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I think you should just give up.

#AriesGoals #ZeroDrive #WhyEvenTry #Can'tWinI'mOut

What a waste of an exalted Sun.
Does it look like im not trying? Seriously?

And yes, If I cant win...Im out...Why bother?!
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" Hey dude, lets play the finals on Sunday...We will lose for sure, do want to drive for 5 hours for that? "

" Sure, I would love to know how does it feel to lose "
This is an Aries moon who played, and lost, a soccer match early last year.

"We didn't stand a chance at winning, we are playing people who have years of experience and train other teams. But at least we tried. And at least now I know we can work well as a team."

I swear sometimes Aries moons have more balls than the suns.

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My Aries sun would be amazed by this speech but my scorpio moon makes me more cynical and I would think something like " What a dumb fkr, play for the win, train harder, work your ass but always play for the win "

You need to read Sun Tzu
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Posted by raad182
Posted by Damnata
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Posted by Damnata
I think you should just give up.

#AriesGoals #ZeroDrive #WhyEvenTry #Can'tWinI'mOut

What a waste of an exalted Sun.
Does it look like im not trying? Seriously?

And yes, If I cant win...Im out...Why bother?!
....


" Hey dude, lets play the finals on Sunday...We will lose for sure, do want to drive for 5 hours for that? "

" Sure, I would love to know how does it feel to lose "
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Life is that 5 hours drive.

"Death is so sure of its victory, it gives us a lifetime of advantage"

You're welcome.
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Posted by raad182
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You're trying, but you're also planning to quit because you don't think you can win this one.

Quitters never win because they never learn the whole process.

Failures eventually win as long as they keep trying, regardless of how much shit gets thrown at them. Because they learn from their mistakes and they experience the whole process.
I totally agree with you but when I already know where I could fail and " quit " to work on that, to fight another day...I think this is the correct attitude.

You don't need to break your leg to know how that hurts.
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Incorrect. Sometimes you do need to break your leg in order to know when and how to avoid breaking it again in the future.

And you totally contradicted yourself with that leg breaking scenario - considering you mentioned before that you're prepared to take risks and fail.

If you're 100% certain you won't look back 10 years from now and say "What if?" "I should have.." or "I could have..." then by all means go ahead and cut the cord.

Just remember that your doing this is mostly for yourself and not really for her sake.

You're not even giving her a say or chance to help you work out your issues.

And that final bit all boils down to your control issues.
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Posted by Damnata
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Posted by Damnata
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Posted by Damnata
I think you should just give up.

#AriesGoals #ZeroDrive #WhyEvenTry #Can'tWinI'mOut

What a waste of an exalted Sun.
Does it look like im not trying? Seriously?

And yes, If I cant win...Im out...Why bother?!
....


" Hey dude, lets play the finals on Sunday...We will lose for sure, do want to drive for 5 hours for that? "

" Sure, I would love to know how does it feel to lose "
Life is that 5 hours drive.

"Death is so sure of its victory, it gives us a lifetime of advantage"

You're welcome.
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Wise words, really appreciated. I share the same, at the end we're all going to lose.

But once I heard a music that said "...Choose your battles wisely " and this makes sense to me.

That 5 hours drive to lose could be a 5 hours drive to see your family.
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Posted by raad182
Posted by Damnata
Posted by raad182
Posted by Damnata
Posted by raad182
Posted by Damnata
I think you should just give up.

#AriesGoals #ZeroDrive #WhyEvenTry #Can'tWinI'mOut

What a waste of an exalted Sun.
Does it look like im not trying? Seriously?

And yes, If I cant win...Im out...Why bother?!
....


" Hey dude, lets play the finals on Sunday...We will lose for sure, do want to drive for 5 hours for that? "

" Sure, I would love to know how does it feel to lose "
Life is that 5 hours drive.

"Death is so sure of its victory, it gives us a lifetime of advantage"

You're welcome.
Wise words, really appreciated. I share the same, at the end we're all going to lose.

But once I heard a music that said "...Choose your battles wisely " and this makes sense to me.

That 5 hours drive to lose could be a 5 hours drive to see your family.
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Cool.

By virtue of being with someone they are your family and you shouldn't take the bullshit cop-out moral high ground of walking away while thinking you did the noble and honorable thing. It's harder to stay and keep on trying but like I said...#AriesGoals #Can'tWinI'mOut

It's emotional cowardice disguised as "Oh I want the best for this person so I'm out cuz they suffer with me". No, if you want the best you stay and work on yourself.
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I bet @Teena goes to the gym and talks to all the dudes
What is this desperate bullying thing you're doing? Why must I keep seeing it?
He's obsessed with me babe ...love it is?
Well, you are a cutie, but so is he. Move on, Ands!
Yes!! Move on @CanthalTilt n nah...not adding any pages!! I like raad .. Can't do that to him!!
I have moved on bye
Ouch!!!!

?


That Scorpio - Taurus connection.

*hears wedding bells*
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Lol!!! Yeah it's one of those....just going terribly wrong 😛
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I bet @Teena goes to the gym and talks to all the dudes
Lol!! I actually did think about saying that in this thread. I do talk to guys in the gym. I made a Scorpio friend there. Two weeks after we started talking, he asked me to stop talking to the other guys or stop going to the gym(Really? How did he assume he owned me?)He has no reason to be insecure to start with. He's the hottest of all n stuff. N to not trust me is stupid coz I don't just fall for guys...not even him 😛
Ice cold, Teena. Ice cold.
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I'm just too good at being evil, Aren't I? 😄
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Posted by Damnata
I think you should just give up.

