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I am wondering just how elaborate and extensive the apparent 'testing' of a potential partner is by an Aquarius sun sign? I am a Virgo, so I am slow to show my feelings, and my Aquarius girlfriend is - as far as I can tell - very in to me, (to the degree of talking about future marriage, even though we only met in February). But sometimes she behaves in the most unusual ways, and when I react strongly to this, a smile comes across her face, like, it's the reaction she is interested in and likes, even if I am angry or hurt with her. Is her smile an indication that she is getting what she wants, i.e. an insight into how I feel about her? And, if so, is she purposefully manufacturing events that provoke a reaction from me just to gain that insight? And, lastly, just how elaborate and extensive could a manufactured event be... I mean, in extreme circumstances, would they go as far as to make you suspicious that they have cheated on you or have another interest just to get such a reaction / insight??

Last night, after a very odd event a few weeks ago, I messaged her to ask her if I can trust her (super important to me) and she refused to give a direct answer. Does she want me in a state of doubt and worry so I express my hurt and fear - again - to gain insight into how I feel? Because I know how much of a closed book I am most of the time, and I suspect she will go to most resorts at the moment to gain an insight before committing to me and opening up her heart, especially since at the moment we are a long distance relationship, and she has to decide whether to move to my country or not.

Thanks in advance.
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Posted by pisceswoman123

Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
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No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
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"But sometimes she behaves in the most unusual ways, and when I react strongly to this, a smile comes across her face, like, it's the reaction she is interested in and likes, even if I am angry or hurt with her. Is her smile an indication that she is getting what she wants, i.e. an insight into how I feel about her? And, if so, is she purposefully manufacturing events that provoke a reaction from me just to gain that insight?"

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I'm sorry and you can still totally make this work once your gf calms down and learns how to trust you but oh my gosh this is the image that came into my mind when reading your post initially ~

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Lol @ that pic. That's probably what he pictured too.
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
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Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
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"But sometimes she behaves in the most unusual ways, and when I react strongly to this, a smile comes across her face, like, it's the reaction she is interested in and likes, even if I am angry or hurt with her. Is her smile an indication that she is getting what she wants, i.e. an insight into how I feel about her? And, if so, is she purposefully manufacturing events that provoke a reaction from me just to gain that insight?"

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I'm sorry and you can still totally make this work once your gf calms down and learns how to trust you but oh my gosh this is the image that came into my mind when reading your post initially ~

rofl!

Lol @ that pic. That's probably what he pictured too.

P.S - guise, don't mind me, I'm just having fun lolz, I've lahved every Aqua I've known cos #airsignconnections and plus I've never dated one/been romantically linked to one to even know how they operate in #relationshipsz

x lolz
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I'm very aware that you are just enjoying yourself. 🙂

That pic is hilarious though, soooo
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it

Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
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You may be right. That is my experience. And it a thing that I have noticed with all Aquarius, and I have been around aquas all my life.

I wouldn’t call it testing is more like pushing you.
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Poking to get reactions? Yes some Aquas do this, not sure why some are saying no lol It's not meant to be hurtful or with ill intent. She is most likely trying to figure you out just as you are trying to do with her. She may not know a direct approach on how to do that tho, hence the "try to get a reaction" from you.

Manufacturing events? Naw that is not an Aqua thing, we are authentic people. Also the asking about the trust, depending on how it was brought up/discussed may have caused her to retreat. For me personally Trust is hard to come by and if my partner was asking that, I would question why doubt was being raised, why he felt I didn't trust him, which then leads to the question of, is he doing something that I shouldn't trust.
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Poking to get reactions? Yes some Aquas do this, not sure why some are saying no lol It's not meant to be hurtful or with ill intent. She is most likely trying to figure you out just as you are trying to do with her. She may not know a direct approach on how to do that tho, hence the "try to get a reaction" from you.

Manufacturing events? Naw that is not an Aqua thing, we are authentic people. Also the asking about the trust, depending on how it was brought up/discussed may have caused her to retreat. For me personally Trust is hard to come by and if my partner was asking that, I would question why doubt was being raised, why he felt I didn't trust him, which then leads to the question of, is he doing something that I shouldn't trust.


Poking for reactions I don't do because I will sever a relationship if done to me.

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Poking to get reactions? Yes some Aquas do this, not sure why some are saying no lol It's not meant to be hurtful or with ill intent. She is most likely trying to figure you out just as you are trying to do with her. She may not know a direct approach on how to do that tho, hence the "try to get a reaction" from you.

