Venus in Capricorn

Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
click to expand

Sounds like a keeper!

Please elaborate on the "expensive to maintain" part :p
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by youngali
Venus in Cap and Venus in Aqua are a lot alike.

both tend to show love and affection more so through gestures and action.

very sweet, logical, easy going & understanding.

My ex Cap of 3 years had venus in cap and i have venus in aqua,

we got along very well and are still the best of friends till this day. ๐Ÿ™‚
I feel Cap or venus in Cap can be hard to read.

How did your Cap confess his love for you for the first time? ๐Ÿ™‚
Profile picture of Lilianni
Lilianni
@Lilianni
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 609 ยท Posts: 1982 ยท Topics: 53
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
Sounds like a keeper!

Please elaborate on the "expensive to maintain" part :p
click to expand

Lol. Well, I can't say it applies to every cap Venus, but the ones I know like designer brands and like to gift timeless pieces. (The men I know have given their girlfriends roses, trips to fancy restaurants, Tiffany & Co. necklaces, Daniel Wellington watches, giant teddy bears..)
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
Sounds like a keeper!

Please elaborate on the "expensive to maintain" part :p
Lol. Well, I can't say it applies to every cap Venus, but the ones I know like designer brands and like to gift timeless pieces. (The men I know have given their girlfriends roses, trips to fancy restaurants, Tiffany & Co. necklaces, Daniel Wellington watches, giant teddy bears..)
click to expand

This actually reminds me of my Cap friend. He lives in a gated community (he rents the place instead of owning the place though...) and spends a lot of money on his gf.
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by d0s3r
i don't like pressure

like

don't tell me you like me idk what to do with this info

or... i like you so i'm gonna watch you from a distance


OMG this is so true. I told a cap venus that I was interested in him and he said "thank you for sharing this with me." ๐Ÿ˜†

I mean, is there a "correct" way to approach venus in capโ€”?
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
Lol you nailed it.
click to expand

Are you venus in cap? What venus signs do you get along with?
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
Lol you nailed it.
Are you venus in cap? What venus signs do you get along with?
I get a long with all the pretty females inside the bedroom yea I am Venus in cap ?
click to expand

That's the thing. I noticed that Cap sun or venus in cap have no problem being physically intimate with pretty girls, but they don't open up emotionally. They may be seeing the same women for months or years but never invest in the girl emotionally.

Is that true in your case? ๐Ÿ˜„
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by d0s3r
i don't like pressure

like

don't tell me you like me idk what to do with this info

or... i like you so i'm gonna watch you from a distance


OMG this is so true. I told a cap venus that I was interested in him and he said "thank you for sharing this with me." ๐Ÿ˜†

I mean, is there a "correct" way to approach venus in capโ€”?
Lol if he likes you yes
click to expand

It is a complicated story in my case. I think this venus in cap liked me when we met last year (e.g. took me out for dinner, told me he couldn't stop thinking about me, asked me if I liked him, etc.), but I just got out of a relationship at the time so I did not reciprocate (I did not give him a direct answer when he asked me if I liked him back then. I just said "guess"). Now I have been single for 6 months and I feel I am ready to explore the possibility with him, but he just doesn't seem interested. ๐Ÿ˜ญ

I mean, he's down to hang out and all that but I feel he just acts werid when I express my interest in him.
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by exo
sensitive

daddy-ish

practical/resourceful

protective

hard-working

traditional
That about sums it up

I feel like a manager in my relationships lol
Nice. What venus signs do you get along with best? ๐Ÿ˜„
Other Caps, Virgo, Scorpio, you know serious Venusus lol

click to expand

I have venus in libra... am I doomed? ๐Ÿ˜ฑ
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by exo
sensitive

daddy-ish

practical/resourceful

protective

hard-working

traditional
That about sums it up

I feel like a manager in my relationships lol
Nice. What venus signs do you get along with best? ๐Ÿ˜„
Other Caps, Virgo, Scorpio, you know serious Venusus lol


I have venus in libra... am I doomed? ๐Ÿ˜ฑ
Well na. I find Mars Venus interaction more important. My Mars is in Taurus so maybe that's why.

Also sun Venus is powerful.
click to expand

If you have been indirectly rejected by a girl, would you consider dating her if she comes around in the future or no?
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by d0s3r
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by d0s3r
i don't like pressure

like

don't tell me you like me idk what to do with this info

or... i like you so i'm gonna watch you from a distance


OMG this is so true. I told a cap venus that I was interested in him and he said "thank you for sharing this with me." ๐Ÿ˜†

I mean, is there a "correct" way to approach venus in capโ€”?
well for example there was a man yesterday... i accidentally flirted with him so he started flirting back. that was ok...

but today he began flirting again really explicitly...and all my confidence and wit went. he is now officially 'onto' me and idk what to do.

if a cap venus likes you (and i speak really for myself here, pisces and sag dominance ok)

they will 'chase'. me as a woman, by 'chase' i mean flirting, finding reasons to be around you. doing things for you.

telling you explicitly i like you takes a while - i need to be sure you like me first.

if i were to be chased, i would back off like the guy did to you. it doesn't officially mean i'm not interested.

i need to know what you want. anyone can say they like you

a guy might want just sex, or fwb, a casual relationship - or marriage. i don't mind either, but which one i'd choose depends on how much i like you and how much i can trust you. people tend to not say exactly what they want. they trick you, or don't really know themselves.

i don't want to get trapped in a bad decision - then have to hurt your or my feelings trying to reverse it.

click to expand

This is very helpful. I'd like to think that I am very clear when it comes to my intention with him, but maybe I could do better...

