Looking at other guy/girl as they are beautiful...Or do you find this to be messed or a red flag?
Are you Ok with your lover checking another people?
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Lol!! They'd probably be lying if they say they don't check other girls anyway. It's okay!

It used to bother me, but now not so much. I check out girls with him half the time haha as long as he's not flirting with them or trying to hit on them then it's cool.


Posted by EvoxxxscorpioEspecially when it's one of your meals
You can look but you can't touch.
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioIt's beginning of famous Al Paccino monologue in Devils Advocate.
You can look but you can't touch.
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by MyStarsShinelol that's right.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioEspecially when it's one of your meals
You can look but you can't touch.
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"Get yer hands off my juicy mangos"
Haha

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioJuicy everything lolPosted by MyStarsShineJuicy melons not mangoes. LolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by MyStarsShinelol that's right.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioEspecially when it's one of your meals
You can look but you can't touch.
😛
"Get yer hands off my juicy mangos"
Haha
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Posted by TheTinMan—Posted by Teenanot me. I'm not lying if I say I look at other women when I got one of my own. and that's the truth. but there's a difference. I don't check them out, I LLLLLLUSTTTTT!!!
Lol!! They'd probably be lying if they say they don't check other girls anyway. It's okay!
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYou wish...?Posted by GemitatiLol are you calling me the devil.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioIt's beginning of famous Al Paccino monologue in Devils Advocate.
You can look but you can't touch.
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I am saying that you posted a quote without probably realizing it! My favorite.
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHere:Posted by Gemitatilol I was just messin with you I know that movie. LolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioYou wish...?Posted by GemitatiLol are you calling me the devil.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioIt's beginning of famous Al Paccino monologue in Devils Advocate.
You can look but you can't touch.
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I am saying that you posted a quote without probably realizing it! My favorite.
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Let me give you a little inside information about God. God likes to watch. He's a prankster. Think about it. He gives man instincts. He gives you this extraordinary gift, and then what does He do, I swear for His own amusement, his own private, cosmic gag reel, He sets the rules in opposition. It's the goof of all time. Look but don't touch. Touch, but don't taste. Taste, don't swallow. Ahaha. And while you're jumpin' from one foot to the next, what is he doing? He's laughin' His sick, fuckin' ass off! He's a tight-ass! He's a SADIST! He's an absentee landlord! Worship that? NEVER!
Gives me chills...

Doesn't bother me.. as long as no touchy touch.

Posted by EvilHareJots down note to buy some.
Also mirrored sunglasses.
I would like to don't notice this kind of thing but I feel automatically when this happen (damn you scorpio moon) and this kind of thing bothers me.

Posted by EvilHareDude, that's even better. Do eet.Posted by nikkistarI'd post an ands- style sunglasses pic but I haven't shaved or gotten a haircut in like 2 weeks so I look like some kind of Neanderthal.Posted by EvilHareJots down note to buy some.
Also mirrored sunglasses.click to expand

😆 we always checked them out together. hehehe

Posted by EvilHareFine. How about a picture of your nipple again then?Posted by nikkistarNo.Posted by EvilHareDude, that's even better. Do eet.Posted by nikkistarI'd post an ands- style sunglasses pic but I haven't shaved or gotten a haircut in like 2 weeks so I look like some kind of Neanderthal.Posted by EvilHareJots down note to buy some.
Also mirrored sunglasses.click to expand
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?

Posted by raad182Nope, not a fan
Looking at other guy/girl as they are beautiful...Or do you find this to be messed or a red flag?

