mamita
@mamita
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Venus in Aquarius! How often to reach out to him?
Venus in Aquarius is tricky. Until we get locked down, we pretty much like to be alone unless we can do something interesting with other people. One of the great things that you can do with Venus in Aqua is what I call sharing and caring.
Share tidbits of what you have going on with your life with this guy, a photo, a video or joke. Then casually mention how you hope his day is going as great as yours. Or if you know what he's doing, ask him for an opinion on a relatable subject.
For instance: You go to a festival. You share that with him, and either A) Hope your day is going great too! or B) I'm sorry you're working today, I would love to have had you here, maybe next time, what kind of food/music do you like?
To breadcrumb a Venus in Aqua, you want to A) Show that you have your own stuff going on, B) That your stuff is fun and unusual C) Not demanding his presence, but be willing to share.
Share tidbits of what you have going on with your life with this guy, a photo, a video or joke. Then casually mention how you hope his day is going as great as yours. Or if you know what he's doing, ask him for an opinion on a relatable subject.
For instance: You go to a festival. You share that with him, and either A) Hope your day is going great too! or B) I'm sorry you're working today, I would love to have had you here, maybe next time, what kind of food/music do you like?
To breadcrumb a Venus in Aqua, you want to A) Show that you have your own stuff going on, B) That your stuff is fun and unusual C) Not demanding his presence, but be willing to share.
I will go into some more detail...
We have been on two dates and during both he was very shy and awkward, but really affectionate and telling me lots of interesting things. He is confident with everyone, but awkward around me! He texts me asking how i am and stuff, and then works so much that sometimes it takes him a couple of dates to text again.
On Friday he spent the night at mine but we didn't have sex, he didn't push for it, and Saturday he kept asking me to join him and his friends, but I was already on my way home and really far away.
My best friend works with them and is in a weird situation with her guy, where her guy is ignoring her and she keeps pushing to be with him (she has venus aquarius and sun capricorn), and she is quite offended that she is getting rejected so she said something to offend both of them! I am much more laid back than she is and understand that people need their space, and i don't punish men but rather show them appreciation and love... maybe because I have venus in cancer
We have been on two dates and during both he was very shy and awkward, but really affectionate and telling me lots of interesting things. He is confident with everyone, but awkward around me! He texts me asking how i am and stuff, and then works so much that sometimes it takes him a couple of dates to text again.
On Friday he spent the night at mine but we didn't have sex, he didn't push for it, and Saturday he kept asking me to join him and his friends, but I was already on my way home and really far away.
My best friend works with them and is in a weird situation with her guy, where her guy is ignoring her and she keeps pushing to be with him (she has venus aquarius and sun capricorn), and she is quite offended that she is getting rejected so she said something to offend both of them! I am much more laid back than she is and understand that people need their space, and i don't punish men but rather show them appreciation and love... maybe because I have venus in cancer
Posted by PiscesArt
He is not interrsted in you enough, clearly. If we are really into someone we will always text back and share plans with you.
I'm sorry, I don't agree with this.
Sometimes we are busy, or we are waiting for the person to reach out to us. I know for me, I don't like to bother or annoy anyone, so I usually wait for them to contact me first.
OP- How did you guys meet?
We went dancing my best friend, her two co workers who are male and best friends, and me. She ended up sleeping with her guy and he has since started ignoring her which is making the working environment quite awkward. I have been on two dates with my guy and have not had sex yet, but he runs his own business so he is very busy!
Btw I texted him asking if he was still up for this weekend and he said he may be going home but would let me know :/
Btw I texted him asking if he was still up for this weekend and he said he may be going home but would let me know :/
Posted by PiscesArtPosted by NostalgicCappyI dont bother or annoy anyone too. If you show someone you think about him once a day i dont call it bothering..but showing interest. If you dont reply at all i aint bothering with you at all..men show interest by making connections themselves first. The more they initate contact the more they like you..so therefore i strongly think he is no into her as much as she wants to.Posted by PiscesArt
He is not interrsted in you enough, clearly. If we are really into someone we will always text back and share plans with you.
I'm sorry, I don't agree with this.
Sometimes we are busy, or we are waiting for the person to reach out to us. I know for me, I don't like to bother or annoy anyone, so I usually wait for them to contact me first.
OP- How did you guys meet?
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I also see that you're a Pisces, so I can see why we differ in our opinion. Caps tend to do things differently, and that also comes to communication. To be honest, I usually will not initiate contact at all or maybe every few days or so to check in. If I'm not into them, then I don't reach out at all, and take forever (days, weeks) to even respond.
Posted by mamita
We went dancing my best friend, her two co workers who are male and best friends, and me. She ended up sleeping with her guy and he has since started ignoring her which is making the working environment quite awkward. I have been on two dates with my guy and have not had sex yet, but he runs his own business so he is very busy!