So first, I told him I wanted to get to know him better and I hoped we can talk on a regular basis. He thanked me for letting him know, but no action. He just remained passive and waited for me to text him first. I texted him a few times a week and he always responded.

Then, I told him what my schedule is like and ask him to let me know when he's in town (he lives at least an hour and a half from me). He replied and told me that our schedules are very different but he's sure that we will be able to find time to hang out. But still, he did not make any attempt for us to hang out.

I feel I am pretty straightfoward towards him, no?

Do you think he's just being nice?

Is it hard for you to tell a person you are not interested?
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by exo
sensitive

daddy-ish

practical/resourceful

protective

hard-working

traditional
That about sums it up

I feel like a manager in my relationships lol
Nice. What venus signs do you get along with best? ๐Ÿ˜„
Other Caps, Virgo, Scorpio, you know serious Venusus lol


I have venus in libra... am I doomed? ๐Ÿ˜ฑ
Well na. I find Mars Venus interaction more important. My Mars is in Taurus so maybe that's why.

Also sun Venus is powerful.
If you have been indirectly rejected by a girl, would you consider dating her if she comes around in the future or no?
Depends on indirectly

Cap Venus likes control and looks ahead, very business like. If there's doubt about flaking then it could be a problem

That's why cap is squared libra
click to expand

So regarding what I meant by "indirectly".... when we first met, I just got out of a relationship and my ex still wanted to give it another shot.

My ex booked the plane tickets to go to my country with me a couple of months before we broke up and my ex still wanted to go. So I told the cap venus guy about the situation and told him let's not see each other for a while since I was not sure what'd happen during the trip....

I do think I may come off flakey =.=
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
Lol you nailed it.
Are you venus in cap? What venus signs do you get along with?
I get a long with all the pretty females inside the bedroom yea I am Venus in cap ?
That's the thing. I noticed that Cap sun or venus in cap have no problem being physically intimate with pretty girls, but they don't open up emotionally. They may be seeing the same women for months or years but never invest in the girl emotionally.

Is that true in your case? ๐Ÿ˜„
lol I'll invest only if you do.
click to expand

How do you tell if a girl is invested? What kind of things do you pay attention to?

I used to see a cap guy on and off for three years. He'd say things like, "you must like me a little bit" and he used to complain that I never called him...

I didn't take him seriously because I felt he's never over his ex anyways... our "thing" ended 4 years ago after I moved to another state.

anyways, what kind of things you look at to decide if a girl is invested? ๐Ÿ˜„
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by exo
sensitive

daddy-ish

practical/resourceful

protective

hard-working

traditional
That about sums it up

I feel like a manager in my relationships lol
Nice. What venus signs do you get along with best? ๐Ÿ˜„
Other Caps, Virgo, Scorpio, you know serious Venusus lol


I have venus in libra... am I doomed? ๐Ÿ˜ฑ
Well na. I find Mars Venus interaction more important. My Mars is in Taurus so maybe that's why.

Also sun Venus is powerful.
If you have been indirectly rejected by a girl, would you consider dating her if she comes around in the future or no?
Depends on indirectly

Cap Venus likes control and looks ahead, very business like. If there's doubt about flaking then it could be a problem

That's why cap is squared libra
So regarding what I meant by "indirectly".... when we first met, I just got out of a relationship and my ex still wanted to give it another shot.

My ex booked the plane tickets to go to my country with me a couple of months before we broke up and my ex still wanted to go. So I told the cap venus guy about the situation and told him let's not see each other for a while since I was not sure what'd happen during the trip....

I do think I may come off flakey =.=
Haha total libra energy. Indecisive. Yeah he likely won't forget that.
click to expand

That's too bad....

I have to admit that I really am indecive when it comes to the matter of the heart ๐Ÿ˜ญ

I do notice that he has good memory. He still remembers everything I like and dislike...

Would you be able to give the girl the benefit of the doubt if you were in a similar situation?

I already told him I wanted to get to know him better this time and see if it can work between us, he doesn't really give me any real answers. I don't want to press him for an answer to make myself look a fool :p
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by d0s3r
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by d0s3r
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by d0s3r
i don't like pressure

like

don't tell me you like me idk what to do with this info

or... i like you so i'm gonna watch you from a distance


OMG this is so true. I told a cap venus that I was interested in him and he said "thank you for sharing this with me." ๐Ÿ˜†

I mean, is there a "correct" way to approach venus in capโ€”?
well for example there was a man yesterday... i accidentally flirted with him so he started flirting back. that was ok...

but today he began flirting again really explicitly...and all my confidence and wit went. he is now officially 'onto' me and idk what to do.

if a cap venus likes you (and i speak really for myself here, pisces and sag dominance ok)

they will 'chase'. me as a woman, by 'chase' i mean flirting, finding reasons to be around you. doing things for you.

telling you explicitly i like you takes a while - i need to be sure you like me first.

if i were to be chased, i would back off like the guy did to you. it doesn't officially mean i'm not interested.

i need to know what you want. anyone can say they like you

a guy might want just sex, or fwb, a casual relationship - or marriage. i don't mind either, but which one i'd choose depends on how much i like you and how much i can trust you. people tend to not say exactly what they want. they trick you, or don't really know themselves.

i don't want to get trapped in a bad decision - then have to hurt your or my feelings trying to reverse it.