Posted by raad182Simple answer.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
You're insecure.
And as long as that insecurity remains, your issues will persist.
Be very careful about what you project onto your partner.
Posted by tizianiYes, in the last one most of feelings proved to be right and also 99% of the astrologers say for scorpio mooners " trust your instinct because you easily perceive things that others dont "Posted by raad182Didn't this happen in every one of your relationships so far? You already know.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
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I have Venus opp Moon and Pluto but I don't know if Im really right most of the time or the girl turned my worries into reality after I broke up with her.
Posted by Ram416You mean that I don't see them for who they really are? If yes, would be better to avoid any kind of relationshipPosted by raad182Simple answer.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
You're insecure.
And as long as that insecurity remains, your issues will persist.
Be very careful about what you project onto your partner.click to expand
You better act blind when you with me
Posted by tizianiMy perception isn't something to use, its natural...So I should be okay if I perceive that a girl Im with is putting herself on a plate for other guys?Posted by raad182That's always going to happen. Use your perception to be open to different outcomes, not just the same outcome over and over again.Posted by tizianiYes, in the last one most of feelings proved to be right and also 99% of the astrologers say for scorpio mooners " trust your instinct because you easily perceive things that others dont "Posted by raad182Didn't this happen in every one of your relationships so far? You already know.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
I have Venus opp Moon and Pluto but I don't know if Im really right most of the time or the girl turned my worries into reality after I broke up with her.
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Its messed man maybe our cultures are different
Posted by Infinite8" Makes it so evident what the real problem is when he is the common denominator of every case "Posted by tizianiThat is exactly why it was funny to me, because you weren't trying. It just came out so blunt, to the point and out of CHARACTER (because you are usually much more diplomatic), that it made me laugh!!Posted by Infinite8Not even trying to be funny though, just wish people could stop setting themselves back with astrology when it isn't needed.Posted by tizianiOuuuuuch! ?Posted by raad182Didn't this happen in every one of your relationships so far? You already know.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
Mean, but so funny too...
But yes, I understand your point. Must be tiring if he's always making threads about same issue different girl.
Makes it so evident what the real problem is when he is the common denominator of every case. ?
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Sadly, You're making sense here :/

I don't mind it, I look at beautiful women too. Now if you are disrespectful, oogling, its a different story.
I however never look at other men out of respect for who I'm with. I avert eye contact just to show how much I respect my man. But for some reason, it doesn't bother me if they look.
I however never look at other men out of respect for who I'm with. I avert eye contact just to show how much I respect my man. But for some reason, it doesn't bother me if they look.

Posted by Infinite8This isn't the first time he's admitted it. I suspect it won't be the last time either.Posted by raad182Admittance is a huge step away from denial. So, at least now you know where to focus the energy into solving your issue.Posted by Infinite8" Makes it so evident what the real problem is when he is the common denominator of every case "Posted by tizianiThat is exactly why it was funny to me, because you weren't trying. It just came out so blunt, to the point and out of CHARACTER (because you are usually much more diplomatic), that it made me laugh!!Posted by Infinite8Not even trying to be funny though, just wish people could stop setting themselves back with astrology when it isn't needed.Posted by tizianiOuuuuuch! ?Posted by raad182Didn't this happen in every one of your relationships so far? You already know.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
Mean, but so funny too...
But yes, I understand your point. Must be tiring if he's always making threads about same issue different girl.
Makes it so evident what the real problem is when he is the common denominator of every case. ?
Sadly, You're making sense here :/
Seems like the focus has been off in the past.
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Posted by raad182As a fellow scorp moon, i feel like it breaks the emotional spiritual connection i have with the other person.
I would like to don't notice this kind of thing but I feel automatically when this happen (damn you scorpio moon) and this kind of thing bothers me.
I immediately feel like im not good enough and then the bad behavior starts. Its really the start of the decline of the relationship of which there is no recovery.

Sometimes i will review the mental log ive been keeping of their wins and losses and make a decision.
But more times than not, there is no recovery
But more times than not, there is no recovery
Posted by DMVThis is exactly what I feel, its like the connection starts to fade away and I my head the relationship is already over, I just start to think on how could I finish without hurting the person.Posted by raad182As a fellow scorp moon, i feel like it breaks the emotional spiritual connection i have with the other person.
I would like to don't notice this kind of thing but I feel automatically when this happen (damn you scorpio moon) and this kind of thing bothers me.
I immediately feel like im not good enough and then the bad behavior starts. Its really the start of the decline of the relationship of which there is no recovery.
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What is bothering me, is what the guys said above, this happen everytime, again and again...Like an infinite cycle.

