! If you can't find the time, you've got to make time.....
I awit to read another page in the story-book of you and Mr. Aquar........sshchush..I think at this very moment I hear the rustle of the page a-turnin!!!! Can I just ask you one thing....(you don't have to answer if it's too personal my pal) - does Mr. Aquar wife know about you? How does/did he manage to be with you while living with her? Has he children? Sorry that's three questions for the price of one - I guess I'm greedy!!!
Well some developments to report on Mr. Virgo
Yesterday afternoon in work, I get a call from Mr. Virgo....He just says.....Hello A. - how are you? I say fine.. blah blah...He says he feels s. h. i. t.....I smile to myself and say I thought you would be feeling pretty bad today.....says he's been drinking water all day to stop the thirst and could only get up out of bed at 4 pm!!!! He says he can't remember any of what happened last nite and asks me to fill him in....I take a long deep breath and go through the litany of his "profanities"! and "misdemeanours"! from previous nite...afer each episode I tell him about, he keeps saying "fcukin hell I can't believe I did this or that". He says "in all his life" (he peppers alot of his sentences with this particular phrase!!) he never had such a reaction to this particular home-made Albanian gin he drank and never had a complete black-out before. I ask him does he remember me leaving at the end of the nite (or at 3 am the following morning to be precise!)and what I said to him....there is a deafening silence and then he says he remembers some of what I said to him!!!.....anyway he wanted me to go over last nite but I said no - too tired every which way! and then my boss came in so I had to finish up the conversation.
So he rang again last nite - still so very very veeerry sick physically!....I once again smiled to myself and think - serves you dam well right. This is where though my heart gladdened somewhat.....naturally Mr. Virgo will never admit that I am right and he is wrong....but just towards the end of the conversation he says - Just want to let you know that I have a job interview lined up for tomorrow afternoon and I won't ever be drinking so much or let what happened to me last nite happen ever again.....
So it seems that what I said to him about getting his act together has perhaps struck a chord...I do know that he takes everything I say to him literally and seriously..(even though he might huff and puff and argue over the minute details of what I say). So let's hope he can get a job and get back on track (it's a start anyway)........I will see him tonite and we will talk...and talk...and talk... and talk....and analyse and go over and over and over and over all that has happened (as only a Virgo can!!!!) but at least it will be minus any alcohol and be based in reality land, so to speak!! Also I feel that we are on an equal footing now....I had my crazy alcohol-fuelled "kick the door down" nite! not so long ago and he's had his crazy alcoh
I love the frisky, seatbelt scenario......it reminds me of the film Thelma and Louise - the end where they shoot across the canyon!!!! I know I wouldn't have done this (chicken at heart!)....I would probably have sped to the precipice alright and then got out and tried to sweet-talk the arresting officers!!! But you are right - it's all about taking risks into the unknown, feeling the gamut of emotions and on your death-bed..you'll be able to say to yourself...Yes, I am glad I did that - rather than be thinking - I regret never doing that!
Hello to you today my Frisky pal and I hope you are doing OK or more than OK - top of the world-ish!! And why wouldn't I have made time yesterday to talk with one of my bestest aries pals!!! If you can't find the time, you've got to make time.....
I awit to read another page in the story-book of you and Mr. Aquar........sshchush..I think at this very moment I hear the rustle of the page a-turnin!!!! Can I just ask you one thing....(you don't have to answer if it's too personal my pal) - does Mr. Aquar wife know about you? How does/did he manage to be with you while living with her? Has he children? Sorry that's three questions for the price of one - I guess I'm greedy!!!
Well some developments to report on Mr. Virgo
Yesterday afternoon in work, I get a call from Mr. Virgo....He just says.....Hello A. - how are you? I say fine.. blah blah...He says he feels s. h. i. t.....I smile to myself and say I thought you would be feeling pretty bad today.....says he's been drinking water all day to stop the thirst and could only get up out of bed at 4 pm!!!! He says he can't remember any of what happened last nite and asks me to fill him in....I take a long deep breath and go through the litany of his "profanities"! and "misdemeanours"! from previous nite...afer each episode I tell him about, he keeps saying "fcukin hell I can't believe I did this or that". He says "in all his life" (he peppers alot of his sentences with this particular phrase!!) he never had such a reaction to this particular home-made Albanian gin he drank and never had a complete black-out before. I ask him does he remember me leaving at the end of the nite (or at 3 am the following morning to be precise!)and what I said to him....there is a deafening silence and then he says he remembers some of what I said to him!!!.....anyway he wanted me to go over last nite but I said no - too tired every which way! and then my boss came in so I had to finish up the conversation.
