Cc1124
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Am I becoming too clingy? Should I hold back?
Yes, you can’t give up the booty without getting something in return, otherwise it’s too easy for him and he will lose interest. It is ok to say you want to see him, but you have to act like your time is valuable. You can’t ever let him think your life revolves around him. You have your life and if he behaves himself then he gets to spend time with you.
Find things to do which are more hobby based, maybe one off events etc, which he might be interested in. Don’t ask him out every week, but when you do, act like you’re more interested in the “thing” than seeing him, like he is just a side-interest for now. For example “hey that band are playing next weekend, probably gonna go see them, you interested?” or “I need to see that film, but don’t have anyone to go with, you wanna go, you’d be doing me a favour”… anything which sounds like he’s doing something for you, and you are not necessarily doing it to see him. But try to tailor it a bit to what he might find interesting anyway.
It depends what his friends are like. But sometimes men want to see an example of what they are expected to do. Like monkeys, monkey see monkey do, maybe one monkey sees another monkey sticking something in a beehive and wants to try it. So try to organise some event with your friends, and ask him to come along, he sees your friends, next time maybe he thinks you’re meant to see his friends.
You could also try, when he asks you out “sounds good and I want to see you, but my friend wanted to do something that day, let me check with her and I’ll let you know in two hours or so”… then say “oh yeah, my friend cancelled, as usual, I’m free if you still wanna meet?” .. you need to be equally as busy as he is, or more busy, and keep him guessing, does he get to see you or not?
Find things to do which are more hobby based, maybe one off events etc, which he might be interested in. Don’t ask him out every week, but when you do, act like you’re more interested in the “thing” than seeing him, like he is just a side-interest for now. For example “hey that band are playing next weekend, probably gonna go see them, you interested?” or “I need to see that film, but don’t have anyone to go with, you wanna go, you’d be doing me a favour”… anything which sounds like he’s doing something for you, and you are not necessarily doing it to see him. But try to tailor it a bit to what he might find interesting anyway.
It depends what his friends are like. But sometimes men want to see an example of what they are expected to do. Like monkeys, monkey see monkey do, maybe one monkey sees another monkey sticking something in a beehive and wants to try it. So try to organise some event with your friends, and ask him to come along, he sees your friends, next time maybe he thinks you’re meant to see his friends.
You could also try, when he asks you out “sounds good and I want to see you, but my friend wanted to do something that day, let me check with her and I’ll let you know in two hours or so”… then say “oh yeah, my friend cancelled, as usual, I’m free if you still wanna meet?” .. you need to be equally as busy as he is, or more busy, and keep him guessing, does he get to see you or not?
Posted by AriesJo
Yes, you can’t give up the booty without getting something in return, otherwise it’s too easy for him and he will lose interest. It is ok to say you want to see him, but you have to act like your time is valuable. You can’t ever let him think your life revolves around him. You have your life and if he behaves himself then he gets to spend time with you.
Find things to do which are more hobby based, maybe one off events etc, which he might be interested in. Don’t ask him out every week, but when you do, act like you’re more interested in the “thing” than seeing him, like he is just a side-interest for now. For example “hey that band are playing next weekend, probably gonna go see them, you interested?” or “I need to see that film, but don’t have anyone to go with, you wanna go, you’d be doing me a favour”… anything which sounds like he’s doing something for you, and you are not necessarily doing it to see him. But try to tailor it a bit to what he might find interesting anyway.
It depends what his friends are like. But sometimes men want to see an example of what they are expected to do. Like monkeys, monkey see monkey do, maybe one monkey sees another monkey sticking something in a beehive and wants to try it. So try to organise some event with your friends, and ask him to come along, he sees your friends, next time maybe he thinks you’re meant to see his friends.
You could also try, when he asks you out “sounds good and I want to see you, but my friend wanted to do something that day, let me check with her and I’ll let you know in two hours or so”… then say “oh yeah, my friend cancelled, as usual, I’m free if you still wanna meet?” .. you need to be equally as busy as he is, or more busy, and keep him guessing, does he get to see you or not?
Ahhhh.. That's so true and this is exactly what I think I'm not messing up with...i feel like myself now really being way too available for him.
I will follow your hints here and I know it's time really to let him chase again... so, i guess this moment I will first try to no more asking him out first until he asks? Or shall I already planning the next as those “ok to be with or without you” date?
The switching is a bit a challenge i think....cause i remember if I suddenly stop something, Aries would think if I'm no more interested? Arhhhh that's really so complicated hahahaaa....
Correction : this is exactly what I think I'm now** messing up with
Posted by AriesJoThis helps my situation so much too!!! I think we need a manual with lots of examples to know how to keep an Aries man interested Lol
Yes, you can’t give up the booty without getting something in return, otherwise it’s too easy for him and he will lose interest. It is ok to say you want to see him, but you have to act like your time is valuable. You can’t ever let him think your life revolves around him. You have your life and if he behaves himself then he gets to spend time with you.
Find things to do which are more hobby based, maybe one off events etc, which he might be interested in. Don’t ask him out every week, but when you do, act like you’re more interested in the “thing” than seeing him, like he is just a side-interest for now. For example “hey that band are playing next weekend, probably gonna go see them, you interested?” or “I need to see that film, but don’t have anyone to go with, you wanna go, you’d be doing me a favour”… anything which sounds like he’s doing something for you, and you are not necessarily doing it to see him. But try to tailor it a bit to what he might find interesting anyway.
It depends what his friends are like. But sometimes men want to see an example of what they are expected to do. Like monkeys, monkey see monkey do, maybe one monkey sees another monkey sticking something in a beehive and wants to try it. So try to organise some event with your friends, and ask him to come along, he sees your friends, next time maybe he thinks you’re meant to see his friends.
