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Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!

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Does he know he is in a relationship with you? When you say the relationship bloomed has he literally said we are in a monogamous union and it's me and you. It sounds like he has other chicks. Aquarius moon here and I am fixated on the Taurus I want; I don't come and go, and get hot and cold. Not with this one, but it did take some time like everyone is saying. But sometimes women are in a very different relationship than men. So what did he say about exclusivity and being monogamous; because his actions are saying something else very loudly.
What's your sun sign?

Libra sun, Aquarius moon and three other planets in Aquarius. You women see things very differently than men. I was the biggest player in L.A, until I met the woman of my dreams. In less than nine months I gave her a ring, got two additional jobs, and moved her into my home. Men move worlds for the woman they truly see forever with. I would never let my lady feel as if I am ignoring her, NEVER! Side pieces yes, cuz I don't care about their feelings... but not my lady.

Yeah I get you ! But you r still not an Aqua sun so you can't give those harsh words. I do see your point n have read books and understand those stories of men. But Aqua men do move slowly. Have u read other people's stories on here? Some take 2 to 10 years!! With Aqua friends and relationship go hand in hand, they need both qualities in a partner... though I do agree about men do not want his lady feeling ignored !! I will totally cut my loses of my man doesn't reply my text for a few days. Stuff that. Though, maybe he hasn't got another woman! You can't assume he is doing what u did when u were a player .. lol.. 2 different people here.



You are not a man, and you sound very very naïve. Don't tell me how to behave or moderate my posts, next time don't post on a public forum. But I tell you what, if he really loved you, you would know so deeply that you wouldn't have to ask a bunch of strangers.

So this is my prediction; Within the next 90 days he will grow more and more distant. You will see him and talk to him less and less. If you are still offering sex he will be around more as a friend but he will come and have sex with you. I see him moving in the direction of a water sign and an earth sign. There are currently two other women in his life. He has judged this relationship; I doubt you will be hearing things like he wants to spend forever with you within the next 3 weeks. He will start acting like a complete dick, and distancing himself daily, feeling guilty because he feels sorry for you. He wants you to be in his life as his friend forever. But each day you will feel the demise of this fling until by July 30, it's completely a friendship for him and a relationship to you.

He does not see you as a girlfriend he sees you as a friend with whom he is very sexually attracted. He does not see you as his woman at all.

HE is very very clear that you are not the one. Within the next 30 days you will see this strongly

By the end of July this connection will be practically over unless you continue to supply... So I am done with this thread. My prediction will speak for itself. Whether you agree or not, whatever your response is... my prediction will speak for itself.. peace...

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I am not the OP. How r u a psychic if u cant get the basic thing straight.
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Does he know he is in a relationship with you? When you say the relationship bloomed has he literally said we are in a monogamous union and it's me and you. It sounds like he has other chicks. Aquarius moon here and I am fixated on the Taurus I want; I don't come and go, and get hot and cold. Not with this one, but it did take some time like everyone is saying. But sometimes women are in a very different relationship than men. So what did he say about exclusivity and being monogamous; because his actions are saying something else very loudly.
What's your sun sign?

Libra sun, Aquarius moon and three other planets in Aquarius. You women see things very differently than men. I was the biggest player in L.A, until I met the woman of my dreams. In less than nine months I gave her a ring, got two additional jobs, and moved her into my home. Men move worlds for the woman they truly see forever with. I would never let my lady feel as if I am ignoring her, NEVER! Side pieces yes, cuz I don't care about their feelings... but not my lady.

Yeah I get you ! But you r still not an Aqua sun so you can't give those harsh words. I do see your point n have read books and understand those stories of men. But Aqua men do move slowly. Have u read other people's stories on here? Some take 2 to 10 years!! With Aqua friends and relationship go hand in hand, they need both qualities in a partner... though I do agree about men do not want his lady feeling ignored !! I will totally cut my loses of my man doesn't reply my text for a few days. Stuff that. Though, maybe he hasn't got another woman! You can't assume he is doing what u did when u were a player .. lol.. 2 different people here.



You are not a man, and you sound very very naïve. Don't tell me how to behave or moderate my posts, next time don't post on a public forum. But I tell you what, if he really loved you, you would know so deeply that you wouldn't have to ask a bunch of strangers.

So this is my prediction; Within the next 90 days he will grow more and more distant. You will see him and talk to him less and less. If you are still offering sex he will be around more as a friend but he will come and have sex with you. I see him moving in the direction of a water sign and an earth sign. There are currently two other women in his life. He has judged this relationship; I doubt you will be hearing things like he wants to spend forever with you within the next 3 weeks. He will start acting like a complete dick, and distancing himself daily, feeling guilty because he feels sorry for you. He wants you to be in his life as his friend forever. But each day you will feel the demise of this fling until by July 30, it's completely a friendship for him and a relationship to you.