This is very helpful. I'd like to think that I am very clear when it comes to my intention with him, but maybe I could do better...

So first, I told him I wanted to get to know him better and I hoped we can talk on a regular basis. He thanked me for letting him know, but no action. He just remained passive and waited for me to text him first. I texted him a few times a week and he always responded.

Then, I told him what my schedule is like and ask him to let me know when he's in town (he lives at least an hour and a half from me). He replied and told me that our schedules are very different but he's sure that we will be able to find time to hang out. But still, he did not make any attempt for us to hang out.

I feel I am pretty straightfoward towards him, no?

Do you think he's just being nice?

Is it hard for you to tell a person you are not interested?
it's hard when a person is nice generally. how could i hurt that person's feelings?

also, there are some guys i meet that i'd love to be friends with.. but they want more. so i put myself in a dilemma by being nice back, knowing what he wants. it's really bad of me. i'm what is often called 'timewaster'

however if i don't care for the person, i will be very blunt about my lack of interest.

i wouldn't immediately presume this guy is not interested in you.

he may just be apprehensive about what you want. you have told him your intended actions - and you're doing those. but you haven't told him your hopes. does he know explicitly that you want to date? although i've never had anyone say that to me - that would freak me out lol.

he also may just feel very under the spotlight with you being so active in... getting to know him.

to me it seems like you're scrutinising everything about him under all this attention. that's a lot to live up to.

cap is about working to the top - but in silence. humility.

cap venus wants to be your best love - yet doesn't want to be compared to past loves.

to be noticed without me having to boast.

my advice? it sounds like you're coming on strong.

just back off a little. give him the chance to chase.

for example, if you want to hang out with him?

make it so it's like you don't NEED him there - but he can come if he wants. don't make the purpose of meeting about him. that sounds like an audition. don't make the conversations about getting to know him.

talk to him like you would a friend



click to expand

I feel better now just by knowing how the internal process works, and you described it very well. I can actually see that now... espeically the working to the top in silence, be yoru best love part. He did do a lot of sweet things for me (very subtle) when we first met but it was bad timing for me...

I guess I just came on too strong this time.... and probably has blown it already ๐Ÿ˜ญ

The last conversation we had, I told him I'd go live with him for a month in the summer to see if we can get along and he said, "I can't live with cats." (He knew I love cats and identify myself with cats, but he had told me he never liked cats.)

I was not sure if he was joking, stating a fact, or it was an indirect no.

Anyways, I responded with something like "I thought there was something there, but maybe I was just being delusional, which happens LOL." He just didn't reply after that.

Since he went silent, I sent him another message a few hours later saying "Gook luck. Till we meet again ๐Ÿ™‚"

I think I blew it! I knew it ๐Ÿ˜ญ
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by exo
sensitive

daddy-ish

practical/resourceful

protective

hard-working

traditional
That about sums it up

I feel like a manager in my relationships lol
Nice. What venus signs do you get along with best? ๐Ÿ˜„
Other Caps, Virgo, Scorpio, you know serious Venusus lol


I have venus in libra... am I doomed? ๐Ÿ˜ฑ
Well na. I find Mars Venus interaction more important. My Mars is in Taurus so maybe that's why.

Also sun Venus is powerful.
If you have been indirectly rejected by a girl, would you consider dating her if she comes around in the future or no?
Depends on indirectly

Cap Venus likes control and looks ahead, very business like. If there's doubt about flaking then it could be a problem

That's why cap is squared libra
So regarding what I meant by "indirectly".... when we first met, I just got out of a relationship and my ex still wanted to give it another shot.

My ex booked the plane tickets to go to my country with me a couple of months before we broke up and my ex still wanted to go. So I told the cap venus guy about the situation and told him let's not see each other for a while since I was not sure what'd happen during the trip....

I do think I may come off flakey =.=
Haha total libra energy. Indecisive. Yeah he likely won't forget that.
That's too bad....

I have to admit that I really am indecive when it comes to the matter of the heart ๐Ÿ˜ญ

I do notice that he has good memory. He still remembers everything I like and dislike...

Would you be able to give the girl the benefit of the doubt if you were in a similar situation?

I already told him I wanted to get to know him better this time and see if it can work between us, he doesn't really give me any real answers. I don't want to press him for an answer to make myself look a fool :p
Yes I would BUT remembere Capricorn can be a tough sadistic mofo. I would test you to your limit. If you break you fail, if I break you win.
click to expand

How do I break a Cap?

