
Be aloof af. Distant detached with lots of mystique.. So essentially be exactly like them. Works like a charm.



Posted by MyStarsShineI'm already like that it is exactly who i am! Aquarius magnet. Shit tons of aqua in my chart.
......and not be yourself?

Posted by HarukkaSags are also detached?
That's why they love sag people

Posted by boxcarmirntaOh right, I thought you were giving advice to others to be that way 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineI'm already like that it is exactly who i am! Aquarius magnet. Shit tons of aqua in my chart.
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Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by boxcarmirntaOh right, I thought you were giving advice to others to be that way 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineI'm already like that it is exactly who i am! Aquarius magnet. Shit tons of aqua in my chart.
......and not be yourself?
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Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by boxcarmirntaOh right, I thought you were giving advice to others to be that way 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineI'm already like that it is exactly who i am! Aquarius magnet. Shit tons of aqua in my chart.
......and not be yourself?
Naw it was more like an aha moment! It all clicked..
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Posted by blackmoonIll agree with that..
laughter for some reason attracts aquas

Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI am without even realizing it. But i really can't stand clingy people.. Just enough mystery or i get bored..
Sounds boring. I hate detached people, but i think im detached sometimes out of insecurity

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by boxcarmirntaOh right, I thought you were giving advice to others to be that way 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineI'm already like that it is exactly who i am! Aquarius magnet. Shit tons of aqua in my chart.
......and not be yourself?
Naw it was more like an aha moment! It all clicked..
It's all good if you are cool with the detachment. I am more of a consuming and warm type, that standing back stuff would drive me mad....
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Posted by compy
A perfect similarity will never work, because two aloof people will forget to get emotionally and even physically close to each other.
That's why Aquarius-Aquarius pairs are not the number one choice in astrology in terms of compatiblity. ...

Posted by MrR78You have to be yourself because eventually the real you will always emerge anyway
I attracted my ex by just being myself.
I didn't do the whole aloof distance thing. I was just me, happy bubbly positive and funny.
Whatever you do just don't be fake. Irrespective of star signs being fake is just starting off based on a lie. Be yourself!!

Posted by MyStarsShineyou have to be like that ^ trying to if you aren't won't attract us.
......and not be yourself?

Posted by MyStarsShineNo, Don't get it wrong. we love warm type of people, loving, passionate but real. not the type who do things that they do with every girl a d it just seems like a game.Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by boxcarmirntaOh right, I thought you were giving advice to others to be that way 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineI'm already like that it is exactly who i am! Aquarius magnet. Shit tons of aqua in my chart.
......and not be yourself?
Naw it was more like an aha moment! It all clicked..
It's all good if you are cool with the detachment. I am more of a consuming and warm type, that standing back stuff would drive me mad....
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Posted by compyYes yes i feel so much of this... I have enough water in my chart to make it interesting.
A perfect similarity will never work, because two aloof people will forget to get emotionally and even physically close to each other.
That's why Aquarius-Aquarius pairs are not the number one choice in astrology in terms of compatiblity. The other two air signs are to be preferred because they understand the aloofness and need of personal space better than other signs and share similar traits in matters of thinking, intelligence, analysis, spontaneity and originality. Anyway, the most difficult period is before commitment, because it requires lots of patience from the partner. Some Aquas become extremely clingy to their partners afterwards and could suffocate them if the other person does not feel the same way. Syncronization is the key and Aquas, especially the ones that were previously hurt, are very slow to commit. But when they finally do it, they become different persons. If the partner does not have both capabilities, to understand the initial detachment and lack of decision from the first stage, and then to be able to respond in the same manner to the tremendous amount of love Aquas can release, the relationship is doomed. These capabilities have to be genuine and not fake, because they backfire quickly and the Aqua will vanish without warning and without looking behind.

Posted by MrR78Yes. Being happy is always important.. It's the people that are always worried and wondering what the status of the relationship instead of being happy with life that have a harder time.
I attracted my ex by just being myself.
I didn't do the whole aloof distance thing. I was just me, happy bubbly positive and funny.
Whatever you do just don't be fake. Irrespective of star signs being fake is just starting off based on a lie. Be yourself!!

