Posted by Greendream69So should I just ignore him when he says these things or call him out?
My Aries has talked " down to me a few times...calling me out on really obvious or trivial things. When he does this he infers that he has to look out for me or " no one will".. I'm not sure how to respond .. I feel a love hate relationship with him? Why does he do this to me?? TIA
Posted by Greendream69It has nothing to do with sign!
My Aries has talked " down to me a few times...calling me out on really obvious or trivial things. When he does this he infers that he has to look out for me or " no one will".. I'm not sure how to respond .. I feel a love hate relationship with him? Why does he do this to me?? TIA
Posted by KoniuchaaYes! ———??I feel it's fair—! Not sure if I want to start crap with him but I know I wouldn't put up with that from anyone else!
Have you considered pummeling him?
Posted by dolluxeNo one was around today but he has said things lol he tjis a few times but only in front of his buddies. And I'm a Libra
He does this to you in front of other people?
What is your sign?
Posted by dolluxePosted by Greendream69Jfc. You're a Libra. Walk away.Posted by dolluxeNo one was around today but he has said things lol he tjis a few times but only in front of his buddies. And I'm a Libra
He does this to you in front of other people?
What is your sign?
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Posted by Explicit
He's just trying to protect you and loves you.
He's going about it the wrong way though.
I knew an Aries man like that once. We weren't compatible though because our ego's were too big and none of us budged during fights so it eventually fizzled out.
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Don't let him talk down to you that way. Walk away and grow a backbone. He'll always do it if you don't put him in his place. I guarantee that if you give him a taste of his own medicine hell eventually stop doing it. my ex used to do annoying shit all the time on top of that he'd like to bully me.
They really are big babies because when I started doing that back to him, hed get all button hurt and go an sulk on his own. Only to seek out 'justice' by flirting with other women online.
With an aries you have to be the domineering one and put them in their place when they step out of line. Picture a kid taunting mommy. When mommy pulls out the whip they cry, beg, and wheep. Assholes
Posted by Greendream69Posted by aquarius_beauty
Don't let him talk down to you that way. Walk away and grow a backbone. He'll always do it if you don't put him in his place. I guarantee that if you give him a taste of his own medicine hell eventually stop doing it. my ex used to do annoying shit all the time on top of that he'd like to bully me.
They really are big babies because when I started doing that back to him, hed get all button hurt and go an sulk on his own. Only to seek out 'justice' by flirting with other women online.
With an aries you have to be the domineering one and put them in their place when they step out of line. Picture a kid taunting mommy. When mommy pulls out the whip they cry, beg, and wheep. Assholes
Posted by RemixGeneralFishyLike many things in life that, as we grow more experienced with them, we come to learn are much more complicated than we had originally thought, generalizing individuals based on a sun sign is not always - or even often - accurate. Mileage varies between individuals, and I don't think sulking and ignoring someone when called out, or refusing to admit a person is wrong, is a characteristic of many Aries. Yes, I've seen it in some, but I've seen that behavior in many human beings, regardless their date of birth.
Because Arieses are the babies of the zodiac. They lack tact and refinement. Think of them as overgrown children. Same reason why they mostly refuse to admit they're wrong and when called out on it, they sulk and ignore you.
Posted by Greendream69This obviously makes you feel bad, and for good reason: you're an adult. Why would you want to be made to feel inadequate by your significant other? Do you ever see it as a poor attempt to manipulate you? It also feels pretty critical. It's immature behavior and I wouldn't want to live with it.
My Aries has talked " down to me a few times...calling me out on really obvious or trivial things. When he does this he infers that he has to look out for me or " no one will".. I'm not sure how to respond .. I feel a love hate relationship with him? Why does he do this to me?? TIAclick to expand
Posted by missionPosted by RemixGeneralFishyLike many things in life that, as we grow more experienced with them, we come to learn are much more complicated than we had originally thought, generalizing individuals based on a sun sign is not always - or even often - accurate. Mileage varies between individuals, and I don't think sulking and ignoring someone when called out, or refusing to admit a person is wrong, is a characteristic of many Aries. Yes, I've seen it in some, but I've seen that behavior in many human beings, regardless their date of birth.
