I don’t know how to name this thread

It’s so ducking hot but I am still posting...

I know Aries men reputation is not good in this forum for whatever fucking reason however I have no complains...I am just being ridiculous sometimes and want to pick a fight but I know better and I am not doing this...

However I am feeling that I’ve been restraining myself now but how long can I actually last re-training myself from being myself?

I could get mad with Scorpio and tell him he is an idiot and all he would say is ok now I will have to deal with thinking I am an idiot...lol

With Aries I can’t do that...because I’ve learned respect is a foundation for rships with an Aries...

So going on with it I am wondering if I will get all out one day and ruin everything? Or I should believe that Aries are forgetting in a min and deal with shit?

I’ve been so good for so long...I want to be BAD and still be loved and stuff...

He had never been disrespectful except he is making fun of me Inna light non offensive way...

It doesn’t matter what sign are you with...can you be really suppressing your habits forever outbof fear of losing them?

I’ve been a bitch once and he told me ‘I’ve never talked to you this way’...and I’ve got the hint. It was actually scary...almost...lol

So how is it going for you?

And no we don’t argue or fight or anything like that. At all! 🤔

Posted by LethalFantasia

If the Aries can't handle your honesty and you always feel like you're walking on eggshells around him to save his feelings and put yours to the backburner, he is not the one bb x

the one is the "one" you can be 10000% yourself around

But I wouldn't dismiss the Aries until you are able to be honest with him and see how it goes, if his little masculine ego can't handle it then you have your answer! x

It’s not that. I know I come strongly with my displeasure and it’s wrong on many levels. I don’t filter. He is very respectful and he knows I am psychotic...and he is laughing about it...when it’s not personal.

He does not deserve me being me as I’ve been fucked up by my past relashionships and my nerves are taking over sometimes...pretty often.

I honestly thinking that I do need to control myself - no questions about it.

I’ve just been unleashed for too long.

Now I need to rethink and respect him naturally. Because if he does and I don’t - it’s not fair to him. Is it?

Like when I wanted him to tell me he is IN love with me and he said everything BUT not the way I wanted it to be said.

He did say it later. But I was seething for days...quietly...so he asked me why is this ‘I am not mad I am upset face looked like ‘I want to kill you’ face’? Lol

I am doing fine so far. Self control wasn’t cancelled yet as far as society norms concern right?

I am just wondering how others doing this when mental energy of partners coming out in different ways.

Can ‘proper’ man survive crazy woman? 🤦‍♀️

Posted by -Damous

Lol respect should be a foundation of any relationship.

I know right? And I do respect him. I am just sometimes want to lash out...and I KNOW he wouldn’t have it...

I’ve almost screwed up today because he didn’t give me the answer I wanted. He did. But not in the form I’ve invisioned...

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by -Damous

Lol respect should be a foundation of any relationship.

I know right? And I do respect him. I am just sometimes want to lash out...and I KNOW he wouldn’t have it...

I’ve almost screwed up today because he didn’t give me the answer I wanted. He did. But not in the form I’ve invisioned...

You’re watching yourself and examining yourself so you’re doing the correct things.

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Yeah...it just not easy now when I am working for my friends and I can tell my boss he is fucked up and he can tell me to go give a head for better business...and here I have to be proper...lmao

I AM fucked up! 😂😂😂

name it 'doug'

Posted by hydorah

name it 'doug'

You’ve been called ‘doug’ or you wish you were, Doug?

I feel like I just read The Taming of the Shrew again, in dxp format.

Posted by Ram416

I feel like I just read The Taming of the Shrew again, in dxp format.

STFU Ram! Lol

Ooooffff! I am feeling better already...

Lol

Posted by Erinelda

I get what people are saying and I try my best not to be a dick myself but I am just worried one day you will explode from holding too much in and not a lot of guys forgive a woman doing that. A huge percent of threads in forums are women asking how to get a man back after taking a massive dump on his chest lol. To him all he sees is over-the-top drama out of nowhere.

Have you tried to find the words? Like take when you are seething, saying something like: "I know this might seem silly to some people (him), but I have been upset that when I said THIS, I thought you'd say THAT.. But I will get over it" . That leaves him free to comment without pressure and he might even make it better for you. Even if he doesn't, I find just saying it relieves a lot of pressure so I can get past it. If flips out on you for communicating, then that's a red flag..

That’s what I am doing!!!

Trying to be very polite and it’s working just fine! For now anyway...

I remember at the beginning I’ve blubbed ‘i think you don’t like me’ to which he replied ‘why would you say that?’...when I was expecting ‘oh no, I like you a lot...’ etc.

My reaction was is to let him have it!

But after careful consideration I’ve opted out of my wish and responded politely...THAT was hard! Lmao

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Erinelda

I get what people are saying and I try my best not to be a dick myself but I am just worried one day you will explode from holding too much in and not a lot of guys forgive a woman doing that. A huge percent of threads in forums are women asking how to get a man back after taking a massive dump on his chest lol. To him all he sees is over-the-top drama out of nowhere.