So he rang again last nite - still so very very veeerry sick physically!....I once again smiled to myself and think - serves you dam well right. This is where though my heart gladdened somewhat.....naturally Mr. Virgo will never admit that I am right and he is wrong....but just towards the end of the conversation he says - Just want to let you know that I have a job interview lined up for tomorrow afternoon and I won't ever be drinking so much or let what happened to me last nite happen ever again.....
So it seems that what I said to him about getting his act together has perhaps struck a chord...I do know that he takes everything I say to him literally and seriously..(even though he might huff and puff and argue over the minute details of what I say). So let's hope he can get a job and get back on track (it's a start anyway)........I will see him tonite and we will talk...and talk...and talk... and talk....and analyse and go over and over and over and over all that has happened (as only a Virgo can!!!!) but at least it will be minus any alcohol and be based in reality land, so to speak!! Also I feel that we are on an equal footing now....I had my crazy alcohol-fuelled "kick the door down" nite! not so long ago and he's had his crazy alcoh
Good morning to you Alana 🙂
What time is it in Ireland? I suppose I could check it out myself but why bother when I have the direct source as a friend?
I am so happy that you and Mr. Virgo have "patched" things up. I have become to believe that it is through the tough experiences that we experience with someone that we grow. If we can make it through the times that seem exhaustable, we can make it through anything. 😉
Oh, no pages are a turnin over here regarding Mr. Aquar. He did call my home the other night and left a msg. with my son saying he will call back (I was out for the night). He has not called back as of yet and who knows, he may not at all. I do not know if his wife knows or not. He has not said anything to me about that. At one time I told him that he no longer could come to my home and he asked if he were to tell his wife where he was then could he come over. YIKES>>>>>>> I said, NO, that will NOT work. Please do not call or ask to come over anymore. Well, you saw how long that lasted (about 2 weeks). He has two young children. He does not really talk a lot about his family life. Just that, he is not happy and they do not communicate very well. He has said to me that he cannot understand how it can feel so right being with me and so wrong with his wife. Alana, not sure why I feel this and it may be a "personal" problem but I have wondered if he was just saying things to get in closer with me. I don't know. To me there is only one reason a man who is married would get involved with another woman and we know what that is. I have kept myself emotionally guarded and that used to really bother him. I think that he may have commitment phobic problems...due to some of his past behaviour. Not really sure and I am not one to judge him. Very odd at times. Oh well. As he has said, a new man will shortly be entering into my life. Words are very powerful, he may be right. I so hope the best for him and I do miss the way he used to be.
Not sure why I have this feeling that he is gone for good. Maybe because he did say he needs to be alone to figure out his life, himself. He needs to be away from people. He feels that he gives himself (opens his heart) and then he gets hurt. He did not give of himself in this relationship (at least I did not feel that he did). I don't even know why I stuck around so long....so many times I would end it because it was wrong for everyone involved and most of all, for myself. I felt that this realationship was for him and he even agreed that he was being very selfish. HELLO? Can anyone turn my lights on? There must have been a lesson for me to learn somewhere in that book...... I so appreciate as I have said many times before, thank you for your wisdom here Alana. I'm not sure what will happen, do you?
Take it away kid, your turn!
love,
The "feathered freebird"
What time is it in Ireland? I suppose I could check it out myself but why bother when I have the direct source as a friend?
I am so happy that you and Mr. Virgo have "patched" things up. I have become to believe that it is through the tough experiences that we experience with someone that we grow. If we can make it through the times that seem exhaustable, we can make it through anything. 😉
Oh, no pages are a turnin over here regarding Mr. Aquar. He did call my home the other night and left a msg. with my son saying he will call back (I was out for the night). He has not called back as of yet and who knows, he may not at all. I do not know if his wife knows or not. He has not said anything to me about that. At one time I told him that he no longer could come to my home and he asked if he were to tell his wife where he was then could he come over. YIKES>>>>>>> I said, NO, that will NOT work. Please do not call or ask to come over anymore. Well, you saw how long that lasted (about 2 weeks). He has two young children. He does not really talk a lot about his family life. Just that, he is not happy and they do not communicate very well. He has said to me that he cannot understand how it can feel so right being with me and so wrong with his wife. Alana, not sure why I feel this and it may be a "personal" problem but I have wondered if he was just saying things to get in closer with me. I don't know. To me there is only one reason a man who is married would get involved with another woman and we know what that is. I have kept myself emotionally guarded and that used to really bother him. I think that he may have commitment phobic problems...due to some of his past behaviour. Not really sure and I am not one to judge him. Very odd at times. Oh well. As he has said, a new man will shortly be entering into my life. Words are very powerful, he may be right. I so hope the best for him and I do miss the way he used to be.
