Cancer man left me... (Page 6)

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

Posted by Nexus
I met this Cancer guy about a year and a half ago on a dating website. He came on there saying that he only wanted to be 'friends'. Me being naive in the dating world thought nothing of it when he asked me to be his friend.

Things got weird when he started asking me questions like "what would you do if I kissed you?" and "can we cuddle when we meet?" I can't remember what I was thinking at the time, but I remember that I was a little intrigued regarding his intentions. 'Friends' indeed. Unfortunately, curiosity got the better of me.

When we first met, he made it clear that he wanted to be intimate with me, and he did not want me to date other men. I let his shallow compliments get the best of me (I have self-esteem issues), yet I made it clear that I was uncomfortable with having sex with him right away. We have never had sex.

I had never had a guy act so... 'lustful' towards me before that and although I hate to admit it, I 'liked' it. It made me feel so desired, so I bought into it. The next day when I met him however, he dropped a bomb on me saying that we couldn't be together because he was engaged (I don't know what's happening there now).

In order to ease my feelings he offered to set me up with his friend... long story short, I made it so I couldn't see him again, which ticked him off at the time. I deleted my online dating profile, only to set it up a few months later. He contacts me again and keeps begging me to text him.

He also asks me to come over to his place for a party so he can distract his friends from his ex (apparently he let go of the engagement, his ex is another girl), and I question why he doesn't just invite her over alone to spend time with him.

I get him to delete my number and we don't talk again.

Anyway, it is quite obvious to me that he didn't give two squirts of piss about me; only what he could get out of me. Are Cancer men known to be users? Can anyone psychoanalyse this guy?

Reading through the posting history there is a common theme, and it doesn't appear to be Cancer men.

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Posted by MondayMorning
@Scrumptious

i left him. Do i get a special thread for that?

Posted by aquaLOVE88
Hello there

This cancer man came to me and flirting and it was all good and cute!! we kept texting and calling for a whole week! he told me a lot of personal stories and asked about my family and friends he was just so sweet.. but ... he disappeared ! and i dont know why?? its been two days now and i didn't hear from him. now im confused.. was he just playing? or did he actually liked me? i cant really tell

Posted by MondayMorning
@Scrumptious

i left him. Do i get a special thread for that?

Posted by RegrettablyFlakyLibra
I am a 23 year old Libra girl and i met this 25 year old cancer guy 11 months ago. When we met we pretty much just jumped into it. Almost as if it was love at first sight. For me it was as though I have known him all my life and we couldn't stay apart we were together almost every day. He was always caring and attentive to my every need when i was with him and i showed the same love whether i was with him or not

Granted i would always make the trips to go and see him. I met his family and friends and became really close to them.

(8months later) I was in my final year at uni or college and he was trying to start his own business. I went through depression as i was struggling with uni and ultimately failed. During this time he was not supportive however i was always supportive of him like his personal secretary. However he didn't even know what course i was doing or little details about my life i thought were important.

I ended up just asking for a break so we could concentrate on ourselves but i still loved him and i told him this. He always had trust issues and always thought i was cheating on him , too accessible or too nice to other guys.He was too possessive .After the break up he wanted to remain friends but it was as though we were still together. The love was never lost, we still spoke everyday.

He then recently started telling me that whoever i will be with in future is very lucky. And was continuously apologising ' for everything he put me through' in almost every conversation.

One night i went to a bbq/party and he was trying to get in contact with me all night as soon as he found out i was out. We weren't even speaking regularly but its as if just because he knew there are males around thats when he got possessive. Until he texted me he just wanted to be left alone and didn't want to speak to me at all. He again apologized for everything mainly his mood swings in the relationship and wished me all the best. He continuously said my life would be better without him and i deserve better when i tried to reassure him. When i asked him if he had sex with someone else since we broke up he said yes.

Its been a week since he asked to be left alone and he has not said a word to me.

This is the longest we have gone without speaking.

Please tell me the harsh truth. Im confused.