What has a girl done in the past to break you successfully? Do tell, please ๐Ÿ™‚
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by d0s3r
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by d0s3r
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by d0s3r
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by d0s3r
i don't like pressure

like

don't tell me you like me idk what to do with this info

or... i like you so i'm gonna watch you from a distance


OMG this is so true. I told a cap venus that I was interested in him and he said "thank you for sharing this with me." ๐Ÿ˜†

I mean, is there a "correct" way to approach venus in capโ€”?
well for example there was a man yesterday... i accidentally flirted with him so he started flirting back. that was ok...

but today he began flirting again really explicitly...and all my confidence and wit went. he is now officially 'onto' me and idk what to do.

if a cap venus likes you (and i speak really for myself here, pisces and sag dominance ok)

they will 'chase'. me as a woman, by 'chase' i mean flirting, finding reasons to be around you. doing things for you.

telling you explicitly i like you takes a while - i need to be sure you like me first.

if i were to be chased, i would back off like the guy did to you. it doesn't officially mean i'm not interested.

i need to know what you want. anyone can say they like you

a guy might want just sex, or fwb, a casual relationship - or marriage. i don't mind either, but which one i'd choose depends on how much i like you and how much i can trust you. people tend to not say exactly what they want. they trick you, or don't really know themselves.

i don't want to get trapped in a bad decision - then have to hurt your or my feelings trying to reverse it.


This is very helpful. I'd like to think that I am very clear when it comes to my intention with him, but maybe I could do better...

So first, I told him I wanted to get to know him better and I hoped we can talk on a regular basis. He thanked me for letting him know, but no action. He just remained passive and waited for me to text him first. I texted him a few times a week and he always responded.

Then, I told him what my schedule is like and ask him to let me know when he's in town (he lives at least an hour and a half from me). He replied and told me that our schedules are very different but he's sure that we will be able to find time to hang out. But still, he did not make any attempt for us to hang out.

I feel I am pretty straightfoward towards him, no?

Do you think he's just being nice?

Is it hard for you to tell a person you are not interested?
it's hard when a person is nice generally. how could i hurt that person's feelings?

also, there are some guys i meet that i'd love to be friends with.. but they want more. so i put myself in a dilemma by being nice back, knowing what he wants. it's really bad of me. i'm what is often called 'timewaster'

however if i don't care for the person, i will be very blunt about my lack of interest.

i wouldn't immediately presume this guy is not interested in you.

he may just be apprehensive about what you want. you have told him your intended actions - and you're doing those. but you haven't told him your hopes. does he know explicitly that you want to date? although i've never had anyone say that to me - that would freak me out lol.

he also may just feel very under the spotlight with you being so active in... getting to know him.

to me it seems like you're scrutinising everything about him under all this attention. that's a lot to live up to.

cap is about working to the top - but in silence. humility.

cap venus wants to be your best love - yet doesn't want to be compared to past loves.

to be noticed without me having to boast.

my advice? it sounds like you're coming on strong.

just back off a little. give him the chance to chase.

for example, if you want to hang out with him?

make it so it's like you don't NEED him there - but he can come if he wants. don't make the purpose of meeting about him. that sounds like an audition. don't make the conversations about getting to know him.

talk to him like you would a friend




I feel better now just by knowing how the internal process works, and you described it very well. I can actually see that now... espeically the working to the top in silence, be yoru best love part. He did do a lot of sweet things for me (very subtle) when we first met but it was bad timing for me...

I guess I just came on too strong this time.... and probably has blown it already ๐Ÿ˜ญ

The last conversation we had, I told him I'd go live with him for a month in the summer to see if we can get along and he said, "I can't live with cats." (He knew I love cats and identify myself with cats, but he had told me he never liked cats.)

I was not sure if he was joking, stating a fact, or it was an indirect no.

Anyways, I responded with something like "I thought there was something there, but maybe I was just being delusional, which happens LOL." He just didn't reply after that.

Since he went silent, I sent him another message a few hours later saying "Gook luck. Till we meet again ๐Ÿ™‚"

I think I blew it! I knew it ๐Ÿ˜ญ
yes yes waaay too strong. that cat comment was a witty way of saying 'hell no'.

but don't lose faith. just back off for a while but be there subtly.

like... if he follows u on instagram... keep posting subtle photos. that kinda thing.

that he used to give you nice stuff probably means he did like you. and coming on strong isn't too much of a deal breaker - he probably still likes you. what's his sun or stellium?
click to expand

I feel So Embarrased about my last conversation with him now.

I think I def will back off for a while.

His subtle way of being nice is, "I am making us this (insert a food name). I remember you liked it when I made it last time..."

I don't know his birth time, but this is what I got by entering the date/year/approximate birth location...

Zodiac : Tropical

Sun Pisces 11ยฐ36'

Moon Taurus 6ยฐ48'

Mercury Pisces 28ยฐ24'

Venus Capricorn 28ยฐ55'

Mars Pisces 2ยฐ20'

Jupiter Cancer 29ยฐ52' R

Saturn Virgo 10ยฐ27' R

Uranus Scorpio 20ยฐ59' R

Neptune Sagittarius 20ยฐ23'

Pluto Libra 18ยฐ48' R

Lilith Leo 15ยฐ36'

Asc node Virgo 17ยฐ35'
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by exo
sensitive

daddy-ish

practical/resourceful

protective

hard-working

traditional
That about sums it up

I feel like a manager in my relationships lol
Nice. What venus signs do you get along with best? ๐Ÿ˜„
Other Caps, Virgo, Scorpio, you know serious Venusus lol


I have venus in libra... am I doomed? ๐Ÿ˜ฑ
Well na. I find Mars Venus interaction more important. My Mars is in Taurus so maybe that's why.

