How do they handle breakups?

I posted a few days ago about a breakup and potential reconciliation and got great feedback. Now I'm curious, how do Aqua guys handle breakups?

The ex is 35 and sun: aqua, moon: scorp, ascend: gemini, venus & mars: pisces. I was his second ever and longest relationship - 3 years. I ended it because we want different levels of commitment.

Any insight on Aqua/Scorp moon guys?

Edited to add: Pretty sure his conquest number is low...as in I might have been his 3rd or 4th. Whereas my number is...many, many times that. Hehehe.

Alcohol + prostitutes

"I'm not breaking up with you!" "We are going to be friends forever!" 😛

Posted by Whorpio
Alcohol + prostitutes

He's a non-drinker. But never too early to start?

Also, I LOVE your screen name and description!! 😄

I don't handle breakups. I move on and not think about it.

Posted by AerialView
I don't handle breakups. I move on and not think about it.

That's kind of what I figured. Does the emotion ever seem to bubble back up and get to you?

Posted by MsScorp07

Posted by AerialView
I don't handle breakups. I move on and not think about it.

That's kind of what I figured. Does the emotion ever seem to bubble back up and get to you?

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Yes of course. But I have a strong mind.

When thing goes wrong I usually use my head more.

My aqua ex did a fade out. Slowly communicated less and less. Said he was insanely busy with work and haven’t seen him in many months. But he has no problem social stalking me all day long. Never understood why. But just kinda take it as a compliment and that is all.

Posted by Whorpio
Alcohol + prostitutes

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the aqua that i know is like this literally.... prostitues n alcohol. I thought it was a joke til i saw it n u mentioned it here lol

Posted by swagnotforsale

Posted by Whorpio
Alcohol + prostitutes

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the aqua that i know is like this literally.... prostitues n alcohol. I thought it was a joke til i saw it n u mentioned it here lol

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It’s sorta funny because my former aqua fwb “recovered” at a cathouse I was working at (before I worked there tho) and he told me that he had gotten way more drunk than he usually does that night. All I was thinking was “Should I tell him we slip extra party favors into drinks or nah?”

One of my best aqua friends was staying at my house when his girlfriend broke up with him. I have never seen anyone so depressed. He didn’t eat or laughed or anything. He just wanted to sleep. That lasted a month but he didn’t contact her. After that he didn’t want to be in any serious relationship. He was really a Casanova, lol. But finally he has found the one years later 😄

Like changing breast milk for powder milk (hmm, this tastes a bit different...🤨 naaaah it's still good enough - sip sip sip sip 👶).

Posted by pisceswoman123
One of my best aqua friends was staying at my house when his girlfriend broke up with him. I have never seen anyone so depressed. He didn’t eat or laughed or anything. He just wanted to sleep. That lasted a month but he didn’t contact her. After that he didn’t want to be in any serious relationship. He was really a Casanova, lol. But finally he has found the one years later 😄

Was it you the one? 😄

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Posted by pisceswoman123
One of my best aqua friends was staying at my house when his girlfriend broke up with him. I have never seen anyone so depressed. He didn’t eat or laughed or anything. He just wanted to sleep. That lasted a month but he didn’t contact her. After that he didn’t want to be in any serious relationship. He was really a Casanova, lol. But finally he has found the one years later 😄

Was it you the one? 😄

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No no no 😄 He is just a good friend

Sun in Aquarius

Moon in Leo

Mercury in Pisces

Venus in Capricorn

Mars in Taurus

All I know is a couple of things from post breakup:

His aunt messaged my mom (we were close) after the breakup and said how much she liked me, etc. She said that he told her we were no longer together. She said he didn’t say much, she didn’t ask ?s and that he can be “very quiet.”

The following Saturday, he picked up his stuff from my package room. The package room attendant had met him a number of times before. She said he was very closed off and just...blank/stone-faced.

I emailed him about 3 weeks ago hoping to meet. He said he wasn’t interested so I’m respecting his wishes (for now, at least). Id like to reach out but figure he might need some time to cool down.

Thank you all for the insight you provided 😁

Posted by Undine

"I'm not breaking up with you!" "We are going to be friends forever!" 😛

Basically. I broke up with an Aquarius last Thursday, spent the weekend across the state, and she said she doesn't ever want to lose me from her life. I'm chill with being friends, I care a lot about her. Come home Monday, she "runs into me" at the one place she knew she'd find me in public. Gets teary-eyed, says she can't be there in public, asks me to go for a walk. We sit down on the bench, talk about our futures apart, how much she saw in me and how grateful she is for me, then leans her head on my shoulder. Then she grabs my hand. Then she asks me to tell her if I start seeing someone else. I go to hug her before I leave and she steals a kiss. Now she says we don't have to define ourselves as a label, but she's considering us to be casually "seeing" each other. Things are interesting in the immediate post-breakup realm of the Aquarius, but it'll get clearer as she goes aloof.