What if you rejected your soul-mate?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by LawrenceWTF on Sunday, March 27, 2016 and has 15 replies.

What Happens When You Reject Your Soulmate According to Astrology

Rejecting your soulmate can delay or prevent a deep connection, but astrology suggests that life may bring opportunities for reconciliation or future encounters. Compatibility signs indicate strong potential, but free will influences the outcome. Understanding your astrological chart can help clarify possible consequences and paths forward.

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@wagtail
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If people are rejecting potentials based on astrology, they're missing out big time lol
But I mean, how would you even do that...
First five seconds, hand shake, what's your date of birth, hang on one sec just running your chart oops sorry no can do...
Scratch the drink, gotta go.
Nah, that can't be happening surely

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@Season
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I wouldn't lump sum any sign as potential failure or prospective soulmate but after several bad experiences with Scorpios, the last was a registered sex offender I discovered, yeah really, I do shy away from that sign.

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Posted by whatthecrab

Posted by Palerio

Posted by whatthecrab
There is no such thing as a soul mate

mmmm

There's a lot of people who would dissent.

Then there's a lot of people who have bought into metaphysical nonsense

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Immature people that's for sure but there's also many who actually met theirs. You recognize them because they speak a totally different language from yours, as a result of their diverse manner of processing love.

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@Piscis_Hominis
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I believe that people are just more compatible with some than others. If you are compatible and click, fall in love you deem that person to be your soulmate. There are people who lose their loves for whatever reason (death, life circumstances, etc...). In the case of widows and widowers who find love again, they either find a stronger or weaker love IMO. If they find a stronger one, then that person is their soulmate. If they find a weaker one, then the person that died was their soulmate.

I'm a dreamer and when I fall for a woman I buy into the destiny and soulmate stuff because love has me in the clouds.

When I'm not in love I tend to feel that there are a lot of women out there with whom I would be compatible with. Does fate follow us? Do we follow fate? Do we dismiss because we are waiting for fate to grab hold of our lives?

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Soulmate is a broad term... wasn't meant - as a referral to romantic partners alone, but - every soul that happens to have a meaningful role - in your path through life (a family member, a friend, a neighbor, a teacher, someone from work, a romantic partner or even someone from the animal kingdom). Even, if it's just - a temporary role...

Though, people wear masks... which act like gates (or barriers - if closed) - to their inner world - to their inner being. So, there is the possibility... to pass by one another (to miss each other), or to gravitate in similar circles and feel the pull - but ignore it (at least - until all the pieces fall into place). This is quite a common example - which makes the possibility of rejection quite plausible... I do remember stories - of people who weren't right for each-other - in the beginning, they just weren't in the right place (or at the right frequency - to understand each-other clearly) and... years latter - they found each-other again... and end-up growing old together. ^^

It's a matter of chemistry... but people change with time - and so does the chemistry. Astrology does show the celestial influences - but mainly, it's up to the ones in question... on how they chose to act (or react), it's what defines both you and the chemistry (the way things might turn-up). One could say: we're all Chemists or Cooks... ^^ And... same as it goes in the chemistry lab or the kitchen, it's not just matter of having the right ingredients... you have to know what to do with them (guessing could work as well... sometimes ^^) or things could get messy... even though - all that you need is there. ^^

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"Due to their sign..."—
That's my first problem with this. If you turn someone down based on their sun sign then I doubt you'd even be mature/stable enough to handle a relationship with someone like a soul mate, twin flame, etc.

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Posted by wagtail
If people are rejecting potentials based on astrology, they're missing out big time lol
But I mean, how would you even do that...
First five seconds, hand shake, what's your date of birth, hang on one sec just running your chart oops sorry no can do...
Scratch the drink, gotta go.
Nah, that can't be happening surely

Oh whoops

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11 Years

Posted by SDNA
i go based on looks and if they're cute enough i might start looking into the astrology. i thought that's how everybody did it?

Yes, looks/chemistry, then later i will look into their sign etc

Nobody should write off a potential date based on their sign.