(i went on holiday to Miami during the break up and thats one thing he never liked. I spent most of my holiday arguing with him trying to prove that i wasn't doing anything)

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Posted by RegrettablyFlakyLibra
I am a 23 year old Libra girl and i met this 25 year old cancer guy 11 months ago. When we met we pretty much just jumped into it. Almost as if it was love at first sight. For me it was as though I have known him all my life and we couldn't stay apart we were together almost every day. He was always caring and attentive to my every need when i was with him and i showed the same love whether i was with him or not

Granted i would always make the trips to go and see him. I met his family and friends and became really close to them.

(8months later) I was in my final year at uni or college and he was trying to start his own business. I went through depression as i was struggling with uni and ultimately failed. During this time he was not supportive however i was always supportive of him like his personal secretary. However he didn't even know what course i was doing or little details about my life i thought were important.

I ended up just asking for a break so we could concentrate on ourselves but i still loved him and i told him this. He always had trust issues and always thought i was cheating on him , too accessible or too nice to other guys.He was too possessive .After the break up he wanted to remain friends but it was as though we were still together. The love was never lost, we still spoke everyday.

He then recently started telling me that whoever i will be with in future is very lucky. And was continuously apologising ' for everything he put me through' in almost every conversation.

One night i went to a bbq/party and he was trying to get in contact with me all night as soon as he found out i was out. We weren't even speaking regularly but its as if just because he knew there are males around thats when he got possessive. Until he texted me he just wanted to be left alone and didn't want to speak to me at all. He again apologized for everything mainly his mood swings in the relationship and wished me all the best. He continuously said my life would be better without him and i deserve better when i tried to reassure him. When i asked him if he had sex with someone else since we broke up he said yes.

Its been a week since he asked to be left alone and he has not said a word to me.

This is the longest we have gone without speaking.

Please tell me the harsh truth. Im confused.



(i went on holiday to Miami during the break up and thats one thing he never liked. I spent most of my holiday arguing with him trying to prove that i wasn't doing anything)

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Posted by taurus575
He called it off. He texted last night that he does not want to talk to me at all as its fairly unhealthy. Thank you for the comments though. 🙂

He love you as a friend and values the emotional connection you share. If he calls it off this week he'll probably hit you up next week to start up again.

Thank you for the hopes! 🙂 I wish it was like that!! We have been there for each other since the start. He is attracted to me as what he said. 5 months ago when I told him that I have feelings for him he kissed me and said he loves me too! But then situation got weird as he added that he is not looking for dating and his priorities are different. He suggested me to look for someone else. Now after 5 months, I am longing for him and he is casually seeing someone and asking me to go away forever.

He simply believes that if we went into relationship, we would start taking for granted and we would turn out bad. So he suggested instead we can be good friends and be there for each other forever. How can two people be just friends when there is mutual love and attraction going on?

I did not want to fall in love with him in the first place as he is an American citizen and I am from Europe and I wanted to return back to my country instead of be in the US permanently. But cupid hit me so bad and now I am trying to overcome this heartbreak.

For the first time ever, I felt incredible chemistry and mutual love but universe was not ready for it. 😢 😢

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Posted by Scrumptious
LOL at the lack of cancer man left me threads

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Because someone has to keep score.

Posted by pattycake29
Hi guys I'm new to site and have been wrestling with some feelings involving a Cancer man. I am a Scorpio woman and we started talking about a month ago on an online dating site. Things progressed and we were texting, and facetiming after two weeks of conversing on the site. It felt natural and surreal. I thought I felt a soulmate connection. He could finish my sentences and know what I was feeling. We never met in person. Every time we would try to get together something would come up, but his excuses seemed valid and I wasn't particularly bothered by it because I figure these things can't be rushed and need to happen in their own time. He went away for a weekend and came back different. His grandmother recently died and I really tried to be understanding. The text messages were few and far between and he said it was due to him working longer hours. He works in retail. I tried to be understanding, but my Scorpio nature clinged even more as I sensed him distancing away. I texted him two Wednesdays ago : Did I do something wrong? and he never replied. We were supposed to go on a date on that Monday and he never texted me or called to confirm. Then I sent him a message on Facebook on Friday saying: I miss you. He blocked me. I contacted two psychics about him. One said he will be back and he wasn't ready to give me the relationship I wanted. The other psychic said he won't be back. I need advice on this situation. Give it to me real and please give me advice on how to move on. I can't eat or sleep that well. I know I feel silly. I just don't click with people easily actually ever and I wanted more of him. I didn't care that we came from different backgrounds and didn't even notice those things. I just want to give my love to someone and experience it on a deeper level.