He does not see you as a girlfriend he sees you as a friend with whom he is very sexually attracted. He does not see you as his woman at all.

HE is very very clear that you are not the one. Within the next 30 days you will see this strongly

By the end of July this connection will be practically over unless you continue to supply... So I am done with this thread. My prediction will speak for itself. Whether you agree or not, whatever your response is... my prediction will speak for itself.. peace...



I am not the OP. How r u a psychic if u cant get the basic thing straight.

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I'm more curious as to why someone thinks a person would make an alternate account and try give themselves advice on it lol silly... But don't really care, he can call everyone here the op, doesn't change anything
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Posted by Shrewdsharp
Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell
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Does he know he is in a relationship with you? When you say the relationship bloomed has he literally said we are in a monogamous union and it's me and you. It sounds like he has other chicks. Aquarius moon here and I am fixated on the Taurus I want; I don't come and go, and get hot and cold. Not with this one, but it did take some time like everyone is saying. But sometimes women are in a very different relationship than men. So what did he say about exclusivity and being monogamous; because his actions are saying something else very loudly.
What's your sun sign?

Libra sun, Aquarius moon and three other planets in Aquarius. You women see things very differently than men. I was the biggest player in L.A, until I met the woman of my dreams. In less than nine months I gave her a ring, got two additional jobs, and moved her into my home. Men move worlds for the woman they truly see forever with. I would never let my lady feel as if I am ignoring her, NEVER! Side pieces yes, cuz I don't care about their feelings... but not my lady.

Yeah I get you ! But you r still not an Aqua sun so you can't give those harsh words. I do see your point n have read books and understand those stories of men. But Aqua men do move slowly. Have u read other people's stories on here? Some take 2 to 10 years!! With Aqua friends and relationship go hand in hand, they need both qualities in a partner... though I do agree about men do not want his lady feeling ignored !! I will totally cut my loses of my man doesn't reply my text for a few days. Stuff that. Though, maybe he hasn't got another woman! You can't assume he is doing what u did when u were a player .. lol.. 2 different people here.



You are not a man, and you sound very very naïve. Don't tell me how to behave or moderate my posts, next time don't post on a public forum. But I tell you what, if he really loved you, you would know so deeply that you wouldn't have to ask a bunch of strangers.

So this is my prediction; Within the next 90 days he will grow more and more distant. You will see him and talk to him less and less. If you are still offering sex he will be around more as a friend but he will come and have sex with you. I see him moving in the direction of a water sign and an earth sign. There are currently two other women in his life. He has judged this relationship; I doubt you will be hearing things like he wants to spend forever with you within the next 3 weeks. He will start acting like a complete dick, and distancing himself daily, feeling guilty because he feels sorry for you. He wants you to be in his life as his friend forever. But each day you will feel the demise of this fling until by July 30, it's completely a friendship for him and a relationship to you.

He does not see you as a girlfriend he sees you as a friend with whom he is very sexually attracted. He does not see you as his woman at all.

HE is very very clear that you are not the one. Within the next 30 days you will see this strongly

By the end of July this connection will be practically over unless you continue to supply... So I am done with this thread. My prediction will speak for itself. Whether you agree or not, whatever your response is... my prediction will speak for itself.. peace...



I am not the OP. How r u a psychic if u cant get the basic thing straight.


I'm more curious as to why someone thinks a person would make an alternate account and try give themselves advice on it lol silly... But don't really care, he can call everyone here the op, doesn't change anything
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i have no idea...i don't have that much time on my hand.. lol
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Posted by Shrewdsharp
Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell
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what r his placements?

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Posted by Shrewdsharp
Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell

what r his placements?

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Sun Aquarius

Moon Aries

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Aquarius

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Gemini

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Virgo

Neptune Scorpio

Pluto Virgo

Lilith Aquarius

I don't know what all that means, just know that is his placements
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^ kind of has a point, my Aqua never dissapeared on me like that. He would respond to my texts or calls instantly when he can.. though, this guy is an Aqua and majority of the stories r the same... they do dissapear and appear.. n I think you r being a bit harsh on her.. that's why I keep asking u if u r an Aqua or just share Aqua moon ?

You are the OP under a different account...

You can pull together all the astrology signs with all their flaws, and yet a man in love is a man in love. A man in love has certain characteristics irrespective of his sign.

First no matter what sign the man is, when a man loves a woman deeply, she knows so deeply she doesn't have to question it. Even if he has weird traits associated with his sign.

