Is Aries man interested in me or am I wasting my time?

Hi everyone,

Taurus female here.. I met this Aries man earlier this year and we started chatting. He asked me out but I told him I have a boyfriend, which was a lie. Well fast forward to a month back we decided to meet up and go on a date. I finally decided to give him a chance.

First date was amazing but we were talking as friends not people who are dating and I noticed that he doesn't talk much but shows action a lot of times. He didn't ask about me having a boyfriend. Second date I ended up sleeping over and we had sex the whole night (most amazing sex ever). The next morning we went to church with his brother and cousin who are really nice. Later on went to lunch, talked about a lot of things but not about us and after lunch we went to visit his friends then we drove back to his house. Spent another night there but didn't have sex since I told him I'm waking up for work and next morning he dropped me off at work told me to "take care".. Never asked me when he's gonna see me again. He texts me good morning, asks me how did I sleep and calls me sweet names like my love, sweetheart and baby but never talks about us whether we dating or not.

I'm really confused, don't know whether I should just leave this whole thing or keep entertaining him and see where it goes.

What was your reason for lying to him in the first place?

Posted by Ram416
What was your reason for lying to him in the first place?

I was afraid to date again after my last relationship so I thought that would make him stop persuing me and move on but it didn't.

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Posted by Ram416
What was your reason for lying to him in the first place?

I was afraid to date again after my last relationship so I thought that would make him stop persuing me and move on but it didn't.

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lol they just love the thrill of the chase

try to play abit hard to get it'll keep them

interested and try not to hurt their feelings

my 2 cents

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Posted by Ram416
What was your reason for lying to him in the first place?

I was afraid to date again after my last relationship so I thought that would make him stop persuing me and move on but it didn't.

lol they just love the thrill of the chase

try to play abit hard to get it'll keep them

interested and try not to hurt their feelings

my 2 cents

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🙂 okay thank you.. I'll do that.

Wait you told him you had a boyfriend though which you didn't but he thought so, but then you just had sex with him but you were together supposedly with your boyfriend, don't you know Aries like the challenges and also he knows you are capable of cheating so why would he want long term if ever with a one who supposedly has a bff.

So now you have to tell him you don't have a boyfriend and start from scratch back to friends mode so you become friends. And get to know each other better. He didn't even ask you questions really.

If he has detaching planets brace your self he is very independent, and can fall in love fast and out of it faster..

Be careful full have fun and take things lightly. And make sure you protect yourself you really don't know him really?.

Posted by Ram416
What was your reason for lying to him in the first place?

Yep... You are lucky you are getting a second chance... the starts are rip for Aries to find someone but make sure he is doing the right things in his life and is not to primal...



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Posted by Ram416
What was your reason for lying to him in the first place?

I was afraid to date again after my last relationship so I thought that would make him stop persuing me and move on but it didn't.

lol they just love the thrill of the chase

try to play abit hard to get it'll keep them

interested and try not to hurt their feelings

my 2 cents

🙂 okay thank you.. I'll do that.

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Agree grow to cold though and we are also done... Don't go silent to long... and also kinda slept with him a little quick but just my thoughts... no judgments... Aries can be idealistic and if a woman is to easy at times that is not always good but he may have chased you long enough... yes he is defiantly on the hunt though...

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dont lie

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Posted by Ram416
What was your reason for lying to him in the first place?

I was afraid to date again after my last relationship so I thought that would make him stop persuing me and move on but it didn't.

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My question still stands. Why lie? You could have told him the truth, and said you needed some time and space to yourself.

I think he's not discussing your status with him because he wants you to tell him the truth. Chances are, he could be equally confused, just as you are.

e.g. "I thought she said she had a boyfriend? What is going on?"

wasting your time. I didn't even have to read your description because if an aries like you you'll never ever have to ask that question. so yeah.

Aries texting good morning? He likes you

Be honest with him and keep it light

Posted by ariessungoddess
wasting your time. I didn't even have to read your description because if an aries like you you'll never ever have to ask that question. so yeah.

Yeah that's the same thing I was thinking. I just decided to let it go and not worry too much about this whole thing, if he likes me he'll show me and I'll never ever have to question whether he likes me or not.