Posted by Raresoul360
Its been 2 years now since ive been single not even any dates or anything !! Its making me feel like im crazy and i need to move on but i just cant find anybody to start with and alot of guys ask me out but i pitty them so much and think all guys are the same just from being hurt so much ! Im a cancer women on a cusp of a leo and the last man I dated was a cancer man ! The relationship really broke my heart to the fact where im still asking if i still have a heart ! Ive always been feeling lonely and sad seeing all the nice couples specially when i feel un entertained just from being a loner all the time but theres plenty of guys that try to go after me but their all just not my interest ! What do I do with myself ? Ive fell soo deep in love before to where i got stabbed soo much and cheated on. By my own enemy and abused it really ached my heart to where i dont want to feel for anyone anymore and im scared to love but ive been lonely for so long to where i want to feel appreciated and loved again but i just feel like the universe is too cold

Posted by Mlo1971
A year ago I started talking to my grandsons coach (47yr old cancer male) In the beginning he actively pursued me. He use to stare at me all the time and started calling me and texting me all the time very late night somtimes and our conversations on the phone last for hours. He has confided in me and told me all his problems and deep secrets (by the way he is a widower of 10 yrs) and throughout the year we have become very close... He has told me he loves me SEVERAL times, that I'm the only person he can trust and talk to and say absolutely anything to, he said that I'm his life but that his son absolutely comes first which I fully respect, now his 12yr old son is very close to me. He also told me that he has never met a good woman before until me..He is still my grandsons coach so I see him all the time... I never had sex with him because I don't want to get hurt and I don't want to give impression of a booty call.. 2 days ago I asked him what he felt for me because I have fallin in love with him...I'm there for him and his son 24/7 and he said that I'M LIKE A SISTER HE NEVER HAD..WTF!!! I feel so stupid right now but I know I didn't imagine that we were super attracted to each other before........ I don't know what to do— I'm like mother figure to his son and if I stop talking to his dad its like he's losing a mother again 😢 any advice please... Thank you...

Posted by marysilva12345613
I just wanted to date, but he was crazy about me, said he just wanted to be with me that he loved me completely passionate, and vulnerable as i am i totally got in in the same level He said he felt butterflies every time he saw me, he never felt this way about anybody, and i was feeling the same way I met his kids, he met my kids, and we had some awesome moments, we had been living this love dream for 2 months But for 3 days this passed week i got in to fights with him on my side because of jealousy, and because i thought he was not putting enough effort, and etc.Than he got nervous, and i immediately apologized stated i am going thru the worst time of my life, i am in the middle of a divorce, refinancing my house, just found out I am sick, And he just stated that he was afraid, he was not enough, that he would never make me happy, that we would always butt heads, that it was to early in the relationship to fight That he didint want to hurt me but wanted to protect me And it would be better this way,so i said ok he than tried to extend it saying he felt like ****., he said it was maybe the timing..I said he was not responsible for my feelings And i hung up.. I have been destroyed. I cant understand how can someone swear their love, say you are their soul mate, than break up with you because of fear.So today i sent that message(3 days after the breakup), no response.I dont know what to do, I am completely in love and hurting, I am a Sagittarius

Posted by taurus575
I have been active with a Scorpio, then Capricorn in the past. But this Cancer man is simply unable to leave my mind and life in spite of the fact that he does not want me. I wish we could have a life together! He loved everything about me, more than I like everything about him but he still asked me to leave. Why would someone who wants to love you would ask you to leave? 😢 He went to jail last year for a crime he did not commit but was dragged into it. He does not care for his health and his liver does not work alright. His one leg is almost gone. He is into drugs. Is because of the way he is spoiling his life made him to take this decision? I remember he said I deserve a life without pain and lots of happiness, but I failed to convince him that he belongs to that happiness and we can together overcome all the hurdles of life.

Now when I try to contact him, he simply ignore - be it on Facebook, text or call. He says he is happy with girls around him and he still does not want me. I have started to cool down but I miss our good time together. I was once drunk with my girls and called him 14 times over the night just to tell him how important we are for me and he picked every time I called.