Two, you are not a man,

Three; I am an astrologer and a psychic at California psychics and have given over 4000 readers, and I guarantee you, this man is not into you. You want to use astrology to justify or give credence to his blatant indifference of you. But you already know in your heart, that he is not into you. If not, then you are not too bright.
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If I remember when the time comes ill let you know how wrong /right your statement is. Doesn't sound like him though
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Libralady1985
Posted by Shrewdsharp
Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell

what r his placements?




Sun Aquarius

Moon Aries

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Aquarius

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Gemini

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Virgo

Neptune Scorpio

Pluto Virgo

Lilith Aquarius

I don't know what all that means, just know that is his placements
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1962?
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Libralady1985
Posted by Shrewdsharp
Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell

what r his placements?




Sun Aquarius

Moon Aries

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Aquarius

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Gemini

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Virgo

Neptune Scorpio

Pluto Virgo

Lilith Aquarius

I don't know what all that means, just know that is his placements
1962?
1966
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haven't read all the posts here but what is your placement?
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Libralady1985
Posted by Shrewdsharp
Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell

what r his placements?




Sun Aquarius

Moon Aries

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Aquarius

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Gemini

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Virgo

Neptune Scorpio

Pluto Virgo

Lilith Aquarius

I don't know what all that means, just know that is his placements
1962?
1966
haven't read all the posts here but what is your placement?
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Sun Libra

moon Pisces

Mercury libra

Venus virgo

Mars Virgo

Jupiter Aquarius

Saturn Scorpio

Uranus Sagittarius

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Scorpio

Lilith Taurus
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Posted by Shrewdsharp
Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell

what r his placements?




Sun Aquarius

Moon Aries

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Aquarius

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Gemini

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Virgo

Neptune Scorpio

Pluto Virgo

Lilith Aquarius

I don't know what all that means, just know that is his placements
1962?
1966
haven't read all the posts here but what is your placement?


Sun Libra

moon Pisces

Mercury libra

Venus virgo

Mars Virgo

Jupiter Aquarius

Saturn Scorpio

Uranus Sagittarius

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Scorpio

Lilith Taurus
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makes sense. your virgos are always crave for stability.

the problem is too much aquarius on his side.
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Posted by Libralady1985
Posted by Shrewdsharp
Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell

what r his placements?




Sun Aquarius

Moon Aries

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Aquarius

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Gemini

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Virgo

Neptune Scorpio

Pluto Virgo

Lilith Aquarius

I don't know what all that means, just know that is his placements
1962?
1966
haven't read all the posts here but what is your placement?


Sun Libra

moon Pisces

Mercury libra

Venus virgo

Mars Virgo

Jupiter Aquarius

Saturn Scorpio

Uranus Sagittarius

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Scorpio

Lilith Taurus
makes sense. your virgos are always crave for stability.

the problem is too much aquarius on his side.
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So seeing both our placements you think it's a shifty match?

I do crave stability lol I'm understanding, but think consistency is an important factor and when he disappears my mind wanders into a hurtful place... Don't want it to, but seems to be exactly where I go. I see a long future, he has stated he does as well so give him the benefit of the doubt, even when the distance drives me crazy lol
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Posted by Shrewdsharp
Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell

what r his placements?




Sun Aquarius

Moon Aries

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Aquarius

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Gemini

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Virgo

Neptune Scorpio

Pluto Virgo

Lilith Aquarius

I don't know what all that means, just know that is his placements
1962?
1966
haven't read all the posts here but what is your placement?


Sun Libra

moon Pisces

Mercury libra

Venus virgo

Mars Virgo

Jupiter Aquarius

Saturn Scorpio

Uranus Sagittarius

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Scorpio

Lilith Taurus
makes sense. your virgos are always crave for stability.

the problem is too much aquarius on his side.


So seeing both our placements you think it's a shifty match?

I do crave stability lol I'm understanding, but think consistency is an important factor and when he disappears my mind wanders into a hurtful place... Don't want it to, but seems to be exactly where I go. I see a long future, he has stated he does as well so give him the benefit of the doubt, even when the distance drives me crazy lol
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he is mature enough and should not "MIA" too often. but that aqua stellium geesh

my advice is to busy your mind when he's not around and do your own things.
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Posted by Libralady1985
Posted by Shrewdsharp
Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell

what r his placements?




Sun Aquarius

Moon Aries

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Aquarius

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Gemini

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Virgo

Neptune Scorpio

Pluto Virgo

Lilith Aquarius

I don't know what all that means, just know that is his placements
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So much air !!!!!
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Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell

what r his placements?




Sun Aquarius

Moon Aries

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Aquarius

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Gemini

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Virgo

Neptune Scorpio

Pluto Virgo

Lilith Aquarius

I don't know what all that means, just know that is his placements
1962?
1966
haven't read all the posts here but what is your placement?


