Leo woman first time dating Aries man

We’re not exclusive. I’m still reeling from a breakup so I want to go I’m redibly slow. He’s a few years younger than me (23, I’m 26) and lives 2 hours away, but is from my city.

The first time we met up we talked until 5 in the morning and during that time we agreed to go to the movies the next day after 6 PM. He texted me good morning the next day and we talked for a bit and he eventually didn’t say anything. My roommate decided to take me to the movie that he and I were going to see. He contacted me and asked me what I was doing and I told him I was on my way to see the movie. He gets upset and said I should have told him I was going to the movies with someone else since I “clearly already had someone else lined up”. I said wait a minute you stood me up and he said we were up so late the day before and made the plans so late that he forgot and he apologized. I said maybe we should just be friends and he got upset about that too. He ended up deleting my contact because he said he didn’t want to be friends. Eventually we got past that hiccup and moved forward.

Fast forward to now was calling every night texting me good morning each day. He asked me almost a month in advance to take me out for my birthday and was asking to see me a handful of days in advance. So on last Tuesday he said he would be in my city and said, “I would love to see you the entire weekend”. He had a family gathering/dinner he had attend so he said Saturday night it would be a little late for us to go out (around 9) if I still wanted to and Sunday he was free all day. I said sure to seeing each other late. Saturday rolls around and earlier in the evening he asked if 10/11 was fine because his family had asked him to stay longer. Again, I said that was fine (I live in NYC so there’s always things to do) and I mean it’s his family so I’m not unreasonable. He posted videos of the event so I know he was honest about that. He texted me at 10, I responded, and then nothing. 11 rolls around and I send him a message about respecting people’s time and how he was rude. About 40 min later he calls but I don’t pick up. Then he sends me three messages. He said his phone had died and he just got to a charger and didn’t have another way to contact me. Then he called me again. I didn’t answer that phone call either. He texted me the next day saying please don’t be upset with him. I ignore that too. That was a few days ago. Mean while he’s been looking at my insta story so I guess he knew I was blatantly ignoring him. So after a few days I called him last night and he didn’t pick and he has yet to reach back out. He’s nice, handsome, very smart, said he likes me a lot, and made it very clear that he’s not rushing sex because he didn’t think we were ready for that yet which I don’t know by him saying that is a good or bad thing.

I’ve never dated an Aries man so I have no clue what they’re like. I don’t know if I’m just overly suspicious because I’m still reeling from my breakup so I’m on my edge a little and I’m scared OR he’s just not that interested and is playing games.

Thoughts?

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

This is a lot, lol hold up.

1. He definitely should not have gotten upset with you or said that you "clearly had someone else lined up" etc. since y'all agreed to go see the movie together in advance. I don't like that he forgot about having made these plans with you but at least he apologized, which Aries men rarely ever do because their egos are so bloated. That's all well and whatever, but I won't argue with you asking to be friends since you're fresh out of another relationship and really should be taking time to be with yourself and not jumping to someone else romantically, but do what you will.

2. His family is important to him. If I were you, I would've just let him have his family time and not expected him to have free time after the family gathering to do his own shit.

I've gotten to know a lot of Aries men these are some things I've noticed about them collectively:

1. They're shit at making plans and sticking to them. They're more of the "play by ear" type and are very flexible and should stick with partners who can be flexible as well.

2. They have the largest egos I have ever seen. If you have a problem with them, it's best to stop and think about how you phrass your concerns about them to them so that it doesn't sound like you're blaming them for anything. Coming off as accusatory will never get them to admit their wrongs to you. At the same time, passive aggressive behavior will make them want to shoot you away.

3. Aries men are like kids. Impatient, impulsive, selfish. It takes patience to deal with them and help them become less so.

As for the suspiciousness, I definitely wouldn't be suspicious. He's wanted to see you this much and talked to you this often. Give him a chance. Just have patience and go slow.

I'm a Leo woman dating an Aries man as well and believe me when I say you need to have a ton of patience to date them.

Thanks. So you think he's interested and I'm pretty much just worrying for nothing? I guess since he didn't call me back I just figured he changed his mind.

Posted by Smidge

imo it's important leo+aries respect each other from the start, otherwise it'll just be an ongoing power struggle, which seems to already have started with the ignoring thing.

I agree with you and rejuvenated. I get that he screwed up but I should've communicated my issues instead of ignoring.

At this point him not calling back after I ignored him I'm not sure if it's a power struggle :/ ...

Posted by LDM90

We’re not exclusive. I’m still reeling from a breakup so I want to go I’m redibly slow. He’s a few years younger than me (23, I’m 26) and lives 2 hours away, but is from my city.

The first time we met up we talked until 5 in the morning and during that time we agreed to go to the movies the next day after 6 PM. He texted me good morning the next day and we talked for a bit and he eventually didn’t say anything. My roommate decided to take me to the movie that he and I were going to see. He contacted me and asked me what I was doing and I told him I was on my way to see the movie. He gets upset and said I should have told him I was going to the movies with someone else since I “clearly already had someone else lined up”. I said wait a minute you stood me up and he said we were up so late the day before and made the plans so late that he forgot and he apologized. I said maybe we should just be friends and he got upset about that too. He ended up deleting my contact because he said he didn’t want to be friends. Eventually we got past that hiccup and moved forward.

