What does it mean when Aquarious male friend zoned me? (Page 2)

@TrueFantacy Thank you for your input, it's greatly appreciated.

No, but I can find out...how do you do this?

Awesome, will do right now!

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Interesting since cancer is one of THE most emotional signs and Aquas are known for the exact opposite.

Have you dated other watery people?
Like what the rest have said its best to find someone else who won't crush your feelings by friend zoning you. All the best.

gimme a break, i was emotional too when the love of my life (my ex husband) tore my heart to pieces.

his chart also has WATER. if you can't see this after ALL this time studying astrology then you're blind.

Wow....IM STILL LEARNING. Can't believe you would say that. I thought you were mature with your responses and you say that to me— Everyone makes false claims.

wow so easily fickle. if you like me, you'll like all the good and the bad of me. if you only like the good parts of me, then it's not complete.

and i didnt even call you names, i just said that if you've been learning a long time, you would know it's more than sun sign and other placements.

i got sensitive to the comment because i saw that his chart had water and is why she is attracted to him and vice versa.

Fickle? Hmmm. I obviously do know about other placememts. I'm not ignorant ya know.... Astrology is super complicated so I have every right to mess it up since humans are complex.

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well i'm just very expressive and get sensitive. and i notice you got sensitive too. so well, we mirrored.

Posted by Luv2cmoon
My ex husband was a triple Gemini....man what the hell is wrong with me...I just want a Scorpio!!!!! They are not attracted to me!!

are you serious??

well there are cancer sun women who are HAPPY with air sun men.

i've researched and seen quite alot.

EDIT -

Gemini sun Marky Mark Wahlberg with his beautiful Cancer sun wife:

I have it on my screen, now what?

here is a nice interaction we can see with Gemini sun Mark with his lovely wife:

EDIT damn they have a nice mansion. lol 😛

@lisabethur8 very cool, but he was too airy for me, but we had fun

Posted by Luv2cmoon
@lisabethur8 very cool, but he was too airy for me, but we had fun

lol

really?

what did he do that was so airy to you?

EDIT i mean you just dont leave a relationship because he's "airy" so want to understand this concept.

Posted by Luv2cmoon
Then I must have read his signals wrong because he's been the one that was persuing me. He would call and text constantly. We dated consistantly and often. I just dont get what I could of done to get friend zoned. Even now he texts me once a day and we still are hanging out. Aquariouses are perplexing to say the least. But in the end he's worth it because he is brilliant and I need to be around it. I hope I can get some more suggestions on what could have caused this. Thanks!

you see in this comment here earlier you said that you want to be around him because he's basically a genius to you and you need to be around that.

so with your triple gemini ex husband, why did you leave? was it becaue he was not genius enough or flighty too much?

Too much in his head, and when I would get emotional or needy, he disliked it and would not comfort me...I consider myself "spiritual" and he had no tolerance for any of my passions in this area ie. astrology.

He was highly intelligent but was on a lower caliber of the sign...he had fire in his sign which made him violent at times....I was VERY attracted to him..I was obsessed...sort of whats happening with Aqua, but in the end we were very incompatible and things went down the drain.

But we laughed and had fun...

Posted by Luv2cmoon
Too much in his head, and when I would get emotional or needy, he disliked it and would not comfort me...I consider myself "spiritual" and he had no tolerance for any of my passions in this area ie. astrology.

oh that's not good.

no tolerance for your interests. Sounds controlling.

Posted by Luv2cmoon
He was highly intelligent but was on a lower caliber of the sign...he had fire in his sign which made him violent at times....I was VERY attracted to him..I was obsessed...sort of whats happening with Aqua, but in the end we were very incompatible and things went down the drain.

fire /air combo is a horrible one, but i think that has to do with alot of squares/opposite in the charts. as i get more into astrology the trines in charts, are more easy peasy.

similar to how mel gibson has his crazy rants and goes out of control and hits a woman.

he has squares in his personal planets.

squares/oppositions are tough on people.

and if you feel that he was incompatible with you, dont you feel too that this aqua is going down the same road??

Posted by Luv2cmoon
My ex husband was a triple Gemini....man what the hell is wrong with me...I just want a Scorpio!!!!! They are not attracted to me!!

plus if you think like this, then you assume all scorpios are the same. there are airy scorpios too you know...

and the other day i did some research on Albert Camus, and he is really airy and never monoagamous and he's very unfaithful.

he would make women CRY i bet because he was never monogamous and had many affairs with women outside his marriage.