You could also try, when he asks you out “sounds good and I want to see you, but my friend wanted to do something that day, let me check with her and I’ll let you know in two hours or so”… then say “oh yeah, my friend cancelled, as usual, I’m free if you still wanna meet?” .. you need to be equally as busy as he is, or more busy, and keep him guessing, does he get to see you or not?
Posted by pisceswoman123Yes, That's so true....“hi five” lol
This helps my situation so much too!!! I think we need a manual with lots of examples to know how to keep an Aries man interested Lol
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Is it your man also always with super short messages？ sometimes if he's free he could reply with longer ones but still......
Posted by Cc1124I find that mix of giving and pulling difficult too. Sometimes I worry that maybe he thinks that i am not interested because I am so aware that he needs to do the chasing and I am scared to seams clingy.Posted by AriesJo
Yes, you can’t give up the booty without getting something in return, otherwise it’s too easy for him and he will lose interest. It is ok to say you want to see him, but you have to act like your time is valuable. You can’t ever let him think your life revolves around him. You have your life and if he behaves himself then he gets to spend time with you.
Find things to do which are more hobby based, maybe one off events etc, which he might be interested in. Don’t ask him out every week, but when you do, act like you’re more interested in the “thing” than seeing him, like he is just a side-interest for now. For example “hey that band are playing next weekend, probably gonna go see them, you interested?” or “I need to see that film, but don’t have anyone to go with, you wanna go, you’d be doing me a favour”… anything which sounds like he’s doing something for you, and you are not necessarily doing it to see him. But try to tailor it a bit to what he might find interesting anyway.
It depends what his friends are like. But sometimes men want to see an example of what they are expected to do. Like monkeys, monkey see monkey do, maybe one monkey sees another monkey sticking something in a beehive and wants to try it. So try to organise some event with your friends, and ask him to come along, he sees your friends, next time maybe he thinks you’re meant to see his friends.
You could also try, when he asks you out “sounds good and I want to see you, but my friend wanted to do something that day, let me check with her and I’ll let you know in two hours or so”… then say “oh yeah, my friend cancelled, as usual, I’m free if you still wanna meet?” .. you need to be equally as busy as he is, or more busy, and keep him guessing, does he get to see you or not?
Ahhhh.. That's so true and this is exactly what I think I'm not messing up with...i feel like myself now really being way too available for him.
I will follow your hints here and I know it's time really to let him chase again... so, i guess this moment I will first try to no more asking him out first until he asks? Or shall I already planning the next as those “ok to be with or without you” date?
The switching is a bit a challenge i think....cause i remember if I suddenly stop something, Aries would think if I'm no more interested? Arhhhh that's really so complicated hahahaaa....
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Posted by pisceswoman123…………………………Posted by Cc1124I find that mix of giving and pulling difficult too. Sometimes I worry that maybe he thinks that i am not interested because I am so aware that he needs to do the chasing and I am scared to seams clingy.Posted by AriesJo
Yes, you can’t give up the booty without getting something in return, otherwise it’s too easy for him and he will lose interest. It is ok to say you want to see him, but you have to act like your time is valuable. You can’t ever let him think your life revolves around him. You have your life and if he behaves himself then he gets to spend time with you.
Find things to do which are more hobby based, maybe one off events etc, which he might be interested in. Don’t ask him out every week, but when you do, act like you’re more interested in the “thing” than seeing him, like he is just a side-interest for now. For example “hey that band are playing next weekend, probably gonna go see them, you interested?” or “I need to see that film, but don’t have anyone to go with, you wanna go, you’d be doing me a favour”… anything which sounds like he’s doing something for you, and you are not necessarily doing it to see him. But try to tailor it a bit to what he might find interesting anyway.
It depends what his friends are like. But sometimes men want to see an example of what they are expected to do. Like monkeys, monkey see monkey do, maybe one monkey sees another monkey sticking something in a beehive and wants to try it. So try to organise some event with your friends, and ask him to come along, he sees your friends, next time maybe he thinks you’re meant to see his friends.
You could also try, when he asks you out “sounds good and I want to see you, but my friend wanted to do something that day, let me check with her and I’ll let you know in two hours or so”… then say “oh yeah, my friend cancelled, as usual, I’m free if you still wanna meet?” .. you need to be equally as busy as he is, or more busy, and keep him guessing, does he get to see you or not?
Ahhhh.. That's so true and this is exactly what I think I'm not messing up with...i feel like myself now really being way too available for him.
I will follow your hints here and I know it's time really to let him chase again... so, i guess this moment I will first try to no more asking him out first until he asks? Or shall I already planning the next as those “ok to be with or without you” date?
The switching is a bit a challenge i think....cause i remember if I suddenly stop something, Aries would think if I'm no more interested? Arhhhh that's really so complicated hahahaaa....
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Same here honeyyyyy
Posted by Cc1124Posted by pisceswoman123Yes! LolYes, That's so true....“hi five” lol
This helps my situation so much too!!! I think we need a manual with lots of examples to know how to keep an Aries man interested Lol
Is it your man also always with super short messages？ sometimes if he's free he could reply with longer ones but still......click to expand
I think he must be allergic to texting lol
Posted by AriesJo
Yes, you can’t give up the booty without getting something in return, otherwise it’s too easy for him and he will lose interest. It is ok to say you want to see him, but you have to act like your time is valuable. You can’t ever let him think your life revolves around him. You have your life and if he behaves himself then he gets to spend time with you.
Find things to do which are more hobby based, maybe one off events etc, which he might be interested in. Don’t ask him out every week, but when you do, act like you’re more interested in the “thing” than seeing him, like he is just a side-interest for now. For example “hey that band are playing next weekend, probably gonna go see them, you interested?” or “I need to see that film, but don’t have anyone to go with, you wanna go, you’d be doing me a favour”… anything which sounds like he’s doing something for you, and you are not necessarily doing it to see him. But try to tailor it a bit to what he might find interesting anyway.