I wish someday all those good days could return back and he could again say to me - "I spend all my day talking to you only but still need to get more out of you sweetie" .

Love you, Cancer man!

Posted by Ashley0202
I had a relationship with a cancer man for 2 years who was my best friend for 4 years.. when I left the city for highr studies for 2 yrs I realised that i feel for him and confessed my feelings... he used to tell me that he loves me before I confessed.. we had a 2 yr long distnc relatnshp.. for few mnths everything 2as very good but aftr 7 mnths we talked very less for next 10mnths but we both were sure that wen I will com back everything will get better.. n in the month of may I came back.. just 2 mnths before that he said that now sinc u r cmg back lets just sort evrything . We will talk as much as we can.. but wen I came back he got so busy with his work that wenevr I asked him to meet me.. he used to meet me for 10min and wenevr I asked to lets go out he made some excuse.. I strtd feeling that he doesn't feel for me anymor.. but whenever he used to meet me even for 10min he used to say something related to our future.. then one day in aggression I called him n asked him to meet me for some time I need to talk about us.. I can't handle it this way.. n he was escaping out and ignoring that confrontation.. n then I sent him a mail writing many things which hurted him badly.. aftr sometime I felt that I was rushing things n then apologised him but he simply said that lets stay friends.. I can't think of our future.. although I told him many times that I regret that time when I couldn't undrstnd u n I m genuinely guilty.. but he is not ready for a relationship now.. he simply says that I want u to b my frnd.. n actually sinc the day I hav come back I m feeling that he is all into his frnds wenevr he is free.. I asked him about this he said that wen I m with u I get all into u n want to feel u but u and ur limits for physical intimacy.. then I felt if intimacy is the reason for our gaps then I cant let u go instead we will.. n aftr that evrything got a little better but not completely.. one day I was badly stressed and asked him to meet me.. he said I can't.n then for 2 weeks I kept on asking and waiting to meet him but he didn't n said that I don't want any negativity for now.. just wait till we get settled.. and then again I strtd feeling that he doesn't want to b with me.. so I wrote that mail.. n I later undrstud that it was his work pressure that he didn't want to meet me.. n I apologised many times.. but he is not ready for a relationship now.. before that mail he said just wait for sometime and now he says u cant wait.. and I m also not sure.. he still at times call me to meet him near my place and I meet him but we talk like friends I couldn't talk to him about that face to face..is he expcting me to talk about that face to face bcz on msgs he never respond proprly n wen I ask him to meet me n lets talk about this he says we will someday.. will he ever think again?

Posted by Mschaniam
So I was on snapchat yesterday and I see that he has added me back on snapchat. We "broke up" and I use this loosely. We haven't officially broke up but to me i feel that it's over. He got mad that I went to a murder mystery dinner on Halloween. I was on the phone with him while I was walking there and he hung up on me then blocked my number and blocked me on snapchat. I called him like 6 times and that was it and it all went straight to voicemail. I haven't talked to him since that Monday. Then yesterday I see he added me back on snapchat I accepted but I am not gonna message him at all. I don't understand cancer men at all what was the purpose of blocking me then unblocking me the next week. Did he think I would be begging for him to talk to me as soon as he added me back?

Posted by aj123
Hi all,

I'm Taurus Sun, Aqua Moon (age 23). He is Cancer Sun, Aqua moon (age 24).

