FitNebula
@FitNebula
7 Years
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Welp things are over between me and the aquarius
It would be good to stop contact with these types of aquas. Sorry it didn't work out for you but I wouldn't let him back in your life until he's truly moved on.
Remember these are not cries for help but attention seeking behaviours. If he wanted to die there's no need to show it to anyone and you can only do so much unless he actually sits down and communicates. Don't think of yourself as a victim but an enabler.
If you think back and truly think what you guys have started as friendship then revisit it. But if it was purely FWB at the beginning I'd really question if it's even worth it at all.
Remember these are not cries for help but attention seeking behaviours. If he wanted to die there's no need to show it to anyone and you can only do so much unless he actually sits down and communicates. Don't think of yourself as a victim but an enabler.
If you think back and truly think what you guys have started as friendship then revisit it. But if it was purely FWB at the beginning I'd really question if it's even worth it at all.
Posted by aquasnoz
It would be good to stop contact with these types of aquas. Sorry it didn't work out for you but I wouldn't let him back in your life until he's truly moved on.
Remember these are not cries for help but attention seeking behaviours. If he wanted to die there's no need to show it to anyone and you can only do so much unless he actually sits down and communicates. Don't think of yourself as a victim but an enabler.
If you think back and truly think what you guys have started as friendship then revisit it. But if it was purely FWB at the beginning I'd really question if it's even worth it at all.
Thank you, you are very insightful. I think he is very unstable emotionally. He smokes weed constantly, he's always high. I don't have a problem with weed, but for him he turns into kind of a zoned-out zombie and he just wants to play video games 24/7. I also know he does harder drugs from time to time such as cocaine, he's never done it in front of me but I know he has it in his home.
I really hope he finds stability and gets better, but I don't think he'd ever admit to himself he has a problem.
What do you mean by letting him back in my life when he truly moves on? Moves on from me? That might be a good idea. We did really start out as a friendship. He always had a crush on me but I was never interested until he just became so insistent that I finally gave him a chance and went on a date and totally fell for him. But we were friends first for 2 years.
Thanks for responding and sharing your perspective! I really do appreciate it.
Sorry to hear that. It's been a long rode. Good luck to you with the next relationship.
Posted by FitNebulaPosted by aquasnoz
It would be good to stop contact with these types of aquas. Sorry it didn't work out for you but I wouldn't let him back in your life until he's truly moved on.
Remember these are not cries for help but attention seeking behaviours. If he wanted to die there's no need to show it to anyone and you can only do so much unless he actually sits down and communicates. Don't think of yourself as a victim but an enabler.
If you think back and truly think what you guys have started as friendship then revisit it. But if it was purely FWB at the beginning I'd really question if it's even worth it at all.
Thank you, you are very insightful. I think he is very unstable emotionally. He smokes weed constantly, he's always high. I don't have a problem with weed, but for him he turns into kind of a zoned-out zombie and he just wants to play video games 24/7. I also know he does harder drugs from time to time such as cocaine, he's never done it in front of me but I know he has it in his home.
I really hope he finds stability and gets better, but I don't think he'd ever admit to himself he has a problem.
What do you mean by letting him back in my life when he truly moves on? Moves on from me? That might be a good idea. We did really start out as a friendship. He always had a crush on me but I was never interested until he just became so insistent that I finally gave him a chance and went on a date and totally fell for him. But we were friends first for 2 years.
Thanks for responding and sharing your perspective! I really do appreciate it.click to expand
Just from the way you described it, seems like you still care I'm just an optimist that people can change for the better. I just don't think you're the right person to stick around in his life for that change to occur.
The guy sounds like a pain to be around. "Don't put the plates next to the cups". 😂😂😂
7 years is longer than most marriages. Most of those end so don’t feel too bad
Posted by aquasnozPosted by FitNebulaPosted by aquasnoz
It would be good to stop contact with these types of aquas. Sorry it didn't work out for you but I wouldn't let him back in your life until he's truly moved on.
Remember these are not cries for help but attention seeking behaviours. If he wanted to die there's no need to show it to anyone and you can only do so much unless he actually sits down and communicates. Don't think of yourself as a victim but an enabler.