Btw I texted him asking if he was still up for this weekend and he said he may be going home but would let me know :/
In my personal opinion, I think he is interested.
Posted by mamitaAs a Venus in aqua, he is either one of two, or maybe both: Very very busy or not interested. Some times I am interested, but I can't find much time to talk or get away. Other times I am just not interested and do not want to waste my time or the other persons time. I would leave him alone. If he's interested he'll show you he is.
Hello everyone,
Have been on a couple of dates with a sun capricorn guy with venus in aquarius. I realise how aloof they are. My best friend funnily enough is sun capricorn with venus aquarius which is why i know exactly how they can be. He gets really shy around me even though he is confident with everyone else, he compliments me saying how i am the most beautiful woman he has seen in a long time.
He is also quite aloof, and can go various days without answering my texts. I let him initiate more often than me to give him space.
When I saw him on Friday, he said 'ok so see you this weekend, oh i mean uh... maybe this weekend or whenever'. He has not been in touch since, should i reach out and say 'hey are we still on for this weekend?' Or let him come to me? Thank you
Thank you, i know that he is very busy as he is struggling with his business (my friend told me they are all stressed and he is the boss). Ok I will let him be, i've asked if he is free this weekend and he said he will let me know, so leave it at that
Posted by PiscesArtPosted by NostalgicCappyPosted by PiscesArtPosted by NostalgicCappyI dont bother or annoy anyone too. If you show someone you think about him once a day i dont call it bothering..but showing interest. If you dont reply at all i aint bothering with you at all..men show interest by making connections themselves first. The more they initate contact the more they like you..so therefore i strongly think he is no into her as much as she wants to.Posted by PiscesArt
He is not interrsted in you enough, clearly. If we are really into someone we will always text back and share plans with you.
I'm sorry, I don't agree with this.
Sometimes we are busy, or we are waiting for the person to reach out to us. I know for me, I don't like to bother or annoy anyone, so I usually wait for them to contact me first.
OP- How did you guys meet?
I also see that you're a Pisces, so I can see why we differ in our opinion. Caps tend to do things differently, and that also comes to communication. To be honest, I usually will not initiate contact at all or maybe every few days or so to check in. If I'm not into them, then I don't reach out at all, and take forever (days, weeks) to even respond.
If we already talkung about your point of wiew i have a question about capricorns. Do you back of when someone ifnires you becouse you did something wrong to them? And why is it so hard for you to admit you did wrong to someone and apologize for it? It is like you reather dissapear then admit your mistake
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If someone is ignoring me, then I will mirror the action. But, if I like them and they are important to me then I will reach out, one time after a little while and see why they are ignoring me. But, I won't continue to reach out after that if they don't respond. Sometimes, we don't have a clue that we did something wrong, so just be upfront and let us know so we can fix it.
It's easier to disappear, but again if you mean a lot to us then we will definitely be back to apologize. It might take a while, but that's just us sorting out the situation to ourselves.
Posted by mamitaWhat are your placements?
Thank you, i know that he is very busy as he is struggling with his business (my friend told me they are all stressed and he is the boss). Ok I will let him be, i've asked if he is free this weekend and he said he will let me know, so leave it at that
Doesn't matter what sign a person is, people make time for those they are interested in. If he's giving you very little attention, then that means that you are an option and not a priority. There is no ifs and buts to this. Everytime a guy is interested in me, I know because he's consistent in his contact and I have no questions floating in my head. Hot and cold behaviour = you're just an option to not interestedly
if you have virgo and aquarius and pisces in the chart like my mother in law,
and with aqua venus, you're super discriminating and would rather be alone, independent, than be with someone.
your independence is GOLD, number 1, and you covet it. and that's that.
you have to start off really young and in love with someone who has the same causes.....
I think you have to have a CAUSE......
now that I see with my famly members with aqua venus.
you need a cause, to FIGHT for something together.
political, social anything!
this is what I see with Amal Alamuddin.....
she has a cause and her George Clooney husband loves that!! he wants to fight there with her.
and with aqua venus, you're super discriminating and would rather be alone, independent, than be with someone.
your independence is GOLD, number 1, and you covet it. and that's that.
you have to start off really young and in love with someone who has the same causes.....