Sun Libra

moon Pisces

Mercury libra

Venus virgo

Mars Virgo

Jupiter Aquarius

Saturn Scorpio

Uranus Sagittarius

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Scorpio

Lilith Taurus
makes sense. your virgos are always crave for stability.

the problem is too much aquarius on his side.


So seeing both our placements you think it's a shifty match?

I do crave stability lol I'm understanding, but think consistency is an important factor and when he disappears my mind wanders into a hurtful place... Don't want it to, but seems to be exactly where I go. I see a long future, he has stated he does as well so give him the benefit of the doubt, even when the distance drives me crazy lol
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😢 the charts look not so great... he has so much Aqua and u have more earth n water and that moon in Pisces of urs will need more than what he can offer.... I hope he becomes more consistent in time though you may have to wait for a long time !
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Does he know he is in a relationship with you? When you say the relationship bloomed has he literally said we are in a monogamous union and it's me and you. It sounds like he has other chicks. Aquarius moon here and I am fixated on the Taurus I want; I don't come and go, and get hot and cold. Not with this one, but it did take some time like everyone is saying. But sometimes women are in a very different relationship than men. So what did he say about exclusivity and being monogamous; because his actions are saying something else very loudly.
What's your sun sign?

Libra sun, Aquarius moon and three other planets in Aquarius. You women see things very differently than men. I was the biggest player in L.A, until I met the woman of my dreams. In less than nine months I gave her a ring, got two additional jobs, and moved her into my home. Men move worlds for the woman they truly see forever with. I would never let my lady feel as if I am ignoring her, NEVER! Side pieces yes, cuz I don't care about their feelings... but not my lady.

Yeah I get you ! But you r still not an Aqua sun so you can't give those harsh words. I do see your point n have read books and understand those stories of men. But Aqua men do move slowly. Have u read other people's stories on here? Some take 2 to 10 years!! With Aqua friends and relationship go hand in hand, they need both qualities in a partner... though I do agree about men do not want his lady feeling ignored !! I will totally cut my loses of my man doesn't reply my text for a few days. Stuff that. Though, maybe he hasn't got another woman! You can't assume he is doing what u did when u were a player .. lol.. 2 different people here.

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Yes he can give those words. What he is explaining is about any man irregardless of their sign.



You're here trying to decipher him, you think he's doing this much work?

Listen to this man! He is too right.

Men make it happen when they want you.
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wow...weird but this is my virgo exactly..


Mine's Virgo rising so that may influence him a bit. We're older so rising starts to manifest in our personalities more.


Ohh my, so does that mean that me and my libra man will be more alike as we get older because we're both Taurus moons?

We are already alike enough in the weirdest ways.


Do you have the same rising? That's the one that for the first half of your life really just gives a first impression, but doesn't really represent who you are in reality.. It starts to show in your actual personality as you age. Or so I've read. 🙂


I'm Taurus rising he's cap rising.

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You'll start to act more Taurus-y, and he'll start acting more Capricorn-y, lol. Starts after 30. I can't say whether that's good or bad; Mr Aqua has Taurus moon and I have Cappy moon. We butt heads quite often. 🙂

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Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell

what r his placements?




Sun Aquarius

Moon Aries

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Aquarius

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Gemini

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Virgo

Neptune Scorpio

Pluto Virgo

Lilith Aquarius

I don't know what all that means, just know that is his placements
1962?
1966
haven't read all the posts here but what is your placement?


Sun Libra

moon Pisces

Mercury libra

Venus virgo

Mars Virgo

Jupiter Aquarius

Saturn Scorpio

Uranus Sagittarius

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Scorpio

Lilith Taurus
makes sense. your virgos are always crave for stability.

the problem is too much aquarius on his side.


So seeing both our placements you think it's a shifty match?

I do crave stability lol I'm understanding, but think consistency is an important factor and when he disappears my mind wanders into a hurtful place... Don't want it to, but seems to be exactly where I go. I see a long future, he has stated he does as well so give him the benefit of the doubt, even when the distance drives me crazy lol



😢 the charts look not so great... he has so much Aqua and u have more earth n water and that moon in Pisces of urs will need more than what he can offer.... I hope he becomes more consistent in time though you may have to wait for a long time !
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I hope he becomes more consistent as well. Everything in our relationship is really good, beyond the hot and cold that takes place. It's so sudden and I think that's where I get thrown off... He bounces back just as unexpectedly as well though lol friggen guy. As long as I can learn to accept his 'typical' Aquariuan silences and as long as it starts to dwindle, even a little bit I think we will remain strong
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Hey Libra lady I just figured something out! My Aquarius has strong Earth placements so that could be the reason for his stability and steadiness and proposal and getting us a home so quickly and staying home it was never any inconsistency. I believe his Mars was in Taurus and and Venus was in Capricorn so yeah now everything makes sense.

