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Does anyone else have to bite their tongue when they see someone on Facebook liking/sharing a post that is the absolute opposite of who they really are?

I saw one tonight where the person in question liked a post about chivalry being dead. The article was something along the lines of hook up culture, women not expecting guys to do that type of thing, guys becoming lazy because they can get away with the minimal effort and get maximal gains, etc.

The funny part was that the person in question tends to sleep with dumb, troubled girls, strippers, and whatever else happens to put out for him.

...I loled and had to resist from saying something about it, it was so ridiculous.

But I've seen stuff like this happen before and it can be SO hard not to say something sometimes haha.

"Really?? YOU'RE liking/sharing this post? Bwahahaha! What the hell for??"
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Adding a tidbit to the Scorp friend bs.

His show was tonight. I saw pics being posted on instagram. Turns out he also had someone help out with his makeup- a chick we both know that's a makeup "artist."

I do not have a good history with this chick. In fact, I cannot stand her. She's a two faced, vile human being.

Last weekend, he was talking about misc. things with some of our friends and I caught snippets of it. She came up and they talked about how she was going to help him out and how she'd be able to get something so detailed done so fast.

"Oh you remember her, right?" I pause, make a face and said something derogatory in regard to this chick, just to make it clear I DO remember her and I'm not entirely too fond of her.

So tonight's show is why they were talking about her and he was asking me to help at this show.

...SO glad I didn't go. It would have just added more insult to injury. I'm already fed up with all this crap and then I would show up only to see that she's there as well? OH YEAH LOADS OF FUN.

Crisis averted!
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Posted by Rambunctious76
Yeahh fwb arrangements do nada for me now...



Yeah, I thought I was over it. But then this one happened. *shrugs* Logic tells me to not bother, and I won't for quite some time. Then... stuff happens haha.

Posted by biosynthesis
After conversing with a gemini for more than a fucking hour, my primal aries nature is awakened and I want to kill something. They fucking interrupt me every second, have the most retarded conspiracy theories, and talk constantly. Other than that they aight. Just more than an hour is team too much.
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I've noticed this about some. I know a few who just seem to talk AT me as opposed to talking TO me. I could just mentally check out/not answer messages and I'm pretty sure they'd essentially be having a convo with themselves since they don't even notice haha.
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Yeah, I'm really missing the quality of care at her usual hostpital. Prior to using that hospital and its network, she'd had stays at two others in her home town. One wasn't too bad, and the other was just meh.

This previous one was where she had all her medical stuff done, along with all her docs. They dropped her insurance and we had to start all over with new docs in the middle of her treatment. I took her to this current hospital with a bit of hesitance since her old hospital was technically still in network (just not the docs, oddly enough). But this one is affiliated with all her current docs so yeah.

I was reading reviews on yelp and it reflects some of what I've seen so far. The nurses and docs are nice enough. but when she was in the ER it was so maddening that they weren't paying attention to the real issue and were focused on issues that weren't a problem since they're being managed by her current medical team. "OMG WHY IS THIS HAPPENING. WHAT IS THAT? OMG WE'LL TEST IT!"

...how about we worry about why we're ACTUALLY here? kthx. I know they deal with mostly below average IQs/knowledge of medical stuff, but Jesus. I'm sitting here telling you detailed history from memory, holding a packet her doc gave us with meds, history, and a report explaining why she's there and I get shrugged off and she's sent in for a battery of tests that aren't really related? I understand they're covering their asses, but maybe if they'd LOOKED at the medical history I'm holding in my hand...

It's kinda funny, all the medical horror stories you hear from other people and why healthcare overall gets a bad rap due to these individuals was something we hadn't experienced prior to this, fortunately. I was always thankful that her team over at the previous hospital was amazing. Now, we're experiencing a lot of the problem areas I hear from other people. It's so maddening. Fortunately, after some weeding, I'm happy with her current set of docs.
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I'm such a dorkkkkk. bwhahahaha

So growing up there were some tunes my dad would play every new year's eve. One of them was really catchy and funky and I remember little me running around the house. Yes, I had no idea what dancing is so I would just run from one corner to the house to another nonstop. He doesn't know English so there was no way for me growing up to find that song. After I started studying English I tried to remember the phonetics and it sounded like "oh pepper note, oh pepper note". Which made zero sense.