I think you have to have a CAUSE......
now that I see with my famly members with aqua venus.
you need a cause, to FIGHT for something together.
political, social anything!
this is what I see with Amal Alamuddin.....
she has a cause and her George Clooney husband loves that!! he wants to fight there with her.
hm that video is strange...
but his wife is KNEE DEEP in fighting for a cause....it's SUPER SCARY
but she wants to do it. and he is there with her.
but his wife is KNEE DEEP in fighting for a cause....it's SUPER SCARY
but she wants to do it. and he is there with her.
i'm not sure about men with cap sun/aqua venus though...
but the Pisces sun/aqua venus are with libra venus, and fighting together with their wife into CAUSES.
i'm sure that cap sun with aqua venus is similar.
you should google some guys with this placement if you don't know anyone personal in your life with this.
they seem more aloof than normal, though.
unless they got some scorpio in them, it's gonna be different. You throw in scorpio, and it makes stuff a little more complicated.
but the Pisces sun/aqua venus are with libra venus, and fighting together with their wife into CAUSES.
i'm sure that cap sun with aqua venus is similar.
you should google some guys with this placement if you don't know anyone personal in your life with this.
they seem more aloof than normal, though.
unless they got some scorpio in them, it's gonna be different. You throw in scorpio, and it makes stuff a little more complicated.
Cap guys with Venus in Aquarius tend to be big headaches romantically because they are major Commitmentphobes and tend to have lots of undefined situations with one or more women, these women tend to be very loyal towards him so he never truly is forced to choose. They can be cold romantically once a routine is set in place. They lose interest and will stay in the situation but be completely ambivalent towards the woman he's with therefore putting her in a weak position were she's putting up with his half ass antics b/c she loves him or forcing her out of the relationship with his ambivalent behavior. This is the worse case scenario with this placement.
The upside is they tend to be charming, attentive in the beginning, fun, a little bit mysterious and unpredictable, never boring and good sex.
Women tend to drag it out but from my own personal experience when it gets stale then it's,s time to bale and bolt towards the exit sign or else deal with a very chilly cold ambivalent mind**ck type of male.
The upside is they tend to be charming, attentive in the beginning, fun, a little bit mysterious and unpredictable, never boring and good sex.
Women tend to drag it out but from my own personal experience when it gets stale then it's,s time to bale and bolt towards the exit sign or else deal with a very chilly cold ambivalent mind**ck type of male.
Posted by tiki33
Cap guys with Venus in Aquarius tend to be big headaches romantically because they are major Commitmentphobes and tend to have lots of undefined situations with one or more women, these women tend to be very loyal towards him so he never truly is forced to choose. They can be cold romantically once a routine is set in place. They lose interest and will stay in the situation but be completely ambivalent towards the woman he's with therefore putting her in a weak position were she's putting up with his half ass antics b/c she loves him or forcing her out of the relationship with his ambivalent behavior. This is the worse case scenario with this placement.
The upside is they tend to be charming, attentive in the beginning, fun, a little bit mysterious and unpredictable, never boring and good sex.
Women tend to drag it out but from my own personal experience when it gets stale then it's,s time to bale and bolt towards the exit sign or else deal with a very chilly cold ambivalent mind**ck type of male.
omg...... the only famous Cap sun/Aqua venus guy I researched /remembered is a COMMITMENT PHOBE
he keeps Miley Cyrus on a string....
why can't he commit??
her cancer mars/scorpio moon is HANGING ON.
Don't be discouraged. This placement love a challenge and will chase you to win your interest. Cap males with this placement can be shy but from my personal experience are also extroverts in social settings and leaders which explains his choice to be a business owner.
If he's a very busy man he will still reach out to you if he's busy. They can be very attentive and affectionate but they can also blow very hot in the beginning and then taper off into a very slow simmer which can give a woman the impression that he's no longer intetested, he may still be interested but not ready to give in and give you his energy just yet, his stalling is his way of testing your relationship neediness and temperment. If you seem unphased by his absence he will most likely start to yield and put some energy into getting to know you.
It's okay to reach out to him from time to time but if he's not mutually reciprocating by initiating contact back then he's not that into you, move on.
If he's a very busy man he will still reach out to you if he's busy. They can be very attentive and affectionate but they can also blow very hot in the beginning and then taper off into a very slow simmer which can give a woman the impression that he's no longer intetested, he may still be interested but not ready to give in and give you his energy just yet, his stalling is his way of testing your relationship neediness and temperment. If you seem unphased by his absence he will most likely start to yield and put some energy into getting to know you.
It's okay to reach out to him from time to time but if he's not mutually reciprocating by initiating contact back then he's not that into you, move on.
@lisa. Honestly I think it's because he can get away with it. Miley has a million distractions going on in her life so although she expects commitment she is also committed to herself first, her career, the handlers in her life and family so by the time she recognizes he hasn't married me yet he's already out the door anyway.
They broke up before and although she seems to be making him a priority right now that can change the moment she panics about her career sliding off into oblivion, she will not allow that and he'll already be out the door again.
Cancer women are very good at dealing with a Cap males dark side.
They broke up before and although she seems to be making him a priority right now that can change the moment she panics about her career sliding off into oblivion, she will not allow that and he'll already be out the door again.
Cancer women are very good at dealing with a Cap males dark side.
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