Fast forward to now was calling every night texting me good morning each day. He asked me almost a month in advance to take me out for my birthday and was asking to see me a handful of days in advance. So on last Tuesday he said he would be in my city and said, “I would love to see you the entire weekend”. He had a family gathering/dinner he had attend so he said Saturday night it would be a little late for us to go out (around 9) if I still wanted to and Sunday he was free all day. I said sure to seeing each other late. Saturday rolls around and earlier in the evening he asked if 10/11 was fine because his family had asked him to stay longer. Again, I said that was fine (I live in NYC so there’s always things to do) and I mean it’s his family so I’m not unreasonable. He posted videos of the event so I know he was honest about that. He texted me at 10, I responded, and then nothing. 11 rolls around and I send him a message about respecting people’s time and how he was rude. About 40 min later he calls but I don’t pick up. Then he sends me three messages. He said his phone had died and he just got to a charger and didn’t have another way to contact me. Then he called me again. I didn’t answer that phone call either. He texted me the next day saying please don’t be upset with him. I ignore that too. That was a few days ago. Mean while he’s been looking at my insta story so I guess he knew I was blatantly ignoring him. So after a few days I called him last night and he didn’t pick and he has yet to reach back out. He’s nice, handsome, very smart, said he likes me a lot, and made it very clear that he’s not rushing sex because he didn’t think we were ready for that yet which I don’t know by him saying that is a good or bad thing.

I’ve never dated an Aries man so I have no clue what they’re like. I don’t know if I’m just overly suspicious because I’m still reeling from my breakup so I’m on my edge a little and I’m scared OR he’s just not that interested and is playing games.

Thoughts?

I’ve been with my Aries 4 months now. He doesn’t call me back on time. We may go days without contact thru phone. I used to get irritated but learned to accept that his brain is constantly on the go, distracted easily and phones just don’t go well with him. Even for emergencies I know he may not pick up on time lol so I said “this is who he is. I love him.. I don’t want to change him so I will accept this” my situation is easier because if I really want to see him I can just pop in to his place and he’s so happy to see me, but I also love having space to myself so a lot of times I just keep busy til he reaches out. Unless I’m irritated I don’t typically ignore his calls when he finally calls me back as I know it’s a big deal for him to make that effort.. so I always answer and hear him out without making him feel bad

Damn...all of that because of 40 minutes....lol

Ahhh that Leo pride !...get's in the way more then it should, hey ?... ^^

Why do that ?...And now you are on a astrology forum...arfff...It was impulsive and irrational..oh well, the Teens of the zodiac ^^

Don't see this as me trying to *bash* on you, reality is that i know nothing about him or you, but i am talking with you, so i can only give an advice...well, to you lol

Ok, maybe he was actualy fcking god damn Miranda Kerr and that's why he didn't answered you imediatly (which i really hope he wasn't...for his own safety i mean lol ^^), or maybe he was really telling you the truth...and now you are stuck in 40 minutes of pride...lol

You have to agree with me that it was really stupid lol..it was 40 minutes.... 🙂

You know how you solve this things ?...By Talking to each other, and Aries are very blunt..so, Talk is good ^^

Aries and Leos are extremly similar, they both have the biggest egos, they are also the most competitive signs which eventualy means that they both want to clearly be the divas in their rship hehe ^^ notice how that Leo up there bashed on his own bf while never poiting a single flaw to her/you ^^ charming to say the least hehe

But if you/I asked to her if she liked him, well, i bet that she wold say that she does, and i wold truly believe it ^^ it is what it is...Leos also loveee to show off...and guess which sign also lives to show off ?! 😆

The hardest thing for both this signs in a rship (be it with any sign) is realizing that sometimes (well...most of the times...maybe allways lolol), is that the problem lies within us, rather then on the other person ^^

So...when you place this 2 togheter...and specialy on powerplays....lol...oh shit...😆

And both this sign also Love the powerplays...lolol...2 very dramatic signs hehe so yeah, very similar ^^

So next time...try to be less impulsive, talk, see what he was really up to..you know, do the mature thing, you are also the older one 🙂

Hope that by now everything is ok between you 2, take care 🙂

Posted by IamTheRam

Damn...all of that because of 40 minutes....lol

Ahhh that Leo pride !...get's in the way more then it should, hey ?... ^^

Why do that ?...And now you are on a astrology forum...arfff...It was impulsive and irrational..oh well, the Teens of the zodiac ^^

Don't see this as me trying to *bash* on you, reality is that i know nothing about him or you, but i am talking with you, so i can only give an advice...well, to you lol

Ok, maybe he was actualy fcking god damn Miranda Kerr and that's why he didn't answered you imediatly (which i really hope he wasn't...for his own safety i mean lol ^^), or maybe he was really telling you the truth...and now you are stuck in 40 minutes of pride...lol

You have to agree with me that it was really stupid lol..it was 40 minutes.... 🙂

You know how you solve this things ?...By Talking to each other, and Aries are very blunt..so, Talk is good ^^

Aries and Leos are extremly similar, they both have the biggest egos, they are also the most competitive signs which eventualy means that they both want to clearly be the divas in their rship hehe ^^ notice how that Leo up there bashed on his own bf while never poiting a single flaw to her/you ^^ charming to say the least hehe

But if you/I asked to her if she liked him, well, i bet that she wold say that she does, and i wold truly believe it ^^ it is what it is...Leos also loveee to show off...and guess which sign also lives to show off ?! 😆

The hardest thing for both this signs in a rship (be it with any sign) is realizing that sometimes (well...most of the times...maybe allways lolol), is that the problem lies within us, rather then on the other person ^^

So...when you place this 2 togheter...and specialy on powerplays....lol...oh shit...😆

And both this sign also Love the powerplays...lolol...2 very dramatic signs hehe so yeah, very similar ^^

So next time...try to be less impulsive, talk, see what he was really up to..you know, do the mature thing, you are also the older one 🙂

Hope that by now everything is ok between you 2, take care 🙂

Thanks. We patched things up after I messaged him and he said he was just waiting for my tantrum to be over and he put it behind him. Cool, but we haven’t really been talking so now I don’t know :/