If you think back and truly think what you guys have started as friendship then revisit it. But if it was purely FWB at the beginning I'd really question if it's even worth it at all.
Thank you, you are very insightful. I think he is very unstable emotionally. He smokes weed constantly, he's always high. I don't have a problem with weed, but for him he turns into kind of a zoned-out zombie and he just wants to play video games 24/7. I also know he does harder drugs from time to time such as cocaine, he's never done it in front of me but I know he has it in his home.
I really hope he finds stability and gets better, but I don't think he'd ever admit to himself he has a problem.
What do you mean by letting him back in my life when he truly moves on? Moves on from me? That might be a good idea. We did really start out as a friendship. He always had a crush on me but I was never interested until he just became so insistent that I finally gave him a chance and went on a date and totally fell for him. But we were friends first for 2 years.
Thanks for responding and sharing your perspective! I really do appreciate it.
Just from the way you described it, seems like you still care I'm just an optimist that people can change for the better. I just don't think you're the right person to stick around in his life for that change to occur.click to expand
I agree people can change! Why don't you think I am the right person to stick around? I did stick around for a long ass time.. lol
Posted by FitNebulaPosted by aquasnozPosted by FitNebulaPosted by aquasnoz
It would be good to stop contact with these types of aquas. Sorry it didn't work out for you but I wouldn't let him back in your life until he's truly moved on.
Remember these are not cries for help but attention seeking behaviours. If he wanted to die there's no need to show it to anyone and you can only do so much unless he actually sits down and communicates. Don't think of yourself as a victim but an enabler.
If you think back and truly think what you guys have started as friendship then revisit it. But if it was purely FWB at the beginning I'd really question if it's even worth it at all.
Thank you, you are very insightful. I think he is very unstable emotionally. He smokes weed constantly, he's always high. I don't have a problem with weed, but for him he turns into kind of a zoned-out zombie and he just wants to play video games 24/7. I also know he does harder drugs from time to time such as cocaine, he's never done it in front of me but I know he has it in his home.
I really hope he finds stability and gets better, but I don't think he'd ever admit to himself he has a problem.
What do you mean by letting him back in my life when he truly moves on? Moves on from me? That might be a good idea. We did really start out as a friendship. He always had a crush on me but I was never interested until he just became so insistent that I finally gave him a chance and went on a date and totally fell for him. But we were friends first for 2 years.
Thanks for responding and sharing your perspective! I really do appreciate it.
Just from the way you described it, seems like you still care I'm just an optimist that people can change for the better. I just don't think you're the right person to stick around in his life for that change to occur.
I agree people can change! Why don't you think I am the right person to stick around? I did stick around for a long ass time.. lolclick to expand
This is just an outsider perspective:
1. He had a crush on you first and made the move
2. It was a mess until you said no more
3. He does a 180 and says okay let's be together (edit: LOL I wrote 360 before, I'm stupid)
4. He doesn't try to be better or compromise for you
5. It ends and he tries to manipulate you into caring again.
You might be in his life for a long ass time, you might know him more intimately than the rest of us and see his redeeming qualities but over the span of 7 years he had not really made a commitment to himself and to you to DO better. Instead he wants you in this perpetual loop of him either feeling sorry for himself or fear of being lonely. By the way that's all speculation he might just be an asshole but no matter how you dice it being in his life seems to bring you misery and him joy.
Posted by aquasnozPosted by FitNebulaPosted by aquasnozPosted by FitNebulaPosted by aquasnoz
It would be good to stop contact with these types of aquas. Sorry it didn't work out for you but I wouldn't let him back in your life until he's truly moved on.
Remember these are not cries for help but attention seeking behaviours. If he wanted to die there's no need to show it to anyone and you can only do so much unless he actually sits down and communicates. Don't think of yourself as a victim but an enabler.
If you think back and truly think what you guys have started as friendship then revisit it. But if it was purely FWB at the beginning I'd really question if it's even worth it at all.
