Have you ever been Pluto in synastry?

I've been reading about pluto aspects in synastry and wanted to know what it's like from pluto's perspective. What are you like when you're conjunct a planet? Ive only been pluto once and want more answers.

Right now I have:

Mercury Trine Pluto

Moon Square Pluto

Mars Conjunct Pluto

With a guy I'm interested in.

How do I know who the Pluto person is?

Also My Scorpio Venus is in his Pluto 12th house.

Posted by Nevermore
mars conjunct pluto = fucking annoying and tons of traumatizing

mars square pluto = violence (so far, not that extreme) and agressive traumatizing

Saturn conjunct pluto = Either annoying or ok. Just hate those lecturing and restricted.

Don't forget, my sun exact opposite Pluto. So anything that connects with pluto, it also connect with my sun.

Why is Mars Conjunt Pluto annoying and traumatizing?

Posted by saggurl88
Right now I have:

Mercury Trine Pluto

Moon Square Pluto

Mars Conjunct Pluto

With a guy I'm interested in.

How do I know who the Pluto person is?

Also My Scorpio Venus is in his Pluto 12th house.

Pluto is the person who's Pluto is being touched

Posted by tiziani

Posted by saggurl88
Right now I have:

Mercury Trine Pluto

Moon Square Pluto

Mars Conjunct Pluto

With a guy I'm interested in.

How do I know who the Pluto person is?

Also My Scorpio Venus is in his Pluto 12th house.

You look at the sign involved. If his Pluto is in Scorpio, then he's the Pluto person.

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Both of our Plutos are in Libra- That's why it's confusing. Any ideas how to find out?

Posted by Shadowcat

Posted by saggurl88
Right now I have:

Mercury Trine Pluto

Moon Square Pluto

Mars Conjunct Pluto

With a guy I'm interested in.

How do I know who the Pluto person is?

Also My Scorpio Venus is in his Pluto 12th house.

Which planets are yours?

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Both of us have Libra Pluto

Mars=Libra(him)-Leo(me)

Moon=Aries(him)-Cancer(me)

Mercury=Aquarius(him)-Sagittarius(me)

Posted by saggurl88
Right now I have:

Mercury Trine Pluto

Moon Square Pluto

Mars Conjunct Pluto

With a guy I'm interested in.

How do I know who the Pluto person is?

Also My Scorpio Venus is in his Pluto 12th house.

Check the aspects in Synastry - between your Planets and his Planets. You both have your own Pluto - so check how your Pluto interacts with his planets and vice-versa (the other way around). You can both be "the Pluto person". Basically, to be the Pluto person (or any other planet - for that matter) means that - "your Pluto has an aspect with any of his planets".

For example: Let's say - your Pluto has an aspect (trine or whatever) - with his Sun. Which makes you the Pluto person - and him the Sun person. Same goes the other way around.

If your Pluto has no aspects to any of his Planets - that would be the sole (yet rare) - exception - when you can't be the Pluto person. Or let's say - his Pluto doesn't make any aspects to any of your planets. Same thing. Though, it also depends which planets are aspected - cause aspects between Pluto and outer planets are less relevant/impactful. It's the personal planets (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, Mercury and the ASC too) - that resonate the most - while being aspected by Pluto.

I guess from the looks of it now, I'm the Pluto person.

For me there's a lot of knowing it will work, even though everything is new. I just want to hurry up the initial process. (could be a fire sign thing though)

In the beginning, I thought about him every day. I used to force myself not to text him cause I was being ridiculous and going out of my mind with thoughts.

There's a lot of doubt. I think I like him way more then he likes me.

There's a big need to see him in person. But it's not on his side lol

I want sex lol- But he's put the breaks on that too.

So now everything is fading cause there isn't a physical connection on my part. I need both, physical and mental. It's getting easier to put him on the back burner and go about my day.

I'm usually both.

Posted by AneemA08
Anyone has pluto conjunct sun synnastry?

What's your experience?

I think I have.

I just wanted to be her best friend and know everything about her. Like I wanted her to confide the most to ME and have her on MY side.

Just don't confuse - what it means to be a "Plutonian (as defined by the natal chart / a chart that's heavy on Scorpio... starting with the ASC in Scorpio - which makes Pluto the chart ruler, 8th house placements or/and a heavily aspected Pluto)" with being the so called "Pluto person (having aspect between Pluto and other planets - the personal planets in particular)."

It's not that uncommon - to have couple of aspects between Pluto and his/her planets - in a synastry chart. Though, if there's more than a couple paired with most of your personal planets (and/or the ASC) - then you're involved in what's know as a Plutonic relationship.