We were together for 9 months, having met online. Once we met, he deleted his online dating account and initiated conversation for every day since day 1 to the end (around day 250), in the evenings. He had been very polite, respectful, even a friendly cheek kiss took him 2 months (!) as he always seemed very nervous around me (difficulty with eye contact, nervous laughter at end of his sentences which were not jokes, hesitation in touching me, etc.) which was weird since he'd had gfs and even one night stands quite easily before. We always had lots to talk about, he'd put xxs at the end of every text he ever sent me, but never ever flirt (he was quite the serious type). Despite us not being physical, he seemed very faithful, got me a present for my bday, compliments me occasionally, always agreed to go out to nice places, was on time, said he had a great time when we got back, bought me drinks, etc. I said we'd have to wait 14 months, at the start, to get physical (silly parental rule) and I hadn't been "all the way" with anyone before. He didn't mind at all and said that wasn't a problem. He often talked about how many children, he'd like etc. and even though that is not something I wanted, I never said no to it either. He was not a thrill seeker, a lady charmer or a show-off at all - he always seemed to be content having the same old routine each day, because of this, I really didn't mind him going out drinking with mates, etc (and all of his friends are guys, he hasn't even got one close female friend). However, after about 9 months, he was totally normal on the friday but then on saturday, he totally didn't text at all (never happened before) and wasn't online for 12+ hours which was unusual as he told me he was just visiting his dad that day... I didn't initiate contact either... on Sunday, again he didn't contact at all so I asked him if he was ok (in the evening), he saw it and didn't respond (he has never ignored me before). He was online for another 3 hours! so I sent a quick follow - up that he can tell me if he's caught up in a problem. Again, no response and then he went to bed I presume as it was his usual bedtime).

I was annoyed the next morning and sent a text that he was obviously hiding something, I wouldn't tolerate behaviour like this from anyone, can't treat people as disposable, etc and that he was obviously lying about visiting his dad the other day, and that I'd like my stuff (a few containers) I left at his house back please if possible and that was it. He then replied immediately apologizing like 10 times, saying he's had a family problem, doesn't know how long it'll last, he hadn't responded to me as he's driving family back and forth so couldn't look at his phone, and that he would try to contact me but it would be a bit more sporadic than usually. He said he asked family how long it'll last but no one knows for certain. I apologized for assuming he was cheating,etc. and he said thanks for understanding, and he hopes the family issue will get better soon.

On that day, I noticed, he added a new girl on fb (I'm obviously fine with him adding new friends but seeing as during our 9 months together, he'd not even added 1 female, it seemed out of the norm)...

About 8 days pass (no contact from him) by which point I don't even have much interest in staying with him as I think 8 days without sending a 5 second text shows how little he cares but anyway, after 8 days, I ask if everything's better? He replies (24 hours later despite seeing my message almost straight away..!), saying the family issue is slowly getting better but he's decided as a result of it, he'd like to do some travelling around the world before he gets too old, and adds a bit of detail like which country, saying he'll be gone for at least a year, has given notice at the job, etc. and that he'd happily come and visit me to give me back my containers..

I was surprised as he wasn't the impulsive type but said okay and asked if he could visit me next weekend to give me back my containers, he agrees.. he still put xx's on his messages but no smiley faces, like usually.. Up until the day we have the meet-up, he says nothing and I don't initiate contact with him either..

On the day, he seemed to have difficulty looking me in the eye (made me think he's lying or trying to cover something up), I ask a few more questions about his move to the other side of the world (says he's bought his first plane ticket already). I thank him for coming all that way (45 mins drive) to give me back my containers. He says it wasn't a problem as he has to go and ask for a transfer for his cricket club to the other country today anyway which is near where I live. (At this point, I kinda started to believe his travel story).. I was pleasant enough to him and so was he.. he hugged me three times (start, middle and end of our last 10 minute-ish meet up), I wished him a good journey and said bye... I didn't feel happy but I definitely didn't feel sad either... BUT then, I notice, when I've gotten home, that he'd completely blocked me on facebook (not just unfriended), literally a few minutes after our meet-up.. We didn't have a fight at all so only explanation could be that his travelling story was completely FAKE..

Days later, I find out the girl he added the other day is seemingly romantically involved with him (I don't know how long for - which would certainly answer how long he'd been cheating on me for)..Funny thing is, she's an aqua moon, just like me AND him haha, but instead of a taurus sun , she's a pisces sun (which maybe suits his cancer sun better?).

She's a few months older than him.. he always used to get down about the fact I was a year younger than him, saying it made him feel old.. he's mentioned his often (and not in a jokey way). She doesn't speak the best english, she has a much lower "status" job than me (I know this is subjective though), she seems a bit more argumentative/willful than me, very much a plain jane (I am not the most confident/gorgeous person but even I can tell, she's much plainer looking than me and not one of those pretty but plain girls who I know outshine me), she's overweight and lives in same city as me... I know beauty and attraction is in the eye of the beholder.. but I always look to improve myself in some way but I really could not see anything of her, which was an upgrade on me.. I know everyone will say I sound conceited and rude but I like solving things. If he cheated on me with a model, then it would make more sense so I'd have the closure haha or even someone more intelligent or kinder than me but she doesn't seem to be.