Because Arieses are the babies of the zodiac. They lack tact and refinement. Think of them as overgrown children. Same reason why they mostly refuse to admit they're wrong and when called out on it, they sulk and ignore you.Posted by Greendream69This obviously makes you feel bad, and for good reason: you're an adult. Why would you want to be made to feel inadequate by your significant other? Do you ever see it as a poor attempt to manipulate you? It also feels pretty critical. It's immature behavior and I wouldn't want to live with it.
My Aries has talked " down to me a few times...calling me out on really obvious or trivial things. When he does this he infers that he has to look out for me or " no one will".. I'm not sure how to respond .. I feel a love hate relationship with him? Why does he do this to me?? TIAclick to expand
Posted by Greendream69How old are you both?Posted by dolluxeNo one was around today but he has said things lol he tjis a few times but only in front of his buddies. And I'm a Libra
He does this to you in front of other people?
What is your sign?click to expand
Posted by ScufflesPosted by Greendream69Going by some of the Arians' responses here, I think he cares about you but shows it in an inconsiderate way. Have you tried confronting him about this behavior so that he'll learn how to set boundaries when it comes to his attitude and show respect with his interaction towards you?
My Aries has talked " down to me a few times...calling me out on really obvious or trivial things. When he does this he infers that he has to look out for me or " no one will".. I'm not sure how to respond .. I feel a love hate relationship with him? Why does he do this to me?? TIAclick to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by Greendream69How old are you both?Posted by dolluxeNo one was around today but he has said things lol he tjis a few times but only in front of his buddies. And I'm a Libra
He does this to you in front of other people?
What is your sign?click to expand
Posted by Greendream69Just wondered if it was immaturity but he should really be on the other end of that by now. Put him in his place. Tell him it ain't acceptable, I wouldn't see any other option tbh. Love yourself and don't accept from bs from any man.Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by Greendream69How old are you both?Posted by dolluxeNo one was around today but he has said things lol he tjis a few times but only in front of his buddies. And I'm a Libra
He does this to you in front of other people?
What is your sign?
He's 28 I'm 31
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Posted by Greendream69Be careful in how you call him out. It might just make him angry, and he won't know how to handle it. If he is young he may not have anger refinement. We are usually right, so when we are wrong we don't like to be criticized. 🙂Posted by Greendream69So should I just ignore him when he says these things or call him out?
My Aries has talked " down to me a few times...calling me out on really obvious or trivial things. When he does this he infers that he has to look out for me or " no one will".. I'm not sure how to respond .. I feel a love hate relationship with him? Why does he do this to me?? TIA
I have never heard him talk this way to anyone else in the office!click to expand
Posted by Greendream69Nooo... imo you need to shut this down.Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by Greendream69How old are you both?Posted by dolluxeNo one was around today but he has said things lol he tjis a few times but only in front of his buddies. And I'm a Libra
He does this to you in front of other people?
What is your sign?
He's 28 I'm 31
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Posted by SeraphlightOh he has a lot of Aries and Callie placements... I really feel
It depends ..he could be justifying treating you badly by saying ..no one else looks out for you. You need me..so put up with it.
The cappie used to do that.
Posted by Greendream69** cappie lolPosted by SeraphlightOh he has a lot of Aries and Callie placements... I really feel
It depends ..he could be justifying treating you badly by saying ..no one else looks out for you. You need me..so put up with it.
The cappie used to do that.
Like crawling under a rock??click to expand
Posted by Greendream69Sorry for the assumption.Posted by missionPosted by RemixGeneralFishyLike many things in life that, as we grow more experienced with them, we come to learn are much more complicated than we had originally thought, generalizing individuals based on a sun sign is not always - or even often - accurate. Mileage varies between individuals, and I don't think sulking and ignoring someone when called out, or refusing to admit a person is wrong, is a characteristic of many Aries. Yes, I've seen it in some, but I've seen that behavior in many human beings, regardless their date of birth.