Not sure why I have this feeling that he is gone for good. Maybe because he did say he needs to be alone to figure out his life, himself. He needs to be away from people. He feels that he gives himself (opens his heart) and then he gets hurt. He did not give of himself in this relationship (at least I did not feel that he did). I don't even know why I stuck around so long....so many times I would end it because it was wrong for everyone involved and most of all, for myself. I felt that this realationship was for him and he even agreed that he was being very selfish. HELLO? Can anyone turn my lights on? There must have been a lesson for me to learn somewhere in that book...... I so appreciate as I have said many times before, thank you for your wisdom here Alana. I'm not sure what will happen, do you?
Take it away kid, your turn!
love,
The "feathered freebird"
It's 2.20 now here in Ireland F!
Just a quicky my Feathered Freebird friend - coz I am real busy here in office at mo - thanks for sharing the ins and outs of Mr. Aquar and his wife and kids situation.....
"To me there is only one reason a man who is married would get involved with another woman and we know what that is". For lots of men I would agree with you on this point but for aquarians it's totally different....aquarians love the idea of being in love....and to be in love to the aquarian means that they can love two or even more "intimates" or lovers at the same time and not feel guilt or even feel it's a bad thing (of course to everyone else on the outside who's not in the aquarian's head or thinks this way, it's totally alien and we are seen as two-timers, cheats, etc. by outside world - but our hearts can belong to more than one person at a time, that's really what I am trying to say I suppose)....of course the sex in involved and they like it and to experiment...but it is certainly not the core issue for an aquarian....I remember thinking to myself about Mr. Cappy in the past...suppose he was injured and maybe couldn't have sex, would I still want to be with him...and my answer was a resounding yes.... if a person captures an aquaurian's mind and can mentally stimulate...they are yours for life....from your wickedly clever and honest wirtings on this board, you are 110% and wise, witty and extremely intelligent - and this is the aphrodisiac that your Mr. Aquar is addicted to - besides your heavenly body also!!! but that goes without saying kid!!!
He has made contact since "the talking incident" - even though you were there to talk!!! He will be in touch again soon...as sure as the sky is blue and your name is Freebird!!:-).
Anyway, gotta fly now....I don't know if we can share email adddresses on this board or not...some don't allow it but mine is alana719@hotmail.com - I've something I want to share with you personally, if you would like.
Bye for now F:-)
A x
Just a quicky my Feathered Freebird friend - coz I am real busy here in office at mo - thanks for sharing the ins and outs of Mr. Aquar and his wife and kids situation.....
"To me there is only one reason a man who is married would get involved with another woman and we know what that is". For lots of men I would agree with you on this point but for aquarians it's totally different....aquarians love the idea of being in love....and to be in love to the aquarian means that they can love two or even more "intimates" or lovers at the same time and not feel guilt or even feel it's a bad thing (of course to everyone else on the outside who's not in the aquarian's head or thinks this way, it's totally alien and we are seen as two-timers, cheats, etc. by outside world - but our hearts can belong to more than one person at a time, that's really what I am trying to say I suppose)....of course the sex in involved and they like it and to experiment...but it is certainly not the core issue for an aquarian....I remember thinking to myself about Mr. Cappy in the past...suppose he was injured and maybe couldn't have sex, would I still want to be with him...and my answer was a resounding yes.... if a person captures an aquaurian's mind and can mentally stimulate...they are yours for life....from your wickedly clever and honest wirtings on this board, you are 110% and wise, witty and extremely intelligent - and this is the aphrodisiac that your Mr. Aquar is addicted to - besides your heavenly body also!!! but that goes without saying kid!!!
He has made contact since "the talking incident" - even though you were there to talk!!! He will be in touch again soon...as sure as the sky is blue and your name is Freebird!!:-).
Anyway, gotta fly now....I don't know if we can share email adddresses on this board or not...some don't allow it but mine is alana719@hotmail.com - I've something I want to share with you personally, if you would like.
Bye for now F:-)
A x
Thanks once again for your wisdom....I have sent you an email.
Chat with you soon,
Freebird
Chat with you soon,
Freebird
Freebird alana is right I thought about this and I know people like that they have to be in lov all the time. I have a mate who has been married 6 times and they never last he loves the wooing not the life together. and he is an AQ. But I never though about it until she said it alana.