Posted by raad182Trust that the right person wont make you second guess yourself.Posted by tizianiYes, in the last one most of feelings proved to be right and also 99% of the astrologers say for scorpio mooners " trust your instinct because you easily perceive things that others dont "Posted by raad182Didn't this happen in every one of your relationships so far? You already know.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
I have Venus opp Moon and Pluto but I don't know if Im really right most of the time or the girl turned my worries into reality after I broke up with her.click to expand
The minute you start feeling ambivalent, cut ties, end it. For you will always be insecure in the relationship.
Do them and yourself a favor.
Scorp moons have a choice. Get on the emotional rollercoaster or don't.
Posted by Infinite8Im thinking about get into a long period of " no love " maybe forever...but only if I conclude that the problem was Always me...otherwise I will use my plutonic side to do some ssshtPosted by raad182Admittance is a huge step away from denial. So, at least now you know where to focus the energy into solving your issue.Posted by Infinite8" Makes it so evident what the real problem is when he is the common denominator of every case "Posted by tizianiThat is exactly why it was funny to me, because you weren't trying. It just came out so blunt, to the point and out of CHARACTER (because you are usually much more diplomatic), that it made me laugh!!Posted by Infinite8Not even trying to be funny though, just wish people could stop setting themselves back with astrology when it isn't needed.Posted by tizianiOuuuuuch! ?Posted by raad182Didn't this happen in every one of your relationships so far? You already know.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
Mean, but so funny too...
But yes, I understand your point. Must be tiring if he's always making threads about same issue different girl.
Makes it so evident what the real problem is when he is the common denominator of every case. ?
Sadly, You're making sense here :/
Seems like the focus has been off in the past.
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Posted by quicksandthat scene is. too weird. ive never seen the entire movie though.
they really chose a good role for her, because when she talks about that stuff, it's very dual-natured. at least the dark/shadow side of it.
but, only a woman would say that if she's not afraid of losing the man, like who the hell cares.
not to mention she isn't really deeply in love with the current man. kind of a blase' attitude.
Posted by DonJohnlolPosted by quicksand
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Posted by raad182I was on that same cycle..ask Tiz.Posted by DMVThis is exactly what I feel, its like the connection starts to fade away and I my head the relationship is already over, I just start to think on how could I finish without hurting the person.Posted by raad182As a fellow scorp moon, i feel like it breaks the emotional spiritual connection i have with the other person.
I would like to don't notice this kind of thing but I feel automatically when this happen (damn you scorpio moon) and this kind of thing bothers me.
I immediately feel like im not good enough and then the bad behavior starts. Its really the start of the decline of the relationship of which there is no recovery.
What is bothering me, is what the guys said above, this happen everytime, again and again...Like an infinite cycle.click to expand
It stopped when Saturn entered my 5th house.
I cut those people off immediately now. I listen and feel the energy and trust my intuition.
I either want the drama or i dont.
I dont anymore. Any inkling of drama and im out.
Call me a quitter if u want but dammitt i am doing God's work and saving lives by telling people exactly why i am cutting ties and never looking back.
Wait 4 the one who will never give you room to question.
Posted by DMVYou really can relate to my feelings...my only fear is that the problem is me and I'm pushing good people away.Posted by raad182Trust that the right person wont make you second guess yourself.Posted by tizianiYes, in the last one most of feelings proved to be right and also 99% of the astrologers say for scorpio mooners " trust your instinct because you easily perceive things that others dont "Posted by raad182Didn't this happen in every one of your relationships so far? You already know.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
I have Venus opp Moon and Pluto but I don't know if Im really right most of the time or the girl turned my worries into reality after I broke up with her.
The minute you start feeling ambivalent, cut ties, end it. For you will always be insecure in the relationship.
Do them and yourself a favor.
Scorp moons have a choice. Get on the emotional rollercoaster or don't.click to expand
How do I know if my Moon (dont rely on astrology bla bla bla) is really trustful and accurate?

Posted by raad182When you dont trust your instincts that is YOU who will be bringing the drama, not them.Posted by tizianiYes, in the last one most of feelings proved to be right and also 99% of the astrologers say for scorpio mooners " trust your instinct because you easily perceive things that others dont "Posted by raad182Didn't this happen in every one of your relationships so far? You already know.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
I have Venus opp Moon and Pluto but I don't know if Im really right most of the time or the girl turned my worries into reality after I broke up with her.click to expand
You knew damn well they wasn't shyt 2 begin with.
Posted by DonJohni'm more like tom cruise, looking utterly SHOCKED..and maybe repulsed. lolPosted by lisabethur8Posted by quicksandthat scene is. too weird. ive never seen the entire movie though.
they really chose a good role for her, because when she talks about that stuff, it's very dual-natured. at least the dark/shadow side of it.
but, only a woman would say that if she's not afraid of losing the man, like who the hell cares.
not to mention she isn't really deeply in love with the current man. kind of a blase' attitude.
my aqua didn't like this movie either.
it's one of my favorite late night movies. it just takes me straight into the voyage.click to expand