Posted by AerazoOmg yes!!! Mystery is so good.Posted by MyStarsShineyou have to be like that ^ trying to if you aren't won't attract us.
......and not be yourself?
Is not that you have to be detached, just understand about space in a relationship. we get bored of clingy people not bc we want to but bc is exhausting.click to expand

Posted by blackmoonPosted by boxcarmirntawhy is that though? They prefer the happy emotion ?Posted by blackmoonIll agree with that..
laughter for some reason attracts aquasclick to expand



Posted by compySo what's their language? 🙂
Aquas are human beings just like the rest of us, only their love language is different. Learn to decipher it and you will se how much they actually love, even in early stages.


Posted by boxcarmirntaMind, Body & Soul.Posted by compySo what's their language? 🙂
Aquas are human beings just like the rest of us, only their love language is different. Learn to decipher it and you will se how much they actually love, even in early stages.click to expand

Posted by AreyoumytwinflameTrue, one thing is showing love, affection, passion another is being insecure, clingy and annoying!
I'm the exact opposite of my Aqua in a lot of ways. I'm very demonstrative, expressive, passionate and physically affectionate.
I "lead" for lack of a better word and he follows suit usually. Unless I tell him what to do then he absolutely will not just for the sake of being stubborn ?
I think Aquas will somewhat adopt the behaviors of their lovers. I know they're fixed but they mirror in their own way. If they're loved well, they will love well in return.

Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
I'm the exact opposite of my Aqua in a lot of ways. I'm very demonstrative, expressive, passionate and physically affectionate.
I "lead" for lack of a better word and he follows suit usually. Unless I tell him what to do then he absolutely will not just for the sake of being stubborn ?
I think Aquas will somewhat adopt the behaviors of their lovers. I know they're fixed but they mirror in their own way. If they're loved well, they will love well in return.

Posted by febyPosted by AreyoumytwinflameI'm not sure but it's possible. Constantly weighing stuff out just to be sure about my stance even. But usually once im sure im all in. On a semi side note, ive found Aries to be very patient. 🙂Posted by febyThat talking things through...is that your libra moon ? My moon does that.Posted by AreyoumytwinflameI'm drawn to passionate and affectionate people. Also I need reassurances and like to talk things through if they're important to me or fucking me up.
I'm the exact opposite of my Aqua in a lot of ways. I'm very demonstrative, expressive, passionate and physically affectionate.
I "lead" for lack of a better word and he follows suit usually. Unless I tell him what to do then he absolutely will not just for the sake of being stubborn ?
I think Aquas will somewhat adopt the behaviors of their lovers. I know they're fixed but they mirror in their own way. If they're loved well, they will love well in return.
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Posted by GC01Exactly.
As a cancer I'm good at manipulation once I get aqua vibes off someone I know the way to their heart is just to ignore the fuck out of them lol it's too easy.
But it makes seeing them finally and giving in more interesting (;

Posted by febynod me too.Posted by AreyoumytwinflameI'm drawn to passionate and affectionate people. Also I need reassurances and like to talk things through if they're important to me or fucking me up.
I'm the exact opposite of my Aqua in a lot of ways. I'm very demonstrative, expressive, passionate and physically affectionate.
I "lead" for lack of a better word and he follows suit usually. Unless I tell him what to do then he absolutely will not just for the sake of being stubborn ?
I think Aquas will somewhat adopt the behaviors of their lovers. I know they're fixed but they mirror in their own way. If they're loved well, they will love well in return.
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Posted by justagirlThey do... It's just wrapped up in layer after layer of armor.
oh side note.. Aquas don't have a heart.. soooo good luck
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Posted by boxcarmirntaYeah I was being silly. I'm an Aqua myself 🙂Posted by justagirlThey do... It's just wrapped up in layer after layer of armor.
oh side note.. Aquas don't have a heart.. soooo good luck
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Posted by level7wizard
I think this actually has a lot to deal with your Pisces moon. Pisces seem to enjoy a partner that is almost an identical copy of themselves.
As an Aqua with an Aries moon, I would say that I *DO* love the mysterious aloofness in my love interest, but only enough to make the chase FUN, and so it doesn't end up knocking the air out of me...
I want someone who is outspoken in expressing themselves to me truthfully.
I dated a Gemini sun/Scorpio moon and he tried liking everything I did... it was charming at first, but ultimately I didn't want to date someone that was so quick to throwing what they love away so they could appease me. :/

