My Aquarius Man Left Me...How Do I Get Him Back?..

I look into our son's eyes and all i see his is father. i want my family...this is the first time i've ever been able to commit like this and i want nothing other than to see us all happy again together....please help.

Tough situation ??

First rule of thumb, never give a child a job.

What I mean by that is, do not give the child the job of forcing a relationship with his father, because you want it.

Posted by kdesnew
I look into our son's eyes and all i see his is father. i want my family...this is the first time i've ever been able to commit like this and i want nothing other than to see us all happy again together....please help.

I literally know how you feel! Me too, still trying for the Aqua and we have a little boy together ?

I hope someone can help you xo

Why did you both split up? ... if you dont mind me asking..

We split because I hit him. I have been very emotional lately due to me having the baby...I think it's post partum depression..but anyway friday night we had a really big argument about the messages I saw. He told me I was crazy and he wasn't talking to anyone (which later I find out he's been deleting messages out of his phone). I knew I wasn't crazy and something was wrong and he would tell me. I went off and i'm so embarrassed that I keep doing this. everyone that knows me, knows that this IS NOT ME. He knows this. He told me today that it's like he does love me but he's not in love. he said he's not attracted anymore at all, just because he cannot "unsee" what happened friday... this is so hard for me. he told me he mostly wants to just take me back out of pity...and i don't want anyone out of pity.

😢 we've been through a lot and I have too...but he kept telling me he couldn't handle my attitude and all of my emotions.. I just don't know what to do or say. He said he wants to take me back and hope that when I start therapy (next week) that he will eventually fall for me again but he isn't sure. He said part of him wants to be single and see whats next but the other part wants his family. He said his mind is gone but not all of his heart. He's so confused and I don't know what to say other than I'm gonna get better and we can work through this.

Posted by kdesnew
We split because I hit him. I have been very emotional lately due to me having the baby...I think it's post partum depression..but anyway friday night we had a really big argument about the messages I saw. He told me I was crazy and he wasn't talking to anyone (which later I find out he's been deleting messages out of his phone). I knew I wasn't crazy and something was wrong and he would tell me. I went off and i'm so embarrassed that I keep doing this. everyone that knows me, knows that this IS NOT ME. He knows this. He told me today that it's like he does love me but he's not in love. he said he's not attracted anymore at all, just because he cannot "unsee" what happened friday... this is so hard for me. he told me he mostly wants to just take me back out of pity...and i don't want anyone out of pity.

😢 we've been through a lot and I have too...but he kept telling me he couldn't handle my attitude and all of my emotions.. I just don't know what to do or say. He said he wants to take me back and hope that when I start therapy (next week) that he will eventually fall for me again but he isn't sure. He said part of him wants to be single and see whats next but the other part wants his family. He said his mind is gone but not all of his heart. He's so confused and I don't know what to say other than I'm gonna get better and we can work through this.

Are you a Fire moon?

water--picses

Posted by kdesnew
water--picses

It's a difficult moon to deal with. At least for me as an aqua.

It seems you both have a lot of problems to work on. I don't know you, but I don't think he is a good partner either, standing someone's shit isn't an excuse for lying/cheating. I feel he is making excuses to leave, but as long as he takes care of his child, he is free to choose. Take responsabilities for your own mistakes, not his.

We know people's true nature on bad times, just learn.

From what I know the Aqua says physical abuse is a no no......😢

I am so sorry.......

It's that mercury thingy happening everyone is suffering all around

Stick to the therapy!!! In all seriousness it will be better for you and help you deal with your emotions and Aquas have a way of making people go nutty (they're beautiful but deadly).

He will notice the change in you. Practice meditating or anything that is good for your soul.

You need to choose whether or not to trust this man.

You need to make a well thought out decision about whether or not this is the path you want to take. Because it's not going to be easy! That's my warning to you.

Baby don't keep a man!

This could go on for years...... Are you prepared to go through all of this for years...??

Also Aqua men love freedom. He is probably out of his mind right now with a partner and a child and getting all flustered and feeling locked in!

Suggest he go away on a little holiday or something... show him youre willing to give him his freedom! because it's not just you who is suffering right now, he is too.

You don't get him back. Aqua men are pure cancer. YOU'RE FREE! NOW RUN FOR YOUR LIFE YOU FOOL! RUN!