EDIT that's NOT to say that airy dominant folks can't be monoagmous/faithful by the way....just because he's an airy fairy Scorpio.

but the way you talk, it's like, you are into cat lady astrology, and not really being REALISTIC.

which is why you are with air dominant guys.... something to ponder on.

@lisabethur8 Good questions your asking...Your right about how bad it could get with Aqua man...but I guess we'll never know. About the Scorpio comment, you're right again... So dam, who compatible to me? Should I join a monastery? I know the answers are not easy...I think have to learn to pull back and not dive head first...that is what you guys are helping me learn. I can't tell you HOW GRATEFUL I AM FOR THE ADVISE AND TIME YOU HAVE TAKEN TO GIVE... very emotional because this humanity helping each other and it melts my heart.

It's as if you guys are helping me see the reality through astrology ... which is helping me cool the fires for this aqua man.

Posted by Luv2cmoon
@lisabethur8 Good questions your asking...Your right about how bad it could get with Aqua man...but I guess we'll never know. About the Scorpio comment, you're right again... So dam, who compatible to me? Should I join a monastery? I know the answers are not easy...I think have to learn to pull back and not dive head first...that is what you guys are helping me learn. I can't tell you HOW GRATEFUL I AM FOR THE ADVISE AND TIME YOU HAVE TAKEN TO GIVE... very emotional because this humanity helping each other and it melts my heart.

ugh...i re read what i wrote....

i didnt also mean that air dominant guys are bad to be with .....*smh*

i've seen couples who are both airy dominant and happy and monogamous.

aw. you do have saturn in aquarius 11th house. you really like it when people help eachother.

Saturn Aries in 11th

Posted by Luv2cmoon
It's as if you guys are helping me see the reality through astrology ... which is helping me cool the fires for this aqua man.

if he chases you, then it's GOOD.

but i hope if he does, he is ready to give you a home and he has a good career so you can both start a family.

good luck!!

The Gemini stayed with me for 12 years and never cheated, only towards the end , which I expected it.
He was committed

I was thinking someone with a fire or air sun but with a Taurus or Cancer/Pisces Moon.

I'm really TURNED ON by Libras... so maybe Libra with water moon? Libras are attracted to me too.

@lisabethur8 that Scorpio I'm with, Airy Scorpio and his Scorpio stellium lives in the 2nd house.

@Gennie you've been so supportive... thank you so much!!!!

Posted by Luv2cmoon
The Gemini stayed with me for 12 years and never cheated, only towards the end , which I expected it.
He was committed

you expected it? 😢

which might mean you both may have lost love for eachother, and lost respect.

no one just stops being committed out of the blue unless they broke up or what i mentioned above...that they just lost respect.

Yes, it was a very sad break up...very sad...

It was the longest relationship I ever had and I felt loved by him...

I met a Scorpio on Zoosk and I'm supposed to call him in an hour....ANY ADVISE GIRLS?

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@lisabethur8 that Scorpio I'm with, Airy Scorpio and his Scorpio stellium lives in the 2nd house.

thanks for that, Gennie.

I notice that OP likes your air dominant responses, that shows she likes air dominant folks, i mean she will be more EASY PEASY with them.

Posted by Luv2cmoon
I'm really TURNED ON by Libras... so maybe Libra with water moon? Libras are attracted to me too.

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i see that, because of your libra mars.

to be honest, in real life, alot of people i know with libra mars, whether that's my family members or friends of theirs, ect are with libras. Even my sister has 7th house mars, she's with a libra. It's the persona planets.

even with David Bowie who has Moon, Jupiter, venus in 7th was married to a Libra Moon.

and Warren Beatty is a 7th house sun and venus is with a Libra moon. Sometimes, they are with either Libra sun or Moon, or libra dominant.

What moon placement would be compatible as well as mars venus?

Posted by Luv2cmoon
I met a Scorpio on Zoosk and I'm supposed to call him in an hour....ANY ADVISE GIRLS?

gosh you're fast.

😕

i thought you were all over the aqua man??

you arent even SERIOUS with him truly if you are hunting other guys.