Manufacturing events? Naw that is not an Aqua thing, we are authentic people. Also the asking about the trust, depending on how it was brought up/discussed may have caused her to retreat. For me personally Trust is hard to come by and if my partner was asking that, I would question why doubt was being raised, why he felt I didn't trust him, which then leads to the question of, is he doing something that I shouldn't trust.


That is what I have come across time and time again 👌
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Like I stated above, people project their feelings onto Aquas and are usually miles off.

Anyone who posts, that's not an Aqua has little to no clue.

This isn't true.

Most aquas don't understand themselves or their emotions that well, unless they're developed.

Most aquas, similar to libras use OTHER people to understand their emotions.

So by that rule, it would be the other way around! Aquas would be more prone to projecting their emotions.

so in this case you're talking out your ass, in typical aqua fashion.
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
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She actually has SIX Capricorn placements in her chart. Virgo ascendant, Aries moon, and then A LOT of Capricorn.
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Posted by LethalFantasia

"But sometimes she behaves in the most unusual ways, and when I react strongly to this, a smile comes across her face, like, it's the reaction she is interested in and likes, even if I am angry or hurt with her. Is her smile an indication that she is getting what she wants, i.e. an insight into how I feel about her? And, if so, is she purposefully manufacturing events that provoke a reaction from me just to gain that insight?"

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I'm sorry and you can still totally make this work once your gf calms down and learns how to trust you but oh my gosh this is the image that came into my mind when reading your post initially ~

rofl!


Ha! If it was THIS smile then I would know better, believe me! It's more like a normal smile... normal happiness. Even as I am being angry with her, she is breaking into a smile like she can't contain it. She is happy about something. She has complained numerous times that I don't like her enough. I think in those moments when I am hurt by her that my anger shows her that I do like her a lot and this makes her happy... which makes sense. I mean, I really am very aloof. It's not good of me. I wish I could just be more open and vulnerable, but the Virgo force is strong in this one. :/
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Asking someone ‘can I trust you’ is low key insulting imo. You don’t trust me, then why are you even with me? Like... why talk marriage and future if your uncertain about my character.

I wouldn’t have responded either...smh. What do you say to that. Yup, you found me out, I’m actually super untrustworthy. Congrats


It depends. I didn't ask it randomly. There was a situation where she behaved very suspiciously, and she admitted that if I had done the same then she would feel the same as I do. I think in this circumstance it is reasonable to ask. Especially since we are now long distance and big decisions need to be made about the future. Before the incident occurred I had no problem trusting her.
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it

Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
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I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.
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Asking someone ‘can I trust you’ is low key insulting imo. You don’t trust me, then why are you even with me? Like... why talk marriage and future if your uncertain about my character.

I wouldn’t have responded either...smh. What do you say to that. Yup, you found me out, I’m actually super untrustworthy. Congrats


agree on the asking someone "can I trust you"

I think its manipulative

I would not answer either
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it

Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.

I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.
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"Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. "

I dont understand, what is your problem. You like her and testing her, asking her can I trust you and talking marriage when you dont even love her. I understand what is her concern but I dont understand what is yours. I mean, you dont take this seriously evidently and you are manipulating her and testing her and at the same time creating a topic if she is testing you...

you either lie to yourself, or lie to us, or both? 🙂

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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it

Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.

I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.
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Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.

Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving
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I'm not lying to anyone. I'm just in a confusing situation. We met in February, and the development of our relationship was very slow, which, I believe, suited us both. However, because she was on a visa that was due to expire, I believe she felt compelled to find out how serious the future is, so she started to talk about herself as my 'future wife'. Now, obviously, this is quite flattering, but I also told her that it was too early for me to talk about this. Now, did I tell her 'sorry, I'm not that into you'? No, of course not. Because even if I am not that into her now, that's only because the relationship is new (to me). I don't know how I will feel in another 6 months. As I said, it is a confusing and difficult situation. I would like to have more time with her to see how the relationship will go, and she obviously wants a good indication of my feelings for her to know whether to make big changes in her life. I don't think either of us is being dishonest. It is a complex situation for us both. I don't need to test her and I don't need to have any big insight into the future of our relationship because I'm not the one who has to make big decisions - I am happy to see how it unfolds at my normal Virgo pace. And, as I said previously, I can completely empathise with why she is testing me (if she indeed is) but I just want to understand more. Hence me here. 🙂
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it

Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.

I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.

Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.

Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving
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Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it

Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.

I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.

Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.

Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving

Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.
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So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you?

She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it

Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.

I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.

Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.

Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving

Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.

So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you?