I never experienced and Airy or watery aquarius - maybe understanding his placements will help you understand his character a little better but do you really want to be with somebody that unstable? Oh I know? Perhaps you have Earth in your chart that stabilizes his airiness.

You seem understanding relaxed and understanding. Well at least this puzzle and riddle are solved I didn't know what was going on!!!


He has 4 Aquarius placements, so maybe that's why makes him so here or there. I know he cares, he's said it more times than I can count and I have known this man for 20+ years ( complicated history but reconnected as friends a year ago, from large absence) . Our families are connected and I can not see him playing with the history between us. Maybe I'm wrong but who knows. Time will tell

what r his placements?




Sun Aquarius

Moon Aries

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Aquarius

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Gemini

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Virgo

Neptune Scorpio

Pluto Virgo

Lilith Aquarius

I don't know what all that means, just know that is his placements
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It means he is a serious Aquarius. Lol! Do you know where your Venus is but being that his Venus is an aquarius he should be madly in love with a Libra.

Start visualizing your relationship the way that you want it to be. Like you're telling the story of what's Happening Now and the more you tell that same story The Law of Attraction is going to bring more of it to you but sometimes you just gotta get shyt off your chest.

So a new story would be something like this Libra; I'm so happy now that things are starting to get more balanced and stabilized in my understanding of and experience with my Aquarius boyfriend. I am starting to know and experience greater levels of security, understanding and stability in this situation.... my expectations are appropriate because I understand that he has many planets in Air. I am so glad our relationship is stabilizing into a permanent commitment and faithfulness.....

Also lighting a pink candle invites powerful almost overwhelming feelings of love to the union. But you must be able to handle strong levels of intimacy because the pink candle stuff really works and then if you have intimacy issues....okay I'm speaking about negative stuff....
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Also try not being as available all the time I noticed that that really turned my Aquarius on when he had to pursue me.

I feel personally that until I have a ring I'm not going to give my boyfriend wife privileges such as exclusivity.

People get married to create an exclusive relationship that's what being married means. So I was going to give the exclusivity privilege to whom ever cared about me enough to commit to the relationship to the degree that they wanted to get married and when he saw me actively going out it really rubbed him the wrong way and he aggressively pursued and got the ring.

I had competition initially; but I knew that the other women were sitting at home giving him wife privileges without him earning it cuz because that's just how most women were raised - but that's not what turns a man on.

And even after we got established in the relationship they were times when I had to get back into going out with friends and having a life and it reignites the interest level for some strange reason I don't know why men are crazy like that!
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Also try not being as available all the time I noticed that that really turned my Aquarius on when he had to pursue me.

I feel personally that until I have a ring I'm not going to give my boyfriend wife privileges such as exclusivity.

People get married to create an exclusive relationship that's what being married means. So I was going to give the exclusivity privilege to whom ever cared about me enough to commit to the relationship to the degree that they wanted to get married and when he saw me actively going out it really rubbed him the wrong way and he aggressively pursued and got the ring.

I had competition initially; but I knew that the other women were sitting at home giving him wife privileges without him earning it cuz because that's just how most women were raised - but that's not what turns a man on.

And even after we got established in the relationship they were times when I had to get back into going out with friends and having a life and it reignites the interest level for some strange reason I don't know why men are crazy like that!
Nice comment 🙂 so u r saying to keep actively dating men even if u r in a relationship or exclusive? I do not get that lol.... what's ur Aqua placement and yours? Continue the chase is very important even after married !! totally agree..
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How ever you define exclusivity is between you and your man.

But for me words are not enough. In my experience when a man is serious about having an exclusive relationship he puts a ring on the finger and legalizes the relationship and demonstrates to his family and friends through the ceremony of marriage that this is the woman that he is vowing

exclusivity, commitment and Fidelity.

Now perhaps you don't need that and that works for you and yours and great?

But no if I am married which is what an exclusive relationship is for me I would not actively engage with other parties.







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I would not give exclusivity to a man who has not demonstrated that he means business with his Declaration of exclusivity by a ring. If it's just six months within the relationship and he is stating that he wants to be exclusive the least he can do is get us a promise ring. A promise ring is less than $ 40 - $ 130.00.

Men know what women want to hear; men know that women want to hear about a future and marriage and longevity. So many will TALK a good game just to manipulate a woman into being a source of sex and emotional nurturing for him with no intentions of making her his wife or being exclusive in the relationship. This can go on for years and years and years and years if the woman lets it.