It depends what his friends are like. But sometimes men want to see an example of what they are expected to do. Like monkeys, monkey see monkey do, maybe one monkey sees another monkey sticking something in a beehive and wants to try it. So try to organise some event with your friends, and ask him to come along, he sees your friends, next time maybe he thinks you’re meant to see his friends.
You could also try, when he asks you out “sounds good and I want to see you, but my friend wanted to do something that day, let me check with her and I’ll let you know in two hours or so”… then say “oh yeah, my friend cancelled, as usual, I’m free if you still wanna meet?” .. you need to be equally as busy as he is, or more busy, and keep him guessing, does he get to see you or not?
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I'm so frustrated now, we're supposed meet tonight, but don't know what's the reason he's not contacting me until now about when and where to meet and stuff. I'm struggling now if I should message him to confirm or should I just leave it? I worry if he's going through something or he's pulling back or what.....but there was no sign about anything would happen...
I'm soooo lost now 😢
If you are supposed to meet I will definitely contact him, casually and agree were and when. I think that is normal.
Posted by Cc1124Don't pull back now, you have a plan, he is obv in on it. Dont play games with Aries or mess them about too much. Confirm the plan and go enjoy yourself 🙂 Try not to overthink everything, just be yourself, treat him like a male friend! Relax. Let us know how it goes!!! Hehe 🙂Posted by AriesJo
Yes, you can’t give up the booty without getting something in return, otherwise it’s too easy for him and he will lose interest. It is ok to say you want to see him, but you have to act like your time is valuable. You can’t ever let him think your life revolves around him. You have your life and if he behaves himself then he gets to spend time with you.
Find things to do which are more hobby based, maybe one off events etc, which he might be interested in. Don’t ask him out every week, but when you do, act like you’re more interested in the “thing” than seeing him, like he is just a side-interest for now. For example “hey that band are playing next weekend, probably gonna go see them, you interested?” or “I need to see that film, but don’t have anyone to go with, you wanna go, you’d be doing me a favour”… anything which sounds like he’s doing something for you, and you are not necessarily doing it to see him. But try to tailor it a bit to what he might find interesting anyway.
It depends what his friends are like. But sometimes men want to see an example of what they are expected to do. Like monkeys, monkey see monkey do, maybe one monkey sees another monkey sticking something in a beehive and wants to try it. So try to organise some event with your friends, and ask him to come along, he sees your friends, next time maybe he thinks you’re meant to see his friends.
You could also try, when he asks you out “sounds good and I want to see you, but my friend wanted to do something that day, let me check with her and I’ll let you know in two hours or so”… then say “oh yeah, my friend cancelled, as usual, I’m free if you still wanna meet?” .. you need to be equally as busy as he is, or more busy, and keep him guessing, does he get to see you or not?
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I'm so frustrated now, we're supposed meet tonight, but don't know what's the reason he's not contacting me until now about when and where to meet and stuff. I'm struggling now if I should message him to confirm or should I just leave it? I worry if he's going through something or he's pulling back or what.....but there was no sign about anything would happen...
I'm soooo lost now 😢
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Ended up he's actually flying to Singapore by tomorrow early morning to for the said weekend trip....
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so our conversation was:
HIM：yes tomorrow leaving at 7 am..
ME：Should I let you to prepare things tonight ? I know it's pretty rush for you
HIM：maybe better.. but meet next week..?
HIM：but also very busy.. friend here..
ME：It's okay. I know you're super busy the whole August hahaha
We can always find time?
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.(I started to worry if he think I'm like last time being bitxhy to blow things off, so I say something more below, the last time things can see form other topic I had as """Did I just fxked up with this Aries man""" https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720 )
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ME：I want souvenirs hehee 😛
HIM：Singapore or saigon??
ME：Wherever the bee go, hehee
HIM：Haha.. ok..
ME：Yeahhhhh ……I'm happy now hehee
HIM：But first thing singapore chili crab.. haha..
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Then some more stupid chat
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So, overall, I'm not sure if I have some improvement on the reaction to the cancellation？wish i had....
On the other hand, I'm actually kinda upset he's not trying to see me before leaving, which I know I was the one saying should let him have time for his thing first.....did I make a right move? And yes, see... he's obviously not yet having a thought to introduce me to to his friends 😢
Do you guys think he's any pulling back or still seems fine? I'm too into him which already making me losing my mind....lol
And during his trip.. do you guys think i should stay contact with him or just leave him there enjoy and no need to message him unless he's messaging me? I am so not familiar to the kind of “freedom” that Aries man want, really needing some good good advice.
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so our conversation was:
HIM：yes tomorrow leaving at 7 am..
ME：Should I let you to prepare things tonight ? I know it's pretty rush for you
HIM：maybe better.. but meet next week..?
HIM：but also very busy.. friend here..
ME：It's okay. I know you're super busy the whole August hahaha
We can always find time?
.
.(I started to worry if he think I'm like last time being bitxhy to blow things off, so I say something more below, the last time things can see form other topic I had as """Did I just fxked up with this Aries man""" https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720 )
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ME：I want souvenirs hehee 😛
HIM：Singapore or saigon??
ME：Wherever the bee go, hehee
HIM：Haha.. ok..
ME：Yeahhhhh ……I'm happy now hehee
HIM：But first thing singapore chili crab.. haha..
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Then some more stupid chat
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So, overall, I'm not sure if I have some improvement on the reaction to the cancellation？wish i had....
On the other hand, I'm actually kinda upset he's not trying to see me before leaving, which I know I was the one saying should let him have time for his thing first.....did I make a right move? And yes, see... he's obviously not yet having a thought to introduce me to to his friends 😢
Do you guys think he's any pulling back or still seems fine? I'm too into him which already making me losing my mind....lol
And during his trip.. do you guys think i should stay contact with him or just leave him there enjoy and no need to message him unless he's messaging me? I am so not familiar to the kind of “freedom” that Aries man want, really needing some good good advice.
