@ladylibra21
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Have you ever lead someone on because you wanted the attention?
Understanding Venus and Mars in Astrology
Venus represents love and attraction, while Mars symbolizes desire and action. Knowing your Venus and Mars signs can reveal how you seek attention and connect with others, helping you understand your relationship behaviors and motivations.
Yup. I have a problem with testing my power. Just a simple glance and trying to maintain the interest of my prey.Sounds evil but I love doing it. It always works. Venus Libra/ Mars Gemini
I do it not because I want attention, but because I like to flirt and have a high sex drive.
My Venus is in Virgo and Mars in Cancer.
OMG my close friend is a Virgo with lots a Libra and she does this I am thinking this goes back to the Virgo friend zoning technique!
I did this only once when I was 14. School was ending and a boy I had liked all year had never fallen for me, so a friend told me to get his attention by making him jealous. So I did, and started a rumor that I liked another boy in our class. When we had our graduation parties, the boy who was the object of my rumors, followed me everywhere from party to party trying to get me alone. I was horrified because although he was really nice, I didn't have romantic feelings for him at all. Finally he cornered me and I had to the tell him the truth. I could see in his face how much he was hurt and I hated myself for playing with someone's affections that way. I never did it again. Lesson learned. It's a cruel thing to do to someone.
I feel like someone might be doing this to me
I never cared about the attention.
This accounts for my teenage years and adult life.
I'm more annoyed with someone I am not interested in.
Yes, even with their pestering ways after they were friend-zoned.
For me I can't 'fake' a connection that isn't there.
I will disappear.
Venus in Aries
Mars in Pisces
Hell no lol
That's just rotten, y'all. 😐
Taurus Mars
Virgo Venus (conjunct Pluto).
Damn these hoes ain't loyal.
Posted by Quantum
Damn these hoes ain't loyal.What does that have to do with loyalty? Smdh
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Posted by ladylibra21
I feel like someone might be doing this to meWhat's his Mars and Venus
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Mars Scorpio and Venus in Sag
Posted by everlynn
@ladylibra21 if you don't mind, there's something I would like to add. I'm not gonna derail your thread so this is my final statement.If we were to have a dxp meet up, I know for a natural fact there's one person here that I would lead on if she were to see me up close and personal in the flesh. So to keep the peace, I'm not calling this person name.
Damn lol but why would you do it?
yes, I am ashamed to say..... actually many times in my younger years....
It was always with the intention to detach my feelings from somebody else.... I know, it was, very selfish
nowadays I try to get over somebody without this kind of help
venus pisces
mars aries
I do it all the time.. Lol
Bc men always feel like they're gonna get this kitty.. No mister mister.. I'll string you on until you can't be stringed anymore...
But if I meet a guy and he shows me certain qualities then I won't lead him on.. But 9/10 most people can't pass my examination
My Venus: Aqua
My Mars: Leo
A COMPLETE OPPOSITION 😄
Posted by everlynn
@ladylibra21 if you don't mind, there's something I would like to add. I'm not gonna derail your thread so this is my final statement.If we were to have a dxp meet up, I know for a natural fact there's one person here that I would lead on if she were to see me up close and personal in the flesh. So to keep the peace, I'm not calling this person name.
Damn lol but why would you do it?
Its not what it would seem. I wouldn't do it intentionally because I don't like attention. I just have that aura. Women glued on to me. And even some of you women would be too. Y'all never seen my picture here. Believe me if I was to post a pic of me y'all be in for the shock of a lifetime. Even the men here would want to hook up with me.
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Lol I may be a Libra but it takes a lot more than looks to sway me
Posted by Quantum
Damn these hoes ain't loyal.What does that have to do with loyalty? Smdh
Damn straight.
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Indeed.
Have you ever lead someone on because you wanted the attention?no.
I've ignored my internal voice "he is a man after all and wants perhaps more" sometimes when I found the talk or entertainment very energizing.
If men have the same fear as women that "a player waist their time", then I've been a sinner for years. But my impression is that they are not under time pressure.
sag mars venus in the 1st house
I have not led anyone on for attention.
A BJ? Yes. Not just attention though. Not necessarily proud of it either.
Robot Venus and Murder Mars
Posted by Quantum
Damn these hoes ain't loyal.What does that have to do with loyalty? Smdh
Damn straight.
Indeed.
Mhm.
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There, there.
The sting will go away.
Tylenol helps, as does red wine.
When I was younger, yes.
Not really proud of it now, retribution was swift.
Venus Aries, murder mars.
Posted by ladylibra21
I feel like someone might be doing this to meWhat's his Mars and Venus
Mars Scorpio and Venus in Sag
Venus in Sag leads everyone on. Damn, his placement combo is something i attract a lot
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Damn I wonder if I have been doing it with out knowin I also have Sag Venus! His magnetism is so crazy even when I try to ignore him he makes himself known even if it is subtle sigh. I just want to grab him
Posted by ladylibra21
I feel like someone might be doing this to meWhat's his Mars and Venus
Mars Scorpio and Venus in Sag
Venus in Sag leads everyone on. Damn, his placement combo is something i attract a lot
Damn I wonder if I have been doing it with out knowin I also have Sag Venus! His magnetism is so crazy even when I try to ignore him he makes himself known even if it is subtle sigh. I just want to grab him
Waab! You're getting a dose of your own medicine. I have tried the best I can to avoid this placement. Lol.
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Lmao do they pursue you first?
Scorp venus, Aries mars...and yes, especially when I was about 20-23. I don't mean to but i'm naturally a flirty, playful person so if I vibe with someone that side just comes out. And yes it's come back to bite me in the ass lol.
When I was a lot younger, yes, but not anymore (not deliberately, anyway). I think it's cruel, and I don't want to have the person around, knowing I can't reciprocate. The attention makes me feel guilty and undeserving.
Scorp venus/Libra mars
No , I have no time for that . People lead themselves on and then try to make me feel guilty about it . It doesn't work .
What happens sometimes is that I initially genuinely like someone but if they do something that kills my interest for them I distance myself from them or ghost on them . They feel like I have played with their feelings - which is not true , I simply lose interest - but playing with other peoples feelings just because - no I'd never do that.
Virgo Venus & Gemini Mars
I use to do this all the time when I was in my late teens and early 20's at bars... even when I had a boyfriend... my venus is in gemini and mars in cancer
Mars Virgo
Venus Capricorn
No. Im the one getting lead on and lied to.
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