Richard27
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Posted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious



Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.click to expand

Posted by LethalFantasia
"But sometimes she behaves in the most unusual ways, and when I react strongly to this, a smile comes across her face, like, it's the reaction she is interested in and likes, even if I am angry or hurt with her. Is her smile an indication that she is getting what she wants, i.e. an insight into how I feel about her? And, if so, is she purposefully manufacturing events that provoke a reaction from me just to gain that insight?"![]()
roflroflroflorlf
I'm sorry and you can still totally make this work once your gf calms down and learns how to trust you but oh my gosh this is the image that came into my mind when reading your post initially ~
rofl!

Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing itclick to expand

Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by STILLPosted by LethalFantasia
"But sometimes she behaves in the most unusual ways, and when I react strongly to this, a smile comes across her face, like, it's the reaction she is interested in and likes, even if I am angry or hurt with her. Is her smile an indication that she is getting what she wants, i.e. an insight into how I feel about her? And, if so, is she purposefully manufacturing events that provoke a reaction from me just to gain that insight?"![]()
roflroflroflorlf
I'm sorry and you can still totally make this work once your gf calms down and learns how to trust you but oh my gosh this is the image that came into my mind when reading your post initially ~
rofl!
Lol @ that pic. That's probably what he pictured too.
P.S - guise, don't mind me, I'm just having fun lolz, I've lahved every Aqua I've known cos #airsignconnections and plus I've never dated one/been romantically linked to one to even know how they operate in #relationshipsz
x lolzclick to expand

Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.
I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.click to expand


Posted by justagirl
Poking to get reactions? Yes some Aquas do this, not sure why some are saying no lol It's not meant to be hurtful or with ill intent. She is most likely trying to figure you out just as you are trying to do with her. She may not know a direct approach on how to do that tho, hence the "try to get a reaction" from you.
Manufacturing events? Naw that is not an Aqua thing, we are authentic people. Also the asking about the trust, depending on how it was brought up/discussed may have caused her to retreat. For me personally Trust is hard to come by and if my partner was asking that, I would question why doubt was being raised, why he felt I didn't trust him, which then leads to the question of, is he doing something that I shouldn't trust.


Posted by justagirl
Poking to get reactions? Yes some Aquas do this, not sure why some are saying no lol It's not meant to be hurtful or with ill intent. She is most likely trying to figure you out just as you are trying to do with her. She may not know a direct approach on how to do that tho, hence the "try to get a reaction" from you.
Manufacturing events? Naw that is not an Aqua thing, we are authentic people. Also the asking about the trust, depending on how it was brought up/discussed may have caused her to retreat. For me personally Trust is hard to come by and if my partner was asking that, I would question why doubt was being raised, why he felt I didn't trust him, which then leads to the question of, is he doing something that I shouldn't trust.

Posted by LastwillPosted by STILL
Like I stated above, people project their feelings onto Aquas and are usually miles off.
Anyone who posts, that's not an Aqua has little to no clue.
This isn't true.
Most aquas don't understand themselves or their emotions that well, unless they're developed.
Most aquas, similar to libras use OTHER people to understand their emotions.
So by that rule, it would be the other way around! Aquas would be more prone to projecting their emotions.
so in this case you're talking out your ass, in typical aqua fashion.click to expand

Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.click to expand
Posted by LethalFantasia
"But sometimes she behaves in the most unusual ways, and when I react strongly to this, a smile comes across her face, like, it's the reaction she is interested in and likes, even if I am angry or hurt with her. Is her smile an indication that she is getting what she wants, i.e. an insight into how I feel about her? And, if so, is she purposefully manufacturing events that provoke a reaction from me just to gain that insight?"![]()
roflroflroflorlf
I'm sorry and you can still totally make this work once your gf calms down and learns how to trust you but oh my gosh this is the image that came into my mind when reading your post initially ~
rofl!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone ‘can I trust you’ is low key insulting imo. You don’t trust me, then why are you even with me? Like... why talk marriage and future if your uncertain about my character.
I wouldn’t have responded either...smh. What do you say to that. Yup, you found me out, I’m actually super untrustworthy. Congrats
Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.
I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.click to expand
Posted by bumboklatt
Thats just a woman thing
And youre a virgo looking into small obscure signs

Posted by LadyNeptune
Asking someone ‘can I trust you’ is low key insulting imo. You don’t trust me, then why are you even with me? Like... why talk marriage and future if your uncertain about my character.
I wouldn’t have responded either...smh. What do you say to that. Yup, you found me out, I’m actually super untrustworthy. Congrats

Posted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.
I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.click to expand

Posted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.
I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.click to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.
I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.
Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.
Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider movingclick to expand

Posted by Richard27Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.
I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.
Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.
Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving
Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.click to expand

Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Richard27Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.
I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.
Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.
Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving
Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.
So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you?
She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth itclick to expand