Also sun Venus is powerful.
If you have been indirectly rejected by a girl, would you consider dating her if she comes around in the future or no?
Depends on indirectly

Cap Venus likes control and looks ahead, very business like. If there's doubt about flaking then it could be a problem

That's why cap is squared libra
So regarding what I meant by "indirectly".... when we first met, I just got out of a relationship and my ex still wanted to give it another shot.

My ex booked the plane tickets to go to my country with me a couple of months before we broke up and my ex still wanted to go. So I told the cap venus guy about the situation and told him let's not see each other for a while since I was not sure what'd happen during the trip....

I do think I may come off flakey =.=
Haha total libra energy. Indecisive. Yeah he likely won't forget that.
That's too bad....

I have to admit that I really am indecive when it comes to the matter of the heart ๐Ÿ˜ญ

I do notice that he has good memory. He still remembers everything I like and dislike...

Would you be able to give the girl the benefit of the doubt if you were in a similar situation?

I already told him I wanted to get to know him better this time and see if it can work between us, he doesn't really give me any real answers. I don't want to press him for an answer to make myself look a fool :p
Yes I would BUT remembere Capricorn can be a tough sadistic mofo. I would test you to your limit. If you break you fail, if I break you win.
How do I break a Cap?

What has a girl done in the past to break you successfully? Do tell, please ๐Ÿ™‚
Lots and lots of reliability, being serious about dates, plans, improvising to get the job done, persistance is key

He will make you doubt yourself, you will likely wonder if it's even worth it

It's a lot of time and work, it's like Capricorn on steroids

we are terrible lovers at first but we're dead serious once we get confident.

It's like boxing muhammad ali , get ready
click to expand

This is So True. He def made me doubt myself and wonder if he's worth the efforts lol

He has been just very evasive/passive...

I think I will need to back off for a while though since I came on too strong.

I may try it again in a few weeks/months, but I need to know how to behave myself the right way.

So, do you like it when a girl takes initiatives to make plans with you?



I know he at least still thinks I am pretty cause he said that to me when he saw me a few weeks ago ๐Ÿ˜„
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by SassyKiwi
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by SassyKiwi
They're the type you put a ring on
Have you dated any venus in Cap? ๐Ÿ™‚

Just trust me when I say they are people great to settle down with. They are not your player/sleeping around type unless they got other promiscuous placements (cough sags lel)
click to expand

Thanks. I do see him as long-term partner material.

I only see him with 1 sag placement (don't know his birthtime though) so hopefully not too bad ๐Ÿ˜†
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
Lol you nailed it.
Are you venus in cap? What venus signs do you get along with?
I get a long with all the pretty females inside the bedroom yea I am Venus in cap ?
That's the thing. I noticed that Cap sun or venus in cap have no problem being physically intimate with pretty girls, but they don't open up emotionally. They may be seeing the same women for months or years but never invest in the girl emotionally.

Is that true in your case? ๐Ÿ˜„
lol I'll invest only if you do.
How do you tell if a girl is invested? What kind of things do you pay attention to?

I used to see a cap guy on and off for three years. He'd say things like, "you must like me a little bit" and he used to complain that I never called him...

I didn't take him seriously because I felt he's never over his ex anyways... our "thing" ended 4 years ago after I moved to another state.

anyways, what kind of things you look at to decide if a girl is invested? ๐Ÿ˜„
Actions time spent doing lil things if I see you making an effort that's investment.
click to expand

Good to know. Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚

I will need to wait for a while before I approach him again though... since I came on too strong lol
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by d0s3r
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by d0s3r
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by d0s3r
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by d0s3r
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by d0s3r
i don't like pressure

like

don't tell me you like me idk what to do with this info

or... i like you so i'm gonna watch you from a distance


OMG this is so true. I told a cap venus that I was interested in him and he said "thank you for sharing this with me." ๐Ÿ˜†

I mean, is there a "correct" way to approach venus in capโ€”?
well for example there was a man yesterday... i accidentally flirted with him so he started flirting back. that was ok...

but today he began flirting again really explicitly...and all my confidence and wit went. he is now officially 'onto' me and idk what to do.

if a cap venus likes you (and i speak really for myself here, pisces and sag dominance ok)

they will 'chase'. me as a woman, by 'chase' i mean flirting, finding reasons to be around you. doing things for you.

telling you explicitly i like you takes a while - i need to be sure you like me first.

if i were to be chased, i would back off like the guy did to you. it doesn't officially mean i'm not interested.

i need to know what you want. anyone can say they like you

a guy might want just sex, or fwb, a casual relationship - or marriage. i don't mind either, but which one i'd choose depends on how much i like you and how much i can trust you. people tend to not say exactly what they want. they trick you, or don't really know themselves.

i don't want to get trapped in a bad decision - then have to hurt your or my feelings trying to reverse it.


This is very helpful. I'd like to think that I am very clear when it comes to my intention with him, but maybe I could do better...

So first, I told him I wanted to get to know him better and I hoped we can talk on a regular basis. He thanked me for letting him know, but no action. He just remained passive and waited for me to text him first. I texted him a few times a week and he always responded.

Then, I told him what my schedule is like and ask him to let me know when he's in town (he lives at least an hour and a half from me). He replied and told me that our schedules are very different but he's sure that we will be able to find time to hang out. But still, he did not make any attempt for us to hang out.

I feel I am pretty straightfoward towards him, no?

Do you think he's just being nice?