The messages are really good, sounds like you understand each other really well.
Sagittarians are always my best friends, they always pick me up, say the right things, at the right time. I could be down about work but then somehow they say the perfect thing to pick me up and we have a good time. If you want me to explain why, then I’m not sure, I always think Sagittarians understand Aries better than they know themselves. I don’t have to tell my Sagittarian friends what I’m thinking, they already know, like mind-readers.
I know there are rules like “don’t be clingy”, but I think you should go with your gut feeling. You don’t want to be pretending to be something you’re not. For me, Sagittarian women can break the rules, and that’s a good thing, because they are direct and honest. The passion is something Aries will share and you shouldn’t be afraid to show it even if you want to get angry. Aries have the quick to burn intense fire and passion, Sagittarians the steady fire and passion. Both Aries and Sagittarian would rather be honest than stick to the rules, and Aries will love how direct and honest you are. I know I’ve answered some of your questions using “the rules”, but it might be better to trust yourself, because I remember when Sagittarians have done some amazing things for me and where they’ve made me laugh so much with their vision and ideas, like how they’ve surprised me in a crazy good way.
I don’t think you are being clingy, people get mixed up what clingy means, but the opposite of clingy is actually confidence. Confidence in yourself and the relationship. Clingy people feel dependant on the outcome of the relationship, and the other person can see it whether they message a lot or very little. If you message when you want and are confident about it, then you won’t be clingy.
Sagittarians are always my best friends, they always pick me up, say the right things, at the right time. I could be down about work but then somehow they say the perfect thing to pick me up and we have a good time. If you want me to explain why, then I’m not sure, I always think Sagittarians understand Aries better than they know themselves. I don’t have to tell my Sagittarian friends what I’m thinking, they already know, like mind-readers.
I know there are rules like “don’t be clingy”, but I think you should go with your gut feeling. You don’t want to be pretending to be something you’re not. For me, Sagittarian women can break the rules, and that’s a good thing, because they are direct and honest. The passion is something Aries will share and you shouldn’t be afraid to show it even if you want to get angry. Aries have the quick to burn intense fire and passion, Sagittarians the steady fire and passion. Both Aries and Sagittarian would rather be honest than stick to the rules, and Aries will love how direct and honest you are. I know I’ve answered some of your questions using “the rules”, but it might be better to trust yourself, because I remember when Sagittarians have done some amazing things for me and where they’ve made me laugh so much with their vision and ideas, like how they’ve surprised me in a crazy good way.
I don’t think you are being clingy, people get mixed up what clingy means, but the opposite of clingy is actually confidence. Confidence in yourself and the relationship. Clingy people feel dependant on the outcome of the relationship, and the other person can see it whether they message a lot or very little. If you message when you want and are confident about it, then you won’t be clingy.
Posted by AriesJo……………………………………
The messages are really good, sounds like you understand each other really well.
Sagittarians are always my best friends, they always pick me up, say the right things, at the right time. I could be down about work but then somehow they say the perfect thing to pick me up and we have a good time. If you want me to explain why, then I’m not sure, I always think Sagittarians understand Aries better than they know themselves. I don’t have to tell my Sagittarian friends what I’m thinking, they already know, like mind-readers.
I know there are rules like “don’t be clingy”, but I think you should go with your gut feeling. You don’t want to be pretending to be something you’re not. For me, Sagittarian women can break the rules, and that’s a good thing, because they are direct and honest. The passion is something Aries will share and you shouldn’t be afraid to show it even if you want to get angry. Aries have the quick to burn intense fire and passion, Sagittarians the steady fire and passion. Both Aries and Sagittarian would rather be honest than stick to the rules, and Aries will love how direct and honest you are. I know I’ve answered some of your questions using “the rules”, but it might be better to trust yourself, because I remember when Sagittarians have done some amazing things for me and where they’ve made me laugh so much with their vision and ideas, like how they’ve surprised me in a crazy good way.
I don’t think you are being clingy, people get mixed up what clingy means, but the opposite of clingy is actually confidence. Confidence in yourself and the relationship. Clingy people feel dependant on the outcome of the relationship, and the other person can see it whether they message a lot or very little. If you message when you want and are confident about it, then you won’t be clingy.
After seeing your reply, i feel better...
I'm so into this Aries guy, serious so hard to remind myself don't stop to just being myself. Somehow thank god there is this forum here I could always ask for advise.
More thing, we added each other Facebook sometimes ago but then I unfriended him because I was kind of feeling uncomfortable that he kind of hiding most of the posts he's been tagged by others. I felt like he's doing that for purpose cause I don't seem any function there in Facebook can really hide all the taggings to al people, so that time I think it must be just me.
I don't think he knows i removed him from fb, but somehow, i want to add him back.....but don't know what to tell him about whu removed him the first place, cause i know Aries hates drama which yes I know it was.... any suggestions ?
Just add him again. You don’t need to give a reason, but if he asks just say you were having a tidy up and deleted him by mistake. It’s easily done.
My FB settings are that I have to approved posts I’m tagged in, maybe he has the same. I’m not an FB expert though.
My FB settings are that I have to approved posts I’m tagged in, maybe he has the same. I’m not an FB expert though.
Posted by AriesJo............................
Just add him again. You don’t need to give a reason, but if he asks just say you were having a tidy up and deleted him by mistake. It’s easily done.
My FB settings are that I have to approved posts I’m tagged in, maybe he has the same. I’m not an FB expert though.