Posted by justagirlPosted by boxcarmirntaYeah I was being silly. I'm an Aqua myself 🙂Posted by justagirlThey do... It's just wrapped up in layer after layer of armor.
oh side note.. Aquas don't have a heart.. soooo good luck
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Posted by boxcarmirntaWhat? That we have no hearts? That we get to the point that we feel nothing? It may be wrapped Iayers... But that it is to protect ourselves. Sadly, many will abuse the good nature of the kindhearted Aquas.. Hell the kind hearted people in general.Posted by justagirlPosted by boxcarmirntaYeah I was being silly. I'm an Aqua myself 🙂Posted by justagirlThey do... It's just wrapped up in layer after layer of armor.
oh side note.. Aquas don't have a heart.. soooo good luck
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Wouldn't you say it's kinda true though?click to expand

Posted by -Flo-If you read the thread you'd see that was also mentioned, why i wrote it is cuz that is exactly who i am, so i magically attract aquas.. I just never really looked that far into before. There is nothing i hate more than a phony person.
I disagree with this thread,
Just be yourself and come with genuine intentions, I can see right through bs. I've dropped many men because of this.

Posted by justagirlTook the words outta my mouth! And yes sadly the kind are often exploited. Makes us stronger i guess..Posted by boxcarmirntaWhat? That we have no hearts? That we get to the point that we feel nothing? It may be wrapped Iayers... But that it is to protect ourselves. Sadly, many will abuse the good nature of the kindhearted Aquas.. Hell the kind hearted people in general.Posted by justagirlPosted by boxcarmirntaYeah I was being silly. I'm an Aqua myself 🙂Posted by justagirlThey do... It's just wrapped up in layer after layer of armor.
oh side note.. Aquas don't have a heart.. soooo good luck
😆
Wouldn't you say it's kinda true though?click to expand

Posted by -Flo-Posted by boxcarmirntaI am an Aquarius. This whole thread is try hard.Posted by -Flo-If you read the thread you'd see that was also mentioned, why i wrote it is cuz that is exactly who i am, so i magically attract aquas.. I just never really looked that far into before. There is nothing i hate more than a phony person.
I disagree with this thread,
Just be yourself and come with genuine intentions, I can see right through bs. I've dropped many men because of this.click to expand

Posted by aquanib
I'll tell you like this, if i like you and you know it, ignoring will get you only so far......if you overdo it, it leads to triggering defense mechanisms, brain coming in the thought flow dominated only by heart and gut feelings up to that point.
Brain will say very logical things, "she doesn't like me, she wouldn't ignore me if she did, right?"......after that the next stage is out of sight out of mind and shortly after, death of whatever there was if no further input from your side is given.
See where ignore got you.
Aloof is a commodity with a very short life span when it comes to listing qualities aquas seek in their loved ones and once you've been told of the feels about you, being aloof, too mysterious, giving of hints of not being serious will get you in trouble.

Posted by aquanibYup. But let the non Aquas think this is the way to "win" us lol
I'll tell you like this, if i like you and you know it, ignoring will get you only so far......if you overdo it, it leads to triggering defense mechanisms, brain coming in the thought flow dominated only by heart and gut feelings up to that point.
Brain will say very logical things, "she doesn't like me, she wouldn't ignore me if she did, right?"......after that the next stage is out of sight out of mind and shortly after, death of whatever there was if no further input from your side is given.
See where ignore got you.
Aloof is a commodity with a very short life span when it comes to listing qualities aquas seek in their loved ones and once you've been told of the feels about you, being aloof, too mysterious, giving of hints of not being serious will get you in trouble.