She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it
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"So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you? She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it"

I dont think he would be the most important factor in the moving into the country back (sorry OP), I think she likes the country, regardless of the OP

or is it so very hard to get to that country? then its okey to be suspicious as to her motives

she loves the country, not the OP, imho

and here is Richard, all important, because he thinks she is in love with him and he is not with her... actually, its funny 🙂
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it

Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.

I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.

Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.

Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving

Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.

So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you?

She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it

"So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you? She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it"

I dont think he would be the most important factor in the moving into the country back (sorry OP), I think she likes the country, regardless of the OP

or is it so very hard to get to that country? then its okey to be suspicious as to her motives

she loves the country, not the OP, imho

and here is Richard, all important, because he thinks she is in love with him and he is not with her... actually, its funny 🙂
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She would be very stupid to move to a country just for him. She needs to like the country if not no amount of love will make it work.

And if she has lost of cap she is practical about it
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it

Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.

I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.

Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.

Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving

Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.

So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you?

She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it

"So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you? She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it"

I dont think he would be the most important factor in the moving into the country back (sorry OP), I think she likes the country, regardless of the OP

or is it so very hard to get to that country? then its okey to be suspicious as to her motives

she loves the country, not the OP, imho

and here is Richard, all important, because he thinks she is in love with him and he is not with her... actually, its funny 🙂

She would be very stupid to move to a country just for him. She needs to like the country if not no amount of love will make it work.

And if she has lost of cap she is practical about it
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on the other hand, there are lots of women who "fall in love" when on holiday, and wants to move to Turkey or Nigeria or Jamaica, just to find out their "love" has countless another "loves" as well 🙂
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it

Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.

I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.

Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.

Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving

Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.

So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you?

She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it

"So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you? She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it"

I dont think he would be the most important factor in the moving into the country back (sorry OP), I think she likes the country, regardless of the OP

or is it so very hard to get to that country? then its okey to be suspicious as to her motives

she loves the country, not the OP, imho

and here is Richard, all important, because he thinks she is in love with him and he is not with her... actually, its funny 🙂

She would be very stupid to move to a country just for him. She needs to like the country if not no amount of love will make it work.

And if she has lost of cap she is practical about it

on the other hand, there are lots of women who "fall in love" when on holiday, and wants to move to Turkey or Nigeria or Jamaica, just to find out their "love" has countless another "loves" as well 🙂
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Oh but I am sure they have fallen in love with the country too. Or at least I hope it’s not only because of a man.

Personally most of the time I go on holidays I wish I could move to that country after 😅 I just love change so much
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it

Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.

I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.

Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.

Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving

Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.

So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you?

She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it

"So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you? She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it"

I dont think he would be the most important factor in the moving into the country back (sorry OP), I think she likes the country, regardless of the OP

or is it so very hard to get to that country? then its okey to be suspicious as to her motives

she loves the country, not the OP, imho

and here is Richard, all important, because he thinks she is in love with him and he is not with her... actually, its funny 🙂
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I don't feel important. It must be unusual for two people to fall in love with each other at exactly the same time and pace, surely? I like her, but my Virgo nature just dictates that I am very slow to open my heart. I'm here, aren't I, talking about this? Obviously she matters to me enough to want to understand.
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I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..

The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...

Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.

She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.

Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...

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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

She actually has SIX Capricorn placements in her chart. Virgo ascendant, Aries moon, and then A LOT of Capricorn.
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Then she's not an Aqua.
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it

Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.

I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.

I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.
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How about you be up front and tell her to slow down you're not where she is ( not that into her)? She's not Aqua like, but maybe for an instance she'll act like one and use common sense and next you. 🙂
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I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..

The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...

Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.

She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.

Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...


For the 100th time, Aqua men and women are different in relationship matters.......
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

She actually has SIX Capricorn placements in her chart. Virgo ascendant, Aries moon, and then A LOT of Capricorn.

Then she's not an Aqua.
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Can you explain a bit more? Thanks.
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Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.

I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.

I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious

Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.

She actually has SIX Capricorn placements in her chart. Virgo ascendant, Aries moon, and then A LOT of Capricorn.

Then she's not an Aqua.

Can you explain a bit more? Thanks.
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She has all those other placements that seems to influence her behavior.
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Aquas don't usually test.

We prefer to watch and wait.

We're mostly genuine people, so are partial to seeing things from an organic standpoint.