But it never fails!! As soon as I say show me that you mean business with a promise ring....the one that just wanted to use me for sex would bail, the one that means business took action. ?.

Now I still would not give exclusivity to to a promise ring but I will be more inclined in that direction. I don't give wife privileges to boyfriends ?







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I would not give exclusivity to a man who has not demonstrated that he means business with his Declaration of exclusivity by a ring. If it's just six months within the relationship and he is stating that he wants to be exclusive the least he can do is get us a promise ring. A promise ring is less than $ 40 - $ 130.00.

Men know what women want to hear; men know that women want to hear about a future and marriage and longevity. So many will TALK a good game just to manipulate a woman into being a source of sex and emotional nurturing for him with no intentions of making her his wife or being exclusive in the relationship. This can go on for years and years and years and years if the woman lets it.

But it never fails!! As soon as I say show me that you mean business with a promise ring!

The one that just wanted to use me for sex would bail, the one that means business took action. ?.

Now I still would not give exclusivity to to a promise ring but I will be more inclined in that direction. I don't give wife privileges to boyfriends ?










That is pretty full on...
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I'm not so sure if I want the ring, I never believed in marriage but that's just me though . Like some people who do not want children, I work the same way.

Let me tell you something that's funny ...do you know that it was my Taurus friends that begin to browbeat me into thinking about things like security, pensions and marriage. Roflmoa! I kid you not!
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How ever you define exclusivity is between you and your man.

But for me words are not enough. In my experience when a man is serious about having an exclusive relationship he puts a ring on the finger and legalizes the relationship and demonstrates to his family and friends through the ceremony of marriage that this is the woman that he is vowing

exclusivity, commitment and Fidelity.

Now perhaps you don't need that and that works for you and yours and great?

But no if I am married which is what an exclusive relationship is for me I would not actively engage with other parties.








In my perspective, monogamy is an exclusive relationship. If a man put a ring in my finger in the beginning, I'd see it as him settling. I don't want a man to settle for me. If the love is there, let's be exclusive and see if we can establish a relationship worth holding onto, in time if we still feel like we want to spend our lives together, yes please, I'd love a ring. But I want him to know me through and through as well as me know him before committing to a lifetime together. I don't need a fancy ring, I don't even need a cheap one lol... Just a solid relationship with trust, lotalty, communication and lots of laughs ...give me that and I'm happy

Everyone has different desires though
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How ever you define exclusivity is between you and your man.

But for me words are not enough. In my experience when a man is serious about having an exclusive relationship he puts a ring on the finger and legalizes the relationship and demonstrates to his family and friends through the ceremony of marriage that this is the woman that he is vowing

exclusivity, commitment and Fidelity.

Now perhaps you don't need that and that works for you and yours and great?

But no if I am married which is what an exclusive relationship is for me I would not actively engage with other parties.








In my perspective, monogamy is an exclusive relationship. If a man put a ring in my finger in the beginning, I'd see it as him settling. I don't want a man to settle for me. If the love is there, let's be exclusive and see if we can establish a relationship worth holding onto, in time if we still feel like we want to spend our lives together, yes please, I'd love a ring. But I want him to know me through and through as well as me know him before committing to a lifetime together. I don't need a fancy ring, I don't even need a cheap one lol... Just a solid relationship with trust, lotalty, communication and lots of laughs ...give me that and I'm happy

Everyone has different desires though
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When a man wants a monogamous relationship with a woman and he is serious about it he will give her a ring and marry her. (Like the Aquarius did before) The institution of marriage is something that is respected worldwide and it is an institution in which two people legalize their commitment to monogamy otherwise it's just WORDS -like with all due respect - it sounds like your Aquarius is giving you.

I can't help it if my Aquarius knew what he wanted and it didn't take a year to figure it out! He purchased the promise ring on his own recognizance after 6 months of dating.

I see this promise ring as the exact opposite of settling. According to my Aquarius, the promise ring is saying " I value you so much I think you are so different than the rest of the women I want to give you a token of my commitment to this friendship and the process of getting to know you.

It is an amazing wonderful feeling for a man to be that into you that he's willing to spend money on a promise ring which is the same as a friendship ring stating that you're a very special friend who I want to get to know and hopefully replace this friendship ring with an engagement ring which is exactly what happened one year later.







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I'm not so sure if I want the ring, I never believed in marriage but that's just me though . Like some people who do not want children, I work the same way.

Let me tell you something that's funny ...do you know that it was my Taurus friends that begin to browbeat me into thinking about things like security, pensions and marriage. Roflmoa! I kid you not!

