Is a virgo guy worth it

O.k here is my issue. I love my boyfriend.BUT i feel he takes me for granted sometimes. He is amazing man, sexy, handsome, he is hard worker and he has a good paying job. The only thing is he gets so cought up with work thst i feel invisible sometimes. For example: we had plans to go out and watch a movie last weekend. I get dressed make up high heels. I look at time is 6pm. My phone vibrates he text "i wil be running late finishing up at work"...i lay down on my bed dissapointed.but i reply ok baby dont be too late..i fall asleep i wake up at 11pm. No miss call or text msg— I call him back he is still at work. And this has been a major issue with ive talked to him about it, ive even tried to spice things up by being more freaky and sensual in bed so he would run home to me. Its like he loves me soo much at one momment then i get no attention for few days.

Soooo at my place of business there is this guy he is Aquarius like me, Tall, in shape, nice smile, funny personality, he dosent make much money tho, but i have been day dreaming about him. Some days he flirts with me a lot and like it. But its only when my boyfriend isnt giving me attention that find myself falling for this other man. I have slept with many guy when i was single, i broke a lot of hearts in my player days lol, but i always stay commited in relationships to an extent that i know the guy is a keeper and feel my virgo is a keeper, but he has to stop giving me all of him only when i get upset and address a issues. I hate being flaked and coming in second to his job. I was ok woth it for 2 years could it just be my attraction to my co worker that's making me look for faults in my man. I wish my boyfriend was also in a little better shap.

Maybe its the venus in pices in me that wants me to cheat but has me fearful of getting caught and loosing my virgo.

I also have had issue in the past with falling in love with guys dating them then deciding i dnt like them anymore for what ever reason and i loose all feelings for that person literally over night. I become almost emotionless, but i tried it on my virgo guy our first year of dating because he said some hurtful words but it dosent work with him he has ability to keep me hooked and coming back. He has a mature demnor and he really listen and gives good advice. He sometimes tys tp be romantic which is cute. But after few days he is in work work work mode. No call no text. He shrugs me off but as soon as i shrug him off he gets temper tantrum. The Aqua guy i know is a player and a lier and he flirts with other girls but i like it.

My boyfriend picked me up today from work and completely forgot he was coming. So he pulled in to the lot as i was out side talking to my co worker who i have tiny crush on. And saw us talking and being touchy. My boyfriend slowly pulled up and text me "im here. So i pulled away from my co worker then got in the car. My boyfriend asked me who was that guy ,I said some guy who works in the building and that i really didnt pay him much attention til today. I felt so bad i was lying and i could tell he didnt believe me, because the whole ride back home he didnt say anything and ignored me when i said is there somthing wrong. I feel like an idiot but i think im in love with 2 guys...

LMAO

Im feburary aqua

Sun Aquarius

Moon Capricorn

Merc Gemini

Venus pices

Mars cancer

Virgo guy is perfect for me. I just like the attention from my co worker. I dnt know why but i give in to the attention and imagine us making out, but i know its not right.