Posted by Fragrance
Aries texting good morning? He likes you

Be honest with him and keep it light

Yeah he called and we spoke about the whole boyfriend issue. I told him the truth and he said wow why would I lie? I told him I'm sorry then he said it's fine. We ended there.. After the phone call he's been checking up on me, texting and all but I've been a bit distant.. Slowly getting over this thing. There's no way it's gonna work. 😢

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Posted by SexyBull
Hi everyone,

Taurus female here.. I met this Aries man earlier this year and we started chatting. He asked me out but I told him I have a boyfriend, which was a lie. Well fast forward to a month back we decided to meet up and go on a date. I finally decided to give him a chance.

First date was amazing but we were talking as friends not people who are dating and I noticed that he doesn't talk much but shows action a lot of times. He didn't ask about me having a boyfriend. Second date I ended up sleeping over and we had sex the whole night (most amazing sex ever). The next morning we went to church with his brother and cousin who are really nice. Later on went to lunch, talked about a lot of things but not about us and after lunch we went to visit his friends then we drove back to his house. Spent another night there but didn't have sex since I told him I'm waking up for work and next morning he dropped me off at work told me to "take care".. Never asked me when he's gonna see me again. He texts me good morning, asks me how did I sleep and calls me sweet names like my love, sweetheart and baby but never talks about us whether we dating or not.

I'm really confused, don't know whether I should just leave this whole thing or keep entertaining him and see where it goes.

Ok not all aries are the same but my guess would be the fact that you slept with him "while having a boyfriend" to him you were put in the FWB category. Then you lied so now you are a liar and he'll think he can't trust you no matter what the reason for lying. If things do progress i think you've set up a bad foundation that will have him not able to trust you or believe what you say which is not good. This is not a judgement more so brutal honesty.

I too question why the need to lie? The fact that you lied when you didn't need to is odd...even if he pursued you you have the power to say yes or no so why lie? either way the lie is told and nothing can do about it really.

I would say that he is using you for the sex for as long as things are new and light and easy. The taking you here and there the next day doesn't mean much he was probably parading his new conquest. but if he wants sex from you there is no reason to not be nice and friendly and text you that would be counterintuitive wouldn't it. so he has to maintain contact and a friendly atmosphere.

If you wanted it to be serious i would not have slept with him i would have made him wait longer to prove himself to you before doing so [there is no set time for this as it is something his actions have to show and that is all a matter of how much interest he has in you] but the first time hanging out or first date whatever it was was definitely not the time and no matter what he may say or do after i would bet money on the fact that mentally he has placed you in the "do not take serious" category.

he didn't have to work for you he didn't have to prove anything and you guys know nothing about each other so i would probably decide are you cool with fwb or not because that is more likely what you are going to be.

trust me i have been here before it sucks but if i had known early on that is what i was being thought of i would have moved on before i got my feelings hurt later on.

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Yeah lying is really wrong. I've learned my lesson. When I love I love deeply so it's better to let go now than to get my feelings hurt later on.

Based on what i read that would be the wrong thing to do if you like this aries. Imo you will simple have to tell him your looking for more and that your serious and then you will have your answer. Aries are full of pride and if they get a bad feeling they will stop pursuing you. I recently dealt with a taurus woman and i knew for a fact she really liked me and maybe even more but she would never admit it or come clean because she was waiting on me she tryed for 6-8 months even with a boyfreind for a few of those months. And thats one of the reason i never jumped in is because i got bad feelings about her and i have a feeling that is what this guy is maybe going threw.

Hi everyone,

I'm back again, thanks for all your input on this topic.

Well I'm so happy, turns out my Aries man is too shy to talk.. I don't know if that is possible with an Aries man but he spoke to me today and he asked when is he seeing me and that I've been very distant lately. He even went on to say that he didn't want to ask me out cause he thought I was "very busy" lol.

Anyway he said I can come over to his place anytime I feel like coming over and that he would like it more if I check up on him from time to time. There's somewhere he wants to take me to .. I'm so excited. Even though I feel bad that I've been blowing hot and cold while his communication is constant.

I want us to talk though when I see him.. If he doesn't open up I won't push, I'll take it slow till he's comfortable enough to open up to me.

Posted by solo87
Based on what i read that would be the wrong thing to do if you like this aries. Imo you will simple have to tell him your looking for more and that your serious and then you will have your answer. Aries are full of pride and if they get a bad feeling they will stop pursuing you. I recently dealt with a taurus woman and i knew for a fact she really liked me and maybe even more but she would never admit it or come clean because she was waiting on me she tryed for 6-8 months even with a boyfreind for a few of those months. And thats one of the reason i never jumped in is because i got bad feelings about her and i have a feeling that is what this guy is maybe going threw.

^_^ you are so right.. Thank God I didn't give up so quickly, I was gonna lose him..



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