I second this. I don’t test people. I normally observe people very keenly in terms of what they say and especially what they do. As I’m detached from my emotions, I’m normally objective in my assessment of a person. I see things as they are, not as I want to. I can’t delude myself. Some zodiac signs purposely delude themselves with their rose coloured glasses like like Leos, Libras and Pisces.
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Situations may be coincidental. Smiling could be nervousness or fear of you triggering her anger.

The Virgos I've known are usually plotters, so me sure you're not projecting. This happens with most sign and Aqua. People don't understand us, so tack their processes of thinking on to us. In my situations 9 out of 10 times, they're waaaaay off.


Me thinks OP is projecting his own thoughts on her because Virgo sun and moon are very calculating people. Therefore, they are very distrustful of others. My sister and couple other people are Virgo sun and one thing they all have in common is that they are abnormally secretive because they’re normally doing shady things undercover and assumes others are like them too.
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I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..

The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...

Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.

She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.

Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...

For the 100th time, Aqua men and women are different in relationship matters.......
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I never disputed that?
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Situations may be coincidental. Smiling could be nervousness or fear of you triggering her anger.

The Virgos I've known are usually plotters, so me sure you're not projecting. This happens with most sign and Aqua. People don't understand us, so tack their processes of thinking on to us. In my situations 9 out of 10 times, they're waaaaay off.

Me thinks OP is projecting his own thoughts on her because Virgo sun and moon are very calculating people. Therefore, they are very distrustful of others. My sister and couple other people are Virgo sun and one thing they all have in common is that they are abnormally secretive because they’re normally doing shady things undercover and assumes others are like them too.
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LMAO

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Aquas don't usually test.

We prefer to watch and wait.

We're mostly genuine people, so are partial to seeing things from an organic standpoint.

I second this. I don’t test people. I normally observe people very keenly in terms of what they say and especially what they do. As I’m detached from my emotions, I’m normally objective in my assessment of a person. I see things as they are, not as I want to. I can’t delude myself. Some zodiac signs purposely delude themselves with their rose coloured glasses like like Leos, Libras and Pisces.
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Exactly 09.

Idk which signs are the most delusional in relationships because I noticed women from every sign seems to be, on a constant basis.

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Situations may be coincidental. Smiling could be nervousness or fear of you triggering her anger.

The Virgos I've known are usually plotters, so me sure you're not projecting. This happens with most sign and Aqua. People don't understand us, so tack their processes of thinking on to us. In my situations 9 out of 10 times, they're waaaaay off.

Me thinks OP is projecting his own thoughts on her because Virgo sun and moon are very calculating people. Therefore, they are very distrustful of others. My sister and couple other people are Virgo sun and one thing they all have in common is that they are abnormally secretive because they’re normally doing shady things undercover and assumes others are like them too.
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He seems to care less, so I don't think he's projecting his 'own' thoughts on to her, per se. More like his thought process or he could be basing his theory off what he's observed so many women do in her position.



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I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..

The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...

Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.

She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.

Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...

For the 100th time, Aqua men and women are different in relationship matters.......

I never disputed that?
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Well I'm not understanding the reason you're sharing your negative opinions with Aqua men, on a thread requesting info on an Aqua woman's thought process.

There are so many ways that Aqua men and women are similar, but usually not in relationship matters.
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I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..

The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...

Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.

She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.

Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...

For the 100th time, Aqua men and women are different in relationship matters.......

I never disputed that?

Well I'm not understanding the reason you're sharing your negative opinions with Aqua men, on a thread requesting info on an Aqua woman's thought process.

There are so many ways that Aqua men and women are similar, but usually not in relationship matters.
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I was just thinking about the "testing" theme and yes I agree very different rship style s with the genders...

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I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..

The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...

Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.

She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.

Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...

For the 100th time, Aqua men and women are different in relationship matters.......

I never disputed that?

Well I'm not understanding the reason you're sharing your negative opinions with Aqua men, on a thread requesting info on an Aqua woman's thought process.

There are so many ways that Aqua men and women are similar, but usually not in relationship matters.

I was just thinking about the "testing" theme and yes I agree very different rship style s with the genders...
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Nah usually no testing.
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I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..

The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...

Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.

She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.

Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...

For the 100th time, Aqua men and women are different in relationship matters.......

I never disputed that?

Well I'm not understanding the reason you're sharing your negative opinions with Aqua men, on a thread requesting info on an Aqua woman's thought process.

There are so many ways that Aqua men and women are similar, but usually not in relationship matters.

I was just thinking about the "testing" theme and yes I agree very different rship style s with the genders...

Nah usually no testing. 🙂
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I've had Aqua female friends.....straightforward and no nonsense

I think they handle the Aqua energy better in some way?
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