Is it hard for you to tell a person you are not interested?
it's hard when a person is nice generally. how could i hurt that person's feelings?

also, there are some guys i meet that i'd love to be friends with.. but they want more. so i put myself in a dilemma by being nice back, knowing what he wants. it's really bad of me. i'm what is often called 'timewaster'

however if i don't care for the person, i will be very blunt about my lack of interest.

i wouldn't immediately presume this guy is not interested in you.

he may just be apprehensive about what you want. you have told him your intended actions - and you're doing those. but you haven't told him your hopes. does he know explicitly that you want to date? although i've never had anyone say that to me - that would freak me out lol.

he also may just feel very under the spotlight with you being so active in... getting to know him.

to me it seems like you're scrutinising everything about him under all this attention. that's a lot to live up to.

cap is about working to the top - but in silence. humility.

cap venus wants to be your best love - yet doesn't want to be compared to past loves.

to be noticed without me having to boast.

my advice? it sounds like you're coming on strong.

just back off a little. give him the chance to chase.

for example, if you want to hang out with him?

make it so it's like you don't NEED him there - but he can come if he wants. don't make the purpose of meeting about him. that sounds like an audition. don't make the conversations about getting to know him.

talk to him like you would a friend




I feel better now just by knowing how the internal process works, and you described it very well. I can actually see that now... espeically the working to the top in silence, be yoru best love part. He did do a lot of sweet things for me (very subtle) when we first met but it was bad timing for me...

I guess I just came on too strong this time.... and probably has blown it already ๐Ÿ˜ญ

The last conversation we had, I told him I'd go live with him for a month in the summer to see if we can get along and he said, "I can't live with cats." (He knew I love cats and identify myself with cats, but he had told me he never liked cats.)

I was not sure if he was joking, stating a fact, or it was an indirect no.

Anyways, I responded with something like "I thought there was something there, but maybe I was just being delusional, which happens LOL." He just didn't reply after that.

Since he went silent, I sent him another message a few hours later saying "Gook luck. Till we meet again ๐Ÿ™‚"

I think I blew it! I knew it ๐Ÿ˜ญ
yes yes waaay too strong. that cat comment was a witty way of saying 'hell no'.

but don't lose faith. just back off for a while but be there subtly.

like... if he follows u on instagram... keep posting subtle photos. that kinda thing.

that he used to give you nice stuff probably means he did like you. and coming on strong isn't too much of a deal breaker - he probably still likes you. what's his sun or stellium?
I feel So Embarrased about my last conversation with him now.

I think I def will back off for a while.

His subtle way of being nice is, "I am making us this (insert a food name). I remember you liked it when I made it last time..."

I don't know his birth time, but this is what I got by entering the date/year/approximate birth location...

Zodiac : Tropical

Sun Pisces 11ยฐ36'

Moon Taurus 6ยฐ48'

Mercury Pisces 28ยฐ24'

Venus Capricorn 28ยฐ55'

Mars Pisces 2ยฐ20'

Jupiter Cancer 29ยฐ52' R

Saturn Virgo 10ยฐ27' R

Uranus Scorpio 20ยฐ59' R

Neptune Sagittarius 20ยฐ23'

Pluto Libra 18ยฐ48' R

Lilith Leo 15ยฐ36'

Asc node Virgo 17ยฐ35'
LOL he's pisces like me.

i just smiled so much reading his 'subtle way of being nice'. that's EXACTLY what i do lool.

he likes you. he gives you gifts with meaning. he's looking after you. he's demonstrating that he listens and pays attention (that's him chasing)
click to expand

Should I mirror him? Do subtle nice things for him?

What kind of things you'd appreciate that's not too over the top? ๐Ÿ™‚
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
Lol you nailed it.
Are you venus in cap? What venus signs do you get along with?
I get a long with all the pretty females inside the bedroom yea I am Venus in cap ?
That's the thing. I noticed that Cap sun or venus in cap have no problem being physically intimate with pretty girls, but they don't open up emotionally. They may be seeing the same women for months or years but never invest in the girl emotionally.

Is that true in your case? ๐Ÿ˜„
lol I'll invest only if you do.
How do you tell if a girl is invested? What kind of things do you pay attention to?

I used to see a cap guy on and off for three years. He'd say things like, "you must like me a little bit" and he used to complain that I never called him...

I didn't take him seriously because I felt he's never over his ex anyways... our "thing" ended 4 years ago after I moved to another state.

anyways, what kind of things you look at to decide if a girl is invested? ๐Ÿ˜„
Actions time spent doing lil things if I see you making an effort that's investment.
Good to know. Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚

I will need to wait for a while before I approach him again though... since I came on too strong lol
lol Won't matter if you come too strong if the attraction is there it won't make a difference but that's just me.
click to expand

Really??!! I told him I'd live with him for a month in the summer to see if we can work things out... =.=

Would it scare you? You still think it won't make a difference? ๐Ÿ˜„
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
Lol you nailed it.
Are you venus in cap? What venus signs do you get along with?
I get a long with all the pretty females inside the bedroom yea I am Venus in cap ?
That's the thing. I noticed that Cap sun or venus in cap have no problem being physically intimate with pretty girls, but they don't open up emotionally. They may be seeing the same women for months or years but never invest in the girl emotionally.