Posted by -Flo-Well it works for me and yr the only one stirring up shit.. Is that tryin hard enough for you? I also believe this works for ALL signs. Have a life, don't be clingy, don't let your relationship be the end all be all of everything. Focusing on your new love interest will drive you nuts and ultimately lead to the end of your relationship. If you don't agree you can keep scrolling....no sweat off my balls.Posted by boxcarmirntaBasically you're giving bad advice about how to get into the heart of an aqua.Posted by -Flo-Posted by boxcarmirntaI am an Aquarius. This whole thread is try hard.Posted by -Flo-If you read the thread you'd see that was also mentioned, why i wrote it is cuz that is exactly who i am, so i magically attract aquas.. I just never really looked that far into before. There is nothing i hate more than a phony person.
I disagree with this thread,
Just be yourself and come with genuine intentions, I can see right through bs. I've dropped many men because of this.
I have no fucking clue what yr talking about dude.. For reals.
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Posted by justagirlPosted by aquanibYup. But let the non Aquas think this is the way to "win" us lol
I'll tell you like this, if i like you and you know it, ignoring will get you only so far......if you overdo it, it leads to triggering defense mechanisms, brain coming in the thought flow dominated only by heart and gut feelings up to that point.
Brain will say very logical things, "she doesn't like me, she wouldn't ignore me if she did, right?"......after that the next stage is out of sight out of mind and shortly after, death of whatever there was if no further input from your side is given.
See where ignore got you.
Aloof is a commodity with a very short life span when it comes to listing qualities aquas seek in their loved ones and once you've been told of the feels about you, being aloof, too mysterious, giving of hints of not being serious will get you in trouble.click to expand

Posted by febyAries!? Patient!? On what planet.Posted by AreyoumytwinflameI'm not sure but it's possible. Constantly weighing stuff out just to be sure about my stance even. But usually once im sure im all in. On a semi side note, ive found Aries to be very patient. 🙂Posted by febyThat talking things through...is that your libra moon ? My moon does that.Posted by AreyoumytwinflameI'm drawn to passionate and affectionate people. Also I need reassurances and like to talk things through if they're important to me or fucking me up.
I'm the exact opposite of my Aqua in a lot of ways. I'm very demonstrative, expressive, passionate and physically affectionate.
I "lead" for lack of a better word and he follows suit usually. Unless I tell him what to do then he absolutely will not just for the sake of being stubborn ?
I think Aquas will somewhat adopt the behaviors of their lovers. I know they're fixed but they mirror in their own way. If they're loved well, they will love well in return.
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Posted by blackmoonYes this. Also there are always exceptions to every rule.. This is just a generalization.. It worked for ME. and he told me thats why he liked me... The mystique.. My indifference made him crazy for me.. What can i say?!? I also have an aqua moon and more in my chart. I am notoriously unemotional until you know me well... I like dissecting stuff not feeling my way thru it. Thats why i like aquas!!!
to be fair, if OP is a pisces..she might mean that her aloofness attracted aqua guys and aquas liked that she wasn't clingy and gave them space maybe her traits. however, it shouldn't be used to describe what all aqua are attracted to..her experience being the basis of the method in finding the way to an aqua's heart
Posted by ashley1734We can be if we like you and want to stay connected. We can follow the lead. At least I can.Posted by febyAries!? Patient!? On what planet.Posted by AreyoumytwinflameI'm not sure but it's possible. Constantly weighing stuff out just to be sure about my stance even. But usually once im sure im all in. On a semi side note, ive found Aries to be very patient. 🙂Posted by febyThat talking things through...is that your libra moon ? My moon does that.Posted by AreyoumytwinflameI'm drawn to passionate and affectionate people. Also I need reassurances and like to talk things through if they're important to me or fucking me up.
I'm the exact opposite of my Aqua in a lot of ways. I'm very demonstrative, expressive, passionate and physically affectionate.
I "lead" for lack of a better word and he follows suit usually. Unless I tell him what to do then he absolutely will not just for the sake of being stubborn ?
I think Aquas will somewhat adopt the behaviors of their lovers. I know they're fixed but they mirror in their own way. If they're loved well, they will love well in return.
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