Aries Women and Scorpio Women

Two weeks ago, my cousin had text messaged me that she wants me to create a MYSPACE account for her. I was pretty darn shocked. It's not normal of her to "want" to create an account. So I called her and asked her why? She said because she wanted to show her husband's mistress how beautiful she looks. I ignored her request (due to problems I posted up a while ago. about me minding my own business) so I guess she had someone else made her account and post her pictures up.
Anyway, that same day when I saw her friend's request, I approved it, and I called her right afterwards. I told her, "Why are you making a myspace for?"
She said, "What? I can't or what?" I replied, "No..you could..but that's not your purpose to go onto myspace. and I think that to post your pictures up for that other women to see is a waste of time. You're better than that." But she just told me, "What? is it against your law that I make a myspace? I'll do whatever I want to do." I said, "Yea. I don't care if you go and make friends. But to post your pics up so that other women can see how "beautiful" you are?? that's freaken lame!! Don't lower yourself to her position. and if you don't want to take my advice? Then...I don't know what to tell ya." But she kept on saying, "I'll do whatever I wish." I was pretty upset because when she said it..it was with an attitude..and heck no I sure don't like the sound of it.

Anyhow, we haven't been talking for almost 2 weeks since that incident. And yep. whatta ya know..it's MYSPACE MESSAGE FIGHTS NOW!! and I'm still avoiding her. I know it sounds wrong but it always happens when I soften up and stick by her side. It also happens once too many times.
In the end she turns around and stings me. Now that I'm not there anymore..she tells my sister that she misses me and she feels like she lost what she was really fighting for. What should I do?? I want to talk to her..but yet it feels like my life is soo much more at peace without listening to her drama. I don't know..anyone can give me a good advice?? I care about her..but I hate it when she turns around and does that to me.

Watz the big deal ?

I feel that U shud continue with the good work of being caring. Staying detached and lowering ur expectations about the "returns" would do a lot of good to you.

Hi BeautifulAries-

I too have been in your shoes - we Aries want to help, we desire to help those we love and care for especially when we see that we can be of help. However, sometimes the best thing to do is "detach" as GA stated in his post. Each person has their own path to follow, their own lessons to learn and if we interfer, they are not able to learn their lesson.

If the "drama" is too much and it is draining you - then you may need to step back and take care of yourself. She can only bring into the "drama" if you let her.

Your friend will be fine....we really all need to learn how to be responsible for ourselves and our actions.

Best wishes to you Aries -

Thanks Freebird. You made me feel all the better. I do agree with you. It's actually a good feeling being away??rom all the drama. The less I hear of it the more happier I am.