Speaking to your bf or gf daily

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Andalusia
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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Ya know, I never cared about that sorta thing much. But now? We've been together a year and a half and, unless we spent physical time together that day, we at least call or text an "off to work, enjoy your night" or whatnot.

I've come to associate it with someone who truly cares and it would be hard to go back to the way I felt before. There's nothing desperate, suffocating or needy about it. It's thoughtful.

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Agreed.

And the consistency aspect that someone else pointed out too.
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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Ya know, I never cared about that sorta thing much. But now? We've been together a year and a half and, unless we spent physical time together that day, we at least call or text an "off to work, enjoy your night" or whatnot.

I've come to associate it with someone who truly cares and it would be hard to go back to the way I felt before.
There's nothing desperate, suffocating or needy about it. It's thoughtful.

Cap, Scorp, Aqua and Cap, in the order you requested.


I wholeheartedly agree.

That's not to say I want to be bombarded with txts and calls. I actually get really annoyed at having conversations through text.

But even if it's just a good morning text and 2 min "goodnight" before bed. We only get to see each other on the weekends so it's nice to have the consistency.

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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Ya know, I never cared about that sorta thing much. But now? We've been together a year and a half and, unless we spent physical time together that day, we at least call or text an "off to work, enjoy your night" or whatnot.

I've come to associate it with someone who truly cares and it would be hard to go back to the way I felt before. There's nothing desperate, suffocating or needy about it. It's thoughtful.

Nice.

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Like many have said.. it depends on the relationship..

In the beginning, I don't mind if we don't talk every day since we are just figuring out what we want.

But after actually deciding to be in a relationship, it's consistently every day..

HOWEVER, I do not like when someone needs me to call them several times a day or gets mad if I don't text them right away if they know I'm doing something (at work especially.)

But I make an effort every day to make sure they know I care. ?
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Yes. I wanna talk everyday. I dont care how long but you should wanna hear my voice and i wanna hear yours.

Im in love with you. I need my partner to be equally obsessed with me as i am with them. You should feel imcomplete without me. You should feel like something is missing if you dont talk to me. You should feel off balance.

Recite the alphabet, i give no fawks.

There is no such thing as clingy, chasing, nada.

You mine and im yours.

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