I FOUND IT TODAY. YAAAAY.

It's Rednex's Old Pop In An Oak. pepper note, old pop in an oak..same shit. bwhahah

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Yeah, I'm really missing the quality of care at her usual hostpital. Prior to using that hospital and its network, she'd had stays at two others in her home town. One wasn't too bad, and the other was just meh.

It's kinda funny, all the medical horror stories you hear from other people and why healthcare overall gets a bad rap due to these individuals was something we hadn't experienced prior to this, fortunately. I was always thankful that her team over at the previous hospital was amazing. Now, we're experiencing a lot of the problem areas I hear from other people. It's so maddening. Fortunately, after some weeding, I'm happy with her current set of docs.



RRI when my dad was ill we had this experience in reverse sans the insurance and treatment change. He finally got answers after years and a proper cancer diagnosis. In the latter part of him being ill we really had very good medical care and encouraging nursing staff. Stay encouraged and I hope she gets the care and staff she needs soon with the new staff you found.
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I keep wanting to be alone which is usual, but I am so glad it is November finally. This October was by far the strangest one in a while.



Why?

It was probably Mercury retrograde.
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Yes, that retrograde cleared house. I think my placements made me just want alone time because people seemed so drained during the whole process. Though the next two months are clearing months as well it will be different
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Posted by biosynthesis
^^you have a scorp moon dude, of course you won't open up right away. Sometimes you guys are worse than cap moons lol, nah jkz we're worse.



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I've dated a Cap moon before. For some strange reason Cap suns and/or cap moons are able to break through that barrier with very little effort.

It's mind-boggling...
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lol cap and scorp moons are very similar, except the cap moons are better at being robots. Scorp moons have a human touch even though they like to hide shit.
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Posted by Rambunctious76
Had dinner with Aries moon tonight...wasn't planning to got out since my exams are coming up next week.I decided hell why not?

This isn't the first time she's initiated brunch/lunch/dinner. So I wasn't expecting anything but the usual hours of chatting over food and drinks.

Turns out she wanted to tell me something - that she went on a date earlier this week. 3 months ago when I first got to know her properly, she'd told me she wanted to be single for awhile and didn't want anyone to get hurt.

Needless to say what she told me tonight kind of broke my heart into a million pieces...I was speechless...I'd respected her need to be single...only to be told this today. She said her decision to go on a date was to figure things out, try to understand women better.

After we parted ways, I gave her a piece of advice via text...about dating and women...and her response was:

"Thank you. I really appreciate your friendship...for the purpose of being direct and straightforward."

A part of me says I'm done here...why continue being a fool and staying around?
Another part of me says to stay.

But in reality I don't want to.

*hugs*
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Long again. Spent all day at the hospital waiting for a doc who the nurse never relayed the message to that I wanted to talk to him.

I really dislike this hospital. The lack of and communication is atrocious. Have been so spoiled by the usual one she goes to for her surgeries. :/

Got good news that her chemo has shrunk the tumors by about half. Yay



I can empathise...not sure what is it these days with doctors and nurses...

My grandmother suffered a massive stroke because of the meds her doctor was giving her after her mastectomy. All he could say was, "Sorry."
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To follow up on this, she's back in the hospital after 2 weeks. Why? Those antibiotics they gave her are fucking up her kidneys. She's in ICU and stable.

She was doing fine before this, sans the infection that she had and some side effects from chemo. Now she has a UTI and possibly damaged kidneys from the treatment because of a small wound on her hand that needed these stupid antibiotics.

We can't get a break. :/
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I'm tired. I've spent all day at the hospital. My Thanksgiving started off with a phone call from the doc about my mom's declining health.

We don't think she'll pull out of this. The odds are against her. There's a slight chance she could pull through, but we've basically braced ourselves. :/

Happy Thanksgiving. *cough*

The universe hates me and my family.