Thank you, you are very insightful. I think he is very unstable emotionally. He smokes weed constantly, he's always high. I don't have a problem with weed, but for him he turns into kind of a zoned-out zombie and he just wants to play video games 24/7. I also know he does harder drugs from time to time such as cocaine, he's never done it in front of me but I know he has it in his home.
I really hope he finds stability and gets better, but I don't think he'd ever admit to himself he has a problem.
What do you mean by letting him back in my life when he truly moves on? Moves on from me? That might be a good idea. We did really start out as a friendship. He always had a crush on me but I was never interested until he just became so insistent that I finally gave him a chance and went on a date and totally fell for him. But we were friends first for 2 years.
Thanks for responding and sharing your perspective! I really do appreciate it.
Just from the way you described it, seems like you still care I'm just an optimist that people can change for the better. I just don't think you're the right person to stick around in his life for that change to occur.
I agree people can change! Why don't you think I am the right person to stick around? I did stick around for a long ass time.. lol
This is just an outsider perspective:
1. He had a crush on you first and made the move
2. It was a mess until you said no more
3. He does a 180 and says okay let's be together (edit: LOL I wrote 360 before, I'm stupid)
4. He doesn't try to be better or compromise for you
5. It ends and he tries to manipulate you into caring again.
You might be in his life for a long ass time, you might know him more intimately than the rest of us and see his redeeming qualities but over the span of 7 years he had not really made a commitment to himself and to you to DO better. Instead he wants you in this perpetual loop of him either feeling sorry for himself or fear of being lonely. By the way that's all speculation he might just be an asshole but no matter how you dice it being in his life seems to bring you misery and him joy.click to expand
Thank you! I think you are pretty spot on! Do you think his message of "You know we aren't together anymore right? I can't see you anymore" was manipulation to make me care again? I mean, I had not tried to contact him in 1 month so he obviously was not too concerned before with whether or not I'd thought we were together. It wasn't until he sent me a snapchat and I responded with a perceived rejection of him that he sent me that message. I guess that's what I'm trying to wrap my head around, maybe it's my own form of closure somehow.. to try to make sense of his weird actions.
But I think the bottom line is he has some sort of emotional/mental issues that he needs to address before he is into any relationship... he's not ready at the moment.. and i'm not going to wait around!
Posted by FitNebulaPosted by aquasnozPosted by FitNebulaPosted by aquasnozPosted by FitNebulaPosted by aquasnoz
It would be good to stop contact with these types of aquas. Sorry it didn't work out for you but I wouldn't let him back in your life until he's truly moved on.
Remember these are not cries for help but attention seeking behaviours. If he wanted to die there's no need to show it to anyone and you can only do so much unless he actually sits down and communicates. Don't think of yourself as a victim but an enabler.
If you think back and truly think what you guys have started as friendship then revisit it. But if it was purely FWB at the beginning I'd really question if it's even worth it at all.
Thank you, you are very insightful. I think he is very unstable emotionally. He smokes weed constantly, he's always high. I don't have a problem with weed, but for him he turns into kind of a zoned-out zombie and he just wants to play video games 24/7. I also know he does harder drugs from time to time such as cocaine, he's never done it in front of me but I know he has it in his home.
I really hope he finds stability and gets better, but I don't think he'd ever admit to himself he has a problem.
What do you mean by letting him back in my life when he truly moves on? Moves on from me? That might be a good idea. We did really start out as a friendship. He always had a crush on me but I was never interested until he just became so insistent that I finally gave him a chance and went on a date and totally fell for him. But we were friends first for 2 years.
Thanks for responding and sharing your perspective! I really do appreciate it.
Just from the way you described it, seems like you still care I'm just an optimist that people can change for the better. I just don't think you're the right person to stick around in his life for that change to occur.
I agree people can change! Why don't you think I am the right person to stick around? I did stick around for a long ass time.. lol
This is just an outsider perspective:
1. He had a crush on you first and made the move
2. It was a mess until you said no more
3. He does a 180 and says okay let's be together (edit: LOL I wrote 360 before, I'm stupid)
4. He doesn't try to be better or compromise for you
5. It ends and he tries to manipulate you into caring again.
You might be in his life for a long ass time, you might know him more intimately than the rest of us and see his redeeming qualities but over the span of 7 years he had not really made a commitment to himself and to you to DO better. Instead he wants you in this perpetual loop of him either feeling sorry for himself or fear of being lonely. By the way that's all speculation he might just be an asshole but no matter how you dice it being in his life seems to bring you misery and him joy.
