Aries man with Leo woman

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So anyone else have good experiences with this combo?

There are definitely problems in the relationship.. we've been together 6 months now and it has been a rollercoaster. he pursued me in the beginning, he contacted me from plenty of fish because I had just gotten out of an abusive marriage and needed a confidence boost so my coworker recommended I make a profile and get compliments lol, he contacted me and the way he did it was very straightforward, which made me want to respond (the only guy I replied to actually lol) and from there he was contacting me often, telling me that we were going to meet and get along and do art together.. and it was very blunt. I gave him a chance and we met and it was an intense connection. Our main problems in the beginning were that I felt like I couldn't get in touch with him on my terms, He wouldn't call or text back right away.. he would be hella late to plans. He wouldn't give me a lot of attention when we were together. I had to adapt to his personality ALOT.. because I didn't understand it. I also realized early on that any form of criticism really pissed him off.. and when he was mad it was super intimidating.. but we would talk through it and I began to understand what his needs were.. I also learned how to phrase things I needed in a way that would not make him feel like he was failing, or a bad person. I had to be gentle in my approach with him. That eliminated 90% of our problems. He ended up leaving the state for about a month and half to help his sister.. and we became long distant.. but he flew me out to meet all of his family. It was tough because I felt insecure while he was gone but just had to keep myself busy and not let those thoughts come up in conversations lol.

From there we had issues, as I am still learning how to discuss things like needing more attention.. needing more physical moments (he is great at sex.. but from what he's been through with exes and using sex as a way to cope, prior to meeting me he shut that side of himself down.. so now he doesn't have the same desire to have a lot of sex like he did before and I have a HUUUGE sex drive so I feel frustrated a lot from it lacking.. but we have talked through it and it's getting better.) we had a major fight about 3 weeks ago in which I attempted to talk about us and what we needed to work on.. but my wording was bad and he blew up at me and we broke up and then he slept with 2 people. :/ somehow we managed to get past that and although I felt my self-esteem drop knowing he slept with others so fast.. and I went off on the girls.. and just it was a mess. I ended up having to apologize to them.. and somehow I just allowed us to move past it.. its going sooo good now. We have decided to move in together and we work so well, our personalities mesh very well. I am a happy lion.
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horrible.. this combo brings exactly

What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess
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Posted by ragingfirelove

horrible.. this combo brings exactly

What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess


"Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet."

I just made a post about my Aries and I'm a Leo too. Is this true for most Aries men^^^?
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Posted by ragingfirelove

horrible.. this combo brings exactly

What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess


Honestly the good outweighs the bad for me in this relationship so it's easy to stay. I have a lot of other signs in my chart which makes this combo work well..

He is aries sun and moon, but venus in pisces which makes him a little softer.. he also has Taurus rising. I am leo sun but border on cancer, and aquarius rising, Capricorn moon, and virgo in venus.. so I tend to be more nurturing and I can control the urge for attention a lot easier than most leos so I don't end up feeling used or feeling frustrated by lack of attention.. and when I do want attention I am a communicator so I will ask him for it. Not often enough that it gets annoying and I usually will say something like "Can you hold me? I need a hug" and that usually fills my meter for a while lol.
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Cancerleo91
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Posted by ragingfirelove

horrible.. this combo brings exactly

What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess


"Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet."

I just made a post about my Aries and I'm a Leo too. Is this true for most Aries men^^^?
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This is typically all aries. They are like babies.. extremely vulnerable, but pretend to be super tough.. stuck in their ways, can't see past their perspective.. flighty, constantly changing ideas/hobbies.. flirty.. etc. They need freedom while still feeling like you are home for them.
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Posted by ragingfirelove

horrible.. this combo brings exactly

What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess


"Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet."

I just made a post about my Aries and I'm a Leo too. Is this true for most Aries men^^^?


This is typically all aries. They are like babies.. extremely vulnerable, but pretend to be super tough.. stuck in their ways, can't see past their perspective.. flighty, constantly changing ideas/hobbies.. flirty.. etc. They need freedom while still feeling like you are home for them.
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Hmm thanks for the 411. I've never dated an Aries and I don't know too many. Do you mind giving your feedback on my post since you seem knowledgeable haha?
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Posted by ragingfirelove

horrible.. this combo brings exactly

What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess


"Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet."

I just made a post about my Aries and I'm a Leo too. Is this true for most Aries men^^^?


This is typically all aries. They are like babies.. extremely vulnerable, but pretend to be super tough.. stuck in their ways, can't see past their perspective.. flighty, constantly changing ideas/hobbies.. flirty.. etc. They need freedom while still feeling like you are home for them.


Hmm thanks for the 411. I've never dated an Aries and I don't know too many. Do you mind giving your feedback on my post since you seem knowledgeable haha?
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I did 🙂
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Posted by Cancerleo91

Posted by ragingfirelove

horrible.. this combo brings exactly

What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess


Honestly the good outweighs the bad for me in this relationship so it's easy to stay. I have a lot of other signs in my chart which makes this combo work well..

He is aries sun and moon, but venus in pisces which makes him a little softer.. he also has Taurus rising. I am leo sun but border on cancer, and aquarius rising, Capricorn moon, and virgo in venus.. so I tend to be more nurturing and I can control the urge for attention a lot easier than most leos so I don't end up feeling used or feeling frustrated by lack of attention.. and when I do want attention I am a communicator so I will ask him for it. Not often enough that it gets annoying and I usually will say something like "Can you hold me? I need a hug" and that usually fills my meter for a while lol.
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I'm also Leo on cancer cusp, venus in virgo. The short time I dated an Aries was awful lol. But you have your mind made up. Hope it works out.
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Posted by ragingfirelove

horrible.. this combo brings exactly

What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess


Honestly the good outweighs the bad for me in this relationship so it's easy to stay. I have a lot of other signs in my chart which makes this combo work well..

