Just found out my Aquarius guy is dating another girl

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as well as myself. Needless to say I let him have it. I'm very hurt right now. Idk how you can like 2 people at the same time. He says he still likes me tho. There was a lot of emotion thrown at him from me , he sounded so disappointed with himself. Says he needs time to think I guess between me and her but I don't care , well I'm trying not to. I still care for him but I can't do this to myself anymore. So thanks glad all of you for the advice , but it just turned out to be pointless.
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Like and love are two different things. It's MORE than possible to be attracted to more than one person at the same time. But there's always one person you prefer more than the other.

So, are you an Aquarian doormat or what? You're gonna sit there and wait for him to make a decision like the bitch that he is, or are you gonna walk upto his front door and say

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And ignore the retard above me, he never has anything interesting or insightful to say.
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Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
Like and love are two different things. It's MORE than possible to be attracted to more than one person at the same time. But there's always one person you prefer more than the other.

So, are you an Aquarian doormat or what? You're gonna sit there and wait for him to make a decision like the bitch that he is, or are you gonna walk upto his front door and say

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And ignore the retard above me, he never has anything interesting or insightful to say.
Fuck I love this! I think Aquas secretly do too because I was crazy-chit like that once upon a time...

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Posted by saweetz1988
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From the beginning with any sign

'Just me and you and nobody else'

Simple

Who wants to be with a two timer?
Ok got it. I kind of did last night though not in person. I will make it more clear next time I see him. Do u think it's like askin for a commitment? Wudnt that scare an Aquarius away?
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Maybe it would

Do you want to be with someone who is scared to be faithful to you....I know i wouldn't

I told all my guys it is just me, right from the start...two of them were Aquas...they stayed
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Regardless of sun sign... if a man is into you, there is no need for the "exclusivity talk"... from my experience, he makes it crystal clear. I myself when interested in a person make it known from day ONE of communication that I can only date one person at a time will not be in a "line up" with others... If we are not singing from the same hymn sheet.... I'm gone....
Amen to that

What is with all this *exclusive* talk...it just seems to be a cop out so one of the party can cheat

Ladies, you need to be more clear and confident and respect your boundaries more



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Regardless of sun sign... if a man is into you, there is no need for the "exclusivity talk"... from my experience, he makes it crystal clear. I myself when interested in a person make it known from day ONE of communication that I can only date one person at a time will not be in a "line up" with others... If we are not singing from the same hymn sheet.... I'm gone....
Amen to that

What is with all this *exclusive* talk...it just seems to be a cop out so one of the party can cheat

Ladies, you need to be more clear and confident and respect your boundaries more




Exactly! Too many weak, unconfident women.... Have a "contract" ready with your terms and not settle for anything less. Get that contract out from day ONE. I have always done this from Aqua, gem, sag, Capricorn, Taurus.... an "exclusivity" talk was not needed.... I had what they wanted and they had what I wanted... Chemistry! ... 😉 They sign my contract or I'm gone... simple! They knew I was not messing around and there would be plenty of fish in the sea... Confident women do not need the "exclusivity" talk....
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Will we go into business.....seminars, books, tapes etc? 😛 , could make a killing!

I agree with all you say. It works....i have never been cheated on.....they wouldn't dare...i respect myself too much
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Regardless of sun sign... if a man is into you, there is no need for the "exclusivity talk"... from my experience, he makes it crystal clear. I myself when interested in a person make it known from day ONE of communication that I can only date one person at a time will not be in a "line up" with others... If we are not singing from the same hymn sheet.... I'm gone....
Amen to that

What is with all this *exclusive* talk...it just seems to be a cop out so one of the party can cheat

Ladies, you need to be more clear and confident and respect your boundaries more




Exactly! Too many weak, unconfident women.... Have a "contract" ready with your terms and not settle for anything less. Get that contract out from day ONE. I have always done this from Aqua, gem, sag, Capricorn, Taurus.... an "exclusivity" talk was not needed.... I had what they wanted and they had what I wanted... Chemistry! ... 😉 They sign my contract or I'm gone... simple! They knew I was not messing around and there would be plenty of fish in the sea... Confident women do not need the "exclusivity" talk....
Will we go into business.....seminars, books, tapes etc? 😛 , could make a killing!

I agree with all you say. It works....i have never been cheated on.....they wouldn't dare...i respect myself too much
U cld be right. There seems to be a lot of people who need our help. I have been this way since my 20s. It was not easy (especially aqua) but I got them to commit ie marriage, engagements, committed relationships. The same men who declared "I never want to get married or settle down".. yeah right! They just hadn't met me yet!!! lol lol

But being a Taurus.. The earth signs work better for me (egowise).. I have a good mix now with the Taurus who also has sag, gem and aqua in him (as have I!) and he is "hard work" I have to admit but we share the same ego so it helps!! 😉

Get those "contracts" ready for signing. "Terms and Conditions" count. "My club is an Exclusive Club not everyone applying will gain membership"... lol lol 😉

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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
From the beginning with any sign

'Just me and you and nobody else'

Simple

Who wants to be with a two timer?
Ok got it. I kind of did last night though not in person. I will make it more clear next time I see him. Do u think it's like askin for a commitment? Wudnt that scare an Aquarius away?
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Why are you planning on seeing this guy again. I would say well if you have to think about it then see ya later. He's not going to respect you if your just sitting around waiting for him.

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From the beginning with any sign

'Just me and you and nobody else'

Simple

Who wants to be with a two timer?
Ok got it. I kind of did last night though not in person. I will make it more clear next time I see him. Do u think it's like askin for a commitment? Wudnt that scare an Aquarius away?
"Hey- im monogamous. I'm not asking for a marriage proposal- but when I date- I only date one person at a time so that way I focus on them and I'm not putting energy into multiple people. It doesn't work well for me when I do that. Are you willing to be monogamous too?"

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I might wait a few more weeks lol.. I feel like that should come from him? Would it ruin the excitement of courtship? he says he's not sleeping with other girls.. though I havnt made that clear in person. .. thank you ! I like that concept