Thank you! I think you are pretty spot on! Do you think his message of "You know we aren't together anymore right? I can't see you anymore" was manipulation to make me care again? I mean, I had not tried to contact him in 1 month so he obviously was not too concerned before with whether or not I'd thought we were together. It wasn't until he sent me a snapchat and I responded with a perceived rejection of him that he sent me that message. I guess that's what I'm trying to wrap my head around, maybe it's my own form of closure somehow.. to try to make sense of his weird actions.
But I think the bottom line is he has some sort of emotional/mental issues that he needs to address before he is into any relationship... he's not ready at the moment.. and i'm not going to wait around!click to expand
Well I mean I don't think there's a point in working it out.
The only viable reason I can think of is he's placing the thought in your head to make you doubt yourself or actually stating is as a question to see if you've taken your words back possibly due to the fact it's worked before or you've changed your mind before.
Posted by aquasnozPosted by FitNebulaPosted by aquasnozPosted by FitNebulaPosted by aquasnozPosted by FitNebulaPosted by aquasnoz
It would be good to stop contact with these types of aquas. Sorry it didn't work out for you but I wouldn't let him back in your life until he's truly moved on.
Remember these are not cries for help but attention seeking behaviours. If he wanted to die there's no need to show it to anyone and you can only do so much unless he actually sits down and communicates. Don't think of yourself as a victim but an enabler.
If you think back and truly think what you guys have started as friendship then revisit it. But if it was purely FWB at the beginning I'd really question if it's even worth it at all.
Thank you, you are very insightful. I think he is very unstable emotionally. He smokes weed constantly, he's always high. I don't have a problem with weed, but for him he turns into kind of a zoned-out zombie and he just wants to play video games 24/7. I also know he does harder drugs from time to time such as cocaine, he's never done it in front of me but I know he has it in his home.
I really hope he finds stability and gets better, but I don't think he'd ever admit to himself he has a problem.
What do you mean by letting him back in my life when he truly moves on? Moves on from me? That might be a good idea. We did really start out as a friendship. He always had a crush on me but I was never interested until he just became so insistent that I finally gave him a chance and went on a date and totally fell for him. But we were friends first for 2 years.
Thanks for responding and sharing your perspective! I really do appreciate it.
Just from the way you described it, seems like you still care I'm just an optimist that people can change for the better. I just don't think you're the right person to stick around in his life for that change to occur.
I agree people can change! Why don't you think I am the right person to stick around? I did stick around for a long ass time.. lol
This is just an outsider perspective:
1. He had a crush on you first and made the move
2. It was a mess until you said no more
3. He does a 180 and says okay let's be together (edit: LOL I wrote 360 before, I'm stupid)
4. He doesn't try to be better or compromise for you
5. It ends and he tries to manipulate you into caring again.
You might be in his life for a long ass time, you might know him more intimately than the rest of us and see his redeeming qualities but over the span of 7 years he had not really made a commitment to himself and to you to DO better. Instead he wants you in this perpetual loop of him either feeling sorry for himself or fear of being lonely. By the way that's all speculation he might just be an asshole but no matter how you dice it being in his life seems to bring you misery and him joy.
Thank you! I think you are pretty spot on! Do you think his message of "You know we aren't together anymore right? I can't see you anymore" was manipulation to make me care again? I mean, I had not tried to contact him in 1 month so he obviously was not too concerned before with whether or not I'd thought we were together. It wasn't until he sent me a snapchat and I responded with a perceived rejection of him that he sent me that message. I guess that's what I'm trying to wrap my head around, maybe it's my own form of closure somehow.. to try to make sense of his weird actions.
But I think the bottom line is he has some sort of emotional/mental issues that he needs to address before he is into any relationship... he's not ready at the moment.. and i'm not going to wait around!