Posted by tizianiThis is so true.Posted by raad182That is semantics. "use" "not use" "natural"Posted by tizianiMy perception isn't something to use, its natural...So I should be okay if I perceive that a girl Im with is putting herself on a plate for other guys?Posted by raad182That's always going to happen. Use your perception to be open to different outcomes, not just the same outcome over and over again.Posted by tizianiYes, in the last one most of feelings proved to be right and also 99% of the astrologers say for scorpio mooners " trust your instinct because you easily perceive things that others dont "Posted by raad182Didn't this happen in every one of your relationships so far? You already know.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
I have Venus opp Moon and Pluto but I don't know if Im really right most of the time or the girl turned my worries into reality after I broke up with her.
Its messed man maybe our cultures are different
If you really have good use for your powers of perception, you could use them on yourself to recognise what you're feeling/when you're feeling it and communicating that with people around you.
Much better than looking up charts online. I guess you have to run through all the women with all the different placements in the world before you give up procrastinating and move onto to perceiving yourself better. Sometimes you just have to tire yourself out and beat yourself into the ground before you get bored of it and do what always needed to be done, all along.
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I myself, just got tired.
Posted by DMVWhy would me bringing the drama?Posted by raad182When you dont trust your instincts that is YOU who will be bringing the drama, not them.Posted by tizianiYes, in the last one most of feelings proved to be right and also 99% of the astrologers say for scorpio mooners " trust your instinct because you easily perceive things that others dont "Posted by raad182Didn't this happen in every one of your relationships so far? You already know.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
I have Venus opp Moon and Pluto but I don't know if Im really right most of the time or the girl turned my worries into reality after I broke up with her.
You knew damn well they wasn't shyt 2 begin with.click to expand
Maybe my instinct is a little bit unbalanced...could happen or not?!
Posted by tiziani" Sometimes you just have to tire yourself out and beat yourself into the ground before you get bored of it and do what always needed to be done, all along. "Posted by raad182That is semantics. "use" "not use" "natural"Posted by tizianiMy perception isn't something to use, its natural...So I should be okay if I perceive that a girl Im with is putting herself on a plate for other guys?Posted by raad182That's always going to happen. Use your perception to be open to different outcomes, not just the same outcome over and over again.Posted by tizianiYes, in the last one most of feelings proved to be right and also 99% of the astrologers say for scorpio mooners " trust your instinct because you easily perceive things that others dont "Posted by raad182Didn't this happen in every one of your relationships so far? You already know.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
I have Venus opp Moon and Pluto but I don't know if Im really right most of the time or the girl turned my worries into reality after I broke up with her.
Its messed man maybe our cultures are different
If you really have good use for your powers of perception, you could use them on yourself to recognise what you're feeling/when you're feeling it and communicating that with people around you.
Much better than looking up charts online. I guess you have to run through all the women with all the different placements in the world before you give up procrastinating and move onto to perceiving yourself better. Sometimes you just have to tire yourself out and beat yourself into the ground before you get bored of it and do what always needed to be done, all along.
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What is suppose to be done in this case?
Posted by DonJohnseriously!Posted by lisabethur8Posted by DonJohni'm more like tom cruise, looking utterly SHOCKED..and maybe repulsed. lolPosted by lisabethur8Posted by quicksandthat scene is. too weird. ive never seen the entire movie though.
they really chose a good role for her, because when she talks about that stuff, it's very dual-natured. at least the dark/shadow side of it.
but, only a woman would say that if she's not afraid of losing the man, like who the hell cares.
not to mention she isn't really deeply in love with the current man. kind of a blase' attitude.
my aqua didn't like this movie either.
it's one of my favorite late night movies. it just takes me straight into the voyage.
lol ya right if my wife was telling me that story, LAWD hahahha... that's how double homicides happen.
tom cruise is a great actor.
anybody that disagrees needs to watch vanilla sky.
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the dark thoughts swirling... internal struggle inside whispering: "bitch you're dead....so fucking dead."
the other woman, acting ridiculous: "hahahahaa,"
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omg...
i can see it the other way too.
Guy says it, "did you know, that woman that was at the party, i wanted to...."
Internal dark thoughts of woman "you just wait..... you'll get yours, bastard"
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this is the perfect image for the woman ...
ironically she is always in love with the wishy washy Ashley in the film...
Posted by tizianiI've tried to see those happy endings but at some point I see a situation where the warning light turns on and I start to pay a closer attention and...Here we comes, paranoid, self sabotage, worries of being cheated on
Assuming you haven't already tried that.