Have you tried to find the words? Like take when you are seething, saying something like: "I know this might seem silly to some people (him), but I have been upset that when I said THIS, I thought you'd say THAT.. But I will get over it" . That leaves him free to comment without pressure and he might even make it better for you. Even if he doesn't, I find just saying it relieves a lot of pressure so I can get past it. If flips out on you for communicating, then that's a red flag..

That’s what I am doing!!!

Trying to be very polite and it’s working just fine! For now anyway...

I remember at the beginning I’ve blubbed ‘i think you don’t like me’ to which he replied ‘why would you say that?’...when I was expecting ‘oh no, I like you a lot...’ etc.

My reaction was is to let him have it!

But after careful consideration I’ve opted out of my wish and responded politely...THAT was hard! Lmao

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He's an Aqua moon. He will choose to analyze everything you say first, and will only give an emotional reaction if he thinks its warranted (which might be rare).

I suspect flipping out on you for communicating will rarely happen, because he will be too busy assessing himself through your words.

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Erinelda

I get what people are saying and I try my best not to be a dick myself but I am just worried one day you will explode from holding too much in and not a lot of guys forgive a woman doing that. A huge percent of threads in forums are women asking how to get a man back after taking a massive dump on his chest lol. To him all he sees is over-the-top drama out of nowhere.

Have you tried to find the words? Like take when you are seething, saying something like: "I know this might seem silly to some people (him), but I have been upset that when I said THIS, I thought you'd say THAT.. But I will get over it" . That leaves him free to comment without pressure and he might even make it better for you. Even if he doesn't, I find just saying it relieves a lot of pressure so I can get past it. If flips out on you for communicating, then that's a red flag..

That’s what I am doing!!!

Trying to be very polite and it’s working just fine! For now anyway...

I remember at the beginning I’ve blubbed ‘i think you don’t like me’ to which he replied ‘why would you say that?’...when I was expecting ‘oh no, I like you a lot...’ etc.

My reaction was is to let him have it!

But after careful consideration I’ve opted out of my wish and responded politely...THAT was hard! Lmao

He's an Aqua moon. He will choose to analyze everything you say first, and will only give an emotional reaction if he thinks its warranted (which might be rare).

I suspect flipping out on you for communicating will rarely happen, because he will be too busy assessing himself through your words.

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I am honest enough to see my faults because he is pretty amazing and he IS the cave man! I know not to mess it up. He dumped me next day we started talking seriously. Lmao

I’ve messed up by accident. He was furious...we are still trying to figure out how had we got back to a good terms. But it hadn’t happened since! I am watching my ass...and I LET him ignore my texts. Yeah...I do! I understand that if he is busy he won’t answer if my message has no substance. And I am ok with that. I know when I am just texting because I have free time. He does as well. So he just Nevermind it...but if he answering it - I know he has time and we chat.

I don’t usually like to be ignored. But here I know...man is busy!

I am SUCH a good gf! 😂😂😂

Driving to the beach listening to this and explaining his 14 y/old about drugs...honestly we just like the song!!! 😂😂😂

I just want to say that first of all, I really like this new version of you @Gemitati. You're not as defensive, and really freaking funny to boot!

Okay, you and I have had exchanges in the past about my marriage to an Aries man. They are good at dishing out teasing, critiques, and demands. Not so good at taking the reciprocation. I was passive when I first met The Aries. As I got older and matured, my feistiness came out. At first he didn't like this new version of me, caused a lotttttt of fights. But I came to realize he did, it was foreplay for him. So set your boundaries with him now, and be your own feisty self while maintaining respect for him. Otherwise one day your head will explode, and none of us want that....

Posted by Jules-ll

I just want to say that first of all, I really like this new version of you @Gemitati. You're not as defensive, and really freaking funny to boot!

Okay, you and I have had exchanges in the past about my marriage to an Aries man. They are good at dishing out teasing, critiques, and demands. Not so good at taking the reciprocation. I was passive when I first met The Aries. As I got older and matured, my feistiness came out. At first he didn't like this new version of me, caused a lotttttt of fights. But I came to realize he did, it was foreplay for him. So set your boundaries with him now, and be your own feisty self while maintaining respect for him. Otherwise one day your head will explode, and none of us want that....

Yes to this.

Posted by Jules-ll

I just want to say that first of all, I really like this new version of you @Gemitati. You're not as defensive, and really freaking funny to boot!

Okay, you and I have had exchanges in the past about my marriage to an Aries man. They are good at dishing out teasing, critiques, and demands. Not so good at taking the reciprocation. I was passive when I first met The Aries. As I got older and matured, my feistiness came out. At first he didn't like this new version of me, caused a lotttttt of fights. But I came to realize he did, it was foreplay for him. So set your boundaries with him now, and be your own feisty self while maintaining respect for him. Otherwise one day your head will explode, and none of us want that....