Because Arieses are the babies of the zodiac. They lack tact and refinement. Think of them as overgrown children. Same reason why they mostly refuse to admit they're wrong and when called out on it, they sulk and ignore you.Posted by Greendream69This obviously makes you feel bad, and for good reason: you're an adult. Why would you want to be made to feel inadequate by your significant other? Do you ever see it as a poor attempt to manipulate you? It also feels pretty critical. It's immature behavior and I wouldn't want to live with it.
My Aries has talked " down to me a few times...calling me out on really obvious or trivial things. When he does this he infers that he has to look out for me or " no one will".. I'm not sure how to respond .. I feel a love hate relationship with him? Why does he do this to me?? TIA
He is not my significant other though....
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Posted by Libramisshahaha,
Maybe he likes you and is insecure about it. Like the boys in kindergarten pulling the hair on the girls they like kinda way because they don't know how else to show it. Lolol. 😆
Posted by LibramissYes I am, I know I would find it hilarious.Posted by spurAre you telling OP to say "yes daddy" to him? 😆Posted by Libramisshahaha,
Maybe he likes you and is insecure about it. Like the boys in kindergarten pulling the hair on the girls they like kinda way because they don't know how else to show it. Lolol. 😆
I said to my best friends wife a couple months ago to stay off her feet after a surgery because she was running around doing stuff when she shouldn't be. So yeah it is obvious. Not meant to be your too stupid to know that. Just a way for us to show we care about you as a person. It is just a matter of perspective. Her response to me was "yes Daddy" hahaha. So I laughed. So you could try that. He might find it funny.
Haha him being an aries that might actually work. I sometimes tell my aries man "ayay captain" and then salute him when he is going on and on about something. 😄
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Posted by spurPosted by LibramissYes I am, I know I would find it hilarious.Posted by spurAre you telling OP to say "yes daddy" to him? 😆Posted by Libramisshahaha,
Maybe he likes you and is insecure about it. Like the boys in kindergarten pulling the hair on the girls they like kinda way because they don't know how else to show it. Lolol. 😆
I said to my best friends wife a couple months ago to stay off her feet after a surgery because she was running around doing stuff when she shouldn't be. So yeah it is obvious. Not meant to be your too stupid to know that. Just a way for us to show we care about you as a person. It is just a matter of perspective. Her response to me was "yes Daddy" hahaha. So I laughed. So you could try that. He might find it funny.
Haha him being an aries that might actually work. I sometimes tell my aries man "ayay captain" and then salute him when he is going on and on about something. 😄
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Posted by RemixGeneralFishyThat is so not true
Because Arieses are the babies of the zodiac. They lack tact and refinement. Think of them as overgrown children. Same reason why they mostly refuse to admit they're wrong and when called out on it, they sulk and ignore you.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesThat is so so true. I've known my Aries mom for 31 years, she's exactly like that.Posted by RemixGeneralFishyThat is so not true
Because Arieses are the babies of the zodiac. They lack tact and refinement. Think of them as overgrown children. Same reason why they mostly refuse to admit they're wrong and when called out on it, they sulk and ignore you.click to expand
Posted by Greendream69No matter what their sign i have had men always talking down to me. if he wants a good debate give him one. just make sure you have facts straight on things. lol i learned a long time ago that i would start fights with my hubby when i was board. lol everything you said my hubby does to me and he is a vigo. you can do a few things, give him the fight he wants, throw him off guard by doing something funny and crazy, or walk away from him ever time he does it. have you told him how you feel about it when thing are in a calm state.
My Aries has talked " down to me a few times...calling me out on really obvious or trivial things. When he does this he infers that he has to look out for me or " no one will".. I'm not sure how to respond .. I feel a love hate relationship with him? Why does he do this to me?? TIA
Posted by RemixGeneralFishy— Sums up my Aries husband in a nutshell
Because Arieses are the babies of the zodiac. They lack tact and refinement. Think of them as overgrown children. Same reason why they mostly refuse to admit they're wrong and when called out on it, they sulk and ignore you.
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