Posted by Pandora101Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Richard27Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.
I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.
Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.
Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving
Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.
So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you?
She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it
"So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you? She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it"
I dont think he would be the most important factor in the moving into the country back (sorry OP), I think she likes the country, regardless of the OP
or is it so very hard to get to that country? then its okey to be suspicious as to her motives
she loves the country, not the OP, imho
and here is Richard, all important, because he thinks she is in love with him and he is not with her... actually, its funny 🙂click to expand

Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Pandora101Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Richard27Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.
I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.
Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.
Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving
Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.
So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you?
She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it
"So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you? She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it"
I dont think he would be the most important factor in the moving into the country back (sorry OP), I think she likes the country, regardless of the OP
or is it so very hard to get to that country? then its okey to be suspicious as to her motives
she loves the country, not the OP, imho
and here is Richard, all important, because he thinks she is in love with him and he is not with her... actually, its funny 🙂
She would be very stupid to move to a country just for him. She needs to like the country if not no amount of love will make it work.
And if she has lost of cap she is practical about itclick to expand

Posted by Pandora101Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Pandora101Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Richard27Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.
I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.
Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.
Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving
Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.
So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you?
She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it
"So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you? She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it"
I dont think he would be the most important factor in the moving into the country back (sorry OP), I think she likes the country, regardless of the OP
or is it so very hard to get to that country? then its okey to be suspicious as to her motives
she loves the country, not the OP, imho
and here is Richard, all important, because he thinks she is in love with him and he is not with her... actually, its funny 🙂
She would be very stupid to move to a country just for him. She needs to like the country if not no amount of love will make it work.
And if she has lost of cap she is practical about it
on the other hand, there are lots of women who "fall in love" when on holiday, and wants to move to Turkey or Nigeria or Jamaica, just to find out their "love" has countless another "loves" as well 🙂click to expand
Posted by Pandora101Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Richard27Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.
I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.
Well I wouldn’t trust you if you cannot even say that you love me.
Why can’t you not give her the love she needs? It will be very stupid of her to even consider moving
Because I've only know her for four months and because I don't love her at the moment. I would just like to see how the relationship unfolds. Btw, I am not asking her to move to my country. This is something that she wanted to do.
So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you?
She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it
"So she was thinking about moving to your country before she knew you? She is probably falling for you and wants to know if you are worth it"
I dont think he would be the most important factor in the moving into the country back (sorry OP), I think she likes the country, regardless of the OP
or is it so very hard to get to that country? then its okey to be suspicious as to her motives
she loves the country, not the OP, imho
and here is Richard, all important, because he thinks she is in love with him and he is not with her... actually, its funny 🙂click to expand


Posted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
She actually has SIX Capricorn placements in her chart. Virgo ascendant, Aries moon, and then A LOT of Capricorn.click to expand

Posted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
No water. The less water the more they do it 😄 But yes, I have noticed that more in men, but that is because I haven’t been in a relationship with an aqua woman. It sounds exactly how the OP is describing it
Yeah but he's in a relationship with an Aqua women, which is quite different.
I must admit HIS observations make it seem like she could be 'testing', but being an Aqua woman, with Aquas of both sexes surrounding me and knowing how I/we think and how others guess WRONG OFTEN, I'm guessing he's misinterpreting. It's a constant frustration with Aquas, trust me.
I could definitely be misinterpreting. That's why I resorted to opening an account to post this here. I appreciate that our circumstances are very challenging, especially so for her if she has strong feelings for me and has to make very big decisions about her future, i.e. moving from her home country to mine. Also because I cannot give her the amount of love she might need to confidently make this decision at the moment. All I can say is that I like her. But I honestly think she loves me, and obviously doesn't want to make massive changes to her life only to end up with someone who might not be that into her. Hence extensive testing of me. I understand all of this. It makes sense and I can forgive it. But, really, I am here to make sure I am thinking straight.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShine
I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..
The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...
Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.
She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.
Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...
Posted by STILLPosted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
She actually has SIX Capricorn placements in her chart. Virgo ascendant, Aries moon, and then A LOT of Capricorn.
Then she's not an Aqua.click to expand

Posted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by Richard27Posted by STILLPosted by pisceswoman123
Aquarius like to push you and provoke you in different ways to see how you react to things. They enjoy that, like they are learning about human nature through it.
I don’t think they do it in purpose all the time but that’s how they are.
I can imagine that you being in a LDR make it even more obvious
Maybe the men? Or maybe she has water in her chart? Because I don't, especially if you do it to me I'm out.
She actually has SIX Capricorn placements in her chart. Virgo ascendant, Aries moon, and then A LOT of Capricorn.
Then she's not an Aqua.
Can you explain a bit more? Thanks.click to expand

Posted by STILL
Aquas don't usually test.
We prefer to watch and wait.
We're mostly genuine people, so are partial to seeing things from an organic standpoint.

Posted by STILL
Situations may be coincidental. Smiling could be nervousness or fear of you triggering her anger.
The Virgos I've known are usually plotters, so me sure you're not projecting. This happens with most sign and Aqua. People don't understand us, so tack their processes of thinking on to us. In my situations 9 out of 10 times, they're waaaaay off.