That's a great idea hehee, will then do it tomorrow 😛
so surprised, I didnt expect he would message me during his trip in Singapore, thought I would just let him have fun with friends and get lost, but he just messaged me and telling me to take me some restaurants when he's back and also sending me photos of the favourite food he had yesterday 🙂 somehow would prefer he send pics of himself, but yes I am happy at the moment of how he behave, most the time 🙂
I will definitely still having loads of questions to ask soon, you guys really helped me a lot, thanks
His mom is leaving tomorrow and then Friend is in town the same day staying over at his for 2 weeks. Should I try something to see if he's open to introduce me to his friend yet, or should I not trying to rush anything ?
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
Posted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.click to expand
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I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
JFC my god
Good god you're fucking neurotic. You're going to fuck this up with your borderline psychosis of how you react and handle things.
Get on some testosterone because your estrogen is out of control.
Get on some testosterone because your estrogen is out of control.
Posted by Cc1124Do everyone a favor and stop dating.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
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I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
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And this thread is one example of why I feel Aqua and Aries is a workable combo.
smdh...
smdh...
Posted by Cc1124You're overthinking, keeping tabs on him when you don't really need to (read: not yet exclusive). You're basically killing the relationship before it even has a chance to grow.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
………………………………
I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
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Posted by Ram416…………………………Posted by Cc1124You're overthinking, keeping tabs on him when you don't really need to (read: not yet exclusive). You're basically killing the relationship before it even has a chance to grow.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
………………………………
I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
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I suppose this is refer to my topic? Cause there was anther story suddenly put in my feed.... I'm a bit confused with all in a sudden hahaa, sorry dear.
I just can't get the things out of my head about he's suddenly updating his dating app profile pictures which making me feel he's looking for spmeone else or thinking I'm not good enough for him to willing to move further....
That's why.. plus he just back in town from the weekend trip but he's having all the friend in town staying over 2 weeks and 1 more weekend trip plus work trip soon , I am just start to worry these gonna cool us down and no more as close as we used to.... 😢
I really need all you guys helping me and i really have to say I'm so glad having you all being here helping me and answering me ?
Posted by AriesJo……………………
Just add him again. You don’t need to give a reason, but if he asks just say you were having a tidy up and deleted him by mistake. It’s easily done.
My FB settings are that I have to approved posts I’m tagged in, maybe he has the same. I’m not an FB expert though.
Really just added and he just accepted without asking hahaaa .....
Hey. Sorry. It was me. Still new here, didn't know you have to create a new topic all the time. I hid the message so it won't screw yours up any more. Sorry again
Hope everything is gonna be fine with you and your guy!
Hope everything is gonna be fine with you and your guy!
Posted by Cc1124You're not yet exclusive. Tell him if you want to be exclusive. You're coming off as being clingy and intrusive for a non-exclusive arrangement.Posted by Ram416…………………………Posted by Cc1124You're overthinking, keeping tabs on him when you don't really need to (read: not yet exclusive). You're basically killing the relationship before it even has a chance to grow.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
………………………………
I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
I suppose this is refer to my topic? Cause there was anther story suddenly put in my feed.... I'm a bit confused with all in a sudden hahaa, sorry dear.
I just can't get the things out of my head about he's suddenly updating his dating app profile pictures which making me feel he's looking for spmeone else or thinking I'm not good enough for him to willing to move further....
That's why.. plus he just back in town from the weekend trip but he's having all the friend in town staying over 2 weeks and 1 more weekend trip plus work trip soon , I am just start to worry these gonna cool us down and no more as close as we used to.... 😢
I really need all you guys helping me and i really have to say I'm so glad having you all being here helping me and answering me ?
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What are his other placements besides his Sun?
Posted by Ram416Posted by Cc1124You're not yet exclusive. Tell him if you want to be exclusive. You're coming off as being clingy and intrusive for a non-exclusive arrangement.Posted by Ram416…………………………Posted by Cc1124You're overthinking, keeping tabs on him when you don't really need to (read: not yet exclusive). You're basically killing the relationship before it even has a chance to grow.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
………………………………
I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
I suppose this is refer to my topic? Cause there was anther story suddenly put in my feed.... I'm a bit confused with all in a sudden hahaa, sorry dear.
I just can't get the things out of my head about he's suddenly updating his dating app profile pictures which making me feel he's looking for spmeone else or thinking I'm not good enough for him to willing to move further....
That's why.. plus he just back in town from the weekend trip but he's having all the friend in town staying over 2 weeks and 1 more weekend trip plus work trip soon , I am just start to worry these gonna cool us down and no more as close as we used to.... 😢
I really need all you guys helping me and i really have to say I'm so glad having you all being here helping me and answering me ?
What are his other placements besides his Sun?click to expand
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Yea I feel I'm being clingy too anyways, so....seems I'm screwing this up.
I'm now anyhow not really in a mood to reply much his messages today, still replying but comparatively less... i need to let myself cool off a little bit.
I don't get the last question tho, thanks 😉
Posted by Cc1124You sound like a fucking psycho, dude.Posted by Ram416Posted by Cc1124You're not yet exclusive. Tell him if you want to be exclusive. You're coming off as being clingy and intrusive for a non-exclusive arrangement.Posted by Ram416…………………………Posted by Cc1124You're overthinking, keeping tabs on him when you don't really need to (read: not yet exclusive). You're basically killing the relationship before it even has a chance to grow.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
………………………………
I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
I suppose this is refer to my topic? Cause there was anther story suddenly put in my feed.... I'm a bit confused with all in a sudden hahaa, sorry dear.
I just can't get the things out of my head about he's suddenly updating his dating app profile pictures which making me feel he's looking for spmeone else or thinking I'm not good enough for him to willing to move further....
That's why.. plus he just back in town from the weekend trip but he's having all the friend in town staying over 2 weeks and 1 more weekend trip plus work trip soon , I am just start to worry these gonna cool us down and no more as close as we used to.... 😢
I really need all you guys helping me and i really have to say I'm so glad having you all being here helping me and answering me ?