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haha, it used to be...i still have those belief when it comes to wealth, money, status, home...

when it comes to a man...i operate like AQUA.. i dont know...

me n the aqua had the conversation last night, i told him about my past n he says

* arhhhhh so as soon as a guy wants to commit to u, marry you, you run away... *

me --> * yes...thats me, i think thats my problem *

...then he went quiet... haha i dont think he will be stating he wants seriousness with me anytime soon coz i might run.. with me, i need to know, theres love and other critical factors thats needed for a successful long term happy relationship, as soon as any sign of dysfunctional.. i'm out the door... i learnt that through pain ova my last and many heart breaks... haha...

for me,, HONESTY is huge... friendship... freedom...love...allowing another person to be free..life is to short..and i dont see marriage as a way to PROVE someones commitment or love.. anyone can cheat even in marriage...anyone can cheat even if they post million things together on social media.... though HONESTY and TRUE FRIENDSHIPS never die..that way i know ...HE WILL always be honest with me..and yes i confirmed to him how important that is to me....

this is just me though.. honestly...
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How ever you define exclusivity is between you and your man.

But for me words are not enough. In my experience when a man is serious about having an exclusive relationship he puts a ring on the finger and legalizes the relationship and demonstrates to his family and friends through the ceremony of marriage that this is the woman that he is vowing

exclusivity, commitment and Fidelity.

Now perhaps you don't need that and that works for you and yours and great?

But no if I am married which is what an exclusive relationship is for me I would not actively engage with other parties.








In my perspective, monogamy is an exclusive relationship. If a man put a ring in my finger in the beginning, I'd see it as him settling. I don't want a man to settle for me. If the love is there, let's be exclusive and see if we can establish a relationship worth holding onto, in time if we still feel like we want to spend our lives together, yes please, I'd love a ring. But I want him to know me through and through as well as me know him before committing to a lifetime together. I don't need a fancy ring, I don't even need a cheap one lol... Just a solid relationship with trust, lotalty, communication and lots of laughs ...give me that and I'm happy

Everyone has different desires though
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..yeah exactly.... ..once we r exclusive,, we need the travel the world together to see if we still fit amazingly well..all those test...that put couples apart.. i want to go through them ALL.. before i ever marry the guy...

hehehe..... i am a man !!! or a woman? 😛
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I wouldn't continue to date somebody who didn't treat me like I was the cream-of-the-crop.

The men that I know who are now married said that they knew within four to six dates that this was their wife. Bill Clinton said he knew within 3 dates that Hilary was his wife.

When a man is into you, he will love you so deep that he will not leave any room for doubt and if he suspected that you were questioning his commitment or Devotion he would flip worlds to correct his ill- behavior.

It appears that you're willing to date a man who treats you with ambivalence and disrespect and I am not. And I most certainly wouldn't be having sex with a man who will ignore me and blow hot cold. But hey, you like it, I love it! Whatever blows your hair back! ☺
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How ever you define exclusivity is between you and your man.

But for me words are not enough. In my experience when a man is serious about having an exclusive relationship he puts a ring on the finger and legalizes the relationship and demonstrates to his family and friends through the ceremony of marriage that this is the woman that he is vowing

exclusivity, commitment and Fidelity.

Now perhaps you don't need that and that works for you and yours and great?

But no if I am married which is what an exclusive relationship is for me I would not actively engage with other parties.








In my perspective, monogamy is an exclusive relationship. If a man put a ring in my finger in the beginning, I'd see it as him settling. I don't want a man to settle for me. If the love is there, let's be exclusive and see if we can establish a relationship worth holding onto, in time if we still feel like we want to spend our lives together, yes please, I'd love a ring. But I want him to know me through and through as well as me know him before committing to a lifetime together. I don't need a fancy ring, I don't even need a cheap one lol... Just a solid relationship with trust, lotalty, communication and lots of laughs ...give me that and I'm happy

Everyone has different desires though
..yeah exactly.... ..once we r exclusive,, we need the travel the world together to see if we still fit amazingly well..all those test...that put couples apart.. i want to go through them ALL.. before i ever marry the guy...

hehehe..... i am a man !!! or a woman? 😛

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Some people are just more intuitive than others; so it doesn't require traveling around the world to recognize their truth. And in regards to testing my partner I'm not in junior high school.

And some women just hold themselves at higher standards; for instance marriage is more prominent in higher Social economical classes because we've been conditioned and socialized to Value ourselves as a wife.

There was this article that I recently read - you can Google it but statistics show that people in the lower socio-economic groups - are less likely to marry. And the higher their social economics groups the more likely they are to marry.

So hey whatever blows your hair back.



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@ Saweetz1998

How ever you define exclusivity is between you and your man.

But for me words are not enough. In my experience when a man is serious about having an exclusive relationship he puts a ring on the finger and legalizes the relationship and demonstrates to his family and friends through the ceremony of marriage that this is the woman that he is vowing

exclusivity, commitment and Fidelity.