Posted by STILLPosted by MyStarsShine
I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..
The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...
Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.
She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.
Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...
For the 100th time, Aqua men and women are different in relationship matters.......click to expand

Posted by aquarius09Posted by STILL
Situations may be coincidental. Smiling could be nervousness or fear of you triggering her anger.
The Virgos I've known are usually plotters, so me sure you're not projecting. This happens with most sign and Aqua. People don't understand us, so tack their processes of thinking on to us. In my situations 9 out of 10 times, they're waaaaay off.
Me thinks OP is projecting his own thoughts on her because Virgo sun and moon are very calculating people. Therefore, they are very distrustful of others. My sister and couple other people are Virgo sun and one thing they all have in common is that they are abnormally secretive because they’re normally doing shady things undercover and assumes others are like them too.click to expand

Posted by aquarius09Posted by STILL
Aquas don't usually test.
We prefer to watch and wait.
We're mostly genuine people, so are partial to seeing things from an organic standpoint.
I second this. I don’t test people. I normally observe people very keenly in terms of what they say and especially what they do. As I’m detached from my emotions, I’m normally objective in my assessment of a person. I see things as they are, not as I want to. I can’t delude myself. Some zodiac signs purposely delude themselves with their rose coloured glasses like like Leos, Libras and Pisces.click to expand

Posted by aquarius09Posted by STILL
Situations may be coincidental. Smiling could be nervousness or fear of you triggering her anger.
The Virgos I've known are usually plotters, so me sure you're not projecting. This happens with most sign and Aqua. People don't understand us, so tack their processes of thinking on to us. In my situations 9 out of 10 times, they're waaaaay off.
Me thinks OP is projecting his own thoughts on her because Virgo sun and moon are very calculating people. Therefore, they are very distrustful of others. My sister and couple other people are Virgo sun and one thing they all have in common is that they are abnormally secretive because they’re normally doing shady things undercover and assumes others are like them too.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by STILLPosted by MyStarsShine
I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..
The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...
Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.
She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.
Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...
For the 100th time, Aqua men and women are different in relationship matters.......
I never disputed that?click to expand

Posted by STILLPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by STILLPosted by MyStarsShine
I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..
The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...
Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.
She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.
Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...
For the 100th time, Aqua men and women are different in relationship matters.......
I never disputed that?
Well I'm not understanding the reason you're sharing your negative opinions with Aqua men, on a thread requesting info on an Aqua woman's thought process.
There are so many ways that Aqua men and women are similar, but usually not in relationship matters.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by STILLPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by STILLPosted by MyStarsShine
I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..
The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...
Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.
She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.
Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...
For the 100th time, Aqua men and women are different in relationship matters.......
I never disputed that?
Well I'm not understanding the reason you're sharing your negative opinions with Aqua men, on a thread requesting info on an Aqua woman's thought process.
There are so many ways that Aqua men and women are similar, but usually not in relationship matters.
I was just thinking about the "testing" theme and yes I agree very different rship style s with the genders...click to expand

Posted by STILLPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by STILLPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by STILLPosted by MyStarsShine
I don't think it's intentional or done out of spite, but if you think of Aqua's ruling planet, Uranus, it's unstable and unpredictable so it may be an unconscious behaviour to sustain the restlessness within. The "mad professor" analogy is one i heard that seems to fit....always looking for a new invention...testing out new theories etc ..
The woman who runs a bookshop near me was with an Aqua guy for a while and he used to flirt in front of her....like really over the top, he did it with me a few times until I called him out in front of her, like he was saying stuff like wanting to have sex with me. So i says to her, did she mind the way he carried on and she says "as long as it's only flirting, I don't mind...
Fast forward and I saw her and she tells me she found him in bed with another woman.
She's a Pisces....she didn't handle him too well, he needed more of a challenge, she didn't set the boundaries and he pushed pushed pushed and she allowed it.
Just before he married someone else, he started to sext the Pisces. He called to her with flowers and she threw them at him and told him to fuck off. He realised too late she was his love, but the test, test, testing backfired...
For the 100th time, Aqua men and women are different in relationship matters.......
I never disputed that?
Well I'm not understanding the reason you're sharing your negative opinions with Aqua men, on a thread requesting info on an Aqua woman's thought process.
There are so many ways that Aqua men and women are similar, but usually not in relationship matters.
I was just thinking about the "testing" theme and yes I agree very different rship style s with the genders...
Nah usually no testing. 🙂click to expand
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Last night, after a very odd event a few weeks ago, I messaged her to ask her if I can trust her (super important to me) and she refused to give a direct answer. Does she want me in a state of doubt and worry so I express my hurt and fear - again - to gain insight into how I feel? Because I know how much of a closed book I am most of the time, and I suspect she will go to most resorts at the moment to gain an insight before committing to me and opening up her heart, especially since at the moment we are a long distance relationship, and she has to decide whether to move to my country or not.
Thanks in advance.