Posted by raad182I used to have that battle.Posted by DMVYou really can relate to my feelings...my only fear is that the problem is me and I'm pushing good people away.Posted by raad182Trust that the right person wont make you second guess yourself.Posted by tizianiYes, in the last one most of feelings proved to be right and also 99% of the astrologers say for scorpio mooners " trust your instinct because you easily perceive things that others dont "Posted by raad182Didn't this happen in every one of your relationships so far? You already know.
Im dating this girl, we work together and I Always get the impression that she is playing it easy with other guys but I don't know if im being paranoid or if this is really what Im seeing...
She is a taurus sun, scorpio moon and aries vênus
thoughts?
I have Venus opp Moon and Pluto but I don't know if Im really right most of the time or the girl turned my worries into reality after I broke up with her.
The minute you start feeling ambivalent, cut ties, end it. For you will always be insecure in the relationship.
Do them and yourself a favor.
Scorp moons have a choice. Get on the emotional rollercoaster or don't.
How do I know if my Moon (dont rely on astrology bla bla bla) is really trustful and accurate?click to expand
I really just listen to my feels. If any centimeter of energy feels off. I dont even bother with the battle of proving myself wrong or right.
Before my horse leaves the gate, i will feel if its okay to unleash my feels.

I'm fine with it.
I'm usually the one to notice first and then nudge them and be all "look, she's fine af"
I'm usually the one to notice first and then nudge them and be all "look, she's fine af"

Posted by Gob_ShiteLMAO —Posted by nikkistarPosted by EvilHareJots down note to buy some.
Also mirrored sunglasses.
Good luck on using them at night... 😆
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I am totally agree with checking them out together. Cool!
Another point of view. If you feeling that your partner is devoted to you and thinks you are IT - you can share that 'checking them out' together. That's how in with my Cap. We had always been having fun checking people out. Last one was my Scorpio that we both agree on him being hot!
However I don't think I would check anyone out - even women. I am sure he wouldn't either. Only to tease me into silent suffering! ?
Another point. If you walking together and you are at his side and he is checking women out - it's naturally 'comes at him'
BUT if you are standing in front of him and his neck gets longer and he looks like a goose with bulging eyes trying to see around you - punch him in a face or make V sign with your fingers and poke him in the eyes. And laugh like you meant it as a joke.
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Another point of view. If you feeling that your partner is devoted to you and thinks you are IT - you can share that 'checking them out' together. That's how in with my Cap. We had always been having fun checking people out. Last one was my Scorpio that we both agree on him being hot!
However I don't think I would check anyone out - even women. I am sure he wouldn't either. Only to tease me into silent suffering! ?
Another point. If you walking together and you are at his side and he is checking women out - it's naturally 'comes at him'
BUT if you are standing in front of him and his neck gets longer and he looks like a goose with bulging eyes trying to see around you - punch him in a face or make V sign with your fingers and poke him in the eyes. And laugh like you meant it as a joke.
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Update: yesterday we have a date and I just opened myself to her. Shared my trust issues, my past, my thoughts and...She just have the same background as me.
How beautiful astrology is?! After that I checked our synastry chart and one thing grabbed my attention my Vertex conjunct her Pluto and her Vertex conjunct my Pluto and our chat yesterday was purely plutonic, talking about how we could help ourselves to heal about the trust issues, jealously and etc.
Damn you Astrology, love you!
My life is looking like a movie lately
How beautiful astrology is?! After that I checked our synastry chart and one thing grabbed my attention my Vertex conjunct her Pluto and her Vertex conjunct my Pluto and our chat yesterday was purely plutonic, talking about how we could help ourselves to heal about the trust issues, jealously and etc.
Damn you Astrology, love you!
My life is looking like a movie lately

Posted by raad182Depends on the look given
Looking at other guy/girl as they are beautiful...Or do you find this to be messed or a red flag?
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