What is the limit of a jealously act?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by raad182 on Thursday, October 26, 2017 and has 28 replies.

Understanding the Limits of Jealousy in Relationships

Jealousy limits vary for each individual and depend on personal boundaries and relationship dynamics. It often arises when trust is challenged or perceived threats occur. Recognizing your jealousy triggers and communicating openly can help manage these feelings effectively.

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@EtherealTraveler
9 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

I mean if someone tries to attempt physical contact or gets a bit too friendly will see my hands wrapping around their throats tightly.

Oh, and a black eye.

I honestly can't stand anyone making my girl laugh privately and on personal terms.

Sag Venus in 12th.

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Im possessive not the jealous type as i trust my partner whole heartedly,she can talk to a man,have a laugh with him but when touching is involve im like "paws off my woman!!!!!" I know the importance of touch,im glad my gf isnt the touchy type either

Venus in Cappy

Maybe my moon is more involve with my possessiveness

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If she has a past before she met me.

interesting - I used to be like that - age helps - or maybe it's the wisdom that comes with it

I just don't gaf about that sort of stuff now

I like to know everything in the past. All the details. Then im good.

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well thank god the Libra I am seeing isn't like that - I answer his questions but he doesn't get into details - it seems we are just more in the present and appreciative of that - besides - I'm out of RAM - too much to actually remember - no kidding ... bits come back to me sometimes - when the wind turns the pages of the great book ...

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If I ever dated a partner who's stupid enough to try to trigger me at this day & age by getting me jealous, then he would immediately be my ex-partner.

However, these would trigger me:

Flirting with another woman

Touching/showing attention maliciously to another woman knowing that she's interested in him

Dancing certain genre with another woman (no reggae, reggaeton, bachata) Basically anything that involves being super close to opposite sex and lead to grinding on them lol

I'm not a jealous person per-say, I can be a little territorial but will rarely show it. I just expect my s/o to know what's right & wrong.

Venus Gemini

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if I ever get the feeling he looks at another woman the same way he looks at me... it's going to trigger smth but not sure what. I think I'll spend many nights writing dark love poems

aries venus

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Posted by tiziani

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Posted by tiziani

Posted by tctao

Posted by tiziani
If she has a past before she met me.

interesting - I used to be like that - age helps - or maybe it's the wisdom that comes with it

I just don't gaf about that sort of stuff now

I like to know everything in the past. All the details. Then im good.

well thank god the Libra I am seeing isn't like that - I answer his questions but he doesn't get into details - it seems we are just more in the present and appreciative of that - besides - I'm out of RAM - too much to actually remember - no kidding ... bits come back to me sometimes - when the wind turns the pages of the great book ...

The great book lol

Personally, I love a woman with a past. I'm just saying it provokes my jealousy. I don't think my jealousy ever really gets in the way of having a good time.

She's the first woman I've met where I said I want to be with a whore, and she said "I am that whore". So it works for the both of us.

And yeah if something isn't important, I'm not going to remember it either unless something triggers it back to the surface. Maybe when I was younger I would have grilled people for details but for the last few years, details are just what I like, not something I'm owed.

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I'm sure you can use that somewhere lol

"the great book"

it's a mixture of light and darkness lol

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Posted by raad182

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Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by ariesno
Breathe the same air as another woman, and I’ll kill you. More or less.

Pisces venus

The guy I am dating is Aries with Pisces Venus and he is so jealous

anything with aries is jealousy intensity. and me me me, the world revolves around me so you better love only ME!! mfkr!! 😆

Preach!

Aries Sun, Merc and Mars in the 1st

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my mars is exalted..in MARS...so yeah i get you..lol and 1st houser.

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Posted by LePetitFisk
It takes more than just looking.

I have been to strip bars with my then boyfriend and paid for a lap dance for his birthday while I sat next to him. I have been to the beach with another ex and caught him looking at young ladies, laughed and whispered to him "Easy... they look like they're barely 18."

Venus in Aquarius in 7th

something i couldnt do.

too jealous.

edit -- although you're more sassy than my cappy mother in law with aqua venus.

she'd never go to a strip joint. too uptight ..hates casinos ect.

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Posted by lisabethur8

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If a girl/woman is flirting with him and he flirts back.

Venus Aries

Thirsty hoes will be thirsty hoes. It's how he responds to them is what I am gauging...

like this..

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Funny, I don't mind he looking at other girls and I can joke about it with him like if I was "one of the guys " but a bit of intimacy... no way.

Maybe I am more territorial than jealous?

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Posted by LePetitFisk
It takes more than just looking.

I have been to strip bars with my then boyfriend and paid for a lap dance for his birthday while I sat next to him. I have been to the beach with another ex and caught him looking at young ladies, laughed and whispered to him "Easy... they look like they're barely 18."

Venus in Aquarius in 7th

A lap dance!!! 😳 I will die of jealousy.

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Posted by LePetitFisk

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by LePetitFisk
It takes more than just looking.

I have been to strip bars with my then boyfriend and paid for a lap dance for his birthday while I sat next to him. I have been to the beach with another ex and caught him looking at young ladies, laughed and whispered to him "Easy... they look like they're barely 18."

Venus in Aquarius in 7th

something i couldnt do.

too jealous.

edit -- although you're more sassy than my cappy mother in law with aqua venus.

she'd never go to a strip joint. too uptight ..hates casinos ect.

I give my boyfriends a very long leash. But make no mistake, it's still a leash.

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i couldnt do it. you're really brave. thanks for sharing your story.

mine only extends as far as looking beautiful celebrities and for me to see the correlation /connection of energies (nerdy way but it's the only way.lol)

like when my man says he used to watch Jessica "Dark Angel" all the series cause,..she is so damneeeddd prettyyyyy.....her being Taurus/Aquarius energy.

i eyeball him... uh...if only he knew..that i have aquarius and taurus energy too. lol oppositions attract. true story.

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i've been agreeing with Alyssa Sharpe (youtube astrologer) for YEARS...over her own man who has Aries rising and always loving those Libra girls. lol but she's still jealous.

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but i bet they have TAURUS in them too like Alyssa does.