But it was obvious he was always insecure about the fact I was younger than him, that I earned more than him, I was more qualified than him, but this girl is more similar to him, in terms of qualification, uni, job etc. so could it be that he felt intimidated by my success? I am not saying I am miss amazing but compared to him, I excelled in many ways but of course, that was not an issue to me but it was to him - He would never be honest to me about his grades and I later found out he got lower grades at school and uni than he told me. He always said I was good looking and the kindest person (I had gotten him presents, and always been supportive of him)..

The whole point of relationships is often to learn, improve and grow ourselves but with this one, I really can't figure out what went wrong.... We never even had a single disagreement despite being in contact every day for the 9 months, he was still in the shy, insecure around me stage despite being together for ages (he didn't seem this way with previous gfs judging by fb pics), I always complimented him, never put him down, he never touched me up or asked for money from me...yet he leaves for someone much worse in every way? Yes he could have maybe seen a spark with her but why, when I said I wanted to leave him, he said no and kept apologizing to make me stay, only for him to leave me a 2 weeks later, with some made-up excuse. Surely he could have made an easy exit when I said I didn't want to be with him anymore?

Why would he make up such a big lie that he's going to the other side of the world for a year, knowing full well that his new girl lives in the same (small) city as me so I may easily bump into him somewhere..

We both had aqua moons and his venus and my mars sign were the same (leo) and we had great other synastry so it seems such a shame not to even remain friends due to a situation he's created. I wouldn't have hated him if he had been honest, I hate people making up elaborate lies, taking others for a fool.

Just any insight would be great. Please don't comment saying she isn't a downgrade as he obviously liked her (as I agree! but just trying to make sense of things). As we were not physically intimate, he surely wasn't just using me either I don't think..

By the way, he left his previous ex, before me (who was a really nice person) by coldly telling her that he is not attracted to her anymore.. I only found out about this after we broke up, which seems very harsh but if he can be so rude to another ex who did nothing wrong, I don't see why he had to make up this nicey nice travel story lie for me if he doesn't care about people's feelings.. just feel like something's not adding up!

Posted by AquaFishRam
You guys really have no life. Laugh away at me idgaf

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You guys really have no life. Laugh away at me idgaf

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You guys really have no life. Laugh away at me idgaf

Just gets better and better...

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Posted by AquaFishRam
You guys really have no life. Laugh away at me idgaf

Just gets better and better...

Oh no I don't need tissue I seriously laughed at how pathetic you guys are. Like this is the Internet do you seriously think you can make me cry lmao

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You guys really have no life. Laugh away at me idgaf

Just gets better and better...

Oh no I don't need tissue I seriously laughed at how pathetic you guys are. Like this is the Internet do you seriously think you can make me cry lmao

kind of getting the vibe why the cancer guy left you

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Posted by AquaFishRam
You guys really have no life. Laugh away at me idgaf

Just gets better and better...

Oh no I don't need tissue I seriously laughed at how pathetic you guys are. Like this is the Internet do you seriously think you can make me cry lmao

kind of getting the vibe why the cancer guy left you

Because my Aries moon has no time for the bullshit so next

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Posted by leo16
He kind of comes and goes? He'll talk to me for a little then stop and then Intiate contact then stop texting then initiate contact again! He also suckkkks at texting and keeping a conversation, he always says he wants to see me but has stood me up twice! This is the second time we have stopped talking , if he initiates contact again should I leave him alone and ignore him? Will he come again do you think?

Posted by pixielove
Hey guys,

I wrote couple of weeks ago but did not get many responses. So I thought I would write again.

My cancer and I have been together for three years. He has been very good to me and he has been patient with me. But six months ago we broke up due to my own doing and he asked me to take care of myself and heal and if the time is right then I could contact him and then will see where to go from there. I contacted him couple of weeks ago but he did not answer my call and after two weeks I sent a text. He didnt reply back to that either. I am wondering now is he testing because knowing him he is very cautious and is he trying to be extra careful before he opens the door again or has he moved on and he wants me to get his answer through his silence and move on? I also know he is someone who is very blunt who would tell me to move but I really dont know right now. I am trying to remain quiet but it is not easy not knowing.Kindly give a helpful advice.