No offense,but if i loved someone, and wanted him to love me, i would not be hunting some guys. unless i knew for sure that guy did not want me. then i have to MOVE ON.

but your post/topic was all about him and you just easily move on—

EDIT i mean you're on the prowl for new men so fast.

i guess you expected this...??

so you signed up for that website to meet men.

I haven't moved on.. just taking the advise of those who said that I should start dating other people to move on...believe, its not easy, just trying distract my mind away from Aqua 😢

I want the Aqua, but from all the posts I've read so far...its better for me to move on and just keep him as a friend

But @luv2cmoon is also a Scorpio Moon, so take her Sun and her Moon and she fairly wallows in emotion. Her Mercury is in Cancer too, she communicates via intuitive feeling.

At this point, since the Aqua is putting so little effort, move along. You'll have some problems with the Aqua as well where you'll be sentimental and emotive and hes gonna be like "naw, naw" HIs Mercury is Aqua, he will communicate on an intellectual level, kinda like debative. GOod for friends, harsh in a relationship when all you want is cuddles

Posted by Luv2cmoon
I haven't moved on.. just taking the advise of those who said that I should start dating other people to move on...believe, its not easy, just trying distract my mind away from Aqua 😢

you mean while we were on this topic you went and signed up on that website to meet guys already—

O,o

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I haven't moved on.. just taking the advise of those who said that I should start dating other people to move on...believe, its not easy, just trying distract my mind away from Aqua 😢

you mean while we were on this topic you went and signed up on that website to meet guys already—

O,o

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She already had one foot out the door from the Friendzone, our little chick just needed a push out of the nest.

LOL no... I had an account..thats how I meet Aqua! I was lucky..brilliant person. Once he put me in the friendzone.... I felt I had to move on because I was uncomfortable with the whole situation so I wanted to distract myself

Posted by Luv2cmoon
I want the Aqua, but from all the posts I've read so far...its better for me to move on and just keep him as a friend

keep him as a friend??

are you serious?

why not cut hin off completely?? if you really want to move on.

your feelings are gonna be cray if you see him alot.

LOL!!! You guys are amazing!!! @Gennie you made me laugh so hard...
Here's the thing...when I met his friends..we made arrangements for a dinner party at my house, so I cant back out now, but once that's over...@Gennie how should I start to disconnect to make his head spin?

Contrary to the Scorpio type cast...I'm not looking for revenge....honest! LOL

YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN A LIFESAVER...DID I TELL YOU I LOVE YOU??

Posted by Luv2cmoon
What moon placement would be compatible as well as mars venus?

The Scorp I'm dating has a Gem moon, and a Libra Mercury. but he has 3 planet in Scorpio, all in his Second House which has earth energy in it, he has a total of 5 planets in his second house which makes him a 2nd house stellium. So I get that grounding effect without feeling like I am talking to someone from outerspace (oh yes Irony).

The truer weirdness is myself. 4 planets in Aqua, 3 of them in the 5th house, including my sun, with Moon in 6th. So I fight between creative self expression set on fire and my moon in a house ruled by earth energy.

We have:
Venus/Uranus conj
Sun/Uranus conj
His MC conj to my Jupiter
His NN conj to our Neptunes (im still trying to figure that one out)
My NN conj to hour plutos

Posted by Luv2cmoon
LOL!!! You guys are amazing!!! @Gennie you made me laugh so hard...
Here's the thing...when I met his friends..we made arrangements for a dinner party at my house, so I cant back out now, but once that's over...@Gennie how should I start to disconnect to make his head spin?

Make him text first.

@Gennie that's the way its always been. I think in all this time..I've texted first 2 times

@SensativePiscesGuy thanks for the imput. A male perspective is always welcomed and appreciated. I have dated some beautiful Pisces men, my first date ever when I was 16 was a Pisces, and he took my virginity and made off with my heart as well. Good luck with Aqua girl!

Posted by Luv2cmoon
@Gennie that's the way its always been. I think in all this time..I've texted first 2 times

Then only go out with him when there are group gatherings. None the less, de prioritize his grip on your time. Its more than just sun signs, its also about synastry. On paper, Scorpio/Aqua suns are supposed to be bad, but when you look at the synastry and our mid point chart it looks good. Sun and Venus in the 4th house.

Man, you sound like me... I loved kissing my Aqua man...I just love kissing period...it's the most pleasurable next to the actual sex act...to me at least. I could kiss for hours and not get sick of it...it's the scent of the face of the person, the taste, the breathing...