I just let my girl dance with another dude... (Page 2)

Posted by raad182
I was dancing with her and stuff, so I said " if you want me to feel comfortabl when you go out to dance...just Show me how this works " she replied " are you sure? "...me "just do it". I was kinda curious about it too as we dont have a serious relationship it would be better to know early.

I will stay with her but if someday she comes with this dance bs again,i will say that I cant handle it and end.

Actually, according to what you've written here YOU were the one who both suggested and then insisted on her dancing with another dude because you were feeling uncomfortable.

So maybe take some responsibility instead of passing the blame to her shoulders. And maybe don't self sabotage.

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Posted by raad182
Would you guys take a look at her chart if I post it? But as help not to joke, im serious about it

Don't have to post her whole chart. Just her major placements if you know them.

I'm guessing you're a young buck still trying to figure yourself out. That's ok, but you have to be careful when other people are involved. Even if unintentional, you can hurt someone's feelings really bad.

Jealousy is something I'm not too familiar with. But I can tell your method of testing your boundaries aren't the way to go. I advise communicating with this girl instead of setting landmines for her to step on.

Taurus Sun 4th house

Scorpio Moon 10th house

Leo mars 8th house

Aries Venus 3rd house(close to the IC)

Cap asc with Uranus and Neptune in the 1st

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OP please go watch the film "Hitchcock" and see how 2 Scorpio moons managed to remain married for 54 years.The jealousy was mind-numbingly hilarious though.

I can offer nothing more except tell you to hope and pray that she doesn't do the same crap you pulled. Or maybe that's a good thing, since you'll be able to see how you really.

Thankfully the crab is no longer being subjected to your masochistic cruelties.

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Posted by tiziani
I just find the use of the word "let" funny. Always have.

Thanks for letting me.

Dude, the let is the scorp subsiding from me.

I told you that shit is bad.

The fudge would a scropio in the house of pisceans would be best for if there are saturn, merc there.

How can i get them off. Just ugh man.

Then it just have to go on another routes with sag in uranus the 1st

Like if I don't frikkin rely on the content of other houses, then I would be alone.

But then I get alone again.

Sigh man, I mean. How can I get a haindl of this.

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Wut?

She said she likes to dance and she showed you how she dances. It's with other guys. accept it or move on.

Leave the girl who likes to dance, openly and innocently.

Take the one who likes to fuck behind your back....

The only way to drop my jealously is being a player...having a few girls so i dont care about what one is doing...but unfortunately I still hoping about love

Posted by raad182
Im looking at her with disgust...

I was trying to test my jealously (scorpio moon)

I went to the bathroom and threw a few punches on the wall

I thought that she wouldnt make it but she did

I will use my gemini asc/mars to fake until i get home

Thoughts?

Don't blame your immaturity on gaseous stars

Posted by wagtail
Eh don't date guys that "ALLOW" me to do anything, feels controlly

Controlly or protective?

Posted by raad182
Im looking at her with disgust...

I was trying to test my jealously (scorpio moon)

I went to the bathroom and threw a few punches on the wall

I thought that she wouldnt make it but she did

I will use my gemini asc/mars to fake until i get home

Thoughts?

Gems do put on the front and then be mad but don't be. You have her the chance to dance with someone else so in true Gemini nature u can do the same homie. Whatever she can do u can do so find a girl to get a dance with. ?

Posted by Coby

Posted by raad182
Im looking at her with disgust...

I was trying to test my jealously (scorpio moon)

I went to the bathroom and threw a few punches on the wall

I thought that she wouldnt make it but she did

I will use my gemini asc/mars to fake until i get home

Thoughts?

Gems do put on the front and then be mad but don't be. You have her the chance to dance with someone else so in true Gemini nature u can do the same homie. Whatever she can do u can do so find a girl to get a dance with. ?

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She is crazier than me

I will tell her that im going out to dance today...lets see what will happen

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Posted by Coby

Posted by raad182
Im looking at her with disgust...