Well I mean I don't think there's a point in working it out.
The only viable reason I can think of is he's placing the thought in your head to make you doubt yourself or actually stating is as a question to see if you've taken your words back possibly due to the fact it's worked before or you've changed your mind before.click to expand
Yeah, those are possible reasons. I guess it doesn't really matter now anyway.. thank you for all your insight 🙂
I agree with this. Listen to this advice.
All i know, these type of aquas are truly attention seekers. I met one tho it wasnt that extremely crazy as your ex aqua.
At least you know now than later in 20 or 30 years. U can count 12 years is a long time already.
Dont be sad! Time will heal. Its easier than done. But everybody has been and done that before. U can do it once again.
Posted by aquasnoz
It would be good to stop contact with these types of aquas. Sorry it didn't work out for you but I wouldn't let him back in your life until he's truly moved on.
Remember these are not cries for help but attention seeking behaviours. If he wanted to die there's no need to show it to anyone and you can only do so much unless he actually sits down and communicates. Don't think of yourself as a victim but an enabler.
If you think back and truly think what you guys have started as friendship then revisit it. But if it was purely FWB at the beginning I'd really question if it's even worth it at all.
Any other insights ?
Posted by Lioness888Posted by FitNebula
Any other insights ?
Are you coping ok with all of this? I can't imagine it would be easy after so longclick to expand
Aw thanks for asking! I’m actually fine and I’ve been really happy this past month. I am getting over him, despite me still posting here. Part of me hopes he comes back but at the same time I know he’s not right for me. Another part of me hopes he will change and become self-aware so that we can be in a normal relationship, but I doubt that will happen. It’s tough because at rare times he can be so great and normal, but those times are few and far in between, and he’s usually moody and makes me feel like I’ve done something wrong. I feel a lot healthier and happier without that roller coaster ride in my life and all the mental games... although part of me misses it, but not as much as I thought! I just wish he would wake up and learn from his mistakes but I think that’s wishful thinking on my part.
Thanks for responding!
I noticed you're always focus on his bad behaviours.
I bet he can write a book about your bad behaviours if he wanted to.
I bet he can write a book about your bad behaviours if he wanted to.
He sounds like a piece of shit. The " um no " part was hilarious!
Posted by ThrasybulusPosted by AerialView
I noticed you're always focus on his bad behaviours.
I bet he can write a book about your bad behaviours if he wanted to.
Couldn't we all about each other but what would be the point?click to expand
The point is I'm tired with these kind of threads.
Talking about how bad their Aquarius was.
They only come when they need help. So selfish.
Why can't people come here make a thread after their Aquarius give them presents or just after having a simple wonderful day.
Posted by Lioness888Posted by FitNebulaPosted by Lioness888Posted by FitNebula
Any other insights ?
Are you coping ok with all of this? I can't imagine it would be easy after so long
Aw thanks for asking! I’m actually fine and I’ve been really happy this past month. I am getting over him, despite me still posting here. Part of me hopes he comes back but at the same time I know he’s not right for me. Another part of me hopes he will change and become self-aware so that we can be in a normal relationship, but I doubt that will happen. It’s tough because at rare times he can be so great and normal, but those times are few and far in between, and he’s usually moody and makes me feel like I’ve done something wrong. I feel a lot healthier and happier without that roller coaster ride in my life and all the mental games... although part of me misses it, but not as much as I thought! I just wish he would wake up and learn from his mistakes but I think that’s wishful thinking on my part.
Thanks for responding!
Well it's good that you're doing ok. Out of sight out of mind helps sometimes. I don't think people change though. They are just the way they are. If you want them to change, it's because you don't like them the way they are and want them to be someone they're not. It's frustrating when it's just something simple though. Maybe he will grow up eventually, maybe not. I guess if there's more bad than good, you will just burn out dealing with it eventually. Anyway, i hope you find peace with it and the happiness you deserve, even if it's with someone else.