James, Thank you for sharing your thought with me. I believe that you are 100% spot on! Ah, oh well....it is life shall we say and I am still alive and a lot wiser for my experience. He did call me today and we chatted....he has a lot of anger in him and not just about me but past or current life situations. Who needs to be involved with that? I will always be his friend but it is time to move on and be grateful for what I have gone through and get ready for the new and improved doors to open 😉 I wish him well and send him off in love. The End
Stay tuned for future upcoming special events 🙂
Stay tuned for future upcoming special events 🙂
I received this in my email today....how appropriate. Thought I would share with my Dear friends.
Everyone Can't Be In The Front Row
author unknown
Life is a theatre. Invite your audience carefully.
Not eveyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives.
There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance.
It's amazing what you can accomplilsh when you let go, or at least
minimize, your time wtih draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships/friendships.
Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention.
Which ones lift and which ones lean ?
Which ones encourage and which ones discourage ?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill ?
When you leave certain people, do you feel better or feel worse ?
Which ones always have drama, or don't really understand, know or appreciate you ?
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you, the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
You cannot change the people around you.
But you can change the people you are around.
Everyone Can't Be In The Front Row
author unknown
Life is a theatre. Invite your audience carefully.
Not eveyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives.
There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance.
It's amazing what you can accomplilsh when you let go, or at least
minimize, your time wtih draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships/friendships.
Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention.
Which ones lift and which ones lean ?
Which ones encourage and which ones discourage ?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill ?
When you leave certain people, do you feel better or feel worse ?
Which ones always have drama, or don't really understand, know or appreciate you ?
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you, the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
You cannot change the people around you.
But you can change the people you are around.
I'm a libra girl... I need to know more about aquarius man. I just broke with my aquarius boyfriend. I've been with him for one year and nine months plus but i have no idea why he change suddenly. I asked him whether he still love me? He told me YES! But why he treated me like this now?
I too, am in love with an Aquarian. Makes you crazy. They are an unreachable sort. I once read that, "if you love an Aquarian you should be prepared to wait a long time for them to come to you professing love". If you ever even get that. "If you really love an Aquarian you should be prepared to wait forever". This is exactly how my guy behaves.
Another important fact about Aquarians is that if they feel they are being manipulated in any way they'll back off. Aquarian likes to be the one in charge & calling the shots. I plan to marry this man, he doesn't know it yet. I am prepared to wait forever for him to figure it out.
In the meatime I had a life before I met him & try to live it to the fullest. He'll come to me when the time is right.
Don't know if this will help any of you who are in love with Aquarians but hope so. It seems like a lost cause but hang in there if you truly love, your reward will be worth your wait.
Another important fact about Aquarians is that if they feel they are being manipulated in any way they'll back off. Aquarian likes to be the one in charge & calling the shots. I plan to marry this man, he doesn't know it yet. I am prepared to wait forever for him to figure it out.
In the meatime I had a life before I met him & try to live it to the fullest. He'll come to me when the time is right.
Don't know if this will help any of you who are in love with Aquarians but hope so. It seems like a lost cause but hang in there if you truly love, your reward will be worth your wait.
Thanks Madly Sane... 🙂
For what i know is that Aquarius guy love to tell lies. He love to lie even it is just a small thing. Sometimes they even cannot be trusted.
How come alot of website saying aquarius have a chance to get back to the past with someone in this month? Did anyone notice it?
well umm im an aqurian and i can vouch we are a very evil breed....lol...thats all i have to say😉
Hi there! I just want to add my opinion that most Aquarian never keep grudges but are sensitive enough to give what the other person wants from us. I think he is just trying to avoid not to say something that will hurt you coz it hurts him too but we are the type of people that will not reveal that we are hurting inside. We are very good in hiding and putting a superficial mask that protect us to fall in a sadness so hurtful, and painful. He surely does care for you but you have to reassure him that you have no intention of hurting him but it did. Asking forgiveness with an Aquarian partner is very easy just be you and he would feel that sincerity in your heart that says things words can't explain. Aquarian are just as afraid as everybody in love because when we fall in love we give our best and that makes us weak,vunerable,afraid and insecure that we did that do our best in a relationship that's why it cramble right infront of us..Scary thought for us.. Best of Luck..