I was trying to test my jealously (scorpio moon)

I went to the bathroom and threw a few punches on the wall

I thought that she wouldnt make it but she did

I will use my gemini asc/mars to fake until i get home

Thoughts?

Gems do put on the front and then be mad but don't be. You have her the chance to dance with someone else so in true Gemini nature u can do the same homie. Whatever she can do u can do so find a girl to get a dance with. ?

She is crazier than me

I will tell her that im going out to dance today...lets see what will happen

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Why are you trying to make her jealous on purpose? You didn't like that feeling. Don't be a jerk

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Posted by wagtail
Eh don't date guys that "ALLOW" me to do anything, feels controlly

Controlly or protective?

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I dunno maybe, I see it more like 'babe it's cold out take a jacket' = protective

'if you have too many drinks make sure you call me and I'll pick you up' = protective

Posted by raad182
Would you guys take a look at her chart if I post it? But as help not to joke, im serious about it

You need to look at your chart!

And I am sure that lobotomy would be in order...

Yeah and ask @Shadowcat to read your chart...then go and grow beard...?

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Posted by Capmercury87
But if she really loves or likes you she would have danced with you.

I'm a water moon, that shits burnt like toast, she can walk her ass home.

She's one of those girls you can ask her if she'd ever have a threesome, she will say sure but after you say you wouldn't then she changes her mind. She's a play dough liar.

Leave her.

Have you ever read his past threads about his Cancer gf?

No

He has admitted, on multiple occasions, his insecurities, serious control issues and bouts of paranoia. Even when she gives him all the time in the world and all of herself, it's not good enough for him. He goes from being afraid that she might cheat on him to saying that he's not good enough for her. Like a pendulum, back and forth.

He was given advice many times to let her go because his insecurities will eventually hurt her in a big way.

And then he does this.

I'm an Aries Sun/Scorpio moon like him, and even I find this tactic of his manipulative and childish.

Thanks for bringing me up-to-date. 🙂

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You mean you up to date now?

So will you date someone we know...god forbid...?

Posted by wagtail

Posted by LoveSeeker

Posted by wagtail
Eh don't date guys that "ALLOW" me to do anything, feels controlly

Controlly or protective?

I dunno maybe, I see it more like 'babe it's cold out take a jacket' = protective

'if you have too many drinks make sure you call me and I'll pick you up' = protective

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True, but it depends if the person understands you or not

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Posted by LoveSeeker

Posted by wagtail
Eh don't date guys that "ALLOW" me to do anything, feels controlly

Controlly or protective?

I dunno maybe, I see it more like 'babe it's cold out take a jacket' = protective

'if you have too many drinks make sure you call me and I'll pick you up' = protective

'I'll let you wear those shoes tonight' = me

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...but...but your shoes too small for my feet...?

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Posted by raad182

Posted by Coby

Posted by raad182
Im looking at her with disgust...

I was trying to test my jealously (scorpio moon)

I went to the bathroom and threw a few punches on the wall

I thought that she wouldnt make it but she did

I will use my gemini asc/mars to fake until i get home

Thoughts?

Gems do put on the front and then be mad but don't be. You have her the chance to dance with someone else so in true Gemini nature u can do the same homie. Whatever she can do u can do so find a girl to get a dance with. ?

She is crazier than me

I will tell her that im going out to dance today...lets see what will happen

update?

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" Why are doing this? Do you really like to dance or are you doing as a revenge? I feel that I can't trust you... "

But yesterday she talked to me on how her thoughts about men are disturbed because her daddy wasn't reliable and stuff...

Daddy issues and she checked my phone while I was in the bath and I could identify a few lies she told me and when I put them on the table she was like " I don't want to talk about my past, I hate to talk about it, why do you Always do this? and bla bla bla "

This girl is a mess but I feel sorry for her, she has a really fkup background and her mother is the only person in her life.