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Aw thank you, you’re very sweet! Yeah, I agree, I think I was only chasing the good feelings he gave me from time to time, but it was mostly bad. If the bad outweighs the good.. then it’s just not gonna work! Whenever someone asked me why I’m with him and what I liked about him, I genuinely did not have a good answer. I still truthfully don’t know what quality I liked about him... I think I just liked the excitement. When someone treats you poorly, then you crave their acceptance and the times where they treat you well, which is what I was craving. It’s like a drug... trying to chase that one high you’ve gotten before but you can’t quite get there again.
Posted by AerialViewPosted by ThrasybulusPosted by AerialView
I noticed you're always focus on his bad behaviours.
I bet he can write a book about your bad behaviours if he wanted to.
Couldn't we all about each other but what would be the point?
The point is I'm tired with these kind of threads.
Talking about how bad their Aquarius was.
They only come when they need help. So selfish.
Why can't people come here make a thread after their Aquarius give them presents or just after having a simple wonderful day.click to expand
I see where you’re coming from. I really do only come here when I need help... I guess I don’t think to post unless I’m wondering about some sort of behavior.
But, I don’t think he could’ve written even a page about my bad behaviors. I treated him very well overall, although there were a few times I messed up, for which I always apologized and tried to be better.
Posted by Sag898
He sounds like a piece of shit. The " um no " part was hilarious!
He is. Lol thanks I’m glad you liked it!
Posted by ThrasybulusPosted by AerialViewPosted by ThrasybulusPosted by AerialView
I noticed you're always focus on his bad behaviours.
I bet he can write a book about your bad behaviours if he wanted to.
Couldn't we all about each other but what would be the point?
The point is I'm tired with these kind of threads.
Talking about how bad their Aquarius was.
They only come when they need help. So selfish.
Why can't people come here make a thread after their Aquarius give them presents or just after having a simple wonderful day.
I get that but that's not how the human mind nor the internet works.
Besides, isn't the desire for praise, even if it's just your sign, also quite selfish?
Our job and role here is to help. Be it by listening or providing a new perspective.
We are not forced to do so and could always just stay away or choose not to answer.
It's only negativity if you allow it to affect you.click to expand
Pfffft💨
Posted by Lioness888Posted by FitNebulaPosted by Lioness888Posted by FitNebulaPosted by Lioness888Posted by FitNebula
Any other insights ?
Are you coping ok with all of this? I can't imagine it would be easy after so long
Aw thanks for asking! I’m actually fine and I’ve been really happy this past month. I am getting over him, despite me still posting here. Part of me hopes he comes back but at the same time I know he’s not right for me. Another part of me hopes he will change and become self-aware so that we can be in a normal relationship, but I doubt that will happen. It’s tough because at rare times he can be so great and normal, but those times are few and far in between, and he’s usually moody and makes me feel like I’ve done something wrong. I feel a lot healthier and happier without that roller coaster ride in my life and all the mental games... although part of me misses it, but not as much as I thought! I just wish he would wake up and learn from his mistakes but I think that’s wishful thinking on my part.
Thanks for responding!
Well it's good that you're doing ok. Out of sight out of mind helps sometimes. I don't think people change though. They are just the way they are. If you want them to change, it's because you don't like them the way they are and want them to be someone they're not. It's frustrating when it's just something simple though. Maybe he will grow up eventually, maybe not. I guess if there's more bad than good, you will just burn out dealing with it eventually. Anyway, i hope you find peace with it and the happiness you deserve, even if it's with someone else.
Aw thank you, you’re very sweet! Yeah, I agree, I think I was only chasing the good feelings he gave me from time to time, but it was mostly bad. If the bad outweighs the good.. then it’s just not gonna work! Whenever someone asked me why I’m with him and what I liked about him, I genuinely did not have a good answer. I still truthfully don’t know what quality I liked about him... I think I just liked the excitement. When someone treats you poorly, then you crave their acceptance and the times where they treat you well, which is what I was craving. It’s like a drug... trying to chase that one high you’ve gotten before but you can’t quite get there again.
