Thinking out loud...

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...about changes that seems like taking place lately. Just wondering if I am overthinking.

His words: i don’t care about past. It doesn’t matter what happened before we’ve met. It matters to me what we are now and after...

He knew I was married. He hated it because he said he couldn’t ruin someone’s marriage raising a child and doing shit like that!

However he never asked me about my past before marriage during and after...nothing about my life before we’ve met.

Last weekend in conversation all of a sudden he said I am the only one he had known since we’ve met and that’ll stay this way...apparently my face showed something so he said you can look trough my phone anytime.

I was slightly shocked and somewhat annoyed because I had no doubts about him and this was uncalled for.

I had not offered my phone for ‘inspection’ though...

Later I found song and clip from Colors of Night and said that Bruce Willis was gorgeous in that movie and I really want him to watch it with me.

He said ‘oh! NOW I can’t wait to see the movie where Bruce Willis is gorgeous’...

Mind you...I even googled Aries jealousy because I didn’t think he was capable.

And I DO tell him often that I find him gorgeous and sexy etc...

I might be paranoid but somehow it seems to me that maybe he wanted me to offer my phone as well as he did his...

Maybe I should had said he is the only one I’ve been with since we’ve met?

Maybe I should said something about why I thought Bruce Willis is hot...

I hope I am wrong and it doesn’t matter. He had been simple and open and I am under impression if he want to know something he would ask.

Or should I volunteer information?

Does he play cool and content secretly hoping I’ll say something or I am just being...me? 🤔
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What happened to that guy you were having an affair with whilst married? You were all gaga over him. I been gone a while. Now you are divorced and the side piece is gone..?

Is this correct?

No, that’s him. Since October.

I thought the side piece was a Scorpio. How many men do you have right now?
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When I’ve met Aries - Scorpio was still around. However my focus shifted and Aries was so good to be true and I gave it a chance. When I’ve decided Aries is a serious deal I sent Scorpio ‘letter of separation’...lol

And I am still with an Aries. Nobody else. He told me pretty soon that he is not going anywhere.

He gave me a new perspective on life.

He basically made me to get divorce and assured me that he is in it for real.

So I am in! Praying though that Scorpio won’t screw it up for me because I am hearing that he is devastated by my ‘unspeakable action’ and currently separating from his wife. I am not sure if this is made up story for my ears only.

I guess we will see...🙌
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Maybe I should had said he is the only one I’ve been with since we’ve met?

That would be a lie tho. He can just look through your post history and see where you talked about fucking the Scorpio AFTER you had met the Aries
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No I wasn’t! We were communicating but not fucking around...

I can still call him and talk to him but I don’t need to do this. Unless I hear that he is free!
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Aries are jealous but very understanding if it bothers you. I don't think you have anything to worry about. Offer up that phone though! 😛 He deleted everything in his and offered it up! 😆


Nah! Our phones are always unattended and I pick up his calls if he isn’t near the phone but I don’t do snooping. We also read his FB together and I have full access to his computer...😀
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Aries are jealous but very understanding if it bothers you. I don't think you have anything to worry about. Offer up that phone though! 😛 He deleted everything in his and offered it up! 😆

Nah! Our phones are always unattended and I pick up his calls if he isn’t near the phone but I don’t do snooping. We also read his FB together and I have full access to his computer...😀
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OH HELL TO THE NO!!! That’s too much lol
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Aries are jealous but very understanding if it bothers you. I don't think you have anything to worry about. Offer up that phone though! 😛 He deleted everything in his and offered it up! 😆

Nah! Our phones are always unattended and I pick up his calls if he isn’t near the phone but I don’t do snooping. We also read his FB together and I have full access to his computer...😀

OH HELL TO THE NO!!! That’s too much lol
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Too much of WHAT?
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What happened to that guy you were having an affair with whilst married? You were all gaga over him. I been gone a while. Now you are divorced and the side piece is gone..?

Is this correct?

No, that’s him. Since October.

I thought the side piece was a Scorpio. How many men do you have right now?

When I’ve met Aries - Scorpio was still around. However my focus shifted and Aries was so good to be true and I gave it a chance. When I’ve decided Aries is a serious deal I sent Scorpio ‘letter of separation’...lol

And I am still with an Aries. Nobody else. He told me pretty soon that he is not going anywhere.

He gave me a new perspective on life.

He basically made me to get divorce and assured me that he is in it for real.

So I am in! Praying though that Scorpio won’t screw it up for me because I am hearing that he is devastated by my ‘unspeakable action’ and currently separating from his wife. I am not sure if this is made up story for my ears only.

I guess we will see...🙌
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Amazing
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Posted by Sjess
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Posted by Sjess

What happened to that guy you were having an affair with whilst married? You were all gaga over him. I been gone a while. Now you are divorced and the side piece is gone..?

Is this correct?

No, that’s him. Since October.

I thought the side piece was a Scorpio. How many men do you have right now?

When I’ve met Aries - Scorpio was still around. However my focus shifted and Aries was so good to be true and I gave it a chance. When I’ve decided Aries is a serious deal I sent Scorpio ‘letter of separation’...lol

And I am still with an Aries. Nobody else. He told me pretty soon that he is not going anywhere.

He gave me a new perspective on life.

He basically made me to get divorce and assured me that he is in it for real.

So I am in! Praying though that Scorpio won’t screw it up for me because I am hearing that he is devastated by my ‘unspeakable action’ and currently separating from his wife. I am not sure if this is made up story for my ears only.

I guess we will see...🙌

Amazing
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