do aries tolerate cheating?

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i recently saw my aries friend's boyfriend makeout and dance with another girl at this bar we were at. i wanted to tell her that night (i took many videos -- i literally was standing next to them and took them with the flash on so they would stop but they didn't and then i showed it to him but he was too drunk to care) but my mom, friends, friends' moms told me and my other friends not to say anything because our aries friend won't break up with him and will just get mad at us and give us trouble.

now, my one friend finally sees that we should tell her this info and we're thinking about telling her on sunday -- only thing is, her bday is coming up so we didn't want to ruin it but i don't think this can wait, and i won't be back in my hometown until after the 25th.

some background of her relationship: he was dating a girl in college and he was cheating on her with my aries friend (for about 2 or 3 years) -- therefore, he is a serial cheater -- but being a dumb girl, she thought she could change him -- honestly, none of us thought he was cheating on her until we saw it. then finally he broke up with the girl and we graduated from college and in 2017 he finally started seriously dating my aries friend but none of his friends new...fast forward, she now hangs out with his mom all the time, spends time with him and his friends, etc.

so for the aries women on this site, would you want your friends to tell you this information?

oh also, when i confronted his friend about it he said to me "they were just talking in his car they didn't hookup" which i didn't even know about in the first place because we only saw them in the bar so this leads me to believe that more happened than just making out.
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Posted by Yodi
@bloopbloopbloop aren't you worried that she'll be upset at you the longer you wait?
yeah, believe me, i wanted to tell her but everyone convinced me otherwise -- so I'm just going to do it sunday (she's having a bday thing on saturday) -- but honestly if he's there I'm going to throw up on his face and kick him in his privates...so he better not show up.
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Posted by UnicornSag
I told my Aries friend when I saw her bf with another girl. She got drunk and keyed his car. That was the outcome. And ofc left him lol

Not sure what to suggest tho, I kinda feel bad she keyed his car
yeah, that sucks about the car getting keyed (luckily this guy doesn't have a car).

my friend is obsessed with this guy...sucks his d every day, does whatever for him lol. so we're thinking she's not even going to leave him after we tell her but i still feel like she has a right to know -- i just wanted to get some opinions from the inters of web.
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ya cuz they're the ones cheating
lmao she's never cheated on anyone -- I've been friends with her since middle school!
you never know, they won't say, they just do
I wanna agree with you

But that puts me in a weird situation ๐Ÿง

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lmao oh i didn't get the context cause i didn't realize you just sh*tted on me on the other post.
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I told my Aries friend when I saw her bf with another girl. She got drunk and keyed his car. That was the outcome. And ofc left him lol

Not sure what to suggest tho, I kinda feel bad she keyed his car
yeah, that sucks about the car getting keyed (luckily this guy doesn't have a car).

my friend is obsessed with this guy...sucks his d every day, does whatever for him lol. so we're thinking she's not even going to leave him after we tell her but i still feel like she has a right to know -- i just wanted to get some opinions from the inters of web.

My friend was like that exacy with another guy...not sure what happened but eventually she realized how toxic he was and left him so yours will come to that concluaion eventually as well. I don't know what it tales for them to wake up but they just do at some point

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very true -- thank you for sharing "your" experience -- it really does help...f*ck the cheaters!
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@bloopbloopbloop aren't you worried that she'll be upset at you the longer you wait?
yeah, believe me, i wanted to tell her but everyone convinced me otherwise -- so I'm just going to do it sunday (she's having a bday thing on saturday) -- but honestly if he's there I'm going to throw up on his face and kick him in his privates...so he better not show up.
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Kick him where it hurts ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚



Tell her now yo
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Posted by UnicornSag
I told my Aries friend when I saw her bf with another girl. She got drunk and keyed his car. That was the outcome. And ofc left him lol

Not sure what to suggest tho, I kinda feel bad she keyed his car



yeah, that sucks about the car getting keyed (luckily this guy doesn't have a car).



my friend is obsessed with this guy...sucks his d every day, does whatever for him lol. so we're thinking she's not even going to leave him after we tell her but i still feel like she has a right to know -- i just wanted to get some opinions from the inters of web. click to expand
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This is sad. I hate when Aries get like this and lose themselves and their respect. Maybe If you tell her she would snap out of it. But as her friend, you should tell her. Stop worrying about what sheโ€™ll do with the info or what will happen in the relationship. I prefer truth. If I had to lose a friend Because I told her about her scum ass man oh well.