It's weird how one good feeling or memory holds more weight than a hundred shit ones sometimes. It's like being an eternal optimist and just hoping for something that might never come. I don't know why we do thatclick to expand
That’s exaxtly it!! I mean, we did have a lot of really good moments but we had more bad ones.. or at least I did anyway. So unfortunate how logic goes out the window when it comes to feelings lol
Posted by FitNebulaPosted by Sag898
He sounds like a piece of shit. The " um no " part was hilarious!
He is. Lol thanks I’m glad you liked it!click to expand
Yeah I think you did the right thing lol
Posted by Lioness888Posted by AerialViewPosted by ThrasybulusPosted by AerialView
I noticed you're always focus on his bad behaviours.
I bet he can write a book about your bad behaviours if he wanted to.
Couldn't we all about each other but what would be the point?
The point is I'm tired with these kind of threads.
Talking about how bad their Aquarius was.
They only come when they need help. So selfish.
Why can't people come here make a thread after their Aquarius give them presents or just after having a simple wonderful day.
Maybe because they don't do that stuff. 😝
Lol. Here's a nice one so you feel better: My first aqua was a sweetheart. He bought me presents and held hands and took me on dates and was close to perfect and said I love you long time everyday. I was young and not ready for a relationship. So that was my fault. 2nd one was karma 😂click to expand
Your first Aqua sounds so much like me. I bet he has a Pisces Venus!
Posted by Lioness888Posted by AerialViewPosted by Lioness888Posted by AerialViewPosted by ThrasybulusPosted by AerialView
I noticed you're always focus on his bad behaviours.
I bet he can write a book about your bad behaviours if he wanted to.
Couldn't we all about each other but what would be the point?
The point is I'm tired with these kind of threads.
Talking about how bad their Aquarius was.
They only come when they need help. So selfish.
Why can't people come here make a thread after their Aquarius give them presents or just after having a simple wonderful day.
Maybe because they don't do that stuff. 😝
Lol. Here's a nice one so you feel better: My first aqua was a sweetheart. He bought me presents and held hands and took me on dates and was close to perfect and said I love you long time everyday. I was young and not ready for a relationship. So that was my fault. 2nd one was karma 😂
Your first Aqua sounds so much like me. I bet he has a Pisces Venus!
Yep. Aqua sun, leo moon, aqua mercury, Pisces venus and aqua mars.
2nd one was the same but auqa venus and pisces mars instead. 2nd one held was sweet in the beginning and came over with chocolate and chips and lollies and stuff when it was that time of the month so he was sweet too but he was annoying and tried to make me mad on purpose because he thought it was funny. He's a great guy but not very good at being a boyfriend and a bit selfish. First one was 10 times better but he's married with a kid now.click to expand
My condolences 😜
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This guy is funny...love his laugh when he talks about "awesome but paranoid Scorpios"😲😀 and he really does not like Geminis! 😬
Enjoy 😊
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XfPcpkDShqQ
I had posted twice before asking about my Aqua ex and received great insight and advice. I’ve been doing some soul searching and, truthfully, came to some realizations about things I need to work on.
I ended it with my ex in May. I reached out via email
A lot of the stuff I’ve read about aquas hints at, or even blatantly spells out, that y’all cheaters, and have no problem cheating on someone if something better comes along.
As an aqua, (or aqua influenced) how do you feel about that label?
. He’s been lying and cheating. I put him out two months ago but up until a week ago we still were seeing one another off and on. Well I pretty much figured out he was seeing someone from his past. Of course he lied and justified. We’ve argued for the las
I posted a few days ago about a breakup and potential reconciliation and got great feedback. Now I'm curious, how do Aqua guys handle breakups?
The ex is 35 and sun: aqua, moon: scorp, ascend: gemini, venus & mars: pisces. I was his second ever and lon
Hi all,
I’m new to the forum but have been perusing the last week or so. I have a bit of a long story, if any of you can offer insight.
Background:
Me: 34(f), sun: scorp, ascend: leo, moon: gemini, venus & mars: libra
Ex: 35(m), sun: aqua, ascen
ave an Aquarius friend that comes to me for advice and while I usually have all the answers I don’t this time.
My aqua has been dating a Leo for about an year. They broke up a couple months into the relationship because he said he felt he should feel
I know all of you are experts 🤣 So, I have a topic to discuss.