And that can be quite intense "yet painful" - due to a strong sense of attachment (fun at first - as if you found a soul mate and such... yet painful when he/she is not around), obsessive behavior, power plays and so on...

Ofc it also depends how mature you are.

Posted by Lilianni

Posted by AneemA08
Anyone has pluto conjunct sun synnastry?

What's your experience?

I think I have.

I just wanted to be her best friend and know everything about her. Like I wanted her to confide the most to ME and have her on MY side.

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That sounds about right.

Posted by neves
Just don't confuse - what it means to be a "Plutonian (as defined by the natal chart / a chart that's heavy on Scorpio... starting with the ASC in Scorpio - which makes Pluto the chart ruler, 8th house placements or/and a heavily aspected Pluto)" with being the so called "Pluto person (having aspect between Pluto and other planets - the personal planets in particular)."

It's not that uncommon - to have couple of aspects between Pluto and his/her planets - in a synastry chart. Though, if there's more than a couple paired with most of your personal planets (and/or the ASC) - then you're involved in what's know as a Plutonic relationship.

And that can be quite intense "yet painful" - due to a strong sense of attachment (fun at first - as if you found a soul mate and such... yet painful when he/she is not around), obsessive behavior, power plays and so on...

Ofc it also depends how mature you are.

Oh yeah. It's painful for me as the planet person and when I was pluto, I wanted them but was scared at the same time. In the relationship I'm in right now, I'm the planet person and feel like they're trying their best to keep me coming back but at the same time they were trying to "teach me a lesson".

I met a woman recently where both of us had many pluto aspects in synastry. She is scorpio sun, gemini moon, mercury scorpio, venus capricorn, mars aries, pluto libra. My sun is square to her pluto. Her sun and mercury are conjunct to my pluto. My moon is trine to her pluto. I guess we are both pluto (?) but she a much stronger pluto influence in her natal chart. It was (or it has been) the most relation I ever had. I knew from the very first moment I saw her that I wanted to know more about her. Throughout four months I was the one investing and pushing, she just followed but controlled the dynamics much more than I did. It really affected me, to the point that recently whenever I was with her or with messaged a lot I would get depressed the next day. As if I had lost something. When with her I could not stop staring at her eyes. And I would buy something before seeing her, like a new shirt or jacket. She drives me crazy honestly. Although it´s probably not just pluto speaking, we had many other significant aspects, including my mars conjunct to her venus, conjunct moons, trine suns..

Posted by Nevermore
I also forgot to say this is:

Pluto square Pluto synastry.

I also hate that aspect a ton.

Hate this too. I have this with my dad. He needs to change.

Posted by urania_ix
My Pluto is in his 7th house and I feel crazy. My emotions are so intense for him I hate it. But at the same time, he made me change like I try to control my own emotions than having the feeling to need him, you know?

I would think having planets in your partner's 8th house would kinda be the same thing

What do you mean he made you change? You need him but you're trying not to?

I am always Pluto in relationships. Men become very obsessed with me, refusing to be let go when I choose to end things. They become relentless and irrational, sometimes to the point of violence.

Posted by lionspark
im probably more of a pluto person due to 12th house pluto, pluto on my ascendant. neither of us have pluto aspects though

I have pluto in the 12th too. It sucks because I feel like I dont win unless I let go. 😢

Posted by Lilianni
I've been reading about pluto aspects in synastry and wanted to know what it's like from pluto's perspective. What are you like when you're conjunct a planet? Ive only been pluto once and want more answers.

I've been the Pluto person once--conjunct Sun.

Not a pleasant experience.

Posted by AerialView

Posted by Lilianni
I've been reading about pluto aspects in synastry and wanted to know what it's like from pluto's perspective. What are you like when you're conjunct a planet? Ive only been pluto once and want more answers.

I've been the Pluto person once--conjunct Sun.

Not a pleasant experience.

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What happened?

Posted by Lilianni

Posted by AerialView

Posted by Lilianni
I've been reading about pluto aspects in synastry and wanted to know what it's like from pluto's perspective. What are you like when you're conjunct a planet? Ive only been pluto once and want more answers.

I've been the Pluto person once--conjunct Sun.

Not a pleasant experience.

What happened?

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I become a too jealous and obsessive towards her. she hated it. My pluto is in 8th to make it worse for both of us.

It ended badly we don't talk anymore and i don't even have her contacts.

I have good relations with my exes except her.