Would an Aquarius appreciate a Pisces expressing their feelings?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Klh1203 on Sunday, November 12, 2017 and has 7 replies.

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@Klh1203
8 YearsPisces

I stopped talking to this Aquarius guy, and after 4 weeks he found a way to contact me even tho I blocked him out of my life. He’s going on like nothing has happened and in the past he has made it obvious with his actions he’s not looking for a relationship he wants to keep me as a friend (we haven’t had sex we just talk) but I know he really likes me and after he went the extra mile to find a way to get in contact with me after I blocked him it proved to me that this guy genuinely cares about me a lot, however he’s not trying to peruse a relationship or even anything sexual he wants to keep us as friends for now which is fine by me.

we’ve never discussed our feelings for one another but he’s made some suggestions in the past about me and he could see me being his future wife etc , and of course I’m a Pisces I wear my heart on my sleeve but I have never told him how I feel I’ve just gone with the flow of it all and acted how he’s been acting.. recently it’s starting to drain me I’m very impatient and I really like him, I’m not sure whether to tell him exactly how I feel about him and talk about the things we’ve ignored in the past that annoy me or just leave it and go with his flow because I don’t want to scare him off.

Is it a turn off if I express my feelings about everything ?

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Expressing feelings means nothing to someone who doesn't share the same feelings with you. What do you want them to reply in this case? It just makes them feel uncomfortable.

However, you should let the Aqua know what you like about him. Refer to whatever annoys you as "I would prefer to be this way, instead of that. I would appreciate the change. What do you think, Aqua?"

You need to have patience with Aquas., but do not put your life on hold for anyone.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

"I’m a Pisces I wear my heart on my sleeve but I have never told him how I feel"

Most likely he knows how you feel, otherwise he would have taken your blockage seriously.

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

I think it’s inportant to step outside of your comfort zone with an Aquarius, we really appreciate that kind of sentiment even though it makes us uncomfortable the outcome will always be good, might not be what you wanted but will be what you need in the end

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@Klh1203
8 YearsPisces

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I think it’s inportant to step outside of your comfort zone with an Aquarius, we really appreciate that kind of sentiment even though it makes us uncomfortable the outcome will always be good, might not be what you wanted but will be what you need in the end

Thank you, I definitely agree with this!

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@Klh1203
8 YearsPisces

I’m going to tell him how I feel, I’m not going to rush things we’ve only been talking for like 2 months Lol. So I think maybe I need to at least give it a while I think I’m being a little too impatient, he probably wants to get to know me he usually has girls that he’s just sleeping with which I know already I don’t think he usually does relationships and I’m very much different to other girls he’s sleeping with and he probably can see that. I feel like this guy knows more about me than I think 🙈

We are only just friends for now anyway and I prefer that than nothing