He is aries sun and moon, but venus in pisces which makes him a little softer.. he also has Taurus rising. I am leo sun but border on cancer, and aquarius rising, Capricorn moon, and virgo in venus.. so I tend to be more nurturing and I can control the urge for attention a lot easier than most leos so I don't end up feeling used or feeling frustrated by lack of attention.. and when I do want attention I am a communicator so I will ask him for it. Not often enough that it gets annoying and I usually will say something like "Can you hold me? I need a hug" and that usually fills my meter for a while lol.

I'm also Leo on cancer cusp, venus in virgo. The short time I dated an Aries was awful lol. But you have your mind made up. Hope it works out.
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If I may ask, what happened? Was he really mean?
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horrible.. this combo brings exactly

What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess


Honestly the good outweighs the bad for me in this relationship so it's easy to stay. I have a lot of other signs in my chart which makes this combo work well..

He is aries sun and moon, but venus in pisces which makes him a little softer.. he also has Taurus rising. I am leo sun but border on cancer, and aquarius rising, Capricorn moon, and virgo in venus.. so I tend to be more nurturing and I can control the urge for attention a lot easier than most leos so I don't end up feeling used or feeling frustrated by lack of attention.. and when I do want attention I am a communicator so I will ask him for it. Not often enough that it gets annoying and I usually will say something like "Can you hold me? I need a hug" and that usually fills my meter for a while lol.

I'm also Leo on cancer cusp, venus in virgo. The short time I dated an Aries was awful lol. But you have your mind made up. Hope it works out.

If I may ask, what happened? Was he really mean?
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Lol not really Just everything in my first post basically and ulimately it came down to the fact that He was a player, liked to have multiple women after him (Might've been his moon in Leo showing lol) I don't doubt he was sleeping with them or at least trying to. I don't like that shit so I cut it off. They don't go away easily though just the other day he texted me(after weeks of no contact) asking to see me I said no and he asked "What did I do" *eye roll*. I'm done, I'm done.

Oh and funny thing he actually made a collage of all his recent women on snapchat... Like flaunting that he messed with "pretty girls" Smdh thats like little boy ish 100x. If I didn't think it was so petty and telling of his character, I might have fell for the trap and contacted him telling him to take my pic off that shit. But he would have got a kick out of that and I'm not giving him the satisfaction lol
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Posted by ragingfirelove

horrible.. this combo brings exactly

What you describe Leo will feel like shes not getting enough attention, everything on his terms, sometimes feel used. He can't sit down for 2 seconds. Huge flirt but probably won't let you see that. Fragile ego but tried to appear macho. Ugh... Maybe that's just immature Aries men. Haven't met a mature one yet. I wouldn't keep wasting my time. He already shows he can't deal with simple conversations about you two. And he's not very committed (sleeping around so fast) But your gonna do what you want. Live and learn I guess


Honestly the good outweighs the bad for me in this relationship so it's easy to stay. I have a lot of other signs in my chart which makes this combo work well..

He is aries sun and moon, but venus in pisces which makes him a little softer.. he also has Taurus rising. I am leo sun but border on cancer, and aquarius rising, Capricorn moon, and virgo in venus.. so I tend to be more nurturing and I can control the urge for attention a lot easier than most leos so I don't end up feeling used or feeling frustrated by lack of attention.. and when I do want attention I am a communicator so I will ask him for it. Not often enough that it gets annoying and I usually will say something like "Can you hold me? I need a hug" and that usually fills my meter for a while lol.

I'm also Leo on cancer cusp, venus in virgo. The short time I dated an Aries was awful lol. But you have your mind made up. Hope it works out.

If I may ask, what happened? Was he really mean?


Lol not really Just everything in my first post basically and ulimately it came down to the fact that He was a player, liked to have multiple women after him (Might've been his moon in Leo showing lol) I don't doubt he was sleeping with them or at least trying to. I don't like that shit so I cut it off. They don't go away easily though just the other day he texted me(after weeks of no contact) asking to see me I said no and he asked "What did I do" *eye roll*. I'm done, I'm done.

Oh and funny thing he actually made a collage of all his recent women on snapchat... Like flaunting that he messed with "pretty girls" Smdh thats like little boy ish 100x. If I didn't think it was so petty and telling of his character, I might have fell for the trap and contacted him telling him to take my pic off that shit. But he would have got a kick out of that and I'm not giving him the satisfaction lol
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Yeah that would get on my nerves too.. mine hasn't shown signs of being a player, but probably because of his Taurus Ascendant and Pisces Venus.. he is actually very loyal.. I've checked his phone several times randomly because after we broke up I was feeling insecure and he told me it was ok to do it.. he's never talking to anyone, deleted dating apps he had before he met me.. he has a lot of female friends on facebook but he also has a lot of male friends too.. adds random people to keep connections for his business. IDK.. he has been very good to me, just eccentric.. stuck in his ways, childish at times.. very forgetful.. not great with phone communication lol but overall a good guy. I'm sorry your guy was such a douchebag.. I wouldn't want to be with him either.. freakin cheaters.