Now perhaps you don't need that and that works for you and yours and great?

But no if I am married which is what an exclusive relationship is for me I would not actively engage with other parties.








In my perspective, monogamy is an exclusive relationship. If a man put a ring in my finger in the beginning, I'd see it as him settling. I don't want a man to settle for me. If the love is there, let's be exclusive and see if we can establish a relationship worth holding onto, in time if we still feel like we want to spend our lives together, yes please, I'd love a ring. But I want him to know me through and through as well as me know him before committing to a lifetime together. I don't need a fancy ring, I don't even need a cheap one lol... Just a solid relationship with trust, lotalty, communication and lots of laughs ...give me that and I'm happy

Everyone has different desires though
..yeah exactly.... ..once we r exclusive,, we need the travel the world together to see if we still fit amazingly well..all those test...that put couples apart.. i want to go through them ALL.. before i ever marry the guy...

hehehe..... i am a man !!! or a woman? 😛


Some people are just more intuitive than others; so it doesn't require traveling around the world to recognize their truth. And in regards to testing my partner I'm not in junior high school.

And some women just hold themselves at higher standards; for instance marriage is more prominent in higher Social economical classes because we've been conditioned and socialized to Value ourselves as a wife.

There was this article that I recently read - you can Google it but statistics show that people in the lower socio-economic groups - are less likely to marry. And the higher their social economics groups the more likely they are to marry.

So hey whatever blows your hair back.



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to me its more than just intiuition about travelling around the world, it requires alot of work on both part for a relationship to run smooothly..

and havn't you heard that travelling is a great way to test that....

and ofcoz... babies...

lol.

and i'm certainly not in a low class...

though look i get your point, though not everyone has the same belief as you do.

and i dont expect people to share my belief either.

I"M HAPPY FOR YOU by the way, and if the ring is what you wanted then thats amazing

see for me, a wedding has never been my dream or anything...i just don't operate that way

and i had a man ( a virgo ) , proposing in the past, but i refused... any relationship doesn't show me growth, freedom, friendship based, unconditional love and support...



then a ring wouldn't keep me there

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Posted by saweetz1988
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I'm not so sure if I want the ring, I never believed in marriage but that's just me though . Like some people who do not want children, I work the same way.

Let me tell you something that's funny ...do you know that it was my Taurus friends that begin to browbeat me into thinking about things like security, pensions and marriage. Roflmoa! I kid you not!


haha, it used to be...i still have those belief when it comes to wealth, money, status, home...

when it comes to a man...i operate like AQUA.. i dont know...

me n the aqua had the conversation last night, i told him about my past n he says

* arhhhhh so as soon as a guy wants to commit to u, marry you, you run away... *

me --> * yes...thats me, i think thats my problem *

...then he went quiet... haha i dont think he will be stating he wants seriousness with me anytime soon coz i might run.. with me, i need to know, theres love and other critical factors thats needed for a successful long term happy relationship, as soon as any sign of dysfunctional.. i'm out the door... i learnt that through pain ova my last and many heart breaks... haha...

for me,, HONESTY is huge... friendship... freedom...love...allowing another person to be free..life is to short..and i dont see marriage as a way to PROVE someones commitment or love.. anyone can cheat even in marriage...anyone can cheat even if they post million things together on social media.... though HONESTY and TRUE FRIENDSHIPS never die..that way i know ...HE WILL always be honest with me..and yes i confirmed to him how important that is to me....

this is just me though.. honestly...
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Yeah my Aquarius gave me a friendship ring which is the same as a promise ring within 6 months.

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Mine does the same thing and we've been together for almost 2yrs. It's still very frustrating for me as if it's the first time he's done it lol I'm Gemini sun and Libra moon



Do you call him on it, or just wait for it to pass lol

There's been times when I have called him on it, but I'm not the greatest when it comes to voicing my feelings. So, I either shut down and ignore him even after he contacts me, or I snap on him for what I perceive as ignoring me. At one point , I even accused him of seeing another woman. Like, I said...it seriously frustrates me and has me questioning our relationship every time he does this. It's like exactly as you described. When we are good and the communication is good I don't question a thing. But, when he gets quiet my mind goes hyperactive smh lol


Hahaha we sound alike. My mind wanders into bad thoughts sometimes and I have to tell myself to settle down and drop it hahaha... I try to not act on impulse and blame him for the illaborate things I think up, because I don't think that's fair to him, and I know I'm not being logical, but I'm not perfect... Shit happens lol
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same here with me n my aqua guy. Told him yesterday i m having negative thoughts n he pleaded sorry but then vanished on text.