Hi there! I just want to add my opinion that most Aquarian never keep grudges but are sensitive enough to give what the other person wants from us. I think he is just trying to avoid not to say something that will hurt you coz it hurts him too but we are the type of people that will not reveal that we are hurting inside. We are very good in hiding and putting a superficial mask that protect us to fall in a sadness so hurtful, and painful. He surely does care for you but you have to reassure him that you have no intention of hurting him but it did. Asking forgiveness with an Aquarian partner is very easy just be you and he would feel that sincerity in your heart that says things words can't explain. Aquarian are just as afraid as everybody in love because when we fall in love we give our best and that makes us weak,vunerable,afraid and insecure that we did that do our best in a relationship that's why it cramble right infront of us..Scary thought for us.. Best of Luck..
I like what this guy posted on here earlier-
isolated357 (64.252.241.199) on Monday, July 21, 2003 @ 4:52:04 AM
He was born three days before me and we are both Aqua Men.
Anyway, what he said was ignored earlier but I would like to refer to it now.
"it would help if you can develop multiple personalities , ... Third do something bad when you are meaning to be good. For example make sandwiches and serve sodas (not in the can) then accidentally trip and spill over him and wait for the flash of anger. best if he had his favorite shirt on. Then move into " I'm sorry " stag and try and be nice till he forgives you. "Yes we are very forgiving and gullible". Once he forgives you BITE HIM on the neck. Not to hard and not to soft but just right for him to fell. What the hell you do that for he'll say. You say your anger made me feel lonely and distant like that TOM HANKS movie and I just got a little primitive. This only works if he thinks all week you have developed some alternate personality in-between your "ACTS of goodness". And if your still having trouble bite him again in a playful manner till he is having fun then stop playing with him and tell him this is what you have been doing to me playing with my emotions not calling for a couple of days here and there. Then don't give him a chance to say anything and start back playing till you finish rocking the boat. This example leads to sex sooo uh-uhh you then mention afterwards again that he should really start to call aleast every other day as not to constrict right away."
Now, if a chick worked my mind like that, I wouldn't have the mental energy to follow politics. I would be much more likely to pay attention to her. "Let me know while you keep me wondering" is what we want. Or as my Aries friend likes to say "Stop it Faster". Don't act like you're not a hypocrite and don't let me act like I'm not one neither.(Quintuple Negative?) If you follow. And never make the mistake of thinking that reality is solid, or ever going to be solid. My father is an Aquarius too and he was driven to work away from home by his own restlessness. He thought it was my mother, and in a way I think it was a bit her too. I don't blame him at all. Or my mom, who thought it was mostly my dad. They got themselves into their own mess. But they're 45 and still together, which goes to show something else about Aqua Men.
isolated357 (64.252.241.199) on Monday, July 21, 2003 @ 4:52:04 AM
He was born three days before me and we are both Aqua Men.
Anyway, what he said was ignored earlier but I would like to refer to it now.
"it would help if you can develop multiple personalities , ... Third do something bad when you are meaning to be good. For example make sandwiches and serve sodas (not in the can) then accidentally trip and spill over him and wait for the flash of anger. best if he had his favorite shirt on. Then move into " I'm sorry " stag and try and be nice till he forgives you. "Yes we are very forgiving and gullible". Once he forgives you BITE HIM on the neck. Not to hard and not to soft but just right for him to fell. What the hell you do that for he'll say. You say your anger made me feel lonely and distant like that TOM HANKS movie and I just got a little primitive. This only works if he thinks all week you have developed some alternate personality in-between your "ACTS of goodness". And if your still having trouble bite him again in a playful manner till he is having fun then stop playing with him and tell him this is what you have been doing to me playing with my emotions not calling for a couple of days here and there. Then don't give him a chance to say anything and start back playing till you finish rocking the boat. This example leads to sex sooo uh-uhh you then mention afterwards again that he should really start to call aleast every other day as not to constrict right away."
Now, if a chick worked my mind like that, I wouldn't have the mental energy to follow politics. I would be much more likely to pay attention to her. "Let me know while you keep me wondering" is what we want. Or as my Aries friend likes to say "Stop it Faster". Don't act like you're not a hypocrite and don't let me act like I'm not one neither.(Quintuple Negative?) If you follow. And never make the mistake of thinking that reality is solid, or ever going to be solid. My father is an Aquarius too and he was driven to work away from home by his own restlessness. He thought it was my mother, and in a way I think it was a bit her too. I don't blame him at all. Or my mom, who thought it was mostly my dad. They got themselves into their own mess. But they're 45 and still together, which goes to show something else about Aqua Men.
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Whaddya'll think?
Shine on.
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Lighten up!
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Well, this is today's page in the book of Mr. Aqua. What is new in your world?
TTFN,
Freebird