Is that true in your case? ๐Ÿ˜„
lol I'll invest only if you do.
How do you tell if a girl is invested? What kind of things do you pay attention to?

I used to see a cap guy on and off for three years. He'd say things like, "you must like me a little bit" and he used to complain that I never called him...

I didn't take him seriously because I felt he's never over his ex anyways... our "thing" ended 4 years ago after I moved to another state.

anyways, what kind of things you look at to decide if a girl is invested? ๐Ÿ˜„
Actions time spent doing lil things if I see you making an effort that's investment.
Good to know. Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚

I will need to wait for a while before I approach him again though... since I came on too strong lol
lol Won't matter if you come too strong if the attraction is there it won't make a difference but that's just me.
Really??!! I told him I'd live with him for a month in the summer to see if we can work things out... =.=

Would it scare you? You still think it won't make a difference? ๐Ÿ˜„
Lol not really if I'm attracted to you it won't phase me
click to expand

That's good to know ๐Ÿค—

Thank you!!
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
Lol you nailed it.
Are you venus in cap? What venus signs do you get along with?
I get a long with all the pretty females inside the bedroom yea I am Venus in cap ?
That's the thing. I noticed that Cap sun or venus in cap have no problem being physically intimate with pretty girls, but they don't open up emotionally. They may be seeing the same women for months or years but never invest in the girl emotionally.

Is that true in your case? ๐Ÿ˜„
lol I'll invest only if you do.
How do you tell if a girl is invested? What kind of things do you pay attention to?

I used to see a cap guy on and off for three years. He'd say things like, "you must like me a little bit" and he used to complain that I never called him...

I didn't take him seriously because I felt he's never over his ex anyways... our "thing" ended 4 years ago after I moved to another state.

anyways, what kind of things you look at to decide if a girl is invested? ๐Ÿ˜„
Actions time spent doing lil things if I see you making an effort that's investment.
Good to know. Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚

I will need to wait for a while before I approach him again though... since I came on too strong lol
lol Won't matter if you come too strong if the attraction is there it won't make a difference but that's just me.
Really??!! I told him I'd live with him for a month in the summer to see if we can work things out... =.=

Would it scare you? You still think it won't make a difference? ๐Ÿ˜„
Lol not really if I'm attracted to you it won't phase me
That's good to know ๐Ÿค—
It's not like you're askIng me to marry you lol
click to expand

Are you saying THAT is what gets you running ๐Ÿ˜†
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
Lol you nailed it.
Are you venus in cap? What venus signs do you get along with?
I get a long with all the pretty females inside the bedroom yea I am Venus in cap ?
That's the thing. I noticed that Cap sun or venus in cap have no problem being physically intimate with pretty girls, but they don't open up emotionally. They may be seeing the same women for months or years but never invest in the girl emotionally.

Is that true in your case? ๐Ÿ˜„
lol I'll invest only if you do.
How do you tell if a girl is invested? What kind of things do you pay attention to?

I used to see a cap guy on and off for three years. He'd say things like, "you must like me a little bit" and he used to complain that I never called him...

I didn't take him seriously because I felt he's never over his ex anyways... our "thing" ended 4 years ago after I moved to another state.

anyways, what kind of things you look at to decide if a girl is invested? ๐Ÿ˜„
Actions time spent doing lil things if I see you making an effort that's investment.
Good to know. Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚

I will need to wait for a while before I approach him again though... since I came on too strong lol
lol Won't matter if you come too strong if the attraction is there it won't make a difference but that's just me.
Really??!! I told him I'd live with him for a month in the summer to see if we can work things out... =.=

Would it scare you? You still think it won't make a difference? ๐Ÿ˜„
Lol not really if I'm attracted to you it won't phase me
That's good to know ๐Ÿค—
It's not like you're askIng me to marry you lol
Are you saying THAT is what gets you running ๐Ÿ˜†
Nah marriage takes time and sometimes living together is a good thing before marriage cause it's the same thing as marriage without paper lol
click to expand

Thank you for the clarification ๐Ÿ™‚

I think I am the all-in-or-all-out type. When I am interested, I want to learn Everything about you.

The best way to really get to know someone is to live with them, seriously ๐Ÿ˜„
Profile picture of Lilianni
Lilianni
@Lilianni
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 609 ยท Posts: 1982 ยท Topics: 53
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
Sounds like a keeper!

Please elaborate on the "expensive to maintain" part :p
click to expand

OH! The expensive to maintain part means that they like the real deal. So say you get them something that looks nice but turns out it's from Walmart. They don't like that. They want the real thing. So like, say you want to give them a watch. It can't be just any watch. It has to be the one that everyone likes. The expensive, classy, cool looking, trendy watch that's like $ 300.
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by Lilianni
Sexy
Do you have venus in Cap?

Elaborate please ๐Ÿ˜„
Very respectful, chooses timeless gifts, traditional, sweet, driven to succeed for themselves and usually successful at it, and are expensive to maintain lol.
Sounds like a keeper!