What are his other placements besides his Sun?
………………………………
Yea I feel I'm being clingy too anyways, so....seems I'm screwing this up.
I'm now anyhow not really in a mood to reply much his messages today, still replying but comparatively less... i need to let myself cool off a little bit.
I don't get the last question tho, thanks 😉click to expand
You nitpick and go all crazy over shit you don't even have any place to be fretting over. You're not exclusive yet trying to force this exclusive mindset on the dude and are over analyzing the fuck out of stupid shit. You complain about him possibly distancing himself, yet when he's in touch with you, you just don't "feel like" talking to him?
Quit being a high maintenance hoe princess and take some damned valium. The immaturity and game playing is utterly disgusting. How do women like you manage to land a guy to begin with??
Cancer, Scorpio, or Leo? Which one are you?
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by Cc1124You sound like a fucking psycho, dude.Posted by Ram416Posted by Cc1124You're not yet exclusive. Tell him if you want to be exclusive. You're coming off as being clingy and intrusive for a non-exclusive arrangement.Posted by Ram416…………………………Posted by Cc1124You're overthinking, keeping tabs on him when you don't really need to (read: not yet exclusive). You're basically killing the relationship before it even has a chance to grow.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
………………………………
I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
I suppose this is refer to my topic? Cause there was anther story suddenly put in my feed.... I'm a bit confused with all in a sudden hahaa, sorry dear.
I just can't get the things out of my head about he's suddenly updating his dating app profile pictures which making me feel he's looking for spmeone else or thinking I'm not good enough for him to willing to move further....
That's why.. plus he just back in town from the weekend trip but he's having all the friend in town staying over 2 weeks and 1 more weekend trip plus work trip soon , I am just start to worry these gonna cool us down and no more as close as we used to.... 😢
I really need all you guys helping me and i really have to say I'm so glad having you all being here helping me and answering me ?
What are his other placements besides his Sun?
………………………………
Yea I feel I'm being clingy too anyways, so....seems I'm screwing this up.
I'm now anyhow not really in a mood to reply much his messages today, still replying but comparatively less... i need to let myself cool off a little bit.
I don't get the last question tho, thanks 😉
You nitpick and go all crazy over shit you don't even have any place to be fretting over. You're not exclusive yet trying to force this exclusive mindset on the dude and are over analyzing the fuck out of stupid shit. You complain about him possibly distancing himself, yet when he's in touch with you, you just don't "feel like" talking to him?
Quit being a high maintenance hoe princess and take some damned valium. The immaturity and game playing is utterly disgusting. How do women like you manage to land a guy to begin with??
Cancer, Scorpio, or Leo? Which one are you?click to expand
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Thanks for the response but I think a bit of politeness is a simple thing just chatting here, but still this helps, thanks!
Posted by Cc1124Which are you?Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by Cc1124You sound like a fucking psycho, dude.Posted by Ram416Posted by Cc1124You're not yet exclusive. Tell him if you want to be exclusive. You're coming off as being clingy and intrusive for a non-exclusive arrangement.Posted by Ram416…………………………Posted by Cc1124You're overthinking, keeping tabs on him when you don't really need to (read: not yet exclusive). You're basically killing the relationship before it even has a chance to grow.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
………………………………
I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
I suppose this is refer to my topic? Cause there was anther story suddenly put in my feed.... I'm a bit confused with all in a sudden hahaa, sorry dear.
I just can't get the things out of my head about he's suddenly updating his dating app profile pictures which making me feel he's looking for spmeone else or thinking I'm not good enough for him to willing to move further....
That's why.. plus he just back in town from the weekend trip but he's having all the friend in town staying over 2 weeks and 1 more weekend trip plus work trip soon , I am just start to worry these gonna cool us down and no more as close as we used to.... 😢
I really need all you guys helping me and i really have to say I'm so glad having you all being here helping me and answering me ?
What are his other placements besides his Sun?
………………………………
Yea I feel I'm being clingy too anyways, so....seems I'm screwing this up.
I'm now anyhow not really in a mood to reply much his messages today, still replying but comparatively less... i need to let myself cool off a little bit.
I don't get the last question tho, thanks 😉
You nitpick and go all crazy over shit you don't even have any place to be fretting over. You're not exclusive yet trying to force this exclusive mindset on the dude and are over analyzing the fuck out of stupid shit. You complain about him possibly distancing himself, yet when he's in touch with you, you just don't "feel like" talking to him?
Quit being a high maintenance hoe princess and take some damned valium. The immaturity and game playing is utterly disgusting. How do women like you manage to land a guy to begin with??
Cancer, Scorpio, or Leo? Which one are you?
……………………
Thanks for the response but I think a bit of politeness is a simple thing just chatting here, but still this helps, thanks!
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Cancer, Scorpio, or Leo?
Posted by Cc1124Your situation is not new. It's been retold again and again about other sun sign men. Some of us just don't have the patience to read the same thing again and again.Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by Cc1124You sound like a fucking psycho, dude.Posted by Ram416Posted by Cc1124You're not yet exclusive. Tell him if you want to be exclusive. You're coming off as being clingy and intrusive for a non-exclusive arrangement.Posted by Ram416…………………………Posted by Cc1124You're overthinking, keeping tabs on him when you don't really need to (read: not yet exclusive). You're basically killing the relationship before it even has a chance to grow.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
………………………………
I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
I suppose this is refer to my topic? Cause there was anther story suddenly put in my feed.... I'm a bit confused with all in a sudden hahaa, sorry dear.
I just can't get the things out of my head about he's suddenly updating his dating app profile pictures which making me feel he's looking for spmeone else or thinking I'm not good enough for him to willing to move further....