OK, most probably its normal for aquas to block and delete people from social media. It mostly means, im done with u, im not interested with u, i moved on, etc.
So, is there any aquas
Will try to hv a video call wd my aqua today. I hope he takes it. We never had a video call. Never met him even. But want to look him straight into the eyes. Say i hate you. Very calmly. Then shut the call.
No drama. No explanation of why he vanished
So, I’ve been with my aqua for a year! Friday we talked as usual when he told me he’s so tired and and I told him he should go hangout with his buddies so he said was gonna watch the game with them. I came home to see mom for the weekend. He didnt text me
If you wanna get to know better Aquarius ask me. I will try to give you more information why we act or say some stuff.
But remember not every Aqua is the same.
Yes,I am weird and I do strange things. But we Aquarius are not so diffucult.
We want friends,freedom and peace
:P
Hey all,
My long time Aquarius friend has thrown me for a bit of a loop lately. Ive posted about him before and how I had had feelings for him but recently moved on.
When I told him I was going across country to see my new flame, he got all weird and s
I don't have the birth time but I was wondering if this chart would be a promiscuous person or someone who may be prone to celibacy. I thought she would be promicuous but Saturn touches alot of her planets so I'm not sure.
I was seeing and talking with an Aquarius for about four months and everything seemed to be fine from what I understood. Then one night she introduced me to her friends and invited me stay over her place for the first time, everything was fine that night
Does it hang a bit to the left?
I'm always surprised by my own ignorance and my stupidity and obliviousness but that's why we have youtube right? Makes me wonder. I'm expecting Aquas to lean to the left but prove me wrong here.
Like with my earlier post i am giving a bit by bit insight into handling Aqua people. And it is true. Ladies justttt need to be super patient with Aquas. When they start adding you in inner circle you WILL KNOW. they will be super expressive.... saying
We were 'official' for 4 months. It was another rollercoaster. He is a terrible communicator, we had a few issues but overall things were fine.. but I was starting to realize this isn't what I want. He just doesn't communicate, and I'm not the best at it either. I felt like maybe we aren't super compatible.
I last saw him 1 month ago when he invited me over all day for a BBQ and we invited our friends. He acted kind of odd, although I guess normal for him... he just kinda treated me as a friend. I still slept over, we didn't have sex. He was also nagging me about silly things like getting annoyed that I was playing monopoly incorrectly (we were all drinking and not really paying attention) to the point that our friends told him to calm down. In the morning, I offered to help clean up, he told me to unload the dishwasher. I put the plates away and he freaked out because I put them by the cups, which is apparently the wrong spot.
Anyway, I left and neither of us texted or got in contact with each other at all. 4 weeks went by. This past Saturday, he was super drunk and kept posting "snapchat stories" -- I didn't view any of them (they are public and he can see who views them). Eventually, I posted a "snapchat story" of some of our mutual friends at our house playing cards against humanity. He immediately sends me a snapchat of himself singing that song "Jack and Diane" - this is the first contact I'd had from him in a month. I responded with a snapchat of my friend and I wrote "Um no" (maybe immature but I am just emotionally drained from his comings and goings).
He immediately messages me saying: "you know we aren't officially together or anything anymore right? I can't see you anymore." I responded and just said "Lol yeah obviously" and he said "ok" and that was that.
It seemed like he was trying to be cruel because my "um no" made him mad. OH well.
He was super drunk and probably doing drugs. The next day, he posted a video of himself driving at 140mph. He filmed himself while driving that fast. He looked at the camera and had this weird smirk, it was honestly super creepy and almost seemed like a cry for help. It reminded me of one of those videos of people doing something super reckless and then dying. I feel like maybe he's having a mental breakdown or going through something but it's not really my problem anymore I guess.
I don't know if he'll be back. I'm moving 0.4 miles from him because that's where the condo I bought months ago is located. Maybe I'll see him around. It's sad that our 12 year friendship ended this way but what can I do? I guess we've ended before and he's come back, but I'm definitely not going to initiate...
*sigh* well that's my story. Thanks for reading.. :\