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Posted by firefis1996
i knew one that made it obvious by not initiating conversation or pursuing in any way at all. switched off completely.

Yet i know another that is so hot and cold years later - either he hasn't got the guts to say the truth, or he's clinging on for old memories

And wat if he sometimes call me up to meet me? After a break up (he was the one to break up).. n says to b friend? Wat does that mean?

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Posted by NoirAmaterasu
It's been two weeks since my cancer man of 2.5 years broke up with me. It had been over a year since we've been through that. Buy it happened again. This time it was do to my recent clinginess and never giving him space to breathe. He finally had enough one day during a little argument and he snapped. Normally in the past I'd plead with him and whatnot (heard cancer signs like to be needed) but this time, I went silent. After one week he txted me a simple "hey". I didn't respond to it. I've been keeping myself extremely busy, going out, changing myself for the better, and getting my priorities straight. I do love him immensely and we have many great memories together and a strong bond. Naturally after almost 3 years together. I've read so many different opinions and ideas on this subject but I have a few questions. So since cancer actually doesn't like someone being needy with them and they like their space to di whatever, am I doing the right thing by not talking to him? I'd love more than anything to talk to him and tell him I've realized my mistakes but I also don't want it to go wrong before I can even finish working on myself. Do they let go easily? And once they've retreated, is there a way to lure them back out and seek you? I wish I could know/understand what's going on in his head.

Posted by Rosaknowsya
Can't sleep next to him. He needs a fan, I need to cuddle. Disaster. Too much sex and mental illness imo.

He is a

Cancer sun

Aries moon

Gem merc

Gem mars

Cancer Venus

Combined with me and its like...

Posted by firefis1996
I Have a cancer friend who i want to attract attention to. He's currently seeing someone else (only few months) but i know its an unhappy relationship and as soon as they had a break he came running back to me for a few days.

We were close once ourselves, but he always knew i was talking/friends with a lot of other people which i think threw him off.

Do you think if I show him unconditional "interest" in a kind way (I'm not gonna do anything harmful to him or her) it will give him courage to talk to me?

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Posted by AquaFishRam
You guys really have no life. Laugh away at me idgaf

It's the tissue swaying in the breeze that really makes it for me.

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Posted by LadyJuicy
I don't understand how people can hold onto past relationships and past negativity and never move on when you have someone who gives a damn about you. You would rather scold them then let go and move on. Cancer man is still holding onto something so small and stupid and keeps bringing it up then wonders why I am getting irritated about it. I have moved on and let the sh*t go why can't he— Why do cancers do this—

Posted by Aqua125
I was dating a cancer man for almost 3 months. During that time we became very close. Ive done his daughters hair, helped him pack his house to move, watched his puppy and tons of other things. We saw each other almost everyday even if it was just him stopping by for a few. He also would stay over night with me several nights a week. Recently he spent 4 nights in a row with me...leaving to go to class and work but he returned at night. Well for one week he had a lot going on..he had an accident, family in from out of town..etc. well at least that's what he says. Lol. I felt that after the 4 nights in a row I wanted to know where things were headed because I felt that we were getting in pretty deep. So I asked. He told me that we were just friends, he doesn't want a girlfriend and he understand my emotions but I should learn to control them. Lol. I was shocked. He was always the one initiating everything. I never pressured him or asked him to do anything. There was even once when he was on the phone he told the person on the other line that he was with his girlfriend. Is this type of behavior typical of cancer men? Do they do these things with women who are just friends? I am so confused. I told him after that conversation that I felt that we had more and because I want more I can't be involved because we aren't in the same page.

Posted by pinkbird03
Cancer men can be selfish

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Posted by libralotus
Cancers beds suck

Just thought I'd make this a point

Get better sheets and pillows

Posted by Pisco
Lol. Well you guys do kind of suck... but, to be fair, I think most water signs suck. Pisces are right behind you guys.

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Posted by Pisco
Lol. Well you guys do kind of suck... but, to be fair, I think most water signs suck. Pisces are right behind you guys.

Damn Pisces!

We suck too 😛

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