That's why.. plus he just back in town from the weekend trip but he's having all the friend in town staying over 2 weeks and 1 more weekend trip plus work trip soon , I am just start to worry these gonna cool us down and no more as close as we used to.... 😢
I really need all you guys helping me and i really have to say I'm so glad having you all being here helping me and answering me ?
What are his other placements besides his Sun?
………………………………
Yea I feel I'm being clingy too anyways, so....seems I'm screwing this up.
I'm now anyhow not really in a mood to reply much his messages today, still replying but comparatively less... i need to let myself cool off a little bit.
I don't get the last question tho, thanks 😉
You nitpick and go all crazy over shit you don't even have any place to be fretting over. You're not exclusive yet trying to force this exclusive mindset on the dude and are over analyzing the fuck out of stupid shit. You complain about him possibly distancing himself, yet when he's in touch with you, you just don't "feel like" talking to him?
Quit being a high maintenance hoe princess and take some damned valium. The immaturity and game playing is utterly disgusting. How do women like you manage to land a guy to begin with??
Cancer, Scorpio, or Leo? Which one are you?
……………………
Thanks for the response but I think a bit of politeness is a simple thing just chatting here, but still this helps, thanks!
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Posted by Cc1124The sun is the overall placement, generic view of the person and his/her ego. There is also the moon (emotions), mercury (communication), mars (energy) and venus (relationships?), plus many others, in 1 person.Posted by Ram416Posted by Cc1124You're not yet exclusive. Tell him if you want to be exclusive. You're coming off as being clingy and intrusive for a non-exclusive arrangement.Posted by Ram416…………………………Posted by Cc1124You're overthinking, keeping tabs on him when you don't really need to (read: not yet exclusive). You're basically killing the relationship before it even has a chance to grow.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
………………………………
I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
I suppose this is refer to my topic? Cause there was anther story suddenly put in my feed.... I'm a bit confused with all in a sudden hahaa, sorry dear.
I just can't get the things out of my head about he's suddenly updating his dating app profile pictures which making me feel he's looking for spmeone else or thinking I'm not good enough for him to willing to move further....
That's why.. plus he just back in town from the weekend trip but he's having all the friend in town staying over 2 weeks and 1 more weekend trip plus work trip soon , I am just start to worry these gonna cool us down and no more as close as we used to.... 😢
I really need all you guys helping me and i really have to say I'm so glad having you all being here helping me and answering me ?
What are his other placements besides his Sun?
………………………………
Yea I feel I'm being clingy too anyways, so....seems I'm screwing this up.
I'm now anyhow not really in a mood to reply much his messages today, still replying but comparatively less... i need to let myself cool off a little bit.
I don't get the last question tho, thanks 😉click to expand
But personally I feel maybe you shouldn't look into his placements.
Posted by Ram416That and the whole "LOOK AT HOW CRAZY I'M BEING. I WANT YOU TO ASSURE ME THAT MY CRAZY IS OKAY" bit.Posted by Cc1124Your situation is not new. It's been retold again and again about other sun sign men. Some of us just don't have the patience to read the same thing again and again.Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by Cc1124You sound like a fucking psycho, dude.Posted by Ram416Posted by Cc1124You're not yet exclusive. Tell him if you want to be exclusive. You're coming off as being clingy and intrusive for a non-exclusive arrangement.Posted by Ram416…………………………Posted by Cc1124You're overthinking, keeping tabs on him when you don't really need to (read: not yet exclusive). You're basically killing the relationship before it even has a chance to grow.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
………………………………
I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
I suppose this is refer to my topic? Cause there was anther story suddenly put in my feed.... I'm a bit confused with all in a sudden hahaa, sorry dear.
I just can't get the things out of my head about he's suddenly updating his dating app profile pictures which making me feel he's looking for spmeone else or thinking I'm not good enough for him to willing to move further....
That's why.. plus he just back in town from the weekend trip but he's having all the friend in town staying over 2 weeks and 1 more weekend trip plus work trip soon , I am just start to worry these gonna cool us down and no more as close as we used to.... 😢
I really need all you guys helping me and i really have to say I'm so glad having you all being here helping me and answering me ?
What are his other placements besides his Sun?
………………………………
Yea I feel I'm being clingy too anyways, so....seems I'm screwing this up.
I'm now anyhow not really in a mood to reply much his messages today, still replying but comparatively less... i need to let myself cool off a little bit.
I don't get the last question tho, thanks 😉
You nitpick and go all crazy over shit you don't even have any place to be fretting over. You're not exclusive yet trying to force this exclusive mindset on the dude and are over analyzing the fuck out of stupid shit. You complain about him possibly distancing himself, yet when he's in touch with you, you just don't "feel like" talking to him?
Quit being a high maintenance hoe princess and take some damned valium. The immaturity and game playing is utterly disgusting. How do women like you manage to land a guy to begin with??
Cancer, Scorpio, or Leo? Which one are you?
……………………
Thanks for the response but I think a bit of politeness is a simple thing just chatting here, but still this helps, thanks!
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There's been a slew of this shit the last few months on DXP. It's like good god, HE'S not the problem. Do any of these women have anyone around them to tell them that all this shit is NOT okay?
Posted by Ram416…………………………Posted by Cc1124The sun is the overall placement, generic view of the person and his/her ego. There is also the moon (emotions), mercury (communication), mars (energy) and venus (relationships?), plus many others, in 1 person.Posted by Ram416Posted by Cc1124You're not yet exclusive. Tell him if you want to be exclusive. You're coming off as being clingy and intrusive for a non-exclusive arrangement.Posted by Ram416…………………………Posted by Cc1124You're overthinking, keeping tabs on him when you don't really need to (read: not yet exclusive). You're basically killing the relationship before it even has a chance to grow.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Cc1124I would leave Facebook questions for much later.
