Do opposite ascendants attract?

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Honestly, I've been wondering this for a while because most of the people around me are earth ascendants... and my fiance is a cancer rising while I am a capricorn rising.

When we first met, we were kind of wary of each other.. almost in a defensive state but as time went on, we realized that we really liked each other.

Only problem is new events. Our approaches and reactions to events and problems are completely different.

For example, unexpected bill comes up.

Him: Oh man, how are we going to pay this? I'm freaking out. *sigh* Well, I'll just pay it, don't worry about it. Omg, this is sooo much money! Why? I'm so mad. Ugh.

Me: Well, this is unexpected but it'll be fine. I'll see if we have any money saved somewhere and we can pay it together. Don't pay it by yourself if you're going to be mad about it.

Him: I'm not mad! I'm frustrated.

Me: It'll be .. okay -___- Stop freaking out.

Has anyone else had this combo with someone or dated someone with their opposite rising?
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Fiance? You and the Libra are engaged now?
Yes 🙂


Congratulations to you both!


Thanks! Hows life going for you? 😄


Right now I feel like I don't know what to do with myself lol Mostly I'm with one eye on the mail to arrive so I can book my flight and leave here, but nothing to complain about.

I'm a Cancer Rising, but if I've ever met any Cap Risers I don't know it.

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Lol, I know how you feel. Where do you plan to go? Nice to formally meet you, cancer rising 😄
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Fiance? You and the Libra are engaged now?
Yes 🙂


Congratulations to you both!


Thanks! Hows life going for you? 😄


Right now I feel like I don't know what to do with myself lol Mostly I'm with one eye on the mail to arrive so I can book my flight and leave here, but nothing to complain about.

I'm a Cancer Rising, but if I've ever met any Cap Risers I don't know it.


Lol, I know how you feel. Where do you plan to go? Nice to formally meet you, cancer rising 😄


Nice to meet you too 🙂 Moving to Italy

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Thats wonderful! 😄 Take me with you, pls! lol. What made you want to move there?
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Posted by Lilianni
Sagittarius ascendant

I've attracted a few Gemini ascendants before. You're completely right about having different approaches to things. Like in the 8th house. I get all emotional and confused when it comes to doing the things that matter, whereas for them, they just cut to the chase and casually mentions how "higher up" that other person is.
its so weird, isn't it? :O yet after the waves of tension and disagreement pass, you actually like the person!
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Sagittarius ascendant

I've attracted a few Gemini ascendants before. You're completely right about having different approaches to things. Like in the 8th house. I get all emotional and confused when it comes to doing the things that matter, whereas for them, they just cut to the chase and casually mentions how "higher up" that other person is.
its so weird, isn't it? :O yet after the waves of tension and disagreement pass, you actually like the person!

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Yeah... Its a love hate relationships. I've had a couple of bad experiences with Gemini ascendants