Yeah...I just did!!! Exploded because my GPS was fucked up and I felt like he was losing his shit and I went out and he said it’s GPS he was mad at not me...lmao

I won! Lol

And thanks.

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Jules-ll

I just want to say that first of all, I really like this new version of you @Gemitati. You're not as defensive, and really freaking funny to boot!

Okay, you and I have had exchanges in the past about my marriage to an Aries man. They are good at dishing out teasing, critiques, and demands. Not so good at taking the reciprocation. I was passive when I first met The Aries. As I got older and matured, my feistiness came out. At first he didn't like this new version of me, caused a lotttttt of fights. But I came to realize he did, it was foreplay for him. So set your boundaries with him now, and be your own feisty self while maintaining respect for him. Otherwise one day your head will explode, and none of us want that....

Yeah...I just did!!! Exploded because my GPS was fucked up and I felt like he was losing his shit and I went out and he said it’s GPS he was mad at not me...lmao

I won! Lol

And thanks.

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You're welcome! I remember one time you were questioning why you should get a divorce when I advised it. Aren't you so glad you did it?

Okay, they are quick tempered, but don't stay mad for long. Me on the other hand, he would flip out and get me going. And his temper would cool right down. And then he would wonder why I was ready to rip his head off because I'm a slow burn kinda girl...

Just spent 11 days on vacation with The Scorpio, we didn't have one argument or uncomfortable moment. That's more my style , don't like fighting.

So you decide what works for you, but you know you can keep pace with him Gem!

You been posting more "negative" threads regarding Aries of late. You should look into why thats happening because what i read i give this relationship another year give or take.

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Erinelda

I get what people are saying and I try my best not to be a dick myself but I am just worried one day you will explode from holding too much in and not a lot of guys forgive a woman doing that. A huge percent of threads in forums are women asking how to get a man back after taking a massive dump on his chest lol. To him all he sees is over-the-top drama out of nowhere.

Have you tried to find the words? Like take when you are seething, saying something like: "I know this might seem silly to some people (him), but I have been upset that when I said THIS, I thought you'd say THAT.. But I will get over it" . That leaves him free to comment without pressure and he might even make it better for you. Even if he doesn't, I find just saying it relieves a lot of pressure so I can get past it. If flips out on you for communicating, then that's a red flag..

That’s what I am doing!!!

Trying to be very polite and it’s working just fine! For now anyway...

I remember at the beginning I’ve blubbed ‘i think you don’t like me’ to which he replied ‘why would you say that?’...when I was expecting ‘oh no, I like you a lot...’ etc.

My reaction was is to let him have it!

But after careful consideration I’ve opted out of my wish and responded politely...THAT was hard! Lmao

He's an Aqua moon. He will choose to analyze everything you say first, and will only give an emotional reaction if he thinks its warranted (which might be rare).

I suspect flipping out on you for communicating will rarely happen, because he will be too busy assessing himself through your words.

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Ram, are you an aqua moon? Or does this wisdom come from experience with one? The Scorpio is an aqua moon, he doesn't verbalise feelings with me. More likely to use sarcasm, and then tell me I'm too sensitive.

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

You been posting more "negative" threads regarding Aries of late. You should look into why thats happening because what i read i give this relationship another year give or take.

Not negative about Aries...it’s my own crap. I am used to be a man. Ain’t happening no mo’

Lol...

Posted by Jules-ll

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Erinelda

I get what people are saying and I try my best not to be a dick myself but I am just worried one day you will explode from holding too much in and not a lot of guys forgive a woman doing that. A huge percent of threads in forums are women asking how to get a man back after taking a massive dump on his chest lol. To him all he sees is over-the-top drama out of nowhere.

Have you tried to find the words? Like take when you are seething, saying something like: "I know this might seem silly to some people (him), but I have been upset that when I said THIS, I thought you'd say THAT.. But I will get over it" . That leaves him free to comment without pressure and he might even make it better for you. Even if he doesn't, I find just saying it relieves a lot of pressure so I can get past it. If flips out on you for communicating, then that's a red flag..

That’s what I am doing!!!

Trying to be very polite and it’s working just fine! For now anyway...

I remember at the beginning I’ve blubbed ‘i think you don’t like me’ to which he replied ‘why would you say that?’...when I was expecting ‘oh no, I like you a lot...’ etc.

My reaction was is to let him have it!

But after careful consideration I’ve opted out of my wish and responded politely...THAT was hard! Lmao

He's an Aqua moon. He will choose to analyze everything you say first, and will only give an emotional reaction if he thinks its warranted (which might be rare).

I suspect flipping out on you for communicating will rarely happen, because he will be too busy assessing himself through your words.

Ram, are you an aqua moon? Or does this wisdom come from experience with one? The Scorpio is an aqua moon, he doesn't verbalise feelings with me. More likely to use sarcasm, and then tell me I'm too sensitive.

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Dated a few Aqua moons, one of whom was an Aries sun.

Also I was brought up by one ( my dad was an Aqua moon).