Please elaborate on the "expensive to maintain" part :p
OH! The expensive to maintain part means that they like the real deal. So say you get them something that looks nice but turns out it's from Walmart. They don't like that. They want the real thing. So like, say you want to give them a watch. It can't be just any watch. It has to be the one that everyone likes. The expensive, classy, cool looking, trendy watch that's like $ 300.
click to expand

I see. I guess I am not gonna give him any gift before I do some research then ๐Ÿ˜‰
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Posted by bumboklatt
Posted by exo
sensitive

daddy-ish

practical/resourceful

protective

hard-working

traditional
That about sums it up

I feel like a manager in my relationships lol
Nice. What venus signs do you get along with best? ๐Ÿ˜„
Other Caps, Virgo, Scorpio, you know serious Venusus lol


I have venus in libra... am I doomed? ๐Ÿ˜ฑ
Well na. I find Mars Venus interaction more important. My Mars is in Taurus so maybe that's why.

Also sun Venus is powerful.
If you have been indirectly rejected by a girl, would you consider dating her if she comes around in the future or no?
Depends on indirectly

Cap Venus likes control and looks ahead, very business like. If there's doubt about flaking then it could be a problem

That's why cap is squared libra
So regarding what I meant by "indirectly".... when we first met, I just got out of a relationship and my ex still wanted to give it another shot.

My ex booked the plane tickets to go to my country with me a couple of months before we broke up and my ex still wanted to go. So I told the cap venus guy about the situation and told him let's not see each other for a while since I was not sure what'd happen during the trip....

I do think I may come off flakey =.=
Haha total libra energy. Indecisive. Yeah he likely won't forget that.
That's too bad....

I have to admit that I really am indecive when it comes to the matter of the heart ๐Ÿ˜ญ

I do notice that he has good memory. He still remembers everything I like and dislike...

Would you be able to give the girl the benefit of the doubt if you were in a similar situation?

I already told him I wanted to get to know him better this time and see if it can work between us, he doesn't really give me any real answers. I don't want to press him for an answer to make myself look a fool :p
Yes I would BUT remembere Capricorn can be a tough sadistic mofo. I would test you to your limit. If you break you fail, if I break you win.
How do I break a Cap?

What has a girl done in the past to break you successfully? Do tell, please ๐Ÿ™‚
Lots and lots of reliability, being serious about dates, plans, improvising to get the job done, persistance is key

He will make you doubt yourself, you will likely wonder if it's even worth it

It's a lot of time and work, it's like Capricorn on steroids

we are terrible lovers at first but we're dead serious once we get confident.

It's like boxing muhammad ali , get ready
This is So True. He def made me doubt myself and wonder if he's worth the efforts lol

He has been just very evasive/passive...

I think I will need to back off for a while though since I came on too strong.

I may try it again in a few weeks/months, but I need to know how to behave myself the right way.

So, do you like it when a girl takes initiatives to make plans with you?



I know he at least still thinks I am pretty cause he said that to me when he saw me a few weeks ago ๐Ÿ˜„
O yeah he's interested. Yeah its great to not taking the initiative all the time. Just be genuine and try your best. Wishy washiness is a big red flag.
click to expand

haha thanks! I will ๐Ÿ˜„
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
BTW, is venus in cap jealous or just like to play daddy?

The last time I saw him, I told him I was going to a movie with a friend the next day. He asked me if it was a date, what movie it was, what time was the movie, and where was the movie theater. I told him the name of the movie, time, and place. I told him I was not sure what the movie was about. I told him it was not a date but I was going with my guy friend. He basically just pulled his phone out, looked up the movie, the movie time, and the theater, etc. Then he told me the movie was playing at 8:10pm instead of 8pm (my friend told me the movie was at 8pm) and he thought my friend was crazy to want to meet up at 7:30 to get snacks first. Then, he told me to let him know when I got home from the movie....
Profile picture of whatisthisallabout
whatisthisallabout
@whatisthisallabout
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 41 ยท Posts: 1963 ยท Topics: 41
Posted by d0s3r
Posted by whatisthisallabout
BTW, is venus in cap jealous or just like to play daddy?

The last time I saw him, I told him I was going to a movie with a friend the next day. He asked me if it was a date, what movie it was, what time was the movie, and where was the movie theater. I told him the name of the movie, time, and place. I told him I was not sure what the movie was about. I told him it was not a date but I was going with my guy friend. He basically just pulled his phone out, looked up the movie, the movie time, and the theater, etc. Then he told me the movie was playing at 8:10pm instead of 8pm (my friend told me the movie was at 8pm) and he thought my friend was crazy to want to meet up at 7:30 to get snacks first. Then, he told me to let him know when I got home from the movie....
lol

jealousy is one of those traits i'd never admit

especially if i'd been holding back... i'd feel like i screwed it up and the pursuer got impatient

remember... capricorn wants to be the best

but for you to recognise that on your own... not for him/her to have to show you

that's how cap differs to aries

as i am a pisces like him... you're really gonna have to prove this other dude is just a friend

i personally would swim away. another person in the equation = comparison

i've done that before. but the guy came back again. he must have missed me

this guy rejected me when i made a move before. so my trust for him has never been the same

why does he come back? did the other girls not compare to me? or is he that bad that i'm his last resort?

he does not communicate these things. in fact we barely talk about anything

so maybe this can be a lesson for you... he asked you to let him know, so do that
click to expand

I did text him as soon as I got home from the movie.



Well, this really explains.

I think it will be really hard for him to trust me because I met him last year when I was on a break with my ex and at the time I chose to go back to work things out with my ex. I did like him a lot when I met him, but I was not over my ex so I felt I had to give my ex another shot.