Sorry, so many questions, about his Facebook i can't see any posts or tags of his, shall I ask? And if yes, how can I bring this up without making him feel like I'm checking or stalking him? 😢
You could say something like if you and your friend need company I'm free on Saturday or something like that to test the water.
………………………………
I will see how i can get the chance then.
Somehow, i have another frustration now (yes i know, maybe sometimes overthinking) but if ever read the story before at https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/did-i-just-fxked-up-with-this-aries-man--8850038/?p=3#8918720
Me and the Aries guys met on dating apps online, and i realised he just updated his profile again when he's on his weekend trip, does it mean I should give up having hope on this guy? Even he's still messaging me every day and still trying to make time to see me at least every week? I'm really upset about this actually, even he messaged me today, i don't really feel like to response much because of that
I suppose this is refer to my topic? Cause there was anther story suddenly put in my feed.... I'm a bit confused with all in a sudden hahaa, sorry dear.
I just can't get the things out of my head about he's suddenly updating his dating app profile pictures which making me feel he's looking for spmeone else or thinking I'm not good enough for him to willing to move further....
That's why.. plus he just back in town from the weekend trip but he's having all the friend in town staying over 2 weeks and 1 more weekend trip plus work trip soon , I am just start to worry these gonna cool us down and no more as close as we used to.... 😢
I really need all you guys helping me and i really have to say I'm so glad having you all being here helping me and answering me ?
What are his other placements besides his Sun?
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Yea I feel I'm being clingy too anyways, so....seems I'm screwing this up.
I'm now anyhow not really in a mood to reply much his messages today, still replying but comparatively less... i need to let myself cool off a little bit.
I don't get the last question tho, thanks 😉
But personally I feel maybe you shouldn't look into his placements.
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Is there a way to find out these things?
Just be really cautious about this. Chances are, if you met on a dating app, then there are other women. I think that’s how dating apps work. It’s an app for serial daters and branch climbers (i.e. people who hold on to someone until they find someone else). People might have started off with good intentions, but then they notice all the people are serial dating and join in, loads of women just out for one night stands too. So if you are serious about finding someone then it might be difficult to get that across. It is possible to meet someone, you just have to be cautious and be prepared to deal with hurt along the way. You may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince.
I would be upset too, I’d be thinking exactly the same as you. If you wanted to ask him about it then… ignore Facebook for now. I think you can ask him about the dating app. Don’t say you saw him on there, don’t ask him about other women. Focus on the relationship, don’t make it sound like you are accusing him or checking up on him. Tell him, that because you both met on a dating app, you want him to know you aren’t talking to other guys on there. You matched and then you stopped using the app, and you want him to know that because you don’t want him to get the wrong impression.
Something like that, then give him chance to be open. Make an assessment of what he says next. If he says he doesn’t use it anymore, and you want to push it, then say “that’s funny, because I noticed you updated you profile” ..but I would actually consider leaving it, depends how you feel, don’t make big decisions when you are emotional though, maybe wait till tomorrow before deciding what to do.
I would be upset too, I’d be thinking exactly the same as you. If you wanted to ask him about it then… ignore Facebook for now. I think you can ask him about the dating app. Don’t say you saw him on there, don’t ask him about other women. Focus on the relationship, don’t make it sound like you are accusing him or checking up on him. Tell him, that because you both met on a dating app, you want him to know you aren’t talking to other guys on there. You matched and then you stopped using the app, and you want him to know that because you don’t want him to get the wrong impression.
Something like that, then give him chance to be open. Make an assessment of what he says next. If he says he doesn’t use it anymore, and you want to push it, then say “that’s funny, because I noticed you updated you profile” ..but I would actually consider leaving it, depends how you feel, don’t make big decisions when you are emotional though, maybe wait till tomorrow before deciding what to do.
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Just be really cautious about this. Chances are, if you met on a dating app, then there are other women. I think that’s how dating apps work. It’s an app for serial daters and branch climbers (i.e. people who hold on to someone until they find someone else). People might have started off with good intentions, but then they notice all the people are serial dating and join in, loads of women just out for one night stands too. So if you are serious about finding someone then it might be difficult to get that across. It is possible to meet someone, you just have to be cautious and be prepared to deal with hurt along the way. You may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince.
I would be upset too, I’d be thinking exactly the same as you. If you wanted to ask him about it then… ignore Facebook for now. I think you can ask him about the dating app. Don’t say you saw him on there, don’t ask him about other women. Focus on the relationship, don’t make it sound like you are accusing him or checking up on him. Tell him, that because you both met on a dating app, you want him to know you aren’t talking to other guys on there. You matched and then you stopped using the app, and you want him to know that because you don’t want him to get the wrong impression.
Something like that, then give him chance to be open. Make an assessment of what he says next. If he says he doesn’t use it anymore, and you want to push it, then say “that’s funny, because I noticed you updated you profile” ..but I would actually consider leaving it, depends how you feel, don’t make big decisions when you are emotional though, maybe wait till tomorrow before deciding what to do.
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This is so nice of you and really patient of your responses, everytime seeing your response really calm me down soooooo much and helps me a lot knowing what exactly is right to do while I am so much messing up with my own head and feelings T.T
I will definitely to see if any chance to bring this up casually without pushing him and I am sure I won't mention I have noticed the profile update thing tho, LOL....
Somehow, I think I should wait until all the friend 2 weeks staying over and his 2 upcoming trips done, and once things going sweeter as before first — (if this gonna happen,,,hahaa) too many things going on on his side, guess probably let him have his own time first, unless he would really try to make time for me this week or the next as he said he would try.......will see T.T
AriesJo, thank you soooooo much, I cant thank you enough for all your great great adviseeeeee, it really making me feel like I do have someone around understand and stopping me to frustrate myself for no reason LOL
*eyeroll*
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I'm feeling a bit clingy to him now maybe, should I be a little bit step back or anything I should be doing or doing less to get him chase me again?