#AriesGoals #ZeroDrive #WhyEvenTry #Can'tWinI'mOut

What a waste of an exalted Sun.
Does it look like im not trying? Seriously?

And yes, If I cant win...Im out...Why bother?!
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aha - so you want to win ? you want control so you don't have to worry about it and/or be insecure about it ... let me tell you something you may not realize "you can't control other people" ... you can try but it's not sustainable and again, you should deal with this and then you will be all the much more "stronger" for dealing with it effectively - channel that energy elsewhere to the good for you ...
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Hey guys, its me again...

I've created a few topics regarding my relationship problems.

Now my girl wants to join a gym. I dont know how it is where you live but here the guys hit on the girls in the gym and they dont care if she is single, engaged or married. The point is, I know that she wont automatically cheat on me by just joining a gym, she could does this elsewhere but Im really not comfortable with the idea of other guys around her, she in tight clothes, small talking with random dudes and etc.



On the other side, I care for her health, astrologically speaking she has Moon conj Mars what would make one feel good about being physically active.

Should I just let this girl live her life, broke up and try to find a cure for my trust issues or should I just try to convince her to not join the gym?

She said that she wants but If im not comfortable with it, she wouldnt.

Sorry for this thread...I just wanted to hear different opinions
I think you have to accept the fact that gym is just another place where guys hit on women, there are other places in entire world where there is no need for many - but there may always be 1 guy somewhere or the other who may check her out, hit on her, seduce her and so on..

So, I don't mean to sound rude but I think firstly, you might reflect on your feelings regarding this regardless of what may do for the situation..

Also, tell her about it, talk about your jealousy/worry, communicate with her - if you can.. see what she says.. be open with her..

Or, like we Aries are known for, take this as an opportunity to work on your feelings, face your feelings and try to overcome them by letting her join the gym.. It's not hard, if you look at it all in a lighter context... remember that mere checking out is of never of any effect and more importantly, is never in your control.. :-)
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Posted by raad182
Posted by Ram416
Posted by raad182
Posted by Damnata
Posted by raad182
Posted by Damnata
I think you should just give up.

#AriesGoals #ZeroDrive #WhyEvenTry #Can'tWinI'mOut

What a waste of an exalted Sun.
Does it look like im not trying? Seriously?

And yes, If I cant win...Im out...Why bother?!
....


" Hey dude, lets play the finals on Sunday...We will lose for sure, do want to drive for 5 hours for that? "

" Sure, I would love to know how does it feel to lose "
This is an Aries moon who played, and lost, a soccer match early last year.

"We didn't stand a chance at winning, we are playing people who have years of experience and train other teams. But at least we tried. And at least now I know we can work well as a team."

I swear sometimes Aries moons have more balls than the suns.


My Aries sun would be amazed by this speech but my scorpio moon makes me more cynical and I would think something like " What a dumb fkr, play for the win, train harder, work your ass but always play for the win "

You need to read Sun Tzu
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This same team of noobs, finally managed to win a match against these same coaches, 6 months later. My friend's analysis of the situation was, if they had not played that first match, they would never have been able to identify their weaknesses.

She's a Scorpio sun/Aries moon
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Posted by raad182
Posted by Ram416
Posted by raad182
Posted by Damnata
Posted by raad182
Posted by Damnata
I think you should just give up.

#AriesGoals #ZeroDrive #WhyEvenTry #Can'tWinI'mOut

What a waste of an exalted Sun.
Does it look like im not trying? Seriously?

And yes, If I cant win...Im out...Why bother?!
....


" Hey dude, lets play the finals on Sunday...We will lose for sure, do want to drive for 5 hours for that? "

" Sure, I would love to know how does it feel to lose "
This is an Aries moon who played, and lost, a soccer match early last year.

"We didn't stand a chance at winning, we are playing people who have years of experience and train other teams. But at least we tried. And at least now I know we can work well as a team."

I swear sometimes Aries moons have more balls than the suns.


My Aries sun would be amazed by this speech but my scorpio moon makes me more cynical and I would think something like " What a dumb fkr, play for the win, train harder, work your ass but always play for the win "

You need to read Sun Tzu
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Yes I have read Sun Tzu. And Machiavelli.

Based on what I've read and on my own personal experiences, picking and choosing your battles should only apply if the threat is an external source.

In your case, the big battle is an internalised one, not an external one. Unless you consider your gf the aggressor?
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Posted by raad182
Posted by Damnata
Posted by raad182
Posted by Damnata
Posted by raad182
Posted by Damnata
I think you should just give up.

#AriesGoals #ZeroDrive #WhyEvenTry #Can'tWinI'mOut

What a waste of an exalted Sun.
Does it look like im not trying? Seriously?

And yes, If I cant win...Im out...Why bother?!
....


" Hey dude, lets play the finals on Sunday...We will lose for sure, do want to drive for 5 hours for that? "

" Sure, I would love to know how does it feel to lose "
Life is that 5 hours drive.

"Death is so sure of its victory, it gives us a lifetime of advantage"

You're welcome.
Wise words, really appreciated. I share the same, at the end we're all going to lose.

But once I heard a music that said "...Choose your battles wisely " and this makes sense to me.

That 5 hours drive to lose could be a 5 hours drive to see your family.
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You're already starting to use the term "could be".

Smdh.

I am amazed that, for a Scorpio moon, you have ZERO persistence and drive.